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Page 1: Pivotal Magazine #3

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Issue No. 3

--- be inspired

--- be informed

--- be entertained

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IN THIS ISSUE …

--- be inspired

Getting from here to there ………………..……………………….………………………… 17

Having an idea is not the same as having a vision …………………………………… 14

6 Techniques to Make your Presentation unforgettable ………………………………3

… be informed

Build Great Core Client relationships ………………………………………………………. 6

A Child’s plate: good nutrition and great taste go and in hand ………….………… 9

Give a Great Talk ………………………………………………………………………………… 13

… be entertained

Books ………………………………………………………………………………………………… 4

Videos ………………………………………………………………………………………………. 11

Kids ………………………………………………………………………………………………….. 16

Inspiration …………………………………………………………………………………………. 12

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Create

a buzz!

It’s great to find yourself at the front of the room, speaking clearly, shuffling confidently through

your perfectly-chosen slides, seeing looks on the faces of your audience members that seem to say

“Yes, I am listening. No, I cannot turn away.”

If only it was always that easy…

6 Techniques to Make Your Presentation Unforgettable

It can be helpful to think about attention in terms of presentations in

three ways: First, we need to grab the audience’s attention. We need to

find some way to capture them quickly and make sure that they are

invested in our message right from the start. Secondly, we need to hold

their attention. It serves little purpose to shock our audience into a state

of alertness if we quickly lull them back into a stupor of boredom and

complacency. Once we have our audience’s attention, we need to pace

our presentation in such a way that can keep them coming along for the

ride by creating various, dynamic “highs” and “lows” as we build

toward our conclusion. The third way to think about attention in regards

to our presentations involves what happens after the presentation is

over. Did all of our hard work go in one ear and out the other – or did

we make it memorable?

Making your presentation memorable can be tricky. Some of the things

we do to create excitement in the moment when we are speaking won’t

necessarily resonate beyond that afternoon. However, some of the

fundamentals of a good presentation will make you compelling on stage

and for many water-cooler discussions to come.

Here are a few ways to create a buzz the next time you present

1. Less Will Impress

Less is more. This is a fundamental rule for any presentation, but it

plays an especially important role when it comes to making your hard

work something to remember. If your presentation is short, fast, and to

the point, you are more likely to capture and keep your audience’s

attention. In addition, by not filling-in every

single blank, you are inviting your

audience to invest their own

ideas, creating a dialog that will

keep them thinking about your

captivating pitch for weeks.

2. Lift Your Language

Obviously, this technique could become overdone in the context of a

presentation, but it’s worth considering. Think of the way JFK, RFK

or MLK used to speak to their audiences. We certainly remember their

speeches decades later and their messages continue to resonate

throughout the culture. All three employed two methods: They

elevated their audience’s vision while simultaneously speaking in

short, simple sentences that anyone could understand. How can you do

the same in your next presentation?

3. Centralize When You Organize

When you’re organizing your presentation, it’s important to focus in on

one theme and continue to refer back to it as you move from point-to-

point. This will insure that your audience won’t lose track of your

central theme as you tell your story. If your audience can’t follow, they

certainly can’t remember.

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4. Make Demands on Your Diction

Choosing exactly the right words in your presentation is crucial. After

all, your presentation is mostly made of words. Does your description

of this new product actually describe it well or is it simply a jumble of

marketing phrases that no one can really grab onto? Keep it clear.

Make it simple. Make it memorable.

5. Book ‘em

Don’t be afraid to use literary devices to bring a heightened level of

power to your presentation. For instance, the use of alliteration may

motivate more momentum in the moment. Metaphors, similes and

allusions can also bring unexpected weight to your story. Jesse

Jackson once compared unregistered voters to the stone that killed the

Biblical Goliath in what is now considered one of the greatest

speeches of all time.

6. Content

No matter how well-spoken you are, no matter how well-written your

presentation is, no matter how pretty your slides look, you will flop if

you don’t have compelling ideas and interesting notions to speak

about. A TV show about nothing can be a big hit, but a presentation

about nothing will never be memorable.

