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    MARCHVOL. 25 NO. 4

    Community NewsJewish

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    JEWISH COMMUNITY NEWS MARCH 2014

    PUBLISHERS STATEMENT

    Jewish Community News (ISSN 1086-5136) is published seven times a year by the New Jersey Jewish Media Group, 1086 Teaneck Rd., Teaneck, 07666-4838. Periodicals postage paid at Teaneck, NJ and additional offices. Postmaster: Send address changes to New Jersey Jewish Media GroSubscriber Service Center, PO Box 2132, Voorhees NJ 08043-8132. Subscription price is $9.75. Contributors of $5.00 or more to the United JewAppeal of North Jersey or the United Jewish Campaign of Clifton-Passaic, receive a years subscription. Out-of-state subscriptions $19.75 and forecountries $24.75. Copyright 2013. The appearance of an advertisement in the Jewish Community News does not constitute a kashrut endorsement. The publishing of a paid pcal advertisement does not constitute and endorsement of any candidate, political party or political position by the newspaper, the federation or aemployees.

    Israeli Stones fans get what they wantAge 60 is for sagacity, says Pirkei

    Avot.

    And age 70 is for rock and rollers

    to play their first concert in Israel,according to Israeli promoter Shuki

    Weiss, who on Tuesday announced

    that he had booked the Rolling

    Stones for a June concert in Tel Aviv.

    Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jag-

    ger will turn 71 six weeks after the

    concert, scheduled for June 4.

    In the 1960s, the Rolling Stones

    prime rivals, the Beatles, began ne-

    gotiations to play a concert in Israel.

    But Prime Minister David Ben-Gurion

    was unwilling to authorize the ex-

    penditure of scarce foreign currency

    reserves on popular entertainment.

    Now, though, the question of for-

    eign rock and rollers has become anational priority, as each concert is

    proof of the failure of the anti-Israeli

    boycott movement.

    Neil Young, Justin Timberlake, the

    Pixies, and Soundgarden also are

    scheduled to play Israel this summer.

    The Stones visit is seen as particu-

    larly timely, given that two of their

    songs Paint It Black and Beast

    of Burden are said to refer to the

    question of drafting the ultra-Ortho-

    dox into the Israeli army. - LY

    Pharonic foursomeFour questions. Four cups of wine.

    Four sons.

    Now, you can add four statues of

    Pharaoh to your seder menu at

    least if youre planning on celebrating

    Passover in Luxor, Egypt.

    Archaeologists have just restored

    two giant statues of Pharaoh Amen-

    hotep III at the Temple of Luxor.

    Two 3,400-year-old statues of the

    pharaoh long have been tourist at-

    tractions at the site.

    Now, thanks to the work of the ar-

    chaeologists, there are four.

    The world until now knew two

    Memnon colossi, but from today it w

    know four colossi of Amenhotep III,

    the German-Armenian archaeologist

    Hourig Sourouzian, who heads the

    project to conserve the Amenhotep

    temple, said.

    The statues had lain in pieces for

    centuries in the fields, damaged by

    destructive forces of nature like eart

    quake, and later by irrigation water,

    salt, encroachment and vandalism,

    she told the AFP news service, as

    excavators and local vi llagers washe

    pieces of artifacts and statues un-

    earthed over the past months. -

    Synagoguesinger stampedHis first gig was in a synagoguebasement.

    Now his face is on an American

    postage stamp.

    John Jimi Allen Hendrix was

    a 16-year-old high school student

    when he played his first public per-

    formance for an unnamed band at

    Seattles Temple de Hirsch syna-

    gogue in February 1959. His wild

    playing, which would later make

    him the worlds highest paid solo

    guitarist, got him fired before the

    second set.

    At the time, as Jewish Currents

    website has noted, the music direc-tor for Temple de Hirsch, a Reform

    synagogue, was Samuel E. Goldfarb,

    co-writer of the famous Dreidel Song

    (I have a little dreydl . . .), which

    Hendrix, unfortunately for Jewish

    civilization, never covered.

    Hendrix did famously cover anoth-

    er song by a Jewish composer, Bob

    Dylans All Along the Watchtower.Hendrix died in 1970 at 27 from an

    overdose of drugs and alcohol. Fel-

    low Baby Boomer icon Janis Joplin,

    who met a similar fate two weeks

    later, is slated for a postage stamp

    later this year.

    LARRY YUDELSON

    Did they bring Spider-Mantashen?For the young

    patients of the

    Schneider Chil-

    drens Medical

    Center of Israel,

    this Purim holiday

    was out of this

    world. Thanks

    to two volunteer

    window washers

    who dressed up

    as superheroes,

    the sick children

    were treated to a

    fantastic surprise:

    Spiderman dangling from ropes

    outside the hospitals windows.

    The children and their familiescould not participate in celebrations

    outdoors, so hospital staff swooped

    in to the rescue and brought the fun

    to them.

    But wait: Two Spidermen?

    Luckily, the children are too

    young to remember the infamousSpiderman Clone Saga that roiled

    the pages of Marvel Comics in the

    mid 1990s.

    ISRAEL21C.ORG

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    Jewish Memorial Chapel namesnew managing funeral directorAllen Edelstein, the managing funeral

    director at the Jewish Memorial Cha-

    pel of Passaic-Clifton, retired on Janu-

    ary 31 after 22 years of service. Vincent

    Marazo is the new managing funeral

    director.

    Mr. Edelstein began working at the

    Jewish Memorial Chapel when it was

    still in its original home at 68 Howe Ave.

    in Passaic. He began as a funeral direc-

    tor, working under managing funeral

    director Irving Shapiro until February

    2002. After Mr. Shapiro died, Mr. Edel-

    stein became managing funeral direc-

    tor of the Jewish Memorial Chapel of

    Passaic-Clifton. He held that job for 12years.

    During Mr. Edelsteins tenure with

    the chapel, he conducted many funer-

    als and comforted countless grieving

    families and friends in accordance with

    Jewish tradi tion. The Jewish Memorial

    Chapels board expresses its deepe

    gratitude to Mr. Edelstein on behalf

    his service to the Chapel and the Jewi

    communities of North Jersey.

    Mr. Edelstein plans to spend mo

    time with his wife and family.

    Mr. Marazo, the new managin

    funeral director, previously work

    as a funeral director at Menorah Ch

    pels at Millburn. His many years of se

    vice to the Jewish community in Ess

    and Union counties has made him w

    versed in traditional Jewish funeral rit

    als and customs. Mr. Marazo has be

    a licensed funeral director since 1979

    The Jewish Memorial Chapel Passaic-Clifton is a not-for-pro

    Jewish funeral home serving the Nor

    Jersey area. The chapel is owned an

    operated by over 24 Jewish commun

    organizations in Passaic, Bergen, an

    Essex counties.

