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  • f r o m t h e e d i t o r

    In a world full of

    celebrity weddings

    and reality TV

    bridezillas, it is easy

    to lose focus of what a

    wedding is really about.

    Outside of Holly-

    wood and beyond your

    TV screen, the rest of us

    do remember that a

    wedding day is a happy

    occasion, full of beauti-

    ful moments that will last forever.

    It is things like the dresses, the

    location and the reception that add

    to the day. And it is also about the

    stories themselves. Stories of how

    the couples met, each one different,

    but each one leading up to the mo-

    mentous occasion when the two offi-

    cially become one.

    This year, in our third annual

    full-lenth Brides issue, we wanted to

    not only cover everything a

    bride needs for a wedding,

    but also share the unique

    stories of some of Cobb's

    brides and grooms.

    We found stories that

    span continents, time,

    chance meetings and more.

    And even one story that

    brought two people together

    came courtesy of us a

    Cobb Life issue. (You can

    read more about that on page 68).

    All in all, we hope you enjoy this

    issue. We hope it inspires you as you

    prepare for the big day, not only in

    what you need, but in who you are.

    Sincerely,

    Stacey L. Evans

    E X E C U T I V E

    PUBLISHEROtis Brumby III

    GENERAL MANAGERLee B. Garrett

    V.P. ADVERTISINGWade Stephens

    ASSOCIATE PUBLISHERJay Whorton

    E D I TO R I A L S TA F F

    BRIDES 2013 EDITORStacey L. Evans

    DIRECTOR OF MAGAZINESMark Wallace Maguire

    LAYOUT AND DESIGNStacey L. Evans, Mark Wallace Maguire

    CONTRIBUTORSCarla Barnes, Joan Durbin,

    Therra C. Gwyn, Stacey L. Evans, Meredith Pruden

    PHOTOGRAPHERJennifer CarterPHOTOGRAPHY

    Samantha M. ShalA DV E RT I S I N G S TA F F

    COBB ADVERTISING MANAGERBecky Opitz

    ACCOUNT EXECUTIVESStephanie deJarnette, Dawne Edge,

    Paula Milton, Candace Hallford, Tara Guest, Katelyn Ledford, Liz Ridley

    GRAPHIC DESIGNERSBeth Poirier, Jennifer Hall, Anna Clark

    P RO D U C T I O N

    CREATIVE DIRECTORLeigh Hall

    CIRCULATION DIRECTORMatt Heck

    I N F O R M AT I O N

    Cobb Life magazine is published nine times a year by the Marietta Daily Journal and

    distributed to more than 33,500 homes andbusinesses. Brides is published annually

    and distributed to more than 30,000 readers throughout Cobb County.

    SUBSCRIPTION SERVICESTo request a copy or to subscribe,

    visit our website atwww.cobblifemagazine.com

    ADVERTISINGTo advertise, contact

    Wade Stephens at 770.795.4001 SUBMISSIONS

    Please send all editorial correspondence [email protected] us on facebook and twitter

