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Pedro De Freitas reviewer

Serwaa Appiah writer

Tamara Wickham- Hayward poet

Guldem Masa writer

Leigh-Anna Rezel writer

Annette Oppong writer

Huynh Hoa Tran illustrator

Ria Hayles writer

Jeremy Kashemwa

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Gabriel Calderwood reviewer

Mary Gallagher illustrator

Charlotte Collinwood writer

Lesley Pelovangu writer

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ENTER THE VOIDEnter the Void is a ‘psychedelic melodrama’, and the latest film by Gasper Noe, the director of the disturbing Irreversible. It is set mainly in the Tokyo red light district. The story is of a drug dealer’s search for reincarnation after he is shot by the police.

Enter the Void grips you from the first second of the film to the last, completely blasting away your mind and shocking you to the bone as Gasper Noe takes you through the protagonist’s life, and the lives of his family and friends. The narrative continually hints upon heavy subjects like drugs and even incest as you make your way through the film.

Enter the Void is a must see, and even though rated 18 remains a raw and sometimes disturbing film, so be advised before watching.

By Gabriel Calderwood 4

PARANORMAL ACTIVITY 2This spine-chilling film takes place around the same time as the first did. The narrative centres on a normal middle class suburban family. After experiencing what they believe are a series of break-ins, the family set up security cameras around their home. Events unfold and things are more sinister than they seem.

Paranormal Activity 2 will haunt you long after the credits have rolled. The faux-amateur camera work is cleverly shot to make you feel as though you are watching a series of real-life events, which adds to the scariness. It plays with people’s fear of the supernatural and you’ll be checking the door is locked before bed time.

Paranormal Activity 2 is very similar to the first film in the sense of something unknown lurking in a family home, and there’s still plenty to be terrified by.

By Guldem Masa

DESPICABLE MEIn a happy suburban neighborhood surrounded by white picket fences with flowering rose bushes, sits a black house with a dead lawn. Hidden beneath this home is a vast secret hideout. Surrounded by a small army of minions, we discover Gru planning the biggest heist in the history of the world. He is going to steal the moon!

I love animated films like Shrek and Toy Story, but I enjoyed Despicable Me even more. It is intelligent, modern, charming, exciting and the story is exceptionally told! You will fall in love with the characters.

There’s also an A list cast including Steve Carell, Julie Andrews, and Russell Brand. You can also watch it in 3D, with the effects being almost as good as Avatar.

Don’t miss your chance to see Despicable Me, especially in 3D. It’s marvelous and I can’t wait until I see it again.

By Pedro De Freitas

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Nightschool

Little Miss G gets a lesson in growing up too fast

I’m 14, but I feel older. I look older. Nightlife echoes, the clubs are calling, the pubs persist, they pull me closer. I want to be out there making the most of the nightlife, not watching the clock strike 7pm while doing homework. Is it wrong to wave goodbye to my childhood?

School portrait, aged 11: Golden curls, plaits and ponytails; a fresh face of innocence, and a head full of fairytales. The school uniform: a newly ironed shirt tucked into a skirt draped below the knee. Me sitting on the gym bench surrounded by my classmates.

Facebook picture, aged 14: The hair is now highlighted red and straightened, the once fresh face of innocence now plastered in foundation, the eyes heavily smoked in black, and the lips, red and plump. The little revealing River Island number is worn with those new black stilettos and I’m standing at the bar with my 20-year-old friends, the start of the evening.

A typical night out: the girls and

I legging it to the pub, the evening drawing closer and the streets of London becoming alive as the lights brightened. The regular sound of our heels pacing the pavement synchronised with my heartbeat, and we’re almost there. We meet up with the lads, and they get a round in, the shots soon arrive. Before I know it, it is 1,2,3 go! After several rounds it’s off to the club, where the fun will really begin.

1am and I get a phone call, a friend in need maybe. I answer the phone. I wish I hadn’t. It’s a schoolmate who asks me where I am. They are all having a girly sleepover to study for the exam tomorrow: “Wow, I can’t believe I missed that,” I say sarcastically. I end

the pointless phone call, order another double vodka coke and party the night away.