    Allen Edelstein and Vincent Marazo

    New Jersey visitors meetwith Israeli Knesset leaderIsrael Knesset Speaker Yuli Edelstein, left,

    recently hosted New Jersey State Associa-

    tion of Jewish Federations (NJSAJF) Presi-

    dent Mark S. Levenson, center, and Senate

    President Stephen Sweeney. The meeting,

    in Speaker Edelsteins ofice at the Knes-

    set, was during the recent NJASF 2014 leg-

    islators mission to Israel.

    COURTESY KNESSET SPEAKER YULI EDELSTEINS OFFICE

    Dedication of Gush Etzion play area

    The former Jewish Federation

    of Greater Clifton Passaic allo-cates funds to a yearly project

    in Israel. The former federation

    entity has income from the sale

    of the Y building and it contin-

    ues to use that toward charitable

    projects.

    In 2013, past president Mark

    Levenson suggested building

    playgrounds in three commu-

    nities in the Gush Etzion area

    (Migdal Oz, Gavaot, and Pnei

    Kedem) that lacked play areas.

    He helped coordinate the proj-

    ect and was present at the dedi-

    cations on Feb. 27. While each

    of the three dedications left me

    overwhelmed with emotion

    and I kept on hearing over andover how needed and welcome the play-

    grounds were and how much the chil-

    dren were enjoying the playgrounds (as

    I witnessed in person), the dedication at

    Migdal Oz was especially meaningful as

    the playground and nearby school serves

    a signiicant special-needs population and

    many special-needs children were at the

    dedication, said Mr. Levenson, shown

    here (in jacket).

    Womens League hostsannual spring program

    The Womens League for Conservative

    Judaisms Garden State region will focus

    on inding inner peace at its annual

    regional spring program, set for Sunday,

    March 30, from 9:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.,

    at Congregation Ahavat Olam in Howell.

    Dr. Alison Block, the keynote speaker,will discuss Anxiety: What s Normal,

    Whats Not, and What to Do About It.

    Workshops include Age Wisely, which

    offers practical and affordable options

    for taking care of you and your elderly

    loved ones; Eat to a Better Health,

    about foods that promote physical and

    mental health, support a strong immune

    system, and prevent disease; De-stress

    with Yoga, a routine to help relax and

    renew; and Knitting, a Great Tool for

    Your Health, a way to induce relax-ation and lower heart rate. Instruction is

    geared for new knitters, but all knitters

    and crocheters are welcome. For infor-

    mation call (201) 3413065 or email Carla.

    [email protected].

    Friendship Circle winter campThe Friendship Circle of Passaic

    County held a winter camp at the

    Yeshiva Bet Hillel of Passaic for chil-

    dren with special needs. They par-

    ticipated in an array of activities,

    including sensory, art, music, and

    dance. Volunteers were on hand forthe two-day program to assist.

    The Friendship Circle of Passaic

    County reaches out and to com-

    munity families who have children

    with special needs. Part of a larger

    movement with branches in com-

    munities throughout the country

    The Friendship Circle offers a

    variety of programs that enhance the

    quality of life for children and their

    families by providing friendship to these

    special children. For information ca

    (973) 6946274 or visit www.fcpassa

    county.com.

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    Israels great DaneFormer diaspora affairs minister seeks peace from within and without

    LARRY YUDELSON

    Rabbi Michael Melchior has left

    politics behind, but he has not

    left public service.

    Rabbi Melchior served in the

    Knesset for 10 years as leader of the liberal

    Orthodox Meimad political movement. Born

    in Denmark in 1954, he earned smicha from

    Jerusalems Yeshivat Hakote l in 1980 and

    was appointed chief rabbi of Norways 1,400

    Jews soon after. In 1986 he made aliyah, but

    he has held on to his Norwegian title.

    His main focus, though, is on Israeli life.

    Rabbi Melchior is a community rabbi in

    Jerusalems Talpiot neighborhood as well

    as an activist for the improvement of Israeli

    society.

    When Rabbi Lawrence Zierler of the Jew-ish Center of Teaneck spent a sabbatical

    year in Jerusalem, he and his family livedin Talpiot and discovered Rabbi Melchiors

    congregation.

    We never found anything we loved as

    much, Rabbi Zierler said; the two rabbis

    became very close, he added.

    Rabbi Melchior will be in Teaneck next

    week, as part of a four-day U.S. fundrais-

    ing trip for some of the organizations with

    which he is involved, and he will meet with

    groups of people organized by Rabbi Zierler.

    Rabbi Melchiors projects focus on unit-

    ing Israels different strands of society, and

    on reaching beyond Israel to connect with

    neighboring Arab communities.

    Rabbi Melchior, who was Israels irst min-

    ister of diaspora affairs, grew up in a diaspora

    community small enough to demand that

    all factions to work together. Having cho-sen to raise his family in a primarily secular

    Jerusalem neigh-

    borhood, he was

    disappointed to

    discover that by

    sending his children to religious schools

    and religious youth movements, our

    kids only came to know other people who

    were exactly like themselves. They didnt

    come to know other segments of society.

    Disturbed, he set out to break downthe barriers between the groups. It

    started with meetings in the 1980 and

    early 1990s, but something impor-

    tant happened after the assassination

    of our prime minister in 1995. More

    and more people understood that this

    the division into separate groups

    could not continue.

    He led a movement to create schools

    and educational programs where reli-

    gious, very religious, very secular, and

    everything in between could study

    together, he said.

    A whole new Israel is being cre-

    ated, which is not very known in

    North America, Rabbi Melchior said.

    There are tens of thousands, even

    hundreds of thousands, who are inter-ested in creating something new in the

    seam between different identities of

    Judaism.

    From one school launched 12 years

    ago, there are now 52 institutions of

    what is c alled inclusive Jewish public

    education.

    Another part of Rabbi Melchiors

    efforts are devoted to our relationship

    to the non-Jews who are living with us

    in Israel.

    We have a responsibility towards t

    Arab community, he said. Weve bee

    living ourselves as a minority througho

    the ages, and we know what it is to li

    as a minorit y. Now were tested: We

    a majority, and we dont always live u

    to the test.

    Its not enough to say, well, the Ara

    are better off here than they would

    in Syria or Lebanon. Thats not the teThe test is whats acceptable to the sta

    dard of Jewish values we have preache

    and which we believe in and have talke

    about when we were a minority.

