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"Arise! Awake! And stop not until the goal is reached'. Ten little words by Swami Vivekananda, yet they go a long way to instill a sense of determination and sincerity for our every goal. Friends, we all must have set goals at some point in our lives. Also when facing obstacles we might have given up on them thinking about our own limitations or blaming the circumstances. Instead at such times if we were to study the lives of inspirational personalities like Abraham Lincon or Steve Jobs. It would reignite the spark and help us put in that extra bit of effort to achieve what we had set out to do. I would also recommend reading about Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel whose life bears testimony of what one can achieve through sheer determination. In this issue we have highlighted the significance of determination through various articles and we hope it shall help rekindle the fire to achieve your goals."

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  • 12

    3

    4

    The difference between

    impossible and Possiblelies in a person's determination.

    Akram Youth June 2015 | English Dada Bhagwan Parivar 12

    Do not Protect

    Pratikraman

    Analyse

    Nischay

  • 'Arise! Awake! And stop not until the goal is reached'. Ten little words by Swami

    Vivekananda, yet they go a long way to instill a sense of determination and sincerity for

    our every goal.

    Friends, we all must have set goals at some point in our lives. Also when facing

    obstacles we might have given up on them thinking about our own limitations or blaming

    the circumstances. Instead at such times if we were to study the lives of inspirational

    personalities like Abraham Lincon or Steve Jobs. It would reignite the spark and help us

    put in that extra bit of effort to achieve what we had set out to do. I would also

    recommend reading about Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel whose life bears testimony of what

    one can achieve through sheer determination.

    In this issue we have highlighted the significance of determination through various

    articles and we hope it shall help rekindle the fire to achieve your goals.

    - Dimple Mehta.

    Editorial

    Dimple Mehta on behalf of

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Printed & Published by

    Owned by

    Printed at

    Amba Offset

    Basement, Parshvanath

    Chambers, Nr. RBI,

    Usmanpura, Ahmedabad-14.

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Published atPublisher & Editor:

    Dimple Mehta

    Pg. 24 - June 2015.

    Year: 3. Issue: 2.

    Cont. Issue: 26.

    email: [email protected]

    website: youth.dadabhagwan.org

    store.dadabhagwan.org/akram-youth

    Contact :

    Gnani Ni Chhayama (GNC),

    Trimandir Sankul,

    Simandhar City,

    Ahmedabad-Kalol Highway,

    Adalaj, Dist. Gandhinagar,

    Gujarat-382421

    Phone: (079) 39830100

    Total 24 Pages with Cover page

    Subscription

    Yearly Subscription

    India :125 Rupees USA: 15 Dollars

    UK: 10 Pounds

    5 Years Subscription

    India : 500 Rupees USA: 60 Dollars

    UK: 40 Pounds

    In India, D.D. / M.O. should be drawn in

    favour of "Mahavideh Foundation

    payable at Ahmedabad.

    02 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 03

    Conte

    nts 04

    06

    08

    10

    11

    12

    Gnani with Youth

    | Nischay

    Koshish Karne Valo ki kabhi

    har nahi hoti

    Habit

    Gnani's Scientific Solutions

    Step - 2

    The Nischay breakers

    Dadas Book Excerpt| Dadavani (December 1995)

    Gnani an idol of Astonishment

    Glimpses of Great Souls

    | Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel

    News update | Statue of Unity

    iStar Experience

    14

    16

    18

    21

    22

  • 'Arise! Awake! And stop not until the goal is reached'. Ten little words by Swami

    Vivekananda, yet they go a long way to instill a sense of determination and sincerity for

    our every goal.

    Friends, we all must have set goals at some point in our lives. Also when facing

    obstacles we might have given up on them thinking about our own limitations or blaming

    the circumstances. Instead at such times if we were to study the lives of inspirational

    personalities like Abraham Lincon or Steve Jobs. It would reignite the spark and help us

    put in that extra bit of effort to achieve what we had set out to do. I would also

    recommend reading about Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel whose life bears testimony of what

    one can achieve through sheer determination.

    In this issue we have highlighted the significance of determination through various

    articles and we hope it shall help rekindle the fire to achieve your goals.

    - Dimple Mehta.

    Editorial

    Dimple Mehta on behalf of

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Printed & Published by

    Owned by

    Printed at

    Amba Offset

    Basement, Parshvanath

    Chambers, Nr. RBI,

    Usmanpura, Ahmedabad-14.

    Mahavideh Foundation

    Simandhar City, Adalaj -

    382421. Dist- Gandhinagar

    Published atPublisher & Editor:

    Dimple Mehta

    Pg. 24 - June 2015.

    Year: 3. Issue: 2.

    Cont. Issue: 26.

    email: [email protected]

    website: youth.dadabhagwan.org

    store.dadabhagwan.org/akram-youth

    Contact :

    Gnani Ni Chhayama (GNC),

    Trimandir Sankul,

    Simandhar City,

    Ahmedabad-Kalol Highway,

    Adalaj, Dist. Gandhinagar,

    Gujarat-382421

    Phone: (079) 39830100

    Total 24 Pages with Cover page

    Subscription

    Yearly Subscription

    India :125 Rupees USA: 15 Dollars

    UK: 10 Pounds

    5 Years Subscription

    India : 500 Rupees USA: 60 Dollars

    UK: 40 Pounds

    In India, D.D. / M.O. should be drawn in

    favour of "Mahavideh Foundation

    payable at Ahmedabad.

    02 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 03

    Conte

    nts 04

    06

    08

    10

    11

    12

    Gnani with Youth

    | Nischay

    Koshish Karne Valo ki kabhi

    har nahi hoti

    Habit

    Gnani's Scientific Solutions

    Step - 2

    The Nischay breakers

    Dadas Book Excerpt| Dadavani (December 1995)

    Gnani an idol of Astonishment

    Glimpses of Great Souls

    | Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel

    News update | Statue of Unity

    iStar Experience

    14

    16

    18

    21

    22

  • Questioner : I am doing Engineering, but

    when I sit to study I am unable to

    concentrate for long. What should I do?

