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TEMPLE BETH EL BULLETIN An Egalitarian Conservative Synagogue www.tbe.org March/April 2011 Adar I/Adar II/Nisan 5771 Volume 37 Issue 4 (bi-monthly) Kirtan Havdalah TBE’s President Eileen H Rosner Receives Outstanding Senior Volunteer of the Year Award from Volunteer Center of Stamford Remarks by Judy Aronin on page 10 Sisterhood Presents Meet the Author: Vicki Kobliner MAKING BAKLAVA WORLD-WIDE WRAP Our Religious School’s first grade collected tzedakah to plant trees in Israel under the direction of their teacher, Galit Roloff. SHORASHIM - TBE’s Early Childhood Center Remember the SNOW???

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Page 1: Temple Beth El Bulletin - March/April 2011

TEMPLE BETH EL BULLETIN An Egalitarian Conservative Synagogue

www.tbe.org

March/April 2011 Adar I/Adar II/Nisan 5771 Volume 37 Issue 4 (bi-monthly)

Kirtan Havdalah

TBE’s President Eileen H Rosner

Receives Outstanding Senior Volunteer

of the Year Award from

Volunteer Center of Stamford

Remarks by Judy Aronin on page 10

Sisterhood Presents

Meet the Author: Vicki Kobliner

MAKING BAKLAVA

WORLD-WIDE WRAP

Our Religious School’s

first grade collected

tzedakah to plant trees in

Israel under the direction

of their teacher,

Galit Roloff.

SHORASHIM - TBE’s Early Childhood Center

Remember

the SNOW???

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COMMITTEE CHAIRPERSONS

2020 Action Plan Committee Fred Golove 203-322-0295

B’nai Mitzvah Chairperson Terry Hazen 203-329-2202

Board of Education Sheryl Young 203-975-1990

Communications Elissa Garber-Hyman 203-316-8228

Facilities Sylvan Pomerantz 203-968-0605

Finance Allan Lang 203-327-6418

Fund Raising Scott Krowitz 203-348-8680 Peter K. Kempner 203-968-8079

High Holidays Seymour Weinstein 203-353-8873

Beth El Remembers Fred Golove 203-322-0295

Human Resources Scott Krowitz 203-348-8680 Robert Lesser 203-321-8364

Membership Committee Terry Hazen 203-329-2202 Rona Katz 203-329-0666

Project Ezra Joy Katz 203-329-3359

Ritual Committee Gerry Ginsburg 203-322-1324 Susan Schneiderman Eitelberg 203-333-3331

Synaplex Roni Lang 203-327-6418

Youth Programming Walter Morgenthaler 203-968-8581

WHERE TO FIND IT

Joshua Hammerman, Rabbi ......................................... Page 3

George Mordecai, Cantor ............................................. Page 3

Al Treidel, Director of Jewish Life Education .................. Page 4

Ronnie Brockman, Early Childhood Center Director. ....... Page 4

Sidney G. Rabinowitz, Hazzan Emeritus ......................... Page 5

March/April Service Schedule ....................................... Page 6

B‟nai Mitzvah .............................................................. Page 7

Adult Education .......................................................... Page 9

Sisterhood ................................................................ Page 11

Temple Beth El - Board of Trustees

EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Eileen H. Rosner, President 203-324-4096 Gary P. Lessen, Immediate Past President 203-322-7617 Peter K. Kempner, First-Vice President 203-968-8079 Jared Finkelstein, Vice President 203-327-2187 Scott Krowitz, Vice President 203-348-8680 Harold Schwartz, Vice President 203-968-0460 Seymour Weinstein, Vice President 203-353-8873 Allan Lang, Treasurer 203-327-6418 Denise Greenman, Secretary 203-329-8594

TRUSTEES David Arditti 203-968-2798 Michael Arons 203-323-8436 Melvin Bloomenthal 203-322-2398 Gordon Brown* 203-325-8911 Rosalea Fisher* 203-323-1449 Gerry Ginsburg 203-322-1324 Fred Golove* 203-322-0295 Ron Gross* 203-325-3114 Terry Hazen 203-329-2202 Elissa Garber-Hyman 203-316-8228 Martin Israel* 203-325-8511 Herbert Kahan* 203-322-3249 Alan Kalter* 203-322-8220 Eric Kaplan 203-323-2383 Doug Karp* 203-972-0910 Rona Katz 203-329-0666 Carol Krim 203-968-1075 Mark Lapine* 203-329-9879 Susan Leiterstein 203-322-5012 Claudia Lubin 203-329-8585 Milton Mann* 203-322-6161 Neil Perlman* 203-354-8663 Sylvan Pomerantz 203-968-0605 Brian Rogol* 203-329-8276 Meira Rosenberg 203-968-0260 Eli Savransky 203-329-2990 Norman Stone 203-866-2273 Ken Temple 203-968-9550 Mia Weinstein 203-595-0528 David Wolff 203-968-6361

SISTERHOOD Wendy Durica, President 914-764-8246

MEN’S CLUB Stuart Nekritz, Representative 203-322-0872

*past president

OUR STAFF IS MOST EAGER TO ASSIST YOU

Monday - Thursday, 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Friday, 9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Phone: (203) 322-6901 Fax: (203) 322-0532

Joshua Hammerman, Rabbi ([email protected]) ext. 307 George Mordecai, Cantor ([email protected]) ext. 303 Sidney G. Rabinowitz, Hazzan Emeritus ([email protected]) ext. 309 Steven Lander, Executive Director ([email protected]) ext. 304 Al Treidel, Director of Jewish Life Education ([email protected]) ext. 305 Ronnie Brockman, Early Childhood Center Director ([email protected]) ext. 315 Barbara Murray, Youth Advisor and YJP Program Director ext. 311 Debbie Bouchard, Education Office ([email protected]) ext. 306 Linda Rezak, Bookkeeper ([email protected]) ext. 302 Mindy Rogoff, Temple Secretary ([email protected]) ext. 301 Ellen Gottfried, Secretary ([email protected]) ext. 308 Alberto Eyzaguirre, Facilities Manager ([email protected]) ext. 314 Sisterhood Gift Shop ([email protected]) ext. 310

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ON ONE FOOT

An AshkeSephard Seder at TBE

March and April will bring us a number of special events detailed elsewhere in this

Bulletin, including our “Shir Madness” Klezmer Service on March 5, celebrating Shabbat Across

America; “Purim on the Rocks” for adults on Saturday

night March 20th, featuring the traditional imbibing - responsibly! - (I thought we should call it “Purim on the

Rox!”). Then, on Purim morning, our always-spectacular carnival; our Scholar-in-Residence Jay Michaelson on April

15-16 (one of the best new commentators on the

contemporary Jewish scene), plus our 90th Anniversary Commemorations, all topped off by the special weekend

of April 8-10, when we‟ll be celebrating our TBE heritage and marking a new historic milestone on our journey with

our new Cantor. With all these stirring events upcoming, plus the great services that we have every week, I‟m

going to focus my comments on an event that might not even happen! All these other events will certainly happen, and

unless ol‟ man winter has one more surprise whammy for us, they will be well-attended. But the congregational

second seder, scheduled for April 19 at 7 PM, will happen

only if you let us know SOON. We want to do one, but only if you want us to. We‟ve had several of these

multigenerational events in the past and they‟ve always been fun. But the costs do not make sense unless we

have critical mass – lots of reservations in advance.