    We dont always live up to ou

    responsibility. This is not something ne

    Im saying. Theres the Or Commissio

    formed after the Arab riots in the ye

    2000, which unanimously said there

    discrimination toward the Arab citizen

    I can give you so many examples. Th

    investment we put in the education of

    Arab child compared to the investme

    in a Jewish child, the funding of religio

    institutions of Muslims and Christia

    compared to the religious institutio

    of Jews. If you give religious institutio

    support in the country, you cant gihalf a percent of support to the ins

    tutions of more than 20 percent of th

    population.

    This is something we should be sen

    tive to as Jews. Thirty-six times we re

    in the Torah to be sensitive to strangers

    he said.

    To deal with these gaps between Isr

    els Jewish majority and its Arab mino

    ity, Rabbi Melchior formed the Citize

    In 2011, the city of Akkos youth parliament, affiliated

    with the Citizens Accord Forum, met with the mayor.

    Rabbi Michael Melchior, inset, is the forums founder.

    CITIZENS ACCORD FOR

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    the Israeli government, this is the only

    movement which is working across the

    board with all the different Arab orga-

    nizations, he said. We work with theIslamists, with the secular Arab move-

    ments, with the Arab mayors, with the

    most radical Arab organizations.

    We have a dialogue, where we both

    we dis cuss issues of princi ple and we

    also try to ind a way through what

    we call a deliberative dialogue of how

    we can live with our differences.

    The surprising things is you can

    actually ind solutions, he said.

    One example: Weve created youth

    parliaments in the mixed cities around

    Israel. Jews and Arabs sit in the youth

    parliaments together, then they decide

    on youth policy together. They do

    things together.

    I believe not in protesting, but increating a change through a sensible

    dialogue and making people under-

    stand that this is good for everybody. It

    works well. It makes sense.

    Perhaps Rabbi Melchiors most auda-

    cious arena of activism goes beyond

    Israels citizens: It deals with the ques-

    tion of peace.

    He believes that it is possible for

    Israel to ind peace with its neighbors

    but that the approach to peace must

    change.

    There has been no point where the

    Arab Muslim world is so ripe and ready

    to make peace with the State of Israel as

    it is now, he said.

    Contacts with Muslims he cant go

    into details, but has said they i ncludeHamas and other Islamists have con-

    vinced him that its possible.

    Publicly, Rabbi Melchior was instru-

    mental in organizing a Muslim-Jewish

    dialogue that began with a summit in

    Alexandria, Eypt, in 2002.

    A lot of work I do in this area is under

    the radar, he said. I work with all the

    Arab countries, with all the fragments

    of the Palestinians. There is a willing-

    ness today to make an agreement with

    the State of Israel from all segmen

    of leadership in the Muslim world. It

    possible to get there.

    Israel must be willing to make pea

    and pay the prices and accept the cond

    tions everyone knows what the cond

    tions are. It will demand from our sithat we make that strategic decision

    that we havent made to make peace

    If the State of Israel is willing to d

    that, and I think the vast majority

    Israelis are, then we can have a pea

    which is totally different than the pea

    we made with Eypt, even different fro

    the peace which was signed in Oslo.

    Today I think its possible to get

    peace that will include a very vast pa

    of the Arab and Muslim world, Rab

    Melchior said.

    The problem, though, is that th

    focus has been on a quick ix, a secul

    peace. We dont deal with the substa

    tial existential issues.

    It doesnt work that way. If yo

    dont build up a legitimacy for peaamong the people, and their identiti

    are not involved, peace is not going

    happen.

    I think its very possible to mak

    peace. Ive met the most extreme lea

    ers on the other side. Its always bee

    possible to come to an agreement. B

    there has to be thinking out of the bo

    You cant keep on telling your pe

    ple that the other side hates us an

    fears us so therefore we should ma

    peace. You cant only make a pea

    which is a peace of interests.

    If the only language to make pea

    is a secular language, it doesnt co

    vince the people. It also doesnt co

    vin ce the Palesti nia ns. You have

    change the story. You have to come uwith a peace of values.

    I believe in Zionism. I believe al

    that to be here is part of the fulillme

    of a dream of Jewish history, of a drea

    of the prophets, even the fulillment

    Gods will that the Jewish people is ba

    in their homeland. But I cant say the

    that its an accident that theres anoth

    people living here.

    You cant have it halfway. If it

    Gods will that were back, and this is

    fulillment of Jewish destiny that we

    back in our homeland, then its part

    this also that theres another people l

    ing here

    If we expect of the other the Ara

    world and the Palesti nian people

    to accept our right to self deinitiowe must accept the same from them

    Thats the essence of Judaism, he sai

    I found radical Muslim leaders wh

    said, if you come with that kind of at

    tude, a religious attitude that we belie

    in one God, that we come together

    the Holy Land to respect each other

    if thats the attitude then well go alo

    with such a peace of two states for tw

    people. Nobody ever offered such

    thing, Rabbi Melchior said.

    Great DaneFROM PAGE 6

    If you dontbuild up a

    legitimacy forpeace among

    the people,andtheir identities

    are not involved,peace is not

    going to happen.

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    Meeting of different mindsA rabbi and an imam walk into the Frisch School together...

    LARRY YUDELSON

    Jewish-Muslim dialogue went to a yeshiva high school, as

    Rabbi Marc Schneier and Imam Shamsi Ali appeared at an

    assembly at the Frisch School in Paramus last Wednesday.

    It was the irst time Frisch hosted a Muslim speaker

    and the irst time the duo, who have written a book

    together, brought their Muslim-Jewish dialogue to an

    American Jewish school.

    Rabbi Schneier is the founding rabbi of the Hamptons

    Synagogue in Westhampton, N.Y. Imam Ali, who formerly

    led Manhattans Islamic Cultural Center on East 96h street

    and now heads two smaller congregations in Queens,

    noted the connection between the word Beit Midrash

    the schools study hall and the word madrassa, mean-

    ing religious school, that he attended as a youth.

    The Imams madrassa in his native Indonesia, how-

    ever, was far stricter than Frisch: It was a single-sex

    boarding school, which its students left to vi sit homeonly twice a year.

    The process of learning was not only inside of the

    classroom, but outside of classroom, he told the Jew-

    ish Standard.

    The two religious leaders appeared under the auspices

    of the Foundation for Ethnic Understanding, a group

    Rabbi Schneier, founded 25 years ago to advance black-

    Jewish dialogue. The foundation expanded its mandate

    to Jewish-Muslim dialogue in the last decade, after Rabbi

    Schneier was challenged to do so by his partner in the

    foundation, hip-hop music magnate Russell Simmons.

    When the rabbi and the imam irst met, at a television

    studio where they were providing Jewish and Muslim per-

    spectives on Pope John Paul II, we shook hands, barely

    looking at each other, Imam Ali recalled. Both of us had

    past prejudiced views about each other.