    Pujyashri : Before we sit down to study

    we must pray to Dada Bhagwan- Hey

    Dada Bhagwan, please give me enough

    strength to concentrate on my studies.

    Ask for this strength 5 to 10 times and

    then chant Dada Bhagwan na Asim Jai

    Jai Kar Ho for 10 minutes with eyes

    closed while visualizing every letter.

    Begin your studies after this. If there is

    any noise or distraction, tell yourself-

    Alkesh, concentrate! We have decided

    to study for 3 hours and we have hardly

    studied for 20 minutes. Be sincere!

    During the course of time there may be

    several causes of distraction like the

    sound of T.V. serials, traffic noise, music

    etc. Once we firmly decide to get up only

    after studying for a preset duration, we

    shall derive immense strength. Even

    Gnani with

    Youth

    nature will help us and will bring about

    necessary circumstantial evidences that

    do not disturb our studies. In this way

    you can virtually finish studies in a span

    of 2 to 3 hours which would otherwise

    require 7 to 8 hours, thereby saving at

    least 5 hours. Once a decision has been

    taken it has a lot of power, so one should

    firmly decide everything and once

    decided should not waiver from that

    decision. Suppose you have decided to

    study for an hour or two, the duration

    may be as per your desire but once

    decided you should remain sincere to it.

    You may decide to relax for 20 minutes

    after studying for one hour. In that case

    you may do so. Relax for 20 minutes, but

    be sincere to that particular time

    duration marked for studies. This way

    the mind will be pleased and will stay at

    ease and you will get strength to study

    for more hours. Firmly deciding gives a

    lot of power and that too the positive

    kind. Then if a friend comes along and

    disturbs us and we have 40 minutes left

    for completion we must be firm & tell

    him Not now please. Let me complete

    my studies.'' Don't get up midway and

    stick to your schedule. By doing so you

    will get all the necessary help from

    nature. Do you understand?

    04 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 05

    Nischay

    How focused we are while

    crossing a narrow bridge over

    a deep ocean! In such a

    situation we don't need to

    remind ourselves to stay

    focused constantly. Once

    decided we remain aware

    constantly.

    Aptasutra 687

    In case we falter after taking a

    decision, we should try again

    and again. Negative thoughts

    such as 'I can't do it' will

    destroy strength of one's

    relative-self (Pratishthit

    Atma).

    Aptasutra 688

    Firm determination is that

    which 'Once decided, lasts

    forever.' Then you will get

    necessary footing at the right

    time. But if one deviates, he will

    not gain the same. If one takes

    some decisions and then keeps

    changing them, then they will

    bear fruit no doubt, but over a

    period of time and that too in

    bits and pieces, not at a stretch.

    Aptasutra 689

    Taking firm

    decision is an

    'effort' by

    itself.

    Aptasutra 692

  • Questioner : I am doing Engineering, but

    when I sit to study I am unable to

    concentrate for long. What should I do?

    Pujyashri : Before we sit down to study

    we must pray to Dada Bhagwan- Hey

    Dada Bhagwan, please give me enough

    strength to concentrate on my studies.

    Ask for this strength 5 to 10 times and

    then chant Dada Bhagwan na Asim Jai

    Jai Kar Ho for 10 minutes with eyes

    closed while visualizing every letter.

    Begin your studies after this. If there is

    any noise or distraction, tell yourself-

    Alkesh, concentrate! We have decided

    to study for 3 hours and we have hardly

    studied for 20 minutes. Be sincere!

    During the course of time there may be

    several causes of distraction like the

    sound of T.V. serials, traffic noise, music

    etc. Once we firmly decide to get up only

    after studying for a preset duration, we

    shall derive immense strength. Even

    Gnani with

    Youth

    nature will help us and will bring about

    necessary circumstantial evidences that

    do not disturb our studies. In this way

    you can virtually finish studies in a span

    of 2 to 3 hours which would otherwise

    require 7 to 8 hours, thereby saving at

    least 5 hours. Once a decision has been

    taken it has a lot of power, so one should

    firmly decide everything and once

    decided should not waiver from that

    decision. Suppose you have decided to

    study for an hour or two, the duration

    may be as per your desire but once

    decided you should remain sincere to it.

    You may decide to relax for 20 minutes

    after studying for one hour. In that case

    you may do so. Relax for 20 minutes, but

    be sincere to that particular time

    duration marked for studies. This way

    the mind will be pleased and will stay at

    ease and you will get strength to study

    for more hours. Firmly deciding gives a

    lot of power and that too the positive

    kind. Then if a friend comes along and

    disturbs us and we have 40 minutes left

    for completion we must be firm & tell

    him Not now please. Let me complete

    my studies.'' Don't get up midway and

    stick to your schedule. By doing so you

    will get all the necessary help from

    nature. Do you understand?

    04 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 05

    Nischay

    How focused we are while

    crossing a narrow bridge over

    a deep ocean! In such a

    situation we don't need to

    remind ourselves to stay

    focused constantly. Once

    decided we remain aware

    constantly.

    Aptasutra 687

    In case we falter after taking a

    decision, we should try again

    and again. Negative thoughts

    such as 'I can't do it' will

    destroy strength of one's

    relative-self (Pratishthit

    Atma).

    Aptasutra 688

    Firm determination is that

    which 'Once decided, lasts

    forever.' Then you will get

    necessary footing at the right

    time. But if one deviates, he will

    not gain the same. If one takes

    some decisions and then keeps

    changing them, then they will

    bear fruit no doubt, but over a

    period of time and that too in

    bits and pieces, not at a stretch.

    Aptasutra 689

    Taking firm

    decision is an

    'effort' by

    itself.

    Aptasutra 692

  • ,

    , ...

    ...

    -

    Abraham Lincoln

    Born in poverty, he repeatedly faced failures.