This year we have the added privilege of having Cantor Mordecai with us. He brings with him a

background of Sephardic customs and music that will open up to us a whole new world and deepen our

connection to the Jewish people and to our diverse backgrounds and rich history. Of course, there will be

lots of familiar customs and songs too, plus activities for

the kids. He and I are looking forward to putting together a program that will make for an unforgettable

evening – all that and you don‟t have to cook! (BTW, we‟ll only go Sephardic at this seder to a point - no

legumes!)

So please contact us at [email protected] to let us know if you are interested and how many adults and kids

would be coming. We can‟t know precise prices at the moment but we will try to keep them competitive. Since

people need to make plans, we‟ll aim to let people know by March 15 whether the TBE Seder is a “go.”

And best wishes from all the Hammermans for a

happy Purim and kosher and joyous Passover.

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman PLEASE BE AWARE...

Because of strict confidentiality regulations, Stamford Hospital limits the access that clergy have to patient

population lists.

Please help us to help you and your loved ones by contacting the rabbi directly, by voice mail (322-6901

x307) or email ([email protected]) when you know of

someone in the hospital.

CANTOR GEORGE MORDECAI

Recently, I had the pleasure of participating in a series of concerts

with Seraphic Fire, a premier

nationally acclaimed vocal ensemble. The performance was entitled “Out of Babylon” and it

followed my family‟s journey from Iraq to India, Singapore, and Australia, and finally, my arrival in

America. Throughout the performance, we explored

different musical approaches to a selection of very ancient sacred poems ranging from simple, plain chant to

more elaborate arrangements. I have performed quite extensively over the last 20 years but this particular

project struck at the very core of my being. As I sang these ornately textured musical scales and motifs, I

thought of my Uncle Shaul who patiently imparted this

musical tradition to me, effortlessly demonstrating the subtleties and nuances of this musical and liturgical art

form. I also reflected upon my family‟s story, an epic narrative of joy, suffering, effort and triumph of will and

realized that all of us have similar stories to tell. The

geographical location and road travelled might be different, but the more I listen to people‟s accounts of

their families‟ journeys, the more it becomes evident to me that our experience, whether Ashkenazic, Sephardic

or Middle Eastern, are remarkably similar.

On April 10 at 7pm, I will be performing at Beth El with a group of very talented musicians and spiritual

leaders from many different Jewish cultures, ranging from Israel, Argentina, America, Canada and North Africa. In a

concert entitled “From Baghdad to Beth El,” we will play and sing traditional Iraqi and Yemenite piyutim - sacred

Jewish poems. I will also be performing selections from

Bob Dylan and Leonard Cohen, two contemporary Jewish poets who, along with the music of my tradition, have

had a monumental impact on my life and artistic development.

All of us have a very powerful story to tell. We all are

the products of our ancestors‟ journeys as they made their way across oceans, deserts, tropical rainforests and

war torn lands to give us an opportunity to grow and evolve.

Cantor George Mordecai

PASSOVER

Need help preparing for Passover? Check out TBE’s website for our own “A Guide for the Perplexed” and for the link to the Rabbinical Assembly Pesach Guide.

www.tbe.org

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AL TREIDEL DIRECTOR of JEWISH LIFE

L’dor Vador

As we head into the Purim/

Passover season, one needs to think

about the incredible stories, deeds and lessons learned from a group of all too familiar figures. We look with

pride and easily connect with Moses, Aaron, Miriam, Mordecai and Esther. They and many others should

serve as a source of inspiration. Not too long ago I received an email from someone

who “Googled” an article that I wrote, in the Beth El

Bulletin exactly one year ago, about my family. He is a distant relative and was trying to learn more about an

Uncle Herbert Treidel who lived in my father‟s town and moved to Australia during the Shoah. We spoke on the

telephone and I told him all that I knew about my family

and our North African origins and how the family ultimately made their way to the Rhineland area of Germany. I called

my 96 year-old uncle in Denver who related more information to me about Herbert‟s family who were distant

cousins and, like my grandparents, were in the cattle business. Having painfully reviewed the deportation

papers of the Jews in Mayen, I knew that Herbert‟s parents

had perished in the Holocaust and I promised to try to find out which camps they had been sent to.

Today‟s Jewish youth is two generations removed from the Shoah and three or four generations away from

our immigrant ancestors. Like the Purim and Passover

stories, it is just as critical that future generations understand who they are. There are many incredible

stories to preserve along with interesting information that should be passed on to our children. I am the family

historian and the “go to person” when anyone is

interested in family history. Usually every family has at least one “go to person.”

I want my children and their children to know about my grandfather William Chait who, at the age of 15,

walked from Galicia to Rotterdam to board a ship for America just one day prior to the start of World War I.

They need to know that my great-grandparents were

separated for 12 years before they were reunited in New York City. My great-grandmother Lena Chait (4‟9” tall)

supported two little boys in Galicia during World War I by washing clothes for the soldiers, carrying 100 pound sacks

of potatoes on her back, and picking up lumps of coal

along the railroad tracks to keep her family warm. They should know about my great-great-grandfather Berka Brill

who, at the age of nine, was kidnapped by the Russian Army in Kovno, Lithuania and was forced to serve for 25

years in Helsinki, Finland where he ultimately established a home and business for his 16 children.

They were all super-heroes in my eyes and how they

lived and survived should serve as an inspiration to future generations. It is incumbent upon all of us to preserve

our family history and share it with our offspring. Best wishes for a happy Purim and a kosher Pesach!

Al Treidel

RONNIE BROCKMAN Early Childhood Center Director

Passover Is for the Children!

There is an ancient custom to spread nuts on the

seder table before the seder begins. And what is that deep, dark, hidden meaning behind the custom? Simply,

to arouse the curiosity of the kids.

There is also the well known, time honored custom of hiding the afikomen and letting the children hunt for it.

Again, another tradition designed to keep children involved at the seder.

The following list is just a few ideas that will help

keep the kids involved:

Have head scarves and robes, suitable for desert wear,

and sheets to make tents available for dress up and role

playing.

Put out a suitcase and encourage children to pack

things that they would take if they were going to move away very quickly and had to decide really fast. A

variation is to let each participant pick the one most important thing that cannot be left behind.

Put some small plastic frogs on the table for counting

and sorting.

Adapt puppets to portray Pharaoh, Moses, Aaron and

Miriam for dramatic play.

Take a Pretend Taste Of Bitter Herb - Make A Funny

Face

As the meal is served, name your favorite Pesach food.

Say, “My compliments to the chef.”

Have children pitch-in with preparations. They can:

Make place cards for the guests; help set the table; clean

the house.