    But their dialogue led to friendship. Last year a book

    they wrote together was published; its called Sons ofAbraham: A Candid Conversation about the Issues That

    Divide and Unite Jews and Muslims.

    Out of the friendship that we had, we changed, the

    imam said. I used to have a lot of prejudicial views about

    the Jewish community. He completely changed me.

    Rabbi Schneier said, I came to the table with clear

    biases and prejudices, having grown up in a very intense

    yeshiva environment: Muslims were the enemy, Muslims

    were to be demonized, Muslims were not to be trusted.

    Ive been able to enlarge my horizons, he said.

    Rabbi Schneier characterized the discussion at Frisch

    as a very open, frank, wonderful exchange.

    Many of the questions the high school students asked

    were what the Muslim leader had come to expect. Ques-

    tions about the role of women in Islam, about terrorism,

    about jihad.

    What surprised him was a question from a boy who

    seemed to me very knowledgeable about Islam. He had agreat understanding of the religion, he said.

    The imam said one student disagreed with his state-

    ment that many Muslims misperceive Jews. He said, I

    have a lot of Muslim friends in Brooklyn and they have

    never talked evil about Jews, Imam Ali said.

    There were parts of the presentation that were particu-

    larly geared toward the yeshiva students.

    We spoke about there being a tradition of written and

    oral law in Islam, as in Judaism, Rabbi Schneier said. I

    said we must be careful to interpret the Koran in a literal

    fashion, as we would not do with our own Torah.

    Imam Ali said the partnership is not just about helping Ameri-can Jews and American Muslims understand each other.

    We are able to influence Muslims and Jews around the world

    to work together, he said. The most recent example, a few

    months ago, Jews and Muslims organized meeting meetings in

    Tunisia. While Jews have lived among the Muslim majority in

    Tunisia for more than a thousand years, this was the irst formal

    religious dialogue between the two communities there.

    In Austria, where 800,000 Muslims outnumber 16,000 Jews, Imam Shamsi Ali fields questions from students at th

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    Op-Ed

    Editorial

    Drafts of wrathPour out Thy wrath upon the

    nations that know Thee not, and

    upon the kingdoms that call not

    upon Thy name. For they have

    devoured Jacob, and laid waste his

    habitation.

    These lines from Psalm 79 are

    familiar to us all from their recita-

    tion at the Passover seder, added

    when our Festival of Liberation was

    transformed, in Christian Europe,

    to a season of pogroms and bloodlibels.

    The psalm itself, of course, long

    predates Christianity and the dias-

    pora; as is clear from its opening

    verse, it targets the heathen who

    are come into Thine inheritance;

    they have deiled Thy holy temple.

    These heathens presumably

    Nebuchadnezzers Babylonians

    have given the dead bodies of Thy

    servants to be food unto the fowls of

    the heaven, the flesh of Thy saints

    unto the beasts of the earth. They

    have shed their blood like water

    round about Jerusalem, with none

    to bury them.

    Now, the psalm has been repur-

    posed to pray for protection against

    a new enemy that has arisen.

    Not Iran. Not Hamas. Not Vladi-

    mir Putin.

    No, the new enemy, which hun-

    dreds of thousands of self-styled

    fervently Orthodox Jews gathered

    to protest, in Jerusalem and New

    York, is the government of Israeli

    Prime Minister Benjamin Netan-

    yahu, which recently passed a lawthat would ostensibly require

    some yeshiva students to serve in

    the Israeli army.

    (We say ostensibly because the

    law has been criticized as too little,

    too late; its most dramatic sanctions

    dont kick in until 2017, allowing

    time for a new election and a more

    pro-charedi coalition to form.)

    50 Thousand Haredim March

    So Only Other Jews Die in War is

    how the Jewish Press concisely put

    it until, in response to the ultra-

    Orthodox backlash, the article was

    pulled down from the web and its

    author ired.

    Most of those marching perhaps

    believed they were protesting the

    current incarnations of Pharaoh

    and Haman, as one Agudat Yisrael

    Knesset member at the New York

    rally put it. For some, that may be

    a sincere interpretation of a law

    that indeed would have the effect

    of moving members of the commu-

    nity from the cloisters of kollel to a

    real world of employment. Others,

    who have been fed only a diet ofrabbinically controlled media, may

    really think that Israeli troops plan

    to empty the yeshivot.

    In truth, Torah study and army

    services are not incompatible as

    has been proved by decades of stu-

    dents and soldiers who combine

    the two at Orthodox hesder yeshi-

    vot. But it is true that the iron grip

    of charedi rabbis on their followers

    may well be lessened as they enter

    the workforce and the broader

    Israeli society.

    Given the kind of hatred for most

    Jews evinced at the anti-draft rallies,

    that could only be a good thing. -LY

    The liminal seasonI

    ts always such an odd sea-

    son, these weeks between

    Purim and Pesach. The

    month sees a shift in

    weather as winter (usually) gives

    up its sad black-edged snowy

    grip and spring unfurls. It usually

    sees Jewish households in fran-

    tic clean-up-throw-out-scour-the-

    kitchen-scour-the-stores-buy-cook-

    buy -cook-free ze- fre eze -fr eez e

    mode, and at the same time spring

    clothes are pulled out of closets

    and drab winter wools stuffed

    gratefully away.

    This year, though, seems weird.

    Oddly unsettled.

    Maybe its the weather. Its been

    so cold for so long that spring

    seems unlikely, even though it

    began yesterday; right now the sky

    is the bright blue of April, but the

    air still has the pale, sharp-shad-

    owed look of winter.

    And maybe its because the

    world itself, always preca rious ,

    seems so much more so just now.

    Maybe its the plane that vanished

    into the clear blue sky of Malay-

    sia after flying over the Strait of

    Malucca exotic, nearly fairy-

    tale places and maybe its the

    resurgence of Cold War rhetoric

    in Ukraine and Crimea, a place

    whose name evokes Tennyson

    and Victorian wars. (The Crimea is

    where the Charge of the Light Bri-

    gade happened Stormd at with

    shot and shell,/ Boldly they rode

    and well,/ Into the jaws of Death,

    Into the mouth of Hell/ Rode the

    six hundred. Lets hope thats not

    a template for our century.)

    But things do change. The light

    does get richer. The shadows lose

    their edge. Pesach and its message

    of liberation draws closer by the

    day, beckoning at the other end of

    the charge of the kitchen brigade.

    Its spring. There really is hope.

    -JP

    Ask the rightquestionsSo, really, why be Jewish?

    With the arrival and maturation of my generatio

    the Millenials, the question Who is a Jew?

    rather pass.