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Books This nice and subtle happiness of reading, this joy not chilled by age, this polite and unpunished vice, this selfish, serene life-long intoxication. ~Logan Pearsall Smith

The Time We Have

Taken Miles Franklin Award Winner 2008 ~StevenCarroll That exotic tribe was us. And the time we

have taken, our moment. The straight line of history has led, and was always leading, to this day and they have all been lucky enough to be alive, right now, to greet the moment. THE TIME WE HAVE TAKEN is both a meditation on the rhythms of suburban life and a luminous exploration of public and private reckoning during a time of radical

change. 'a writer worth cherishing. His prose is unfailingly assured, lyrical, poised' - The Australian. 'moving and indelible in its evocation of the extraordinary in ordinary lives' - Miles Franklin Literary Award Judges.

The Girl Who Kicked the Hornets' Nest This week's Bestseller ~ Stieg Larsson As the finale to Stieg Larsson's Millennium Trilogy, The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest is not content to merely match the adrenaline-charged pace that made international bestsellers out of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and The Girl Who Played with Fire. Instead, it

roars with an explosive storyline that blows the doors off the series and announces that the very best has been saved for last. ...Larsson's mastery of the unexpected is why millions have fallen hard for his work. But rest assured that the odds are again stacked, the challenges personal, and the action fraught with neck-snapping revelations in this snarling conclusion to a thrilling triad. This closing chapter to The Girl's pursuit of justice is guaranteed to leave readers both satisfied and saddened once the final page has been turned.

Beyond Bullet Points: Using Microsoft PowerPoint to Create Presentations That Inform, Motivate and Inspire C. Atkinson

Atkinson shares his innovative three-step system for increasing the impact of your communications with Microsoft PowerPoint. He guides you, step by step, as you discover how to combine the tenets of classic storytelling with the power of the projected media to create a rich, engaging experience. He walks you through his easy-to-use

templates, plus 50 advanced tips, to help build your confidence and effectiveness—and quickly bring your ideas to life! FOCUS Learn how to distill your best ideas into a crisp and compelling narrative. CLARIFY Use a storyboard to clarify and visualize your ideas, creating the right blend of message and media. ENGAGE Move from merely reading your slides to creating a rich, connected experience with your audience—and increase your impact! Beyond Bullet Points takes a new approach based on telling a story with structure. But it also learns from other media - Newspapers - make your headlines meaningful. Movies, use a storyboard to plan your story before you think about visuals.

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~ Anne Enright The Gathering is a family epic. It is also a sexual history: tracing the line of hurt and redemption through three generations - starting with the grandmother, Ada Merriman - showing how memories warp and family secrets fester. This is a novel about love and disappointment, about

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Build Great Core Client

Relationships Professional salespeople, like any serious professionals, have a goal of building excellent relationships

with other people in both their personal and professional lives. Building excellent relationships is a habit, and it produces wonderful rewards.

But relationships can be very fragile. Many marriages don’t survive and many business relationships thrive for a while and then fall apart. We call this the Double Spiral in developing our book, The Power of Focus. We are in the Upward Spiral when things are going well, when our confidence is high and our important relationships are healthy and flourishing. The opposite is the case if we slip into the Downward Spiral. Things start to unravel, a lack of communication occurs, stress increases and life becomes a constant struggle. Relationships are polarized during the Downward Spiral.

Let’s take a quick look at how the Downward Spiral shows up in real life. To more clearly understand how this can impact on your current and future client relationships, think of a personal or business relationship that didn’t work out. Create in your mind all the steps that caused this relationship to fall apart. Go back as far as you can and record what happened. When you carefully reflect on what causes relationships to fall apart, you can take steps to heal them and be better prepared for the next one.

The Upward Spiral certainly is more fun to analyze, but when you do, you stand to reap the rewards quicker in your future relationships. Repeat the process of recalling steps that caused this relationship to flourish. But this time, focus on a relationship that you gradually nourished, expanded and enriched until it blossomed into a wonderful, long-term friendship or business relationship. You will enjoy a tremendous advantage in the marketplace when you develop an accurate blueprint that you can duplicate many times in the future. Powerful relationships ensure powerful results.