    He could have quit many times, but he was a

    fighter and history shows that he became

    one of the greatest presidents of America.

    Let us see the list of failures in Abraham

    Lincolns Life...

    Failed in business. Ran for state legislature

    - lost. Also lost his job. Wanted to go to law

    school but couldn't get in. Borrowed some

    money from a friend, went bankrupt. Spent

    the next 17 years of his life paying off this

    debt.

    Ran for state legislature again - won. Was

    engaged to be married, his fianc died. Had

    a total nervous breakdown. Sought to

    become speaker of the state legislature -

    defeated. Sought to become elector -

    defeated. Ran for Congress - lost.

    Then in 1846, ran for Congress again - this

    time he won - went to Washington and did a good job.

    Ran for re-election to Congress - lost. Sought the job of land officer in his home state -

    rejected. Ran for Senate of the United States - lost. Sought the Vice-Presidential nomination at

    his party's national convention - got less than 100 votes. Ran for U.S. Senate again - lost.

    In 1860, elected president of the United States.

    ...

    Lincoln was a fighter

    and he never gave up.

    ...

    Steve Jobs

    C o l l e g e d r o p o u t . F i r e d t e c h e x e c u t i v e .

    Unsuccessful businessman.

    Steve Jobs will always be best known for his

    incredible success in guiding Apple Inc. and

    transforming the entire computer and phone

    industry. But he is also remembered fondly as the

    poster child for making mistakes.

    Steve Jobs wasn't just fired. He was dumped

    by Apple, his baby, the company he co-founded.

    Later in a speech, Jobs recalled the devastating public humiliation of being ousted, and

    conceded that he even considered running away from Silicon Valley. Only later did he see

    how the blow helped him. I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from

    Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being

    successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about

    everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life. During his

    time away from Apple, Jobs bought the animation studio Pixar. Pixar revolutionized

    animated movie making with releases such as Toy Story, Finding Nemo and Cars. On

    rejoining Apple, Steve Jobs created a revolution in his field with his novel ideas and unique

    concepts. During his years at the Apple, he administered the development of the iMac, iTunes,

    iPod, iPhone, iPad and had 346 US patents by his side. Today he is popularly known as the

    'Father of the Digital World'.

    ... ,

    ,

    ,

    06 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 07

  • ,

    , ...

    ...

    -

    Abraham Lincoln

    Born in poverty, he repeatedly faced failures.

    He could have quit many times, but he was a

    fighter and history shows that he became

    one of the greatest presidents of America.

    Let us see the list of failures in Abraham

    Lincolns Life...

    Failed in business. Ran for state legislature

    - lost. Also lost his job. Wanted to go to law

    school but couldn't get in. Borrowed some

    money from a friend, went bankrupt. Spent

    the next 17 years of his life paying off this

    debt.

    Ran for state legislature again - won. Was

    engaged to be married, his fianc died. Had

    a total nervous breakdown. Sought to

    become speaker of the state legislature -

    defeated. Sought to become elector -

    defeated. Ran for Congress - lost.

    Then in 1846, ran for Congress again - this

    time he won - went to Washington and did a good job.

    Ran for re-election to Congress - lost. Sought the job of land officer in his home state -

    rejected. Ran for Senate of the United States - lost. Sought the Vice-Presidential nomination at

    his party's national convention - got less than 100 votes. Ran for U.S. Senate again - lost.

    In 1860, elected president of the United States.

    ...

    Lincoln was a fighter

    and he never gave up.

    ...

    Steve Jobs

    C o l l e g e d r o p o u t . F i r e d t e c h e x e c u t i v e .

    Unsuccessful businessman.

    Steve Jobs will always be best known for his

    incredible success in guiding Apple Inc. and

    transforming the entire computer and phone

    industry. But he is also remembered fondly as the

    poster child for making mistakes.

    Steve Jobs wasn't just fired. He was dumped

    by Apple, his baby, the company he co-founded.

    Later in a speech, Jobs recalled the devastating public humiliation of being ousted, and

    conceded that he even considered running away from Silicon Valley. Only later did he see

    how the blow helped him. I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from

    Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being

    successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about

    everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life. During his

    time away from Apple, Jobs bought the animation studio Pixar. Pixar revolutionized

    animated movie making with releases such as Toy Story, Finding Nemo and Cars. On

    rejoining Apple, Steve Jobs created a revolution in his field with his novel ideas and unique

    concepts. During his years at the Apple, he administered the development of the iMac, iTunes,

    iPod, iPhone, iPad and had 346 US patents by his side. Today he is popularly known as the

    'Father of the Digital World'.

    ... ,

    ,

    ,

    06 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 07

  • Professor Ramakant was explaining

    the science of 'habits' during a lecture on

    psychology, Habits are a result of our

    opinions which eventually become our

    behavioural pattern. What Mahatma

    Gandhi said about habits decades ago still

    holds true for us. Saying so, he

    approached the white board and started

    writing Gandhiji's quote.

    'Your beliefs become your thoughts,

    Your thoughts become your words,

    Your words become your actions,

    Your actions become your habits,

    Your habits become your values,

    Your values become your destiny.'

    After reading the quote, Vidhi

    remembered some events of her life and

    felt as if Ramakant Sir was delivering the

    lecture to make her aware of her habits.

    She started reminiscing about events

    from her past.

    Once she had returned late from school.

    As she reached home, her mother

    Bhavanaben asked her, Why are you late,

    kiddo?

    I was playing with my friends after

    school, she replied.

    You have started becoming irresponsible

    lately. her mother quipped. You better

    focus on your studies.

    Vidhi got late again the next day.

    She wanted to speak the truth, but

    remembering previous day's experience,

    she lied to her mother to avoid being

    rebuked.I stayed back at school for a

    drama pract ice for the upcoming

    competition. She said to save herself.

