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The Book of Shuma Gora

By Will Kraft, (A.K.A. Shuma Gora)

The Basic and Advanced teachings of Shuma Gora concerning the art ofseduction and self-improvement.

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This book may be used by anyone wishing to aspire to greatness andovercome his current fears and insecurities about dating and othercomplications that hold him back. These techniques of which I'm going toelaborate on are meant to be used in conjunction with the Don JuanBible, located at sosuave.com.

This Book is for men, by men. Women are not meant to read this book, forthey have no need to learn how to date women effectively. This book isfor men who deserve to learn the truth, who desire to learn the truth,and are tired of having the truth kept from them by society as a whole.

Concerning preservation aboard the KEO satellite

This book will be preserved for eons onboard the European satellite KEO,due to launch in 2003 and return 50,000 years later. I, Shuma Gora, havedecided to preserve my legacy and seduction knowledge for future

generations by adding it to the collective knowledge that will bepreserved on this satellite. Because of the character limit, The KEOversion of the book of Shuma Gora may be fragmented into several pieces.However, I ensure that it will all be archived onboard, so once all thepieces have been rejoined, future readers may once again learn theknowledge that I have passed down in this book.

Chapters and Teachings

I. IntroductionII. We will begin with how women thinkIII. How men thinkIV. Realizing how to use confidenceV. On using Challenge to your benefitVI. On having the right attitudeVII. On having the proper sort of Ambition

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VIII. The Power is YoursIX. Applying these teachings for other uses besides womenX. Regaining your confidence and attitude after a dating slumpXI. How to overcome rejection once and for allXII. On being the Alpha MaleXIII. Kino explained in depthXIV. Neg.-hitting effectively

XV. The principle behind controlling the conversationXVI. About self-controlXVII. Dealing with others who resist youXVIII. How to do an effective phone number closeXIX. How to deal with girls who follow "The Rules"XX. Dress for successXXI. Technique for calling her after getting her number : Things torememberXXII. Be a Man! (Written by Pook)XXIII. Kill that Desperation! (Written by Pook)XXIV. "As you think, so you shall become." -What it means.XXV. On improving yourselfXXVI. On choosing which women to go afterXXVII. Progression of a DJXXVIII.

Chapter One- Introduction

Greetings to you, my friend. If you are reading this, then you deservecommendation. Indeed, for you, as I have, have felt the inadequacy ofwhat you knew about women, and you sought out looking for the answersthat you didn't have. I have these answers for you, and more. However,I must tell you up front that these answers will change your lifeforever. They will empower your mind, and once you have learned thismaterial, you can continue learning to become greater still. Even bypossessing The Book of Shuma Gora, you have a definite advantage over

your fellow man. Let me explain further. Once you have read this book,you will know the seduction techniques that I myself have learned andmastered, and told to you as I have mastered them, from my ownperspectives. There are similar topics already well explained in theoriginal DJ Bible; yet in this case, I am presenting a different way toanalyze them, to view their meanings as I have interpreted them myselfand to put them to use as I have. These techniques are similar to theones used by the master seductionists of legend, such as Don Juan deMarco, Giovanni Casanova, Bohomme, and many others. These men actuallyknew what many men today can only dream about: that is, the power to getand keep the woman (or women, if you are as ambitious as I am) of theirdreams. These days, in our ever disgustingly feminized culture, real menare becoming rarer and rarer. We live in an age of boy bands, watereddown soft rock, Oprah, you name it, whatever it is, it brings down thegood name of masculinity. Men are actually becoming broken down andsubmissive in some cases! This never ceases to disturb me, and as aguardian of masculinity, I am ever devoted to stopping the progress ofthe emasculation of America. One of the ways I do this is to pass onthis knowledge to you. Many people (Nearly all women, even some men)would consider these techniques to be forbidden knowledge. The womenwill label you as deceitful, a player, and totally untrustworthy. Themen will tell you something along the lines of that there is no way anintellectually mature woman would fall for this, etc. But I ask thesepeople, these doubters and haters, "where, oh where, are your flocks ofwomen? I have mine, but you seem to have misplaced yours. Oh, you say

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you never had one? And you claim my techniques as dishonorable, even ifthey beat the living hell out of yours? Whatever." In all actuality,these men that are skeptical of these set of rules are the ones thatneed them the most. They are caught in a lie, and are totally blind andoblivious to it.

And so, my friend, to begin your journey of enlightenment, I willdiscuss how women think in the next chapter.

Chapter 2- How Women Think

Before we delve further into the realms of seduction, I must bring tolight the fact that men and women think differently. Men are moreinclined to use logic to solve problems, whereas women do whatever"feels" right to solve the problem. Therefore, women don't think, women

feel.

To take advantage of this, we must realize that to effectively seduce awoman, we must give her good feelings about ourselves. Unless sheassosciates us with positive emotions, our work is for naught.

Chapter 3- why I have decided to make this book

I'm basing this information on what I have learned here, yet I ampresenting it as I have come to understand it and I also go into how imade each technique work for me.

I'm basically writing this with me serving as narrator throughout, and

the book is essentially composed of my own insights and lectures abouttopics already mentioned in depth in the DJ Bible. (Such as my take onclosing, how to remain confident, how to tell which women are goodcandidates for closing, etc.)

On a side note, I thought of writing the book when I recently read apiece of Star wars fan fiction where a Jedi master would place his ownteachings and insights into a device called a holocron, where it couldbe later retrieved by others.

The holocron would then present the information as though the jedihimself was teaching it, even if the jedi that made the holocron waslong dead. After I heard about this, I figured "If a master jedi couldrecord his personal ideas and knowledge in the Star Wars equivalent of abook, then why can't I record what I have learned as a DJ in a similarfashion?"

Obviously, I am technically unable to create a holocron (which is acube-shaped holographic information repository device) but I can write abook on the subject of being a Don Juan. Therefore, I am writing myexperiences and teachings down into the Book of Shuma Gora.

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Other Don Juans can and should do the same thing I'm doing, b/c I'mwilling to bet money that everyone else here knows something importantthat they themselves have learned. Obviously, these personal insightsare not to be found in the generalized DJ Bible, so the only way otherscan learn everyone else's personal insights is if everyone publisheswhat they have learned for the common good.

Also, it is crucial that everyone preserve their ideas because if theyfail to do so, then what purpose does this information serve to others?Being a Don Juan is not entirely about getting chicks for yourself, eventhough that is the main purpose for most people. Looking beyond that, aDon Juan can help out his fellow Don Juan brothers when he shares hisexperience and learning with them.

When he does this, everyone benefits, because the accomplished Don Juanshared his knowledge with less-experienced DJs, who are able to put hisinformation to use and thereby benefit from it.

Chapter 4-Recovering after a slump

My friend, if you are reading this, you will learn one of the mostimportant lessons of survival for a novice Don Juan. Many have lamentedthe fact that although they try to mold themselves into a Don Juan,something happens that ultimately sets them back in their progress orworse, causes them to revert to an AFC state entirely.

Because this problem takes two different forms, I will provide twodifferent solutions.

Situation #1: You had an experience that made you falter in yourprogression to Don Juan mastery. After the situation has passed, youfeel as if there is something fundamentally wrong with your game, yetyou can't place it. You might also feel as if your confidence has beenrattled. It's as if most of your confidence is intact (Think of it as abig solid brick wall) yet there's a "piece" missing, and the missingpiece leaves a gaping hole that weakens the stability of the rest. Andeven though you know that something is missing, you don't know what itis, so you don't know what you have to work on.

What brings on this condition: Personal emotional trauma, major failureat something very important to you, light to moderate overall depression

How to regenerate yourself:

To restore that "missing piece" you first must realize that you areexactly the same as you were before the changing event happened. In asense, your problem is all in your mind, and yet it only holds you backbecause you allow it to.

If this has happened to you, then I know your mind. I know that you feelinadequate, that you feel like retreating further into yourself andhiding from everyone else, because in your eyes, you have failedmiserably and everyone knows about it. You are angry at yourself for

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messing up, and you are unable to forgive yourself, and you keep onchastising yourself for your previous failure.

The problem is, you are trying too hard to be perfect. Rome was notbuilt in a day, and neither is a Master Don Juan. So you screwed up,big deal. No one is pointing the condemning finger at yourself, myfriend, except for yourself. Since you feel awkward and inadequate on

the inside, it shows on your body language. Since your body languagebetrays your inside feelings of inadequacy, women will see this andavoid you. In a sense, you are ensuring your own future failure if youcontinue to dwell on your previous failures. The past is unalterable myfriend, so just let it teach you what not to do.

Until you can convince yourself that you are still the powerful Don Juanthat you were before all this happened, you can never recover yourself.DJs are human, and humans make mistakes. There is no shame in failing aslong as you pick yourself up and try again, for it is well known thatfailure is the precursor to future success. To give in at the firstlittle thing is a definite AFC characteristic, so if you, an aspiringDon Juan, follow the AFC way of life, you will become that which you are

trying to forsake.

Once you have grasped what I have just told you, then you must realizethat since perceived failure got you into this situation, then a successwill get you out.

Rather than moping about feeling sorry about what happened in the past,wouldn't it be better to set out and overwrite the past with more

pleasant recent events? If you go out with the positive attitude thatthe future is still yours to shape, then what is standing in your way torecovery? Nothing. Nada. Squat.

So, what you must go is set your past down, turn aside from it, and goout with your mind set on the future. For what you do today decides whathappens tomorrow, after all. If you forget about past failures and tryto make today count for all it is worth, then I guarantee that you willhave a rewarding future.

I will next address how to deal with a far more serious slump, when yourconfidence has been reduced to practically nothing.

A Notation on converting your fear into anger

As you well know, humans are capable of feeling many emotions, two ofwhich are fear and anger. When someone feels afraid, the emotion of fearrobs them of their confidence, courage, and decisiveness. Anger, on theother hand, is a powerful emotion. It can inspire someone to do actsthat they never would have done otherwise, and it can bring onincredible surges of boldness and confidence. And a Don Juan is neverafraid, only decisive.

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However, it is possible to convert your fear into anger so you will havethe extra strength to get you out of a situation. Rather than to feelfear because of a situation, instead, be angry that the situation iscausing you to feel fear. As the flame of anger ignites within, you willforget your fear and be better able to take care of your situation,whatever it may be. The more fear you have, the more you will be ableto feed to the flame of your anger, and the angrier you will become. You

will then be able to release that anger at the situation that wouldnormally have you plagued with fear.

However, a heavy price may come with this technique. Storing a permanentcore of anger within you is not the true Don Juan way. This technique ismeant to replace your fear with decisiveness, not to provoke you to lashout at others. You are to be angry at your situation, not at the peoplearound you. The price that I speak of is that it is simply not healthyto carry a lot of pent-up anger around inside of you. Once you havegathered your anger together to combat your fear, you must release thatanger, or it will affect your abilities as a Don Juan. Women are notattracted to anger; in fact it repels them.

So I urge you, use this technique only in the greatest need, for if youuse it for extended lengths of time, it is ultimately damaging to you,

both mentally and physically. This technique of fear conversion cangrant you great courage in the space of a moment, but it can also take aheavy toll as well, however. Be forewarned, my friend.

Chapter 5- For those who have hit AFC rock bottom

This chapter is for any Don Juan who believes that he has hit the AFCrock bottom. If this is you, then read what is ahead to learn that youdon't have to depend on your past string of failures for future success.Put the past away, and shape the future.

You ask why you are having such a difficult time with women. Youwonder why you try, and yet you freeze up, or you are too afraid to makeyour approach.

The answer is simple: You are only afraid because for some reason, youbelieve that you are unable to do it. Every time you see a woman youwant, you are afraid to make an approach because your philosophy is"Hell, I'll just get shot down again, why bother to even try?" With anattitude like that, no wonder you're failing!

Now it is time to get interactive. I ask you, what are you so afraid of?Why are you afraid to make your approach? WHY are you afraid to claimwhat's yours?Simply put, you are afraid of your past failures. Your track record maybe less than perfect, but whose isn't? A couple of years ago, I was in asimilar position, yet I was not afraid enough to continue repeating thepast.

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The past is set in stone; get over it. I knew that simple truth, sobecause I didn't like my past and had no desire to repeat it, I chose tohave success in my future. I remind you that your future begins rightnow, with your present. Don't be afraid to shape the future. Go ahead.Only the present is yours to shape right now, and the future depends onwhat you do right now in the present. You will continue failing untilyou decide to break the cycle of failure.

How do we break this cycle of failure? Well, since the opposite offailure is success, you must learn to think successfully. Success iswhere you KNOW that you have what is required of you for success. Whyshould the past affect your future? Namely, it can't unless you allow itto. For an explanation, refer to the proverb that I have just devised:

The past is blind to the present, but the present must CHOOSE to beblind to the past.

That means that what you are doing right now cannot affect what you didbefore, but what you did before can affect what you are doing right now,

but only if you let it. If you have a string of successful actions inyour past, then by all means look back on it to remind yourself that ifyou could do it once, you could do it again. However, if your past isreplete with failure, then it is best not to dwell on it, but keep it asa reminder of what not to do.

The most effective closing attitude

Recently, CanadianIdol brought up a situation where he just got a phonenumber just to see if he could. Whether he knew it or not, he hasdiscovered the most effective closing attitude that I currently know of.

Here is what he posted:

Hey fellow DJ's, I was just wondering if any of you get a girls numberjust to see if you still can get a girls number? Like take for instance,last night I went clubbing and I just went out to have a fun time withthe boys and come the end of the night I was pretty drunk so I decidedto go get a girls number just to prove I still had it. So I went over tothis girl that was giving me eye contact all night and all I said was...Me: Hey, my buddies and me are heading out and I wanted to come over toget your number.She actually gave me her number, I didn't even need to say [any extra]shit [at] all. I've never got a number that easily, and from what Iremember she was pretty hot and my friends thought so to. They weretotally dumbfounded that I didn't even need to talk with her for morethen a minute to get her number.

Here is what I wrote on the same thread as a reply:

You got her number because you had zero desperation. You approached herlike it was no big deal (because to you it wasn't) and you smoothlyasked for the number. You have discovered the secret to closing, myfriend: Be casual about it, and you will succeed. The secret is that youshould have the demeanor that you close a million chicks every day, andthat it's no big deal to you. What you say is not really that important,it's HOW you say it.

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The moral of the story is that Pook was right when he told us to killthat desperation. Desperation is the worst enemy of all, because it isthe total opposite of what a Don Juan stands for. A Don Juan will beable to get exactly what he wants easily and quickly when he wants it.

There is no hurry, therefore no need to be desperate.

Fear and desperation go hand in hand. In his example, CanadianIdol didnot have any fear or desperation, b/c he probably wasn't thinking aboutthe girl in romantic terms. He simply made his approach just to see ifhe could do it. He treated the situation as if it were no different thanwalking up and asking someone the time of day.

Always remember, my friend, the most effective approach is the one whereyou don't treat it like an approach, but rather, you just go up andnonchalantly ask for her phone number. You don't get all freaked out andnervous when you ask someone for the time, why should closing a woman beany different? It shouldn't.

The Power of Confidence

Truly described as one of the pillars of the Don Juan philosophy,Confidence is what gives a Don Juan his power. For if you lack

confidence, then what else can compel you to make your approach?

Quite simply, nothing.

I am sure that now you want to know the marks of true Don Juan -levelconfidence. They are:

1. You must know that you have what it takes to be a Don Juan.Regardless of the outcome of a situation, your power will beundiminished. Confidence rests in the outlook of your game, so if youbegin to doubt your abilities, then all of your confidence is thusbroken. My friend, remember to keep a positive outlook on your datingperformance.2. Second, Confidence is what compels you to risk personal rejectionjust to get a woman's phone number. Realizing that you have absolutelynothing to lose, and yet much to gain, a true Don Juan will throwcaution and insecurity to the wind, and therefore have the courage tomake his approach.

Once you have mastered the key concept of confidence, it is time tolearn the secrets of the next Pillar of Don Juan, Challenge.

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Challenge

While confidence will get you the women of your dreams, it will notenable you to keep them. This is where the principle of being achallenge comes into play. Being a challenge involves several prime

strategies:

1. Your primary aim is to keep the woman guessing about you. Once weknow everything about an individual, they cease to intrigue us. Whatdoes not intrigue us begins to bore us. In this way, a man who is not achallenge becomes boring and predictable to the women that he is with.Since women live for drama and excitement, a boring man is of nointerest to them. Therefore, what you must do is do everything withinyour power to be unpredictable to the woman.

2. You should attempt to be unpredictable. For example, most AFCS willcall the next day after receiving a woman's phone number, thus killingthe mystery factor in their game. Men like this easily become boring andpredictable to the woman, and are promptly sorted into the friends zone.

