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TIPS TO CHOOSE
THE PERFECT WEDDING
SUIT FOR GROOM
Hugo de Juana
TIPS TO CHOOSE THE PERFECT
WEDDING SUIT FOR GROOM
© Hugo de Juana 2017
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INTRODUCTION
Congratulations! I understand that If you are reading this eBook it is probably because you get soon married
and you need some advice or at least to confirm your previous ideas concerning the apparel for your
wedding.
Far from trying to be a ceremony wear treaty, this modest book offers direct tips to help you choosing the
most suitable garment for your style and features. It is structured in a decalogue of brief and direct advices,
that you can read in a single session, and surely it will help you to focus better your goals.
These recommendations have been gathered from an extensive experience of my family, with many years
successfully advising the most demanding customers and of course grooms, in the shops of Javier de Juana,
President of the Club de Sastres de España (grouping that meets the most outstanding Spanish Master
Tailors), knowledge that in turn we have translated from one generation to another.
I invite you to read them and after that submitting them to your consideration, because I understand that
fashion is living and should not be dictated. Reach an agreement between them and your personal tastes
to transmit your own style and personality in the most important day for you.
Hugo de Juana
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1. DEFINE THE STYLE OF WEDDING YOU PREFER
The first great decision you should take with your partner is the style of wedding you like because it will
determine the sort of garment that will be worn by groom and wedding guests.
If you like a formal or traditional wedding style, the morning coat will be the most adequate both in
summer and winter, provided its condition of daytime dress code garment. If you prefer a more casual or
sophisticated style, opt for a formal suit or even a frock coat.
Nowadays, there is great freedom so with independency of the style chosen, be sure to feel elegant and
flattered with your look as that day you will be the sharp focus. As Hardy Amies used to assert “A man
should look as if he had bought his clothes with intelligence, put them on with care and then forgotten all
about them”.
FORMAL WEDDING (FORMAL ATTIRE) - MORNING COAT
The morning coat is one of the
most renowned garments of the
men’s attire and the most
adequate for daytime dress code,
which takes place before 6 PM or
with sunlight. The afternoon dress
code garment is the tailcoat,
although is discouraged for
weddings, unless the take place
very late. The tuxedo, although
very commonly used in various
countries, is a party garment and
not adequate for weddings.
There was a time (mid XIX century)
when the morning coat was a daily
garment and its design was slightly
different to the current one, as it
had been thought for horse riding
so the tails do not result
uncomfortable to the horseman, when he had the feet inside the
stirrups.
Today it should be black or dark grey with a single button to tie and with
peak lapels. In summer the mid grey is accepted although the most
suitable is still the black one. There is even and old dress code rule,
which indicates that only the groom and viscounts should go in grey and
the rest of the guests should wear in black.
Traditionally the waistcoat was Pearl grey, light beige or of the same
color than the coat, in which case, some fabric ribbons are stitched in
the neck and they are usually white in summer. Today, coloured
waistcoats are admitted. Cutting can be single or double breasted and
with 6 buttons they look great.
Pants should be formal striped with pleat and never cuffed.
Exceptionally, with mid grey morning coat, pants can be of the same
colour than jacket and waistcoat. It is worn preferably with braces and
without belt loops.
It is worn with a flower in the lapel and white linen pocket square. The
top hat that traditionally was made of silk or shiny fur is today in disuse,
as it obligates excessively to guests and it is preferable to keep it for
more ludic events like Ascot races. The same can be applied to gloves.
Shoes must be black, in tafilete or fine boxcalf and lace-up.
INFORMAL WEDDING - (INFORMAL ATTIRE) - SUIT
Far from what the concept “informal attire” seems to suggest, this dress
code requires the use of suit, not accepting other less formal stylings
like the combination of jacket and trousers, elegant but not strict.
Until the 30’s, when the use of suit was consolidated as the office
working attire, people used to wear tailcoat, frock coat and then
morning coat, reserving the use of suit for less formal occasions
The origin of suit is located in England under a concept of elegance
based on following the dress codes imposed by the dominant classes.
With posteriority, it has been influenced by the Italian concepts of
elegance more subordinated to aesthetics.
Nowadays, we can choose the best of both currents and there are no
such strict codes, so a new world of possibilities for wedding suits opens
up. Nevertheless, the wedding suit “codes” are different from the
working suit ones and it is convenient to know them to focus better
your choice.
