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Welcome to Family Service & Guidance Center’s
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Screen time:
your kids & social media
DEVELOPMENTALLY APPROPRIATE EXPECTATIONS FOR PARENTS AND CARE
PROVIDERS
DR. ABBY CALLIS, PSYD
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The Basics
Over 45 million children in the United States, ages 10-17, regularly use the internet.
37% of 3-4 year olds report regularly using a parent’s smartphone or tablet, as do 87% of 5-7
year olds, and 75% of teens have their own smartphone.
An estimated 20% of parents state they do not supervise their child’s internet use at all, while
52% percent of parents say they moderately supervise.
Roughly 62% of teens report that they believe their parents know “little or nothing” about the
websites they visit.
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‘Screen Time’
‘Screen time’ is any time a person spends using a smartphone,
tablet, computer, or television. This might include interacting on
social media, watching content, playing video games, using video
chat, accessing and doing homework.
Not all time spent in front of a screen is necessarily detrimental.
Effects of ‘screen time’ on growing brains are still being studied.
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Benefits of ‘screen time’
Over 95% of schools in the United States are now connected to the internet.
Educational programming and health information are available online, through apps, and on television.
Programming can foster creativity or provide a creative outlet.
Growth of ideas results from interactions with blogs, vlogs, and podcasts.
Increased sense of community with those identifying shared interests.
Fosters exploration of unique identity and “safe” feedback for social skills.
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Disadvantages of ‘Screen Time’
‘Screen time’ should be minimized for toddlers and young children, as it seems to desensitize the brain to stimulation, potentially causing ADHD-like behaviors.
Older children and teenagers may experience similar effects with high levels of usage, as well as headaches, poor sleep, social comparison, mood dysregulation.
American Academy of Pediatrics recommends:
Ages 0-2: No screen time at all
Ages 2-5: No more than 1 hour per day
Ages 5-18: 2 hours per day leisure time
University of Oxford:
Up to 6 hours per day is normal for teenagers, BUT well-being peaks at around 4 hours
Including homework and other educational/school activities
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Minimize TV for Infants and Toddlers
Surveys tell us that 92.2% of 1-year-olds have already used a mobile device, some starting as young as age 4 months.
In the first three years of life, 80% of a child's brain development occurs.
Good evidence suggests that screen viewing before age 18 months has lasting negative effects on children's language development, reading skills, and short term memory.
It also contributes to problems with sleep and attention.
Regardless of content, try to limit your child's electronic entertainment time at 1 hour a day from age 18 months to age five.
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Social Media
Social media is “websites, platforms, and applications that enable users to create and share content or to participate in social networking”
Examples:
Snapchat
Tik Tok
Tumblr
Youtube
G+/Google Hangout
Kik
Postsecret/Whisper
Terms to Know:
- DM: direct messaging
- Geotag: location services that track
users in certain apps
- POS: parent over shoulder
- Blog/vlog: online journal
- Influencer: social media celebrity
- FOMO: fear of missing out
- Wyd – what you doing
- Wbu – what about you
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Benefits to social media usage
Can provide a creative outlet
Interactions with blogs and vlogs can help expand worldview; ability to create can increase sense of
advocacy and purpose
Increased sense of community with those identifying shared interests; increased access to support
Fosters exploration of unique identity and “safe” feedback for social skills
Increased contact with ‘IRL’ friends, strengthening bonds
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What Does that Look Like?
Kids and teens are going out less, with fewer reported incidents of underage drinking, illicit
drug use, and car accidents amongst teens in 2015 than 2009.
Teens with unique interests report fewer feelings of isolation and loneliness when connected
to an online community.
Many kids and teens see social media as a career opportunity, increasing motivation and
work ethic, and possibly fostering self-esteem and confidence.
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Risks of Social Media Use
• Social media provides additional avenues for bullying, making it difficult to
escape
• Fear of missing out, increased social comparison
• Can disrupt dopamine production, and sleep
• Possibility of sexual exploitation
• Other safety issues include unfiltered content, location tagging, ‘the internet is
forever’
• Physical effects: back issues, neck issues, carpal tunnel, fitness etc.