A master Don Juan, on the other hand, knows that unpredictaility and theaura of mystery that he is able to create is by far his best tool in theDon Juan toolkit of seduction. By effectively controlling how much hesees or talks to the woman, the ball is always in the DJ's court. Inother words, the DJ has the power to make the woman miss him and thinkabout him. Women act like this because of basic psychology.

This involves the fact that women want to tame what is not completelywithin their power. women are manipulative, and because of this, theywill go wild over a man that they are not able to fully predict orcontrol. Women also want a soap-opera relationship, with all its ups anddowns and twists and turns. By being unpredictable and putting your ownschedule first, you exasperate and fustrate the woman in a positive way.

This is because of the fact that since you are so different from theother men (in how the woman is unable to manipulate you) you become moreinteresting to the woman because she will use her girly manipulationskills to the utmost to try and bring your schedule under her control.

However, this ability is a blessing in the fact that you are able tokeep the woman where you want her. It is also a curse in the fact thatonce you start being a challenge, you must maintain your element ofchallenge. If you fail to do so, you wil lslowly but surely become likeal lthe other clueless AFCS. This is when your relationship with thewoman starts to erode and rot from within. This is dangerous becauseonce the decline has begun, it must be fixed quickly or the situationwill quickly get out of hand.

I will explain how to remain a challenge in THE PRINCIPLE OF CHALLENGE:PART TWO.

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The Book of Shuma Gora 3

It is imperative, my Friend, that the Don Juan System remains a secret.What I mean by this is that, in order for our methodology to beeffective, no one around us must know about it.

While I do not discourage the letting in of new members to the growingDJ ranks, I definitely discourage the leaking of these techniques to thegeneral public.

This is because although you are reading this of your own free will andCHOSE to learn, you are OPENMINDED and NONJUDGEMENTAL. If you were tocriticize us, you would not bother to learn this knowledge of power.

If you were to reveal what you have learned to the general public,

people would not hesitate to judge you and label you a player. A DonJuan is not a mere player. While a player is a blatant husler, a DonJuan is an enlightened man that goes discreetly about his business withno one being the wiser.

The fact that we operate in secret is what ensures our success rate, formany of these techniques that I pass on to you depend on secrecy fortheir effectiveness. If the average woman KNEW that we were on to her,she would not hesitate to label us as sneaky and deceptive for followinga definite game plan. (although the same hypocrite bitch is doing theexact same thing by learning from all those girl magazines that sheundoubtedly owns! )

You can see then, my friend, that we are caught in a war of double

standards. In this case, we received the short end of the deal. Untilthis changes, we must be discreet about our abilities, and the Don Juansystem must remain a secret doctrine.

By maintaining secrecy, I do not mean that you should discontinue yourgame. On the contrary, I advise you to do all the Don Juan techniques asyou see fit, only the key thing to remember is that you should not usethem as techniques. What i mean is that you should read the knowledge inthis book, assimilate it into your personality, and then make what youhave learned appear to be part of your usual persona, not just atechnique that you have learned.

Remember, my friend, your goal is not to use these techniques, but toBECOME these techniques.

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It has long since been debated about whether or not an action is AFC,and if it is, whether or not it will interfere with your path to DonJuan nirvana.

Now, some actions are obviously AFC and should be avoided:

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-calling several times a day-bringing flowers to the first date-being clingy and desperate-having "one-itis"-etc.

Now, what I'm trying to get across is the fact that although certainactions are AFC, you should not be too concerned if an action is AFC ornot. The problem that many newbies have is that they see the AFCdillemma in only black or white. They place each action into eachcategory, and make much dileberation of the whole affair. Given how manyactions one can do, it gets ridiculous to categorize everything.

Rather, what I've figured out is DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT! As long as youare doing the right things, you cannot come across as AFC.

These Right things are known as

1. Confidence

2. Challenge

3. Attitude

I call these three attributes the three pillars of Don Juan, for it isthis three that holds up the rest. Without these three pillars, the restof the system would come crashing down on you because these threattributes are what makes it all happen.

As long as you remain confident, be a challenge, and have ther rightattitude, nothing will be able to stop you. A True Don Juan does notworry if a smal linsignifigant action is AFC, he instead considers thebig things. The little "AFC-or-not?" things do not hold up the Don Juanphilosophy, it is the three pillars that do.

So I must ask you to consider, my friend, what is it that suports yourgame? Are you one of those who worry about whethewr or not everything isAFC? If so, you must add some pillars quickly, or your whole game willcollapse out from under you. Or are you like me, your game being solidlysupported by three gleaming tall pillars of Confidence, Challenge, andAttitude?

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The Core of Don Juan Knowledge

The goal of the Don Juan is not to center his life around women. Whereasthis is the goal of the average player, the Master don Juan knows thatthere is much more to life than women. As I have addressed before, thecore of Don Juan knowledge is the concept of the following as I havecome to realize it:

"The Don Juan has many goals in life. These may or may not be self-oriented, but the overall criteria of the morality of the Don Juan isthe fact of whether or not he cares about other people. Granted, The DonJuan is not to be a therapist, as his time is too important for such atask, but even so, a Don Juan devotee who seeks only his own selfishpleasure and gain is no true Don Juan, but is instead a mere traitor ofour order. In reality, the Don Juan should have interest in women to

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some degree, but his prime interests and attention lie elsewhere in hislife, but even more so in others. For these days, as the world becomesmore and more impersonal, people become ever more wrapped up in theirown concerns and there is no interest in the common good.

The Master Don Juan comes to realize at some point that women are notthe primary goal in life. This is the one belief that separates us from

the players. Whereas a player is only interested in quantity, the DonJuan is only interested in QUALITY. While it might be true that a playermay have the MOST women, this is of less importance than the fact thatthe Don Juan has the BEST women, and the player does not. Therefore,this simple truth means that the Don Juan has actually surpassed theplayers, for we know knowledge that they will never be able to use.

This is because the player is bound by the limitations of his ownknowledge. He knows only the stereotypical pickup lines so hisapproaches are limited, but even more importantly, the player iscompletely unfamiliar with the technique of self-improvement. Because ofthis sort of limitation, the player is unable to grow because he doesnot have access to information such as this. The player is only able tolearn what is immediately available to him, such as the knowledge of hisfriends.

Also worth mentioning is the fact that the players are bound byconformity. One player is the same as any other because they havedecided to follow a certain style in their method of operation. Onenormally thinks of a player as someone that goes around and blatantlyhustles women, thus revealing his true intentions to everyone.

A reason why players are looked down upon is because they are sostraightforward in their approach by means of pickup lines. A playeracts this way because he believes that women will fall for those lines.The women smile and politely reject him, but as soon as the player moveson they all laugh at him because of his tired and overly predictableapproach.

While the player believes that women like to be hit on and hustled, heis only half right. Women DO enjoy the attention they get by being hiton, but since giving them attention does nothing to help your aproach,it is counter-productive to hit on women. Also, women like to beseduced by a confident, experienced man, not be hustled by a cheesy,obnoxious player. As you can see, my friend, finesse makes all thedifference in the approach.

*Why the Don Juan System is so Effective*

The Don Juan system suceeds where the player fails because the Don Juanknows the low-key approach. The Don Juan is subtle. The Don Juan is ableto conceal his secret knowledget tohe point where people that he hasknown for years will never know that he is a Don Juan based on outwardappearence. Although he is adept at concealing his true nature fromcasual observers, the master Don Juan is never afraid to use what he haslearned in a way that comes off as mysterious.

When his skills are all but perfected, the Master Don Juan will be ableto mask his techniques so they will appear to be NATURAL PERSONALITYTRAITS.

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Let me explain further. A woman whom the Don Juan is talking to shouldknow that there is something definitely different about the don Juanfrom the average man. "The Don Juan has hidden qualities that other menlack," she reasons, "but I don't know HOW he is different. He just seemsmore interesting and polished than the others. Also, I can see that heis not putting on a game, that this is his true nature."

Women will definitely notice something different about you, my friend,but they will not know what it is. The challenge of finding out willboost her interest level in you to the point where it wil lbe absolutelyuncontrolable. This is but one way that The Don Juan system knows how toutilize human nature.

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REJECTION-- HOW TO OVERCOME IT AND GAIN INVULNERABILITY

My friend, if you are reading this, you are about to learn one of the

most powerful secrets of the Don Juan System. The problem of rejectionis a severe setback indeed, but only if a Don Juan is unprepared for it.

To begin with, the natural response to rejection is one of humiliationand shame. This is because in the untrained state, a man is constantlyunsure of his abilities, and thus insecure. In this fashion, he takesrejection too personally. Since rejection is by nature a negativefeeling, an untrained man that feels rejection feels shame because he isconvinced that his abilities are insufficient for success. Because ofthis false conviction, his ego takes a blow, and his self-esteem is thusdiminished.

A Don Juan will learn early in his training that rejection is notnecessarily a product of his own insufficiency, for HE IS THE PRIZE TO

BE SOUGHT AFTER. Since HE is the prize, any woman that rejects him isnot worthy of a man of his caliber and abilities. In this way, the DonJuan learns that rejection is a means of determining whether a woman isworthy in the fact that only unworthy women will reject him.

Now, some may disagree with my way of inflating the man's ego, but myquestion to them is simply, Why not? Which is better, for the man to buyinto the lie propagated by society which states that the woman is theprize to be sought after? Is it better for the man to wrongly blamehimself for rejection? Is it wrong for a man to rightfully avoid placingwomen on a pedestal and instead rightfully bringing them to his ownlevel?

Simply, it is not wrong. Those who might argue with me are simplyanother victim of the deception of society.

Once a Don Juan begins to think of himself as the prize to be soughtafter, no longer will the slings and arrows of rejection sting his ego.The Don Juan has mastered the skill of rejection immortality.

The best part about this Don Juan Technique is that once learned, it ismore or less permanent. This is because once you begin thinking ofyourself as the prize, you are less likely to revert back to the AFC

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mentality of rejection because it is the exact opposite of your newoutlook.

As a side note, i must add that although you are indeed the prize, it iscritical that you must not let your ego get out of hand. Although alittle bit of ego is good for you, a little bit is all you wil leverneed. Too much wil ldestroy you outright or destroy you through a

gradual loss of common sense. a Don Juan with an overly inflated ego isa catastrophe waiting to happen, because someone in such a state hascarried the I-am-the-prize mentality too far. Someone with thismentality is often cruel to other people, as his ego blinds him to howhe appears to others (e.g. as a crude, obnoxious jerk). When a Don Juanis thus blinded, he slowly begins to damage his reputation, andultimately his success rate. Take extreme care that this does not happento you, my friend.

Remember, you must think of yourself as the prize, but never forgetthat although you are indeed the prize to be sought after, this does notplace you above other people, so you must not be excessively careless orboastful in how you act towards other people.

If you remember these key truths, you shall do quite well, my friend.

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THE INDEPENDENT MINDSET OF THE DON JUAN

Students of psychology learn about a theory called Abraham Maslow'sHierchy of Human Needs. The purpose of this theory is an attempt todefine the psychological needs of the average human.

Arranged in a pyramidal pattern, the structure is arranged as having 5levels: the first being the physical needs such as food and drink, thesecond being a need for safety, the third being a need for love andbelonging, the fifth being a need for the esteem of others (popularity)and the last need, located on top of the pyramid, is the need for self

actualization.

Now, during my professor's lecture, i was thinking about what self-actualization really means to the Don Juan. The psychology book explainsself-actualization as, "the realization of one's own potential."

The realization of one's own potential.... That is the ultimate goal ofthe Don Juan!

The psychology book also went on to explain that people feel selfactualized when they are doing something that they can lose track oftime in, such as a personal hobby, reading a good book, etc. The bookalso added that people rarely get to the self actualization level(according to Maslow's theory, you must achieve all of the lower levelssimultaneously before you can experience self-actualization) Also, theprofessor mentioned that in modern society, people are focused so muchon materialism and their activities that they are slowly losing theability to feel self-actualized! Children are learning from theirparents' busy lifestyle, and combined with the media, an entiregeneration is becoming conditioned never to feel self-actualization!

Also, as the professor began to explain each level of human need (suchas need for safety, need for love/belonging, and need for the esteem ofothers), I began to see why the AFC problem is so prevalent: Humans are

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conditioned from birth to be emotionally dependent on other people orthings. In essense, most people depend on others for their happiness!

As soon as I had realized that, I made a drastic leap of insight. Couldit be that the reason why AFCS act the way they do is only because theywere conditioned to "need" love and a sense of belonging? If so, then it

explains why AFCs are so clingy and desperate. It is not because oftheir own iscecurities, it's because they have been conditioned to actthat way!

It would explain why people are so materialistic. If they see peoplethat have a larger house, nicer car, more expensive watch, or anythingof that nature, people automatically assume that that person must behappier because they have more! Thesse envious people then begin tocovet what these other "more fortunate" people have, and more often thannot, the jealous person begins to live considerably beyond their meansso they can afford more expensive things. They feel happiness for ashort while, but it quickly passes, and the person is worse off thanthey were before because they are no happier than they were to beginwith, and they have extra expenses to meet.

People that are materialistic are also never satisfied. Regardless ofhow well they have it, they always want more. Their mind is always onwhat OTHER people have, instead on what THEY already have. If thesepeople would learn to be satisfied, then they would be on the road tohappiness. But unfortunately, their mindset holds them back; Theyalways want more, because they think that more will make them happy. Inmy psychology class, I heard about one personwho must always have newclothes, a nice car, and many other material things that she does notreally need just to feel good about herself. The problem with thsepeople is that they are dependent on material things for theirhappiness, and even then, they seldom find it. People like this areamong the most miserable people on earth because they realize how emptytheir life really is.

People like this must learn that their happiness should not be dependenton short-lived material possessions. For even if you could acquire thewhole world, what good would it do you? What would you have accomplishedthat is of any signifigance? Quite simply, nothing at all. For afterall, it has been said, "What good is it if a man inherits all the world,yet loses his own soul?"

People are also dependent on other people for their own happiness.These are the conformists. They value popularity above all else, for ifother people respect them, that brings them a short rush of pleasure.People like this tend to entertain excessively and organize massiveparties just so people will know who they are, and hopefully respectthem. Narcissists are also one of these types of people. People who careexcessively about their self image feel as if they must look good inorder for people to like them, for their sole sense of pleasure comesfrom having other people admire them. Such a life is empty, as many ofthese overly vain people take so much time to make other people admirethem, that they never realize that none of these onlookers ever gets toknow them. These people are so lonely because they spend all their timeimpressing people, but they have no time left for actually makingfriends.

Ironically, these emotional dependencies that plague so many people areencouraged by the media. You see, there is a flaw in human nature thatmakes us prone to derive our happiness from other people or mere

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material possessions. Few people realize that happiness can be derivedfrom EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCE.

Now, The Master Don Juan should know that human nature is extremelyflexible. It is even possible to rebuild your own personality intosomething greater by simply combining the Don Juan system with the power

of self-improvement. Although as humans our natural inclination is tobecome dependent on external sources, what few people know is that thisdependency can be bent, and in some cases, even broken.

Let me explain further, my friend. The Don Juan Master knows that hedoesn't need people's approval to be happy, it is HIS EMOTIONALINDEPENDENCE THAT DRAWS PEOPLE TO HIM. THE MASTER KNOWS HOW TO BE HAPPYWHILE BEING ENTIRELY ALOOF OF WHAT ANY GIVEN PERSON THINKS OF HIM. FORTHE STRENGTH OF THE DON JUAN FLOWS FROM WITHIN, NOT FROM WITHOUT. THEDON JUAN KNOWS THAT HE IS THE POSSESSOR OF INCREDIBLE KNOWLEDGE THAT CANNEVER BE TAKEN FROM HIM, SO HE IS SECURE IN HIMSELF, FOR HE KNOWS THATWHEREVER HE GOES, HE TAKES HIS SOURCE OF HAPPINESS WITH HIM, FOR HISSOURCE IS A PART OF HIMSELF AND IS INDEPENDENT OF EXTERNAL SOURCES.SINCE SO MANY PEOPLE LACK HAPPINESS, THEY FLOCK TO THE MASTER IN HOPE TOLEARN HIS SECRETS. THEREFORE, THE MASTER GAINS RESPECT AND INFLUENCE

WITH NO EFFORT AT ALL. ALSO, THE MASTER DON JUAN KNOWS THAT HISKNOWLEDGE TAKES NO STEADY SUPPLY OF RESOURCES SUCH AS MONEY TO MAINTAIN,SO HE HAS AN ENDLESS SUPPLY OF EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCY. FOR AS LONG AS HEIS ALIVE, THE MASTER KNOWS THAT HE IS ABLE TO MODERATE HIS HAPPINESSBECAUSE NOTHING CAN TRULY REMOVE HIS PSYCHOLOGICAL SECURITY IN HIMSELFAS LONG AS HE WISHES TO MAINTAIN IT.

This teaching also holds true in relationships, as well. For example,remember the desperation that the AFC experiences. This feeling arisesnot from isecurity, but because the AFC is dependent on having agirlfriend in order to feel love and a sense of belonging. Ironically,It is this feeling which drives women from him.