    Brides 2013Presented by Cobb Life magazine

    A Doves Nest 22 & 55

    Allure Dance Studio 54

    Arlene McCoy & Julie Fogard 32

    Aroma Ridge 54

    Atlanta Communities 70

    Atlanta Dance 46

    Atlanta Fine Homes - Jim Glover 28

    Atlanta Lyric Theatre 70

    Balloons By Bernadette 52

    Bel Fiore Bridal 49

    Bethany Cleaning Service 55

    Blackwell's Jewelers 35 & 54

    Brenda's House of Flowers 61

    Carol Ann King 32

    Cartersville/ Bartow Conference Center 79

    Chateau Elon 73

    Cherokee County Farm Bureau 46

    Cherokee County Historical Society 28

    Chic Occasions 50

    Cindy Suto Photography 27

    City of Smyrna - Bridal Show 10

    Merle Manders Conference Center 77

    City of Woodstock - Magnolia Thomas

    Restaurant 51

    Cobb Galleria 67

    Cochran Shutters 17

    Coconails Upscale Salon 55

    Community Welcome House 48

    Cruise Planners 23

    Cumberland Diamond 37

    Cupcakelicious 61

    Dallas Civic Center 77

    David Hylton 32

    Debbie Redford - All Around Atlanta Realty 56

    Dermatology Consultants 29

    Diamonds R Forever 13

    DJ Erupshun 65

    Fleming Carpet 36

    Fox Theatre 6

    Fresh N Fit 20

    Gabriel's 18

    Gail Holman 40

    Gay Locke & Jennifer Prange 32

    Georgia Aquarium 84

    H & H HVAC 31

    Harry Norman Realtors - Marietta 27

    Hugh Gilliam 32

    Integrated Massage and Bodywork 55

    J Lancaster 21

    Joanna Conyngham & Carson Wernz 64

    Joe Hartley 32

    Julias Signature Candies 60

    K Mike Whittle 71

    King Tux Rentals 46

    Kiss My Grass 31

    Log Cabin Community Church 20

    Marietta Conference Center/Brumby Gardens 47

    Marietta Garden Center 30

    Marietta Power 3

    Northside Hospital Cherokee Conference

    Center 75

    Northside Physicians Group 11

    Olivia Morgan 54

    Opulence Aesthetic Medicine 16

    Plastic Surgery Center of the South 7

    Promo Photo 26

    Red Gate Home Furnishings 81

    Robbins Realty 10

    Roswell Convention & Visitors Bureau 26

    Roswell Street Baptist 12

    Salon Spa Vanessa 49

    Sawyer Bailey Salon 53

    Stanley House 65

    State Farm - Linda Rodriguez 64

    Sue Hilton 50

    Sundial Plumbing 57

    Superior Plumbing 2

    Synergy Medical Weight Loss 33

    Tate House 78

    The Bottoms Group 5

    The Brickyard 45

    The Framery 40 & 54

    The Pavillion 72

    The Strand Theatre 66

    Three - 13 Salon 41

    Tybee Island Beach Weddings 21

    Wellstar 83

    Whitlock Inn 19

    Workout Anytime Fitness 52

    Ye Olde Christmas 18

    I N D E X O F A D V E R T I S E R S

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  • W H A T S I N S I D E

    8 LUCKY IN LOVE Onecouple won their dreamwedding in Cobb

    16 CATERING Ideas onfood for your guests

    24 PICTURE PERFECTWedding photos that make a statement

    34 RINGS Dazzling gems

    38 BEAUTY Tips on how toshine bright on your day

    42 TALK OF THE GOWNWeve got the scoop onthis years trends

    58 FLOWERS What type ofbouquet suits you?

    62 TYING THE KNOT WITH TRADITION Two local couples blended their heritage into ceremonies and receptions

    74 KEEPING GUESTS ENTERTAINED Game ideasfor the reception

    76 VENUES Places to sayyour vows

    82 REFLECTION CarlaBarnes looks back on herwedding day

    o n t h e c o v e rEast Cobb resident Denise Bengtson(formerly Herrera) married BenBengtson at Montaluce Winery inDahlonega, Ga. on Sept. 18, 2011.

    Photo by Slavik Photography

    24

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  • hough Matt Traylor and Julie

    Stone went to high school to-

    gether, they never spoke until

    graduation practice. Sitting next

    to each other, they began to talk

    and make jokes to pass the time.

    Something clicked.

    It was amazing; we immediately be-

    came friends, said Julie.

    A strong friendship blossomed over the

    summer of 1999, with the promise to keep

    in touch after going their separate ways to

    college that fall.

    After graduating from Clemson, Matt

    moved to Tampa for a few years, but the

    two did remain in contact through the oc-

    casional email and instant message.

    And then in 2005, Julie received a

    phone call.

    I was concerned because my mother

    never calls me at work, said Julie. She

    told me that Matt was trying to get in

    touch with me and didnt have my num-

    ber, and I should call him back.

    Julies mom was urgently relaying the

    message because she sensed something

    special.

    I could hear her smiling over the

    phone, said Julie, who at the time was

    recovering from a previous breakup. I

    was really focused on work and wasnt

    going out having fun. She knew how

    much I liked Matt as a friend. She always

    really liked him and was happy that he

    came back into my life.

    Matt had moved back to Cobb, and

    wanted to catch up. He asked Julie to din-

    ner.

    We drove from Marietta to Canton,

    down to downtown Atlanta and back to

    Marietta, talking non-stop, said Julie.

    When he dropped me off at eight in the

    morning, we both knew something special

    was about to begin.

    The couple dated for six years before

    Matt popped the question.

    I knew I wanted to propose pretty

    early in the relationship, said Matt. But

    money was tight, so getting a nice ring

    was a challenge. It was a matter of being

    able to get Julie what I felt like she de-

    served.

    On the way home from a trip together

    in November of 2011, Matt took a differ-

    ent route as they neared Marietta.

    I was confused as to why he missed

    the exit, and he said he just wanted to go a

    Matt + Julie =

    Cobb Life Brides 20138

    {Matt & Julie Traylor} Kennesaw residents | Married 10.11.12

    t

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  • different way. I didnt think much of it

    until he turned to get back on the inter-

    state, said Julie. He proceeded a little,

    and then pulled over on the shoulder. I

    wasnt exactly sure what was going on

    until he turned to me, with tears in his

    eyes, and started telling me how much he

    loved me. He then pointed to the huge

    billboard that read, Julie, Will You Marry

    Me? I enthusiastically replied, Of

    course I will!

    Matt had won the stone in Julies en-

    gagement ring and the billboard to pro-

    pose from D. Geller and Son after

    participating in a radio contest.

    A few months later, the couple learned

    of a wedding giveaway hosted by Say I

    Do in Cobb. With such luck winning one

    contest, Matt decided it would be worth a

    shot. The winners would receive a full

    wedding package.

    Matt entered the contest for a couple

    of reasons. He wanted me to have the

    wedding of my dreams and with him start-

    ing his pest control business and me get-

    ting my specialist degree, we werent able

    to afford what we envisioned. Also, since

    were both Cobb County natives, and

    thats where we fell in love, we felt it was

    perfect.

    Four couples were chosen as finalists,

    and they competed for the most online

    votes through the Say I Do in Cobb web

    site and through Facebook.

    Word got out to family, friends and the

    entire community at Cheatham Hill Ele-

    mentary, where Julie is a fourth-grade

    teacher.

    My students would come in first thing

    in the morning and update me on the

    number of votes Matt and I received,

    said Julie. It was so cute because they

    would send me emails and post on my

    blog the vote count. One student called it

    the Marry Ms. Stone Mission. Matt and

    I are still extremely touched by the sup-

    port we received from everyone, and we

    are beyond appreciative.

    With over 9,000 votes plus 200 likes

    on Facebook, Matt and Julie were

    a winning combination

    Matt and JulieTraylor incorpo-rated a baseballtheme into theirwedding becauseof their sharedlove of the game.Julie played fast-pitch softball inhigh school andcollege; Mattplayed in highschool and cur-rently plays on alocal team.

    BY Stacey L. Evans | PHOTOGRAPHY BY In The Moment Wedding Photography (www.weddingsinthemoment.com)

    { { {Newly weds} } }

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  • DOOR PRIZES, FOOD TASTINGS, FASHIONSHOW AND EDUCATIONAL SEMINARS

    DDJJ EERRUUPPSSHHUUNN667788--994499--88773388

    Goodie bags to the first 100 brides!

    Sunday, Feb. 17, 2013 12pm 5pmTickets: $5 in advance when purchased online,

    $10 cash at the door.Ride the Marietta Trolley between locations,

    visit with local vendors and plan your wedding all in one day!

    The City of Smyrna and Georgette Lake andCompany present the First Annual

    City of Smyrna

    http://smyrnabridalshow.wix.com/smyrnabridalshowCome see how you can have the wedding of your dreams for $5000 or less at these venues.

