Rabbi Yisroel Edelman: Tel: (o) 954-571-3904 (h) 954-725-1494 Rabbi Dr. Martin Schloss, President: Cell: 646-644-2657

PARSHA Ki Seitzei כי תצא PIRKEI AVOS CH 1 August 28, 2020

Young Israel of Deerfield Beach Newsletter

The Fran & Simon Laufer Building

202 Century Boulevard, Deerfield Beach, FL 33442

Morty Sklarin, ע'ה Daf Yomi Program: After 8:00 AM Minyan

Torah - STONE: Pg. 1046 HERTZ: Pg. 840 Haftorah - STONE: Pg. 1201 HERTZ: Pg. 857

8 Elul 5780

Tel: 954-571-3904 Office Hours: 8:30 A.M. – 12:30 P.M. Email: info@youngisraeldb.com

Daily Daf Yomi Shiur Sunday - Friday at 9:30 AM (Sun & Tues Daf given by

Rabbi Yisroel Edelman) please call conference call number 701-802-5216 and then enter the Access Code 5467540 and then press #

R'Mordechai Berkowitz ‘s Chumash & Meforshim Mon - Thurs 5:30 PM via zoom Tanya Tues & Thurs at 10:30 AM via zoom. Please dial 682-223-1894. If you require further assistance, please contact R'Berkowitz at 718-877-9167

Rabbi Yisroel Edelman’s Classes Women’s Talmud Class Tues at 11:00 AM SUSPENDED Women’s Chumash Class (for Men also) Wed at 11:00 AM Pirkei Avos Class Men & Women Friday at 11:00 AM For all classes, please call conference call number 701-802-5216 and then enter the Access Code 5467540 and then press #

Mincha 6:15 PM Freilick Sanctuary

Candle Lighting 6:40 PM Next Week: 6:33 PM

(Plag is at 6:23PM)

Shacharis 8:45 AM Freilick Sanctuary

Latest Shema 10:10 AM

Mincha 7:30 PM Freilick Sanctuary

Maariv/Shabbos Ends 8:18 PM Freilick Sanctuary

Rabbi’s Message

This week’s Parsha of Ki Setze contains 74! Mitzvos which encompass vast areas of Jewish life. Among

them are laws regarding marriage. Did you ever wonder why at a wedding there is a very large challah which the chosson makes Hamotzi over and distributes pieces to all the guests? Rabbi Akiva Eiger (1761 – 1837) offers a creative explanation. The Gemara (Brachos 8) relates that in Eretz Yisrael, the custom was that when a man married a woman, they would ask him: Matza or motzeh? In other words, they would ask the groom whether the appropriate passage for his wife is the verse from Mishlei that begins with the word matza, as it is written: “He who finds a wife (Matza) finds good” or whether the more appropriate verse is the one beginning with the word motzeh, as it is written: “And I find (motzeh) the woman more bitter than death” (Koheles 7:26). Hopefully, the answer was reflected in the verse from Mishlei! In order to wish the chosson well, participants eat up the “motzi” leaving the chosson only with “matza” - a good wife! May our live be filled with goodness and kindness always.

Current FEIN TORAH CENTER CLASSES

No Seudah Shlishis at YIDB

DAILY SCHEDULE

Shacharis 8:00 AM Freilick Sanctuary

Mincha 6:10 PM Freilick Sanctuary

During these unprecedented times, please continue to dedicate a

day of learning for any occasion by sponsoring a Daf. $18 per

dedication. To sponsor, call YIDB Office. -

Debbie (Deanna) Jacobs in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of her grandson, Joey Zvi Jacobs; Jacquelyn Kaminetsky on the Yahrzeit of her mother, Malka bas Gershon, A’H; Tuvia Massouda thanking the members of YIDB; Doris Sklarin on the Yahrzeit of her father-in-law, Avraham ben Pinchas, A’H; Naomi & Murry Redisch on the Yahrzeit of her mother, Sisel bas Meir, A’H; Chaya & Joshua Spinner on the Yahrzeit of her grandfather, Yehudah ben Yoel, A’H; Miriam & Abe Tous on the Yahrzeit of his mother, Machla bas Pesach, A’H.

MORTY SKLARIN, ע'ה DAF YOMI PROGRAM

For those who are registered to attend the Indoor Minyan at YIDB, please be aware of the following:

• If you do not feel well or are waiting for a COVID – 19 test result, PLEASE DO NOT ATTEND ANY MINYAN!