The Don Juan, on the other hand, is not dependent on a girlfriend for

happiness. With his superior knowledge and skills, the Don Juan knowsthat he can have a girlfriend any time he chooses, so therefore onecannot be dependent on what one does not steadily require. This isbecause the Don Juan is his own source of happiness. He does notnecessarily NEED companionship; he only seeks it when he wants it. Inthis manner, the Don Juan only seeks a relationship when he wants one;when he does not want companionship, it is because he is too busypursuing his own goals and dreams. This is where the power of self-actualization comes into play.

Perpetual Self actualization is the nirvana of the Master Don Juan. Bythe time he becomes a true master, the Don Juan knows that since he isemotionally independent of other people or things, he is then able topursue his own dreams and goals and in so doing derive a form ofhappiness. This is because a self-actualized Don Juan is so secure inhimself that he knows that he does not need to pursue happiness becausehe already has it, and in endles supply. Self-improvement provides anendless series of possible challenges for the Don Juan, so he has noworry of running out of ways to improve his abilities.

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TRAINING SESSION 1

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Table of Contents:

1. Introduction

2. An Explanation of the Don Juan System

3. Beginning the Transition

4. Questions and Answers

5. Recommended Reading

WHO CAN BECOME A DON JUAN?

Greetings to the Don Juan initiate who is using this book to begin theirtraining. I have much to share with you concerning your futureadvancements. It is always good to add a new Don Juan to our order, andhopefully, you will be able to reap perpetual success from what I, ShumaGora, am about to teach you.

To begin with, training to be a Don Juan requires a massive amount ofcommitment from both the teacher and the trainee. You will be expectedto forsake all that you think you know about women, and once you havedone that, you must be willing to accept what i am about to teach youwithout question. I require such commitment from you, my friend, becauseit is for your own good. Much of what I am about to teach you directlyand blatantly conflicts with what you may have learned from society. Inorder for you to progress very far with my teachings, you must bewilling to unlearn what you currently know, and accept my teachingsbecause if you fail to do so, you will be continuously comparing myteachings against what society teaches. This may confuse you and slowthe progress of your training.

Few have come to realize, as I have, that the Don Juan system is notmerely a way to meet and be successful with women. It is not even a truesystem. It is in a basic sense an IDEA.

The idea about which I speak is an entirely new way of thinking aboutwomen and life in general. The reason why our order is so successful isbecause the idea of the Don Juan system is not something many peopleever learn about, or are ready to accept, so this gives us the advantageof being able to look like everyone else, but at the same time have moreknowledge than everyone else. However, the opportunity for someone toturn to the Don Juan path is limited, and it is ever diminishing.

This is because unless someone remains open-minded to new ideas over thefull course of their life, then there comes a time when they become setin their natural ways and tendencies. This can well be considered apoint of no return, because once an AFC has reached this point, they areforever doomed to be an AFC; it is simply too late to begin the trainingbecause these people are unwilling to learn or believe anything contraryto what they now hold to be truth. These people are doomed to be AFCsfor life with no real means of escaping their destiny, simply becausethey do not know the dangerous path that they are on.

Fortunately for you, my friend, since you are reading this book at thisvery moment, you have escaped the doom of being an AFC for life, becausenow, you have a choice in the matter.

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Your point of no return has arrived for you, my friend, but since youknow that the Don Juan system exists, you now have a choice in yourdestiny.

This is because now that you know both possible fates, you must choose apath to become fully committed to. Once you choose, it is difficult to

change your direction or forsake your current path for the other one.

This is because once you choose to be either a Don Juan or an AFC, youmust be committed fully to that path. No one can be both an AFC and aDon Juan: the systems are the exact opposites of each other. No one canserve two masters, he will always in the end forsake one for the other.As time passes and someone progresses down the Don Juan path and gainsknowledge, they are simultaneously losing their connection to the AFCpath. The opposite is also true; the longer someone remains an AFC, theyare ever less likely to become a Don Juan. Soon, both situations lead toa point of no return where a devotee of one side is completely unable toaccess the traits of the other side. When this happens, they are all butimpossible to convert because they have become set in their ways.

I believe that even these people are able to become converted to the

other path even after the point of no return, but it will becomeincreasingly difficult the longer someone remains in their final stateafter the point of no return. Even if these people are able to beconvinced to accept the new Don Juan system, I fear that they would havealready been too long exposed to the blinding effects of the AFC sideto be able to fully comprehend the training and to replace their long-reinforced AFC habits with it. I certaintly do not give much hope fortheir chances of progressing all the way to Master Don Juan-- the habitsand core knowledge that must be unlearned at that stage are more thanlikely too deeply embedded to be overwritten, for there are some AFCtendencies that the older trainee will never fully relinquish.

For this reason, Don Juan training is best done even as soon as earlyadolescense, so the learner may reach the final stages of advanced Don

Juan wisdom long before the advent of the point of no return. At thisearly age, it is also easier to make the younger trainee take my wisdomto heart, for at such a young age, the trainee will not have been aslong exposed to our AFC society as for the AFC mindset to have becomerelatively permanent as it will have in later years.

Even if you are past the ideal age of training my friend, it still maynot be too late for you. For at any age, the process is never trulyimpossible, it is simply harder to accept the older one gets. In yourcase, if you are past the ideal age, you MUST open your mind fully andbe prepared to unlearn all that you have always believed concerningwomen. Release everything right down to your core consciousness, but donot attempt to modify your core consciousness quite yet.

Your core consciousness, also known as your "personality" by mostpeople, is basically who your are as an individual person. It is whatmakes you human. Some cultures refer to it as your soul, the part ofyou that they believe will live on forever and is spiritual in nature.Whatever it is, I know that it is who you actually are. It has yourunique feelings and style imprinted on it. It is a part of your mind,but yet somehow it is present but separate from your mind.

It is my theory that your core conscious determines who you are as yourperson, but it is not directly a part of your main mind. Your main mindis where your memories are stored, but your core consciousness is

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somewhat separated from the rest of your mind, but is yet fullyconnected and intimate with it. Many people think that your personalitycannot be changed, but it can be. It is an incredibly advanced techniquethat I will not explain here, but I will cover it completely elsewherein the book.

Once you have isolated al your previous knowledge and have set it aside,

Proceed on to Part 2.

PART TWO: THE BASIC TENENTS OF DON JUAN

Like I said in the previous part of this lesson, the Don Juan system isactually a whole new mindset and outlook on life. Our order is sosuccessful because, unlike the AFC culture, the Don Juan System, isstructured and has a definite procedure to follow.

Our system has been tested and perfected over the years, and we havekept only the most useful and effective elements as part of ourdoctrine. Now that you have isolated your previous knowledge and set itaside forever, it is time to replace that which was removed withsomething far superior.

There are three main pillars of Don Juan: Confidence, Challenge, andAttitude. These three are all equally powerful and equally vital to yoursuccess, for in order to have a solid grasp of the Don Juan system, atrainee must know and understand all three pillars of Don Juan.

CONFIDENCE

The first pillar is that of confidence. A Don Juan must master the skillof confidence if any of the other skills are to be put to any use atall. Confidence is the catalyst that drives the Don Juan to action.Without the power of confidence, the Don Juan will never be able toprogress because he lacks the boldness to put what he has learned touse.

A Don Juan that is newly initiated into our order may not know thesource of confidence or how to use it effectively. To answer theirquestions, I will now explain the true nature of confidence.

To the Don Juan, confidence is his power source. It gives him the driveand motivation needed to achieve his goals as well as overcome obstaclesin life. The prime benefit of this power, though, is it's availabilityand ease of acquisition.

Quite simply, confidence is produced by the Don Juan himself. If flowsfrom within him at a mere thought, and it sustains him and empowers him.The key aspect of the power of confidence is that it need not bereplenished.

Once a Don Juan is initiated into the order, he is only able to summonconfidence in brief spurts, but he is unable to use it to it's fullpotential and it quickly leaves him after the task at hand has passed.

This is because the initiate Don Juan has not yet learned thatconfidence need not be a temporary aspect of his personality. As the DonJuan puts his learned knowledge to use, his ability to summon confidencebecomes stronger, more reliable, and has a longer duration in it'sbenefits. This is because as the Don Juan grows in power, he begins tolearn the technique for storing confidence within himself.

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This technique is not learned, but is rather one that is grown into.Even if it is presented as a learned technique to a new Don Juan, thenew initiate is still unable to use it because at his current level ofknowledge, he would only know of how the technique works in theory. Ittakes experience for the usage of the technique to begin.

This technique involves the ability to summon confidence, and, ratherthan letting it dissipate when the task that you summoned it for iscomplete, you would instead store the confidence within you for lateruse.

You see, my friend, when you have a spark of confidence burning withinyou and have learned how to maintain it, your capacity for storingconfidence will grow, and you will need to summon less new confidence tosupplement that which has already been stored.

The reason why we are able to store confidence is that once we havegained understanding of it, we are then able to see it in it's truenature. Confidence takes no resources on your part to acquire, so youhave a free and infinite supply at your disposal. The drawback toconfidence for the new Don Juan is that it is initially difficult to

summon enough of it at once to be useful for the problem at hand. Yousee, your ability to be confident is limited only by how strong yourbelief in it's power truly is. New Don Juans tend to underestimate theirabilities, so they limit themselves to small ammounts of confidence atfirst. This is because after prior living life with little to noconfidence, they are over-awed by the power that comes with a relativelysmall ammount. They then believe that they have enough confidence tohandle anything indefinitely, but they have taken only a small ammountand they have not yet learned to maintain it for long periods of time.When their confidence supply begins to diminish, they are confused aboutwhat may be happening to them, and they begin to blame themselves fortheir sudden lack of confidence, not fully realizing that because oftheir low level of experience, their supply of confidence must bereplenished until they learn how to store it.

So if you are a new Don juan initiate, my friend, do not make themistake of assuming that the confidence that you feel right now will bepermanent, because it will not be. Rather than to allow you to learn thehard way as I did, I will now attempt to point you in the rightdirection.

I have learned that confidence is easily summoned when you look to pastsuccess for inspiration. Once you remember how confident you were in thepast, you will come to realize that there is nothing stopping you fromfeeling that way again. You will realize that confidence is notdetermined by actions or setbacks in life, but is instead determinedabout how yo ufeel about yourself. Confidence has no limits, and itquickly is able to sustain those who know that they are able to accessit any time that they wish. Since it is always available around you ininfinite supply, you are quickly able to summon enough to serve yourneeds.

However, there is a more efficient way to understand confidence. Ratherthan simply allow yurself to gain vast ammounts of it and just as easilylose it, you must ask yourself, why must it even leave at all? Why mustI be forced to fully replenish my supply of confidence every time I needit? Why can't I simply store a considerable ammount within myself, andthen draw from my own reserves as needed?

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Since Confidence is by nature infinite and has no limits, you thereforecannot deplete your stored reserves by drawing from them because usingconfidence does not require that you subtract any from your supply. Thisis because confidence is not a tangible thing like money, which has afinite supply that you are steadily adding to and decreasing from.Confidence is not something that you can actually posess, only use.Because you do not actually possess it, you cannot actually lose it.

REALIZING THIS, I HAVE LEARNED THAT CONFIDENCE IS NOT AT ALL WHAT MOSTDON JUANS THINK IT IS. CONFIDENCE IS JUST THE WORD THAT WE APPLY TO THECOURAGE-SUMMONING MINDSET WHICH DRIVES US FORWARD.

You are able to store confidence because you are not storing the actualconfidence per se, merely the couragous mindset that it gives you. Theactual confidence cannot be stored or used. We only use the term'confidence' to describe the particular kind of mindset that gives youthe drive to go out and achieve great deeds instead of hanging back inhesitation. Rather than thinking of confidence as a separate entity fromyourself, you must capture and assimilate the feelings that confidencegives you. These feelings are what we Don Juans draw our power from; weonly call it confidence for lack of a better word.

Once you have captured and assimilated this mindset that we like to call

confidence, you have made it a part of oyu, and therefore, you willnever have to summon additional confidence BECAUSE YOU HAVE ASSIMILATEDTHE MINDSET THAT MAKES CONFIDENCE EFFECTIVE. SINCE YOU HAVE ASSIMILATEDIT, YOU HAVE NO NEED TO GAIN ADDITIONAL CONFIDENCE, FOR NOW YOU *ARE*CONFIDENCE. THIS IS BECAUSE YOU HAVE SEEN CONFIDENCE FOR WHAT IT REALLYIS, AND SINCE YOU HAVE LEARNED HOW TO USE IT IN ITS PURIST FORM, NONE OFTHE OTHER WAYS OF USING CONFIDENCE EVEN COME CLOSE.

So remember, my friend, confidence need not be an asset that is separatefrom you. instead, it is best put to use when you have learned how tomake the mindset that confidence produces a permanent part of you.

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HOW TO INSIDUOUSLY MANIPULATE HUMAN NATURE

My Friend, the completion of your training requires you to know andunderstand how the minds of the average individual works, and how to usethat for your own advantage. Whether or not you choose to use thisteaching is up to you, for the goals of every Don Juan is different, butour methodology is stil the same.

This is because the Don Juan system requires us to be covert whenever wepossibly can. This is because the success of our system and tacticsrevolves around our innate ability to exercise them while masqueradingas the average person. A Don Juan looks like an average person, yet hismindset should be considered anything but average.

My Friend, the Master Don Juan knows how to effectively manipulate anynumber of people should the need arise. When done properly, he is ableto use their own internal conflicts to his advantage. He knows how tolearn their innermost thoughts, their very soul, just by observing theiractions as well as saying the right thing at the right time. This skill,although it may be considered by most as a technique of questionablemorality, is still something every Don Juan should learn and master.

The prime thing that you should remember is that in order for thisknowledge to be effective, it should be done entirely in

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HOW TO CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY

*This teaching is an incredibly advanced technique, and as such, it maybe disasterous if not performed properly. It requires an incredibleammount of self-discipline, knowledge of one's own personality, and awillingness to change it. I must also caution that it is nearlyimpossible to reverse once performed. Once you overwrite yourpersonality, YOU ARE RE-CREATING A WHOLE NEW CORE CONSCIOUSNESS FORYOURSELF. YOU ARE SACRIFICING WHO YOU USED TO BE, AND ARE BASICALLYASSEMBLING A NEW SET OF PREFERENCES FOR YOURSELF.

THEREFORE, THIS TECHNIQUE REQUIRES A CONSIDERABLE AMMOUNT OF KNOWLEDGETO PERFORM PROPERLY. IT'S ADVANTAGE IS THAT IT ALLOWS YOU TO COMPLETELYAND PERMANENTLY REMOVE YOUR INNER AFC TENDENCIES, BUT THE COST IS THATYOU ARE UNABLE TO RETRIEVE WHAT YOU HAVE REMOVED. THEREFORE, USE THISTECHNIQUE AT YOUR OWN RISK. *

This incredibly advanced teaching can be summed up as creating a newpersonality for yourself, my friend. As you may well know, humanconsciousness takes place on two levels: conscious and unconscious.Although your core consciousness (the most basic sense of who you are)is part of the sub-conscious area, there is some degree of overlap.

Because of this, yo ucannot change who you are, but you can change HOWYOU THINK as well as YOUR MINDSETS AND PREFERENCES.

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HOW TO USE THE INSECURITY OF OTHERS FOR YOUR OWN ADVANTAGE

My Friend, one of the greatest assets to our system is the fact that welive surrounded by AFCS who are ignorant of the true nature of things.As you well know, AFCs are desperate and insecure by nature, whereas weare the exact opposite. What many Don Juans don't know is that we canuse the insecurity of others to our advantage.

For example, there are situations in which it may be difficult to summon(much less maintain) the mindset of confidence that gives us our power.Without this mindset firmly in place within our conscious minds, we arenot at peak performance.

Many Don Juans, new and experienced alike, find it hard to maintainconfidence in various types of situations. One situation that I havefelt this myself is when it is the first day in a new place where Idon't know anyone. Everyone feels this feeling, it is normal not to becompletely at ease in situations like this. However, some of us may wishto surpass the current extent of what is considered to be normal.

I have recently realized several things about insecurity in general.First off, A Don Juan may feel insecure at times, but he does not needto. He only feels this way because he is able to pick up on theinsecurity of others. Insecurity is contagious; it can quickly spreadand corrup the confidence oif all it infects. However, rather than let

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inscecurity rob you of confidence, why not devise a way to use theconfidence that it has robbed from other people?

People (especially AFCs) feel insecure often because they have boughtinto the lie that they don't have what ti takes to be successful withwomen. That, combined with desperation, is often enough to deplete themof confidence entirely. With their confidence thus diminished, the AFc

emits an aura of desperation and helplessness. Since women are repelledby this, the AFC begins to blame himself for his continued lack ofsuccess. Over time, given enough failures, the AFC begins to be afraidto approach women because he believes that no woman wants to be withhim, or that something is fundamentally wrong with his game. This is theorigin of insecurity.