Avoid toxic people Before we move on, please heed this important advice: avoid toxic people! Unfortunately, there are a few people out there who see the world as one big problem, and in their eyes you’re part of it. No matter how well things are going, they focus on the nitpicking little negative details. And they do it constantly. It’s a habit that totally destroys relationships. You may be thinking at this point, “Easier said than done. Do you mean if a friend I’ve known for years talks like this, should I just turn and walk away?” No, RUN! His constant negativity will drain the life out of you. Now please understand, we’re not talking about someone who has a genuine challenge and needs real help. We’re

referring to those chronic whiners who take great pleasure in dumping all their negative garbage on your plate at every opportunity. It’s the highlight of their day. Don’t put up with it anymore

Core clients and the double win The important step in developing the habit of Excellent Relationships is learning to nourish your most valuable relationships in a win-win atmosphere. A lot has been written and spoken about the philosophy of win-win in selling and sales negotiation. But win-win is essentially a philosophy of how you live your life. In business, win-win means having a genuine concern for the other person; that they win as much as you do. Sadly, however, the attitude of many people in business has been to grind every last cent out of every situation. These so-called guerrilla tactics cause a lack of trust, cynicism, questionable ethics and a high level of anxiety in the marketplace. The result is win-lose. On the other hand, win-win doesn’t mean giving the farm away every time you make a deal. That’s lose-win, which would eventually put you out of business. There’s also another category called lose-lose. This happens when both parties are too stubborn or too egotistical to create a winning solution.

Building excellent core client relationships A crucial element in growing your business is building excellent core client relationships. Core clients are at the heart of your business. They buy from you consistently and are a main source of revenue. They are also happy to provide excellent referrals for new business because they genuinely love your products and service. Amazingly, many salespeople today don’t even know who their core clients are. Core clients are your passport to future growth. Unfortunately, these important relationships are often taken for granted. The attitude is, “He always orders two thousand units a month. We need to focus on new business.” Not every deal is worth saving New business is important. Staying in touch with your best clients is more important. It’s a lot more difficult to find new customers than it is to keep and serve your old customers.

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Be aware of the time you spend on people who are peripheral clients. The word peripheral is worth noting. It means at the outer edge, unimportant or not worth mentioning. Another term is dispensable. Do you have any peripheral clients in your business? If you’re not sure, here’s how you can spot them. They commonly take a lot of your time and energy and give you very little business in return. Sometimes they give you no business at all. But they will question you on every little detail, and they’ll place unreasonable demands on your time. Of course, you may not want to turn any business away from your door. But what is it costing you in time and energy to dabble in minor results? Some deals just aren't worth the effort.

You don’t want to lose your core clients There’s one critical element you need to understand about your core clients. You don’t ever want to lose them. Here’s the big question. How much real time do you spend with your more important core clients? Our research indicates that very little time is allocated to core clients. Consequently, these relationships never mature to their full potential. On the bottom line, that means a lot of money is squandered. Now that you know who these important people are, pay more attention to them. The long-term rewards are well worth the effort. Your business will increase, and you’ll also minimize the likelihood of losing any of these top clients to your competitors.

You will probably offer your core clients special services and all those little extras that define you as unique. These may include golf outings, dinners or special trips. You could take time to share ideas of advising how to handle certain challenges. Maybe you consistently provide good referrals to expand their business. The more you know about the people on your core client list and core personal list, the more you can help them. And the true spirit of win-win means that you make these contributions unconditionally.

Successful salespeople create an information file for every one of their core clients and core personal relationships. They find out everything they can about these individuals including their likes and dislikes, favorite restaurants, birthdays, anniversaries, kids’ names, favorite hobbies, sports and pastimes.

Be willing to go the extra mile It takes time and effort to cultivate highly successful relationships. It means that you will often be required to go the extra mile. This way of living gradually becomes your new normal behavior. You do it without thinking. When win-win behavior becomes truly embedded in your everyday life, the floodgates of opportunity will open up for you like never before. You will indeed be richer for it, and we don’t just mean financially.

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Whatever you are, be a good one.

Abraham Lincoln

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ONE of the most difficult tasks for parents is to get finicky children to eat the proper foods that are

necessary for their growth and development. We all know the importance of good nutrition, and if it is introduced early on, nutritionists say that increases the likelihood of lifelong good eating habits.

In too many cases, children eat a diet that's high in calories and includes more than an ample amount of processed foods. But with a little planning, you can create a variety of tasty dishes that will give children the healthy boost they need. The trick sometimes is to get them to eat it.

First, parents have to set a good example by making wise choices and eating healthy dishes themselves. Try new foods and new ways of preparing them, with emphasis on dark green leafy vegetables, deep-yellow vegetables, fruits and whole-grain products.

Secondly, offer your children a variety of foods. When offering new foods, serve small "try me" portions, about 1 or 2 tablespoons, and encourage your child to create a new snack or sandwich from three or four healthy ingredients you provide.