Morning Coat
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2. LOOK FOR STYLE INSPIRATION
A good starting point can be to browse magazines, search in the Internet grooms’ photos that you
like, and even can carry and show them to your tailor so he can better interpret the image you want
to convey.
Those pictures will give you clues about cutting styles, combinations, ideal lengths, fittings and
additional orientation about how to wear the garments and accessories. I am referring to for
example, how to tie the tie, put a pocket square, and what accessories to choose, etc… essential
details that we usually don’t give the due importance to.
With the exception of some popular magazines, the majority Italian, and some websites, there are
not many sources, so to make this research effort easier for you, we have created an “Inspiration
Gallery” with many different suit and ceremony proposals, which I suggest you to visit. You can
access in www.xelectia.com , ¡Don’t miss it!.
Javier de Juana
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3. MAKE YOUR BESPOKE SUIT WITH A WELL KNOWN PROFFESIONAL
Today there are a lot of valid Prét â Porter options and however, our clients insist on emphasizing
this tip as one of the most valuable, due to the fact that a well-made bespoke suit will bring you
benefits that are widely superior to the difference in price:
First, bespoke tailoring achieves a perfect fit without shortfalls in movements. That is
because in tailoring, the garment is fitted over the client’s shoulder, so it settles down in
morphological valleys and not in crests like the Prét â Porter, which to be sold to many
people, act as “boxes able to contain many sort of different bodies”. In bespoke tailoring
shoulders, sleeves and fronts lines are “more rounded” and the neckline is low slendering
the figure.
A suit designed for you will not remain indifferent to anyone because it will emphasize your
strengths and conceal your defects or weaknesses. For that purpose, we study aspects like
the most flattering width of shoulders or lapels for you, total lengths, height of pockets,
fittings, etc… with special attention to “create volumes”, what results in garments which
“produce sensations” of great comfort and assurance, considerably increasing the service
life of the garments that can be estimated in an average of 10 years.
Moreover, you will be able to customize and imprime your personal touch. Especially
interesting are the sutile details, hardly perceivable to the naked eye, that are present but
need a closer look to the suit to be really detected. For example, a different color in collar
felt, special linings, and chest pocket slightly more slanted, different colour of a sleeve
buttonhole or your initials embroidered in some specific place.
Unlike the bride, the groom counts with the advantage of having chances to wear again the suit
with posteriority to the wedding, which contributes to reaffirm the investment although the suit
don’t be used daily. Every man should have at least one representative suit in the wardrobe.
Choosing a well-known professional, who works with maximum standards of quality will ensure
your success. The Club de Sastres de España (“Tailors of Spain Club”) is formed by the sartorial
quintessence of our country. I invite you to contact any of its master tailors that you can see in
www.clubdesastres.com.
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4. MAKE IT DIFFERENT FROM YOUR DAILY SUITS
While it is true that you will be able to reuse the suit after the wedding, we recommend to
distinguish it from a “daily working suit”. Mind that a ceremony suit has a less functional goal and
its intentionality is more aesthetic, so aspects like result flattering in video and photos or express
your personality must be prioritized.
In the working attire we should be very aware of the “esprit de corps”, which are values that should
be conveyed by a professional of a certain activity to result effective. For example, a banker should
transmit a sober, stable and calming look; while an artist should irradiate creativity, originality,
seduction and the personal image of a politician should be respectably, balanced and booster.
For the ceremony attire I suggest to emphasize “more your individuality and less the corporatism”,
including style details, which could not be so suitable for working attire, like for example peak
lapels, a single button jacket, slanted pockets or your own ideas provided that it is your day.
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5. CHOOSE FABRICS WITH IMPACT
The fabric choice is key as it will determine the whole look of the groom and accessories, which as
its own name suggests should be chosen after the suit.
If we look simplicity and elegance, a plain fabric is suitable when goes in hand with a great quality
cloth like the made of silk, mohair, cashmere or a Super 100’s wool. Nevertheless and maintaining
discretion, opt for a touch of sophistication with an impacting fabric!.
We like the most, those fabrics that at a mid-distance show interesting patterns or insinuating
shapes but cannot be guessed unless you stare at them in the short distance, where they become
surprising because of their design or novelty. Fabrics with a little shine will appear better in photos
and video.