After reading this technique, you will know that a Don Juan knows noinsecurity. The Don Juan holds more power within him than the averageAFC can ever hope for. The power is always available for use; it needsonly a little bit of confidence to work.

So, how can confidence be gained if you cannot generate it yourself?

The way that you can feed off of the insecurity of others is to look

around next time you are feeling a shortage of confidence. You will seethe shyness, the confusion, and the silence of the people around you.You wil lbegin to notice that they are sitting or standing quietly,saying nothing, arms crossed. Their body language is not inviting, andyou can see no women glancing their way.

Just by looking at them, and observing their insecurity, you will beginto feel more confident. This is because you will begin to realize thatyou know considerably more than they do, and because of this, there isno reason for you to feel insecure. The confidence surge that this willgive you is enough to give you the extra courage to begin talking todifferent people. In this way, you will always be able to summon asmuch confidence as you wish by using the very same insecurity that holdsother people back to your own advantage.

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THE LAW OF UNDULATION

My friend, I am sure that you may have wondered what exactly causes youto experience a slump in your Don Juan Progression.

Since we as humans live in and are affected by time, our patterns ofsuccess and failure come in sets. This is because the universe demandsbalance. Newton also hit upon this law when he stated in his Third lawof Motion that for every action, there is an equal and oppositereaction. However, the phenomena that cause this balance are not boundto interactions between physical objects. They also affect our mindsets

After we have a period of success, we are due for a period of failure.In other words, for every high that we experience, there is acorresponding low. Have you ever noticed how everything is constantlyfluctuating between a good state and a bad state? The economy is oneexample, especially these days. Another example is people that havedepression. In this case, people are happy for a span of time, and thenthey are depressed for a span of time. In short, anything and everything

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that can experience change from one state to another is affected by somesort of influencial phenomenon that is present in our world.

I have called this strange phenomenon the LAW OF UNDULATION. (Undulation is normally used to describe anything that moves in a wave-like pattern. In this case, Success is the high point and failure is the

low point of each wave. )

Like everything else, the Law of Undulation affects your ability to usethe Don Juan System because you physically exist in time in the form ofmatter. However, since the Don Juan System itself does not physicallyexist in time, but is rather an idea that is not made of matter, it isnot affected by the Law of Undulation. Because of this, the Systemitself is not prone to failure at any given time; it always works ifexecuted properly.

There is no way for you to escape the Law of Undulation, but there areways to shorten or reduce it's effects on your mindset. First of all,the best way to break a cycle of failure is to begin a cycle of success.Rather than just wait for a cycle of success to come to you naturally,you can take matters into your own hands and create success for

yourself.

Also, you can remind yourself that your mindset does not have to change.After all, my friend, what you have within your mind is an idea,therefore, it cannot be altered by the Law of Undulation. Therefore,what you have learned will stay with you and remain consistent whetheror not you are curently experiencing a high point or a low point. Theway you can use this to oyur advantage is to skip over the emotional lowthat the law of undulation has locked you into, and you must realizethat you are still the same man that you were when you experienced yourmost recent time of success. Because of this, it is easy to use what youhave learned to get back on your feet even when you are in the midst ofa low period.

So remember, my friend, just because the Law of Undulation exists, itdoes not mean that you have to let it stop you from acquiring thesuccess that is yours.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF THE EYES

It has been said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. This is truein many ways. Over the years, I have learned that a Master Don Juan canaccomplish much just by effective use of the eyes.

First off, my friend, you should learn that the eyes play a massive rolein body language. Just by looking at the position of the eyes andeyebrows, anyone can interpret someone else's mood. However, what I amabout to teach you goes beyond common knowledge.

To begin with, the pupils in a woman's eyes will tell you much about hermood and interest. The pupils contract when she is seeing something thatshe has low interest in, and likewise, her pupils will dililate when shesees something that she is attracted to. This response is a reflex andcannot be controlled.

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Once you understand the mechanics behind this response, I will tell youhow to use it to your advantage. These techniques are useful in gettinga general idea about her interest in general. Both of these techniquesare meant to be used in order to guage her interest level prior tomaking your approach.

What you must do is make eye contact and look into her eyes in order to

check for pupil dililation. You must master the timing and duration forwhich to do this, because doing it for an insufficient ammount of timewil lcome across as timid and insecure, and doing it for too long willmake her uncomfortable. If she begins to look uncomfortable, always bepreparedto give her a big smile. The smile is a powerful reassuringagent, so it will be useful to prevent her from freaking out.

Another way that the eyes can be used if you are not close enough tocheck her pupils is to make direct eye contact and hold it. Once shenotices you, smile. If she smiles back, it is a good indicator, but donot mistake this for proof of definite attraction. In the event that shedoes smile, it would be an ideal time to make your approach. If shedoesn't smile, or looks away, you had best forget her and keep onlooking. The initial approach will make or break any potential

relationships that you may later have with her, so it always pays tolearn how to keep the odds in your favour.

Remember, my friend, before you make your approach, look into her eyes.

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HOW TO EFFECTIVELY USE KINO

Kino (Short for kinesics: "the study of body movements, gestures, facialmovements, etc. , as a means of communication" - [Websters CollegeDictionary] ) is one of the most powerful components of the Don JuanPhilosophy. It is a prime catalyst that is is crucial in effective

seduction, and it is used to help convey your sexual intentions in asubtle manner by using touch at the appropriate intervals and times .

Kino is very powerful, and as such, it is best used sparingly inprecisely the right moments or it is likely to do more harm than good.What you must remember above all else, my friend, is that theeffectiveness of Kino depends on it's subtleness. If she knows that youare actively using kino with sexual intentions, then your kino waspoorly executed.

The reason why kino is so powerful is because many people are starvedfor human contact in our increasingly impersonal world. Because of this,KINO IS INVERSELY PROPORTIONAL TO THE AMMOUNT OF HUMAN TOUCH SHERECEIVES ON A DAILY BASIS. In some countries, people are more accustomedto being closer together than in others, so in cases such as this,kino's effectiveness is diminished, but you will find that it is stillquite potent nonetheless. On the opposite end of the spectrum, women inlarge American cities are literally starved in most instances for humancontact, so in these situations, Kino is extremely powerful, so thusless is needed to initiate the response that you are attempting to evokethrough the usage of kino.

The way to properly execute kino is to do it so casually and naturallythat she does not suspect anything, yet plainly enough so that shesubconsciously acts on the sexual impulse conveyed by the touch.

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Kino is best started as soon as you have an opportunity to execute it insuch a way that it will appear to be stimulating, yet non-threatening.Kino must be performed with utmost confidence, or it will be wastedeffort on your part. Kino must be applied directly; you cannot"accidentally" do kino, because kino that is interpreted as accidentalis apt to be dismissed and it will not serve your interests.

Kino is to be applied in non-sexual areas of the body, such as thehands, arms, shoulders, etc. This is because it must appear to be non-threatening, so you must not apply kino to obviously sexual areas.

In order to learn how to use kino, you need to know how to judge timing.Any time where you are close to her would be a good time to beginlooking for an opportunity. Kino takes a variety of forms, some ofwhich I will now explain to you. Keep in mind, my friend, that the formof kino to use is larely dependent on the current situation, so theappropriate form(s) must be chosen to best deal with the immediatesituation at hand.

-A good way to apply kino to the hands is to mention a particular ring

that she is wearing. While you lift her hand towards you (appearing tobe taking a closer look at the ring from the viewpoint of the casualobserver) you should be running your fingers lightly across her palm.To maintain the subtleness, only one stroke of her palm is required.

-A variation of the previous technique is to brush her hair aside withyour hand to presumably check one of her earings. This is best used ifshe has no rings on her fingers, or in place of the first technique. Youshould not use these two together, because then it becomes suspicious.

-When you are sitting down, make a reason to get up, and while you aredoing so, nonchalantly run your hand across the top of her shoulders andback. Do it lightly, exerting no pressure, but heavy enough for her to

feel.

-To get her attention, touch her on the shoulder, and then run yourfingers down her forearm to the elbow (but no lower than her elbow).

These forms of kino are ones that I frequently use, so theireffectiveness has been proven. These should be enough to get youstarted. As you start learning the basics of kino, you wil easily beable to come up with your own variations, but these should be enough toget you started.

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TYPES OF WOMEN TO AVOID

The prime reason why the Don Juan System is necessary is because in ourmodern era, women have become more manipulative and devious than theyever have before. I place the blame for this squarely on the shouldersof the feminists, who have encouraged women to act like this. Theproducts of feminism are the goldiggers, Sunshine Girls, and attentionwhores. Both of these types of women have learned that they can scam theaverage man into doing things for them (for free) if they act a certainway. These women only serve their own interests and because of this, I

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urge Don Juans to stay away from them, or else your life will quicklybecome a living hell.

Since these women are so prevalent in modern society, a very prominentproblem is how to sort them out from the decent women. The only to learnthe true nature of a woman is to observe what she does, not what shesays.

GOLDDIGGERS

This type of woman is very materialistic and is the typical high-maintenance girlfriend. the golddigger is very adept at convincing weak-minded men to do things for her without ever doing anything for them inreturn. She uses sex as the proverbial "carrot on the stick"; it is herprimary motivator.

Golddiggers are attracted to men with money and power. These girls areessentially human parasites; they find one victim, drain his resources,and then move on to the next. women like this have no intention ofcommitting to a relationship, that is, unless you still have a dollar to

your name. They maintain control by using the classic "If you really

love me, you will buy/do [something] for me." line.

The way to detect a golddigger is to ask yourself if she is happy onlywhen you buy or do something for her. Also, another red flag to lookfor is to ask yourself if she ever does anything for you unless you dosomething for her first. If you regularly end up buying gifts for her,it is probable that you have a golddigger on your hands.

The way to avoid goldiggers is to realize that they show their truenature right away. These are the kinds of women that want you to buythem drinks. (the fact that you don't even know them is irrelevant tothe fact that they just want a free drink, and she has chosen you to beher next victim). When this happens, refuse to buy her a drink.

Prevention is the cure in this case, for a goldigger will not get herhooks into you if you do not provide her an opportunity, my friend.

SUNSHINE GIRLS

Sunshine Girls are harder to spot because in order to detect them, youmust have a firm understanding of how she socializes and interacts on aregular basis. This is because a Sunshine Girl is nothing more than atease. This is the type of girl who is likely to flirt with anything ofthe male gender.

The sunshine girl never flirts because of interest, she flirts just forthe sake of flirting. It is for this reason, you should never take agirl's advances seriously until you have her phone number in your hands.The sunshine girl gets her pleasure by misleading men into infatuatingover her, and in so doing boosting her insecure little ego. Sunshinegirls are only happy when they have guys after them. This is the kind ofwoman that likes to have guys fight over her, and ends up going out withnone of them.

Even when a sunshine girl is in a relationship, she can never fully betrusted because she is most likely to cheat on the side while she isseeing you. The sunshine girl craves male attention above all else, so

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there is a degree of overlap with the next category, the AttentionWhore.

ATTENTION WHORES

The Attention Whore is the typical drama queen. These actively try toenter into relationships because they crave male attention above all

else. Attention Whores are by far the most insecure and manipulative ofall women. Attention Whores will throw tantrums and cry when you defythem. Attention Whores are most likely to be gameplayers, and to testevery man that she sees for any hint of infidelity. This stems from herinsecurity. The attention whore must always have the upper hand in therelationship in order to feel happy. This kind of girl will go toridiculous lengths to get her own way, not caring how she humiliatesothers, herself, or you in the process. Attention whores are extremelyvindictive and paranoid, and some even will attempt to stalk you becausein their insecure little minds, they constantly suspect you of cheatingon them.

Attention Whores and Goldiggers tend to run together because theymanipulate men is similar ways: the goldigger will continue to see a manas long as he has money, and the attention whore will continue to see a

man as long as he gives her a steady supply of attention and fills herevery whim. Goldiggers use their looks and body to get what they want,Attention Whores use their looks and tirades to get what they want.

The best way to avoid Attention whores is to remain a challenge, and tokeep her guessing about where she stands with you. When you do this,Attention whores will crack under the pressure and leave you for a truesucker.

The Don Juan System equips us to avoid these types of women because theyare unable to handle our superior power and knowledge. As we learn howto spot and thus avoid wasting our time with these women, we are leftwith the women that are worthy of our time.

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UNDERSTANDING BODY LANGUAGE

Body language is an extremely useful thing to be aware of when you areabout to make your approach. This is because in order for you to make aneffective approach, you must know if she is receptive to you or not.Body language plays a key role in this because it lets you estimate hergeneral interest level towards you when she notices you.

I remind you, my friend, that body language is not meant to gauge herprecise interest level; it only lets you know that there is an interestlevel to speak of. With this in mind, there are certain signals to watchfor. These signals do not mean anything individually, but when you beginto receive several of them, it does indicate interest.

I remind you again, these signals are not meant to convey to you herprecise level of interest. It is only meant to give indication of anyinterest at all.

With all that said, here are some very general signs to look for:

-She looks at you with quick, darting glances

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-She looks at you, then looks down, and then looks away

-She looks at you, and then brushes her hair with her hand. This signalis likely to be the most common one that you receive.

-She points her torso in your general direction. This indicates openness

and receptiveness towards you.

-She presents her wrists to you when she is talking to you. If theundersides of her wrists are turned outwards while her hands are at hersides, then this symbol is being demonstated. This symbol has ancientroots, and was often used as a symbol of trust in ancient times. It hasbeen integrated into our culture down through the centuries and has beenmore or less assimilated into our culture today.

THE TECHNIQUE FOR SUMMONING A SURGE OF CONFIDENCE

My friend, what you are about to learn is one of the newer techniquesthat I have learned how to use. I discovered its usage ratheraccidentally. Despite it’s recent discovery, this technique as I havecome to realize it is by far the most powerful technique of it’s kindthat I have ever seen to this day.

By now, my friend, you should know that the true source of confidencecomes from within. We generate it from within ourselves, and it sustainsus for the challenges that we face every day. However, in order to makeuse of the confidence available to us, we must first pull it into ourmindset and make it a part of us.

Years ago, I tried to accomplish this through many ways. I tried toconcentrate it and force it into my mindset through sheer willpower.

While this is effective to some extent, it did not deliver exactly whatI wanted. Whenever I did this, the confidence flowed into my mind slowlylike a sluggish river. It was enough to sustain me, but not enough forwhat I truly wished to generate and use. I knew that confidence existedall around me in infinite quantity to be drawn upon; it needed only tobe called into existence to be used.

I have already stated earlier that confidence is by nature a mindsetthat comes and goes until you learn the ability to contain itpermanently within you. It comes and goes with our various mood shifts,sort of like how the ocean tide flows in and out daily. However, themindset is easier to acquire when we picture it as an intangible essencethat is floating around us, just like the air that we breathe. The airaround us is drifting, waiting to be consumed. It is easier to useconfidence if you envision yourself to be immersed in it like you are inair. Just like air must be inhaled in order to be breathed, confidencemust be drawn into us in order to be used.

Since confidence is by nature an intangible mindset, it therefore existsin infinite quantity, and it’s potency is unable to be diminished.Therefore, there is no theoretical limit to how much confidence you cancontain within your mind at one time. Coming to this realization on thespur of the moment, I have devised a way to gain an incredible flood ofconfidence. The secret to gaining more is how you draw upon it.

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Before I discovered this technique, I was trying to forcefully pull theconfidence into my mind so I could use it. However, since confidence isby nature infinite, it is without number or limit. Because of this, Iwas unable to forcefully measure a set quantity of confidence because Iwould be trying to grasp infinity. The human mind is unable to fullycomprehend infinity for the sheer immensity of it. Because I was tryingto forcefully pull the confidence into my mindset, I was only

subtracting minuscule buckets from an endless ocean.

In short, I was only able to grasp a fraction of what I could truly use.

Upon this realization, I realized that since confidence can quicklyleave your mindset, it could just as easily flow into it.

THIS IS THE FUNDAMENTAL TRUTH:

Rather than removing small quantities from the whole infinite quantityas I did before, I did the exact opposite: I LET THE WHOLE INFINITEQUANTITY FLOW INTO ME UNTIL I COULD CONTAIN NO MORE.

When I had tried to actively summon confidence in the past, it alwaysflowed in like a small river. When I opened myself fully to it, theconfidence surged into me like a massive, huge waterfall. I was quicklyfilled to my limits within instants. I was permeated with confidence; Icould feel it filling my whole consciousness with an incredible surge of

energy, happiness, and boldness. I FELT LIKE I COULD DO ** ABSOLUTELY**

ANYTHING.

