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Without Breaking Your Heart or Losing Your Mind
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Please participate! I love good discussion.
Feel free to ask questions in the
comments.
We’ll also have Q&A at the end.
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One day, I woke up and thought:
OMG, I’ve got it!
I know the secret formula for being a writer.
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Step 1: Jump Through Hoop
Step 2: *Magic*
Step 3: Become Writer
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Myths
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You’re a writer if you’re published. Many people ascribe the Field of Dreams approach to
writing and publishing: “If you write it, they will buy it.”
But we can’t wait for someone else to say we’re writers. We have to own it ourselves.
Take-home message: Even successful authors"struggle with impostor syndrome.!
Myth #1
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Myth #2 You’re a writer if you get a degree.
The sky does not part and beams of light do not shine down on graduation day, anointing you “writer.”
This myth also assumes that what you learn in school is all you need to be a writer…
…Or that learning can’t happen in any other context.
Take-home message: You don’t need a degree"to be a “real writer.” You already are one.!
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Myth #3 You’re a writer if you write a lot and read a lot. Just because Stephen King said so, doesn’t make it true.
Writing and reading can be good for you.
It can also make you spin your wheels. A lot.
Take-home message: The key is focus and direction."The only “best practice” is what works best for you.!
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Remember:
There are two sides to writing,"your mind and your heart.!
To feed your writing mind you need one thing…
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Iteration
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“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”
Samuel Beckett
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Failing Better is VITAL = choose a variable to track.
= collect information or data.
= set a tripwire or deadline.
= evaluate or analyze your results.
= learn and decide what’s next.
V!
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A!
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The Iteration
Cycle
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V is for Variable
Choose a variable.!
Make sure it is concrete and easy to measure.
In writing, time or word count often works best.
Pro Tip: When a goal starts to feel easy, add 10% to it, to give it that extra bit of challenge.!
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I is for Information Gather information.!
Practice working toward your goal.
Collect data and see what happens.
Don’t judge, just observe.
Pro Tip: It usually takes at least 10 data points to see a pattern.!
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T is for Tripwire Set a tripwire.!
Practice does not necessarily make perfect, but it does make things permanent.
Set a deadline for how long you will practice before you evaluate and make adjustments.
Pro Tip: It takes between 2-3 weeks to create a new habit. Set your tripwire before then.!
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A is for Analysis Analyze your results.!
Are you getting productive or destructive results?
Is your practice helping or hindering your writing?
Don’t make value judgments. Instead ask:"What’s working? What can I improve?
Pro Tip: Beware of getting too bogged down here. Focus on the overall picture.!
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L is for Learning Learn and decide what’s next.!
If it’s working, keep it up.
If it’s not working, pivot.
Pivot can mean small adjustments, or going “back to the drawing board.”
Pro Tip: Adjust one variable at a time so you can see cause-and-effect.!
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It all comes down to adopting a
meta mindset and being objective in your process.
But what about the heart stuff? !
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Mindfulness
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Mindfulness Manifesto Honor your reality. Resistance is your compass. Don’t compound failure with guilt. Don’t panic. Just ask “How?” “The Wall” does not exist.
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Honor Your Reality Life is part of your reality. Writing is also part of your reality.
You need to make room for both.
This is not an excuse to be lazy. Be honest with yourself. You’ll know
the difference.
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Resistance Is Your Compass Resistance exists for a reason. It is a powerful tool, like a compass.
Resistance usually stems from fear. It flags topics or projects that are “dangerous”
or important, ones that have meaning. When you feel resistance, pause and dig deep.
Figure out where this resistance is coming from.
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Failure vs. Guilt In mindfulness terms it’s like Pain vs. Suffering. Suffering (i.e. guilt) is counterproductive. Pain is objective. Suffering is subjective and only
compounds the pain.
In other words... Feeling guilty when you fail to meet a goal will
not make words magically appear on the page.
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Angst Jar Honor the angst/guilt.
Then channel it by putting it in the jar.
Redirect your thoughts (sometimes multiple times each day).
Don’t ignore the angst; but you need to get it out of your way.
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Ask “How?” Panic is suffering, and it’s counterproductive.
Turn panic-driven thoughts into questions.
Don’t say: “I can’t…,” Say: “How can I…?”
This may seem like semantics, but there’s a subtle—and important—difference. A statement implies there is no answer. A
question suggests that the answer is there, you just haven’t found it yet.
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Which brings me to…
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“The Wall”
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What about goal-setting?
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Productivity vs. Creativity
Writers straddle both camps.
Structured
Concrete Action Steps
Logical and Strategic
Corporate
Left Brain
Freeform
Broad Vision
Creative and Intuitive
Artistic
Right Brain
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Climbing the Mountain Step 1: Start with a big vision.
Step 2: Determine your focused objective based on your big vision.
Step 3: Reverse-engineer a series of action steps to help you reach your focused objective.
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How It Works
What’s your big vision or big project?
What’s the concrete, focused objective?
Work backwards and fill out the steps.
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But here’s the best part"about climbing the mountain:
You don’t have to go it alone.
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