    Mock Wedding Reception at Taylor Brawner House byCreations by Cookie

    {Julie: My favorite moment was being introduced as husband and wife after the ceremony,turning around and looking out at the people who love us and feeling such happiness.Matt: Being introduced as husband and wife before the reception.}

    Cobb Life Brides 201310

    favorite momentannounced winners during a

    special ceremony at a bou-

    tique bridal show in March

    2012.

    Then the planning began

    for an October wedding.

    We were able to bring

    our ideas to the vendors, and

    they were able to make our vi-

    sion a reality in a professional

    manner, said Julie. We

    wanted a southern-rustic-

    chic theme. Our colors were

    white, muted powder/periwin-

    kle blue with a hint of muted

    tangerine.

    About 65 guests attended

    the intimate evening cere-

    mony at the Marlow House in

    Marietta on October, 11, 2012.

    After a traditional vow ex-

    change, a reception followed.

    Later, Matt surprised Julie

    with a trip to Costa Rica for

    their honeymoon.

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  • First dance Then by Brad Paisley

    Its a beautiful song we bothreally love and makes us thinkabout when were older andour future together, said Julie.

    What was yourfavorite thing at thewedding/reception?We loved and were im-pressed with everything.We absolutely loved all thefloral arrangements! Thetable arrangements werebeautiful and my bouquetand bridemaids bouquetswere exquisite.

    Saying yes to the dress. I fell in love with a dress fromDavids Bridal; I had always envisioned wearing a lace jacket. When I sawthis jacket initially at Davids Bridal, I knew this was the one meant for meand Id look for a dress to match it. Luckily, I found a dress that afternoonto match it at Davids Bridal. Its a Grecian-style strapless dress, which I hadspaghetti straps attached to provide additional support. After trying onnumerous dresses I knew this dress was perfect for me. It was extremelycomfortable and suited my personality.

    what they wonVenue - The Marlow HousePlanning - Something Blue Weddings LLCCatering - Clement Catering Co.Bridesmaids Dresses - The Red CarpetBridal and Events BoutiqueJewelry - Anna BellagioFloral - Petals and TreatsWedding Cake - TKS Cakes & CateringDove Release - A Doves NestSave the Dates & Invitations - ConfettiWedding Night Accommodations -TheStanley HouseMakeup - Dina Marie Makeup , LLCHair - Hair Art Day SpaEntertainment - Fonix EntertainmentPhotography - In the Moment Photography

    Say I Do in Cobbwww.sayidoincobb.com

    Interested vendors can contact [email protected] or 678.439.1114

    { { {Newly weds} } }

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    Marriage is about teamwork and com-munication. When planning your wedding,communicate your ideas with each otherand really listen to what your future spousemay want because they are part of theprocess too. You may want to delegate re-sponsibilities with your future spouse, butyet come together to discuss final deci-sions.

    Organizing ideas and time managementare very important. I created a masterfolder on my computer with folders labeledwith floral ideas, cake ideas, guest list,etc. Start creating documents and savethem in these files.Vendors are able to un-derstand your vision better with ideas andpictures.

    Establish a timeline and stick toit.Things become really hectic, and timemanagement is crucial so you dont feeloverwhelmed. Also, create a weddingemail account you both can equally accesswill help when communicating with all thevendors. Enjoy the process.

    Whats the biggest challenge and thegreatest thing about being newlyweds?

    Challenge: We feel our biggest chal-lenges have been adjusting to living to-gether and compromising on certain issuesthat werent relevant in our single lives.

    Greatest thing: Getting to be with yourbest friend every day and looking forwardto laughing on a daily basis.

    Cobb Life Brides 201312

    whatadvicewould you give to

    couples planningtheir wedding?

    { { {Newly weds} } }

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  • CChef Jeff Brister of Carriage House Catering served up roasted pork loin with apple bacon, tilapia with pomegran-ate butter, sauteed vegetables and roasted fingerling potatoes at Lindsey Baggett and Kevin Shannons Decemberwedding at the Brickyard in Marietta.

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    For many brides, planning that reception can be just as

    stress-inducing as getting the details right for the wedding

    itself. No matter what the budget, that burden can be eased

    with help and advice from a top-notch caterer, allowing the

    newly married couple to relax and enjoy their own party.

    The less-than-stellar economy doesnt appear to be putting

    much of a damper on post nuptial festivities. Though last

    year fewer receptions cost into the five figures, Chef Jeffrey

    Brister of Carriage House Catering said the company han-

    dled more weddings than usual.

    Our median per person was $100, Brister said.

    Buffet dinners with stations showcasing different dishes

    and courses continue to be popular, he said. We have

    done a lot of stationed dinners because it offers so many

    food choices to accommodate your guests.

    Stations allow us to work with food allergies and diets

    better. We offer gluten-free and vegetarians options all the

    time, but also work with any other allergies people have.

    The ceremony is over and itwas as magical and wonderfulas you had hoped. Now itstime to celebrate your unionwith family and friends.

    { { {Cater ing}} }

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  • Buffet stations also offer an opportunity

    to emphasize personal style, from beauti-

    fully elegant with silver chafing dishes and

    candelabras to using cross-cut wood to ele-

    vate platters

    for a more

    natural look.

    We are see-

    ing a more

    rustic trend

    last year and

    into this year,

    with uses of

    lots of burlap

    and natural

    woods in the

    dcor, Brister

    said. Colors

    that are popu-

    lar are grey

    and yellow.

    Creating a

    menu that re-

    flects the cou-

    ple is

    something at

    which Brister

    excels.

    Southern

    food is still

    very popular,

    but we like to

    add twists, he

    said. Re-

    cently, we took some Southern favorites

    and added some Latin and Cajun flavors

    and techniques.

    At the carving station at that reception,

    for example, guests were treated to prime

    rib and mojo pork tenderloin with the

    Cuban flavors of orange, garlic and cumin.

    A grits station offered stone ground

    cheese grits with shrimp, crawfish or

    Brides 2013 Cobb Life 17

    On themenuat the Shannon wedding

    Appetizers: Crabcakes and fig and goatcheese en croute

    Salad: Spinach withpoached pears, sweetpecans, gorgonzolaand balsamic

    Entree: Roasted porkloin with apple bacon,tilapia with pomegran-ate butter, sauteedvegetables and roastedfingerling potatoes

    Dessert: Almond cakewith raspberry filling

    Corynne Leduc of Athens samples figand goat cheese en croute, shownright, from Chef Jeff Brister.

