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Page 1: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

“The Rules of Relationship Road”

Friendship, Romance, and ASD

Teresa Bolick, Ph.D.

March 2007

[email protected]

Page 2: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP # 1:

Take care of your body and appearance.

Page 3: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #2:

Take care of your mind.

Page 4: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

A Guiding Principle

“You can’t think right when your underwear’s too tight.”

Hanes Corp., 197?

Page 5: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #3:

Volunteer.

Page 6: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #4:

Find a peer coach.

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Page 8: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #5:

Learn to listen.

Page 9: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #6:

Develop closer friendships.

Page 10: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #7:

Learn the signals of romantic interest.

Page 11: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #8:

Take a chance on love.

Page 12: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #9:

Learn to manage disappointment and heartbreak.

Page 13: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

“‘Tis better to have loved and lostThan never to have loved at all.”

Alfred Lord Tennyson, 1850

Page 14: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

TIP #10:

Stay safe.

Page 15: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

The Absolute Rule

“Stop” means “Stop” and

“No” means “No.”

Page 16: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

Take Home Messages

• Remember Hanes

• Remember Lord Tennyson

• Remember John and Paul

Page 17: “The Rules of Relationship Road” Friendship, Romance, and ASD Teresa Bolick, Ph.D. March 2007 teresal.bolick@verizon.net

“The long and winding road that leads to your door,

Will never disappear, I've seen that road before

It always leads me here, leads me to your door.”

(Lennon/McCartney, 1970)