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02 “Do not believe what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher” Gautama Buddha QUERIES RELATING TO LANGUAGE SKILLS Do you find grammar confusing? Do you get stuck with words when writing a letter, an essay or a blog? Do you have a fear of public speaking? Or do you simply want to improve your communication skills? Times NIE is here to help you to master the intricacies of the English language. Just shoot us your queries on toinie175 @gmail.com Write an effective speech 1 The first thing you’ll want to do is work on writing a well-organised, engaging speech. Because even if you’ve got a great speaking voice or a great deal of charisma, you won’t give a good speech if your material isn’t any good. Rehearse, rehearse, rehearse 2 Nothing becomes muscle memo- ry unless you practice relentlessly. If you have a big speech coming up, make time every day to practice. Pre- pare your goals and the content well ahead of time. This can be done while driving, exercising, in the car, on a plane...anywhere. Practice with distractions 3 Once I know the content, I like to add a little bit of distraction to test how well prepared I really am. For example you can turn on the TV. Anything that adds a little more challenge. Watch yourself in the mirror 4 Practice your speech in front of the mirror as if you were speak- ing directly to someone. If you real- ly want to learn how to improve pub- lic speaking skills then… Pay attention to: Your facial expressions Your gestures Your body movements How welcoming you appear When you have gentle expressions and a calm demeanour when you speak, you will be more welcoming to your audi- ence. Do it in the morning, preferably as a part of your morning routine. Give your speech to another person 5 There are plenty of people you can practice on. Be sure to tell the person to be completely honest with you in their critique. Examples of people you can prac- tice on: A significant other Your friends Your parents Your dog Speaking directly to another person will help relax you and give you ex- perience with getting feedback from someone. If they have questions about your speech (not the dog), it is likely that members of an audience will have the same questions. Know your venue 6 “Don’t wait until you arrive onstage to realise that there’s a post block- ing your view of half the audience, or that there are problems with the audio visual equipment provided,” says pub- lic speaking coach Ian Cunliffe. Re- search the venue, become fa- miliar with the schedule of events surrounding your pres- entation, and test the equip- ment beforehand. Visualise your success 7 Sports psychologists have proven that an ath- lete’s ability to vividly visu- alise his or her success cre- ates a higher win rate, she says. “Before your next pres- entation, mentally walk yourself through the pres- entation. Picture yourself speaking with confidence and poise; see your audience responding positively.” Practice positive self-talk 8 “Say to yourself, ‘I am a dynamic speaker.’ ‘I am enthusiastic and engaging.’ ‘I am prepared and confi- dent.’” As Henry Ford once said, “Whether you think you can or think you can’t — you are right.” Take a deep breath 9 Find a private area be- forehand where you can do some light stretching or a few knee-bends. Another op- tion is to take a brisk walk down the hall and back. This rids the body of excess ener- gy. In addition, take several deep breaths. Inhale through the nose on a slow count of three; and exhale through the mouth on a slow count of three. Memorise your opening 10 This empowers you to start strong and make a confident first im- pression despite nervous- ness. Memorise the ‘three rules’ 11 First, they believe you’re the expert, so don’t tell them otherwise. Second, they want you to succeed, so they’re on your side. Third, they won’t know when you make a mistake, so don’t announce it. Smile sincerely 12 Sincere smiling emits chemicals in the brain that calms the nerves and promotes a sense of well being. Plus, it shows your audience that you’re happy to see them and enthusiastic about the message. Hi friends. We are We tell you how to tackle your fear and anxiety to deliver a memorable speech MIND YOUR LANGUAGE Every time you give a presentation, take some time afterwards to think about what worked and what failed. If it went well, consider what made it go well. If it went badly, analyse where and how it went wrong so that next time you can change your strategy and ensure the same thing doesn’t hap- pen again. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES (AND SUCCESSES) P unctuation is so boring, right? Who cares about those pesky commas, periods, and excla- mation points? In the business world, they matter. A lot. Sloppy punc- tuation can undercut your intelligence and make people question your ability. Sad but true. Here are eight punctua- tion mistakes to avoid. Your reputation will thank you! Run-on sentences 1 The first punctuation mistake on our list occurs when there’s no punctua- tion at all because the sentence keeps going when the writer should add a pe- riod but instead continues on and there’s no end to the line and the reader is worn out but there’s no period in sight so when does it all end? Whew. See what I mean? Rewritten: The first punctuation mistake on our list occurs when there’s no punctuation