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Personal Reflection – Laughter and Tears Accidents and emergencies – laughter and tears Where some diagnoses means confronting deep fears Sometimes quite serious and often ‘more of the same’ Accidents, illness and violence, a most diverse game Sometimes great pain and frequently quite minor Significant injury or the occasional shiner The classic ‘chest pain’ or the child’s pebble in the nose For each member of staff a meaningful response required of their pose. For women and men and those who don’t know The rich and the poor and the ordinary Joe, The old and the young, all colours and creeds Unusual, quite usual and criminal deeds Fear – often great, in an awkward space, Pain and anxiety etched on the face Patients too many, staff too few to carry out what it is they really want to do Chairs instead of beds, corridors, corners and places, For listening and caring? For tubes and anxious ECG traces? Media portrayal – Casualty and ER, compared with the real thing – not on a par Beautiful staff with lives quite tragic – dramatised parts to achieve TV magic Blue sirens wailing, bombs, bullets and fire, Neglecting the drama of normal life’s mire In fact ordinary souls do the job each day, Most trying their best in a chaotic foray, Often it is asked whether or not they care, how hard must it be to see life’s tragedies laid bare Some staff do it well, others need time, Some need a rest, and a few are wrapped up in the me and the I’m The shrill ring of the resus phone pierces the day, bringing with it a fragile life to save Adrenaline surges in all who must deal, great effort is made with genuine zest and with zeal Success is survival, a person who lives, or great sadness for loved ones, bad news to give, But even these moments with satisfaction can swell, be- cause of compassion and a job done well But all is not drama or emergency as in the name Quiet sadness and distress also in the frame Satisfaction to be had from listening to a story unfold Understanding the power of a hand to hold Doctors and nurses, great teams in the main All sorts and all sizes and some a little insane Much fun is had and moments of laughter And always a wise crack to be made just after Is the laughter to cope or is it quite cruel Is it to keep people going, a kind of fuel Frustration and anger and tiredness abound But compassion and caring nearly always found So – Accident and Emergency- does this verse cover its scope Probably not but I live in hope that a little of life in ED is shown Maybe you reconsidered what you thought was already known? Dr Raphaela Kane, RGN, PhD, BSc(Hons), DIPN(Lond), RNT Lecturer in Nursing, Director of Academic Practice School of Nursing, Dublin City University, Dublin. E-mail address: [email protected] doi:10.1016/j.ienj.2012.03.001 International Emergency Nursing (2012) 20, 51 Available at www.sciencedirect.com journal homepage: www.elsevierhealth.com/journals/aaen

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International Emergency Nursing (2012) 20, 51

Avai lab le a t www.sc ienced i rec t .com

journal homepage: www.elsevierheal th .com/ journals /aaen

Personal Reflection – Laughter and Tears

Accidents and emergencies – laughter and tearsWhere some diagnoses means confronting deep fearsSometimes quite serious and often ‘more of the same’Accidents, illness and violence, a most diverse game

Sometimes great pain and frequently quite minorSignificant injury or the occasional shinerThe classic ‘chest pain’ or the child’s pebble in the noseFor each member of staff a meaningful response required oftheir pose.

For women and men and those who don’t knowThe rich and the poor and the ordinary Joe,The old and the young, all colours and creedsUnusual, quite usual and criminal deeds

Fear – often great, in an awkward space, Pain and anxietyetched on the facePatients too many, staff too few to carry out what it is theyreally want to doChairs instead of beds, corridors, corners and places,For listening and caring? For tubes and anxious ECG traces?

Media portrayal – Casualty and ER, compared with the realthing – not on a parBeautiful staff with lives quite tragic – dramatised parts toachieve TV magicBlue sirens wailing, bombs, bullets and fire,Neglecting the drama of normal life’s mire

In fact ordinary souls do the job each day, Most trying theirbest in a chaotic foray,Often it is asked whether or not they care, how hard must itbe to see life’s tragedies laid bareSome staff do it well, others need time, Some need a rest,and a few are wrapped up in the me and the I’m

doi:10.1016/j.ienj.2012.03.001

The shrill ring of the resus phone pierces the day, bringingwith it a fragile life to saveAdrenaline surges in all who must deal, great effort is madewith genuine zest and with zealSuccess is survival, a person who lives, or great sadness forloved ones, bad news to give,But even these moments with satisfaction can swell, be-cause of compassion and a job done well

But all is not drama or emergency as in the nameQuiet sadness and distress also in the frameSatisfaction to be had from listening to a story unfoldUnderstanding the power of a hand to hold

Doctors and nurses, great teams in the mainAll sorts and all sizes and some a little insaneMuch fun is had and moments of laughterAnd always a wise crack to be made just after

Is the laughter to cope or is it quite cruelIs it to keep people going, a kind of fuelFrustration and anger and tiredness aboundBut compassion and caring nearly always found

So – Accident and Emergency- does this verse cover its scopeProbably not but I live in hope that a little of life in ED isshownMaybe you reconsidered what you thought was alreadyknown?

Dr Raphaela Kane, RGN, PhD, BSc(Hons),DIPN(Lond), RNT Lecturer in Nursing,

Director of Academic Practice School of Nursing,Dublin City University,

Dublin.E-mail address: [email protected]