The USDA has created the Food Guide Pyramid for young children, that divides food into five major food groups--grains, vegetables, fruits, milk and meat. Each of these food groups provides some, but not all, of the nutrients children need, and nutritionists say neither food group is more important than the other. So to give your child the best chance at full development, a well-balanced diet that follows USDA guidelines is not only a necessity, but it's the best way to give your child a healthy start.

The following are some kid-friendly recipes that will appeal to you and your child and have them begging for seconds.

Fun Salad Smiling Bug: Put a canned peach half on a lettuce-lined plate. Use raisins for the eyes, cherry stems for antennae (but do not eat) and half a maraschino cherry slice for the mouth. Friendly Dog: Place a canned pear half on a lettuce-lined plate. Cut a stewed prune lengthwise in half and remove the pit. Place each prune half at the large end of the pear half for the ears. Use raisins for the eyes. Place a cherry half at the top of the narrow end of the pear half for the nose. Garnish salads with carrot curls. Pizza Faces 1/2 cup tomato sauce 1/2 teaspoon dried oregano 2 English muffins, split in half 1/2 cup shredded mozzarella cheese 1/2 cup shredded cheddar cheese 2 pimiento-stuffed or pitted black olives 4 slices canned pimiento Heat oven to 425 degrees. Mix 1/2 cup tomato sauce with 1/4 teaspoon oregano. Place muffin halves several inches apart in ungreased jelly roll pan. Pour about 2 tablespoons of the tomato sauce on each muffin and spread to the edge with rubber scraper. Sprinkle each with about 2 tablespoons of mozzarella cheese for a face and about 2 tablespoons of shredded cheddar cheese around the edge for the hair. Use the olive and pimiento slices to make the eyes and mouth. Place the jelly roll pan in hot oven. Bake pizzas until cheese melts, about 5 minutes. Yields 4 servings

A Child's Plate: Good Nutrition and Good Taste can go Hand-In-Hand

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The first volume in Jeff Kinney's wildly popular Web and book series hits the screen in this live-action adaptation. Greg Heffley enters middle school determined to become class favorite. It won't be easy. Berlin-born director Thor Freudenthal (Hotel for Dogs) avoids any dull or sentimental patches, which should please kids and adults alike (an upbeat modern-rock soundtrack doesn't hurt). Kinney fans will also appreciate the way Freudenthal weaves stick-figure drawings from Greg's journal throughout this zippy entertainment.

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Inspiration "Achievement is largely the product of steadily raising one's levels of aspiration and expectation." Jack Nicklaus

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If

by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you.

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,

Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;

If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat these two impostors just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute

With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,

Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,

And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!

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The "give a free

talk" strategy

can work in

many fields and

venues.

Give a Great Talk … Part 1

One of the ways you can market your product or service is through public speaking.

For instance, you'll often see financial seminars

advertised in your local newspaper. The ads invite

you to come for a lunch or evening seminar ...

typically just an hour or two ... on a topic like

estate planning, retirement planning, or mutual

fund investing.

The seminar, sponsored by a local brokerage,

financial planner, or other financial services firm, is free.

So how do they make money? By converting some

of the attendees into paid clients for whom they

manage money, prepare estate plans, or provide other financial services.

This "give a free talk" strategy can work in many fields and venues.

A consultant who specializes in small-business

management and marketing, for example, might

speak at a Chamber of Commerce lunch to

promote his services and sign up local business owners as clients.

You can speak at local association lunches and

dinners ... the YMCA or YMHA ... high school and

college adult-education programs ... local libraries ... trade shows and conferences ... public seminars.

Why don't more entrepreneurs use the "give a free

talk" promotional strategy? One reason is that the

idea of speaking in front of a group makes them nervous.

We often hear about surveys showing the number

one fear of Americans to be public

speaking … ahead of fear of flying, heights (my

particular bugaboo), snakes, or even death....

Now, I have been using the "give a free talk"

strategy to promote myself as a freelance

copywriter for more than two decades. And

I've developed a technique that can help you

deliver a superior presentation AND overcome your butterflies at the same time.

It's really simple - and

you've already been doing it your whole life.

It's called "having a

conversation with another person."

You, along with virtually everyone else on the

planet, are already an experienced and

accomplished speaker. You speak all the time,

every day, almost nonstop - to colleagues, co-

workers, customers, supervisors, vendors,

suppliers, friends, family, the clerk at the

drugstore, the waiter at the restaurant - in one-to-one personal conversations.

