SELF AWARENESS & PERSONALITY DEVTII. Developing positive attitude

There are 3 steps to improve your attitude1.Identify the attitude that you want to develop2. Resolve to develop those attitude3. Use the image of your ideas personality model for your behaviourAvoid negative thinking and feeling Some suggestion to create positive environment:1.Smile2.say something pleasant3.Positive approach

III. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

Select the appropriate channelSelect the appropriate wordSelect the appropriate mediaAvoid jargonFriendly attitudeUsing positive persuasionAsk non challenging questionCommunication must be clear, brevity and variety in natureDo not talk too fast and avoid seeing shy

IV. WORKING WITH OTHERSValue added qualitiesCheerfulnessSense of humuorTactfulnessEmpathy and SympathyBeing a team playergetting along with othersPoliteness, Co-operation ,PatiencedependencyLoyalty

WORKING WITH OTHERSSelf motivationWilling to work, Take on unpleasant taskBe open & egger to learnDo more and better than expectedBe responsibleDependabilityExercise good judgmentSelf managementEfficient management habitStress managementThinking skillEmployer want people who can think

GETTING THE JOBThe job campaignList out the qualitiesFind the suitable jobJob resourcesNews paperEmployment officeCivil service, People, friend and neighbourJob research documentResumeCareer objectiveThe job interview

WORK PLACE SUCCESSFirst day on the jobPhysical appearanceKnowing the general and specific rulesKeeping your jobwork environmentAccept the responsibility Accept the criticism and manage the politicsPlanning your careerMoving a head

PERSONALITYDefinitionPersonality refers the sum total of ways in which an individual reacts to and interacts with others.Types of personalityExtraversion: It captures ones comfort level with relationship. Person who is extraversion may be gregarious( outgoing), assertive(self-confident) and sociable.Introvert: Reserved, timid(shy) and quietAgreeableness: Co-operative, warm and trusty. It captures ones propensity to differ to others. Low agreeable experiences cold, disagreeable and antagonistic.

PERSONALITY TYPESConscientiousness( care): It measure the persons reliability. These persons are responsible, organized, dependable and persistent. Those who score low in this are easily distracted, disorganized and unreliableEmotional stability:People with positive emotional stability tend to be Calm, self confident and secure. People with negative emotional stability tend to be nervous, anxious depressed and in secure.Openness to experience : Extremely openness are creative, curious and aesthetically, sensitive. Those who are other end may experiences conventional and find comfort in the familiar.

BIG 5 MODELThe above said 5 models are called as big 5 model of personality measurement.Those who posses all the 5, they will be in top position in any job. Ex : Indra Nooji, CEO and chair person in Pepsi Co.

25 WAYS TO DEVELOP PERSONALITY

1.Accept responsibility 2. Show consideration: Ice cream story3. Think win-win : Story of hell and heaven4. Choose your words carefully

FIND YOUR PERSONALITY1. Any man who is able and willing to work hard has a good chance of succeeding 2. My daily life is full of things that keeps me interested3. I enjoy social gathering just to be with people4. I am embarrassed by dirty stories5. I enjoy stories of adventure6. I like poetry7. I seem to make friends as quickly as others do

FIND YOUR PERSONALITY8. Religion gives me no worry9. I would like to be a singer10. I enjoy detective or mystery stories.11. I gossip a little at times12. It is alright to get around the law if you dont actually break it. 13. Criticism and scolding hurts me14. I am fascinated by fire

FIND YOUR PERSONALITY15. My worries seem to disappear when I get in to a crowd of lively friend 16. I readily become one hundred percent sold on a good idea17. I like to talk about sex18. Most people make friends because friends are likely to be useful to them19. Most people are honest chiefly through the fear of being caught20. I like to visit places where I had been never before

FIND YOUR PERSONALITY21. I like dramatics22. I do not like to see women smoke23. If given a chance Id make a good leader of people24. I tend to be interested in several different hobbies rather than to stick to one of them for a long time25. I think great many people exaggerate their misfortunes in order to gain sympathy and help from others

FIND YOUR PERSONALITY26. While traveling I use to talk with strangers27. If I were an artist Id like to draw flowers28. I like to go to parties and other affairs where there is lots of loud fun29. I frequently ask people for advice30. I get all sympathy I should.

FIND THE SCORE AND TYPERealistic type 1,2,8, 11,18Investigative Type 5,10, 17, 20,26.Artistic type 6,9,14,21,27Social Type: 3,7, 13,15,28 Enterprising Type12,16,19,23, 24.Conventional Type 4,22,25,29,30

REALISTIC TYPEFrank, Conforming, Genuine Natural, Normal, Practical, persistent, Stable, Self-effacing, Thrifty Masculine, Materialistic, Asocial, UninvolvedInvestigative TypeAnalytic, Cautious Critical, Curious, Independent, Introspective, Intellect Introverted, methodical, Passive, Pessimistic, Precise, Rational, Reserved, Unassuming, Unpopular

SOCIAL TYPECooperative Friendly, generous, Helpful, Idealistic, Insightful, Kind, Persuasive, Responsible, Sociable, Understanding, Feminine, Tactful, AscendantEnterprising TypeAdventurous ,Ambitious, Acquisitive, Argumentative, Dependent, Domineering, Energetic, Impulsive, optimistic , pleasure-seeking, Self confident, Sociable, Talkative, Exhibitionistic

CONVENTIONAL TYPEConforming, Conscious, Defensive, Efficient, Obedient, Orderly Persistent, Practical, Self- controlled, Inflexible, reserved, formal, imaginativeARTISTIC TYPEEmotional, Idealistic, Imaginative, Independent, introspective, Intuitive, Original, Nonconforming, Impractical, impulsive, Complicated, Disorderly