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10 TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL
TRAVEL AS A COUPLE
Hi there!
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our travel tales with you! As promised, in return for signing up,
here is our e-book on our top 10 tips for successful travel as a
couple.
For years before we started The Global Couple, Shaun and I
had travelled extensively together. In fact, the vast majority of
our domestic New Zealand travel and international travel has
been done side-by-side (well, we have been together for nearly
eight years!).
We absolutely love travelling as a couple, and we both agree
that it’s fantastic to have someone to share experiences with
and relive them years down the track.
Of course, as with any human relationship, there are times
when ours gets strained – but fortunately for us these are few
and far between. We think we manage these strains and
stresses really well when they do arise!
As a result, we have compiled a list of 10 tips that we employ
to keep both of us happy as we travel the world. These tips are
for those of you who are uncertain about travelling as a couple
(and of course this list can be applied to friends and family
members travelling together too!).
Happy travels!
Petra & Shaun xx
The Global Couple
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Publishers: Petra Chappell & Shaun Pearce
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ONE
Enjoy the o ther person ’s company .
Of course, this is the number one rule. If you don’t enjoy their
company, those days and nights spent with only them may start
to grate after a while! As an aside – we’re not sure if you
should be in a relationship with someone (let alone travel with
them) if you don’t enjoy his or her company!
TWO
Be f lex ib le .
Yes, that applies both of you. In any relationship there has to
be a bit of give and take, and while you are travelling this is
even more important as you’re outside your home comfort
zone. Flexibility may be in the form of little things like agreeing
on where to eat dinner that night, or larger things like which
country to visit on a trip.
THREE
Both have input in to t rave l p lann ing .
This follows on from tip #2. It’s best if you plan a trip together,
then you can come to a common agreement of where to go
and what to do before the trip is booked and paid for. And
again, be flexible. On our trip to Southeast Asia in 2013 I
really wanted to go to Myanmar and Shaun really wanted to
visit Hong Kong, so we did both! (And we both absolutely
loved each place).
FOUR
Do someth ing that each o f you wants to do every
day .
This keeps both of you happy and enthusiastic about the day
ahead. For example, if we spent a day wandering around
museums that I wanted to visit, we would eat at a restaurant of
Shaun’s choosing that night.
FIVE
Encourage each o ther to t ry new th ings .
Whether it’s a weird local food, a scary experience, a new job,
or learning a new skill, it’s great to encourage each other to
push boundaries and to know you have the support of each
other throughout. We went bungy jumping for the first time
together in Queenstown, New Zealand, and without the
support of Shaun being there and encouraging me I don’t think
I would’ve jumped off that bridge!
SIX
Pool your t rave l f inances together .
When we started travelling we had individual accounts and
halved our expenses, so Shaun would pay for one dinner and I
would pay for the next, and so on. It was a mission to figure out
who paid for what and it got quite stressful! Fairly quickly we
decided to get a joint bank account and put equal amounts of
money into that account and use that when travelling – it saves
the accounting headaches!
SEVEN
Eat when (or before) you ’ re hungry .
This stops you getting needlessly annoyed at each other when
you’re ‘hangry’! It’s much easier to make decisions and to enjoy
yourselves when your tummy isn’t rumbling. Having little snacks
throughout the day is a good way to stay fuelled up and also to
try some local food!
EIGHT
Have some a lone t ime .
Being on the road constantly with your other half is great, but
it’s also good to be alone, whether it’s reading a book, going
for a walk by yourself, sunbathing on the beach, or going
shopping (this one is a definite for us when I want to look at
shoes or clothes!).
NINE
Know each o ther ’ s s t rengths and weaknesses .
Knowing what each other are good and not so good at makes
it easier to prepare for and adapt to difficult situations. For
example, when we are driving into a new city, we make sure
Shaun is driving and I’m the navigator, because he gets less
stressed driving (I tend to freak out!) and I am better at
reading maps (especially since Shaun tends to get a bit of
motion sickness if he has to read!).
TEN
Be there fo r each o ther when the go ing gets
tough .
Travelling is not always going to be plain sailing – there are
times when you’ll wish you were at home in your own bed. So
when the hard times hit, you need to be there for each other no
matter what. Being on the other side of the world means you
don’t have the same support network as you do back home, so
you need to rally together to get through the hard times!