at all. The sentence keeps going when the writer should add a period. Otherwise, the reader is worn out, but there’s no period in sight. When does it all end? Read your sentence aloud. Does it feel like you go on too long? If so, add a period or two to break up different thoughts/ideas. Way too many commas 2 A sentence with too many commas, makes our writing hard to process, because we include unnatural stops in the flow of a thought, and it’s frustrat- ing, for the reader. Wasn’t that last sentence annoying? There’s no easy answer for reducing comma usage. The best course of action is to read your work aloud and look for places where a comma causes an un- necessary pause. Double exclamation points 3 Double exclamations have no place in a work email. I make no apologies for that rule. There’s a difference be- tween energetic and overkill, and it hap- pens somewhere between ! and !! If you’re on gchat or talking to a friend through gmail, go nuts!!! But when it comes to work, the dou- ble exclamation is double trouble. You need people to feel comfortable using you or you firm. If you drop !! every- where, it could be seen as a red flag. Ugly hyphens 4 I think there’s a clean way to use hy- phens and an ugly way. The unsightly approach? Something like: Lesson 1- Introductions The hyphen right up against the “1” looks sloppy. In my opinion, there are two ways to improve “Lesson 1- Introductions.” 1. “Lesson 1 - Introductions” 2. “Lesson 1: Introductions” Option #1 is a dash with space on either side. Option #2 is a colon. Both choices look better than “Lesson 1-” because they’re more orderly. Whenever you need to sep- arate words for emphasis (ex: in a bullet- ed list or main title), look out for the mis- placed hyphen and make the correction. Emojis 5 You need a strong relationship with a business associate before you start including smiley faces, “prayer hands” and whatever else. For email introduc- tions and other business correspon- dence, emojis are a no-go. ALL CAPS 6 Emails in all caps FEEL LIKE THE WRITER IS SCREAMING AT YOU. Unclick caps lock, start over and write sentences with normal capitalisation. The contraction ‘y’all’ 7 As in, a hybrid of “you” and “all.” For example, “Great seeing y’all at the conference!” Why no “y’all”? It’s too casual and colloquial. Two spaces after a period 8 Writing emails or other online con- tent calls for one space after a peri- od. Two spaces over and over through- out a blog post or website content will drive readers crazy. I mean, crazy. One space and you’re done. Every time. SOURCE: BUSINESS INSIDER 8 You need to know someone well before you start including emojis in email E veryone likes getting compliments. But sometimes, even the nicest- sounding compliments are actual- ly insults in disguise. You may not even re- alise it when your own words could be hurt- ing someone’s feelings. Here are 6 phrases that sound nice at first glance, but really aren’t: 1. ‘Actually’ When someone cooks you din- ner and you say, “This actually came out really well,” it implies you had low expectations to begin with. Same goes for “You actually look really good” and “that actually makes a lot of sense.” 2. ‘Don’t take this the wrong way’ This phrase drives people crazy. For one, it usually pre- cedes an insult or hurtful comment. Although people may say it with good inten- tions, telling someone how to interpret something can come off as avoiding responsibility for the fallout. 3. ‘Good luck with that’ Speakers need to be careful that their genuine wish- es of good luck aren’t confused with this statement, which often comes off as dismissive and sceptical. 4.‘Interesting’ “Interesting” is a positive descriptor, but it can be very telling when it’s the only word you can think of to describe something. Praising some- one’s “interesting look” or saying they made an “interesting” choice could raise the question of whether you actually liked the moves, or whether they simply made you think. 5. ‘Pal’ “Pal” may be a synonym for friend, but when two strangers say it, they almost always mean it sar- castically. SOURCE: BUSINESS INSIDER BALANCE OF TRADE: simply the dif- ference between the value of exports and value of imports. POSITIVE BALANCE OF TRADE: a trade surplus is exporting more than importing. TRADE DEFICIT: balance of payments outcome when spending on imports exceed revenue received from exports. TRADING BLOCKS: groups of nations that eliminate trade barriers between and among member nations. PROTECTIONISTS: person who wants to protect domestic producers against foreign competition with tariff, quotas, and other trade barriers. INFANT INDUSTRIES: a new industry, which in its early stages experiences relative difficulty or is absolutely inca- pable in competing with established competitors abroad. WORLD TRADE ORGANISATION: international organisation that estab- lishes rules for international trade and helps resolve disputes between mem- ber nations. ECONOMIES OF SCALE: Economies of scale is a term that refers to the reduction of per-unit costs through an increase in production volume. This idea is also referred to as diminishing marginal cost. FREIGHT: The amount of money paid for transporting goods. TRADE VOCABULARY 5 WORDS/PHRASES that sound nice, but aren’t 12 SIMPLE PUBLIC SPEAKING TIPS TO IMPRESS ANY AUDIENCE A still from Dumb and Dumber To PUNCTUATION MISTAKES THAT MAKE YOU LOOK DUMB