This technique is so effective because you are opening yourself fully tothe intangible supply of confidence around you. Rather than trying tophysically draw it out in small quantities, it is by far easier and moreeffective to visualize the confidence of infinity flowing into you untilyou can contain no more without being overwhelmed. You can literallyfeel the rush and surge fill your body like a tidal wave.

HOW TO USE THIS TECHNIQUE

Pook said, “As you think, so you shall become.” When I think of amassive waterfall of confidence pouring into me, I literally take on theconfidence that I mentally envision. As long as I am mentallyvisualizing the waterfall of confidence pouring into me, I can LITERALLYfeel the confidence continue to pour into my mind. Once I have reachedmy limit, I attempt to bring the confidence that I have generated intomy current thoughts. In this way, you are able to utilize confidence andbring it into your mindset simply by concentrating.

HOW DO YOU DEVELOP THIS ABILITY?

Through my experience, It had to be awakened within me by doingmultiple, sequential acts where confidence is required. As I did moreand more of these acts (such as approaches, or even something simplesuch as smiling and greeting people) it became easier and easier, and Istarted to feel more and more confident. Now prior to this, I already

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had a high supply of confidence, but doing multiple actions thatrequired confidence, I could feel my confidence supply start growing. Iwas able to be more confident than I had ever been before. Emboldened, Iwas determined to continue the process until I had become so confidentthrough sequential experience that I could no longer contain theconfidence flowing into me.

It was at this point where I discovered how to do this technique. Thebest news of all is that once achieved initially, this technique iseasier to do every time. The most difficult part is learning how to doit the first time. Once you have mastered it, then the confidence willalways be ready to flow at your command.

Like lesser levels of confidence, it can be stored within your mindsetfor permanent use. Confidence is “stored’ only when you permanentlydevelop a confident mindset that is absolutely unbreakable, for you willcontain this confidence at all times. However, you cannot store thistype of confidence permanently, although you can maintain it throughconsiderable amounts of time.

This is because in this case, we are dealing with confidence in its

purist form. Because of this, you simply cannot contain it for extendedlengths of time because it simply leaves you once the task that youcreated it for has been resolved. I assume that it is possible, givensignificant time and training, to be able to contain increasingly largerpercentages of it alongside your conventional confidence.

However, this more powerful surge of confidence also leaves your normalstored confidence feeling revitalized and empowered in some way that Ihave yet to understand. Perhaps once you realize how emotionally chargedyou can become with a surge of pure confidence, you may learn how tomake more effective use of the confident mindset that you carry with youdaily.

BEING PASSIONATE FOR LIFE

One of the most important aspects of the entire Don Juan philosophy ispersonal fulfillment. This means, my friend, that we are free to pursueour goals (whatever those may be) and we have no reason to be concernedabout a shortage of women because they come to us.

Since the Master Don Juan is therefore free to pursue his own interests,he should be passionate about life as a whole because there is trulynothing standing in his way. The Master does not need to worry aboutfears, insecurities, or any other character flaws. This is because he isconsistently and steadily improving himself, so flaws are eliminatedshortly after they become manifest.

The Master Don Juan knows that life is fleeting. There is no guaranteethat he will live to see tomorrow, so the Master Don Juan must always beprepared to live life to it’s fullest. Therefore, the Master knows thatit is essential to become passionate about life, for what good is a lifethat is lived without passion? A passionless life is like the morningmist; it lingers for a short while, and is gone as if it had neverexisted. YOU CANNOT TRULY ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING IN LIFE UNLESS YOU AREPASSIONATE ABOUT WHAT IT IS THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO ACCOMPLISH.

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There are several keys to being passionate about life. I must credit mymanager, David Madrid, for providing a motivational talk about passionbecause ultimately that talk helped me trigger insights about howpassion can be applied to a Don Juan. I have used what he taught as abase, but I have adapted the teachings to be more relevant to our cause.

KEY 1: BEING PASSIONATE ABOUT YOUR GOALS ATTRACTS WOMEN

My friend, the essence of passion is doing what you enjoy doing merelyfor the pleasure it provides. Think of musicians that haven’t “soldout”. Musicians that enjoy playing for the love of the music are lovedand respected by many because they are willing to sacrifice income theycould have acquired by commercializing their work. Musicians are oftenwilling to sacrifice fame and money in order to stay true to who theyreally are and what message their music delivers.

Another situation where passion plays a major role is in the case of apainter or sculptor. Usually, artists are never paid to do their work,they are in it because it appeals to them and gives them a way toexpress themselves. Because their work is more or less a direct

extension of their personality, the artist will not stop until theirwork is exactly the way they want it. This is why they are willing tospend their entire lives working on one project- it is an attempt atcreating a legacy for themselves, and it is fueled by passion.

So, how does this relate to a Don Juan?

The answer to that question lies in the fact that the Master Don Juanknows that he has the potential to make a difference in the world.Rather than chase after the women with no specific goal in mind likemany others have done, the Master decides to fulfill his dreams and letthe women come to him. In the end, the women come to him in swarms.

How is this so?

Women are attracted to the Master when he is caught up in his workbecause they interpret that as a challenge. Women actively look for achallenge in a relationship because they unconsciously want to be keptguessing. Women want to have action and excitement, and in the case of awoman who has her sights set on the Master, her prime objective is toshift his attention from his work onto her.

This is because, in a way, she is jealous of the attention and energythat he in investing into his project. She wants to partake of thatattention, yet she would never be content with a part of the whole. Shesees how much time and energy the master pours into his work, how it isdetailed with perfection. She wants him to give that much attention toher.

Before I go further, I must make you understand, my friend, that women’sthoughts cannot be arranged and interpreted logically. The thoughts of awoman are a conflicting sea of emotions that actively clash with eachother. The thought that takes precedence over the others happens to bethe one that most closely matches the emotion that she is feeling at anygiven time. I bring this up because in a sense, the woman is trying todiminish the very same attribute that attracts her to a man: Theprinciple of Challenge!

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There is the conflicting paradox: Women want men to be a challenge tothem, yet they also crave attention. If a man provided her with theattention that she craves, he would no longer be a challenge, and thusshe would no longer be attracted to him.

The way to remain a challenge is to always be passionate about what youare doing. As long as you constantly remain a challenge to a woman, shewill have a high interest level in you. This is because you are stoppingher from completing her primary objective: to get your undividedattention and affection.

Always remember the deadly irony of this situation: You cannot trulygive a woman what she wants because the two things that she wants arethe exact opposite of each other. She craves attention, and she alsocraves the guy that limits the attention that he gives her.

KEY 2: PASSION ENRICHES LIFE

My Friend, Passion also provides you joy. While it attracts women to youthrough the form of challenge, it also gives you happiness. If you areactively doing something that you enjoy, you become self-actualized. Youforget the concerns of your daily life and enter a mindset that bringsyou happiness. This reduces your level of stress and gives you a way toexpress your creative outlet.

For me, writing this book is something that I do with passion. I feelthat it is important for me to leave my legacy and to pass on myknowledge to others. Writing this book also allows me to learn more, asI must write to you everything that I know. In so doing, I oftenremember things that I had forgotten.

Remember, My Friend, passion enriches your life. If you always arepassionate about what you do, your benefits are twofold: It brings womento you, and it gives you yet another source of happiness.

KEY 3: PASSION AS A MOTIVATOR

Passion is also a prime motivator in life. For example, passion is whatallows you as a Don Juan to remain diligent in the goals that you setfor yourself. This is because without passion, it is extremely easy tolower your standards to mediocrity, and in so doing fail to accomplishyour goal.

YOU CAN ONLY ADVANCE IN LIFE WHEN YOU ARE SUFFICIENTLY MOTIVATED TO SEEYOUR GOALS THROUGH TO COMPLETION. PASSION IS THE CATALYST THAT CREATESAND MAINTAINS MOTIVATION. WITHOUT PASSION, YOU QUICKLY LOSE YOUR FOCUSAND THUS BECOME VULNERABLE TO LIFE’S DISTRACTIONS. WHEN YOU AREPASSIONATE ABOUT YOUR GOALS, MY FRIEND, NOTHING WILL BE ABLE TO DISTRACTYOU BECAUSE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SEE BEYOND THE HERE AND THE NOW. WHILEOTHERS MAY BECOME OVERWHELMED BY DAY-TO-DAY LIFE, THE MASTER DON JUANKNOWS THAT A REWARD OF SUCCESS AWAITS HIM ONLY IF HE IS ABLE TO STAYMOTIVATED LONG ENOUGH TO REACH IT. HE KNOWS THAT SOMETIMES LIFE GIVESYOU ONLY ONE SHOT TO SEIZE EVERYTHING THAT HE EVER WANTED, SO BECAUSE OFTHIS, HE MUST ALWAYS BE READY TO CAPTURE IT.

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A DON JUAN DESERVES RESPECT

My Friend, one of the benefits that a Don Juan experiences is thatpeople respect him everywhere he goes. This stems from the reason thathe has respect for himself.

He has this degree of self-respect because he knows that you must FIRSTRESPECT YOURSELF IN ORDER FOR OTHERS TO RESPECT YOU. Self-respect is amajor factor that ties in with being the Alpha male.

There is a correlation because the alpha male of any group knows that inorder to maintain his position, it is vital that other people respecthim. He maintains his leadership status by reminding himself that he isdestined to lead the group; it is simply how things are meant to be.

Your level of Self-respect must be unshakable, for in order for it to beeffective, you must believe it completely. You must believe in yourselfno matter what. You must realize that you deserve the respect thatothers give you on a daily basis. You are a Don Juan, and as such, youare entitled to respect because in a way, you were destined to have itIf this were not so, you would have gone through life as an AFC withoutever learning how to use the power that is at your disposal. Self-respect is your birthright, in a sense.

I remind you again, my friend, that not all people have self-respectdespite the fact that they deserve it as much as you do. People withoutself-respect are easy to spot, because they allow people to walk allover them. They are afraid to take the power that is theirs because theyhave convinced themselves that they are not worthy of it. These people

have yet to realize that they must empower themselves or others willdominate them throughout their life. This is because people cangenerally placed into two categories: winners and losers.

The prime difference between winners and losers is that winners haveself-respect whereas losers do not. Winners will always be ready to makea stand in life and are always ready to tackle any obstacle. Losers, onthe other hand, have no motivation or goals ahead of them because theysee no value in themselves. Since they do not value themselves, othersdo not value them.

Remember, my friend, if you have self-respect, you stand to gaineverything in life. However, if you do not have self-respect, otherpeople will steal your hopes and dreams from you throughout your life.

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HOW TO INFLUENCE PEOPLE

One of the more advanced skills that a Master Don Juan gains is that ofpersuasion. This skill is insidious in its very nature because it isindeed possible to plant suggestions in someone’s mind and persuade them

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to see your point of view. There are several parts to learning andmastering THE POWER OF PERSUASION.

The Master Don Juan knows that confidence plays a major role insuccessful persuasion. This is because in order to convince someone ofsomething, you must be confident in it. People can sense your level ofconfidence or doubt, and this impacts their decision accordingly.

This is because people are essentially conformists. It is apsychological fact that people will conform to something even if itcontradicts their own judgment.

Students of psychology learn about the Asch Study of Conformity. Thisexperiment, first conducted in 1952, involved asking several people tocompare a sample line and three other lines. The participants were thenasked to decide which line was closest in size to the sample line.However, some of the participants were instructed beforehand to give thewrong answer when it was their turn to guess. These people were theninstructed to give their answers before the rest of the participantsdid, thus starting a trend. Amazingly, all of the other participantsthat were not given special instructions also gave incorrect answersbecause the peer pressure was sufficient to override their own judgment.

The participants began to wonder if they had misheard the directions.(They assumed that they had misunderstood what they were supposed to dowith the lines because it seemed that everyone else had come to adifferent conclusion.)

Because of this, the participants each began to question their ownjudgment and ended up giving the wrong answer to the question.

The reason why I brought up the experiment was to demonstrate thatpeople are not truly free thinkers. Many people allow others to plantsuggestions in their mind. Since these people consider the possibilitythat the other person may know something that they do not, they oftenallow their opinions to be swayed because of conformity.

There are many ways that we can use this to our advantage. Since peoplemay conform to what we tell them, it is crucial that we use our skillsof confidence to the other person so that they can see that we trulybelieve whatever it is that we are telling them. If we appear to doubtour own advice, people will not be as likely to be convinced. This isbecause people often assume that saying a statement with confidence mustmean that it is true.

If I say an obviously true statement such as “the sky is blue”, peoplewill unanimously believe it because we all know it is true. However, ifI say “the sky is black” to someone who is indoors, people will often gotake a look to see if it is really night. In situations such as this,people are willing to buy into something if it might be true. This isbecause I was able to confidently make a false statement and make itappear as though I believed it. Even in this small example, I was ableto persuade someone to buy into my logic to some extent because theyfelt compelled to go and check to see if what I said was true. IN THISWAY, IT IS POSSIBLE TO PERSUADE SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING IF YOU ARE ABLETO MAKE THEM CONSIDER THE POSSIBILITY THAT IT MIGHT BE TRUE.

Another way that we are able to persuade someone to do something isthrough reassurance. In other words, make them feel as though you knowwhat they are talking about. Empathy is a powerful tool because people

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are more willing to do something if you see eye to eye with them. Thisis why people place more value on what their friends say than they do onwhat a stranger says.

Empathy can be used in many diverse ways. Once you have people believingthat you understand their logic, they will be more willing to trust you.(Their logic is that if someone thinks the same way that they do, then

they must be trustworthy.) This is another way that conformity manifestsitself.

If you wish to nudge someone’s train of thought to where you want it togo, THEN YOU MUST GIVE THEM SUGGESTIONS, BUT AT THE SAME TIME ALWAYSMAKE IT LOOK AS THOUGH YOU UNDERSTAND WHY THEY FEEL THE WAY THEY DO.

Remember my friend, trust is the most important ingredient for buildingpersuasion, and confidence is the most important ingredient formaintaining it. This is because we seldom hesitate to trust those thatwe feel can relate to us.

HOW TO TELL WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

The health and vitality of a relationship is summed up in a woman’sinterest level. I must explain that interest level is essentially thefuse of the relationship: It is highest when the woman first meets you,and it is lowest when the relationship is about ready to end.

The principle of being a challenge goes a long way in preserving awoman’s interest level. Being fun and unpredictable keeps a womanguessing about where she stands with her, and this serves to keep the

relationship spontaneous and refreshing.

The only flaw with being a challenge is that it cannot replace interestthat has been lost.

Every relationship ends when a woman’s interest level dips to a fractionof what it was to begin with. The relationship cannot be salvaged atthis point, but it will be much easier on you, my friend, if you takecontrol and kill the relationship before it pulls your confident mindsetdown with it.

There are several things to look for that indicate low interest level ina woman. I must let you know that these are not definite proof of lowinterest level, but it is not good to see them in any situation.

She does not appear happy to see you.

She seems to withdraw herself from you. In other words, she is not eagerto spend time with you. In a case of good interest level, she woulddrop what she was doing to spend time with you, because you have madeyourself a rare commodity.

The relationship gets tiresome and tedious, and she gets irritable withyou easily. Remember a relationship should not be a chore tomaintain; it should be pleasurable for both people involved.

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She no longer takes time to look her best when you are around. If her

interest level is high, she will go out of her way to look good foryou.

In situations where the relationship cannot be salvaged, it is importantthat you break it off with class and dignity. It is important for you tospeak your mind and let her know that this is the end of the line, butthere is no need to be unnecessarily cruel and harsh about it. It justmakes things worse and does not serve your interests.

Be sure to let her know that you are able to see how the relationship isbecoming mundane for both of you. In order to save a lot ofinconvenience for both of you, you are going to have to break off therelationship now while you are still on relatively good terms.Emphasize the fact that you have seen that the relationship cannot besaved, so prolonging it would only mean postponing the inevitable.

Release her from her commitment to you (if she still feels any), and besure to let her know that there will be no getting back together. Make

sure to emphasize the fact that the relationship is over and done with,and you expect her to start seeing other people now, and she shouldexpect the same from you. This eliminates any traces of bad feeling andattachment that might carry over from the relationship.

Once the relationship has been terminated, my friend, be sure to removeany vestiges of regret from your mindset. It is all over and done with,so it is best not to dwell on it.

Many AFCs still feel attachment after the relationship is abruptlyterminated (usually by the woman). This is because they are oblivious tothe signs of the eminent doom of the relationship, so they continue onwhile blindly assuming that all is well.

This is dangerous for them because when the end does come, it comes as ashock, and it often leaves its mark on them for years to come. In thisway, AFCs never get to actively dissolve their feelings, so they alwayswant to pick up where they left off with the same woman.

Even if they do manage to get back together with the same woman, theyare only setting themselves up for another sudden end.

This is why it is best to simply move on once a relationship is broken.Remember, my friend, you still have your knowledge and your skills, soit will be no problem for you to find another woman if you so choose.Because of this, you should be able to end and permanently resolve arelationship without ever feeling and regret or remorse.