• You must wear a mask at all times and abide by social distancing. If you wear a plastic shield you must wear a mask as well.

• You must bring your ID card (or copy) for entrance.

• All seats are first come first serve.

• Hand sanitizer will be available to use upon entrance and exiting.

• The building will be sanitized daily.

• You must bring your own Siddur, Chumash, and Talis.

• Shachris davening will begin with Nishmas.

• Exiting the Shul will be from the back row forward one row at a time to ensure social distancing. Please do not congregate in the hallway.

• Please remember that attending the minyanim you are assuming any risk of exposure to or sickness from COVID-19.

YIDB’S SPONSORSHIP PROGRAM Become a sponsor for any occasion for an Aliyah and/or a Shiur.$36 per event or sponsor 2 events in the same week $50

Thank you to this week’s sponsors Aliyahs Gloria Weiss, Abe & Jeff Barnett on the yahrzeit of their beloved father, Aaron Chaim ben Yakov Yosef HaLevi, A’H; Joe Bistriz in honor of the shul; Sylvia & Sidney Mosenkis in honor of the shul; Herschel & Roz Goldwater on the occasion of their 3rd anniversary; Chana & Rabbi Ephraim Piekarski, in honor of their son Avraimel’s birthday and in honor of their wedding anniversary; Judy & Jimmy Hassan, on the yahrzeit of her grandfather, Yechiel Alter ben Avraham, A’H. Shiur Sponsorship Sylvia & Sidney Mosenkis in honor of Rabbi Yisroel Edelman and

Shul (Wed, Fri); Edith Selig in honor of her grandsons, Simcha Bunim ben Devorah, who donated a kidney to his 14 yr. old brother,

Shamai Chaim ben Devorah. Both have been discharged from the hospital and are recuperating at home. (Wed & Fri.); Deanna (Debbie)

Jacobs on the Yahrzeit of her husband, Dovid ben Tuvia, A’H (Wed.

Only.) Tuvia Massouda thanking Hashem for watching over us (Wed & Fri.); Barbara H Meyers in honor of her special birthday (Wed.)

To become a sponsor, please contact either Steven Schoenfeld ssschoenfeld@gmail.com

or Marty Schloss mschloss@youngisraeldb.com

Please Note: For those NOT registered for indoor Minyan...

You will not be permitted to enter into the

shul for any minyan, without a reservation!

SHABBOS SCHEDULE

REFUAH SHLEIMA TO:

Eva Horowitz (Regents Park (954) 481-5934) Norman Mintz

Only family members and/or the Rabbi can add or remove names from the Refuah Shleima list.

BIKUR CHOLIM CONTACT LIST This is to let you know that our Bikur Cholim program is up and ready to assist you in various ways. Please contact the following:

For Visitation (Visiting people confined to their homes or medical facilities.) Phone: Rebetzin Gutel Edelman (954) 725-1494 or Caroline Schloss at (347) 277-1916

For Transportation (For medical needs only when unable to

transport themselves.) Phone: Larry Levine at (917) 412-8670 or

Celia Rapp at (646) 458-1624

For Food Acquisition (For people who are unable to prepare meals

for themselves.) Phone: Ruth Berger at (516) 642-1631 or Dottie

Gross at (954) 290-3400

RHODA & JACK NEUSTADTER CHEVRA KADISHA If you should, unfortunately suffer a loss; please call

Harriet and Howard Drandoff (917) 754-3751

Donations to the Chevra Kadisha are greatly appreciated.

Please Note: Shabbos Room in Broward North Hospital is on the

3rd Floor near the Vitas Nurses Station. The code for the door is

“2,3,4.” For more information or to reserve the Shabbos Room,

please contact Rebetzin Gutel Edelman (954) 725-1494 or

Caroline Schloss at (347) 277-1916

Shabbos Room in Boca Regional, please call (561) 955-7100 and ask

to speak to the Patient Advocate.