    C

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  • sauted crab cakes embellished

    with tasso ham cream gravy, a

    Louisiana staple.

    Some fool proof items that

    have always been favorites, Bris-

    ter said, include his crab cakes,

    classic shrimp cocktail, pecan

    crusted chicken and grilled beef

    tenderloin. Other popular items

    are the chicken salad cones,

    seared quail breast with cranberry

    butter and herb crusted New York

    strip.

    The advantage to having a full-

    service caterer like Carriage

    House is we come set up with all

    the linens, china and glassware,

    we manage the food, have servers,

    bus the plates and do the clean

    up, he said.

    But Brister and his partner, Al

    Freeman, and event manager

    Sandy Edwards are more than

    happy to work with the bride and

    groom to beautifully customize

    the experience and still keep costs

    down. One way to do that, he

    said, is to have platters made up

    and delivered to the reception

    venue.

    Another suggestion, Brister

    said, is if alcohol will be served,

    try offering a signature drink

    along with beer and wine, but not

    a full bar.

    Its quite possible to have a

    memorable reception without

    breaking the bank. Keeping

    spending under control for recep-

    tions is something Chef Mike

    Flowers knows quite a bit about.

    The Marietta caterer has written a

    book, Cater Your Own Wedding:

    Easy Ways To Do It Yourself In

    Style.

    Hes a firm believer that tight fi-

    nances shouldnt stand in the way

    of having a wonderful reception.

    Carriage House Caterings Jeff Brister, chefand co-owner, left, and Al Freeman, oper-ations and co-owner. Below, the salad.

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  • It breaks my heart to see so many couples get

    buried in debt before they even get started, Flowers

    said. Last year, families spent an average of $27,000

    on their wedding in the United States. The catering

    accounted for nearly half of that. Id rather see them

    invest a substantial portion of that money into some-

    thing other than petit fours, fondant and chocolate-

    covered strawberries.

    His company, Eastside Catering Services of Mari-

    etta, does handle many receptions that are full serv-

    ice, Flowers said.

    Todays couples usually start with the basics and

    work their way up as far as their budget will allow.

    Fresh fruit trays, domestic cheese trays, hot and cold

    dips, fresh vegetable displays, chicken and beef, a

    salty item and citrus fruit punches still rule the roost,

    he said, adding that gluten-free items, sandwich

    wraps and vegetarian dishes have been requested

    more often lately.

    Our typical bride will spend $20 to $30 per person

    and the average guest count is 150. Obviously, most

    reception halls that can accommodate up to several

    hundred guests have their own in-house catering staff.

    Therefore, our services are primarily performed in

    churches, clubhouses, homes and smaller venues. Bite-sized crab cakes were served as an appetizer.

    Cobb Life Brides 201320

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    Flowers said. Theres normally much less

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    half price for children under 10 and they

    eat from the same menu. Most caterers

    will do this. You just have to ask.

    Flowers has a few other suggestions on

    how brides can significantly reduce their

    food costs. Have a mid afternoon wed-

    ding reception, between 2 and 3 p.m.

    Light finger foods will be sufficient

    since your guests will have already eaten

    lunch.

    Or have a dessert reception at 1 p.m. or

    8 p.m. because guests likely will already

    have had their lunch or dinner.

    Often you can rent a nice clubhouse in

    a friends subdivision for your reception.

    Theyre much cheaper than most

    churches and absolutely cheaper than a

    reception hall, Flowers said. If this is

    not an option, rent your church or recep-

    tion hall on a Friday. C

    { { {Cater ing}} }

    TIP: Many couples offer

    a signature drink or two

    along with beer and

    wine, instead of a full

    bar, said Chef Brister.

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    Gabriels Desserts

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    Carrriage House Catering designed this almondcake with raspberry filling for Lindsey and KevinShannons wedding.

    l o c a l b a k e r i e s

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    Cobb Life Brides 201322

    Michelle Scott Photography

    taking the cake {and other desserts, too}

    C

    IDEA! Instead of a grooms

    cake, the Crowders ordered

    a varied dessert bar from

    Gabriels Desserts, below.

    Their wedding cake, left,

    was made by Lisas Cakes

    and Catering.

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    Above: A great wedding albumhas memories of the whole day,not just shots of the ceremony andportraits. Sometimes the mostbeautiful and poignant shots comefrom candid moments, like thisshot from Slavik Photography of thebrides sister pinning the veil.What s interesting is dynamiccomposition and contrast of darkand light. I like the brides expres-sion shes very concentrated inthis moment, said Slava Slavik. Right: A background of lush green-ery can add a dreamy ambianceto your photos. This setting was anideal complement to the bridesintricate dress. Opposite page: One of photogra-pher Christopher Brocks favoriteshots to compose is what he callsthe cinderella dip. The sweeping,pose and dynamic lighting createsa grand and romantic feel.

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  • Perspectives have changed when it comes to wedding pho-

    tography. Long gone are the days of stiffly posed wedding por-

    traits and cookie-cutter background settings. Every couple has a

    story to tell, and if you want your wedding photos to pop, you

    may have to break a few rules first.

    Wedding pictures do not have to gather dust in an album

    stuffed in a drawer, only to be pulled out on anniversaries or

    when children want to see their parents back when. Your en-

    gagement story can be a mini-movie on YouTube. Your wedding

    pictures might have their own website. In wedding photographs

    now more than ever, every picture tells a story.

    Brides want art, says Christopher Brock of Christopher

    Brock Photography. They put a lot of thought into their wed-

    ding day and they want it represented artistically - not in a for-

    mal, posed, way.

    One tradition that has changed, he says, is that many brides

    dont want a photographer they only see on the day of their

    wedding but want someone who will document their journey

    from engaged woman to wife.

