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Queen Victoria and Prince Albert (circa 1854) recreate a wedding pose for the newly developed art form of photography. The Queen’s choice of a white gown started a wedding tradition that continues to this day.

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BY KRISTINA HACKER

When Her Royal Highness Queen Vic-toria walked down the aisle of the Chapel Royal of St. James’ Palace on Feb. 10, 1840, she started a wedding tradition that has migrated from Europe to America and continues 169 years later.

The Queen’s choice in wedding attire,

a pale gown trimmed in orange blossoms, has since been copied by thousands of brides every year who choose to wear white. Before Victoria’s historic nuptials a bride would wear her best outfit, no mat-ter what color it was.

Traditions and weddings go hand in hand. Some traditions, such as the bride wearing something old, something new,

something borrowed and something blue, originate with ‘old country’ superstitions about good luck. While other traditions are very modern and have developed over time as a convenience, such as bridal reg-istries.

Whether old or new, traditions are an integral part of wedding planning. A couple have to decide which traditions to

keep and which to delete. Most of the wedding traditions that

are followed by brides and grooms in America originate in northern Europe. But those who have emigrated to the U.S. from other parts of the world often bring their traditions with them. The following are just a few wedding traditions from around the world and close to home.

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In the Sikh culture, a traditional wedding begins the departure of the barat, the groom’s side of the family, from the groom’s house to a Gurdwara, a Sikh place of worship. Upon arrival, the barat is greeted by the male relatives from the bride’s family who sing “Hum Ghar Saajan Aaye,” a hymn expressing gratitude for the barat’s attendance. This begins the Milnea, a formal introduc-tion ceremony where the Ardas will be performed by the Giani, a priest, and the main male players in the families meet, exchange garlands and gifts, and have their photo-graphs taken, usually in the foyer area of the Gurdwara.

Afterward is the Jaimala, where the bride and groom exchange garlands, signifying the bride’s acceptance of the groom as her husband, followed by tea.

During tea, guests are served with savories, typically samosa and pakoras, and sweets, normally jalebis, la-doos and barfi. The Anand Karaj, the main wedding cer-emony, follows in the Gurdwara with Kirtan, the singing of the Sikh holy hymns.

Next is the Ardas, where the couple and their parents stand straight with folded hands, joining in prayer; and Palla, where the bride’s father formally hands an end of a sash, worn by the bridegroom over his shoulder, into the hands of the bride while the Kirtania Jatha, musi-cians, sing “Palla Tanda Lagee.”

The end of the song signals the start of the Laava, dur-ing which the couple slowly walks clockwise around the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scripture, four times at set intervals according to the reading of a Laav from the GGS by the Giani and the singing of the same Laav by the Kirtania Jatha. Proceeding the Laava is the Ardas. Guests all stand and join in the Ardas and sing the “Hu-kamnama,” a hymn from the GGS.

The conclusion of the singing marks the beginning of Sagaan, the blessing of the couple by their parents, key people and the congregation. This part of the ceremony is where the bride and groom can receive gifts or money and have photographs taken.

The ceremony concludes with the serving of Kara Parshad, a blessed sweet pudding to guests. Lunch, de-parture of Doli and a reception for family and invited

guests usually rounds out the celebration. For departure of Doli, the groom’s family presents the bride with new clothes to change into. After doing so, she leaves her par-ent’s house.

Mazal Tov! Like any other culture or religion, followers of Juda-

ism have certain traditions they observe when it comes to marriage, or as Jews call it, kiddushin.

Kiddushin translates to “sanctification” or “dedica-tion,” indicating that marriage is more than just a social

or contractual action, but that a wedding is a spiritual bonding and the fulfillment of a mitzvah, or divine pre-cept. Kabbalists believe that the complete dedication be-tween bride and groom in a Jewish wedding unites the participants as one soul in two bodies.

The wedding day is considered to be a personal Yom Kippur, or the Jewish Day of Atonement, for bride and groom, or chatan and kallah as they are called in He-brew. Both fast from dawn until completion of the cer-emony, as on Yom Kippur, and the chatan wears the tra-ditional white robe worn on Yom Kippur as the couple ties the knot.

In the week before the wedding, it is customary for the chatan and kallah to not see each other so as to build excitement and anticipation for the marriage. The two greet guests separately on their wedding day, with kal-lah seated like a queen on a throne to receive her guests while the chatan is sung to and toasted by his friends and family.

The kallah is veiled by the chatan, recalling Rebecca covering her face before marrying Isaac. The veil rep-resents modesty, emphasizes that one’s character is more important than appearance, and also refers to the groom’s commitment to clothe and protect his wife.

