toxic charity: how churches and charities hurt those they help (and how to reverse it)
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Toxic Charity
How churches and non-profits hurt
those they help and how to reverse it
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Almsgiving is Mammon’s perversionof giving. It affirms the superiorityof the giver, binds the recipient,demands gratitude, humiliates himand reduces him to a lower statethan he had before. -Jacques Ellul
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Progression of one-way giving
Give once = appreciation
Give twice = anticipation
Give three times = expectation
Give four times = entitlement
Give five times = dependency
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A crisis need demands emergency
intervention;(like an earthquake, tsunami, famine,war:
i.e. stop the bleeding)
Crisis or Chronic?
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Crisis or Chronic?
A chronic need requiresdevelopment.
(like rebuilding homes, re-starting businesses, rebuildinginfrastructure: i.e. strengtheningcapacity)
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Crisis or Chronic?
Address a crisis need with acrisis intervention,
And lives are saved .
(doctors and medical supplies totreat the wounded, food andwater to feed the starving, tentsto shelter the refugees…)
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Crisis or Chronic?
Address a chronic need with acrisis intervention,
And people are harmed.
(Dependency increases, work-ethic
erodes, dignity diminishes)
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1. I will never do for others what they can do forthemselves.
2. I will limit one-way giving to crises and seekalways to find ways for legitimate exchange.
3. I will seek ways to empower by hiring, lending,and investing and offer gifts sparingly asincentives to reinforce achievements.
An Oath for Helpers
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• I will put the interests of the poor above my own (ororganization) self-interest even when it means settingaside my own agenda.
• I will listen carefully for spoken and unspoken needs(knowing that many clues may be hidden)
• Above all, to the best of my ability, I will do no harm.
An Oath for Helpers
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