Play “I Spy” to identify or introduce ritual objects,

Pesach foods or anything else at the seder; for example: I spy something … round on the table (answer: seder plate); … squishy that Grandma gave you (answer: a pillow); … hard and crunchy (answer: matzah); … that

reminds us of laying bricks (answer: haroset)

Wishing you and your family a

meaningful, enjoyable seder, and a happy

and healthy Pesach! Ronnie Brockman

SHORASHIM OPEN HOUSE

Tuesday, March 29 at 9:30 a.m. (with babysitting) and

7:00 p.m.

NEW PROGRAMS for

TWO YEAR OLDS and THREE YEAR OLDS

Contact Ronnie Brockman 203-322-6901, ext. 315 or [email protected]

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THE HAZZAN’S VOICE

Never question the power of music! Many times throughout the years your

Rabbi and Hazzan, together with the Adult

Choir and/or Jr. Choir, have brought the wealth of our liturgy and its music to

churches in the Stamford area. Conversely, church groups have performed at our Temple.

In the 1980‟s and 1990‟s a series of concerts entitled

“A Celebration of Choirs,” sponsored by The Council of Churches and Synagogues, were performed in Stamford -

one year at Temple Beth El. I was privileged to be the musical director of the concert in 1991, which featured

choirs from eleven religious institutions and held at St. John‟s Roman Catholic Church on Atlantic Street.

While the respect and understanding of each other‟s

liturgy and music was vastly heightened, it could not “hold a candle” to the impact generated by a concert

performed this past November by a chorus of 20 cantors at the Basilica of Santa Maria degli Angeli e die Martiri, a

cavernous church in Rome adapted by Michelandelo from

the ancient Baths of Diocletian. The reform cantors, members of the American

Conference of Cantors, serve congregations in California, Arizona, New York, New Jersey, Maryland, Virginia,

Georgia, Florida and Texas. The concert featured a

range of prayers and texts set to both traditional melodies and music by composers dating from the

Renaissance to the present day. Before each piece a cantor stepped forward to describe the selection, explain

its place in the Jewish religious service and provide information about the musical setting.

“Our goal,” stated one cantor, “was to educate

people in Jewish culture and the synagogue. We feel that through music you can heal, make friends, touch

people and reach out.” U.S. Ambassador to the Vatican, Miguel Humberto

Diaz called the concert “...a wonderful opportunity. Any

kind of art, especially music, is a way to bring people together for the sake of the common good.”

Among the 200 in attendance were many Vatican dignitaries. The Pope had hoped to attend the 90-minute

concert, but did not attend due to illness. The music was very well received, especially an

original selection composed by Cantor Erik Contzius of

New Rochelle, a setting of Psalm 116 with words in Hebrew and Latin.

Cantor Tracey Scher of Temple Rodef Shalom in Falls Church, Virginia - in my neighborhood - stated, “When

we completed each piece, you could hear our voices

ringing throughout the basilica for five seconds after we finished. We knew this was an historic moment in

Catholic-Jewish history. It was a feeling that we had done something great in the world.”

To my dear colleagues - Yasher Koach!

Hazzan Sidney G. Rabinowitz

CELEBRATING A SPECIAL EVENT? COMMEMORATING A YAHRTZEIT?

Please consider sponsoring a Kiddush, following Shabbat Services, or an Oneg Shabbat, following our Friday evening services. Contact Steven Lander in the office for all of the new reasonably priced Kiddush options at 322-6901, ext. 304 or [email protected].

For information about any of the sponsorship opportunities listed above, please call Steven Lander at ext. 304.

JAY MICHAELSON Scholar-in-Residence

Shabbat, April 15-16, 2011

Freedom from Seder Slavery: Cultivating the Spirituality of Passover

Jay Michaelson is a writer, scholar, and activist whose work focuses on the intersections of spirituality, Judaism, sexuality, and law. Jay has both an academic background and a personal commitment to spiritual practice. He holds a J.D. from Yale Law School, an M.A. in Religious Studies from Hebrew University, and a B.A. Magna Cum Laude from Columbia, and is currently completing a Ph.D. in Jewish Thought at Hebrew University. In 2008-09, he spent five months on silent meditation retreat in the Theravadan Buddhist tradition, in America and Nepal, and has sat one-, two-, and six-week retreats in that tradition for seven years. In the Jewish tradition, Jay has learned and taught Kabbalah since 1993, completed the Elat Chayyim Jewish Meditation Advanced Training program, spent two years at the Pardes Institute of Jewish Studies, and has been a practicing halachic Jew for three decades. On Friday night, following services that begin at 7:30 p.m., Jay’s topic will be: A Better Way to Answer the Four Questions: Using the Seder’s Q and A to engage the next generation of American Jews. On Shabbat morning (services begin at 9:30 a.m.) Jay will speak on: Beyond Maxwell House: Creating an Embodied, Enriching Passover Seder. On Shabbat afternoon his topic will be: The Deeper Meaning of Passover: Using the Wisdom of Kabbalistic Sources, Discovering Passover’s Spiritual Side. The Scholar-in-Residence is sponsored by Penny and Michael Horowitz in loving memory of Bessie Silver, z’l, and Millie Reiss, z’l.

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APRIL 2011

Friday, April 1 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, April 2 Services 9:30 a.m.

REBECCA SATZ, BAT MITZVAH

Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m. Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Friday, April 8 90th Anniversary Shabbat Dinner 6:30 p.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Comedian Johnny Lampert

Shabbat, April 9 Services 9:30 a.m.

STEPHANIE HAUSMAN, BAT MITZVAH Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m.

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Friday, April 15 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Jay Michaelson, Scholar-in-Residence Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, April 16 Services 9:30 a.m.

Jay Michaelson, Scholar-in-Residence

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Monday, April 18 - EREV PASSOVER

Morning Minyan 7:30 a.m. Siyum for the First Born

First Seder

Tuesday, April 19 Passover Services, 1st Day 9:30 a.m.

Wednesday, April 20 Passover Services, 2nd Day 9:30 a.m.

Friday, April 22 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Ruth Brennan, Guest Speaker Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, April 23 Services 9:30 a.m.

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Friday, April 29 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, April 30 Services 9:30 a.m.

NOAH DURICA, BAR MITZVAH

Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m.

Nitzanim 10:45 a.m.

SHABBAT AND FESTIVAL SERVICES

MARCH 2011

Friday, March 4 Shabbat Across America Dinner 6:00 p.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat - Shir Madness 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, March 5 Services 9:30 a.m.

RACHEL WOLFF, BAT MITZVAH Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m.

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Sunday, March 6 - Rosh Chodesh Adar II Morning Minyan 9:00 a.m.

TYLER AND MICHAEL ZIELINSKI, B’NAI MITZVAH

10:30 a.m.

Friday, March 11 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, March 12 Services 9:30 a.m.

MATTHEW KOBLINER, BAR MITZVAH Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m.

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

Friday, March 18 Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m.

Recognition Shabbat honoring members who joined TBE

between 2001-2011 plus Adult Choir Reunion Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, March 19 Services 9:30 a.m.