4am, Tuesday morning, and we go back to someone’s house; can’t remember much except for waking up in the garden, a few hours later. The cold breeze hits the back of my bare legs. It’s a school day, and I quickly realise that going out on a school night wasn’t the best of idea.

8am, limping home with friends with only one heel on. The reality that I have an exam in less than 45 minutes sets in, the phone call from my school friends the night before flashes to the front of my mind.

Ok, although at this point my hangover isn’t that bad, I am still in my revealing dress, 20 minutes away from home. I need to sober up, change into my uniform, revise, and turn up on time to my exam.

The initial idea of a fun and outrageous midweek night out quickly turns into a disaster. And there is nothing I can do to change the situation I find myself in. The damage has been done.

But, as I start to panic, my older friends will be sleeping off their hangover. For the first time, the division between us becomes apparent, and I would do anything to be around my 14-year-old classmates again.

I’ve been constantly told that I am growing up too quickly, that I should be acting my own age, that I am still a child.

I always felt patronised and wanted to prove people wrong: that I could hold my own with adults. But the harder I try, the more I seem to prove myself wrong. What I thought was nagging was actually advice, and I ignored it. That day, I turned up 15 minutes late to that exam in no fit state to take it.

Results are on their way. Wish me luck.

The initial idea of a fun and outrageous midweek night out quickly turned into a disaster

school

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Miss G

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having to wear a uniform – for some it gives a sense of belonging. Although I think it depends on what uniform your school has, as some are better than others.

Some students take not conforming to uniforms too far though. There have been cases where pupils have been banned from taking exams, and even suspended or excluded for not wearing the correct uniform. When you’re super fashion conscious it is easy to forget that school is about education, not about worrying whether our tights are the right colour, or getting the hump if we’re told to tuck in our shirt.

Fundamentally uniforms force every student into one mould and strip young people of their individuality. You can’t really express your own personal style when you have the wear the same thing

as everyone else. However, others say it is a way to make everyone equal and not alienate those who can’t afford the latest fashions. School uniform has also been said to improve academic results and behaviour. The theory is if you dress smart, you think smart. Many people support the idea of uniform, and there are very few schools that don’t have one.

Uniforms have also proven to be cost friendly, as parents are not pressured into buying the latest fashion.

However, the small advantages of my school uniform do not make up for the annoyance it causes me. I’m forced to wear the dreaded pleated skirt, a thick jumper and a blazer. I’m forever being told, ‘Fix your tie, young lady’ or, ‘Do up that top button’. And this usually happens during class, when I’m supposed to be learning. Ultimately the most important thing should be that I’m succeeding in school, even if I am wearing a pink tutu and bright green socks.

Annette Oppong says wear pink! Burn your school uniform!

What comes to mind when you think about your school uniform? Itchy tights? Choking ties? Not exactly what I’d call ‘comfortable learning’. With piles of coursework and the pressure to perform well in exams, surely we don’t have the time to worry about looking smart in our uniforms?

These days it seems the school uniform you wear can define who you are. If your school has a bad reputation, you can be instantly labeled as ‘bad breed’ and written off because you share the uniform of a small minority of troublemakers. If everyone in your school has been labeled ‘Skets’ (someone who is promiscuous, usually a girl) then you are automatically deemed to be the same. We are taught not to think in stereotypes, but school

uniform reinforces them. The idea of ‘school pride’ has taken on

a new meaning among young people. At times it causes conflict among pupils from rival schools. Those from ‘tough’ schools target students in uniform from other schools in order to keep their reputation. A uniform’s purpose is to break down the idea of separation and superiority among young people, but it often segregates us even further.

My uniform isn’t particularly flattering or comfortable. If we are going to wear it while enduring the pressures of school, shouldn’t we be able to feel comfortable?

It might help us improve our academic performance. I don’t like spending six hours a day, five days a week being un-comfortable and feeling ashamed of what I’m wearing. The only good thing about looking like the next person is that I don’t have to figure out what to wear every day.