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Detrimental effects of Social Media Use
Decreased self-esteem
Increased eating disorders, body dysmorphia, disordered eating
Increased anxiety, depression, isolation, worthlessness
Deterioration in concentration and attention
Poor sleep
Unhelpful coping/avoidance
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Talking to Your Teens About Media
Discuss sleep hygiene. This can include blue light filters, setting phones to ‘do not disturb,’ and
allowing them to charge out of reach of the bed.
Emphasize importance of physical health, and get creative!
Remind teens that texting and driving is very dangerous (and illegal), and texting while walking
somewhere can be too.
Have conversations about ‘ideal’ vs. ‘real’ on social media. This might include body image, risky
behaviors, stereotypes, or violence.
Have ongoing talks about media literacy and digital citizenship.
REMEMBER: Teens are often aware of the risks, but still may feel immune.
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Internet Challenges
Have you heard of:
ALS ice bucket challenge?
Mannequin challenge?
Chubby bunny?
Harlem shake?
Bottle flip challenge?
What about?
Cinnamon challenge?
Tide pod challenge?
Choking game?
Kylie Lip Challenge?
What to do?
- Stay up to date.
- Talk about it. Likely vs. Unlikely.
- Discuss the risks. Be direct.
- Acknowledge peer pressure.
- Don’t judge.
- Monitor.
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Cyberbullying
What is cyberbullying?
Sending mean messages to someone
Purposefully sharing embarrassing pictures
Spreading rumors or lies
Telling others to ignore a person or leave them out
Cyberbullying is non-stop, anonymous, and easily spread.
If you think your child is being cyberbullied: talk to them, document evidence, support them, report it to their school/police, and reach out for help. Do not take away their device, as this may feel like a punishment.
If you think your child is cyberbullying others: talk to them, discuss digital citizenship and impact, reach out for help and resources.
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What Can we do?
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Talk to kids and teens
Open a line of communication – kids respond to genuine interest.
Explain risks appropriately – know the laws in your area.
Check in about mental health and emotions – don’t be dismissive.
Be aware that saying ‘No’ may not work – help to mitigate risky behaviors.
Encourage parents to have these conversations.
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Modeling
Talk to other parents about their social media use around their children.
Negotiate clear expectations and rules.
Familiarize yourself with common websites and popular content.
Be aware of how you talk about social media and electronics.
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Parental Controls
Every smartphone and tablet (as well as most computers and internet-enabled TVs) has an option
for parental controls.
For Android phones, Google makes a free Family Link app that allows parents to monitor a child’s
daily usage, set time limits for use, and set a digital “bedtime.” It also allows your child to request
more time for approval.
For iPhone users, there is setting called Screen Time. This allows you to add family members, then set
time limits, allow specific apps, schedule screen “downtime,” and restrict specific content.
Be aware, parental controls are not a substitute for personal monitoring. Often, your kids already know
how to get around parental control settings. Stay involved!
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App Safety
kids’ apps might:
collect and share personal information
let your kids spend real money — even if the app is free
include ads
link to social media
What’s more, the apps might
not tell you they’re doing it.
For iPhone For Android For Computers/All
Devices
Zift Parental Control OurPact Parent Control Circle, by Disney (not
free)
NetNanny Parental
Control
Cybersitter (not free)
Norton Family Premier
(not free)
Kaspersky Safe Kids
(not free)
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Self-Control Apps
For iPhone For Android
Flipd AppDetox
Moment Flipd
Offtime Moment
Forest: Stay
Focused
Offtime
BreakFree Quality Time
Forest: Stay
Focused
BreakFree
Stay On Task
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Family Media Plan
Create regular tech-free times
Daily routines
Tech-free zones/rooms
Designate tech-free outings
Use technology in an interactive way
Face to face
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Do’s & Don’ts
Do:
Watch programs with your children
Read up on new apps & games
Have conversations about healthy media use
Ask curiously about kids’ online interests and
friends and interactions
Create structure/limits around use
Use technology in an interactive way
Learn about privacy/protection/safety features
Consider emotional impact of media-related
consequences
Friend your kids on social media
Don’t:
Allow ‘screen time’ an hour or less before
bedtime
Model poor screen time boundaries
Interpret screen time as alone time
Use technology as an emotional pacifier
Shame media mistakes (teachable moments)
SPY.
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Resources
Healthychildren.org > Family Life > Media Run by The American
Academy of Pediatrics
Common Sense Media > For Parents
Federal Trade Commission > Privacy, Identity, & Online Security >
Protecting Kids Online
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Questions??