    Then you must be tired. Go and

    freshen up and I will prepare some snacks

    for you, Bhavanaben comforted her

    lovingly. Vidhi loved the way her mother

    treated her. She now felt that by lying one

    can avoid getting scolded and also get

    pampered. This understanding grew in

    her with a few more experiences and

    e v e n t u a l l y b e c a m e a f i r m b e l i e f .

    Consequently she kept on lying to escape

    unfavourable circumstances and she soon

    started getting habituated with it. It then

    became a ritual to lie and not accept her

    mistakes.

    Every friend of mine plays after school. If

    my mother wouldn't scold me, I wouldn't

    be lying to her. She thought as she made

    excuses to escape her mother's wrath.

    Over a period of time she became such an

    expert that she always had impromptu

    answers to cover her follies.

    While in class she now remembered

    incidents of the previous day.

    Before Bhavanaben left for temple, she

    had instructed her saying, Vidhi, I am

    going to the temple, do not forget to

    complete all the chores before your Dad

    returns. I will be back within an hour.

    Ok, mom, Vidhi replied.

    After her mother left, she obediently

    went to the kitchen and started putting

    away the dishes. But while doing so she

    received a message on Skype from a close

    friend.

    Hi Vidhi! How are you? What's up?

    Hi Toral! seeing you after a long time! I'm

    good. Nothing new, just routine. It's just

    What should I do to overcome this habit?

    college and giving a helping hand at

    home.

    Oh, dear! If you're busy I will catch

    up with you later.

    No, no, just chill! You've come online

    after a long time so let's chat. I can always

    finish the chore later. Tell me what's new

    at your end?

    They got so engrossed in their chat that

    Vidhi didnt realise that an hour had

    passed. Her mother now returned from

    the temple and realizing that she had

    goofed up, Vidhi quickly cut short the

    chat.

    Toral, I have to leave now. Will speak to

    you later. Bye. Saying so she ran to the

    kitchen to finish the chores.

    Her mother went straight to the bedroom

    and seeing that Vidhi had not changed the

    bed sheet, she asked ,

    Why haven't you changed the bed sheet

    yet? If your dad sees things in this state, he

    will get angry.

    I did go to change it, but I felt the

    previous one was ok. I thought you must

    have changed it already, Vidhi lied

    immediately.

    Why would I ask you to change it if I had

    done it?

    I thought...

    Vidhi, didnt you hang the washed

    clothes?

    How can I hang the clothes, as they are

    still in the washing machine? In the

    meanwhile, I thought I might as well put

    away the dishes.'

    Vidhi had lots of excuses ready for her

    mother but Bhavanben was annoyed

    because Vidhi had not completed any of

    the chores and she reacted angrily,

    Does it take an hour to put away the

    dishes?

    Mom, I was helping Bunty with his Maths

    assignment because he was unable to

    solve it on his own. Vidhi lied again to

    save herself from her mother's wrath.

    Bhavanaben now cooled down thinking

    that Vidhi had helped in one way if not

    another. Oh, well! Now let's finish

    everything quickly. Your father shall be

    back soon. Now Vidhi felt relaxed, Fine!

    No heated arguments now.' She started

    helping her mom but she felt very guilty

    for lying. .

    Vidhi came back to the present on

    remembering the guilty feeling. She

    wondered, 'What should I do to come out

    of this bad habit of lying?'

    Lets see what Dadashri has to say on

    this...

    08 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 09

    Habit

  • Professor Ramakant was explaining

    the science of 'habits' during a lecture on

    psychology, Habits are a result of our

    opinions which eventually become our

    behavioural pattern. What Mahatma

    Gandhi said about habits decades ago still

    holds true for us. Saying so, he

    approached the white board and started

    writing Gandhiji's quote.

    'Your beliefs become your thoughts,

    Your thoughts become your words,

    Your words become your actions,

    Your actions become your habits,

    Your habits become your values,

    Your values become your destiny.'

    After reading the quote, Vidhi

    remembered some events of her life and

    felt as if Ramakant Sir was delivering the

    lecture to make her aware of her habits.

    She started reminiscing about events

    from her past.

    Once she had returned late from school.

    As she reached home, her mother

    Bhavanaben asked her, Why are you late,

    kiddo?

    I was playing with my friends after

    school, she replied.

    You have started becoming irresponsible

    lately. her mother quipped. You better

    focus on your studies.

    Vidhi got late again the next day.

    She wanted to speak the truth, but

    remembering previous day's experience,

    she lied to her mother to avoid being

    rebuked.I stayed back at school for a

    drama pract ice for the upcoming

    competition. She said to save herself.

    Then you must be tired. Go and

    freshen up and I will prepare some snacks

    for you, Bhavanaben comforted her

    lovingly. Vidhi loved the way her mother

    treated her. She now felt that by lying one

    can avoid getting scolded and also get

    pampered. This understanding grew in

    her with a few more experiences and

    e v e n t u a l l y b e c a m e a f i r m b e l i e f .

    Consequently she kept on lying to escape

    unfavourable circumstances and she soon

    started getting habituated with it. It then

    became a ritual to lie and not accept her

    mistakes.

    Every friend of mine plays after school. If

    my mother wouldn't scold me, I wouldn't

    be lying to her. She thought as she made

    excuses to escape her mother's wrath.

    Over a period of time she became such an

    expert that she always had impromptu

    answers to cover her follies.

    While in class she now remembered

    incidents of the previous day.

    Before Bhavanaben left for temple, she

    had instructed her saying, Vidhi, I am

    going to the temple, do not forget to

    complete all the chores before your Dad

    returns. I will be back within an hour.

    Ok, mom, Vidhi replied.

    After her mother left, she obediently

    went to the kitchen and started putting

    away the dishes. But while doing so she

    received a message on Skype from a close

    friend.

    Hi Vidhi! How are you? What's up?

    Hi Toral! seeing you after a long time! I'm

    good. Nothing new, just routine. It's just

    What should I do to overcome this habit?

    college and giving a helping hand at

    home.