Not everyone is as unhappy as me with

The most important thing should be that I’m succeeding in school, even if I am wearing a pink tutu and bright green socks

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Annette

I’m 16 years of age and my mum has just been diagnosed with schizophrenia. I know it’s bad, but I find it embarrassing that I have a mentally ill mum. I’m really low, and I’ve started spending time alone at school to avoid conversations where it might come up. I love her very much, but can’t get my head around the fact that she’s so unwell.

It’s not unusual to be embarrassed if a relative is diagnosed with a mental illness. It may be helpful to discuss what you’re feeling with your mum. Also find out all you can about the illness to help better understand it. You could first speak to a counsellor (your mum may be doing so too) as they may have a better understanding of what’s going on in your head than your school friends. You could then think about talking to friends, and others that you trust, who can help you through this difficult time. There are lots of medi-cations that can help your mum with the symptoms. Encourage her to take advantage of the support offered to her by the doctor. You can also get support for young carers on 020 8489 4895.

Written by Serwaa Appiah, Lesley Pelovangu and Charlotte Collinwood. Illustrated by Mary Gallagher.

I have this friend who is always getting in trouble at school, and now my mum doesn’t want me hanging around with her. She’s not that bad, although she does mess about a bit. How can I convince my mum that my mate is okay to be friends with?

That’s a tricky one! Your mum doesn’t see the other side to your friend – only the reputation. Perhaps your mum and your friend could have a chat about it? Or perhaps you can invite your friend home so your mum can see her ‘good bits’. Also you may be able to help your friend stop getting into to trouble. She may be having some problems that you can help her with. You should also consider that your mum may be right, and by hanging out with this girl you could find yourself in trouble.

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All my friends are taking cocaine. I’ve never wanted to touch the stuff and it’s bad that my friends are doing so much. I tell them that it’s unhealthy, but they don’t listen. I don’t know what to do. They are spending so much money on it.

You need to have a straight con-versation with them about it, it’s a good thing to educate them about it. Cocaine is bad for you physically as well as mentally, and it can bring on heart seizures and paranoia. It is mentally addictive and can end up being an expensive habit. On top of all that it’s an illegal class A drug so you’re looking at a hefty prison sentence just for possession. Point them towards www.talktofrank.com for more information. They also may want to speak to Involve Haringey on 020 8493 8525 for further guidance.

My friend has been having problems at home. Her parents just got divorced, and she’s dealing with it by self-harming. I’m scared that she may really hurt herself. I’m thinking of telling her parents but I’m afraid she will never talk to me again if I do.

It’s understandable that your friend is having trouble coping with the situation. First, get her to talk things out with you or her parents. If this is difficult suggest that she sees a counsellor. Self-harming is seen as an unhealthy way of coping with a situation. A trained professional, such as a counsellor, can help her find a more healthy coping strategy.

Everyone’s got problems – see the Directory on page 23 for a list of support services.

The Haringey Young People’s Counselling Service provides the answers to the problems featured in Agony. You can call them on 020 8493 1019 or fill out a booking form at www.youthspace.haringey.gov.uk/health

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Haringey Young People’s Counselling ServiceHaringey Young People’s Counselling Service provides one to one counselling and support to all secondary schools throughout the borough. They are also at Haringey 6th Form Centre. They also work with Social Services, YOS, Leaving Care Team, Teenage Intervention team, Young Parents Projects, victim support, Camhs AOT and many others. Their service has won an award for its group work and they have made a variety of important early interventions for young people, helping them to continue to study when at the risk of exclusion, gain important personal insight and growth, and improve many areas of their lives and relationships. The long term benefits of this kind of early intervention are enormous and life changing.Call Steve or Sharon on 020 8493 1019 for more details.

HARINGEY PROVIDES

The Targeted Youth Inclusion ProgrammeThe Targeted Youth Inclusion Programme, offers one to one support and specially made programmes for 13 to 19-year-olds who are ‘at risk’ of crime, anti-social behaviour, teenage conception, gang activity, or dropping out of training or education.They use lots of different innovative and interesting projects to keep young people engaged. The Targeted Youth Inclusion Programme gives young people somewhere safe to go where they can learn new skills, take part in activities with other young people and get help with their education and career opportunities. As positive role models, the key workers help to change young people’s attitudes towards crime, education, the effects of Anti-social behaviour and teenage parenting. Call Lauren on 020 8489 8942 for information.