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Page 1: Gautama Buddha 12 SIMPLE PUBLIC SPEAKING …nie-images.s3.amazonaws.com/gall_content/2019/11/2019_11...8 Writing emails or other online con-tent calls for one space after a peri-od

02 “Do not believe what your teacher tells youmerely out of respect for the teacher”

Gautama Buddha

QUERIES RELATING TOLANGUAGE SKILLSDo you find grammar confusing? Do you getstuck with words when writing a letter, anessay or a blog? Do you have a fear of publicspeaking? Or do you simply want to improveyour communication skills? Times NIE ishere to help you to master the intricacies ofthe English language. Just shoot us yourqueries on

toinie175 @gmail.com

Write an effectivespeech1The first thing you’ll want to do is

work on writing a well-organised,engaging speech. Because even ifyou’ve got a great speaking voice ora great deal of charisma, you won’tgive a good speech if your materialisn’t any good.

Rehearse, rehearse,rehearse

2 Nothing becomes muscle memo-ry unless you practice relentlessly.

If you have a big speech coming up,make time every day to practice. Pre-pare your goals and the content wellahead of time. This can be done whiledriving, exercising, in the car, on aplane...anywhere.

Practice with distractions

3 Once I know the content, I liketo add a little bit of distraction

to test how well prepared I reallyam. For example you can turn onthe TV. Anything that adds a littlemore challenge.

Watch yourself in the mirror

4 Practice your speech in front ofthe mirror as if you were speak-

ing directly to someone. If you real-ly want to learn how to improve pub-lic speaking skills then…Pay attention to:➤➤ Your facial expressions➤➤ Your gestures➤➤ Your body movements➤➤ How welcoming you appearWhen you have gentle expressions anda calm demeanour when you speak, youwill be more welcoming to your audi-ence. Do it in the morning, preferablyas a part of your morning routine.

Give your speech toanother person

5 There are plenty of people youcan practice on. Be sure to tell the

person to be completely honest withyou in their critique.Examples of people you can prac-tice on:➤➤ A significant other➤➤ Your friends➤➤ Your parents➤➤ Your dogSpeaking directly to another personwill help relax you and give you ex-perience with getting feedback fromsomeone. If they have questions aboutyour speech (not the dog), it is likelythat members of an audience willhave the same questions.

Know your venue

6 “Don’t wait until you arrive onstageto realise that there’s a post block-

ing your view of half the audience, orthat there are problems with the audiovisual equipment provided,” says pub-lic speaking coach Ian Cunliffe. Re-

search the venue, become fa-miliar with the schedule ofevents surrounding your pres-entation, and test the equip-ment beforehand.