    Forget the halachic dimensions to this en

    lessly debatable topic. Forget all the moralizing arguments ov

    the issue. Forget the demographically induced paranoia, th

    post-Holocaust hand-wringing, the Israeli legal maneuvering (n

    to mention the pandering that comes with it), and the denomi

    tional inighting. And for heavens sake! forget the Pew stu

    The fact is that Who is a Jew? is the wrong question. To ma

    tain our relevance to regain it, really the question we mu

    ask today is Why be Jewish?

    The problem with the who-is-a-Jew question is the bina

    premise from which it springs: that there is an us and a them

    (Worse, perhaps is the accompanying hope that we will one d

    delineate a set of criteria that deine who is an us and wh

    is a them.) The premise itself is

    boring and potenti ally harmful the question it gives rise to. It h

    iniltrated our national debate in

    variety of guises: Who is afi liat

    and who is unafiliated? Who is a

    insider and who is an outsider? Wh

    is a member and who is a non-me

    ber? Who i s inmarried and who

    intermarried?

    And, of utmost importance in t

    case of Millenials: Are your paren

    both Jewish? For 48 percent of

    the answer is no.

    In each version of the question, the implication is clear: O

    is good and one is bad. When we make these questions centr

    whatever our intention in asking them, the question that ma

    people will hear is this: Are you a good Jew or a bad Jew? An

    labeling people bad Jews probably is not the best way to dra

    them into deeper engagement with Jewish life.At the very least, the Millenials I know are bored with all th

    who-is-a-Jew business. And at the worst, the idea that this qu

    tion will be useful as we confront the challenges now before

    is a complete misunderstanding of the nature of the chang

    we see today. These changes profoundly affect every eleme

    of our communitys demographics, suggesting many new qu

    tions: geography (where are the Jews?) and migration (how d

    those Jews get there and why?); values (what does each indiv

    ual Jew believe?) and priorities (what does each Jew value an

    how much?); age (what do todays Jews need at each stage

    life?); afiliation (how does the changing nature of membersh

    in contemporary America affect our perception of the organiz

    David A.M. Wilensky is a program associate at Big Tent

    Judaism/Jewish Outreach Institute. He lives in South Orange,

    and he is single, straight, and utterly shameless.

    David A. M.Wilensky

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    Not standing idly byIt is necessary to work to end the scourge of gun violence

    It should be enough to be in the right, to have the moral

    and religious high ground.That often isnt enough, however, if what you want

    is real, fundamental change. As legendary community

    organizer Ernie Cortes teaches, there is no nice way to get

    change. Real change happens only when enough tension is

    created to force the change.

    Dont take my word for it think about it. Make a list of all

    the societal changes that have taken place purely because of

    a good sermon from a charismatic preacher. I bet its a really

    short list. The sermon might have moved people to action,

    but the change only came once the action itself was power-

    ful enough to create enough tension to help the people with

    the power to make the change see it in their self-interest to

    say yes.

    The moral argument alone didnt work for our people in

    Eypt. Never were more moving or resounding words uttered

    by a prophet than those of Moses: Let my people go. And yet

    it took 10 plagues and the deci-

    sion of the Israelites to participatein their own liberation before we

    actually went free. As we soon

    will say at our seders Dayenu.

    It should have been enough. The

    argument itself should have suf-

    iced. Pharaoh: 400 years of

    slavery is enough. Let my people

    go. But even Moshe Rabbeinu

    couldnt muster the power to

    liberate us with moral suasion

    alone.

    On the other hand, the power

    of faith, when combined with the power of faithful people,

    gives us the ability to make real and sustained change. It always

    has, and it can again. Think again of the list of fundamental

    changes weve seen in the last 100 years: womens suffrage;

    workers rights, the civil rights movement, and more only took

    place because of tension created by powerful people.Never have powerful people been more needed than on

    the issue of gun violence in America. The scourge has reached

    epic proportions. If 30,000 Americans were dying in a war

    each year, our streets would be illed by protests, and our reli-

    gious convictions would move us to action. And yet, it seems,

    we have grown so inured to gun violence that even the hor-

    rifying murders of innocent children in Newtown, Connecti-

    cut, more than a year ago havent driven our nation to action.

    If the moral outrage we felt after that tragic day didnt move

    us to change course on gun violence, what greater afirma-

    tion can there be that moral arguments arent in themselves

    suficient?

    My own father was gunned down 15 years ago. Some

    400,000 Americans have died by gun since then the over-

    whelming majority of them in murders that didnt make the

    evening news or break into your regularly scheduled program.

    Surely the cause reducing gun violence is the right

    cause. This is true after each massacre in an elementaryschool, movie theater, or supermarket. And yet, sadly, shock-

    ingly, in each case, being right isnt enough to compel change.

    Despite the work that so many organizations did to bring

    gun sanity to our legislators, lawmakers actively decided to

    violate a foundational principle of the Torah. Our government

    decided to stand idly by as our neighbors continue to bleed

    to stand by as the equivalent of a Newtowns worth of Ameri-

    cans continue to be gunned down every day.

    Many organizations continue to push Congress and the

    administration to play their part in reducing gun violence by

    passing a universal background check law that would close

    the gun show loophole that allows thousand of guns to be so

    each year without those vital checks. I applaud these effortBut our congregation has joined people of faith across Ne

    Jersey and across the country in taking a different approac

    Metro IAF, an organization of synagogues, churches, an

    mosques in 10 states across the country, began to ask a

    essential question. We began to ask ourselves: Who else h

    the power to affect change on the issue of gun violence?

    While there is no one solution to this multifaceted ch

    lenge, we believe that gun manufacturers also could d

    meaningful things to address this scourge. They could inve

    in research and development for safer gun technoloy, whi

    would help reduce accidental deaths and keep people fro

    being able to use guns that dont belong to them to do har

    And they could help reduce gun traficking by refusing to s

    their products through the 1 percent of dealers who sell a hi

    percentage of the guns used in crimes in America. They cou

    work as collaboratively with the ATF and law enforcement

    they do with organizations that seek to undermine every se

    sible gun law in the United States. And they could do all this without there needing to be a single new law passed by

    Congress that seems determined to stand idly by on a who

    host of vital issues our nation faces.

    Metro IAF knows that its not enough to be right on th

    issue. We have to muster the power necessary to get gun ma

    ufacturers to take these sensible steps none of which viola

    the Second Amendment, and none of which will take guns o

    of the hands of law-abiding citizens.

