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Startinga businessStarting

a business

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10%0%Today’s

Top 10

Today’s

Top 10 Overuse ofveruse of

Used up Savingssed up Savings6%6%

15%5%op 10“Stress” in the

Family

Top 10“Stress” in the

Family

Overuse ofcredit cardsOveruse ofcredit cards

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House too small for thefamily

House too small for thefamily

16%6%Familyamily

Insufficient Income for the Familynsufficient Income for the Family

Medical/Dental Expensesedical/Dental Expensesy

23%3%

26%6%

Children’s Educationhildren’s Education

y

29%9%

Transportation expenses or Purchase of a carransportation expenses or Purchase of a car

Delayed Payment for the housing loanelayed Payment for the housing loan

43%3%

31%1%

Money for food, clothing, incoming billsoney for food, clothing, incoming bills

p pp

45%5%

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Why does the raising of children

have to be so difficult?

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1 Samuel 2:12

Eli's sons, {Hophni and Phinehas,}

were good-for-nothing priests;h h d f h h LORDhey had no faith in the LORD.

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1 Samuel 2:17

The sin of Eli's sons was a serious matter to the

LORD, because these men were treating theff d h LORD hfferings made to the LORD with contempt.

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1 Samuel 2:22-25

22 Now, Eli was very old, and he had heard

everything that his sons were doing to all Israeld h h l h hnd that they were sleeping with the women

who served at the gate of the tent ofho served at the gate of the tent ofmeeting.

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1 Samuel 2:22-25

23 So he asked them, “Why are you doing

such things? I hear about your wicked ways fromll h lll these people.

24 Sons, the report that I hear the peopleons, the report that I hear the peopleof the LORD spreading isn't good!

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1 Samuel 2:22-25

25 If one person sins against another, God

will take care of him. However, when a personh h ll f hins against the LORD, who will pray for him?”

But they wouldn't listen to their father'sut they wouldn t listen to their father swarning…

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Decline of The Traditional Family-Dr. James Dobson, “The Family in Crisis”

33% of all babies were born to unmarriedwomen compared to only 3 8 percent in 1940omen, compared to only 3.8 percent in 1940.

• Live- in partners increased by close to oneive in partners increased by close to one

thousand percent from 1960 to 1998.

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"How to Raise a Juvenile Delinquent

in Your Own Family"

• Begin with infancy to give the child

in Your Own Family

Begin with infancy to give the child

everything he wants.

• Pick up everything he leaves lying around.

• Take his part against neighbors, teachers,

and policemen. TELL him he is never wrong.d po ce e . e s eve w o g.

• Finally, prepare yourself for a life of grief.

You're going to have it.

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Kasama din ang P7,000 dun para sa field trip nyo

sa MALL OF ASIA, anak malayo ba yun? Magingat ka sa pagbibiyahe mo isasanla palangngat ka sa pagbibiyahe mo, isasanla palang

namin ang palayan natin para mabili mo na yunginstrumentong I-POD na kinakailangan mo sa

l bab nyo.

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Anak komportable ka ba dyan sa boarding house

mo? Saan ba kamo yan? Sa VICTORIA COURT ?Maganda ba dyan?Maganda ba dyan?

di ba mainit jan?

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Anak kamusta na pala yung group project nyo na

SANMIG LIGHT ? Napailaw nyo na ba? mataasba nakuha nyo na grado dun?a nakuha nyo na grado dun?

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HaaY! Anak sana bago pa maubos ang lahat lahat

ng arian natin, ang pangarap namin ng nanay moay maka gradweyt kanay maka gradweyt kana…

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WALONG TAON ba talaga ang kurso mo sa

SECRETARIAL? Sana pag gradweyt momakakuha ka ng trabaho kaagad kagaya ngakakuha ka ng trabaho kaagad kagaya ng

Manager ng kumpanya para mabawi natin angmga ari arian natin sa sanglaan.

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Ay! syangapala anak di ba sabi mo sa

MAC DONALD ka palagi kumakain?Ok ba naman sayo ang mga ulam dyan?k ba naman sayo ang mga ulam dyan?