    Brock has photographed over 2,000 weddings in locales

    around the world and specializes in the candid, photo-journalis-

    tic style that is fast becoming a favorite for many brides. He

    also finds what he calls cinema photography to be extremely

    popular, where he combines photographs, video, music and

    memorable moments, creating an entire story about the bride

    and groom. He presents a finished and polished movie to the

    Tips on how to get wedding photos youll cherish forever

    Last a lifetime

    BY THERRA C. GWYN

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  • newly-married couple that they can share online

    with family and friends.

    Another old-school wedding rule has dissolved

    in recent years, according to Slav Slavik of Slavik

    Photography in Kennesaw. He insists that a

    groom should absolutely see the bride in her dress

    before she walks down the aisle. Slavik and his

    wife Sarah increasingly recieve requests from

    couples to take First Look photos. Pictures that

    capture the moment when the bride and groom

    first see each other decked out in their wedding

    finest make for impactful, memorable photos.

    Most couples in Europe get together in the

    same room or location before the ceremony, he

    says. Its nice, and its fun for the couple.

    There are other pluses to First Look photos

    versus traditional photos taken later after a couple

    says I do: the brides make-up, hair, and flow-

    ers are at their freshest, its a special time the cou-

    ple can share before the wedding, guests wont

    have to wait for the couple to finish taking pic-

    tures before the reception and often the photogra-

    pher will have better lighting in the afternoon

    than later in the evening.

    Once the wedding is over, your photographs

    are what you have to remember one of your lifes

    most important events. Dont be afraid to bend a

    few rules to get that perfect photo finish.

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    Sarah Slavik of Slavik Photography saw this picturesque land-scape as a great setting for a beautiful shot shortly before theceremony. The bride is walking with her dad toward the chapel.

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    Another of photographer Christopher Brocks signature shots is using flashes to add sparksof light on the couple. This adds an ethereal element to the photograph. On left, Brockcalls this the glamour Hollywood shot. A strobe light placed behind the couple providedthe effect. On right, the illuminated couple in a forest creates an air of mystery.

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    On left, Slava Slavik was thrilled when he caught this beautiful moment between a bride and hergrandfather. This moment happened during a formal portrait; we were posing the family and they justgot closer and hugged. Even if focused on one task, a photographer should be ready for something likethis to happen, said Slava. At right, the first kiss as husband and wife is a moment all brides want in thephoto album. What s interesting in this photo is the reaction of maid of honor and how bride andgroom are hugging each other very intensely, said Slava.

    C apturing the emotion of the day

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    SPONTANEITY IS KEY:In this shot, thegroom lifted thebride after theirposed portrait ses-sion. The Slaviks liketo encourage fun in-teraction betweencouples to give lifeto their photos,rather than give alot of guidance. When we do por-traits we try give thecouple more spacefor their interaction.It s like fishing, youget a catch if youdont stomp on thebank of the lake,said Slava.

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    Left, the sparkler exit is both popular and makes for anextraordinary photo. In the top photo, the Slaviks used a fish-eye lens to create an interesting perspective. In the bottomphoto, the Slaviks used off-camera flash to give dimension tothe shot and highlight the bride and groom, rather than thepeople standing closest to the camera.Top right, the Slaviks wanted to capture the ambiance of aceremony at King Plow Arts Center in Atlanta. It was prettydark but the two lines of candles point toward the bride, whichstands out in the shot. Also, the contrast of wedding with arustic, industrial place was very interesting, said Slava.

    F lash fire

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  • Start looking as soon as you set your wedding date. Manyof the best photographers book up well in advance.

    Dont go low budget. This not the time to shop in the bar-gain bin. There is just one chance to get your weddingphotos right. They are keepsakes and in many families are

    passed down through generations. Make sure your photos lookgreat for the Facebook of the future! Yes, you can negotiateprice with many professionals but expect to spend 12% of yourwedding budget to get the right cameraman or woman.

    PHOTOSHOP T i p s t o c o n s i d e r w h e nchoos ing a photographerf o r y o u r w e d d i n g

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    CAUGHT ON FILM: You never know what moments maymake an interesting photo. Above left, a peek behind thescenes as family members fluff up the brides dress beforethe portrait session. The addition of the umbrella adds tothe composition. Right: An intimate exchange between acouple is captured during dinner.

    12

    Interview photographers on the phonebefore you decide on an in-personmeeting. Ask how many weddings they

    have photographed. There is no substitute forexperience. Are they a seasoned outdoor pho-tographer (if you are having an open air wed-ding)? Do they have an online gallery of workyou can check out?

    Do you want them to shoot digital pho-tos, film, or both? Talk to photographersabout benefits of each and the photo

    packages they offer before you decide.

    Look for a personality that meshes withyours. You will be spending a great dealof time with your photographer. Make

    sure he or she is someone you will enjoy hav-ing around during one of the most exciting(and often intense) times of your life.

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  • START AS SOON AS POSSIBLEWITH SKINCARE.

    Ideally, a bride should start

    thinking about skincare five to six

    months before the big day. That

    will allow time for deeper treat-

    ments like glycolic peels or mircro-

    dermabrasion, which will help

    achieve smoother texture and even

    skin tone. It will also allow time for

    the esthetician to address any con-

    cerns like acne scars or hyperpig-

    mentation.

    Those treatments are designed

    to really deeply improve the skin,

    said Iwona. Both can make a huge

    statement on the skin.

    If you dont have that much

    time, youre not a lost cause.

    Three months ahead is not too

    late to improve skin but its not ad-

    visable to have intense treatments

    at that point.

    Finding an esthetician six

    months or more in advance is ideal

    to establish a relationship with that

    person. We learn your skin and

    what you like or dont like so there

    is less chance of risking any bad re-

    action, said Iwona.

    putting your best

    t ips for look ing your best on your wedding day

    FOLLOW A GOOD SKINCAREREGIMEN AT HOME.

    Home care is the most impor-

    tant thing, said Iwona.

    Use a good cleanser; creamy ones

    are often best for the skin. Exfoliate at

    least twice a week to get rid of dead

    cells, which will allow your moistur-

    izer to penetrate better. Moisturize

    morning and night. Always wear sun-

    screen of at least SPF 30, even if you

    dont spend much time outside.