These fabrics are usually “remakes” or evolutions of the classic patterns, with new compositions and
combinations of stripes and herringbones, embossed patterns, dots or reinvented checks. The
message you will transmit will be about updated, well-informed and great style.
Tip: To be able to choose a fabric properly, keep away 2 or 3 meters to see it in the distance that
we normally use to evaluate a suit. You will be surprised about the fact that patterns that appear
highly “eye-catching” in the sample, can go even unnoticed in the distance.
SUMMER WEDDING
Most suitable quality and thickness will be determined by the
wedding’s time of the year. If you get married in summer go for a light
fabric (less than 275 grams/meter) to keep coolness.
A worsted wool is always a sure option specially the thinnest ones
(Super 100’s until Super 180’s), but there are fabrics specifically
appropriate for this season like mohair, which comes from the Angora
Goat and offers great transpiration and lightness and at the same time
resistance and durability. It has also an attractive characteristic shine
very flattering.
Mohair suit
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Also the cool wool silk and even linen, that with its more casual appearance can be perfect for a
wedding in the beach. Mind also that light coloured fabrics will retain less the sun heat in very hot
places.
WINTER WEDDING
For winter season, we recommend mid thickness fabrics (from 300 gr.
until 375 gr.). Thicker fabrics have today fallen in disuse due to the
extended air conditioning systems.
The aforementioned mentioned worsted wool suit is a good choice all
year because of its resistance and great adaptation. However there are
other wintertime fabrics very advisable that will result very
distinguished. I am talking about flannel, with its slightly combed yarn,
cashmere with its unique softness and drape.
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Flannel suit
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6. COLOURS … THINK IN PHOTOGRAPHIC EFFECTS
After the shine and golden prevailing in the Napoleonic court, British style imposed in the European
capitals. It stated, “Any serious suit must be dark”. Blue prevailed as the most suitable for the “city”
and black as the most solemn and representative for etiquette.
Taking this into consideration, we can introduce more colours in summer and the winter season
demands darker tones, and a note of colour can be included in waistcoat and accessories. The
wedding time of day is also important demanding darker colours the later it takes place.
Beyond these ideas, choose the most flattering colours for you, those that enhance your best look
in photos and video, documents that will remain for the future. For this purpose, it is recommended
to choose a suit with little shine as it will provide us with great photographic effects due to the
reflection of light in the fabric while moving.
Moreover the quality and shine of the fabric, here you are some advice to choose best colours for
your skin tone, colour of eyes and morphology.
PALE SKINS
For pale skins, dark colours work better because they don’t offer a great aspect when paired
with white or very light colours.
Regarding to shirts, beige is not a good choice provided your skin can look even paler.
DARK SKINS
People with dark skins should avoid too dark colours that don’t stand out over their skin
tone. The goal is to bring light to the face with well contrasting colours.
Brilliant colours are a signal of confidence but they should be nuanced with soft-coloured
accessories.
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COLOURS AND COMPLEXIONS
Black is resounding and sophisticated but is not suitable for all complexions as in some
cases can result hard for groom’s facial features and skin tone.
Light grey is a classic going well with almost any complexion, and complementing very well
the vast majority of bride dresses.
Dark grey gives a formal touch and acquires special elegance with fabrics that soften its
dark mass with a lighter “vigoré” (light combed yarns).
Navy blue is probably the most popular colour for ceremony. With really good photographic
effects, but demands to be very careful in the selection of the tone to avoid being vulgarized
by other guests’ blue suits.
You will possibly like that some part of your suit matches with the bride’s dress. An interesting idea
could be to match the colour of the tie or pocket square. It is not needed to get the same exact
colours, the idea is to maintain a balanced harmony between them. .
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7. OPT FOR THE MOST FLATTERING SUIT CUT FOR YOU
At this point, please let me be categorical concerning to “no matter how expensive the suit may be,
no matter the brand or quality fabric, if it does not fit you well, it will be a complete failure”
It is precisely the mission of a good Tailor or style advisor to flatter his client, empower his strengths
and conceal his weaknesses. After uncountable hours spent in the fitting room, we develop a “clinic
eye” capable to calculate accurately the most suitable proportions for each person and the style that
results most flattering for them (shoulders, fittings, height of buttons and pockets, height of notch
and width of lapels…). The perfect match arrives when we combine those factors with a touch of
fashion and current trend, all aligned with customer’s preferences.