The Haringey Detached TeamThe Haringey Detached Team comprises of street based workers who engage young people in place and settings in which they choose to hang out. The Detached Team address issues of Anti-Social Behaviour, criminality, gang issues, substance misuse, relationships, and anything else young people want to discuss. They negotiate programmes of support with young people, based on both needs and interests, and provide the links to mainstream services and support. To find out more call Jahan on 020 8808 1004

The time had come. Hundreds of eyes were on me, and I was so nervous my mind went blank. All those hours of rehearsal, and yet the words just weren’t coming out. My heart was pounding, but I had to get a grip. I had an audience waiting for the performance they’d paid for. I tried to pretend that there was nobody in front of me, and started performing. In the end, it was the best experience of my short acting career.

I live in Tottenham, an area often associated with gang violence and crime. A lot of my friends are in gangs, and being young I can’t help but be with them. Ultimately they’re my people, and I know they’ll be there if anyone tries to start any trouble with me. We like the same type of music, we all love to party, and we dress the same. But the one thing that separates me from my friends is my passion for drama.

I wasn’t interested in acting when I was younger. Like many other boys, I wanted to be a footballer. I only started getting involved in drama at secondary school. I like it because I feel like I’m using my talents for something good. Instead of being on the streets, I’m on stage doing what I do best.

Drama makes me feel invincible. When I’m acting I express myself in a way I can’t with my friends, and I can release all my stress. On stage I go into a whole different world. The lights are on me, and everything else is pitch black. Nobody can interrupt me when I’m in a zone of my own. You might think it’s weird, but I call it passion.

I’ve had positive comments from different people about my acting. I’ve been told I’ve got potential, and profes-sional performers have said I’m good to watch. Comments like these really boost

Jeremy Kashemwa acts out for a brighter future

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my confidence, and help me perform to the best of my ability. They make me feel good and positive about myself.

My acting idol is Will Smith. He is committed to the work he produces, and is entertaining to watch in every

role he plays. He can switch styles too, being funny in one role but serious and emotional in another.

Of course, not everybody will have a passion for drama. Some people love football or dancing or art. It’s not what you’re passionate about that’s important, it’s that you have the passion in the first place.

If you’re not sure what you’d like to do, why not try something new? There are loads of activities you can do within Haringey. You never know where you

might find your passion, and it just might take you on a whole new journey.

Drama was my answer to coming off the streets, I wonder what yours might be?

Growing up I’ve seen some things that

are not pleasant, like people being beaten up. I know as soon as I step outside, my mum worries, and I don’t blame her. But all the negative things that have happened in my life help me improve as an actor.

I want to be even better, because there is always space for improvement. In a way the roads have helped me; when I see how some boys are living it makes me want to work harder. I don’t want to live my life like that; I want something better.

Acting is my road to a brighter future.

All the negative things that have happened in my life help me improve as an actor

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Jeremy

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LOSINGDAD

When I was eight, my family was “normal”, whatever that is. My life was sheltered, wrapped up in cotton wool hugs. Then disaster struck. On New Year’s Day my father died of a heart attack. Something inside my head jolted. Something dislodged.

I’d had him there all my life and then suddenly he was gone! It was as if I had been booted out of my innocent, naïve world where anything was possible, to a much different place that was dark, unfamiliar. A lot of things didn’t make sense. I didn’t make sense. Meaning and purpose drained away.

My dreams and aspirations had been

shattered. My cynicism kicked in. A pes-simistic eight-year-old huh? I remember how I would dream about one day being an actress. I genuinely believed that I was going to be in Hollywood among all the celebs, glitter and glamour.