Having these conversations comes naturally.

You don't get nervous or scared. And the

people you talk to listen and respond - for the

most part.

Well, to become a good speaker, all you need

to do is have the same kind of one-to-one

conversation with your audience when you're

speaking in front of a group!

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When I am speaking to a group, I look into the

audience as I begin talking, find one person

who is looking back at me, and make eye

contact. Then, I talk just to that one person ...

as if we are having a private, one-on-one

conversation.

I know that everyone else can hear us. But

notice: I am not "giving a lecture" or "making

a speech" ... activities that the average person

approaches with fear and trepidation. Instead,

I am just having a conversation with one person.

After a minute, I break eye contact, find

another person in the audience, and make eye contact with him.

I repeat this process throughout my talk. So I

am never staring out into a crowd, seeing an

ocean of bodies ... which can be intimidating.

Instead, I am always having a conversation

with one person.

The result? My fear and anxiety are totally

gone. And my presentation is much more

conversational and natural than a formal lecture or pontificating speech would be.

Here's one other tip: NEVER bring your talk

written out as a "speech" and read it word for word.

Such presentations are stiff and boring. The

listener knows you are reading a speech, and

thinks, "This guy could have just e-mailed his

talk to me as a PDF file ... and I could have

read it at home without bothering to make the trip here!"

Instead, outline your talk in bullet form.

You can write the bullets on index cards (for

your eyes only). Or put the major points on

PowerPoint slides and project them in front of

the audience so they can follow along with you.

In my next article ..., I'll tell you four more

secrets for giving a great talk that will not only

dazzle your audience, but also get them to

trust you - and, ultimately, buy what you are selling.

(Author: Bob Bly Bob Bly is a self-made multi-millionaire, and the author of more than 60 books, including The Complete Idiot's Guide to Direct Marketing and The Copywriter's Handbook.)

Having an idea

is not the same

as having a

vision

- 10 steps you should go

through

I was with a lawyer recently and we were

discussing the challenges of being an

Entrepreneur. He proceeded to sum up for the

prosecution by pointing out that 'anyone can

have an idea- that's the easy bit. Turning that idea into money takes something else'.

Words of wisdom indeed.

To be fair though he had a good point albeit put with the grace of a sledgehammer.

And that got me thinking about the difference

between Entrepreneurs with anidea and Entrepreneurs with vision.

For many great ideas never see their market potential .

And that's because turning an idea into action

necessitates you taking that idea then proceed

to completely dismantle it.

You know your toughest critic has to be yourself. That also extends to your idea.

So here are some 'ideas' taken from n2 growth for you to test on your ...idea.

1. The idea should be generated within a solid

framework for decision. It should be developed

as a solution to a problem or to exploit an

opportunity. The idea should be in alignment

with the overall vision and mission of the enterprise.

2. If the idea doesn’t provide a unique

competitive advantage it should at least bring you closer to an even playing field.

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3. Any new idea should preferably add value to

existing initiatives, and if not, it should show a

significant enough return on investment to

justify the dilutive effect of not keeping the

main thing the main thing.4. Put the idea

through a risk/reward and cost/benefit

analysis.

5. Whether the new idea is intended for your

organization, vendors, suppliers, partners or

customers it must easy to use. Usability drives

adoptability, and therefore it pays to keep

things simple.

6. Just because an idea sounds good doesn’t

mean it is You should endeavour to validate

proof of concept based upon detailed, credible research.

7. Nothing is without risk, and when you think

something is without risk, that is when you’re

most likely to end-up in trouble. All initiatives

surrounding new ideas should include detailed risk management provisions.

8. Adopting a new idea should be based upon

solid business logic that drives corresponding

financial engineering and modelling. Be careful of high level, pie-in-the-sky projections.

9. Any new ideas should contain accountability

provisions. Every task should be assigned and

managed according to a plan and in the light

of day.

10. Any new ideas being adopted must lead to

measurable objectives. Deliverables,

benchmarks, deadlines, and success metrics must be incorporated into the plan.

Justin Floyd Visionary Entrepreneur building innovative businesses with people who are much smarter than me

Ideas and help for innovative Entrepreneurs

http://cloudbank.typepad.com/forentrepreneurs/

"Life is so hard... unless you allow it to be easy... it will be whatever you expect it to be..."