The wedding itself takes place under a chuppah, or a canopy that symbolizes the home that the new couple will build together. The structure recalls the tent of Abra-

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The first time Michelle Arakelian saw her future husband it was on the play-ground as he was in another fifth grade class at Julien Elementary School in Turlock. Little did she know that Bill Penney would grow up to become the quarterback of the Turlock High School football team where they both attended school and remained friends. Though they stayed in loose contact, it wasn’t un-til after college that the two reconnected and began dating, much to the surprise of their close-knit group of friends and even themselves.

Fast forward three and a half years and Michelle and Bill wed on June 8, 2013, in Carmel at the Carmel Presbyterian

Church with 115 of their closest friends and family in attendance. With a theme of simplicity and elegance, Michelle was inspired by the coastal location and in-cluded typically nautical colors into her wedding, dressing the bridesmaids in tea length navy blue dresses and the men in light grey suits. Eleven of the 14 mem-bers of the bridal party were Turlock na-tives, making the wedding a tight knit af-fair. Following the ceremony, the guests made their way to the La Playa Hotel nearby where they enjoyed the classic traditions: cutting the cake, the tossing of the bouquet and the father-daughter dance among others, all with views of the ocean.

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Golf isn’t just a career for Pitman grad Ashley Olsen, the game also led to find-ing the love of her life.

It was while working at Stevinson Ranch Golf Course in 2009 that Olsen reconnected with fellow Pitman High graduate Stan Brandstater, who was look-ing for a job after serving in Iraq with the National Guard.

“One night I had to work carts with Stan, we hit it off and started dating from there,” said Olsen.

Their budding romance soon turned into a long-distance relationship when Olsen left to attend Colorado Christian University on a golf scholarship. When she was nearing graduation, she was torn between returning to California and pursuing career opportu-nities in Colorado. Brandstater’s decision to move to the Centennial State was the decid-ing factor and the two have resided in Colo-rado since.

A year ago, the couple embarked on two milestones in their lives together — moving into their first house and getting engaged.

On their last night in Denver, they went out to dinner and then on a walk near Ol-sen’s favorite river.

“He was fidgeting and I could tell he was getting nervous. Then when we walked across the bridge and sat down on these big rocks, he got down on one knee in front of me and proposed and then I saw flashes of light. He had three friends hiding out to take our pictures,” said Ol-sen of the memorable event.

Although living in Colorado, the cou-ple decided to get married in California to be closer to family and lifelong friends.

A Tiffany weddingOlsen’s favorite jewelry store — Tiffany

& Co. — was the inspiration for her wedding. The colors for their May wedding are Tiffany blue, silver and white, which will be seen in the decorations and with the wedding party’s attire.

Olsen found her wedding dress at David’s Bridal in Modesto, a strap-less ball gown with a sweetheart neckline and beaded detailing.

“I feel like a princess in it,” Olsen said about her wedding dress.

She will top the dress with a fingertip veil and be carrying a bouquet of white peonies.

Her bridesmaids will wear cocktail length strapless dresses in Tiffany blue.

Brandstater will say his vows wearing an all grey suit, while his groomsmen will flash the event’s signature color in Chuck Taylor shoes.

The wedding will be held at a Turlock country home in front of a picturesque gazebo.

The ceremony will be officiated by someone close to Olsen’s heart, her grandfather.

“I got emotional asking him; I think it’s really special because he married my mom,” she said.

Her grandfather, Bill Steel, is a retired Presbyterian pastor.

Sound adviceOlsen said the hardest part of planning

her wedding was living in Colorado and getting married in California. She was able to overcome the long-distance chal-lenge with the help of family and friends.

Her advice for newly engaged couples: don’t do it alone.

“It’s overwhelming in the beginning. Have someone who can help you plan; you can’t do it alone. And take it one thing at a time.”

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(Family Features) For engaged couples, it can seem as if there are a million things to accomplish before the big day arrives. One essential piece of the wedding puz-zle involves creating a registry that makes it easy for guests to celebrate your union with gifts that reflect your personality as a couple.

Before Building Your RegistryIt’s no wonder why guests love the ease

and simplicity of a gift registry. But many couples may not know where to begin when setting out to create this useful list. Here are some helpful pointers from Ma-cy’s to help you get started on creating a perfect wedding registry:

* Meet with a Consultant: These trained professionals are on site to as-sist and discuss everything you want and need. It’s a good place to start if you have questions on what items to include and what brands are available.