THE PURPOSE OF THE DON JUAN SYSTEM

The Don Juan System is designed to give men a strategy in the datingsituation. Quite often, men are uninformed of the true nature of things,and are thus at a disadvantage. By equipping my fellow men withKnowledge, the most powerful advantage of all, I hope to help resolvethe problem.

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Increasingly in our society, women are becoming more and moremanipulative and deceitful. They frequently use men for their own gains,and I do not think it should remain like that. While I cannot change theactions of such women, I can do something even better: I can provide menwith a means to find and keep quality women in today’s society.

This is accomplished through self-improvement. When men isolate and

eradicate their flaws, they feel better about themselves. What this doesin the long run is make them more powerful, outgoing, and confident.When they achieve this level, they cannot help but attract more women.

YOU ARE THE PRIZE

One of the main things that separates us from other men is that weconsider ourselves to be the prizes to be sought after. Now, this isradically different from how many other men think of the women as theprize that they have to appeal to. In this way, the men make the errorof placing a woman on a pedestal.

Now, once a man has a woman on a pedestal, she is basically his idol.She is all he ever thinks about, he overlooks her flaws, and he places

her needs above his.

The philosophy of placing a woman on a pedestal is fundamentally wrongbecause you are robbing yourself of confidence, and you are unable to bea challenge if you are infatuated. A man that has a woman on a pedestalwill do anything for her. Because of this, the woman gets tired of himquickly because he is boring and predictable. She wants a man, not aslave.

Because of this, it is important to maintain the idea that YOU are theprize. She has to get YOUR attention and EARN YOUR favour. She mustappeal to YOU and YOUR standards, not the other way around.

Having this mentality helps ensure several things. First of all, it

helps you to remain a challenge by making you a rare commodity. This isbecause she must work to earn your attention, so this helps make youmysterious and challenging.

Since you are the prize, my friend, you must also learn that you mustmake it appear that your time is limited, and is thus a rare commodity.Because of this, you should by all means invest time into whatever hobbymakes you happy. She must compete for your time.

The point of this philosophy is simple, my friend. It serves to helpkeep her off of a pedestal in the fact that you place your interestsabove hers. You are your own man, and you are under no obligations, soyou should foremost attend to your own interests using your free timebecause the challenge it creates will continue to work to youradvantage.

THE POWER OF MASCULINITY

Masculinity is a critical attribute that a Don Juan needs to understandand embrace. This is because as men, we have many primal attributes thatare of considerable benefit to us.

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As Pook explains in his “Be a man!” article, masculinity is a trait thatmen must learn to embrace, not avoid. In today’s society, it wouldappear that true masculinity has been diminished due to social pressures(I speak of influences by the feminists, the political correctnessmovement, etc.). However, what many men might not realize is thatmasculinity cannot be diminished or stopped because it is beyond thereach of those who wish to destroy it.

By this, my friend, I mean that the impulses and mindset that definemasculinity are embedded in the human genetic code. There are manyinstances that help support my theory, such as how men are naturallyaggressive, competitive, and constantly strive to conquer. A man neverhas to learn these attributes, they are always present in the masculinemindset.

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WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THE FRIENDS ZONE

As a Don Juan, you should know that our strategy is to be mysterious andunpredictable by being a challenge. Our system also requires that weapproach in a direct and confident manner, with no hesitation or regret.It is this way for a reason.

Our system allows you to stay one step ahead of the women that you areinterested in. It gives you the advantage in every situation possible,and when followed, our system may well end up saving you on more thanone occasion. In short, the Don Juan System is designed to keep you outof the friends-zone.

The friends-zone is where the Don Juan finds himself when the woman doesnot have any interest in him, yet keeps him around as a “friend.”However, a Don Juan who has fallen into the friends zone is not eventruly a friend to the woman who put him there.

Rather, a Don Juan in the friends zone is a tool for the woman to use.She will drain his resources, use him to boost her ego, and use him inall other ways completely for her own benefit. Even to the untrainedobserver, it is obvious that such actions more resemble those of aparasite than that of a true friend.

Also, many Don Juans make the assumption that once a woman has placedyou in the friends zone, you can use her as social proof. This is alsofalse. I remind you again, a woman who considers you to be her “friend”is only interested in what you could do for her. With that said, it isnearly impossible for a Don Juan to be successful when she is around,for she will go to any lengths to keep him from being successful withany other woman. Again, her goals are entirely self-serving.

First off, she realizes that if you find a new woman, then you will nolonger have any interest in the one that you are “just friends” with.(For this is how she will try to manipulate you — she will tell you thatif you do things for her, there may be a change that you can get withher later.)

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If you are busy with a new woman, my friend, then the other one willhave no one to do things for her. Because of that, she will try to getin the way of your success.

Many Don Juans wonder if it is possible to get out of the friends zoneonce they are in it. This is also another lie. Once a woman has placedyou in the friends zone, then as far as she is concerned, you are there

for eternity. Nothing you can do will get you out, so it is pointless totry and get out, for her goal is for you to try and get out by doingthings for her in an attempt to win back her favour.

The weapon of choice in situations like this is indifference. Once youare in the friends zone, it is better to think of it as being free fromall commitment to your previous woman. You are free to see other women,and there is nothing that your Ex can do about it, as long as youcompletely leave her out of the picture.

In this way, my friend, you can completely turn the tables on the womenthat you are just ‘friends’ with by simply ignoring them and breakingoff all contact with them.

THE POWER OF YOUR MINDSET

From my own experiences, I have come to realize that nearly every aspectof life can be more or less dependent on the mindset that we create forourselves. Our confidence, our attitudes, and virtually all of thepsychological attributes that make us human can be changed or altered ifwe learn how to control and master our mindset.

My view on the Don Juan system is that it is made up of a series of

mindset that learning Don Juan must understand and master through theskill of self-improvement. Once this has been accomplished, emotions canbe controlled, and your mindset will be one of unshakable confidence.

Many people are not fully able to control their thoughts and mindset,mainly because they believe that they lack the control. This is false. Ihave found that everything within the human mindset can be changed andshaped into whatever you wish it to be.

The mindset can be shaped by simply forcing yourself to follow a path orset goal, regardless of what it may be. If you refuse to deviate fromthe plans that you have set for yourself, then you will be able to takecomplete control and become master over your mind instead of allowingyourself to become its servant.

This may be difficult at first, but just like any habit, gaining controlover your mind becomes easier over time. With control over your mindcomes control over actions, for it is your mind that determines youractions.

This can be applied to life in many ways, my friend. The Master Don Juancan easily set goals for himself and just as easily keep them, even inthe face of distraction. This is because he has mastered complete mentalcontrol. Distractions mean nothing to the Master Don Juan; he knows thathe can regard them later after the business at hand is complete. The

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master has perfected the art of discipline, and with time and training,so can anyone else. With time and training, my friend, complete controlover your mindset can be yours.

PATIENCE IS CONTROLLING YOUR EAGERNESS, AND MORE…

Pook has for a long while said that patience is controlling youreagerness. He is right for the most part, but what Pook failed tomention is that patience goes beyond that.

As an accomplished Don Juan, I have long since known that I deserve thebest women available, so I am not interested in dating any woman unlessshe is up to my high standards and expectations. If there are no womenaround that I have interest in, I simply pass them by and wait until Ifind one that meets my expectations.

Many Don Juans may disagree with me here, insisting that the plan shouldbe to get as many women as possible, yet I do not consider that to be myobjective. I instead only focus my attention on the best womenavailable, because I simply know that I have what it takes to get themost beautiful women available, so in that case, why sell myself shortby taking what I could get at any given time? Let other men take therest, I am only interested in the best.

In this way, the Don Juan should know that the best way to discover thebest is to separate them from the rest. The way that I prefer to do thisis to date several women at once initially, but as time goes on, I stopseeing the women that are not exactly what I want. I continue doing thisuntil only the best one from the original group is left.

Many people would consider me to be devious and amoral for using thisplan, but I beg to differ. First of all, how could you expect the man tofind the best woman available if he limits himself to dating one at atime? In that example, if the woman that the man is seeing does not workout, then the man is right back where he started with nothing to showfor his efforts.

I have found that PATIENCE IS ACTUALLY THE WISDOM OF CONTROLLING YOUREAGERNESS TO SETTLE FOR THE FIRST WOMAN THAT YOU SEE. This is why themaster Don Juan never becomes exclusive right away. To do so would blindhim to the other women that he readily has at his disposal. The MasterDon Juan always has quality women available, so remember, there is nogood reason to settle for the first one that you see.

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THE PRINCIPLE OF STORING CONFIDENCE WITHIN

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Many newer Don Juans lament the fact that their level of confidencerises and falls seemingly at random. This is because they allow theirmindset to be swayed and affected by the events in their lives.

What many people never realize is that it is possible to storeconfidence within yourself so you will have a perpetual supply at yourdisposal. The secret behind this knowledge is that you must condition

yourself to have a confident mindset.

This can be done through a gradual process. When you summon a surge ofconfidence, you must attempt to focus it in your mind and try to holdonto it for as long as possible. It does require a considerable amountof concentration, but theoretically, there is no limit as to how longyou could contain confidence in this way. As you become more experiencedin the technique, you are able to hold the mindset of confidence longerand with less concentration. When your control is all but perfected, youwill be able to maintain the mindset subconsciously, yet the benefitswill be entirely at your disposal. In this way, you have in a senseconditioned yourself to have a confident attitude at all times.

However, your will must be unbreakable in order for this method to work.You must be able to maintain the mindset for long periods of time during

the conditioning process, and you must be able to compensate fordistractions. This technique takes more time and energy to learn andmaster, but I do believe that it provides a more thorough understandingof confidence in the long run. This is because it becomes natural. Inother words, you are adding the very essence of confidence to yourpersonality itself. Since confidence has thus become a part of you, itwill appear to be a natural attribute that you possess.

You will know that you have mastered the concept when you areconsistently finding that you have a confident attitude in all things.You will know that you will do well in everything, for that is simplyhow it is meant to be. Nothing will be able to shake you from your stateof confidence; your mindset will be practically invincible.

My friend, I urge you to learn this concept to its fullest extentbecause then, all of the obstacles of life will be made less challengingonce you have the confidence to rise and challenge them. Confidence isthe chief attribute of the Don Juan system. Once you have learned it andmastered it, you have thus mastered much of what it means to be a DonJuan.

THE PRINCIPLE OF PROJECTION

This technique is useful to the Don Juan that is caught in a situationof adversity. The technique, which also has been described as “personalmagnetism” involves the usage of thoughts to help convince the otherparty to do something or feel a certain way.

This technique was first revealed to me by William Walker Atkinson, inhis description of practical mental influence. In the original texts bythe same individual, the technique has been associated with mysticismand the like, but I have come to understand it without having to becomeinvolved with such things. Since my understanding of the techniquediffers widely from how the technique is originally presented byAtkinson, I have thus taken the liberty of renaming my version of thetechnique to THE PRINCIPLE OF PROJECTION.

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After contemplating the technique, I have come to the conclusion thatthere is nothing ‘psychic’ or “mystical” about it. Rather, confidenceand body language rather than mysticism fuel the technique. In otherwords, while the original technique teaches the theory of so-calledthought waves, I have arrived at the conclusion that these thought wavesare nothing more than confidence and a strong will conveyed through body

language. Let me explain further, my friend.

The article explains that Napoleon and Julius Caesar were both able tochange the minds and loyalties of others through the use of thetechnique. History teaches that both of these individuals were verycharismatic figures. Both were in positions of power. This emphasizes myclaim that in order to influence the minds of others, you must firstmaster the control of your own mind.

So, how does all of this relate to the Don Juan?

The modern Don Juan is able to use the principle of projection to emergevictorious in the face of adversity. Rule through fear of force ratherthan force itself. If you are able to convince your adversaries that youcan defeat them through your attitude alone, then it is possible to win

a conflict without ever coming to blows.

This power works by combining the alpha-male principle with theprinciple of confidence. With this in mind, you must know that in orderto influence others, you must have utter conviction of your ownleadership abilities. You must FEEL like you are in control, because ifyou fail to convince yourself, then how could you possibly expect toconvince others?

The way that A Don Juan deals with adversity is to stand firm and holdhis ground. If you can stand firm in the face of overwhelming odds, thenyour opposition may wonder why you are so confident—perhaps he mayreason that there is more to you than what meets the eye.

The Master Don Juan is able to sway the opinions and feelings of peoplethrough a variety of subtle ways. Shakespeare provides and excellentdemonstration of this in Mark Antony’s speech from the play “JuliusCaesar.” In the play, the crowd was in favor of Brutus for killingCaesar. Antony was able to convince the crowd that Brutus was in thewrong without turning the crowd against him [Antony]. Antony agreed thatBrutus was honorable for killing Caesar for supposedly being tooambitious. However, while Antony revealed all of the good things thatCaesar did for Rome, he claimed that Brutus said that Caesar was tooambitious, and that Brutus was an honorable man. In this way, Antony wasable to bring the pro-Brutus crowd under his control.

This can be applied to the Don Juan in a variety of ways. In order tosolve a dispute, it is important to make the other party know that youare on their level, and that you are not judging and condemning them,but you must be allowed to present your views.

Also Demonstrated in Mark Antony’s speech is the fact that Antonyassured the crowd that he was not manipulating them or was a greatorator; he was just telling them what he knew about Caesar’s virtues.This tactic helps to lower the defenses that a closed-minded adversarymay fashion against you. This argument helps to create the falseimpression that you are taking a neutral stance, while all the while youare planting suggestions behind the scenes. In this way, you can

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possibly convince an adversary to see your point of view without himever realizing what you are doing.

The Master Don Juan possesses a very complete understanding of humannature, for he realizes that it is by far easier and more effective toprevent a conflict than to actively engage in one. He is able to usewords as well as force to present his views effectively. In this way,

you should learn to never back down, but keep in mind that there arealways alternatives to fighting.

CREATING THE AURA OF CONFIDENCE

The Master Don Juan is surrounded by an intangible field of confidenceand authority that is easily apparent to others wherever he goes. Thisis because the master knows that he has the upper hand, and because ofthat, he feels confident and good about himself.

Like the master, you can create this aura (for lack of a better word) byenjoying all of the little things that life has to offer. This isbecause it is the small things that truly matter. I have found that itis best to think of all the small things in life as if they are theresolely for your benefit. When you feel this way, you will be charged andenergized, and you will have an unstoppable quality about you that willseem to radiate outward from you.

As long as you feel good about yourself and about your high level ofconfidence, then you will be less vulnerable to the trivial attacks in

life that hinder other people. In this way, your “aura” of confidence islike a personal shield on which the setbacks in life splash and aredeflected to one side. In this way, you can withstand many obstacleswithout ill effect. To an unprepared individual, these obstacles arelike arrows shot at point-blank range—they are very damaging unless youcan deflect them. They damage the unprepared individual by distractinghim from his goal of becoming a master Don Juan. At other times, theytake the form of rejections that rob the unprepared Don Juan of hisconfidence.

As long as you feel good about yourself and believe it completely, noattacks and setbacks will have any effect on you. It is a shield thatboth attracts and deflects; in addition to deflecting attacks, itattracts women to you, for they like men who are confident even in theface of great adversity. Because of this, my friend, it is vital thatyou have an invincible aura of confidence around you so you can beprepared for whatever life has to throw at you.

THE EMOTION OF LOVE

Many Don Juans wonder whether or not the emotion of love is against whatit means to be a Don Juan. They feel as if they should not allow

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themselves to ever fall in love, because they feel that with love comesblind infatuation. While I do agree that it is bad to feel infatuation,I beg to differ on the point that love is in itself a bad thing.

The Greeks have said, “Everything in moderation.”. In other words,everything is permissible as long as it is not done in excess, includingthe ability to feel the emotion of love. What is important is not to

overdo it.

My philosophy on the subject is that it is okay to fall in love, butonly later in the relationship. This is because if done too early, loveleads to infatuation, and that in turn leads to ruin. It is importantthen, to distance yourself from love early in the relationship.

I should also remind you that distancing yourself from love does notmean distancing yourself from human decency. The opposite of love is nothate, it is indifference. The mindset a Don Juan should have early inthe relationship is that there are plenty of women around, so there isno reason to become too attached to any woman in the immediate future.The Don Juan’s chief concern should be that of his own well being, andwith that in mind, it is important that he learn how to keep from beingblinded to reality by feeling love too early.

The path a Don Juan should walk early in the relationship is one of nocommitment. In other words, you should realize that you are under noobligation to continue seeing a woman unless you want to. Therefore, youare under no commitment to be exclusive, so it is wise to keep yourother possibilities available. Like I have said, you are the prize tobe sought after. The woman must live up to your standards, else you willfind one that does elsewhere.

If you feel this way early on in the relationship, my friend, then youshould be quite well protected from the danger of falling too deeply inlove too quickly.