Doug Firebaug

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For Kids (and for the parents, teachers and anyone who is trying to bring out the best

in the kids in their lives)

Have fun and learn ...Making Paper planes

Contrary to popular belief, airplanes don't float on the air, they're sucked up into it.

Colouring: Colour in Thomas and the Pumpkins for Halloween

Asknumbers

This website has conversion charts for maths concepts like length/distance and

volume, for physics ones like pressure. It also

covers computer storage, force, data transfer, calories, currency, clothing sizes and

cooking and much more

Just for fun

Make sure the sound is on, but think about who is around when you turn it up ... and visit the pipecleaner dancer

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

~ Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish

a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children

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Getting from Here to There When I travel, my daily agenda is always full.

I don't get up late, linger over breakfast, and then start meandering down one country road after

another, just to see where they might lead. I'm up early, ready to cram as much into each day as I

possibly can. I know exactly where I want to go and, map in hand, I know how to get there.

Come to think of it, that's also how I approach life. I can't just let life happen to me. I need a road map

that shows me how to get from where I am now to where I want to be in the future. Of course, if I want

to be successful, I can't just leave the roadmap in the glove box. I have to follow it. Diligently.

In our series about travelling through life, we've

already talked about travelling light (getting rid of

excess emotional baggage and keeping "short

accounts") and taking someone with you. Today, my

travelling tip is to follow the roadmap. In life, a

roadmap is akin to a game plan—a carefully thought-

out strategy for achieving success. My game plan

probably doesn't look exactly like yours, because my

definition of success might be different from yours.

But the fact that we might be following slightly

different roadmaps doesn't negate the wisdom of

using one in the first place. As the saying goes, if you

aim at nothing, you're likely to get it.

Regardless of our position and station in life, following

the roadmap means:

1. Knowing where you are at this moment. How

can you know where you are at this moment? The

key word is reflection.

2. Knowing where you want to go. For me, success

is knowing my purpose in life, growing to my

maximum potential and sowing seeds that benefit

others. That's where I want to go.

3. Understanding that life happens between where

you are at this moment and where you want to go,

and that it's the "between where you are and

where you want to go" that causes people to miss

life. Some people have what I call "destination

disease." They live life thinking, "When I get

promoted, I'll be fulfilled" or, "When I get married, I'll

be happy" or "If I could just meet that person, I'll be

on my way." It's good to plan for the days ahead, but

if you're basing all your hopes for fulfilment on some

future event, you're actually missing out on the

essence of life itself. As John Lennon once wisely

observed, "Life is what happens when you're busy

making other plans."When it comes to travelling

through life, I can't over-emphasize the importance of

following the roadmap.

But it's also crucial to note that, even if you're

following the best map ever made, you'll most likely

have to stop and ask for directions from time to time.

I'm well aware that this practice is excruciatingly

difficult for some of us. And we just might be stubborn

and persistent enough to avoid doing it, at least when

we're driving somewhere in a car. But in the journey

we call life, people who refuse to stop and ask for

directions aren't stubborn or persistent; they're

foolish.

Unfortunately, an unwillingness to seek advice is all

too common among businesspeople today. In The

Corporate Steeplechase, New York social

psychologist Srully Blotnick says that career men and

women in their twenties tend to be ashamed to ask

questions, and in their thirties, the desire to be

individualistic makes it difficult for them to counsel

with colleagues. The value of advice becomes clear

only with maturity, he writes.

That's so true. As philosopher John Collins has

noted, "To profit from good advice requires more

wisdom than to give it." That said, people often make

the mistake of following advice without carefully

evaluating it first. To avoid this common error, ask

yourself the following questions when appraising the

validity of any piece of advice:

1. How credible is the source?

2. Am I getting the same advice from different

people?

3. Have I made allowances for any biases, pro or con,

an advice giver may have?

4. Have I talked with more than one person so I have

a basis for judging the advice?

5. Am I in an emotional state to act wisely on this

advice?

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6. What is the ratio between the potential cost of acting on the advice and the potential benefit that it may

hold?

Taking the time to stop and ask for directions might seem like a big hassle when you're busy with the daily

stuff of life. And to some, sticking to a roadmap might seem unnecessarily restrictive. But as one traveller to

another, I encourage you to make both a priority. Otherwise, you just might end up on a fast road to nowhere.

By Dr. John C. Maxwell

People form their first impression of you in the first four seconds!

Maximize your natural attributes to create an instant bond with anyone you meet

Discover how to be your most irresistible self

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