* Look for Special Programs: Some stores offer special features, such as Ma-cy’s, whose Dream Fund allows guests to contribute any amount to the ultimate gift card, so the bride and groom can later choose exactly what they want.

* Start Early: Most couples like to regis-ter 4-6 months before their wedding date, which allows more time for choosing items, planning for showers and meeting other deadlines.

* Register Together: Whether it’s in-store, online or both — make a day of it and have fun selecting all the things that will be part of your new life together.

* Choose Different Price Points: Guests will appreciate a varied list that has many gift options to fit their personal budget.

* Create a Registry That Reflects You: If you’re a laid-back, easygoing couple, consider registering for a more casual dinnerware pattern that you can use ev-ery day, then mix in some fancy pieces to use for those special occasions. If you enjoy entertaining friends and family, be sure to choose a range of serveware and barware.

Making the Right ChoicesWith all the things needed to properly

stock your home, selecting the right ones can seem overwhelming. Here are some tips to keep in mind while adding to your registry:

* Select Your Settings: A five-piece set-

ting is meant to serve one person and in-cludes a dinner plate, salad plate, bread and butter plate, tea cup and saucer. If you want to serve eight guests, you will need to register for eight five-piece set-tings.

* Factor in Some Extras: When regis-tering for drinkware, be sure to register for a few extras in each glass size in case some break down the road.

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* Stock Up on Kitchen Must-Haves: When it comes to cookware, make sure to stock up on the essentials. This should include a fry pan, sauté pan, grill pan, sauteuse (round, deep-sided design for sautéing on the stovetop or baking in the

oven) and a chef ’s pan.* Opt for the Basics: White dinnerware

allows you to transform the look of your table year-round by changing the décor and accessories around it. The classic look will be a design that you can appre-ciate for years to come.

Visit www.macys.com/registry for a full registry checklist, helpful tips and more information on Macy’s Dream Fund.

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Lacey Morgan remembers walking to school and seeing what would become her future fiancé, Michael Perales, work-ing on a forklift at a local lumber yard.

“For years I would wave at him. Final-ly, when I was of dating age, he asked me out on a date,” Morgan said.

Six years later, Perales would turn a typical family holiday celebration into a day Morgan would never forget.

As was their tradition, the couple first visited her family’s house on Christmas Day. Before leaving to make a trip to his family’s, Perales slyly said that his mom was planning to take formal pictures this year and she might want to get dressed up. Morgan said she didn’t think another thing about the unusual request, but it soon became clear that more than just a picture shoot was about to happen.

“When I got to his parents house, my entire family was there and his entire fam-

ily. When I looked back, he was kneeling; it was sweet,” she said.

Morgan said yes to his family-witnessed wedding proposal and soon began plan-ning their special day.

Colorful, outdoor affairThe first thing Morgan decided for her

wedding was the color scheme — tur-quoise, white, and hot pink accents. The bright colors will be represented in the wedding party’s attire, the decorations and especially the flowers — stargazer lil-ies, orchids, roses and baby’s breath.

The exotic flowers will enhance the natural beauty found at Morgan and Perales outdoor venue, Borges Ranch in Farmington.

“I went to a wedding there and thought it was very pretty. There are lights everywhere, so when it’s dark it’s beautiful and there are flowers every-

where,” Morgan said.

Morgan is also excited about the delectable menu planned for the outdoor reception. Sherrie Wood of Merced is cater-ing the event, that features pecan glazed chicken, tri tip, cheddar biscuits, broccoli salad and mashed potatoes.

The groom chose the cake, white with chocolate dripping down the sides, and guests will be served double chocolate fudge cupcakes topped with pink flow-ers. A candy bar — turquoise and pink treats only — will also offer sweet snacks throughout the night.

After indulging in the comfort food din-

ner and chocolate dessert, guests will be able to dance to tunes by DJ Ja-son Gulley and get a souvenir photo from Candy Padilla Photo Booth.

Sound adviceMorgan said the

hardest part of her wedding planning was finding the best prices and getting friends and family members to return their RSVPs.

Her advice for newly engaged couples — book early.

“Book the venue early; everyone books early and you won’t get the spot you want or the time you want if you don’t. Also, start saving as soon as you get engaged because it’s expensive.”

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BY LARRY CAHILL, CEOLiberty Private Security, Inc.

H ere at Liberty Private Security, Inc. one of the questions we hear often is, “Why do I need security at my wedding?”

To a bride on a budget, security may seem like just another bill to pay; but in the end, it could end up being what makes or breaks your special day.

