family matters presentation
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Workshop Held at ROFC on the 22 August 2010. Conducted by> Rev. MV KotuTRANSCRIPT
Welcome To Family Welcome To Family MattersMatters
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22 August 201022 August 2010ROFCROFC
Psalm 127:1-2Psalm 127:1-2
Survey Done at TFTSurvey Done at TFT
Covering different Covering different challenges at different challenges at different
phases in Marriagephases in Marriage
Presented by: MVKPresented by: MVK
A total of A total of 162162 couples which couples which make up over 90% of the make up over 90% of the total number of married total number of married
people at TFT indicated their people at TFT indicated their different challenges in writingdifferent challenges in writing
The youngest couple’s The youngest couple’s average age is 25 and the average age is 25 and the
oldest is <55 yrsoldest is <55 yrsPLEASE NOTE THATPLEASE NOTE THAT
These married people are These married people are two generations aparttwo generations apart
These 162 couples share These 162 couples share a combined total of a combined total of 17101710
years of Marital years of Marital experience, Challenges experience, Challenges
and Victoriesand Victories
This is how we came to this This is how we came to this figurefigure
Example:Example:Couple A- 4 yrsCouple A- 4 yrsCouple B – 7 yrsCouple B – 7 yrs
Couple C – 15 yrsCouple C – 15 yrsCouple D – 30 yrsCouple D – 30 yrs
Total – 56yrsTotal – 56yrs
Amongst some of the Amongst some of the challenges experienced werechallenges experienced were
----------------------------1.Financial challenges 1.Financial challenges
2.Sexual issues 2.Sexual issues 3.Communication 3.Communication
4.Intolerance 4.Intolerance 5.Involvement by 5.Involvement by parentsparents
Top 6 Challenges At TFT Top 6 Challenges At TFT
Communication – 38.27%Communication – 38.27% Finances – 29%Finances – 29%Spirituality – 28%Spirituality – 28%Children – 18.5%Children – 18.5%Neutrality – 16.04%Neutrality – 16.04%Sexual – 9.87%Sexual – 9.87%
The Survey Reveals that The Survey Reveals that somesome of ofthese challenges are these challenges are
* Age related* Age related* Socio Economical related* Socio Economical related
* Culture and Tradition related* Culture and Tradition related* Different religious beliefs* Different religious beliefs
* Peer Pressure Related* Peer Pressure Related* Others simply result from * Others simply result from
negligence and/or Ignorancenegligence and/or Ignorance
God’s perfect planGod’s perfect plan
The way we experience itThe way we experience it
Divorces at Different YearsDivorces at Different Years
Divorce Stats SA.Divorce Stats SA.
True or false ?True or false ?
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