But like smoke, my fantasy vanished. I gave up on everything, the ambition dwindled; it was unimportant, like a cigarette butt flicked into the gutter. It wasn’t just my aspirations that faded away. I gave up on a lot of things so easily after my dad died. For years, a typical week for me consisted of dance class, gymnastics, karate, ballet, swimming and piano. It didn’t take very long to lose interest in them all – things that I had previously loved doing.

Loss didn’t faze me anymore. I was hurt, of course, but my eyes had been opened. My childhood had been shortened and swept away, and replaced with the harsh realities of what seemed to be the adult world. I liked this. It felt like I had a head start over my friends on what real life was like. Time had been wasted on fairy-tale books and toys, and although

misery pursued me through to maturity, I found solace in it. I preferred this way of life to my old. I missed my dad dearly but I don’t regret being thankful for how much stronger and bolder that tragic loss made me.

People my age don’t tend to get a lot of advice on how to deal with situations like losing a mum or a dad. Most people are grown-up when they first come face to face with the death of a parent; they have life experience to help them cope.

However, when expecting help from those older than me, I only received vague advice of ‘talk to someone’, which didn’t really appeal or help me.

The best advice I can give is this: find your own natural coping mechanism

that is the right one for you. Distracting yourself is important. You need to occupy your mind. There is no one way to cope with it. It’s different for everyone, and it is difficult no matter what you do. But, as time passes, your pain will lessen.

Losing my dad was excruciating. A lot changed from that point, especially my family and the way I viewed the world. We were all deeply affected and a cloud of gloom descended on the house. In spite of this disaster that bulldozed me I am now resurrected as a mature young woman, with a running start on the world.

The glittery fantasyland gibberish from my childhood has long since gone, and I’ve become a confident person who is looking forward to what the world has to offer. Reality, even if it meant losing my dad, is better than any fairytale. In the thunderous cloud of my father dying, I found my silver lining.

I wanted someone to tell me that there is no right or wrong way to feel about losing a parent

Leigh-Anna Rezel finds strength in loss

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Leigh-Anna

Imagine being called ‘he-she’ or ‘man beast’ when you walk into a room, or being told you resemble a rugby player. Not nice I know, but I get this all the time at school, and sometimes even at home. I try and brush off the comments, and convince myself that people are just ignorant. But there’s only so much one person can take before teasing and negative comments affect them.

When my friends sit and talk about what dresses they have, the conversation always turns to me and I hear the same line - ‘I’ve never seen you in a skirt’. I’m usually standing right in front of them wearing my school skirt when they say

this by the way! Apparently it doesn’t count, as I have to wear it.

So, picture a girl who loves trousers, doesn’t wear makeup and enjoys sports. You’re probably thinking ‘tomboy’. A ‘tomboy’ is defined in the dictionary as ‘a girl who shows the characteristics and/or behaviors of a boy, including taking part in sports and physical activities’. Some people think it is wrong for girls to be involved in activities typically considered masculine, but why is that?

We are all taught to believe in equality, that women should be able to do whatever men do. Yet when a female is involved in sports or doesn’t feel the need to dress up and put make up on, she gets criticised and is seen as odd.

If I had a pound for every time someone asked me why I don’t dress girlier I’d be

a billionaire. I admit I’m not a ‘girly girl’, but that doesn’t make me masculine, I’m still a female! It’s just that I don’t find spending half an hour painting my face with foundation and mascara fun.

The worst thing is that people are never satisfied when I say that I’m com-fortable in what I wear, and I do sports to keep healthy. People feel the need to speculate on whether I’m either gay or unhappy being female. In this day and age why is it we still believe that a woman who doesn’t fit the usual feminine stereotype obviously wants to be a man? It’s ridiculous.

There are many celebrities that

are seen as tomboys such as Missy Elliot, and Mel C from the Spice Girls. Rumours about Missy Elliott’s sexual orientation began circulating after an alleged rela-tionship with RnB artist Tweet. Elliott responded to the rumours by saying, “When people see how strong I am, and there’s not a man around, it’s like, ‘What is she doing?’ But I don’t need a man to make me happy. I need to make myself happy first.” Missy Elliot, Mel C and I, we just wear what we feel comfortable in.

