When You Focus Solely on the Outcome, You Are Missing the Point
When you go on vacation, do you say to yourself, "I'm starting from home? I am going on a cruise to 3
different countries and then I am returning home. Since the outcome is "returning home" and I am home
already, why go?" Is this something you say when planning a trip? No, it's ridiculous. Yet, that's
EXACTLY the mentality we have when we begin the dating process. Planning a vacation is about the
exploration, the learning of a new culture, the discovery, the new faces, the new places and the fun of the
experience. Now THIS is how we should view the dating process!!! It's NOT about the outcome. It's
about the learning of "the new". It's about enjoying the fun experiences along your way to...whatever you
want. Evaluate your perspective. If you approach online dating with dread & drudgery, STOP and do
something else (like vacuuming the living room). The process of Law of Attraction Love Relationships
dating, in fact dating in general, is a FUN discovery process about others and most importantly, about
yourself. When you attach self-worth, self-esteem & personal happiness to the dating process, you have
placed too high a price on the outcome. Get in a better-feeling place and re-start. Remember, according to
the Laws of Attraction Dating Service website, having FUN while dating draws people who are also fun,
upbeat and enjoying themselves.
Ask yourself why are some people having a miserable time with Law of Attraction Dating Website? And
why are others (myself included) are truly enjoying the process?…As I coach people in the arena of
dating, I find that the people who have fun with it have several things in common:
1) They already have a lot of positive things in their life that they also focus on;
2) They look forward to the experiences they are about to have;
3) They do not attach their self-esteem to the outcome of any endeavor;
4) They love learning. Learning in all areas of their lives;
5) They do NOT identify themselves as”Losers” or having any sort of diagnosis or pathology;
Law of Attraction Dating, whether online or in the real world, can be loaded with opportunities for hurt &
bruised egos. The key to staying positive & happy about dating is to LIKE yourself!!! What others think
of you is irrelevant. I ask myself, “Are they paying my rent & my electric bill?…No? Then to heck with
them!” Of course, that’s not the point but it gets the point across. Dating and the results that you net are a
DIRECT reflection of how you feel about YOURSELF!!! Be sure and proud about who you are and what
you stand for and the Law of Attraction Online Dating will ensure those who are like you will flock to
you – THEN it’s all about F-U-N!!!!!
More of Chris Dee’s writings can be found at: http://dateandgrow.com/articles/vortexdating-is-here-to-
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