    UVA/UVB rays can travel through

    windows, car windshields and more.

    FACE FORWARDYouve spent countless hours choosing a dress, the dcor, the flowers, the setting, even the music.Amidst all that planning, its easy to forget perhaps one of the most important aspects skincare.Every bride wants to look her best on her wedding day it is probably going to be her most pho-tographed day ever. While many think last minute beauty tricks and crash diets are the way to go,

    those are likely to do more harm than good. Dont risk looking like the bride of Frankenstein.Renew Day Spa esthetician Iwona Higdon and the Dyer and Posta salon team of Chelsea Luna and

    Rachel Carter gave us tips on how to ensure youre looking your absolute best.

    1 2

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  • And dont forget your neck and shoulders you want to treat that area the same way

    you do your skin. This is especially important if you plan to wear a strapless or low-cut

    gown.

    Exfoliation tip: A good tool to use at home is the Clearasonic brush.

    NEVER start a new routine weeks before the wedding. No change of skincare product, no change of makeup. If there is any change to be

    made, do it at least a month before wedding.

    Even if you have a makeup artist coming to do makeup, even if they have fantastic

    products, we are all different and all have possible reactions to new things, said Iwona.

    GET A FACIAL UP TO A WEEK BEFORE THE WEDDING.A facial will hydrateyour skin, which in turn will make it more glowing on your wedding day. It will

    also help your makeup look fantastic says Iwona.

    >>Recommended treatment: Algae-Marine

    Detox Facial is an excellent one to get pre-

    wedding, said Iwona. She recommends one a month for

    three months before the wedding, but even one a couple

    of weeks before will produce results. The treatment im-

    proves circulation (through massage) which helps

    detoxify, and re-mineralizes the skin. Renew Day Spa

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    DO NOT get a facial in less than a week before the

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    Accenting hair with flow-ers or jewels is a greatway to add a little pizazz.Incorporating braids intoupdos is also a populartrend for brides. ModelLauren Cernys hair wasstyled by Rachel Carter ofDyer and Posta. Oppositepage: Far left, Dyer andPosta makeup artistChelsea Luna appliesmakeup to Whitney Betts.Left, esthetician IwonaHigdon of Renew Day Spamassages a clients skinduring a facial.

    >>Grooms will benefit

    from getting a facial as

    well. They will be taking

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    day and having a lot of

    blackheads or razor

    bumps doesnt look so

    great in pictures, said

    Iwona. They should be

    exfoliating and moistur-

    izing at home as well.

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  • Its best to book a trial hair and

    makeup session at the salon nine to six

    months in advance, said Rachel Carter of

    Dyer and Posta. If you have photos of

    your wedding dress, bring that to the trial.

    What matters when choosing a hairstyle?

    Rachel said type of dress, time of day of

    ceremony and brides personality are all

    factors, but whats most important is what

    the bride feels most comfortable with. A

    trial will let you explore different styles.

    Its a good idea to start hair andmakeup 3 or 4 hours before pictures, es-

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    ting done. Dyer and Posta team prefers to

    go to the venue and do hair and makeup

    there to be on hand for touch-ups.

    Most brides keep the same hairstylefrom ceremony to reception, but if you

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    DIY TIPS Use a primer before applying

    foundation. It will help prolong

    makeup. Also, start prepping your skin

    a few days before, said makeup artist

    Chelsea Luna. Drink lots of water and

    keep moisturizing.

    For hair, its best to go dirty. Washyour hair the night before, not day of.

    That will help it hold product and style.

    RECOMMENDATIONS: Bumble and Bumbles spray de

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    Dyer and Posta also offers a shinetreatment, which Rachel recommends

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  • said Iwona. With all those hormones going

    through your system its just better not to take

    the chance with any changes or new things to

    your skin.

    PAMPER YOUR WHOLE BODY. SkinGlow Body Polish features a sugar

    scrub exfoliation followed by a vichy

    shower, which rains softly from six

    showerheads as you lie down. A quenching

    cream is applied afterwards to hydrate.

    DO NOT DRASTICALLY CHANGEYOUR DIET. Changing to a healthy dietsix months before the wedding will

    greatly improve not only your body but

    your skin. However, crash dieting a couple of

    weeks before may cause your skin to detoxify,

    resulting in nasty breakouts.

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    w a x i n g

    If you get waxed, go to same place you nor-

    mally go so you know what products they are

    using. Waxes have different ingredients you

    want to be sure you are consistent with the

    same one to avoid a reaction.

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    Make sure you get enough rest the night before. Lack ofsleep and stress will show on your skin.

    Dont skip any of yournormal skin care routine.

    Take a brisk walk in themorning. When you walk you

    increase oxygen and it helps to

    make your skin much brighter

    and glowing. After a walk you

    have rosy cheeks and your skin is

    going to feel so much more

    alive, said Iwona.

    Lay down for five minuteswith a cool ice pack on your

    eyes. That will refresh the skin

    around your eyes and help eliminate dark circles or puffiness.

    Renew Day Spa offers an eye treatment that can be added

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    Drink lots of water. You dont feel good and you dontlook good when youre dehydrated, said Iwona.

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  • TREND #1: Picture PerfectA natural transition from last years

    charming illusion necklines, this seasons

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    of fashionable stylesfrom sexy to sophisti-

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    peekaboo keyholes to add an unassuming bit

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    styled bridal gowns. Theres never been a

    more classy way to show a little skin.

    TREND #2: Karma ChameleonHints of color have been gaining in popu-

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    blush hues gracing everything from belts to

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    gown and thought the vibrant trend may have

    reached its conclusion but, this season, color

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    designers making daring choices in blue,

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    TREND #3: Old SchoolElegant bridal gown detailing with a tip of

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    This season brings a new take on last years

    modest illusion necklines and lace sleeves,

    ushering in intricate lace overlays and deli-

    cate floral appliqus that will make any bride

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    TREND #4: Drop TopLuxurious accents like jewels, sequins

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    headpieces are trending this spring, but

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  • No offense to Cinderella, but she sort of

    had it backwards. The shoe should be at the

    end of the to-do list for a wedding fairy tale.