No one likes being stereotyped, yet we often do it ourselves. People should realise that the way you dress doesn’t define who you are. We should remember that when the clothes are taken away, you’re left with a human being who

Serwaa Appiah is all mouth and trousers

I admit I’m not a ‘girly girl’, but that doesn’t make me masculine, I’m still a female!

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TOMBOYGIRL

has thoughts and feelings like everyone else. And they can be hurt even by the smallest comments.

The next time you wonder why someone doesn’t dress or act the way you might expect, first ask yourself this:

If we were all made to act and dress the same way, why were we given separate identities, features and thoughts? I’m sure if we were all the same, life would be very different, and not in a positive way.

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Serwaa

TOMBOYGIRL

DO YOU LOVE EXPOSURE? I DOI Do Ideas - a project set up by The Young Foundation - is designed to provide funding

opportunities for young people all over England to make the world a better place.

Five of Exposure’s very own young volunteers had ideas of their own. They all

applied, and all of them were successful! They managed to raise £4,700 between

them, which will pay for projects that will benefit the community. And it wasn’t just

a case of writing a letter asking for the money (as it sometimes is with fundraising);

each youngster had to pitch their idea to a ‘Dragon’s Den’ type panel of young people

who then made a decision on who gets the money.

Over the next few months our fellow Exposure youngsters will be working on the

projects that range from homelessness, and the care system to drugs and the law. Keep

an eye out in future issues of the Exposure magazine to see how they get on.

If you feel you could benefit from being involved in Exposure, or you have an idea

for a project of your own call 020 8883 0260 to speak to someone friendly.

By Ria Hayles and Guldem Masa

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what’s

RADIO GA GASoak the airwaves with Splash Radio. This is your opportunity to gain first hand

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PEACE OUT!Over 18? Are you passionate about making

a difference? Do you a have positive

attitude towards achieving your goals? Are

you a leader amongst you peers? Then you

could be a Young Peace Champion! Young

Peace Champions is a youth mentoring and

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you will also achieve an accreditation that takes into account your personal needs

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It works on a first come first served basis, so if you don’t want to miss out on this

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GuldemRia

Daddy I didn’t mean to hurt you,

But daddy you hurt me too,

You’re supposed to protect me from the bad,

Wipe my tears when I’m sad,

Give me the life you never had,

But instead you exposed me to the worst,

Sex, drugs, violence, hurt,

How do you think that made me feel?

I grew up to believe I was ill,

But I was really fine,

Don’t understand why I had to hide,

Alone in my room I sit and cry,

I wonder how I’m still alive,

But one thing dad, you taught me well,

You taught me how to bear the hell,

So all you see of me is fake.

Wishing this be the last day,

So at night I stare and lay,

Hoping I won’t ever wake.

DADDY

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Tamara

Muswell Hill Area Youth ProjectMuswell Hill Centre, Muswell Hill, N10 3QJ 020 8883 5855Bruce Grove Area Youth Project10 Bruce Grove, Tottenham 020 3224 1089Wood Green Area Youth ProjectWhite Hart Lane Community Sports Centre 020 8489 8942Broadwater Youth ClubStructured sport-based programme Broadwater Community Centre, Tottenham 07870 15 7612 4YP HaringeyYoung people’s sexual health services including dedicated clinic, drop-in sessions and the 4YP buswww.shharingey.gov.ukTel: 020 8442 65364YP PlusContraception and Sexual Health ClinicWomen Only Clinic - under 20s A confidential walk in serviceThursdays 3:30pm-6:30pmLordship Lane Primary Care Health Centre, 239 Lordship Lane, London N17 6AA020 8365 59104YP ClinicSt Ann’s Hospital St Ann’s Road, Tottenham N15 3TH (Walk in clinic) Thursdays 3:30pm-6:30pm020 8442 68104YP nurse mobile : 07943817289 or07984037172Teenage Pregnancy and Parenthood TeamJan: 07817 164 4733 Margaret: 07971 309 513Teenage Fathers WorkerTerry: 07980 316 761Young Mums To BeCourse in Tottenham for teenage mums and dads1 Ashley Road, Tottenham Hale 020 8275 4230OutzoneConfidential information and support for lesbian, gay and bisexual young people www.outzone.org