With that said, then how should a Don Juan fall in love?

The plan according to my design is that the Don Juan should graduallyopen himself to love months or even years into the relationship. For inthe end, every man should choose one woman, but the trick is to find thebest one available. This is the purpose of the Don Juan System. Once youhave found the best woman available according to your standards, and aremarried, then the Don Juan system has mostly served its purpose in yourdestiny.

However, I must add that even after years of marriage, it is advisableto continue to be a challenge. For it is challenge, not communication,that keeps a relationship (and later marriage) fresh and vibrant.

Getting back to the matter at hand, my friend, the woman should grow onyou over time. As that happens, you should begin to allow yourself tofeel love, for this instance would be the proper time and place for it.

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THE QUEST FOR THE GOLDEN CUP

Many years ago, there was a man that lived in a place very far away. Hehad many of the opportunities that you or I experience, such as money,education, and many other valuable possessions. However, he was nothappy.

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He lamented the fact that for all his resources, he had no women in hislife. The only women that he was able to attract were manipulative,cruel hussies that whispered love and affection into his ear on one sidewhile her hands were busy in his pockets on the other side.

One day, a traveler came by the man’s house. The traveler was invited

in, and after a meal, the man asked the traveler who he was and fromwhere he came.

The traveler told the man that he was a knight on a mission for the kingof the land. The king had ordered him to travel the land in search for amagical golden cup that was reputed to bring vast quantities of wisdomto whoever drank from it. A very persistent legend foretold that only asmall number of men would ever be able to retrieve the cup, althoughgreat many had tried in the past. The cup was reputed to be kept withina castle made of pure silver and crystal on the other side of a dark,treacherous forest. Many people have entered the forest in search of thecup, but no one has ever emerged from it. It has been said that theyeither turned back, or were never seen again.

The knight then went on to explain that many knights throughout the land

had vowed to reclaim the golden cup for the king. Since the king was agenerous man, he extended the opportunity to join the quest for the cupto every man in the kingdom. Most turned down the offer out of fear orindifference, content to resume their daily lives without ever having tochange.

After hearing this, the man volunteered to join the knight on his quest.After packing provisions, they both left in the morning.

The road to the forest was easy to find, for it was well traveled bymany that had walked it in the past. There were a multitude offootprints that went both ways on the path, indicating that many hadturned back after reaching the forest.

Soon, the man and the knight arrived at the forest. It was a dark, wildtangle of twisted trees and thorny brambles. Large, unseen creatureslurked in the underbrush, growling hungrily over the bones of previoustravelers.

The knight cautioned the man that the road was exceedingly dangerous fora man without a weapon. The knight reached into his pack and drew out abeautiful sword made out of what appeared to be diamond. The sword threwgleaming rays of reflected light onto everything in the shadowy forest.

The knight went on to explain that the sword would guarantee safepassage through the forest, but the magic would only work if the userplaced his complete trust in the sword, no matter what.

The man looked doubtful. What good was one sword against so manyenemies? However, the knight told him to swallow his fear and beginwalking along the path, for it was the only route through the forest andto the castle where the golden cup waited.

The man drew the diamond sword, and held it out in front of him. As heheld it, he began to feel an incredible surge of confidence flowing intohim. It was small compared to what he would later experience, but afterfeeling no confidence at all for most of his life, a little bit seemedlike a lot. He walked forward a couple of paces, and paused. The feeling

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grew stronger. He then took a step backward. The feeling of confidenceseemed to wane slightly.

The man discovered that the feeling of confidence intensified as long ashe was progressing along the path. As he entered the shadows of theforest with the knight behind him, the man saw a huge shaggy lion runout into the path in front of him. The lion snarled and began walking

towards the man.

The knight told the terrified man that this lion would always try toscare people out of the forest and into the open grassland around it.The lion would then hide in the tall grass, and pounce on the fleeingtraveler while he ran. The knight explained that the only way to defeatthe lion was to keep on moving forward along the path. While the knightwas talking, the diamond sword began flashing brightly in the man’shand, sending rainbow light everywhere.

The man walked towards the lion. As the gap grew smaller and smaller,the lion drew itself up to it’s full size, and began roaring.

Encouraged by the knight, the man walked until he was standing right infront of the lion. The man then used the flat side of his diamond sword

to swat the lion on the thigh.

What happened next was totally unexpected. The lion gave one last angryroar, seemed to shrink in stature, and then stalked away into theundergrowth. The path was clear.

The knight was suddenly right behind the man. The knight congratulatedthe man on beating the first challenge. The man then exclaimed that hefelt different because he chose to make a stand instead of running inthe face of adversity. What seemed terrifying had only turned out to beharmless. Emboldened now, the man and the knight hurried along the path.

After walking in high spirits for hours, the man and the knight stood onthe edge of a dark, dismal swamp in the depths of the forest. The knightexplained that the forest in this section was full of safe high groundand treacherous low-lying swamps. The knight warned that the only way tosafely cross the swamp would be to stay out of the black oily water andto hop across on rocks and logs.

The pair gingerly started across the swamp, sometimes swinging across onthick vines low enough to grab. They were progressing along nicely whenthe man slipped and tumbled into the murky water. The diamond swordslipped from his hands and landed in the water point-down with the hiltsticking up.

The man was frightened. The water was dark and cold as stinging ice andhe cold feel himself sinking. Despair and fear rose up in him. He beganto notice that the sword had fallen from his hands. The water beganbubbling, and the man noticed that the muddy skeletons were bobbing tothe surface—the remains of those that had fallen into the swamp. Theskeletons did not move, but began to drift closer to the man, theirgrinning skulls bobbing back and forth on the water.

The man struggled to walk in the sticky murk, but the suction force ofthe bog prevented him from even moving.

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The knight told him that his only chance of survival was to grabsomething and pull himself out. The man looked around for something tograb, but there was nothing to grab except for the log that he hadfallen off of. He tried to grab onto the side with his fingers, but thepart he was holding onto only broke off in his hand.

Remembering the diamond sword, the man grabbed it. As soon as his

fingers closed around the hilt, he felt the confidence flooding backinto him. He seemed to be suddenly imbued with endurance and superhumanstrength. Even as his fear and fatigue melted away, he pulled the swordfree of the swamp and plunged the razor sharp tip into the rotten log.The sword sank in deep, and the man was able to pull himself out of themurky water even as the skeletons sank again as quickly as they hadappeared.

The man noticed that he was not even tired. If anything, he feltstronger than ever. The diamond sword sent a brilliant ray of light intothe water, and the man noticed that the skeletons had bobbed to thesurface again, but only this time they appeared to be floating in astraight line all the way to the other side of the swamp.

The man tried stepping onto one of the bare rounded skulls. It did not

sink under his weight. Amazed, he began to cross the swamp using theskulls as stepping-stones.

Once he was across, something amazing happened. The swamp began to drainuntil it was dry ground. Then grass appeared and grew across the formerswamp in a lush green carpet, but left the path untouched. Futuretravelers would be able to cross on dry ground instead of braving theperils of the swamp.

After walking for several more hours, the man and the knight came to alush clearing in the dark forest. The path became less distinct here,almost obliterated in a sea of grass.

Suddenly, the man became very hot. The sun shone down mercilessly in the

clearing, and it was a major change after the cold depths of the darkforest. The sword suddenly seemed very heavy. The man let it fall fromhis hands in a daze and sank to the warm grass in exhaustion. The manbecame dimly aware that he was lying next to a small stream. The waterwas crystal clear and seemed to beckon invitingly to the man. The mansuddenly noticed a burning thirst, and reached for the water in thestream.

The knight suddenly stepped in front of the man and stopped him fromdrinking the water. The knight seemed to see something that the mancould not, so the man picked up the sword again.

The air around the stream shivered, and the man was suddenly able to seethings that he was not entirely sure how he had overlooked in the firstplace. There were many people asleep next to the stream. Many looked asif they had been asleep for years; some had beards that had grown as tocompletely cover their faces.

The man nudged one of the sleeping men, but the sleeper only groaned andsank into an even deeper sleep.

The knight told the man that the sleeping individuals were those who hadcome through the forest in their quest for the golden cup. Overcome byheat and thirst in the clearing, they stopped to drink the water fromthe stream. Once they have tasted the water, they then became lazy and

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apathetic. They eventually fall into a deep sleep from which they neverawaken. The knight had saved the man from unwittingly suffering thesame fate. In this way, many previous travelers had tasted the water andabandoned the quest in their laziness.

Finally, the man and the knight reached the other side of the forest.The castle loomed ahead of them; it’s silver and crystal sides

glimmering in the light. As the man walked along, they saw a brilliantflash of gold from deep within the castle.

The Man and the Knight arrived at the main gate. The gate was barredshut, and it was made out of transparent white crystal. There was aninscription over the gate: “Only those who possess confidence will beallowed to drink from the golden cup.”

As soon as the man had finished reading the inscription, he noticed asort of keyhole in the door. He had no key, but his sword did look asthough it could be inserted into the door. The man strode forward andthrust the glittering diamond sword into the keyhole. The doorshuddered, and then seemed to be covered with tiny cracks. There was acracking sound, and the door disintegrated into dust even as the swordclattered to the ground in the now open doorway.

The castle seemed to focus the sunlight into a single brilliant shaftthat shone upon the golden cup. As the man walked up to where it wasplaced, he could see that it was full of water. As the man reached outto claim the cup, an invisible barrier blocked his way. Puzzled, hegripped the diamond sword tighter, but the barrier would not move.

The knight was suddenly behind him. The knight explained that the swordis only a tool. The one who possesses the sword is expected to outgrowthe need for it. The knight explained that the diamond sword is a symbolof confidence. However, confidence is not truly derived from a tool. Theknight went on to explain that confidence comes from your own mindset.The purpose of the sword was to make the man feel confident, so oncethat has been done, there is no longer any use for the sword.

The man nodded and handed the sword back to the knight. As soon as theman let go of the sword, a brilliant ray shot out of it and touched thecup even as the sword broke into glittering fragments.

The man did not seem bothered by the loss of the magic sword, because heknew that he had learned how to be confident from it. He reached for thegolden cup, and it was suddenly in his hand. He drank deeply from it,and the castle began to shimmer and billow like mist.

The man blinked. He was back in his own home, but something had changed.He was now thinking differently than he ever had before. He no longerworried about getting women, for now he knew that they would come tohim. He instead decided to use the energy that he had prior wasted onchasing women to fulfill his own needs and desires. The cup told himthat the way to success with women is to not worry about finding awoman. The way to success is to follow your dreams, and while you aredoing that, the entire world will come to you.

A GLOSSARY OF DON JUAN TERMS

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[ AFC ]

Abbreviated form of “Average Frustrated Chump”. This is man in hisnatural state, where he is confused and ignorant as to how to really besuccessful with women. At some point in life, every man has been an AFC.The good news is that AFCs can learn and improve themselves, and in sodoing cease to be AFCs and in turn become DON JUANS.

[ Don Juan ]

A Don Juan is a former AFC that has learned the truth about how to besuccessful with women. Don Juans are each at various stages ofprogression, with their goal being that of the Master Don Juan.

[ Master Don Juan ]

The Master Don Juan is a Don Juan who has reached the final stage ofenlightenment. The master knows the secret that the way to be successfulwith woman is to be fully occupied in building your life and shapingyour dreams. Women crave the attention that you give to your goals, andthey will come to you hoping to get in on that attention.

[The Don Juan System]

The Don Juan System is the plan or strategy that Don Juans follow. Thesystem is built around three pillars: CONFIDENCE, CHALLENGE, andATTITUDE.

[Confidence]

The first of the Don Juan Pillars is that of confidence. Confidence issimply being sure in yourself and your abilities. There are many ways touse confidence.

[ Challenge ]

Don Juans know that in order to keep women, you must be a challenge tothem. The prime function of challenge is to make the woman wonder whereshe stands with you.

[ Attitude]

What I like to call the “I am the prize’ mentality. The purpose of thisis to help prevent you from making the mistake of placing the woman on apedestal.

[Speed Seduction ]

A different strategy than what mainstream Don Juans follow. Speedseduction involves the use of Patterns 9certain phrases designed totrigger a certain emotional response in women.) Like the name suggests,Speed Seduction is designed to provide the Don Juan with an acceleratedpath to intimacy rather than building a relationship.

[NLP]

Short for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. NLP is used by the Don Juan tohelp program his mindset and the mindsets of others around him. Somewhat

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similar to Speed Seduction, it is useful to help trigger a certain typeof response in women and others.

[Body Language]

The meanings that we as humans have applied to certain gestures andexpressions. It is a universal, unspoken language that is consistent on

a cross-cultural basis for the most part. A Trained Don Juan caninterpret the body language of others to help get an idea about theirthoughts and emotions.

[Closing]

The action of getting the home phone number.

THE IDEAL CLOSING ATTITUDE

In order to be a successful Don Juan, my friend, you must master the art

of knowing how to close properly. The central idea of the concept isthat you must approach with utmost confidence and naturalness.

This is because a Don Juan must be able to blend into the world aroundhim despite his superior skills and abilities. The ability to blend intothe world around you develops as you learn how to control your eagernessand desperation. This is because women are easily able to detectdesperation during an approach, so your only defense from this is tolearn how to control your eagerness and desperation.

When you approach, failure should not be on your mind at all. Rather,you must believe that you are going to get the woman’s number, for youknow that you have what it takes to do so. A Don Juan pays no mind torejection, for it is of no concern to him. Rejection is the oppressor of

the AFC; the Master Don Juan has long since surpassed the hold that thefear of rejection once had over him.

Also, in the event that you are feeling nervous about the approach, myfriend, try to visualize it like this: What you are feeling is merelyexcitement. Any woman that makes you feel this way is definitely worthmeeting. Thus, you should learn to associate this feeling with positiveexcitement instead of negative fear.

There is also a degree of detachment that is crucial to learn and masterduring the approach. This is the key to defeating desperation. Adesperate AFC rushes in and lets his fear of negative possibilities robhim of confidence. This is because the AFC cannot stop over-visualizingthe woman. This is because AFCs place women up on pedestals, and becauseof this, the woman is regarded as transcendent and unapproachable in themind of the AFC.

What the AFC does not realize is that there is no viable reason to feelfear or insecurity other than the reasons that he sets for himself as towhy he cannot do it. The AFC buys into the hesitation that he feels, andbecause of this, success forever eludes him.

The Master Don Juan, on the other hand, knows that there is nothingspecial about this woman than there is from any other, so no specialtreatment is needed. The hesitation that the Master also feels is

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something that he pays no mind to, for he knows that it will foreverlead him down the wrong path if he attempts to follow it. The master DonJuan knows that hesitation is your enemy, so you should pay it no mind.Only then will he be able to reach his full potential and truly graspsuccess.

In fact, it is not necessary to even differentiate this woman from

people that he is comfortable talking with. In this way, the master DonJuan is able to easily approach a woman whom he has never met before bymerely placing her on the same level as himself and his long-timeacquaintances. Once you learn to take the unnecessary fear out of theequation, you will learn, my friend, that talking to a new woman is nodifferent than talking to anyone else.

THE PURPOSE OF NEG-HITTING

Neghitting is the best tool in a Don Juan’s arsenal for dealing withwomen that make the approach difficult. Women frequently employ adefense mechanism that is meant to boost their egos and weed out anyAFCs that dare to make the approach. This causes them to placethemselves on a pedestal above everyone else. In order for you to gain

any ground under these circumstances, my friend, you must learn how toknock her off of the pedestal that she has placed herself upon.

I must reveal at this point that women that act snobbish to men whileout with their friends are not necessarily snobbish by nature. They onlyact like that to deter men that fall for their ploy.

To deal with such behavior, the Don Juan system has an aspect known asneghitting. Neghitting is specifically designed to put rude women intheir place. I cannot overstate that neghitting should be used ONLY onrude, snobbish women in order to bring them down to size. If you try touse it on a woman that is outgoing and receptive, then I guarantee thatyou will do more harm than good.

Neghitting is used to throw her off guard when she is in defensive mode.This is because her defenses are designed to test men to see if theywill stand up to her, or back down. Thus, her defenses are only a test,and the way to pass it is not back down if she gives you a hard timeduring the approach.

Neghitting can be done in a variety of ways, and for virtually any testthat the woman can come up with. It can be used, for example, to subvertthose women that want men to buy them drinks. If she wants you to gether a drink, for instance, you should be delighted to get her a glass ofwater just to prove that you are not going to fall for her games. Inverbal discussions, you can subvert her defenses by dropping a creativeinsult on her. Now, this works only when done in a joking manner withobvious humor. In other words, you must not be serious while doingverbal neg-hits. Neg-hits must be creatively devised on the spur of themoment, or else they are no good.

I have found that it is easier to neg-hit when I sort of mentallywithdraw from the situation at hand and sort of let my Don Juanpersonality speak for me. A Don Juan is naturally cocky and funny, so itis easier to simply relax and let it flow.