    After the engagement, first consider the venue, then the

    dress then the shoes and other accessories, experts say. Col-

    lectively, they should have a complementary vibe.

    "Its all a picture that comes together," says gown designer

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    ...dont forget the shoe!No flip-flops for a formal setting and dress, and satin pumps

    would be silly on the beach.

    Tanya Dukes, accessories editor at Brides magazine, suggests

    these practical questions:

    How high for the heel? Think of the proportions of the

    dress, how tall youll stand and if you are used to wearing heels

    at all, she says.

    Is the wedding outside? A lawn wedding, for example,

    could be trouble for a spiky heel. A wedge would fare better.

    How formal is the occasion? Fabric matters here. "Satin is

    the traditional choice, and its a safe bet," Dukes says.

    And then theres deciding whether you ever want to wear the

    shoes again.

    "Most women dont wear their bridal shoes again not because

    theyre not wearable, but because theyre a memento," says

    footwear designer Stuart Weitzman, who got his start in business

    in bridal more than 25 years ago.

    He sees as much variety in wedding-shoe styles as he does on

    the street: Women want sandals, stilettos, platforms and lace

    booties, but the traditional pump is the most popular.

    Shoes often spend most of the big day covered by the gowns

    hemline, but they can be a glimpse of the brides personality.

    The moment the shoes will probably get the most attention is

    right before she kicks them off to dance, says Acra with a laugh.

    Crafting a head-to-toe mood is a delicate balancing act be-

    tween modernity and timelessness, she explains. Now, the shoe?

    Thats a place to have a little fun.

    "If I have a bride in the showroom, I might say, Why not an

    orange shoe?" Acra says. "Its fun to have something different. I

    love playing with shoes. I really prefer colored shoes or some-

    thing with bling or fun."

    Metallics are a good middle-of-the-road option, as is blush

    pink, and even black is doable, especially if you add a black rib-

    bon sash around the waist of the dress.

    "I do think more out-of-the-box choices will be revisited and

    worn again," says Brides Dukes. "Maybe something with a lot

    of color, youre more likely to wear that again, like a red shoe,

    or cowboy boots or sneakers."

    She adds, however: "If you want the memento, your Cin-

    derella slipper, and you want to keep them pristine, then white is

    a valid choice."

    There is more variety now than ever in gown silhouettes

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    The most important thing, as with all decisions on the brides

    look, is that she is happy and comfortable in it, Acra says.

    "When youre walking down the aisle, really no one will be

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  • I dont have a clue whatflowers to choose. Wheredo I begin? Our website, ofcourse! Actually, todays brides

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    brides have a Pinterest account.

    When a bride arrives for a design

    consultation, I pull up her account

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    vision.

    However, some of my brides

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    vision. They know what colors

    they like and have their dress and

    venue picked out, but dcor-wise,

    they are a bit lost. For those

    clients, I have books of flowers,

    sorted by color, they can peruse. I

    also have an inspiration portfolio

    containing pictures of bouquets,

    centerpieces, etc. I will ask my

    clients to page through these im-

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    pects of each that they like and

    dont like. From that, I am able to

    surmise which elements to com-

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    ding vision.

    How much should be bud-geted for flowers? A typicalrule of thumb: Eight to 12% of the

    overall wedding budget should be

    reserved for floral and dcor.

    What are current trends? In color: Aubergine, green

    shades and blush tones (both

    peach and pink).

    In flower type: The most pop-

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    like to offer a modern twist on

    that romantic standbythe garden

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    peony, but is much more readily

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    Bouquet style: The most pop-

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    Coffin, who was first drawn to flowers as a

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    pression on each and every guest.

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    guests even before she steps into the aisle, she

    said. Her favorite part of her job is the moment

    when she presents a bridal bouquet to the bride.

    It usually takes her breath away and that

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    me, she said.

    Coffin provided some helpful tips to help

    brides-to-be navigate the floral world:

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  • A looselygathered,lush, gardenstyle bouquet,featuringpeonies,lisianthusblossoms andshoots, ranun-culus and softgreenery ac-cents. It is avery popularstyle currentlyand we oftenincorporatesoft touchesof pale pink orpeach to popthe bouquetoff an ivory orwhite dress,said Julie.

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  • A nod to the popu-lar aubergine colorthat pairs Picassocallas (ivory with anartistic splatter ofpurple in the throat)with white dendro-bium orchids andlightweight greeneryaccents. The smallnosegay is the per-fect size for anybride, said Julie.

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    Gardens at the base of

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    and hand tied (not perfectly roundy-moundy).

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  • The perks of consulting aflorist: Several years ago myteam provided both rehearsal

    flowers and wedding flowers for

    a lovely couple. To be frugal, the

    brides family saved the buffet

    arrangement flowers from the re-

    hearsal dinner on Friday night to

    use on the altar at the church the

    next day. Unfortunately, they left

    Dad in charge of the flowers and

    he packed them in the trunk

    overnight. The wedding was in

    mid-July so when they opened

    the trunk the next day at 4 p.m.,

    every blossom in the trunk was

    shriveled. The mother of the

    bride was devastated at the

    thought of having a bare altar so

    she asked if there was anything I

    could do to help-with the wed-

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    work to secure the raw materials

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    Purple is hot this year, and having a unique blend of flowers and greenery is perfectfor the artsy bride. This dreamy arrangement blends kale, white hydrangea, purplestock, lavender roses, deep purple trachelium, waxflower, deep purple lisianthus andseeded eucalyptus.Designed by: Milestones Floral Dcor for Events, a division of Village Green Flowers & Gifts3246 Atlanta Rd Suite H, Smyrna, GA 30080; 770.435.9393; www.milestonesfloral.com

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    No surprise then that many cou-

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  • Photography by KVC Photography

    Phillip Blakely Justman and Marium Khalid com-bined traditions from her Pakistani culture, ele-ments of his Irish heritage and their Georgiaroots in their wedding. Top, the couple madetheir own wedding bands with help from black-smith Mark Hopper, and inscribed them withmessages. Left, instead of bouquets, the brides-maids walked down the aisle with trays of flowerpetals and dias, or lamps. Once pronounced hus-band and wife, the bridesmaids showered thecouple with petals.