    Oh, dear! If you're busy I will catch

    up with you later.

    No, no, just chill! You've come online

    after a long time so let's chat. I can always

    finish the chore later. Tell me what's new

    at your end?

    They got so engrossed in their chat that

    Vidhi didnt realise that an hour had

    passed. Her mother now returned from

    the temple and realizing that she had

    goofed up, Vidhi quickly cut short the

    chat.

    Toral, I have to leave now. Will speak to

    you later. Bye. Saying so she ran to the

    kitchen to finish the chores.

    Her mother went straight to the bedroom

    and seeing that Vidhi had not changed the

    bed sheet, she asked ,

    Why haven't you changed the bed sheet

    yet? If your dad sees things in this state, he

    will get angry.

    I did go to change it, but I felt the

    previous one was ok. I thought you must

    have changed it already, Vidhi lied

    immediately.

    Why would I ask you to change it if I had

    done it?

    I thought...

    Vidhi, didnt you hang the washed

    clothes?

    How can I hang the clothes, as they are

    still in the washing machine? In the

    meanwhile, I thought I might as well put

    away the dishes.'

    Vidhi had lots of excuses ready for her

    mother but Bhavanben was annoyed

    because Vidhi had not completed any of

    the chores and she reacted angrily,

    Does it take an hour to put away the

    dishes?

    Mom, I was helping Bunty with his Maths

    assignment because he was unable to

    solve it on his own. Vidhi lied again to

    save herself from her mother's wrath.

    Bhavanaben now cooled down thinking

    that Vidhi had helped in one way if not

    another. Oh, well! Now let's finish

    everything quickly. Your father shall be

    back soon. Now Vidhi felt relaxed, Fine!

    No heated arguments now.' She started

    helping her mom but she felt very guilty

    for lying. .

    Vidhi came back to the present on

    remembering the guilty feeling. She

    wondered, 'What should I do to come out

    of this bad habit of lying?'

    Lets see what Dadashri has to say on

    this...

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    Habit

  • SOLU

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    Gnani's Scientific SolutionsQuestioner: Why does a person lie?

    Dadashri: A person lies out of fear. There

    is an underlying fear of what someone

    might say to him or else it is out of the

    desire to obtain something. So, gradually

    h e g e t s i n t o t h e h a b i t o f l y i n g .

    Consequently, it so happens that even in

    the absence of fear he lies out of habit. If

    you were sent to Borivali station saying,

    Go to Borivali and check if Dada has

    arrived. Dada was to reach the station by

    five o'clock, You leave for Borivali but

    you bump into a friend on the way and

    start chatting with him. You return

    (without going to Borivali) and say, It

    seems that Dada has not arrived. But I

    would have come for satsang which

    everybody would know. Then people will

    stop trusting you.

    Questioner: What are the disadvantages

    of lying?

    Dadashri: People will lose trust in you and

    once you lose people's trust, you do not

    have any value as a human being. If

    someone lies to us, it hurts us, likewise if

    we lie to others, won't it hurt them too?

    Questioner: When we lie do we bind

    karmas?

    Dadashri: Definitely! But more than

    speaking lies it is the intent of wanting to

    lie which binds more karmas. If someone

    lies, it's fruit will be borne in the next life.

    Questioner: Although not wanting to

    speak lies, they tend to be spoken

    Dadashri: If you happen to lie and you

    realise it, then immediately ask for

    forgiveness from Dada saying, 'Dada, I do

    not want to lie. Please forgive me. I

    will not lie henceforth. Thus our

    opinion to lie perishes and so does the

    demerit karmas that we have bound.

    Yet if it occurs again keep asking for

    forgiveness repeatedly so it will not

    bind us.

    Step

    2Dada Bhagwan has defined 4 steps to help overcome weaknesses. For example if you have a `habit of smoking then you should tackle the weakness using these steps...Step 1: Nischay | Have a very strong opinion that smoking is bad. This should be very clear in your intent. Step 2: Analyse | Analyse in what all ways it

    is bad for you. You should be aware of the

    repercussions and be conscious of all the

    ill effects it can cause.

    Step 3: Pratikraman | Whenever you

    smoke, immediately repent whole

    heartedly and pray to the God within

    saying, `O Lord, I have erred. Please

    forgive me, and grant me the strength to

    overcome this weakness.

    Step 4: Do not Protect | Never ever defend

    or protect your weakness by stating,

    whats the harm in doing so? Why have

    they built cigarette factories in this

    world? One should never state that there

    is no harm in smoking. Instead one should

    accept openly that its my weakness, I am

    at fault. I too am seeking the strength to

    overcome it.

    In this way one can gradually overcome

    his/her weakness.

    This is an article on STEP 2 of this process.

    What breaks our Nischay? Let us analyse

    the list of Nischay Breakers and get

    solutions to overcome them.

    Step 3:

    PratikramanStep 2:

    Analyse

    Step 1: Nischay

    Step 4:

    Do not Protect

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  • SOLU

    TI O

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    M

    EL

    BO

    RP

    Gnani's Scientific SolutionsQuestioner: Why does a person lie?

    Dadashri: A person lies out of fear. There

    is an underlying fear of what someone

    might say to him or else it is out of the

    desire to obtain something. So, gradually

    h e g e t s i n t o t h e h a b i t o f l y i n g .

    Consequently, it so happens that even in

    the absence of fear he lies out of habit. If

    you were sent to Borivali station saying,

    Go to Borivali and check if Dada has

    arrived. Dada was to reach the station by

    five o'clock, You leave for Borivali but

    you bump into a friend on the way and

    start chatting with him. You return

    (without going to Borivali) and say, It

    seems that Dada has not arrived. But I

    would have come for satsang which

    everybody would know. Then people will

    stop trusting you.

    Questioner: What are the disadvantages

    of lying?

