Seven Warning Signs of Abusive Relationships

Many people mistakenly believe that a

relationship is abusive only when there

is physical violence. Many people suffer

intense psychological violence and do

not realize they are being abused. It is

possible to switch into an abusive

relationships without even realizing it.

It is now recognized that even if a

person has escaped from an abusive

relationships, its impact continues to

haunt them for a long time. Many

victims of abusive relationships suffer

from PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress

Disorder), which needs to be treated.

Those who have never been abused in

a relationship do not understand how

a person can find himself or herself in

such a situation. This is the crux of the

problem. In cases of physical violence,

abuse can take many forms: scramble, slaps, punches, kicks, etc. Any relationship in which

one partner is constantly criticized, snubbed, bullied, humiliated and/or does not have the

respect of others, is emotional abuse.

Although men and women are potential victims of abusive relationships, studies have

shown that the vast majority of victims are women and children. Violence can occur at any

stage of a relationship. All women, regardless of social class, ethnicity, age, nationality,

religion, culture, education, can be victims of domestic violence. Children are also traumatized

by violence in their homes causing fear, anxiety and distress.

There are seven warning signs that you need to be careful of to identify an abuser.

Warning sign # 1

The abuser is able to make the victim feel special. It gives you the impression that you are

the only one that counts. In this way, he or she wins your attention. This strategy is

particularly effective if you have a low opinion of you.

Warning sign # 2

The abuser is very convincing and thus manages to make you do things that do not make you

feel comfortable. For example, if you live with partner who prefers to be aware when you do

not spend the night at home. He or she will tell you it does not matter. This is how he will

begin to take control.

Warning sign # 3

This control becomes more and more important. For starters, they comment on the clothes

you wear. Then they offer outfits which you might think are inappropriate for you. Slowly they

can start taking over all the decisions that you used to take on your own. Helping and giving

an opinion, when asked for is fine, but forcing one’s view on someone is a kind of abuse.

Warning sign # 4

After some time, they will begin to dictate what you should do. Their mood suddenly changes,

but they’ll always apologize after misbehaving with you. They will tell you phrases such as "I

am sorry, I had a bad day", and “I did not want to get angry" etc.

Warning sign # 5

Abusers will try, little by little, to get you away from your friends and your family. First, they

might tell you, they do not think that your friends like them making you feel guilty and isolated.

Warning sign # 6

Things get worse and they

stop apologizing when

after misbehaving. They

will even say that it is you

who has put them in a bad

mood and everything is

your fault. They will be

physically abusive; may

even say that it is you who

have pushed them to that

limit.

Warning sign # 7

Be very careful when you

start doubting yourself. If

your instinct tells you it is

unfair, but you question

the veracity of this feeling,

it means that you are

under his control.

Keep in mind that each

abuser may have his/her

own way to hurt you. The basic rule is that if you feel uncomfortable with the way they treat

you, if you feel that they are wrong and you had never behaved this way with them, then you

can be sure you are in an abusive relationships and it is time to save yourself!

You can get over with an abusive relationships by promoting healthy, equal relationships,

at home, at school, at work, in the community and society. To do this, it is important to

determine the characteristics of such a relationship. There should be equality in an

interpersonal relationship. The needs and perspectives of each person are important and valid.

It is important that the two persons in a relationship should behave respectfully towards each

other.

For a healthy and egalitarian relationship, it is important that one or more of the following

behaviors are present:

negotiation and fairness

non-threatening behavior

love and respect

trust and support

honesty and responsibility

In order to develop love, respect, trust and honesty in a relationship, both the partners need

to have a heart full of positive thoughts for each other, fair intensions and a noble intension

in life. A person full of negativities can never create or maintain healthy and loving

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