Baka hindi masarap kawawa ka naman!

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Eh yung school bus nyo kamo na TAXI sabihin

mo sa driver mag ingat s’ya sa pag dri-drive ha?

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Anak hanggang dito na lang… Hayaan mo sasusunod ay ipapadala ko sa yo ang pera na pambiliusunod ay ipapadala ko sa yo ang pera na pambilimo ng ALTIS na gagamitin mo sa Vacant subjectmo.. At pag nakaani ng maganda ngayong anihan,makakaenrol ka na sa wakas sa isa mong backakakaenrol ka na sa wakas sa isa mong backSubject sa PS –2.

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Nagmamahalagmamahal ,

Ang iyong Itay at Inangng iyong Itay at Inang

P.S. Mag aral ka ng mabuti…

At k i k l i h !t kumain ka lagi ha!

(Kaunting tiis muna kami. Talbos ng kamote atg

kabute ang ulam namin ngayon.)

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1 Samuel 2:31-34

31 The time is coming when I will break your

strength and the strength of your father's househ ll ld f lo that no one will grow old in your family.

32 You will see distress in my dwellingou will see distress in my dwellingplace. In spite of the good that I do for Israel,

no one in your family will live to an old age.

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1 Samuel 2:31-34

33 Any man in your family whom I do not

remove from my altar will have his eyes fail, andh ll b h b k A d ll d de will be heartbroken. And all your descendants

will die in the prime of life.34 What is going to happen to your two sons,

Hophni and Phinehas, will be a sign to you:B th f th ill di th doth of them will die on the same day…

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Max Jukeswas born 1700, lived in New York. He,

did not believe in Christ or in Christian training. He

refused to take his children to church, even when theyasked to go.

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1 Samuel 2:30

… “But now the LORD declares: I promise that

I will honor those who honor me, and thoseh d ll b d d fho despise me will be considered insignificant.

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1 Samuel 2:35

Then I will appoint a faithful priest to serve me.

He will do everything I want him to do. I willh f hf l d d d h ll live him faithful descendants, and he will always

live as my anointed one.

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Jonathan Edwardsonathan Edwardswas born 1700, lived

in the same state, at

the same time as Jukes.

He loved the Lord and

saw that his children

were in church every

S d h d thunday, as he served theLord to the best of his ability.

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Exodus 20:5-65 …for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God

h ll l ff f hho will not tolerate your affection for any othergods. I lay the sins of the parents upon theiry p pchildren; the entire family is affected—even children

h h d d f h f h hn the third and fourth generations of those whoreject me. 6 But I lavish unfailingg

love for a thousand generationson those who loved b de and obey my commands.

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Sugar Ray Leonardugar Ray Leonard- He describes himself as an

unfaithful husband, anabsentee father and asubstance abuser ... He

l d h llevealed he was sexuallyabused by a prominent,

unnamed boxing coach...

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Sugar Ray Leonardugar Ray Leonard- “I’ve done a lot of

things in my life thatI’ d f ”’m not proud of,”...

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Sugar Ray LeonardH ’ diff tHe s a different man, a

better husband and a morecaring father for having

finally released the secret heinally released the secret hecarried for so many years,...

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“It’s like I have beenreleased from someeleased from someincredible burden. I had thishuge weight taken from my

shoulders and now I can bethe man that I always

d b ”anted to be.”

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Exodus 34:5-75 The LORD came down in a cloud and

d h h h d ll d htood there with him and called out his name“the LORD.”6 Then he passed in front of Moses,calling out, “The LORD, the LORD,

d f l dcompassionate and merciful God, patient,always faithful and ready to forgive.y g

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Exodus 34:5-77 He continues to show his love to thousands of

f d d b d denerations, forgiving wrongdoing, disobedience, andsin. He never lets the guilty go unpunished, punishingy g p p gchildren and grandchildren for their parents' sins toh h d d f hhe third and fourth generation.”

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