First MoveFor people lesbian, gay, bixual, trans or think they might be.020 7700 1323 www.facebook.com/firstmove Girl DivaFor lesbian bisexual and ques-tioning women aged 25 & under. www.girldiva.org.uk Markfield ProjectInclusive services for disabled and non-disabled young peopleMarkfield Road, Tottenham 020 8800 4134 In-VolveFor young people with drug or alcohol issues 020 8493 8525 www.in-volve.org.ukCosmicFor the families of people with drug or alcohol issues0800 38905257 www.haga.co.uk/children-and-family.html

HearthstoneFor people experiencing domestic violence 020 8888 5362Victim Support HaringeyWorking for victims of crime020 8888 9878 www.vslondon.org

AntennaFor black African and African-Caribbean young people 020 8365 9537 www.antennaoutreach.co.ukHaringey Young People’s Counselling ServiceAdvice and support for young people020 8493 1019HostGeneral mental health care 020 8885 8160Open Doorcounselling and psychotherapy for young people aged 12-2512 Middle lane, N8020 8348 5947

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Duke of Edinburgh’s AwardProgramme of personal devel-opment020 8826 9393BTCV V involved TeamNational volunteering programme www.btcv.org.uk KIS TrainingHelping young people into employment, education & enterprise 020 8275 4230Harington SchemePreparing young people with learning difficulties or disabili-ties for work55a Cholmeley Park, Highgate www.harington.org.ukConnexionsOne-stop shop for young people 020 8881 7050Drop-in centres:Ground floor Marcus Garvey library Leisure Centre, N15 4JA 020 8881 7050Wood Green Library, 2nd Floor High Road, London, N22 6XD 020 8489 5200www.haringey.gov.uk/con-nexionsFirst RungTraining, support and opportunities for young people 020 8803 4764www.firstrung.org.uk

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Daddy I didn’t mean to hurt you,

But daddy you hurt me too,

You’re supposed to protect me from the bad,

Wipe my tears when I’m sad,

Give me the life you never had,

But instead you exposed me to the worst,

Sex, drugs, violence, hurt,

How do you think that made me feel?

I grew up to believe I was ill,

But I was really fine,

Don’t understand why I had to hide,

Alone in my room I sit and cry,

I wonder how I’m still alive,

But one thing dad, you taught me well,

You taught me how to bear the hell,

So all you see of me is fake.

Wishing this be the last day,

So at night I stare and lay,

Hoping I won’t ever wake.

Exposure has given me the power and freedom to write how I feel and has helped me to have my voice heard by others. Pedro De Freitas, 15

Our team works with very fragile and highly needy young people who have a diagnosed mental illness and require intensive support. We find the environment and working practises of Exposure incredibly supportive and conducive to a successful vocational/training placement. Dr V. Valle, Consultant Psychiatrist, Adolescent Outreach Team

Exposure has been a great stepping-stone towards a better life. It helped me meet new people, make friends, gain confidence, and start my career. Lambros Markou, 22

I feel happier being at Exposure than I do most places. People here talk to you like an adult. I wrote an article, and that’s not something I would have been able to do before coming here. Liam McCarthy, 16

When I first arrived at Exposure I was very shy and reluctant to ask questions but everyone has been extremely helpful, understanding and supportive. Natasha Minto, 18

I just wanted to drop you a note and say a huge CONGRATULATION for being crowned the best magazine produce by young people. This is a stunning achievement and such an amazing and well-deserved testament to

the fantastic work you guys do. The work is breathtaking. Lynne Featherstone, MP (Liberal Democrat)

I would like to express my support and thanks to you for the work in the community that you have been engaging in since 1996. A big congratulation to Exposure and to the young people, volunteers and staff who really do a lot for our

community and make Haringey great. David Lammy, MP (Labour)

You are filling a huge need in our country, trying to build a Big Society where all play a bigger part. David Cameron, MP (Conservative)