    In order to gather that power, we have approached ma

    ors and police chiefs in cities across the country. With o

    taxpayer dollars, our police and military buy 40 percent

    the guns sold in America. We are asking these municipaliti

    and the Obama administration as well, to use their purcha

    ing power to seek out manufacturers who will work colla

    oratively to reduce gun violence. As of this writing, 18 cit

    across America have resolved to join us in this effort to u

    the power of the mighty dollar to encourage better custom

    service from the manufacturers of the guns our police puchase. Mayors, police chiefs, county sheriffs, and governo

    in cities and states small and large cities like Mahwah, Jers

    City, Paterson, Hoboken, and Newark in New Jersey, as well

    in Rockland and Westchester counties in New York and cit

    in North Carolina, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Ohio, Wisco

    sin, the State of Illinois. Just this past week, New York City h

    come onto the list. All have joined us in issuing a Request f

    Information addressed to gun manufacturers. These cities a

    saying: Next time we buy weapons, well be looking not ju

    for technically excellent weapons, but also for companies th

    take their corporate responsibility seriously.

    And gun manufacturers already have begun to react

    the media, on the Internet, and even at Europes largest poli

    show last week, where I joined a group of clery in engagi

    with these companies.

    We dont need to add a verse to Dayenu. We dont ne

    to say, If only we had the power to reduce gun violenc

    Dayenu. We do have the power. This campaign, called DNot Stand Idly By, is gaining momentum, and we need mo

    partners. For more information, go to www.DoNotStandI

    lyBy.org.

    As people of faith, we can do more than bury the dead an

    lament the state of things. We can do more than wait on Co

    gress to act.

    We can act powerfully now. Let us begin.

    Finally.

    Joel Mosbacher is rabbi of Beth Haverim Shir Shalom

    in Mahwah.

    Rabbi JoelMosbacher

    Jewish community?); and reproduction (who do the Jews

    choose as their partners? and how do they raise their

    children?).

    Allow me to use myself as an example:

    48 percent of Jews born after 1980 are children of inter-

    marriage: Though their wedding ceremony was Jewish,

    only one of my parents was. (Remember when I told youto forget the Pew study? Yeah, I lied. Still, lets just try to

    stay on this side of the line between informed interest in

    the Pew study and unhealthy obsession with it, shall we?)

    20 percent or more of children of intermarriage who

    consider themselves Jewish are patrilineal: Like me,

    their father was Jewish when they were born, while their

    mother was not.

    61 percent of intermarried families are raising their

    children with a Jewish identity: I was circumcised as an

    infant, and later taken to Tot Shabbat at a nearby syna-

    gogue. I went to camp. I became bar mitzvah.

    59 percent of adult children of intermarriage under the

    age of 30 identify as Jews: Hi there.

    Jews by choice are not a novelty for us: My mother

    became a Jew when I was 7 years old. One of my high

    school best friends had converted when he was younger. I

    once went out with a Conservative rabbinical student who

    converted in college. Jews of color are not a novelty for us: The Garcias are

    one of the most visibly active families in my childhood

    synagogue. Ive had a number of Jewish peers who were

    adopted from East Asia. Im too young to remember what

    Israel looked like before the waves of immigration from

    Ethiopia.

    We have been both insiders and outsiders: I was deeply

    involved in our synagogue, my high school youth group,

    and Jewish life in general. Yet when I irst came into close

    contact with other strains of Judaism, I suddenly found

    myself on the outside.

    We receive mixed messages: Our synagogue was

    Reform, so my status as a patrilineal Jew wasnt an issue.

    But my tastes evolved, putting me for a time in a Conser-

    vative synagogue, where I underwent a conversion. (Not

    for me, but for the synagogue; Ive always considered

    myself an unqualiied Jew.)

    We are just not interested in denominations and fee-for-service membership: I go to services regularly some-

    times at informal, independent groups, sometimes at any

    one of a number of synagogues (none of which I am a

    member of).

    In short, our identities are complex, too complex to be

    explained with binaries. Change has arrived in the North

    American Jewish community. Bigger changes are on the

    way. If we plan to hold the interest of the entire Jewish

    community energetic Millenials, boomers bored with

    retirement, the LGBT community, intermarried families,

    Jews of color, families with young children well have to

    do a lot more. We are no longer in a battle to maintain our

    relevance, but to regain it. The question should no longer

    be Who is a Jew? The question now is Why be Jewish?

    The irst steps toward this are inclusion, diversity, and

    welcoming. Not just inclusion, but active inclusion; not

    just diversity, but embracing diversity; not just welcom-

    ing, but encountering everyone in the Jewish communityas individuals with unique stories, needs, interests, and

    longings.

    As people who already are comfortable and fortunate

    enough to be involved in Jewish life, we are called to learn

    about, embrace, and direct into deeper engagement

    these myriad individuals who make up the entire Jewish

    community.

    This is just a taste of the issues we will explore in this

    column. And I am your flawed guide: a Millenial, for better

    or for worse; a patrilineal Jew; the son of a convert; a child

    of intermarriage, and well, you get the idea.

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    JOANNE PALMER

    The story of the new mayor of

    Jersey City is a goulash a rich,

    highly seasoned, aromatic stew,full of disparate ingredients that

    somehow blend together.

    This variant is kosher.And for added authenticity, its

    Hungarian.

    Steven Fulops story is both as deeplyAmerican and as fully Jewish as one per-

    sons story could be it is our own 21st-century version of the great American

    dream.

    Cooking alongside it is the story of Jer-sey City, the states second largest, with

    a century-long history of corruption and

    bossism that Mr. Fulop is well positioned

    to turn around.Mr. Fulops story starts with his grand-

    parents. All four were born in Transylva-nia, the heavily wooded, mountainous,

    lushly beautiful region that has changed

    hands between Hungary and Romania. Asthis story begins, it still was part of Hun-

    gary. World War II came late there; his

    mothers parents, the Kohns, were takenfrom the ghetto toward its end. His grand-

    father, Alexander, went to a transit camp,

    and his grandmother, Rosa, was on one ofthe last transports to Auschwitz in April

    1944.

    Her story is so painful that when her

    son-in-law, Arthur Fulop, tells it, his eyes

    ill, even though it is a story he has been

    telling for decades.There were two lines at Auschwitz

    when she got there, he said. One was

    for the very young and the very old; theother was for people who could work. In

    between them, making selections, decree-

    ing death, was Josef Mengele, radiatingevil.

    Mrs. Kohn clutched her 20-month-oldbaby, Eva, who was about to be sent to theother line. What happens to them? she

    asked a guard, the story goes; he pointed

    up to the black smoke fouling the sky.They are turned into that, he said. She

    screamed and tried to run, and a guard

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    hit her on the head with a rifle, knockin

    her out. She survived, and so did her huband. The rest of the family, including Ev

    did not; Rosa Kohn went on to give birto Carmen Kohn Fulop, who was born Romania in 1954.