In this way, my friend, neg-hitting is a valuable tool to learn andmaster because it allows you to catch women off guard and to gain theupper hand in conversations.

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THE IDEAL WINGMAN

In order to be successful in a club or bar environment, you will need tohave competent wingmen with you when you make your approach. There areseveral reasons for this.

First off, there is strength in numbers. If the woman that you wish to

approach is there with her friends, then her friends will try to blockyour success. This is because they are selfish, and they are jealous ofthe attention that they think that you are giving her. Since they arenot getting any, they reason, then no one will. Remember, my friend,never go in solo unless the target woman is alone. However, if she iswith her friends, then you will need to provide distractions.

This is where wingmen come into play. The purpose of a wingman is todistract one of her friends while you make your approach. Since onewingman can handle only one of her friends at one time, it is importantto keep the ratio equal.

Your wingmen must be of the highest competence, because since you willhave your own approach to handle, you will not have the time to bail outan incompetent wingman. Also, wingmen must be someone that you can

trust, and someone who can handle any situation. Choose wisely.

The ideal wingman should be well versed in all the knowledge of the DonJuan system, because only then will you and your wingmen be able tointeract smoothly and without problems. Also, Don Juan wingmen are mostlikely to be able to make their own approaches smoothly and flawlessly,so in a situation like this, both you and your wingmen benefit.

Don Juan wingmen are also useful because they should understand theprinciple of keeping the wingman-to-girlfriends ratio balanced. A DonJuan wingman will understand if he has to sit out an approach if thereare too many Don Juans for the group of women that you are about toapproach. An AFC wingman, on the other hand, would probably go overanyway and ruin the chances for the rest of your group through sheer

incompetence. Again, I urge you to be very exacting in your standardswhile choosing your wingmen, for only someone of the highest competencecan get the job done right.

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ELIMINATE HESITATION AND SELF-DOUBT

As a Don Juan, you must have the highest standards for yourself, for youare the best. If you are not improving yourself, then you are no longerprogressing. Since you are the best, then you have no cause to everdoubt your own confidence and abilities.

Many new Don Juans may feel inadequate once they begin comparing theirdeveloping abilities and initial shortcomings to the perpetual successof the Master Don Juan. My word to less experienced Don Juans concerningmatters like this is not to worry about it, for one day, you will learnthe skills of the Master. Even the most powerful and accomplished MasterDon Juans were once inexperienced, and through self-improvement andconstant experience they were able to ascend through their currentstatus.

Because of this, novice Don Juans must realize that there is no way toquickly or easily progress to Don Juan Nirvana. Rather, it is a gradualprocess that may take years to accomplish. Because of this, they must

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come to realize that the road to success is a difficult one, but it ispossible as long as they continue to believe that they can do it.

There is no room for self-doubt in the Don Juan’s life. The Don Juanstrives for greatness; he has no room for mediocrity. The Don Juan doesnot hold himself back from challenges; he instead hurls himself at them.He does this because he knows that he can eventually overtake them.

Life is basically a winner-take-all system. Everyone is striving for thegoal, so those who are hesitant are often swept aside and never amountto anything. Because of this, the Don Juan must learn not to holdhimself back, because there is no way to be sure that he will ever haveanother chance to prove himself. If you had only one chance to captureyour dream, would you take it, regardless of the cost?

The Master Don Juan knows that he sometimes must take a risk in life inorder to become greater than what he already is. There is an old saying:What does not kill you makes you stronger. Your character and abilitiescan only grow when they are taxed to their limits. Because of this, theDon Juan is always ready to take on additional challenges withouthesitation and without ever doubting himself, only because he knows thatis what it takes to make him stronger in the long run.

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MASTERING SELF-MOTIVATION

One of the greatest mistakes that a Don Juan can make is to lose hisfocus and motivation, for it is these two things that keep him pressingonwards towards his goal. Once you lose your motivation, my friend, thenyou are in a sense living without a destination. In order to continueyour progression, you must learn how to stay motivated about reachingyour goals.

Motivation is the catalyst that produces success. If you can capture agoal in your mind and stay intent on reaching it, you will be amazed to

realize what lengths you will go to in order to realize your dreams.Without motivation, you soon forget the goals that you made foryourself, and once that happens, you are content to stay where you arewithout ever bothering to push yourself again. This is dangerous to DonJuans because they must remain devoted to their goal or they will notbother to gain any more of the experience that I have to offer them.

Motivation is easy to maintain once you learn that life is merely aseries of small goals leading up to one big conclusion where you lookback at what you have done. This is where you discover whether or notyou have left a legacy. If you strive to make and keep goals on aregular basis, then you will always be intent on making a difference.

All throughout history, the great men that have made a difference havealways been the ones that had a grand vision or quest that they wishedto fulfill. They devoted large portions of their life to the realizationof their goals, and in the end, they have left their mark upon history.

Many of these men were no different than you or I. These men all hadpersonal flaws, defects, and shortcomings. They were no strangers tofailure. The reason why they made such a big difference is because theywere not content with failure. They kept on trying until they broughtabout their dream and found a way to bring it into reality. These menwere able to stay motivated because they were able to see beyond theobstacles that they frequently encountered on the road to success. The

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obstacles can be overcome, but only if you keep your eyes on the goaland refuse to get sidetracked.

Many Don Juans get caught up in the distractions that the world has tooffer. They stray from their planned route to success and they arecontent to take a break and involve themselves in other priorities. Intime, they become ever less interested in reaching the goal that they

originally set for themselves. The longer a Don Juan remains in thiscondition, the less likely it is that he can get back on the road tosuccess.

As soon as you reach your goal, my friend, set a new one for yourself. AMaster Don Juan is never satisfied. He always continues to push himselfonwards in the quest for even greater pursuits, for that is where self-improvement comes from. In order to grow, you must stretch yourselffarther than you had ever previously gone. Unless you are pushing yourlimits, you are not gaining anything new.

Remember, my friend, in order to be successful, you must set a goal inlife and stay true to it. It may be difficult at times, but that provesthat you are progressing. Once you have mastered the power of self-motivation, you will allow nothing to keep you from achieving the

rewards that are yours for the taking.

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MY PERSONAL TESTIMONY

The road to Don Juan Nirvana is not an easy journey, and my experiencewas no exception. Read on to learn how I learned how to become a DonJuan.

My Journey began over three years ago. Back then, the Don Juan Bible didnot exist, and Pook was still learning the advanced techniques of ourorder. This was the golden age of anti-dump, Nine Breaker, and many of

the old-timer Don Juans. I was an AFC at this time, and I accidentallystumbled onto the Don Juan center through sheer accident. I wassearching for advice, and I am forever indebted to the force that led mehere instead of all of the other AFC Dead ends I could have visited.

As I described in my PROGRESSION OF THE DON JUAN, my Don Juan Nexus hadarrived. It was my time to decide my destiny. I chose wisely, and havenot looked back since.

During my first year, I studied the main articles with the utmostfervor, without ever visiting the forum. One piece of advice I learnedduring this time that has remained with me to this day was to visualizeAFC feelings as something that we should seize out of our minds and jumpup and down on every time that we experience them. I would be glad tocredit the original writer of that advide, but I have long sinceforgotten the article from which that advice originated, and to thisday, I have never been able to find it again despite endless searching.

I read and devoured the articles as quickly as they appeared, butunfortunately, many articles are slightly heretical in nature when heldup to the Don Juan Bible, which has more or less become our standard inwhich we weigh our teachings. This book is intended to be a separatebook in it’s own right and is not merely an extension of the Don JuanBible.

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After I had learned all I could from the articles, I subscribed to theforums in the previously mentioned golden age of early 2001. The DonJuan Bible was not in existence; the articles that it now preserves werekept active only by people that valued them for their true worth.

These early articles by Pook and the rest have long since become

classics; they became legends only because they had to prove their worthduring those early years.

During my second year, I was actively reading the forums in search ofgreater knowledge. I was advancing rapidly now, and I had a tentativehold on the basic Don Juan philosophy. Approaches were becoming evereasier, although I still made my share of AFC mistakes.

Through a process that can only be accomplished over time, I slowlybecame a Master Don Juan. I knew the techniques inside and out, but Istill lacked the greater understanding required to truly use them.

At the beginning of my third year, I reached the Master Don Juan stage.I suddenly UNDERSTOOD the teachings clearer than I ever had before. Irealized that the purpose of the Don Juan system is to manage your time

in order to achieve your dreams. When you are doing this, you will stoppursuing women and start having them come to you.

After having this breakthrough, I decided to write this book afterreading a piece of Star Wars fan fiction called “The Apprenticesidious,” by Brendan Wahlberg. In the story, many sith lords from thepast placed their teachings and knowledge into recording devices calledholocrons. Holocrons are devices shaped like various polyhedrons; theycome in many forms, but are usually fist-sized cubes or pyramids. Whenactivated, they project a hologram of their maker into the air above theholocron. The hologram is interactive; one can ask it questions and itanswers them based on information stored in the holocron. One suchholocron in the story was called the Holocron of Shuma Gora. It was ablack cube that worked only for those that were very powerful in the

force. (If a user was not powerful enough, it would kill that user witha blast of dark side lightning) Shuma Gora was a jedi knight who lived20,000 years before the events in Star Wars: Episode one. The Shuma Gorain the story founded the sith order and he also re-discovered thepreviously forgotten power of the dark side. He also learned how tomaster and use the power of dark side force lightning.

I admit up front that I did not make up the name of Shuma Gora. I creditBrendan Wahlberg for its origin. I am using it for my book because afterreading the story, I had a dream that night.

In my dream, I played the role of Shuma Gora from Wahlberg’s story. Onlyinstead of recording Sith teachings in a holocron, I was insteadrecording my Don Juan knowledge in one. When I woke up the nextmorning, I remembered my dream.

I wondered, if a fictional character can preserve his knowledge, thenwhy can’t I do the same thing with my Don Juan knowledge? Also, I hopedthat my book would be the first in a long line of books in which eachDon Juan would preserve and share his personal knowledge for others toread.

Obviously, due to technological limitations, I am unable to construct atrue working holocron, but I could make the 21st century Earthequivalent ; a book. Since I was in a sense starting a new order by

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creating the first in a long line of Don Juan related books by variousauthors, I decided to call my creation The Book Of Shuma Gora, in honorof the other Shuma Gora that created the sith order with it’s vast lineof future followers.

This brings us up to the present, my friend. Now that you have read muchof what I have to tell you, I hope that you help to make my vision a

reality by recording your knowledge for others to use. Information ismeant to be shared, otherwise it is merely useless knowledge that willdie along with its creator. If other people learn and share theknowledge of other Don Juans, then there is no limit to what we canaccomplish.

EFFECTIVE CONVERSATION

One of the most basic social skills that a Don Juan must learn andmaster in his progression is that of conversation. In order to beexecuted properly, my friend, conversation must maintain a certainbalance. Conversation is essential to the closing attempt because itallows for you to build rapport before you try and get her number.

RULE # 1: Listen Twice as Much as You Speak

Although you may very easily get into the conversation, my friend, it isimportant that you let her do most of the talking. This is because womenvalue a man that listens to them. Your listening to talking ratio shouldbe 2:1. In other words speak only half as much as she does. The more youlisten, the more information is at your disposal to use when you dospeak.

Rule # 2: Build On what She Said

This is important for you to understand, my friend, because this is byfar the best way to let her know that you have indeed been listening to

what she has been telling you. If by chance she says something thatinterests you further, wait for her to pause and then build on what shesaid. In this way, a Master Don Juan can more or less control theconversation in a very subtle manner and lead it to where he wants it togo.

Rule # 3: The Nod

It is a well-known fact that people feel more comfortable while talkingif their audience is constantly providing subtle signs of approval. Thisis because it assures us that our audience is fully receiving what it isthat we have to say, and that they agree with us.

In this way, the Master Don Juan can have the upper hand whileconversing by giving a slow, subtle nod of the head every so often whileshe is talking. This must be done very subtly in order to work, myfriend, because it works in the subconscious part of the mind. While weas humans may not actually notice the nod, we definitely respond to itwhen it appears. The reverse is also true: our confidence while talkingdips when the nod is withheld.

This to the best extent of my knowledge comes down to the fact thatsupport for our words is being denied when we do not receive the nod. Ifthe nod is withheld, then in a very subtle sense, it may be likely thatthe audience is not receptive to what it is we have to say. The Master

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Don Juan knows how to use this to his advantage. He withholds the nod ifthe woman is talking about something the Master Don Juan does not like.If he withholds the nod, it is likely that she will pick up on that andmove to a different subject. Again, this is a Master Don Juan’s way ofcontrolling the conversation.

Often the most powerful things in life are the ones that are the

subtlest. Use this and learn from it for the betterment of yourknowledge, my friend.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF OBSERVATION

After six tedious months of pouring everything that I know about the DonJuan System into this book, I wish to leave you with the reminder aboutthe importance of observation.

It is important for the Master Don Juan to keep his eyes open and to beever vigilant for ways to both improve himself and learn from otherpeople. I have said earlier that life is the best teacher, so be everready to take advantage of any opportunities that my come your way.

In many cases, opportunity knocks only once, so you had better be readyto open up the door to your destiny. However, there are many doorsavailable to try to open. Many will not open while others open quiteeasily. You open doors in life by taking advantage of the opportunitiesthat life places before you, so I urge you, my friend, to always bewatching and vigilant for any means possible that you can use to benefitfrom and shape your future.

I wish you the best of luck for your future, and always remember to keepon striving to better yourself, for that is always the ultimate goal ofthe Don Juan in the end.

COPYRIGHT INFORMATION

1. I have written the Book of Shuma Gora to be used on the Don JuanForums and to be included in the Don Juan Bible, but under thestipulation that the book be regarded as an independent work in its ownright and not as the property of sosuave, Global Marketing, and AllanThompson.

2. Because of this, I hereby declare the Book of Shuma Gora to be

exclusively my intellectual property, and thus solely and completelyunder my ownership and control, no questions asked. Sosuave had nothingto do with the actual production of this book, and never will, otherthan provide an environment for me to have learned all of this in thefirst place.

However, I am not going to take all the credit for myself. Several termsto the found in my Don Juan Glossary are common terminology that isfound everywhere on the sosuave forums. I have used those words simplybecause I wish my book to be easily understandable by the audience forwhom it was written: the patrons of the message board. By using these

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terms, I do not claim affiliation with sosuave other than my forummembership. The book is my intellectual property, although some terms init are not. Let everyone take credit for his own work and place thecredit where it is due.

3. I give permission for my book to be hosted anywhere on sosuave, andin the Don Juan Bible as well. If you want to mirror the book on your

web server (you know, to help take some of the bandwidth strain off ofmine) I would much appreciate it, but tell me where the mirror url is soI could place it in the DJB.

4. I take credit for all of the graphic work in the book. I made them inAdobe Photoshop 6.0 many months ago. If you REALLY want to use them,contact me and perhaps I’ll be lenient, but no guarantees.

5. The Music that you hear in the background is a 30-second clip that Iused from Star Wars: The Phantom Menace Soundtrack. If you don’t likeit, then turn your speakers down instead of bitching to me aboutchanging it. I’ve tried to keep it low enough to be a sort of background

mantra to help set a little bit of mood for the book.

Given that I have designed this book to have a definite futuristic/sithholocron theme (see my personal testimony if you don’t know what thehell I mean by that : ) ) I have deemed it appropriate that I play theDarth sidious theme. After doing my homework on music useage, I declarethat such a short and trivial clip such as this should fall under thefair usage laws, which permit free distribution of short segments ofcopyrighted material without having to pay a royalty. At least I boughtthe damn CD to get the clip off of, that’s more than what some peopledo. If anyone here tries to sue me, I urge them not to, b/c I don’t haveany money and they would just be wasting their time. Seriously. Theleast the record companies coulddo is go after the worst offenders and

leave me alone.

6. I credit the name Shuma Gora to Brendan Wahlberg because of hisexcellent story (The Apprentice Sidious) that inspired me to write this

book. Read it over at http://www.fanfix.com if you are interested.

7. I mentioned the names of several forum members in this book. The factthat they are here does not necessarily mean that they had anything todo with the production of the book, I had to include their names to makethe book accurate. (far be it from me to deceive you)

8. The Book of Shuma Gora is copyrighted by me, Will Kraft (AKA Page,AKA Shuma Gora) from 2003 AD to the end of all eternity. (Or at leastuntil the sun burns out, in which case humanity will have so many newproblems on its hands that stealing stuff from my book will hardly be aproblem anymore, heh heh)

9. If you wish to quote from my book, you can do so, as long as you giveme credit just like how you learned in English class and include “FROMTHE BOOK OF SHUMA GORA” before you type your quotation. If you do that,I don’t have a problem with people quoting me, and to be honest, I’d bequite flattered.

10. Expect several revisions in the years to come. Please Stay Tuned!

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