Visualise your success

7 Sports psychologistshave proven that an ath-

lete’s ability to vividly visu-alise his or her success cre-ates a higher win rate, shesays. “Before your next pres-entation, mentally walkyourself through the pres-entation. Picture yourselfspeaking with confidenceand poise; see your audienceresponding positively.”

Practice positiveself-talk

8 “Say to yourself, ‘I am adynamic speaker.’ ‘I am

enthusiastic and engaging.’‘I am prepared and confi-dent.’” As Henry Ford oncesaid, “Whether you thinkyou can or think you can’t —you are right.”

Take a deep breath

9 Find a private area be-forehand where you can

do some light stretching or afew knee-bends. Another op-tion is to take a brisk walkdown the hall and back. Thisrids the body of excess ener-gy. In addition, take severaldeep breaths. Inhale through

the nose on a slow count ofthree; and exhale through themouth on a slow count ofthree.

Memorise youropening

10 This empowers youto start strong and

make a confident first im-pression despite nervous-ness.

Memorise the‘three rules’

11 First, they believeyou’re the expert, so

don’t tell them otherwise.Second, they want you tosucceed, so they’re on yourside. Third, they won’t knowwhen you make a mistake, sodon’t announce it.

Smile sincerely

12 Sincere smilingemits chemicals in

the brain that calms thenerves and promotes asense of well being. Plus, itshows your audience thatyou’re happy to see themand enthusiastic about the message.

Hi friends. We are

We tell you how to tackle your fearand anxiety to deliver a

memorable speech

MIND YOUR LANGUAGE

Every time you give apresentation, take sometime afterwards to thinkabout what worked andwhat failed. If it wentwell, consider whatmade it go well. If itwent badly, analysewhere and how it wentwrong so that next timeyou can change yourstrategy and ensure thesame thing doesn’t hap-pen again.

LEARN FROM YOURMISTAKES (AND

SUCCESSES)

Punctuation is so boring, right?Who cares about those peskycommas, periods, and excla-mation points? In the business

world, they matter. A lot. Sloppy punc-tuation can undercut your intelligenceand make people question your ability.

Sad but true. Here are eight punctua-tion mistakes to avoid. Your reputationwill thank you!

Run-on sentences

1The first punctuation mistake on ourlist occurs when there’s no punctua-

tion at all because the sentence keepsgoing when the writer should add a pe-riod but instead continues on and there’sno end to the line and the reader is wornout but there’s no period in sight so whendoes it all end?

Whew. See what I mean?Rewritten:The first punctuation mistake on our

list occurs when there’s no punctuationat all. The sentence keeps going when thewriter should add a period. Otherwise, thereader is worn out, but there’s no period

in sight. When does it all end? Read yoursentence aloud. Does it feel like you goon too long? If so, add a period or two tobreak up different thoughts/ideas.

Way too many commas

2A sentence with too many commas,makes our writing hard to process,

because we include unnatural stops inthe flow of a thought, and it’s frustrat-ing, for the reader.Wasn’t that last sentence annoying?There’s no easy answer for reducing

comma usage. The best course of actionis to read your work aloud and look forplaces where a comma causes an un-necessary pause.

Double exclamation points

3Double exclamations have no placein a work email. I make no apologies

for that rule. There’s a difference be-tween energetic and overkill, and it hap-pens somewhere between ! and !!

If you’re on gchat or talking to afriend through gmail, go nuts!!!

But when it comes to work, the dou-ble exclamation is double trouble. Youneed people to feel comfortable usingyou or you firm. If you drop !! every-where, it could be seen as a red flag.