    The family had been comfortable

    Transylvania, but under Nicolae CeauesRomania went Communist, the family lo

    what it had been able to reclaim, and M

    Fulops father was badly beaten as goosearched for gold coins they believed h

    to have hidden.In 1967, the family managed to fl

    Romania for Brooklyn, where my paren

    left everything they knew to better thechildren, Carmen Fulop said.

    Arthur Fulops family lived in Tg-Mure

    a small town about 120 miles from hfuture wifes home, in a place so remo

    that war never fully touched it. He w

    born in 1947, right after its end.In 1964, the Fulops, who had applie

    for a passport, were given one and to

    that it would be operational for just oweek. They left immediately, with almo

    nothing. After a stop in a transit camp

    Rome, they decided to go to Israel. W

    Steven Fulop strides up to the

    flag-bedecked podium outside

    City Hall on his inauguration day.

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    had family in the United States, but I said,

    No. I want to go to my country, ArthurFulop said, and so they all headed east.

    The familys time in Israel was not a suc-cess. The nation was in a tough economic

    bind, and it was not particularly welcom-

    ing to newcomers the chadashim, whom

    the old-timers, the vatikim, thought ofas competition, the Fulops said. Arthur

    Fulops father, Bentsi, bought a truck,

    but the loads that he hoped to haul rarelymaterialized. After three years, he, his

    wife, Elizabeth, and their younger songave up and moved to the United States,

    where their lives inally grew roots.

    Arthur, though, was 18, and had beendrafted into the Israel Defense Forces like

    everyone else his age. Toward the end of

    his stint, the Six-Day War broke out; hewas a sniper in the elite Golani Brigade

    during that time.

    When he talks about it now, the nor-mally exuberant Mr. Fulop does not

    becom e less vocal but the enery that

    propels his words becomes almost visiblydarker. It was a very hard time; he saw

    things that he wishes he had not seen but

    cannot unsee. It left him with the strongfeeling that war comes from demonizing

    your opponents rather than allowing your-

    self to see them as human, and that verylittle is worth the devastation that such

    hatred causes.

    The Fulops live in a seemingly middle-size house in Edison that opens up on

    both s ides to reveal many immaculately

    kept rooms once youre safely inside. Thatis where they brought up their three sons,

    Daniel, Steven, and Richard. Arthur Fulop

    owns a deli in Newark, down the streetfrom the courthouse. He took it over from

    his parents (They bought it in 1968, rightafter the riots, when real estate there

    became affordable, Steven said). Carmen

    Fulop runs a service bureau for immi-grants next door.

    They both work hard, they hold dear the

    values of the country in which they couldlive free and prosperous lives, and they are

    deeply connected to their Jewish roots.

    They passed on these beliefs to their sons.Steven Fulop, like his brothers, went

    to the Rabbi Pesach Raymon Yeshiva in

    Edison, and then to the Solomon Schech-ter School of Union and Essex, as todays

    Golda Och Academy in West Orange then

    was named. He left it in 11th grade for

    public school, where he could play soc-cer more seriously. The family belonged

    to the local Conservative shul, Neve Sha-lom, and the boys went to Jewish summer

    camps and USY.

    After high school, Steven Fulop went toBinghamton University, part of New York

    States public college network. He spenthis junior year abroad at Oxford Univer-

    sity, studying inance at New College.

    When he got back, he took a job at Gold-man Sachs in Chicago, where his older

    brother already worked. I was hired into

    asset management with mutual funds,then moved into equity trading, he said.

    Goldman moved him back to the NewYork ofice in 2000, and Mr. Fulop boughta condo in Jersey City. He was not politi-

    cally active I hadnt even registered to

    vote, he said but Jersey Cit y was per-fect. It was back in New Jersey, close to his

    parents, right across the river from his job,

    and booming, so that any real estate dealthere was likely to be advantageous. Life

    was good.

    Mr. Fulop was at work at 1 New YorkPlaza in lower Manhattan on September 11,

    2001. I felt the building shake when theplanes hit, he said. It shook something

    inside him too. Soon I started talking to

    recruiters, he said.Thats as in armed forces recruiters.

    I didnt know anything when I started,

    he said. I was trying to do the research,to understand the different branches. Do I

    have to shave my head? Can we igure out

    some other way so that I dont have to doit? When I asked the recruiters, they said

    no, it doesnt work that way.

    I went to the enlisted side, he contin-ued. I didnt have to I could have been

    an oficer in the reserves, but I didnt want

    to commit to what might possibly becomefour years of active duty, and I was willing

    to serve right away.

    After considering his options, StevenFulop enlisted in the Marines, and soon he

    found himself in South Carolina, in boot

    camp on Parris Island.He was 25 years old.

    I always thought that military service

    was important, he said. But in the 90s,it didnt seem relevant. I would always say

    to myself that if it ever were necessary forme to do it, I would do it.

    And then 9/11, and I thought OK. Here

    we are. Its the crossroads.I was young enough. I didnt have kids.

    I was in good shape.

    So he enlisted.My parents were distraught, he said.

    I was making good money, having a good

    life. And they were scared.But it was their values that attracted him

    to service. I had and have a lot of appre-

    ciation for this country, he said. Its myfamilys sweat equity. I view my service as

    a minor down payment on that.

    It was very complicated emotionally, his

    parents agree. When Steven irst told methat he wanted to join the Marines, I said

    no, Arthur Fulop said. But then I saidSteven, you have to follow your heart.

    If your heart tells you this is what you

    must do, then you must do it.His Jewishness accompanied Steven

    Fulop to boot camp.

    Parris Island which is notorious forits toughness, and the toughness of the

    Marines it turns out is very structured,he said. Every second of every minute of

    Above, Steven Fulop as a

    grade-school student at

    the Rabbi Pesach Raymon

    Yeshiva in Edison; elsewhere,

    as a Marine.

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    other religions beyond the basic Chris-

    tian denominations. It goes above andbeyond to make sure that you can prac-

    tice, he said. The only time that isntstructured is on Sundays, when youhave religious services. (OK, so they

    havent gotten this whole Jewish thing

    down exactly right yet) Thats also thetime when recruits are allowed to write

    letters.

    There is no Jewish presence on ParrisIsland, but they bring in a rabbi from

    Buford, South Carolina, Mr. Fulop said.

    I was the only one there. It was the onlytime the drill instructors leave you alone.

    We could have a conversation. Therabbi asked how I was doing, and I said

    that I was starving. He asked what I

    wanted, and I said dessert. So he broughtin dessert every week.