    Dadashri: People will lose trust in you and

    once you lose people's trust, you do not

    have any value as a human being. If

    someone lies to us, it hurts us, likewise if

    we lie to others, won't it hurt them too?

    Questioner: When we lie do we bind

    karmas?

    Dadashri: Definitely! But more than

    speaking lies it is the intent of wanting to

    lie which binds more karmas. If someone

    lies, it's fruit will be borne in the next life.

    Questioner: Although not wanting to

    speak lies, they tend to be spoken

    Dadashri: If you happen to lie and you

    realise it, then immediately ask for

    forgiveness from Dada saying, 'Dada, I do

    not want to lie. Please forgive me. I

    will not lie henceforth. Thus our

    opinion to lie perishes and so does the

    demerit karmas that we have bound.

    Yet if it occurs again keep asking for

    forgiveness repeatedly so it will not

    bind us.

    Step

    2Dada Bhagwan has defined 4 steps to help overcome weaknesses. For example if you have a `habit of smoking then you should tackle the weakness using these steps...Step 1: Nischay | Have a very strong opinion that smoking is bad. This should be very clear in your intent. Step 2: Analyse | Analyse in what all ways it

    is bad for you. You should be aware of the

    repercussions and be conscious of all the

    ill effects it can cause.

    Step 3: Pratikraman | Whenever you

    smoke, immediately repent whole

    heartedly and pray to the God within

    saying, `O Lord, I have erred. Please

    forgive me, and grant me the strength to

    overcome this weakness.

    Step 4: Do not Protect | Never ever defend

    or protect your weakness by stating,

    whats the harm in doing so? Why have

    they built cigarette factories in this

    world? One should never state that there

    is no harm in smoking. Instead one should

    accept openly that its my weakness, I am

    at fault. I too am seeking the strength to

    overcome it.

    In this way one can gradually overcome

    his/her weakness.

    This is an article on STEP 2 of this process.

    What breaks our Nischay? Let us analyse

    the list of Nischay Breakers and get

    solutions to overcome them.

    Step 3:

    PratikramanStep 2:

    Analyse

    Step 1: Nischay

    Step 4:

    Do not Protect

    10 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 11

  • The

    Nischay breakersFactors obstructing firm determination

    And solutions to overcome them

    2Gossipe.g. I was determined to study butI ended up gossiping with friends.Solution:- Select a peaceful place (library).

    Distractions

    Media/ gadgetse.g. I was studying then a but

    facebook \ whatsapp message

    popped up and I was lost in chatting.

    e.g. My mom was watching a serial

    and I also ended up joining them.

    e.g. I cannot abstain from IPL fever.

    Solution:

    - Switch off all gadgets etc in your

    room while you are studying.

    Lack of Intereste.g. I like playing games I don't like studying.but

    Solution:

    - Proper time management.

    - Separate time for studies and play.

    - Know the importance of what you have set out to

    do.

    Lack of sincerity1e.g. I want to study I feel sleepy now.but

    Solution:

    - Exercise or gym at least once a day to keep

    yourself fresh.

    - For immediate results, wash your face do some OR

    deep breathing just freshen up.OR

    Laziness

    7

    Influence / peer pressure

    Unavoidable

    circumstances3

    6

    e.g. I want to achieve my goal but

    I don't know the way.

    Half knowledgeSolution:

    - Search for new avenues.

    - Be with friends who have achieved

    it.

    - Be in search of ways to achieve your

    goal.

    Lack of claritySolution:

    - Try to have a clear vision of your goal

    Lack of

    information to

    achieve goal5e.g. I feel I will not do well in exams.

    Fear and anxiety pops up.

    Inferiority complex

    Solution:

    - Talk to teachers and parents

    - Think positive and be with people

    having positive attitude

    - Boost self confidence

    - Study what successful people do in

    such cases?

    Losing hope

    Lack of analysis.Solution :

    - Study in depth the pros and cons of what you do.

    - Study the positive and negative part of it.

    Negative peer pressure.Solution :

    - Be with people who support your goals.

    - Remember your nischay because it is you who

    wants to.

    - Achieve the goal.

    e.g. Met with an accident before

    exam.

    Solution:

    - Study on regular basis.

    - Be prepared for such contingencies.

    Accident do happen.

    - Think positive and

    Copycat (I thought its easy because my friend did it)

    Solution:

    - Know your limits. Perform swot analysis. Assess

    your,

    S strengths

    W weakness

    O opportunities

    T threat

    Blinded by ego(Over assessed my abilities)

    Solution:

    - Overconfidence and under-confident are two sides

    of the same coin confidence is normality.Overc

    onfidence

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  • The

    Nischay breakersFactors obstructing firm determination

    And solutions to overcome them

    2Gossipe.g. I was determined to study butI ended up gossiping with friends.Solution:- Select a peaceful place (library).

    Distractions

    Media/ gadgetse.g. I was studying then a but

    facebook \ whatsapp message

    popped up and I was lost in chatting.

    e.g. My mom was watching a serial

    and I also ended up joining them.

    e.g. I cannot abstain from IPL fever.

    Solution:

    - Switch off all gadgets etc in your

    room while you are studying.

    Lack of Intereste.g. I like playing games I don't like studying.but

    Solution:

    - Proper time management.

    - Separate time for studies and play.

    - Know the importance of what you have set out to

    do.

    Lack of sincerity1e.g. I want to study I feel sleepy now.but

    Solution:

    - Exercise or gym at least once a day to keep

    yourself fresh.

    - For immediate results, wash your face do some OR

    deep breathing just freshen up.OR

    Laziness

    7

    Influence / peer pressure

    Unavoidable

    circumstances3

    6

    e.g. I want to achieve my goal but

    I don't know the way.

    Half knowledgeSolution:

    - Search for new avenues.

    - Be with friends who have achieved

    it.

    - Be in search of ways to achieve your

    goal.

    Lack of claritySolution:

    - Try to have a clear vision of your goal

    Lack of

    information to

    achieve goal5e.g. I feel I will not do well in exams.

