When You Focus Solely on the Outcome, You Are Missing the Point

When you go on vacation, do you say to yourself, "I'm starting from home? I am going on a cruise to 3

different countries and then I am returning home. Since the outcome is "returning home" and I am home

already, why go?" Is this something you say when planning a trip? No, it's ridiculous. Yet, that's

EXACTLY the mentality we have when we begin the dating process. Planning a vacation is about the

exploration, the learning of a new culture, the discovery, the new faces, the new places and the fun of the

experience. Now THIS is how we should view the dating process!!! It's NOT about the outcome. It's

about the learning of "the new". It's about enjoying the fun experiences along your way to...whatever you

want. Evaluate your perspective. If you approach online dating with dread & drudgery, STOP and do

something else (like vacuuming the living room). The process of Law of Attraction Love Relationships

dating, in fact dating in general, is a FUN discovery process about others and most importantly, about

yourself. When you attach self-worth, self-esteem & personal happiness to the dating process, you have

placed too high a price on the outcome. Get in a better-feeling place and re-start. Remember, according to

the Laws of Attraction Dating Service website, having FUN while dating draws people who are also fun,

upbeat and enjoying themselves.

Ask yourself why are some people having a miserable time with Law of Attraction Dating Website? And

why are others (myself included) are truly enjoying the process?…As I coach people in the arena of

dating, I find that the people who have fun with it have several things in common:

1) They already have a lot of positive things in their life that they also focus on;

2) They look forward to the experiences they are about to have;

3) They do not attach their self-esteem to the outcome of any endeavor;

4) They love learning. Learning in all areas of their lives;

5) They do NOT identify themselves as”Losers” or having any sort of diagnosis or pathology;

Law of Attraction Dating, whether online or in the real world, can be loaded with opportunities for hurt &

bruised egos. The key to staying positive & happy about dating is to LIKE yourself!!! What others think

of you is irrelevant. I ask myself, “Are they paying my rent & my electric bill?…No? Then to heck with

them!” Of course, that’s not the point but it gets the point across. Dating and the results that you net are a

DIRECT reflection of how you feel about YOURSELF!!! Be sure and proud about who you are and what

you stand for and the Law of Attraction Online Dating will ensure those who are like you will flock to

you – THEN it’s all about F-U-N!!!!!

More of Chris Dee’s writings can be found at: http://dateandgrow.com/articles/vortexdating-is-here-to-

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