A well cut suit will make a difference, so if you have to choose between the last suit worn in a movie
by your favourite actor, model or sportsman and what can suit you best, I recommend to choose the
latter, what in any case means to resign to a style, but adapt it to better achieve your image goals.
Generally speaking:
TALL PEOPLE
They can wear 2 button suits and even add more buttons to the jacket in 3 or 4 buttons
times (now 3 and 4 button jackets are not very trendy but fashion is cyclical and surely they
will come back in the future ). No vents.
They can also choose frock coats and longer garments, as well as lighter colours that
structure better the body shape.
The tolerate more closed in the neck waistcoats also high and wide shirt collars.
If voluminous, they should wear an envolving style of shoulders, preferably plain fabrics
and narrower shirt collars.
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MEDIUM SIZED AND THICK PEOPLE
2 Button jackets, they can go for a central vent, thin and dark fabrics. If they have a short
waistline or prominent stomach, they can conceal it with a double breasted jacket.
Better short and mid open shirt collars. Double breasted waistcoat with 4 buttons better
than 6.
SHORT PEOPLE
Jackets with 1 or 2 buttons with wide lapels, preferably in peak, as they focus sight upwards
and figure appears to be more slender. Also stripes contribute with a slender effect in body
shape.
Open neckline waistcoats with straight lines in the bottom or even double breasted with
colour and patterns. In the case of thin people, include a pleat in trousers and for strong
people better without pleats.
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8. DISTINGUISH YOURSELF AS THE CEREMONY HOST
In every wedding is interesting to distinguish the groom from the guests, if only for checking that the guy
kissing the bride is indeed the groom. Details to distinguish yourself are:
WAISTCOAT
The waistcoat daily use has declined during the second part of the XX
century. But not for ceremony as it offers interesting pros like, to grant
a classic and elegant look, introduduce a bit of colour and enable to
maintain a decent image if the groom decides to take the jacket off.
While wearing a morning coat, waistcoat is mandatory and may be of
the same fabric than the coat (with ribbons in the fronts), beige, and
pearl grey. Today vivid colours like yellow, blue, pink or green are
accepted and when double breasted, it should go better with lapels.
In the case of wearing suit, it is not mandatory but highly recommended.
You can choose cloth or silk fabrics, plain and sober or patterned and
more daring. It can also be single or double breasted, which currently is
very popular and with 6 button is really flattering. When single breasted, the last button can be left open.
BOUTONNIERE
It consists on a floral detail in the lapel that can be a single flower or bouquet of flowers. Traditionally it used to be
hanged through the left lapel buttonhole, in the same side as the
pocket square. The buttonhole. The buttonhole used to have a strap to
hold the flower’s stem, but today it has disappeared so we can use a
pin behind the lapel.
There is some debate as to whether wearing both together the
boutonniere and pocket square or not, afraid of appearing “too ornate”.
Personally I think that the effect is good so I encourage you to wear
them together, as long as it goes with a discrete pocket square and it
does not peek out excessively about the pocket (a good reference is to
show a quarter part of it).
Beige Waistcoat
Boutonniere and Pocket Square
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SHIRT AND TIE
Shirt must be of great quality of cotton, silk or mixed silk combinations, which offer much shine while reducing
the wrinkles of the silk. White, ivory, grey are typical, being interesting the option of making the collar and cuffs
of a different fabric than the body. I like fabrics like Herringbone twill with its diagonal yarns that grant shirts a
special light shade.
The collar is the key point. We must ensure that it is well fitted, not
showing ease in excess, which is very negative, and avoiding also that
collar ends roll up and get separated from the shirt’s body when we
tie the knot. Height of the base of the collar, width and amount of
opening should flatter your features.
Approximately 1 cm of the cuffs should be shown underneath the
jacket sleeves. They can be to be tied with cufflinks or button, being
cufflinks a more formal option.
The tie is the accessory that enables a higher grade of innovation, so
I will only point out the importance of tying it properly and gracefully,
what has more to do with the sort of knot and the force applied to tie it. Particularly I prefer the Windsor knot,
which is thicker and triangular shaped than the American, although the American might help better to slender
the figure due to its more elongated shape.