    Fear and anxiety pops up.

    Inferiority complex

    Solution:

    - Talk to teachers and parents

    - Think positive and be with people

    having positive attitude

    - Boost self confidence

    - Study what successful people do in

    such cases?

    Losing hope

    Lack of analysis.Solution :

    - Study in depth the pros and cons of what you do.

    - Study the positive and negative part of it.

    Negative peer pressure.Solution :

    - Be with people who support your goals.

    - Remember your nischay because it is you who

    wants to.

    - Achieve the goal.

    e.g. Met with an accident before

    exam.

    Solution:

    - Study on regular basis.

    - Be prepared for such contingencies.

    Accident do happen.

    - Think positive and

    Copycat (I thought its easy because my friend did it)

    Solution:

    - Know your limits. Perform swot analysis. Assess

    your,

    S strengths

    W weakness

    O opportunities

    T threat

    Blinded by ego(Over assessed my abilities)

    Solution:

    - Overconfidence and under-confident are two sides

    of the same coin confidence is normality.Overc

    onfidence

    12 | June 2015

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  • y encountering obstacles on the

    Bpath of salvation, your strength increases. So whenever you face obstacles on this path, keep your

    determination firm that No one can

    stop me. Keep such intent but don't

    speak of it. Speaking is ego.

    Questioner: Do obstacles go away by

    themselves or by real spiritual efforts?

    Dadashri: They perish with intent. When

    the time comes for the obstacles to

    disappear, intent begins.

    Questioner: But isn't there a formation

    (coming into existence) of obstacles?

    Dadashri: Meaning of the word

    formation is not as you used. What is the

    meaning of an obstacle? If you blow it, it

    will fly away. Meaning of obstacle is lack

    of firm determination. Did you consider

    a man's Purusharth (real spiritual

    efforts)? There is religion of Purusharth

    which can be followed.

    Questioner: Is firm determination

    considered Purusharth?

    Dadashri: Yes, Purusharth is the firm

    determination that I want to do this (i.e.

    to attain salvation).

    Questioner: But everyone's determination

    does not give satisfactory results.

    Dadashri: That may or may not give

    required results. But that is not our look

    out. We need to have unflinching

    determination. If you do not have any

    determination, then your goal cannot be

    attained.

    Questioner: That's correct.

    Dadas Book ExcerptDadashri: Our own lack of determination

    is by itself an obstacle. With firm

    determination obstacles perish. If there is

    unflinching determination for realising

    the soul, all obstacles start perishing isn't

    it?

    Gnani (the awakened one) breaks

    G n a n a n t a r a y ( o b s t a c l e s f o r

    knowledge)

    Questioner: How can Gnanantaray

    (obstacles for knowledge) and

    Darshanantaray (obstacles for vision) be

    broken?

    Dadashri: Gnani Purush (one who has

    realised Self and is able to do the same

    for others) can break those. Gnani

    Purush can also remove those. He also

    destroys Agnan (Ignorance of Self) as

    well as removes Gnanantray. However,

    there are certain types of obstacles

    which cannot be destroyed even by

    Gnani Purush.

    Questioner: Which are those obstacles?

    Dadashri: Wherever Vinay Dharm

    (essence of respect and humility) is not

    followed. Vinay is most important for

    the path of salvation. There should not

    be the slightest of negative thoughts

    about Gnani Purush.

    Whoever receives this Gnan

    (knowledge of Self), all of his obstacles

    break. Do you understand what I am

    saying? I am telling you that I have made

    it easy to break all obstacles. The Gnan

    that I have given you and all the Agnas

    (five principles) given along with it, can

    break all the obstacles.

    Questioner: Dada, when we decide that

    we want to go for the Satsang (spiritual

    discussions), then all situations become

    favourable.

    Dadashri: Our determination breaks

    obstacles into pieces. What is needed is

    firm decision. Obstacles keep popping up

    unless one makes firm determination.

    Suppose, there is a lot of traffic on a

    road, but the Prime minister or someone

    like him approaches the road with firm

    determination, then the traffic will get

    cleared. Within an hour or so the road

    will become empty. No one will remain

    there! It's like that! Is our status like that

    of the Prime minister?! Our status is of

    Paramatma (absolute soul)!!! You gain

    the status of Paramatma after receiving

    Gnan!!!

    You might not be able to remain

    one with it due to your limitations, but it

    is a status of Paramatma. Status of pure

    soul is the status of absolute soul!

    14 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 15

    After getting Atma-Gnan

    (self realisation), obstacles

    are Sanyogi

    (circumstantial) and

    circumstances have nature

    of Viyog (dissipation) after

    some time. And we are

    pure soul Asanyogi

    Aviyogi (non-circumstantial

    and non-dissipating).

    Obstacles due

    to lack of

    determination

    Be free of

    obstacles by

    unflinching

    determination

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  • y encountering obstacles on the

    Bpath of salvation, your strength increases. So whenever you face obstacles on this path, keep your

    determination firm that No one can

    stop me. Keep such intent but don't

    speak of it. Speaking is ego.

    Questioner: Do obstacles go away by

    themselves or by real spiritual efforts?

    Dadashri: They perish with intent. When

    the time comes for the obstacles to

    disappear, intent begins.

    Questioner: But isn't there a formation

    (coming into existence) of obstacles?

    Dadashri: Meaning of the word

    formation is not as you used. What is the

    meaning of an obstacle? If you blow it, it

    will fly away. Meaning of obstacle is lack

    of firm determination. Did you consider

    a man's Purusharth (real spiritual

    efforts)? There is religion of Purusharth

    which can be followed.

    Questioner: Is firm determination

    considered Purusharth?

    Dadashri: Yes, Purusharth is the firm

    determination that I want to do this (i.e.

    to attain salvation).

    Questioner: But everyone's determination

    does not give satisfactory results.