SAMANTHA KRAFTSOW BAT MITZVAH ANNIVERSARY

Jr. Congregation 10:30 a.m. Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

PURIM ON THE ROCKS Megillah Reading for Adults 8:00 p.m.

Sunday, March 20 - PURIM Morning Minyan 9:00 a.m.

Megillah Reading for Families 9:30 a.m. Purim Carnival 10:30 a.m.

Friday, March 25 Grades 3-4 Family Shabbat Dinner & Program 6:30 p.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30 p.m. Tot Shabbat with Nurit 7:30 p.m.

Shabbat, March 26 Services 9:30 a.m.

HANNAH KATZ, BAT MITZVAH

Grades 3-4 Shabbat Program

Nitzanim for Tots 10:45 a.m.

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You are cordially invited to attend...Any Bar or Bat Mitzvah, aufruf, yahrtzeit, baby naming, birthday, anniversary or other family milestone celebrated in our sanctuary at any scheduled service!

Our services are celebrations for the entire community. Each milestone of yours is one we all have a stake in. Each joy is one we all share, each sorrow is one we all want to allay.

If you have a special milestone approaching, let us know so you can share it with your Beth El family. If you simply want to be part of a congregation that laughs, cries and shares life together, join us any week - join us every week!

NO INVITATION REQUIRED

B’NAI MITZVAH

March 5 (morning)

RACHEL WOLFF Daughter of Cheryl and David

Sister of Alison Attends Scofield Magnet Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Baking and selling

Dog cookies to benefit PAWS Animal Shelter

March 6 (morning)

MICHAEL ZIELINSKI Son of Brian and Shelley

brother of Tyler, Matthew & Andrew Attends Rippowam Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Working with little

children, at the JCC, in physical fitness and games

Please visit our website at

www.tbe.org/2010/10/2010-2011-mitzvah-projects/

for full descriptions of these outstanding projects.

March 6 (morning)

TYLER ZIELINSKI Son of Brian and Shelley

Brother of Michael, Matthew & Andrew Attends Turn of River Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Working at the JCC in

the swim department

March 12 (morning)

MATTHEW KOBLINER Son of Vicki and Mark

Brother of Ariel Attends Turn of River Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Kids in Crisis

March 26 (morning)

HANNAH KATZ Daughter of Joy and Larry

Sister of Aaron and Rachel Attends Scofield Magnet Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Sewing clothes for

needy kids

April 2 (morning)

REBECCA SATZ Daughter of Cathy and David

Sister of Adam Attends Rippowam Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Volunteer at Bull‟s

Head Animal Hospital and “Seders for Soldiers” collecting kosher for Passover

food items to send to soldiers

April 9 (morning)

STEPHANIE HAUSMAN Daughter of Mindy and Jeff

Attends Scofield Magnet Middle School Mitzvah Project: Collected books, DVDs,

and toys donated to the Childrens

Hospital at Montefiore

April 30 (morning)

NOAH DURICA Son of Wendy and Jon

Brother of Shira Attends Fox Lane Middle School

Mitzvah Project: Fundraising for Heifer

International

KOL HAKAVOD!

This is the second time that Rachel Plotzky, 9 years-old,

gave her hair - 12 inches - to Locks of Love!

LEARN TO BAKE HAMANTASCHEN

Sunday, March 13 at 9:30 a.m.

Sponsored by TBE Sisterhood

Learn to bake hamantaschen with Ann Treidel’s

secret family recipe using a multiplicity of delicious

fillings. If you enjoyed her baklava, you’ll LOVE her

hamantaschen!!!

Limited to the first eight people who sign-up. Final

deadline, Wednesday, March 9 or sooner if eight

people have already reserved a place.

Contact Debbie in the Education Office at: 203-322

-6901, ext. 305 or email [email protected].

For TBE members only - at no charge.

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Special Occasion?

Sponsor The Shabbat E-nnouncements (sent every week via e-mail)

The Shabbat Announcements (distributed each Shabbat at the Temple)

and the Shabbat-O-Gram (e-mailed every Thursday night)

All three publications for $72

All sponsors will be acknowledged at the

beginning of each of these announcements

and also listed in our bi-monthly Bulletin.

Call Mindy in the office at 322-6901 ext. 301.

The deadline

for the MAY/JUNE 2011

issue of the Temple Bulletin will be

Friday, April 1, 2011

MAZEL TOV TO…

Leslie and Herb Horowitz on the birth of a great-grandson, Meir, born to Abby and Eli Rosenberg.

Sheri Rosen and Jeremie Kass on the birth of a son, Corban Joseph.

Judy and Jonathan Solomon on the birth of a son, Jordan Samuel.

Grecia and Ron Gross on the birth of a grandson, Benjamin Lewis, born to Stephanie Phillips and Brad Gross.

Eileen H. Rosner on receiving the Outstanding Senior Volunteer Award from the Volunteer Center of Stamford.

Dr. Mara Hammerman on receiving Honorable Mention for her work at Westhill High School from the Volunteer Center of Stamford.

THANK YOU FOR SPONSORING KIDDUSH

Elizabeth and Jared Finkelstein

THANK YOU FOR SPONSORING THE SHABBAT ANNOUNCEMENTS

Elizabeth and Jared Finkelstein

WE THANK OUR VOLUNTEERS

Beth Finchler, Roz Finchler, Sam Kravitz, Carol Sander Willy Sander, Millie Sobel, Barbara Taksel

Men’s Club Participants for Sisterhood Shabbat

Kenneth Jay Cohen, Bud Freund, Gerry Ginsburg

Stuart Nekritz, Gary Schulman, Ben Susman Sandy Weinberg, and assisted by Jason Nekritz,

Josh Schulman and Sam Schulman

HONORABLE MENSCHEN Todah Rabah to our Torah readers!

ATTENTION PARENTS

OF COLLEGE FRESHMEN

Rabbi Hammerman would like to stay in touch

with your child while he/she is away at college.

Please send his/her e-mail address to Ellen in the

Temple office at: [email protected].

Thank you!

NITZANIM

A Shabbat Program

for Young Children

Meets every Shabbat morning

from 10:45 a.m.-12:15 p.m.

Baby sitting and snacks

will be provided by our madrichim!

TBE WELCOMES BARBARA MURRAY

YOUTH ADVISOR/YJP ACTIVITIES COORDINATOR

We are pleased to announce the appointment of Mrs.

Barbara Murray as our Interim Youth Advisor/YJP

Activities Coordinator for the remainder of this fiscal year.

Barbara has a long history of active involvement in the

Jewish world. She will be receiving a Master of Arts degree in Jewish Education from the William B. Davidson

School of Education at the Jewish Theological Seminary this coming May. This past year, she was an intern at

the Bureau of Jewish Education here in Stamford. Barbara has served as a youth director in

Coral Gables, Florida and helped to found a youth group

in Wellington, Florida. Additionally, Barbara has been a Jewish educator in a number of congregations. She has

directed a camp, served as an art director, parenting instructor and an admissions counselor at a university.

Barbara is well-organized, enthusiastic and energized to

do great work with our youth community. She has already begun connecting with key people and beginning

work with our youth and Young Jewish Professionals.