Linda & Burt Blass on the birth of a grandson; Tzivia Bramson on the marriage of her

granddaughter, Esti Waidenbaum to Eli Potash; Deanna (Debbie) Jacobs in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of her grandson, Joey Zvi Jacobs; Judith Jacobs on the engagement of her grandson, Justin Merkin to Blossom Soifer; Joyce & Sid Klein on the marriage of their granddaughter, Sabrina Kudowitz to Arthur Greenfield; Janice & Larry Levine on the marriage of their granddaughter, Elisheva Levine to Akiva Lebowitz; Susan & Bob Rosenfeld on the marriage of their grandson, Gabe Rosenfeld to Devi Braun; Sara Teicher on the birth of a great-grandson, Moshe Baruch Kram; Sandy & Joe Waldman on the engagement of her granddaughter, Avigayil Waldman to Moshe Davis; Bina & Herb Zukerman on the marriages of 2 grandchildren, Danielle & Daniel Schopf and Michael & Mattie Brooke.

The Congregation Extends Their Condolences To:

Fran Moss Eisenstein on the loss of her son, David Ari Moss, A’H; Shirley Preiss on the loss of her husband, Harold Preiss, A’H; The Singer Family on the loss of their mother, Shirley Singer, A’H.

NO MATTER WHERE YOU SHOP

HELP SUPPORT YIDB! GROVE DOLLARS EQUALS YIDB DOLLARS!

Aroma Gift Certificates Equals YIDB Dollars WinnDixie Gift Certificates Equals YIDB Dollars

To purchase any of the above Gift Certificates, please call Irving Katz (917) 374-3721

HIGH HOLIDAYS

By now you should have received the Yomim Noraim Reservation form via email. Please make sure to submit your form asap. The

deadline for submission is Thursday September 10th.

Due to Covid-19 restrictions and regulations, no one will be

able to attend Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur davening without pre-registration. For

your convenience, you can drop off your completed form

with your payment in the new mailbox (picture left) outside

the shul. You can also email your form, mail the form or go online to Shulcloud and pay

by credit card.

Hard copies of the High Holidays Reservation Forms

are available on the table in front of the shul and also by

the main elevators in the major highrise buildings in Century Village.

If you have any questions, please contact either Saul Landa (732)

672-8257 or Steven Schoenfeld (917) 741-0299

Please Welcome Our New Members

Esther & Howard Hans

LET’S CONTINUE TO GROW!

Please continue to help us increase our YIDB family. If you know individuals considering coming to CVE, or who have already moved to our CVE community,

Submit their name to yidb

Names can be emailed to Steven Schoenfeld, Membership Chairman, at ssschoenfeld@gmail.com/call (917) 741-0299

Thanks to all our friends and Young Israel family for all their calls, concerns, prayers and good wishes for me during my stay in the hospital. This is truly the best community ever.

Eugene Metz

A BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE *Closing the Women Sections This Coming High Holidays?*

What they did in the Ponovitch Yeshiva in 1991 The numbers of yeshiva students that would attend the Ponovitch Yeshiva in Bnei Brak for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur continued to swell. There was simply not enough space in the beis medrash to accommodate the overflow of bochrim. By the year 1991 it was impossible to hold in the beis medrash the bulging numbers. The recommendation was made to erect a wall that would split the women's section in half in order to open up many more seats for the men. It seemed rather obvious that the halacha dictates that the bochrim of the yeshiva who had the obligation to pray with a minyan should take precedence over the group of women that would pray in that space. However, they first had to receive the permission of the Yeshiva head, the gaon, Rav Menachem Man Shach zt”l (1899-2001). When he was informed of the details he responded that he needed time to weigh the issue. Two days later Rav Shach returned with an answer. He said the following: “Let us carefully consider who the individuals are who are praying with us. The women's section is made up of many women who due to their personal situation in life come with very special prayers. Some of the women who come are not yet married, some are praying for children; they pour their hearts out with supplication to merit blessing from the Almighty. Some who attend our prayers are older women, widows, who are here without husbands and feel the pain of loneliness.” “The supplication of the women who join us emanate from a deep place. Their tefillos are saturated with tears.” Rav Shach continued, “Their prayers, perhaps more than ours, have the strength to break through even the locked gates in heaven. Therefore, we must understand that our entire Yeshiva rests on the prayers of women - how can we possibly allow even one less woman to attend?” Rav Shach did not allow the women’s section to be diminished by even a single chair. (This episode was shared by the prominent posek Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein shlit’a in his recent respona regarding the issue of opening the women section to men for this coming Rosh Hashanah

and Yom Kippur. Thank you to Saul Gold for submitting.