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Transactional Analysis
TA Ego States or Personality Aspects
Parent Adult Child
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Ego States:
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Kinds of Transactions:
Complementary Transaction
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Crossed/ Blocked Transaction
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of
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55% 38%
7%
Visual Communication
Body Language
Tone of Voice
Words
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How are you seen by
others?
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Non Verbal communication
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Dress
Communication of values and expectations through clothing and
personal appearance
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Does Appearance Matter?
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Non-verbal communication
Enhances semantic accuracy (the meaning of the words)
Six main forms Tone of voice Gestures/body language/eye contact Touch Use of time Use of objects/furniture Dress and personal appearance
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Common Nonverbals and Their Interpretations
Darting Eyes Lying, bored, distracted, uninterested
Crossed Arms Defensive, closed
Tapping Fingers Nervous, impatient
Leaning Forward Interested, Listening
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Common Non verbals and Their Interpretations
Hands on Hips Angry, frustrated
Raised Eyebrows Amazement, disbelief, interest
Touching Face Lying, doubt, shocked, thinking
Touching another‘s shoulder Comforting, identification, care, ???
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Common Non verbals and Their Interpretations Any more?:
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Vocal Tones: How Words are Said
Effective communicators:
Do not mumble
Display energy
Vary tone and volume
Emphasize key points with unique vocalizations
Do not intone statements as if they were questions
Practice how they speak, not just what they speak
Speak confidently, but not in an intimidating way
Speak slowly enough to be understood, fast enough to maintain interest
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Communication skills
B . E . S . T . Recipe
B ottom line
E vidence
S ummarize
T ransit to next point
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SPEAKING SKILLS:
TELL ‗EM WHAT YOU‘RE GONNA TELL ‗EM !
TELL ‗EM !
TELL ‗EM WHAT YOU TOLD ‗EM !
A SIMPLIFIED FORMAT
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SPEAKING SKILLS:
“Verbal communication is the most effective way to move from ideas to action, and from action to results.”
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SPEAKING SKILLS:
YOU NEVER GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION !
PROFESSIONAL DRESS
CURRENT HAIRSTYLE, ETC.
CONFIDENT, COMPETENT IMPRESSION
SMOOTH, PREPARED, KNOWLEDGEABLE
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Making Effective Presentation
Steps involved :
Opening the presentation
Conducting the presentation
Closing the presentation
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Making effective presentation
Objectives of opening the presentation
1. To have undivided attention of the audience
2. To build rapport with the audience
3. To state the theme of your presentation in terms of the needs of the audience
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Opening the presentation
1. To have the undivided attention of the audience
First impression before the talk is through appearance and manner
Dress appropriately-comfortably
Set the stage for the first words Take deep breath Don‘t start until you have silence Establish eye contact Have enough room to move
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1. To have the undivided attention of the audience (contd)
Opening remarks
Must know by-heart
Talk louder than normal
Mannerisms
Avoid distracting mannerisms
Empty pockets of keys, change etc.
Don’t walk up & down—caged animal
Don’t fix gaze on one section/individual
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Making effective presentation
Opening few minutes are vital.
Not only for what is said but also for how it is said
This few minutes can win or lose the audience
Tips for good opener
Drama, curiosity, story, checklist/ a series of provocative questions can be used effectively
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2. Build rapport with your audience Complement the audience
Genuine, specific—no empty praises
Demonstrate your competence
Build your respect – without boasting
Radiate your enthusiasm Believe in what you are saying Voice modulation, occasional smile Expansive gestures
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3. To state the theme in terms of audience needs
• Show how the points will meet the
audience needs
• If several points are to be covered, inform audience
• A good beginning will crash through the ―oh!Hum‖
Indifference, distractions, complacency
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Making effective presentation
Conducting presentations
Objectives:
1. Present your ideas in detail
2. To have each point accepted
3. Keep the audience attention
4. To prevent or handle objections satisfactorily
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Conducting the presentation
1. Present your ideas in detail Ensure they know how the ideas meet their
needs by:
By taking one need & show how it is satisfied by the idea
By taking one idea & show how it satisfies a need
Present the subject, woven around the
needs of the audience
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Conducting the presentation 2. To have each of the point accepted
• Ensure it is understood & is seen to be of value
• Language is very important..Everyday English
• Explain by giving example or simile
• Appropriate gestures or actions
• Giving demonstrations
• Using visual aids • Explain by giving example
• The validity of each idea will be questioned mentally
you need to cite examples where they have worked
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How to give examples or references
Don’t start with the example
Ensure the reference used is a respected one
Ensure the circumstances are sufficiently similar
Tell your audience the desired objective obtained with the idea
Making effective presentation
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Making effective presentation
Using visual aids
OHP slides
PPT
Charts / white board
Video / audio
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Making effective presentation
Acceptance of idea is vital for presentation success ensure this by: Tell them what your idea will do to them
personally/ professionally, organizationally
Tell them what this will do their friends/relatives
Acceptance is not always visible.How to judge?
Constant observation—verbal/non-verbal signals asking questions
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Conducting presentation
3.Keep the attention of the audience
It is usually in the middle the audience loses interest Use carefully timed attention getters
Keep referring to how their needs will be satisfied
Keep their eyes occupied
Involve the audience by something to do
Quote stories, examples from life
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Conducting presentation
4. Handling objections
To prevent or handle objections satisfactorily
Audience can have objections like face to face
Present but it may not be voiced
Why do objections arise ?
The needs of the audience are insufficiently explored
The solution are proposed too soon
The benefits are too general and not sufficiently related to the needs of the audience
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Handling objections contd…
To prevent or handle objections satisfactorily
Anticipate & build answers in the presentation
When the objections are due to invitation from speakers
Pause, don‘t jump to answer with cutting remark / rebuttal
Listen, note down, repeat question for others to hear
Check your understanding of question/objection
Acknowledge the objector has a point
Answer by concentrating on what the objector wants
Check if the answer is satisfactory
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Making effective presentation
Closing the presentation Six techniques most frequently used
1. Closing by summarizing
2. Closing on a story coupled with request
3. Quoting from a poem coupled with request
4. Closing by directly asking for action
5. Closing on an appeal of immediate decision
6. Closing by offering a choice of alternatives
Action will only result if the presentation has been audience oriented from beginning to end
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Importance of Preparation
If you prepare your speech – 95% of the fear of speaking will leave you.
You need the other 5% to keep you humble!
The 9 P’s
“Prior Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance of the Person Putting on the Presentation”
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Reduce your Speech Anxiety
Know the room
Know the Audience
Know Your Material
Practice before a mirror or close friends
Learn How to Relax
Visualize Yourself Speaking
Don't apologize For Being Nervous
Concentrate on Your Message - not on audience
Gain Experience
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DOs and Don'ts
The visuals should
Support the presentation
Enhance your verbal message
Not distract the audience
Non-verbal Communication –
Speak slowly and use effective paralanguage
Stand or sit straight; Don‘t lean
Face people and maintain eye contact
Keep your body open and don‘t forget smile
If shaking, sit down or take support of the table
Use appropriate gestures
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Any Questions
?
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Conclusion
Thank you