She will be here on a number of Sunday mornings and at Kulanu to quickly get to know our kids.

Barbara promises to be a wonderful new asset to our

entire TBE youth community.

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APPLES AND ORANGES

A New Look at Comparative Religion with Dr. Elissa Kaplan

March 3, 10, 17

Rabbi Abba Hillel Silver said, “Religion is the supreme art of humanity.” When thinking about Judaism and the

world‟s religions, the metaphor of comparing apples and oranges comes to mind. Using this image, we will

explore Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Hinduism and

Buddhism. Each religion has both a unique history and basic elements. While traveling around the world, we will

investigate ideas of God and faith, authority and leadership, revelation, celebration, salvation, the

meaning of life and core values at each stop along the way. Join us as we discover signposts of comparison and

contrast and add to our own ideas about religion itself.

Cost: TBE Members: $ 18.00, non-members $ 36.00 Register at 203-322-6901, ext. 306 or email

[email protected].

ONE PEOPLE - MANY PERSPECTIVES

with Dr. Elissa Kaplan March 24, 31 and April 7 at 7:30 p.m.

According to Dr. Seuss, “Sometimes the questions are

complicated and the answers are simple.” When thinking about Jews in the United States, perhaps the questions

might be simple while the answers tend to be quite

complicated. Let us explore together questions like the following: What happened at Sinai? What is God? and

What is the Jewish view of history from creation to the end of days? We will consider the Orthodox,

Conservative, Reform and Reconstructionist (and perhaps others, too) perspectives on these and other matters.

We will be using a Tanach and a Siddur. Bring your own

or use the ones at Temple Beth El. All other materials will be provided.

Cost: TBE Members- $ 18.00, Non-members- $ 36.00

For information or to register contact: [email protected] or call 203-322-6901 ext. 306.

THE GREAT JEWISH BOOKS

with Rabbi Joshua Hammerman Sunday, March 13 at 10:45 a.m.

THE BOOK OF ESTHER

We‟ll cover several books each year. All readings will be done in translation and no prior knowledge of the subject is required, but it will enhance the discussion if you‟ve had the chance to look at the book ahead of time. Each session will be independent of the other sessions, so come to all or come to one.

For information on our Adult Education programs, go to: http://www.tbe.org/2010/09/adult-ed-programs-for-

2010-2011/

ADULT EDUCATION

A WONDERFUL STROLL DOWN MEMORY LANE

with Dr. Ruth Brennan and Her Family Friday, April 22, 2011

(after services)

Spend an evening with Dr. Ruth Brennan and

members of her family for a readers theater presentation of excerpts from her book Gathering Family on Friday

evening, April 22 following services that begin at 7:30 p.m.

Gathering Family is a story about an Eastern European family who fled Russia and sought freedom in

America at the turn of the 20th century. What is

remarkable about this memoir is that it recounts three generations of the same family and sets their immigrant

lives against the political and social history of the time, both in Europe and in America. Filled with colorful and

unforgettable characters, you are drawn into first-

generation and second-generation experiences and are reminded, again and again, how the lives change but the

values remain steadfast. The authentic Yiddish accents add much to the ambiance of the evening. Selections

from Gathering Family will be read aloud followed by a question/answer session in a cabaret-like setting.

Dr. Ruth Brennan and her family have appeared in a

number of congregations and have received rave reviews: “We cannot wait to invite Ruth back; this is not just

a tale to be heard by an older generation, it should capture the

interest of all those who have a family history.”

Fran Glucroft, Congregation Beth El, Fairfield.

“For weeks afterwards, our membership was talking about her

reading and inspiring conversation about our community’s past

and future.”

Michelle Hilburn, Congregation Etz Hayim, Arlington, VA.

This program is offered through Temple Beth El‟s Adult

Education program and is open and free to the entire Jewish Community.

LEARNING & LATTE

March 8 and April 12 at 7:30 p.m.

Stamford‟s long-running, monthly interfaith, free-flowing

“tri-alogue” - Christianity, Islam and Judaism featuring

Rabbi Hammerman, in dialogue with other local clergy of all faiths.

At COSI, 1209 High Ridge Road, Stamford

Meets monthly on the second Tuesday from October-May.

The class is being run in conjunction with the Interfaith Council of Southwestern Connecticut.

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OPPORTUNITIES FOR GIVING

Adult Education Programs

Beth El Cares

Beth El Seniors

Camp Scholarship Fund

Cantor George Mordecai Mitzvah Fund

Frank & Rose Rosner Memorial Fund (maintenance)

General Fund

Hazzan Sidney Rabinowitz Mitzvah Fund

High Holy Day Appeal

Kiddush Fund

Men’s Club Scholarship Fund

Prayer Book Fund

Project Ezra

Rabbi Joshua Hammerman’s Mitzvah Fund

Religious School Fund

Youth Programs

CONFRONTING ANTI-SEMITISM Sunday, March 13 from 9:30 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

(Snow date: March 20)

For TBE Seventh Graders and Their Parents

ANTI-SEMITISM HITS HOME

“I’m scared after reading about the swastikas being painted

on the walls of a synagogue.

I thought my community was safe.”

“I can’t believe the stereotypes that people have about Jews

and that they actually repeat them!”

“I thought he was my friend - but why would he have made

that comment about Jews? It really makes me feel

uncomfortable.”

Newspaper headlines jump out at us when an anti-Semitic

incident is reported. We’re outraged by those actions and

wonder what the world is truly about. But what about those

times when we aren’t quite sure about someone’s comment?

We feel uncomfortable, angry or confused about responding -

either because we’re concerned about drawing more attention

to ourselves, or just because we don’t know what to say.

The Anti-Defamation League’s “Confronting Anti-Semitism”

workshop gives teens and their families an opportunity to share

thoughts and experiences, and offers tools to respond

effectively and challenge anti-Semitic stereotypes you may

encounter.

EMPOWER YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY

BY ATTENDING THE WORKSHOP!

Funded by Temple Beth El, The Herbert & Marcia Kahan

Endowment Fund, and the Connecticut Anti-Defamation

League.

