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Developing   the  Coach  Within  –Highly  Effective  Coaching  Using  

Mindfulness

Michael  Orzen

Mike  Orzen  CMA,  CFPIM,  PMP

•20+  years  Process  Improvement

Plant  Manager/Lean  transformation

Service,  Banking, Insurance,  Healthcare,

Manufacturing

30+  years  of  yoga  and  meditation

Certified  Kundalini  Yoga  instructor

•Lean  Coach,  Consultant,  Adjunct  Professor

§ Lean  Enterprise  Institute,  The  Shingo  Institute,  ThedaCare  

NHV,  The  Ohio  State  University

Shingo  Prize  2011

Objectives

ü Be  a  more  effective  coach

ü Understanding  what  mindfulness  is

ü Understanding  its  importance

ü Knowing  how  to  use  it  to  be  a  better  coach

ü Learn  a  few  exercises  and  techniques

ü Leave  inspired  to  learn  and  experiment

What  You  Will  Learn

Understand  and  apply  active  self  awareness  and  mindfulness  techniques  to  significantly  impact  your  coaching  effectiveness

Be  a  much  better  coach  with  heightened  levels  of  listening,  understanding  and  awareness  of  the  coaching/learning  process

Map  out  a  course  of  personal  improvement  to  further  develop  your  coaching  skills

Effective  Coaching

ü Develop  Peopleü Show  Respectü Lead  by  Exampleü Provide  Inspirationü Inspire  Others  Toward  a  Common  Visionü Get  Results <<<<

Group  Exercise

Exercise

Listening

Questioning

Supporting

ChallengingDeveloping

Observing

Reflecting

Focus

Engagement

Presence

AwarenessConcentration

Attention

Observation

The  Challenge  /  Opportunity

“Crap  at  the  speed  of  light”– Email– Text– Facebook– LinkedIn– Twitter

TV  news  cycle  – 24/7  doom  and  destruction!

Tyranny  of  the  urgent

Meetings,  One-­on-­One’s,  Drop  Ins

Where  is  our  focus?

The  Forces  Against  Mindfulness

A  recent  study  by  mobileinsurance.comhas  revealed  that  the  average  person  spends  90  mins  a  day  on  their  phone.  That  figure  may  not  sound  like  a  lot  but  that  amounts  up  to  23  days  a  year  and  3.9  years  of  the  average  person's  life  is  spent  staring  at  their  phone  screen.

Children  aged  2-­11  watch  over  24  hours  of  TV  per  week,  while  adults  aged  35-­49  watch  more  than  33  hours,  according  to  data  from  Nielsen that  suggests  TV  time  increases  the  older  we  get.  The  average  American  watches  more  than  five  hours of  live  television  every  day.

Young  people  spend  7  hours,  38  minutes  a  day  on  TV,  video  games,  computer.  Media  are  a  full-­time  job  plus  overtime  for  children  8  to  18,  a  Kaiser  report  says.  They  devote  53  hours  a  week  to  those  pursuits,  an  hour  and  17  minutes  more  than  five  years  ago.  LA  TimesJanuary  20,  2010

ØStress

ØLack  of  Focus

Ø Lack  of  Awareness

Ø Impatience

Ø Health  and  Performance  Impact

Group  Exercise

Exercise

Reflection  &  Check  In

Does  this  make  sense?

How  can  I  merge  this  with  my  current  understanding?

What  can  I  do  to  experiment with  this  practice?

What  is  Mindfulness?

Focusing on  the  present  moment  

Being  aware of  where  your  thinking  is

Paying  attention on  purpose,  in  the  present  moment,  and  non-­judgmentally

The  art  of  conscious living

Is  Mindfulness  Spiritual  or  Religious?

The  Wandering  Mind  &  Mindfulness

Practicing  Mindfulness

When  the  mind  wanders…

1) Become  aware of  your  current  thinking2) Focus  on  the  task  at  hand3) Note  what  is  happening  (Is  my  focus  drifting,  am  I  daydreaming,  am    I  worrying,  

am  I  planning,  am  I  present?)4) Gently  refocus on  the  subject  at  hand5) Each  time  you  do,  you  strengthen  your

“awareness  muscles”  

Group  Exercise

Exercise

Practicing  Mindfulness

Group  Exercise

Exercise

Reflection  &  Check  In

Does  this  make  sense?

How  can  I  merge  this  with  my  current  understanding?

What  can  I  do  to  experiment with  this  practice?

Coaching  Through  Questions

•Dialogue  versus  Telling  

•Command  &  Control  does  not  work  as  default

•You  don’t  have  all  the  answers

•Your  job  is  to  develop  people  to  solve  their  own  problems

Helpful  Coaching

Helping Not  HelpingWhat  is  the  problem  you  are   trying to  solve? Is  that  really   the  problem  that  needs   to  be  

solved?Can  you  describe   what is  happening vs.  what  should  be  happening?

Why  do  you  think  that’s  a  problem?

What  do  you  know  about  the  current  condition  and  how  do  you  know it?

Let  me  tell you  what  I  would  do!

How  did  you  link cause  and  effect? Are you  certain   you  have  identified   root  cause?

What  experiments   have  you  thought  of  trying?

Have  you thought  about  trying  ____?

What  impact do  you  expect   the  countermeasure   to  have?

Are  you  sure   that’s  going  to  work?

*  Would you  like  my  help? Why,  Why,  Why,  Why,  Why?

Group  Exercise

Exercise

Reflection  &  Check  In

Does  this  make  sense?

How  can  I  merge  this  with  my  current  understanding?

What  can  I  do  to  experiment with  this  practice?

Planning  Your  Personal  Development

Ø Read  &  research

Ø Practice  daily

Ø Apply  the  Kata  method

Ø Find  a  buddy

Ø Consider  meditation  &  yoga!

Resources  for  Your  Personal  Development

Wherever  You  Go  There  You  Are  – J.  Kabat-­‐Zinn

Walden  – H.D.  Thoreau

Buddha’s  Brain  – R.  Hanson  &  D.  Siegal

Mindfulness   in  Plain  English  – B.  Gunaratana

Heal  Thyself  – S.  Santorelli

Search  Inside  Yourself  -­‐ C-­‐M  Tan

The  Mindful  Brain  – D.  Siegel

Numerous  HBR  &  NYT  articles

Mindful.org

Mindfulness-­‐matters.com

Practicing  Mindfulness

Select  a  daily  task

Practice  the  simple  technique– Be  aware of  your  current  thinking– Focus  on  the  task  at  hand– When  the  mind  wanders,  notice what  is  happening  (Am  I  drifting,  am  I  daydreaming,  am  I  worrying,  am  I  planning,  am  I  past  or  future  focused?)

– Refocus the  mind– Try  not  to  judge

Next  Steps

When  you  get  back  to  work…

Identify  a  single  area  of  focus,  the  one  action  you  will  take  and  how  you  will  apply  a  practice  of  mindfulness

– What  results  do  you  hope  to  achieve?– How  will  you  measure  and  assess  your  progress?

"The  main  thing  is  to  keep  the  main  thing  the  main  thing!”

-­ Stephen  R.  Covey

Mindful  or  Not?

Increases  presence,  effectiveness and  creativitywhile  decreasing  “mindless”  mistakes

Developing  the  Coach  Within  –Highly  Effective  Coaching  

Using  Mindfulness

[email protected]@mikeorzen503.313.0023