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    There was more dancing when Justman

    paid tribute to his own heritage by dancing

    an Irish jig.

    Their wedding was mostly pure Ameri-

    cana but at the reception the bride wore a

    red dress and the groom donned a turban,

    per Pakistani tradition.

    A three-tiered cake, topped by an ele-

    phant figurine, was an aside to Khalids

    culture, where a grooms family would

    often travel, usually by horse or elephant,

    long distances to meet the bride. Created

    by Miss Mamies in Marietta, the flavor of

    each tier of the cake represented their

    backgrounds and their Georgia home:

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    It was perfect, said Khalid of their

    wedding. One of the best parts is that it

    was a group effort.

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  • Mehndi is the night before the cere-mony. Guests wear yellows, greens andoranges to symbolize the different shadesof the henna (Mehndi), and henna is sym-bolically placed on the brides hands andfeet. During Mehndi, the women place aspot of henna in the grooms and brideshands and give them sweet treats. All ofthis is to symbolize may your lives be richwith color, and may your lives be sweet,never bitter, said Marium.

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  • Lola and Akin Ogundipe had two separate cere-monies to reflect their American upbringing andAfrican heritage. Above, the groom's family pres-ents gifts to the brides family and vice versa. Here,the bride's parents are receiving the offering.Top, the groom places the engagement ring onthe bride's finger to signify a "re-proposal" in frontof family and friends.

    Cobb Life Brides 201368

    {Lola & Akin Ogundipe} Smyrna residents | Married 9.1.2012

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  • Its a small world after all

    By Therra C. Gwyn

    Akin and Lola Ogundipe were married in 2012,

    yet both travelled halfway around the globe before

    meeting in Georgia, falling in love and settling in

    Smyrna.

    Lola Ajayi, 32, was born in Halifax, Nova Sco-

    tia, to Nigerian parents. She spent her summers in

    West Africa as a child. Dr. Akin Ogundipe, 44, is a

    native New Yorker with a Nigerian father and a

    Ghanaian mother. He, too, spent time in Nigeria and

    has done a fair amount of globetrotting. The two did

    not know each other when their respective careers

    brought them to Georgia, but that would change.

    Four years ago, Ajayi modeled for Cobb Life in a

    fashion article. Ogundipe saw the story and was in-

    trigued, especially when he noticed that the model

    in the photos had a last name he recognized as dis-

    tinctly Nigerian. He inquired about the young

    woman in the photographs, but every lead turned

    into a dead end.

    Then they ran into each other in a grocery store.

    He realized who she was and introduced himself.

    He also, very quickly, realized something else: a

    colleague was the brother of Ajayis fianc. To his

    disappointment, the woman in the magazine was en-

    gaged to be married. They went their separate ways.

    They bumped into each other periodically for

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    Lola and Akin Ogundipehad their second cere-mony at Peachtree Chris-trian Church with areception at the Intercon-tinental Buckhead hotel.Opposite page: Far right,the groom and hisgroomsmen lie flat on thefloor in front of both sets ofparents to show respectand gratitude for whatthey have done to bringthe bride and groom to-gether. Right, Lola andAkin at the reception.

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    The bridal partyand bride in tra-ditional attire. Atthe ceremony,the bridal partydances into thevenue and cre-ates a circlearound the brideto hide her untilher big reveal. Atthat point, thebride begins todance in joy.

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  • At Bernie and Jordan Hajovskys wedding reception, it was

    useful to know details about the happy couple: Guests had to

    answer questions about them before they could join the buffet

    line.

    The newlyweds hoped the trivia game and other activities

    would make the reception more memorable.

    I really wanted people to walk away feeling they had been

    involved and that it was the most fun wedding reception they

    had ever attended, said Jordan Hajovsky, of Austin, Texas.

    Games, contests and other icebreakers have become increas-

    ingly popular at wedding receptions, said Sarabeth Quattle-

    baum, spokeswoman for the American Association of Certified

    Wedding Planners, in Dallas.

    Couples want a party atmosphere and have realized that the

    more guests mix and mingle, the more relaxed theyll be, said

    Quattlebaum, owner of Sarabeth Events in Keller, Texas. This

    also adds a personal touch to their reception party.

    Disc jockey Peter Merry says more and more couples are

    asking him to help organize reception activities, such as con-

    tests to win table centerpieces or asking guests to serenade the

    bride and groom with songs that include the word love in the

    lyrics. Other couples are incorporating photo booths, where

    guests can have their pictures taken in silly hats and holding

    goofy props.

    With guests from different phases of their lives who may not

    know each other, brides and grooms want to provide opportuni-

    ties to interact.

    If you can break down any discomfort, guests will stay

    longer and have more fun on the dance floor, said Merry, of

    Dallas, author of The Best Wedding Reception Ever (Sellers,

    2010).

    DJ Jimmie Malone, who owns the company Exceptional Re-

    ceptions in Binghamton, N.Y., encourages couples to include

    activities to set the tone and help balance the weddings pomp

    and circumstance.

    It keeps guests engaged, Malone said.

    Stephanie Goetz of Binghamton said the games at her 2011

    wedding helped break the ice. Between the different families

    and friends, the majority of people didnt know each other. It

    was a lot of fun.

    Malone sometimes leads guests through an elaborate game

    in which they must pass a drink, a set of car keys and a dollar

    Guests may enjoy games, contests, icebreakers at reception

    AP Photo, Lynn Barsigian Photography, Lynn BarsigianWedding guests are ready for a trip into a photo booth sponsored by Exceptional Receptions in Bingham-ton, New York. Couples are starting to include photo booths as an activity for the guests during weddingreceptions. Wedding planners say the activities make the evening more fun.

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    By MELISSA KOSSLER DUTTON, Associated Press

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