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Developing Trust in a Digital World
Ed Gabrys
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Who do you trust more?
A B
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warmth
competence
You are judged based on 2 criteria
“Warmth makes me uncomfortable”
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Would you still trust him to…?
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Fill in the blank
The is responsible for
_________________________
CFO
managing the financial risks of the corporation.
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The is responsible forCMO
marketing activities in an organization
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The is responsible forCOO
the daily operation of the company
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The is responsible forCIOthe information
technology and computer systems that support enterprise
goals
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The is responsible forCDO
converting traditional "analog" businesses to digital ones
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The IT leader’s trust problem
The trust you have is not the trust you need
You need a new model for trust I’m not feeling so
good.
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unknown
Trust begins in an unknown state
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credibility
capability
trustedpartneradvisor
expertuntrustedunknown
“you can”
“you will”
Progress credibility and capability simultaneously
Every encounter increases or
decreases trust.
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expertuntrusted
What is your CIO expertise?
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“You want to be a “Digital Expert?”
42% of CEOs say "digital first" or "digital to
the core" is now their company digital business
posture.
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expertuntrusted
Digital Expertise
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expertuntrusted
Digital Expertise
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credibility
capability
trustedpartneradvisor
expertuntrusted
credibility
capability“you can”
“you will”
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advisor
untrusted
fixing
negotiating
advising
partnering
persuading
§ While building credibility– Build your brand and narrative– Simplify what is complex
– Practice Empathy, Listening and Humility
– Establish consistency and commitment
– Demonstrate a motivation for the common good
– Change your value proposition
Building credibility partner
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Money Is So Overused That It Has Largely Lost Its Effectiveness as an Emotional Trigger
I was taught always lead with the
savings. Show me the money.
That's just illogical.
Yes, so are most people. Virtually all decisions are made emotionally, not logically.
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Let's Look at a Typical Data-Driven Purchasing Decision: Buying a Car
What kind of vehicle do I want?
Which cars can I afford?
Which models suit my lifestyle?
What features do I want?
I bought the car I liked, from the dealer I trusted.
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mentalist
There are ”experts” to learn from
crisis negotiator
undercover agent
confidence man
We all use empathy!
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Your Persuasion SuperpowersI feel myself
getting stronger!
Fueled by cognitive bias
Anchoring
Confirmation
Provocation
Negation
Deprivation
Fear, while a powerful motivator, destroys your credibility as a
trusted advisor.
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Anchoring
People Give Preferential Importance to the First Data Point They Receive
14 million?
The first to stake a position wins. Tight, seemingly fact-based ideas stick, even when you know it's being used on you.
What’s the population of
Estonia?
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Tactics You Can Use Today
1. Be proactive with your ideas. Speak first/ win first — don't be afraid of rejection.
2. Use tight soundbites to solidify the anchor.
3. Don't try and reverse established anchors, just create new ones.
Anchoring
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Confirm
ation
People Will Believe What They Want to Be True, or What They Are Afraid Might Be True
Confirmation bias usually works against you, but a great trusted advisor can use it to work for you.
Wait? Who is my
subject?
I demonstrate common
values with my subjects to
maintain trust.
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InnovationOperations & Compliance
Commodities
Expressing IT Value
Differentiators
You think Grow Run Run Transform
They think Top Line Growth Manage Bottom Line Manage Risk Top Line Growth
You communicate ROI Benchmarks Risk Risk
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Tactics You Can Use Today
1. Don't be a "yes person"; be genuine.
2. Affirm while adding something to the dialogue.
3. Shift the focus to something that neither of you want to happen, when agreement is unlikely.
Confirm
ation
Best of all get someone else to use it on your behalf.
We aren’t going to let
them get away with this. Are
we?
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Negation No, not
really.
You get what I'm saying?
Overcome or Address Objections Before Someone Says Them Aloud
This works one-on-one as well as in groups.
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Tactics You Can Use Today
1. Model stakeholders and supporters.
2. Understand conflicts and resistance points.
3. Use tight, affirming anchors to overcome objections.
Negation
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Provocation
Provide People With a Provocative Viewpoint They Didn't Anticipate
Trusted advisors provide that critical second set of eyes on a problem that adds real client value.
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Tactics You Can Use Today
1. Use war gaming tactics, red team/blue team solutions.
2. Study business model analogies.
3. Become a collector of problems; maintain a problem wall.
Provocation
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The Ultimate Trusted Advisor Superpower
Listening
Most people are really bad at listening (and it gets worsethe better you know someone).
Before you write this off as "too obvious," try this experiment.
Sandwiches?
Ever know someone so
well you could finish
their …
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Tactics You Can Use Today
Listening
1. Prepare to be tested
Listening is your most powerful superpower. Use it wisely.
2. Test others
3. Practice mindfulness
Beware of "active listening" techniques.
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Your Persuasion SuperpowersI'm ready to persuade,
send me in!
Fueled by cognitive bias
Anchoring
Confirmation
Provocation
Negation
But I thought you wanted to
be a trusted partner?
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advisor
untrusted
fixing
negotiating
advising
partnering
persuading Anchoring
credibility
Provocation
Negation
Confirmation
Reciprocity
partner
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credibility
capability
trustedpartneradvisor
expertuntrusted
credibility
capability“you can”
“you will”
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credibility
capability
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credibility
Reciprocity
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Reciprocity
We are all bound to repay debts of all kinds.
You can begin the reciprocity cycle by triggering “reciprocal altruism.”
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Trusted Partner CIO
Robert B. CarterExecutive Vice President of FedEx
Information Services, and CIO
Responsible for setting the technology direction of the
FedEx applications, infrastructure, networks
and data centers …… serves on the boards of directors for New York Life
and Pilot Flying J
Source: http://about.van.fedex.com/our-story/leadership/
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It’s your turn to be the expert to help – The Trusted Partner
CIOCMO CFO COOCEO The CIO can do it and will do
it.
Can you stop by to sign the incorporation
papers?
Let’s do a joint project to…
You’re the digital executive, it’s your
decision.
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Recommended Gartner Research
►The CIO’s Trusted Advisor Playbook: Selling and Persuasion Leigh McMullen and Ed Gabrys (G00327910)
►Adapt the Science of Influence to Develop Your Art of PersuasionBruce Robertson and Ed Gabrys (G00319407)
►Driving Business Transformation by Changing the Culture Bard Papegaaij, Leigh McMuellen, and Patrick Meehan (G00279637)
►CIO Power Politics T. Nunno and H. Colella (G00226257)
► Mastering the Art of Saying "No" for CIOs Tina Nunno, Ed Gabrys, and Ian Cox (G00326071)
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