There are many reasons to hire security for your wedding or special event. Being a former State of California Peace Officer, I can tell you from experience that law enforcement agencies are overwhelmed with calls for services and cannot attend to the numerous events happening in the area. Hiring a professional security company ensures a safe environment for the bride and the groom, as well as their guests, and prevents unwanted individu-als from ruining your special day.

Some of you may have watched a mov-ie called “Wedding Crashers” starring Owen Wilson and Vince Vaughn; a com-edy about two divorce mediators who “crash” weddings in hopes of snagging free drinks and seducing vulnerable wom-en. Although a bit of a stretch, wedding crashing isn’t just for the movies. Since

2005, our professional security officers have escorted out many so called “crash-ers” attempting to have a good time on the bride and groom’s dime.

In addition to “crashers,” another type of unwanted guest at your wedding is the one who wants to steal your stuff. While you party with your family and friends, criminals often like to take advantage of the opportunity to go through the parking areas, break into cars, and steal person-al items, gifts, vehicle registra-tions, and sometimes even garage door openers. The brave ones will even show up at your reception and steal your wedding gifts as your guests boogie away on the dance floor. Sadly, stories like these are among some of the horror tales that we’ve heard from people who didn’t hire secu-rity—and regret-ted it.

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ing that can ruin a good party quite like having to kick out an uninvited guest, or having multiple car break-ins, which is why security is so important to the suc-cess of your wedding day. You’ve spent your whole life dreaming about your

wedding, so why would you want to risk having it ruined by wedding

crashers or criminals looking to make a quick buck?

In addition to security being money well spent, it’s also a requirement for most venues. Unless you plan on being mar-

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tee that the venue is going to re-quire some sort of security presence. Here at Liberty Private Secu-rity, Inc. we recommend that you budget one security offi-cer for every

100 guests that you are having at your event, however, each venue has their own requirements. Be sure to look over your rental agreement carefully to ensure that you have enough security at your event.

As with other wedding vendors, remem-ber that when it comes to security, you often get what you pay for. You wouldn’t scrimp on your dress or the food, so be cautious about who you hire to provide security at your wedding. Don’t be afraid to ask what the company’s Private Patrol Operator (PPO) License number is, as well as having them provide proof of in-surance. These two important questions will ensure that you are working with a le-gitimate security company and not some-one who is trying to scam you. It’s also a good idea to ask about the company’s uniforms and the types of training that their officers go through.

As you embark on this special journey towards the rest of your life, Liberty Pri-vate Security, Inc. wishes you a safe and happy wedding day! For more informa-tion on our company, and to receive a free quote for services, please visit www.libertyprivatesecurity.com

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Give yourself plenty of time to get ready. Make sure you have two witnesses to sign the marriage certificate. Take a moment for yourself and have fun!

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Mail out invitations. Schedule rehearsal dinner. Make appointments with hairdresser, make-up artist, manicurist, and any other beauty professionals

that will be needed on the day of the wedding. Confirm the menu and the wedding cake. Buy your guest book, champagne glasses, and any other accessories needed for the day of the wedding.

Schedule a final fitting for the bridal party and the groomsmen. Set your final consultations with contracted services. Pick up wedding rings. Buy gift for groom/bride. Establish a seating chart for reception and write placement cards.

Make your decision about the type of wedding you want and how many guests may attend. Announce your engagement in the newspaper. Decide your budgetary parameters. Pick a date and time. Find and book your ceremony and reception locales. Register for your gift registry.

Check the requirements for a marriage license. Select and reserve the men’s attire. Confirm the date and time with all your contracted services. Make reservations for a limousine. Order invitations, stationary, gifts, and favors. Finish guest list. Select a cake.

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Shop for your wedding rings. Make your wedding attendant selections. Select your officiant, photographer, florist, videographer, caterer, musicians/DJ, and cake baker. Set honeymoon plans. Start shopping for wedding and bridesmaids dresses. Begin a guest list.

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ham and Sarah, open on all sides to wel-come guests in unconditional hospitality.

In some Jewish sects, no jewelry is worn under the chuppah to signify the marriage is not based on material possessions. In others, the kallah circles the chatan seven times to recall the world being built in sev-en days, and to signify building the walls of the couple’s new world.

When time comes to give the wedding ring, the only the groom gives a ring to the bride. The ring is plain gold, without or-namentation, to convey the idea the wed-ding will be one of simple beauty.