REMARKS BY JUDY ARONIN

Here are my remarks from the award ceremony during which Eileen H. Rosner was honored by the Volunteer Center of Southwestern Fairfield County: I feel compelled to tell you that when Eileen first learned she was to be awarded this honor her reaction was, “Oh my, I don’t have time to attend this ceremony! It is my great honor and my great privilege to present this volunteer award to you, Eileen!!! You are a shining example of what it means to volunteer and the difference it makes. Rabbi Tarfon, an ancient rabbi, teaches us, “It is not incumbent upon you to complete the work, but neither are you at liberty to desist from it.” Those of us who know you recognize that never are you engaged in this work for praise or to seek the limelight nor to receive accolades! Soooooooo, we want you to understand and to grasp this is a gift to us, your dedicated friends, your colleagues and your community! It is a thrill and it is our need to recognize your works in a public manner and I am thrilled to represent the community which benefits so incredibly as a result of your time, your energy and your dedication!!! And so, please allow me the honor to share with you the work which Eileen accomplishes: Eileen H. Rosner = Currently President of Temple Beth El, a thriving, egalitarian Conservative synagogue here in Stamford. And we are so pleased to have our own Rabbi Joshua Hammerman and Cantor George Mordecai present this morning as we honor our Eileen!!! We know, Eileen, that you honor your parents, Rose and Franklin Rosner, z’l, as you commit to this work. They were soooooooo incredibly dedicated to the health and the vitality of Temple Beth El! For many years Eileen has served on The Friends of Ferguson Board and has been co-chair of the Ferguson Library Literary Competition. She serves The Jewish Historical Society of Lower Fairfield County as a volunteer in the Harry Rosenbaum JHS Judaica Library and assists with the historical Society archives. In addition, she serves on the advisory board of The Ballet School of Stamford and chairs the annual auction for the school. One of her more recent commitments is participation in a special volunteer program at the Bennett Cancer Center, here in Stamford. Eileen bakes for Stamford Hospital cancer patients and staff. What is soooooooo remarkable about you, Eileen, is how you are completely and entirely and selflessly dedicated to each of these organizations. Because you are on the front lines, you see, you discover a need before the rest of us are even aware of the situation and once you see the need, you are ever-present to take action and to make a difference! Each of these organizations: Temple Beth El, The Ballet School, The Ferguson Library, The Jewish Historical Society, the patients and staff at the Bennett Center - indeed our entire community is the richer and the stronger for your continuing effort and passionate dedication!!! You are a shining example of how to make a difference in your community! We know you will continue in these leadership capacities and we plan and pray for your continuing health and strength and energy so that you may continue to contribute so meaningfully to your community! Eileen, we celebrate you today and we thank you with heartfelt energy for all that you are and for all that you do!!!

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SALE OF HAMETZ FORM

I, ______________________________________________, hereby authorize Rabbi Joshua Hammerman to act as my Shaliach (representative) and empower him (or any agent operating on his behalf) to sell all hametz owned by me, or in which I have a share, whether it is in my possession, being shipped to me, or stored elsewhere, as of 10:00 a.m. on April 18, 2011. This includes any stocks or shares in corporations or businesses that buy or sell hametz. (The term, “hametz,” is understood according to the Rabbinic definition of leavened food and is to include all types of such food or liquids in pure or mixed forms). Since the buyer must have free access to the hametz he purchases, I also agree to authorize him to rent those premises in which these foods are stored and agree to keep these items separated and to seal them off. This sale is to be concluded in accordance with all the requirements of Jewish law and the terms of the general authorization contract used by the Rabbi for this purpose. Stores engaged in the sale of hametz during Passover are excluded. Estimated value of my hametz foodstuffs and liquids __________________________. My signature below legally grants Rabbi Hammerman, or his agent, the power to act on my behalf in this matter in accordance with both halachic regulations and the laws of Connecticut and other states. I agree to abide in good faith by the results of this sale without any reservations, either expressed or implied. Witness my hand this _________________ day of __________________, 2011. Name _________________________________________________________ Home address _________________________________ city _____________ Business address_____________________________ city _______________ Summer home _________________________________ city ____________ Other addresses ________________________________________________

IMPORTANT!

To be valid this letter must be received by April 18, 2011.

You may fax your form to (203) 322-0532.

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MEMORIAL PLAQUES

Inscribe the names of your loved ones on a plaque for our Chapel wall along with a light to commemorate their

yahrtzeit and yizkor observances throughout the

year.

Please contact Mindy at 322-6901, ext. 301 for

further information.

PROJECT EZRA

Would you like to perform a mitzvah that is right at the heart of our Temple? Join the Project Ezra team that

delivers pre-shiva meals to bereaved members of our

Temple. Participating is easy and so very rewarding.

To learn more, contact Joy Katz at 329-3359 or

[email protected].

Passover 2011 Tuesday, April 19, 2011

7:00 p.m.

An Ashke-Sephard Seder With Rabbi Joshua Hammerman & Cantor George Mordecai

Enjoy Passover traditions from around the world! Approximately $70/person; $ $25 ages 3-12; max $210/family

Contact [email protected] to reserve.

JOIN US FOR PURIM ON THE ROCKS

Saturday, March 19th – 8:00 p.m.

A reading of the Megillah for adults will begin at 8:00 p.m.

followed by a special edition of

PURIM ON THE ROCKS!

Scotch Tasting – Beer (& root beer)

and Wine

Cheese & crackers & assorted snacks

and, of course, hamantaschen!

Ron Zussman, the former Brand Director of The Glenlivet, will be the host and guide for an evening of scotch tasting. We will learn about the history and lore and regional styles of single-malts and find out what types of single-malts are alike, and vary by age and cask types. We will sample six single-malts to provide you with a broad range of flavor profiles.

Of course for those not into scotch, we will have beer, wine and soda.

Special thanks to the Men’s Club and Sisterhood for sponsoring this special evening.

Sunday morning, beginning at 9:30 a.m., there will be a Family Megillah reading, costume parade with prizes, and our fabulous Purim carnival - all from 10:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.

Purim is the only holiday when it’s a mitzvah to imbibe, but we also ask that, even on Purim - especially on Purim - everyone drink responsibly.

On March 18, we will recognize the newest members of

our TBE family - those who have joined between

2001 and 2011. We will display memorabilia from those dates - programs, journals and pictures. Members

of our Adult Choir, both past and present, will join Cantor Mordecai in singing our way into Shabbat and then we

will share memories in the social hall following services.

Our celebration will conclude on the weekend of April 8 with two special programs. On Friday night, we will

enjoy a congregational Shabbat dinner at 6:00 p.m.

followed by Kabbalat Shabbat services starting at 7:30 p.m. After services, comedian Johnny Lampert

will entertain us.

At our Kiddush luncheon on Saturday morning, past presidents of our Temple, our Men‟s Club and Sisterhood

will be recognized.

On Sunday, April 10, the celebration ends with “From Baghdad to Beth El,” a concert reflecting the musical

journey of Cantor George Mordecai and featuring special guests.

Our virtual journal will give you a chance to share your

family‟s connection to TBE. You could include your family tree highlighting the members of your family who were

also members of Temple Beth El. You might want to write about your family history at TBE or share a story of

a time or event that was significant to you, your family or

TBE. Another option is to welcome Cantor Mordecai and his family. Whatever your choice, please consider adding

something to the journal and to help support our Temple as we celebrate 90 years of caring and community.

We hope that you will join us for all or part of the

celebration.

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Sisterhood Presents: “Race to Nowhere”

Wednesday, March 30 at 7:00 p.m.

The film “Race to Nowhere” is a call to

mobilize families, educators, and policy

makers to challenge current assumptions on

how to best prepare the youth of America to

become healthy, bright, contributing and

leading citizens.

Tickets: $10 in advance - $15 at the door.

Details for purchase to follow...

TORAH FUND

Instead of sending greetings from Hallmark, why not send a beautiful Torah Fund card? You can help celebrate a simcha, extend get-well wishes and send someone special a mazel tov. I like to keep them “on hand” for the convenience of having them in my own home.