Ugly hyphens

4I think there’s a clean way to use hy-phens and an ugly way.The unsightly approach?Something like:Lesson 1- IntroductionsThe hyphen right up against the “1”

looks sloppy.In my opinion, there are two ways

to improve “Lesson 1- Introductions.”1. “Lesson 1 - Introductions”2. “Lesson 1: Introductions”Option #1 is a dash with space on

either side.Option #2 is a colon. Both choices look

better than “Lesson 1-” because they’remore orderly. Whenever you need to sep-arate words for emphasis (ex: in a bullet-ed list or main title), look out for the mis-placed hyphen and make the correction.

Emojis

5You need a strong relationship witha business associate before you start

including smiley faces, “prayer hands”and whatever else. For email introduc-tions and other business correspon-dence, emojis are a no-go.

ALL CAPS

6Emails in all caps FEEL LIKE THEWRITER IS SCREAMING AT YOU.

Unclick caps lock, start over and writesentences with normal capitalisation.

The contraction ‘y’all’

7As in, a hybrid of “you” and “all.”For example, “Great seeing y’all at

the conference!” Why no “y’all”? It’s toocasual and colloquial.

Two spaces after a period

8 Writing emails or other online con-tent calls for one space after a peri-

od. Two spaces over and over through-out a blog post or website content willdrive readers crazy. I mean, crazy. Onespace and you’re done. Every time.

SOURCE: BUSINESS INSIDER

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You need to know someone well beforeyou start including emojis in email

Everyone likes getting compliments.But sometimes, even the nicest-sounding compliments are actual-

ly insults in disguise. You may not even re-alise it when your own words could be hurt-ing someone’s feelings. Here are 6phrases that sound nice at firstglance, but really aren’t:

1. ‘Actually’When someone cooks you din-

ner and you say,“This actuallycame out reallywell,” it impliesyou had lowexpectations tobegin with.

Same goes for “Youactually look really

good” and “that actuallymakes a lot of sense.”

2. ‘Don’t take thisthe wrong way’

This phrase drives peoplecrazy. For one, it usually pre-cedes an insult or hurtfulcomment. Although peoplemay say it with good inten-tions, telling someone how tointerpret something can come

off as avoiding responsibility for the fallout.

3. ‘Good luck with that’Speakers need to be careful that their genuine wish-es of good luck aren’t confused with this statement,which often comes off as dismissive and sceptical.

4.‘Interesting’“Interesting” is a positive descriptor, but it canbe very telling when it’s the only word you canthink of to describe something. Praising some-one’s “interesting look” or saying they made an“interesting” choice could raise the question ofwhether you actually liked the moves, or whetherthey simply made you think.

5. ‘Pal’ “Pal” may be a synonym for friend, but when twostrangers say it, they almost always mean it sar-castically. SOURCE: BUSINESS INSIDER

BALANCE OF TRADE: simply the dif-ference between the value of exportsand value of imports.

POSITIVE BALANCE OF TRADE: atrade surplus is exporting more thanimporting.

TRADE DEFICIT: balance of paymentsoutcome when spending on importsexceed revenue received from exports.

TRADING BLOCKS: groups of nationsthat eliminate trade barriers betweenand among member nations.

PROTECTIONISTS: person who wantsto protect domestic producers againstforeign competition with tariff, quotas,and other trade barriers.

INFANT INDUSTRIES: a new industry,which in its early stages experiencesrelative difficulty or is absolutely inca-pable in competing with establishedcompetitors abroad.

WORLD TRADE ORGANISATION:international organisation that estab-lishes rules for international trade andhelps resolve disputes between mem-ber nations.

ECONOMIES OF SCALE: Economiesof scale is a term that refers to thereduction of per-unit costs through anincrease in production volume. Thisidea is also referred to as diminishingmarginal cost.

FREIGHT: The amount of money paidfor transporting goods.

TRADE VOCABULARY

5 WORDS/PHRASESthat sound nice, but aren’t

12 SIMPLE PUBLIC SPEAKING TIPSTO IMPRESS ANY AUDIENCE

A still from Dumb and Dumber To

PUNCTUATION MISTAKES THAT MAKE YOU LOOK DUMB