After the ring is on the bride’s finger, the marriage contract, or ketubah, is read in the original Aramaic text and signed by two witnesses. The ketubah, often an ornately decorated scroll that is framed and displayed in the home of the couple, outlines the chatan’s responsibilities and protects the rights of the Jewish wife.

The Seven Blessings, or Sheva Brachot, are recited, and the chatan then places a glass on the floor and shatters it with his foot. This act recalls the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, and links the couple to the Jewish people as a whole. In some sects, the glass is broken before the reading of the ketubah.

At this point, the formal ceremony con-cludes and the newly married couple is escorted to a private room where they are given a few minutes of privacy, signifying their new status of living together. They also generally eat something, since they have been fasting all day until this point.

A reception, or seudah, follows the cer-emony, where bride and groom are enter-tained as amateur guests juggle, perform acrobatics, and dance. The point of the seudah is to bring as much joy to the new couple as possible.

The meal ends with the Jewish grace after meals, or Birchas Hamazon, and the Sheva Brachot are recited again.

Following the wedding, friends and relatives will host dinners in honor of the newlyweds for the week of Sheva Brachot, in reference to the Seven Bless-ings said during the ceremony and at the seudah.

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Kayla Messer Kory Vitato Rita Youanis & Hanibal Taryorn

BY ELIZABETH ARAKELIANTurlock Journal

When Kayla Messer tried on her fifth wedding dress at David’s Bridal in Modesto she knew it was the one. As it turns out, so did everyone else in the store as people she did not even know began crying upon seeing her in it.

“I still had two other appointments to go to other shops but once I found this dress, I instantly knew it was the one and cancelled the other appointments,” said Messer.

Native to Turlock, Messer will be mar-ring her fiancé, Kory Vitato, at their alma mater, California State University, Stan-islaus in an outdoor ceremony. Messer now works in government while Vitato works in law enforcement, but the two will return to the campus at which they first met to say their vows. The ceremony will take place at the Sequoia Lake Gaze-bo with a reception to follow on the patio of the Faculty Development Center.

Neutral tones highlight outdoor wedding

The bridal part consists of three brides-maids and Messer’s sister, Krista, serving as the maid-of-honor and Vitato’s older brother, Kevin, as the best man. The bridesmaids will wear strapless, floor-length champagne colored gowns and the groomsmen will wear similar neutral-toned vests and slacks, leaving Kory to standout in his suit. A traditional wed-

ding with a neutral theme rich in cham-pagne colors and burlap accents, 175 guests will be in attendance to witness Kayla and Kory say “I do” and take their first step towards marriage.

“Stanislaus is so pretty, there’s so much natural beauty that I felt like I didn’t need to go and bring in all these colors to cre-ate the scene,” explained Messer.

The Messer-Vitato wedding will take place on Oct. 4, about a year after Kory proposed to Kayla by lining the walk to their home with carved pumpkins say-ing “Will you marry me?” Kory, who organized for both of their families to be there, held the final pumpkin with an en-gagement ring placed on top.

“It was about the last thing I expected coming home from work on a Monday,” Messer recalls.

Pinterest fuels bride’s inspirationWhile the venue is booked, the dress

is purchased and ‘save the date’ letters are in the mail, there are still several de-tails to which Messer needs to attend as she anticipates her big day. She met with Cheryl Oliveira of Abra Cadabra Gifts Baskets and Floral Design of Modesto this month to decide the flowers for the wedding, spending the afternoon brows-ing through pictures and looking at im-ages Messer has pinned to her Pinterest boards. Pinterest is an online website that allows users to collect images based on

themes and virtually “pin” them to inspi-ration boards.

“I’ve used Pinterest a lot and it’s given me a lot of ideas for details that I want in the wedding,” said Messer.

While Messer has a binder of ideas and is working hard over the next few months to ensure that all of the details are ironed out before the ‘big day’, she is enjoying the process of creating her very own wedding which is something she has thought about for some time.

“You could say I’ve dreamed about it since I was a little girl, but what girl doesn’t? I think what has changed is that I used to want a really big wedding and now I just want my close friends and fam-ily and really, that’s all you need,” said Messer.

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Kory proposed to Kayla last fall by lin-ing the walk to their home with carved pumpkins saying, “Will you marry me?”

Photo by Chloe Allen/Escape Photography

Kayla Messer and Kory Vitato will return to their alma mater, California State University, Stanislaus, for their October wedding.

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Kayla Messer meets with Cheryl Oliveira of Abra Cadabra Gifts Baskets and Flo-ral Design in Modesto to discuss floral options for the wedding.

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