What is Torah Fund?

It is a project of Women‟s League for Conservative

Judaism to benefit the Jewish Theological Seminary in

NYC, the Ziegler School in L.A. and the Schechter Institute in Jerusalem. Our Temple has already profited

from this wonderful organization. Rabbi Hammerman, Cantor Mordecai, Cantor Jacobson, Rabbi Kalev, Cantor

Littman and Hazzan Rabinowitz are all graduates of

these institutions.

How much are the cards?

$3 a piece or 7 cards for $20

Who do I contact? Suzanne Stone at (203) 866-2273

I will make this transaction as easy as possible for you! I can meet you at the Temple at a time that is convenient for both of us. I can drop them in your mailbox when you send me your check. Remember, if you write a check, you may use that donation as a tax deduction. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Suzanne Stone, Vice President of Torah Fund

HELEN GOLIN JUDAICA SHOP

At TBE

Regular Hours:

Sundays from 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Tuesdays from 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

For appointments, please call Nancy Mayer

at 203-561-6157

or Steve Lander in the Temple office

at 203-322-6901, ext. 304.

IS YOUR BAR/BAT MITZVAH SIX MONTHS AWAY?

Visit our Gift Shop to view our large selection of invitation books. Make an appointment with Nancy Mayer at 203-321-1094 and she will guide you through the ordering process. We have all the popular books to choose from: C’est Papier, Encore, Jansson, Checkerboard and more! And we have the BEST DISCOUNTS! We also have Havdalah candles, Sunkist Fruit Gems sold in bulk, tallitot and yarmulkes for guys and girls and gifts. You can order your yarmulkes from us, too. We are a one stop shop for your simcha!

PLAY MAH JONGG

with

TBE SISTERHOOD

Second Thursday

of every month!

For information call 203-325-8836

SISTERHOOD OF THE BOOK

Sunday, March 6 at 9:30 a.m.

Days of Awe, by Achy Obejas

Sisterhood of the Book kicks off a new season with what promises to be stimulating discussions (and coffee,

of course) covering books by Jewish authors or about Jewish topics, including biographies. Facilitated by Linda

Simon. We start with Days of Awe by Achy Obejas. Lyrically

written, the novel explores the story of Alejandra and her

parents‟ flight from Cuba to Miami and Chicago in the wake of the Cuban revolution in 1959. “Borrowed” from

the author‟s life, the story is about Cuba‟s hidden Jews, a family‟s search for its origins, and anusims - Jews who

survived the Inquisition by pretending to be Catholic.

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PEW SEATS AVAILABLE!

Are you tired of scrambling for seats when you come to worship at the High Holy Days? There is a solution! Why not purchase the rights to pew seats for you and your family?

Pew seats may be paid over a three year period. For further information, please contact Steve Lander at ext. 304 or [email protected].

DEDICATE A PRAYER BOOKDEDICATE A PRAYER BOOK

MAHZOR LEV SHALOMMAHZOR LEV SHALOM

The newly published High Holiday Prayer Book, Mahzor

Lev Shalem, was used for the first time on the High Holidays

to everyone’s satisfaction.

For $50: One prayer book for your personal use or donate one

to the Temple.

For $250: Six prayer books will be donated to the Temple.

For $500: Twelve prayer books will be donated to the Temple.

For $1,000: Twenty-one prayer books will be donated to the

Temple. Four books will be given to your family.

OR HADASHOR HADASH

This very special book was intended to educate and

enlighten; indeed, Or Hadash translates as A New Light. “Its

purpose is to help the reader - no matter of what background -

to understand the siddur and to be able to pray from it with

great sincerity and meaning. Or Hadash enables the

worshiper not only to understand the texts, but how to actually

daven (pray with devotion),” said Rabbi Hammerman.

The dedication of this book costs $54.

CHUMASH (BIBLE) to DEDICATECHUMASH (BIBLE) to DEDICATE

The Etz Hayim Chumashim (Bibles) are available for

dedication. Having a simcha? Why not dedicate a Chumash

to honor the occasion? Observing a yahrtzeit? Why not

dedicate a Chumash in memory of your loved one?

The dedication of this book costs $72.

SIM SHALOM SIDDUR for SHABBATSIM SHALOM SIDDUR for SHABBAT

Our Sim Shalom siddurim for Shabbat are available for

dedication.

The dedication of this book costs $36.

SHIVA MINYAN BOOKS AVAILABLESHIVA MINYAN BOOKS AVAILABLE

FOR DEDICATIONFOR DEDICATION

Prayer Books for Shiva Minyans are available for dedication.

The dedication of this book costs $36.

A lovely, personalized book plate will be placed inside

the front cover.

Please call Mindy in the office, 322-6901, ext. 301 or

[email protected], if you would like to dedicate one of these

books.

INFORMATION FOR YOU…

When making a donation in honor of or in memory of

someone, an acknowledgement will be mailed to the

designee for donations of $10 or more. Donations of less

than $10 will be acknowledged only in the Bulletin.

All donations will be published in the Bulletin unless you

state that you wish to be anonymous.

VISIT OUR WEBSITE!

www.tbe.org

Read Rabbi Hammerman’s Shabbat-O-Grams… View our photo albums…

Learn about our upcoming events… Find contact information...

And much, much more!

FRIDAY NIGHT AT TBE

Reawaken, Reimagine, Reboot

Every week at 7:30 p.m.

Hear our new melodies at www.tbe.org.

JFS is honoring one of our very own

Tara Shapiro Recipient of JFS’ Young Leadership Award

An Evening with JFS Sunday, May 15, 2011 at 5:30 p.m.

Congregation Agudath Sholom Stamford, CT

BETH EL CEMETERY ASSOCIATION INC.

ANNUAL MEETING

May 9, 2011 at 8:00 p.m.

Members Only: the By-laws define members as “any

person who is a member of Temple Beth El and who

has purchased or who is the designated beneficiary

(on record) or two or more graves.”

Agenda

Report by President

Report by Treasurer

Election of Board Members

Nominated are:

Richard Fisher, Eileen H. Rosner and Lewis Slayton

For information, contact the Temple office.

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TREE OF LIFE

A beautiful way to commemorate a special occasion is to purchase a “leaf” on our beautiful “Tree of Life” sculpture adorning our Temple lobby. There are many more leaves available for your own personal inscriptions.

The following categories are still available: Triple Chai $5,400 Guardians of the Temple $1,000 Silver Leaves - Gold Border $750 Silver Leaves $250

Please contact Mindy in the Temple office at 322-6901, ext. 301 or [email protected].

WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS

THANK YOU FOR DEDICATING

A “MAHZOR LEV SHALEM”

In loving memory of… Joseph Drucker, z‟l, and Richard Turshen, z‟l, by Sharon

& Jeff Turshen, Jane Lombardi

Karen and Steven Jossem, z‟l by Susan Frieden

WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS IN MEMORY OF:

RUTH LOCKER, z’l Sue & Art Greenwald

RABBI JOSHUA HAMMERMAN MITZVAH FUND In honor of… In appreciation by Ahuva & Michael Nazarian

Charlie Sosnick becoming a Bar Mitzvah by Miriam & Steve Sosnick

In gratitude for Rabbi Hammerman‟s visits to Alissa in the hospital by Rhonna & Brian Rogol

The birth of our twin grandchildren, Gabriel David & Claire Sylvia born to Rachael & Jason Levitt by Barbara & Philip Finn

In gratitude for Rabbi Hammerman‟s “special” mishebeirach by Karen, Rich & Geoff Hainbach

Jonathan Pollack on becoming a Bar Mitzvah by Risa & Michael Pollack

Sheila & Hesh Romanowitz as ADL honorees by Ellen & Richard Richman

Rachel Goldblum becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Steve Goldblum & Cheryl Bader Goldblum

In memory of… Larry Pollack, z‟l, by Risa & Michael Pollack

CANTOR GEORGE MORDECAI MITZVAH FUND In honor of… Charlie Sosnick becoming a Bar Mitzvah by Miriam & Steve Sosnick

The birth of our twin grandchildren, Gabriel David and Claire Sylvia born to Rachael & Jason Levitt by Barbara & Philip Finn

Leslie & Herb Horowitz on the birth of a great-grandson, Meir, born to Abby & Eli Rosenberg by Susan & Martin Clarke

Rachel Goldblum becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Steve Goldblum & Cheryl Bader Goldblum

In gratitude for Cantor Mordecai‟s kindness during Alissa„s illness by Rhonna & Brian Rogol

MITZVAH GARDEN In memory of… Lenore & Arthur Finkelstein, z‟l by Vicki & Tom Rosen

In honor of… Zoe & Ethan Finkelstein becoming B‟nai Mitzvah by Vicki & Tom Rosen

FRANK AND ROSE ROSNER MEMORIAL FUND In honor of… Steven Lander for his help with Rachel‟s Bat Mitzvah by Steve Goldblum & Cheryl Bader Goldblum

KIDDUSH FUND In honor of… Linda & Larry Rezak on the birth of a granddaughter, Hannah Sally, born to Rachel & Dan Haron by Rhonna & Brian Rogol

BETH EL CARES In memory of… Jack Warren, z‟l, Cindy & Steven Warren

WE MOURN THE PASSING OF…

JACK WARREN, father of Steven Warren RIVA SCHULMAN, mother of Esta Berman-Price

RUTH LOCKER, wife of Alan Locker

ARLENE KARP, mother of Doug & Arnold Karp HELEN KOPLIK, mother of Jim Koplik

ARNOLD PISKIN, father of Brenda & Scott Piskin MARC SHAPIRO, husband of Evie Shapiro

ANNETTE (NETTIE) LEBOW, wife of Irving Lebow

WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS IN HONOR OF:

A SPEEDY RECOVERY FOR ALISSA ROGOL Susan & Martin Clarke

MARA HAMMERMAN RECEIVING THE GRINSPOON-STEINHARDT AWARD FOR EXCELLENCE IN

JEWISH EDUCATION The Heyson Family

EILEEN H. ROSNER RECEIVING THE SENIOR

VOLUNTEER OF THE YEAR AWARD FROM THE VOLUNTEER CENTER OF STAMFORD

Sue & Art Greenwald

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REMEMBERING OUR LOVED ONES

Roslyn & Alec Perlson ................... GILBERT ADELMAN

Dayna Patashnik ................................ ELAINE ALBERT Scott Allen .............................................. EDDY ALLEN

David Wolff ......................................... ALLAN COCHIN Gloria & Seymour Baum ......................... RUTH COHEN

Louise & Jerome Berkman ............. SAMUEL BERKMAN

Molly Bernstein ......................... HERMAN BERNSTEIN Amy & Mel Bloomenthal ....... SAMUEL BLOOMENTHAL

Muriel Siskind ...................................... SARAH BRODY Sherry & Kenneth Jay Cohen ................. IRENE COHEN

Philip Farin ............................ RAY & CHARLES FARIN Barbara & Joe Field .......................... ABRAHAM FIELD

Roselyn Finchler ............................ EVELYN FINCHLER

Barbara & Stan Friedman ............ MARTHA FRIEDMAN Sally & Jim Rothkopf .......................... MAY FRIEDMAN

Sandra & William Gottlin ................. NATHAN GOTTLIN Amy & Howard Rosenberg ................... CELIA GEISLER

Phyllis & Harvey Walzer ............. FRANCES GOLDBERG

Robin & Rich Redniss ....................... CHARLES GOLUB Carolyn Farin ................................. SYLVIA HANTMAN

Phyllis & George Heller ..... EDITH & WILLIAM HELLER Steven Grushkin .......................... BERNARD HELLMAN

Susan Frieden .................................. NORMAN HILFER Marsha Shendell & Family ..................... EDITH KAISER

Barbara & Joe Field .......................... SAMUEL KANREK

Sam, Hal & Robert Kravitz ............... LILLIAN KRAVITZ Gloria & Seymour Baum ................... JOSEPH KURZON

Roni & Allan Lang ................................. JOSHUA LANG

Stephanie Sherman ........................... LILLIAN LEVINE

Sherry & Kenneth Jay Cohen ......... FREDERICA LEWIS Magida Family................................ FRANCES MAGIDA

Nina, Blake, Kyle & Max Marian ....... STEPHEN MARIAN Norma & Milton Mann ....................... KEN MUNOWITZ

Julie Maimon & Family ......................... ALVIN NELSON

Lorraine Nisonoff ......................... LILLIAN NISONOFF Stanley Novack ............................ ABRAHAM NOVACK

Paseltiner Family ....................... GLADYS PASELTINER Alec Perlson ........................................ROSE PERLSON

Phyllis & George Heller ..................... SYDELLE PIASER Burton Piaser ................................... SYDELLE PIASER

Debra & Stephen Pollack ................... JASON POLLACK

Penny & Michael Horowitz ..................... MILLIE REISS Meryl & Hank Silverstein ............................. ETTA RICH

Stanley Rosenstock ....... SESSI & KURT ROSENSTOCK Suzanne Stone ........................ MILDRED SESNOWITZ

Maddy Shapiro & Family ....................... AMY SHAPIRO

Caroline & Matthew Kassel ............. SUSANA SHENKER Evie Shapiro ..................................... MORRIS SIEGEL

Alan Silberman ............................. JAMES SILBERMAN Stuart Sobel & Family .............................. ANNA SOBEL

Bernie Taub ............................................ NANCY TAUB Muriel Siskind ...................................JOSEPH TENNEN

Barbara & Stan Friedman ................ IRVING WARSAW

Phyllis & George Heller .......... HERBERT WASSERMAN Dana & Carl Weinberg ............... MORTON WEINBERG

Debra & Stephen Pollack ............ MARTIN WINTHROP Michael Zlotnick ................................ SARA ZLOTNICK

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Please note: The appearance of an advertisement does not

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Directly adjacent to the Town of Fairfield in the newly renovated educational facilities of Congregation B’nai Israel

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Photos by Aviva Maller