REST OF ACCESSORIES
Pocket square contributes to add more interest and colour to the
groom’s outfit. It can be made of linen or silk and colour can be
different from the tie, but always complementary. Options of
patterns and colours are almost infinite and white, ivory, and grey
are the most popular.
It can be worn perfectly folded forming a rectangle, although I prefer
offering a younger look by introducing it in the pocket “in an
apparently more accidental way” showing part of the base and part
of the peaks.
If worn the belt should be discrete and match with the shoes.
Suspenders are a better choice as they maintain better trousers in place, enhancing verticality of crease, and they
are also more efficient avoiding shirt displacements.
Herringbone Twill pattern
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9. GIVE IMPORTANCE TO SHOES
In my opinion it is a bit exaggerated the statement that “shoes are the most important garment of
the men’s attire”, although I admit that a superb outfit could be ruined by a bad shoes choice.
Give them importance in your attire and choose high quality leather shoes. The classic leather for
men’s shoes is the calf skin or “boxcalf”. Although it is not easy to see differences to the naked eye,
fortunately, shoes market is one of those in which a well-known brand is synonymous of quality,
provided that formal shoes have barely evolved and have survived the best brands with best raw
materials and handicraft manufacture.
Ceremony shoes should be light and stylized. With thin sole provided that the thicker, the less
ceremonial it will look. They should be black, lace-up, and the shoelace eyelets attached to the top
of the vamp. Brown shoes are discarded due to its casual look except for summer weddings with
light suits.
Fortunately a wedding is not a sports competition and nothing happens if putting the shoes that
day for the first time. Indeed, It is very common to do it, but remember to check soles not being too
slippery or have them prepared by shoemaker.
“Oxford” shoes – considered the most formal for ceremony
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10. DON’T LEAVE IT TO THE LAST MOMENT… SCHEDULE IT
A custom made or bespoke suit takes 3 or 4 weeks to make. Nevertheless, and as there might be
necessary at least one fitting, it is not advisable to leave it to the last moment, especially in the case
of your wedding suit. Schedule it in advance with at least a 3 or 4 months’ time.
CREATE YOUR SUIT ONLINE / VISIT OUR SHOWROOM
If you are visiting Bilbao (Spain) you can schedule and appointment to visit our showroom. If not, I suggest to
create your suit online with us in www.exquisuits.com/en/ and even measure up with the webcam
JAVIER DE JUANA | EXQUISUITS
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Javier de Juana y Hugo de Juana
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR - HUGO DE JUANA
CEO OF EXQUISUITS ONLINE TAILORING, STYLE ADVISOR
AND E-COMMERCE& SEO EXPERT
Formed in the family fashion and tailoring business, from
an early age learnt to design and cut bespoke garments,
the personal image keys, fitting and core competencies to
satisfy the most demanding customers. Among them there
are important personalities of the economic, political and
social life.
The attraction he feels about marketing and a vocational
entrepreneurial spirit, led him to create their own projects
like the creation in 2005 of the luxury shop e-commerce
platform Xelectia-Redes de Excelencia Comercial, in
2010 Xelectia Web Lab as a web design and SEO agency
specialized in retail firms and e-commerce. In 2014 he
launches with Javier de Juana, President of the Club de
Sastres de España, Exquisuits as a high end online
tailoring platform.
He has taken part in numerous events like the eBusiness Global Conference, Semana del Comercio Vasca, Urban
Commerce, Evento Iniciativa Pymes. Also took part in the work group of Ikusmer of Ecommerce advice to the Basque
Country government. He is also professor in the Master Internet Business 2.0 of the Prestigious Eseune Business School
and in Marketing Master Gesco, ESIC School of business.
Hugo de Juana graduated in Marketing by the Bilbao Chamber of Commerce and, Business Studies diploma by the
Basque Country University. He studied a Master in online marketing and e-commerce and a master in marketing and
commercial management.
You can visit his websites
Online Tailoring (www.exquisuits.com) | Inspiration gallery (www.xelectia.com) | Blog Xelectia
(http://blog.xelectia.com) | Xelectia Web Lab (http://www.xelectiaweblab.com)
If you want to get in touch with Hugo de Juana :
Mail: [email protected] | Twitter: @hugodejuana
LinkedIn: http://es.linkedin.com/in/hugodejuana
Hugo de Juana