    I would come back to say to people,

    Look, I have a good thing going on. Sosome of these kids would come with me.

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    they couldnt do a thing about it.As for calling the other enlisted men

    kids they were, at least relatively

    speaking. I was old for boot camp, Mr.Fulop said. Everyone else was 18 or 19

    years old.

    It really gives you a perspective onwho is in our armed forces.

    Boot camp was 13 weeks long. My

    parents were at my graduation. It wasthe irst time they really got to see that

    culture, Mr. Fulop said. It was incred-

    ibly foreign. His parents agree, but theysay as well that they felt extraordinary

    pride.After Parris Island, Mr. Fulop got to

    experience culture shock in the other

    direction, as he reentered GoldmanSachs.

    They put me on their homepage, he

    said. The irm didnt know exactly whatto make of Mr. Fulop, but they did know

    that he presented them with a pub-

    lic relations bonanza; of course, giventhat the irm had just suffered through

    the terrors of 9/11, he also was given

    real emotional support there. Later,other employees enlisted or joined the

    reserves, but he was the irst. There

    was no model yet for how to handle the

    situation.Three months later, in January 2003,

    he went to Quantico, Virginia, for reserveduty, and the commanding oficers are

    going around, asking for all sorts of per-

    sonal information.You could see where it was going.

    They got us all together on Saturday

    night and said, You are dismissed for theweekend. Come back on Tuesday with

    your powers of attorney and your wills.

    You are being deployed.Youre in shock, he said. You kn

    its coming, but.

    Carmen and Arthur Fulop had a moest house in the Poconos, their son sa

    and he went there on his way home froQuantico. It must have been 2 a.m., bthey heard me come in, he said.

    As soon as my mom saw me, s

    started crying. She knew.Remember, Mrs. Fulop said, the r

    son for the American invasion of Ir

    was Saddam Husseins arsenal of weons of mass destruction. We know no

    that the arsenal was a igment of ov

    heated imagination, but then we did nAs far as she knew, Carmen Fulop w

    saying goodbye to a son who might

    gassed just as surely as the baby sisshe never had the chance to meet h

    been.Early that Monday morning, Mr. Ful

    went to his ofice. I go to my desk, a

    I write an email to everyone I had evmet in my life, he said. Friends, fa

    ily, co-workers, everyone. I say that I a

    leaving on Tuesday, being deployed, aI want to thank people for being part

    my life.

    I have my jacket on already beforhit send. I start walking out, and som

    people see me and start clapping for m

    and I was crying, and they were cryinSo I got my power of attorney, a

    my will, and on Tuesday we flew fro

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    to Pendleton, and then back

    home. And then I was backat Goldman all within one

    year.

    I look back and I feel thatI got more out of the Marine

    Corps as a person and as ahuman being than it got fromme, he added.

    Mr. Fulop stayed at Gold-

    man for a few years and thenmoved on, pursuing what

    would have looked like a

    normal upward career path,the journey someone clearly

    smart and ambitious would

    be expected to take. He con-tinued to live in Jersey City,

    active in his condo asso-ciation but not involved in

    politics.

    But remember that gou-lash? There was that other dish stew-

    ing alongside it, this one made up of

    the rather less appetizing congealedmess that was local Jersey politics. Soon,

    they would come together on Steven

    Fulops plate, but irst, lets look at theingredients.

    When he came back to Jersey City,

    Mr. Fulop said, Robert Menendez, theDemocrat who is now the states senior

    U.S. senator, was his congressman. He

    also was chair of the House Democraticcaucus, the most senior Hispanic federal

    legislator in the country, and the states

    most senior House member.New Jerseys Frank Lautenberg, then

    a U.S. senator, resigned in 2001 he ran

    again and took the states other seat in2003 and everyone assumed that Mr.

    Menendez would replace him. But Jon

    Corzine came in out of the woodworkand bought the seat, Mr. Fulop said.

    Menendez decided to get more involvedin local politics in Hudson County. He

    helped get Glenn Cunningham elected

    mayor here Cunningham was the irstAfrican-American mayor in the city.

    The mayor of Jersey City always has

    been a very powerful position, ever sincethe days of Frank Hague, he added.

    (Frank Hague was mayor from 1917

    until 1947. He was an old-style machinepolitician; he strong-armed, threatened,

    blustered, and controlled. He was cor-

    rupt, and he also was eficient. Potholeswere illed, snow was removed; the city

    worked.)

    The friendship between Mr. Menendez

    and Mr. Cunningham izzled, though,and soon they became nasty enemies,

    Mr. Fulop said.Soon afterward, Mr. Fulop was invited

    to City Hall so he could be honored with

    a proclamation acclaiming his war ser-vice. That proclamation is hanging out-

    side my door now, Mr. Fulop said. It

    changed my life.Mr. Cunningham also was a war vet-

    eran. He asked Mr. Fulop many ques-tions about his service, and about how

    he juggled it with his work on Wa

    Street. He asked me a lot of questio

    about the deployment, but I didnt thinanything of it, Mr. Fulop said. Peop

    always asked.Meanwhile, Mr. Fulop was working o

    an M.B.A. from NYU and an M.P.A.

    masters in public administration froColumbia. The work at his condo asso

    ation took some time, he had a full-tim

    job, and he st ill had a commitment reserve duty. He did not have spare tim

    he was trying to ill; he did not have an

    spare time to breathe.And then, about four months later

    and I hadnt spoken to the mayor sin

    then I get a phone call from the deuty mayor of Jersey City. He said, Th

    mayor would like to talk to you. I thin

    its strange. And then he gets on th

    phone and says, Id like you to come tomorrow. I have a few things Id like

    talk about.I had called the ofice to compla

    about parking. I thanked him I was su

    prised that hed handle it himself, and soon! But he didnt know what I was tal

    ing about. He said I really should come

    tomorrow, and I said OK, I would, af tthe markets close.

    We went into that ofice, and we sthere, its me and him and some of h

    political supporters and assembly pe

    ple, and he starts talking about gettininvolved in politics when youre youn

    in your 20s. Sometimes you lose befo

    you can win, he said, no matter whyoure running for.

    I was 26.I had no idea what he was talkin

    about.

    Then, Mr. Fulop said, Mr. Cunnin

    ham started talking about his sour reltionship with Mr. Menendez. As it turn

    out, Mr. Menendez planned on runni

    a full slate of oficially approved canddates for local ofices, and Mr. Cunnin

    ham wanted a slate to oppose it.

    Even when Mr. Fulop grasped that hwas being asked to run, he assume

    This was a target the Syrians used during the

    Six Day War; fear and hatred, Arthur Fulop be

    lieves, lead only to tragedy and bloodshed.

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