    Dadashri: That may or may not give

    required results. But that is not our look

    out. We need to have unflinching

    determination. If you do not have any

    determination, then your goal cannot be

    attained.

    Questioner: That's correct.

    Dadas Book ExcerptDadashri: Our own lack of determination

    is by itself an obstacle. With firm

    determination obstacles perish. If there is

    unflinching determination for realising

    the soul, all obstacles start perishing isn't

    it?

    Gnani (the awakened one) breaks

    G n a n a n t a r a y ( o b s t a c l e s f o r

    knowledge)

    Questioner: How can Gnanantaray

    (obstacles for knowledge) and

    Darshanantaray (obstacles for vision) be

    broken?

    Dadashri: Gnani Purush (one who has

    realised Self and is able to do the same

    for others) can break those. Gnani

    Purush can also remove those. He also

    destroys Agnan (Ignorance of Self) as

    well as removes Gnanantray. However,

    there are certain types of obstacles

    which cannot be destroyed even by

    Gnani Purush.

    Questioner: Which are those obstacles?

    Dadashri: Wherever Vinay Dharm

    (essence of respect and humility) is not

    followed. Vinay is most important for

    the path of salvation. There should not

    be the slightest of negative thoughts

    about Gnani Purush.

    Whoever receives this Gnan

    (knowledge of Self), all of his obstacles

    break. Do you understand what I am

    saying? I am telling you that I have made

    it easy to break all obstacles. The Gnan

    that I have given you and all the Agnas

    (five principles) given along with it, can

    break all the obstacles.

    Questioner: Dada, when we decide that

    we want to go for the Satsang (spiritual

    discussions), then all situations become

    favourable.

    Dadashri: Our determination breaks

    obstacles into pieces. What is needed is

    firm decision. Obstacles keep popping up

    unless one makes firm determination.

    Suppose, there is a lot of traffic on a

    road, but the Prime minister or someone

    like him approaches the road with firm

    determination, then the traffic will get

    cleared. Within an hour or so the road

    will become empty. No one will remain

    there! It's like that! Is our status like that

    of the Prime minister?! Our status is of

    Paramatma (absolute soul)!!! You gain

    the status of Paramatma after receiving

    Gnan!!!

    You might not be able to remain

    one with it due to your limitations, but it

    is a status of Paramatma. Status of pure

    soul is the status of absolute soul!

    14 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 15

    After getting Atma-Gnan

    (self realisation), obstacles

    are Sanyogi

    (circumstantial) and

    circumstances have nature

    of Viyog (dissipation) after

    some time. And we are

    pure soul Asanyogi

    Aviyogi (non-circumstantial

    and non-dissipating).

    Obstacles due

    to lack of

    determination

    Be free of

    obstacles by

    unflinching

    determination

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  • his incident dates back to the year

    T1990. During that period there was a Mahatma who used to attend Dada's satsang. There were a lot

    of differences in opinion between him

    and Niruma. All his interactions were

    rational while Niruma was totally

    devoted to Dada. Even so if Dada would

    heed to Niruma's suggestions at times,

    the Mahatma would feel offended. Due

    to this Dada would then take his side.

    One day an incident of differences

    cropped up once again. This time

    Dadashri supported that mahatma

    although the stand he had taken was not

    right and overlooked Niruma. Pujya

    Niruma was very upset with Dada's

    biased attitude. When she could not

    resist it anymore she said to Dada,

    Dada, you have supported him

    wrongly. The stand that he has taken is

    not at all acceptable.

    And then Dadashri took Niruma to

    remand and asked her point blank,

    How could you say so? What did you

    mean by it? Tell me what you feel within

    That night Dada stayed awake and did

    not let Niruma rest too in order to solve

    this matter.

    T h e n d a d a s h r i e x p l a i n e d v e r y

    compassionately I have to take his side

    so that he may not falter on the path of

    salvation. You are already taken care of

    but I have take care of him. Many a times I

    do as you say in the day to day routine,

    which hurts him. So I have to use you as a

    'buffer' in order to please him. If he

    develops negativity for me, he will lose

    this gnan'. But if he develops negativity

    towards you then I am there to handle it.

    Niruma was deeply touched with this

    explanation and said,

    Agreed. Dada use me as a buffer as

    many times as you want. I could not have

    been more fortunate. Blessed I am, to

    act as a buffer for none other than

    Dadashri.

    After that Niruma was enveloped with

    bliss all the time.

    Following those words Dada had

    also added, Niruben, you don't bother

    about these matters. You just maintain

    an irrevocable intent that may my fate

    be just as that of Dada.To this Niruma

    replied, I will Dada. But for that please

    do vidhi for me. Finally, all this finished

    at 5:00 in the morning and then Dada

    went to bed and so did Niruma. After

    this inc ident Niruma never ever

    repeated anything of the sort with Dada.

    Gnani An Idol Of Astonishment

    16 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 17

    Dadashri also used to say that

    Lot many people have come

    to serve me and left. None

    could last long. Niruben has

    been the only person who has

    remained loyal in our seva

    since the past 20 years

    because her nature matches

    with that of mine. Therefore

    she has stayed on and her

    respect for Dada never

    decreased even once.

  • his incident dates back to the year

    T1990. During that period there was a Mahatma who used to attend Dada's satsang. There were a lot

    of differences in opinion between him

    and Niruma. All his interactions were

    rational while Niruma was totally

    devoted to Dada. Even so if Dada would

    heed to Niruma's suggestions at times,

    the Mahatma would feel offended. Due

    to this Dada would then take his side.

    One day an incident of differences

    cropped up once again. This time

    Dadashri supported that mahatma

    although the stand he had taken was not

    right and overlooked Niruma. Pujya

    Niruma was very upset with Dada's

    biased attitude. When she could not

    resist it anymore she said to Dada,

    Dada, you have supported him

    wrongly. The stand that he has taken is

    not at all acceptable.

    And then Dadashri took Niruma to

    remand and asked her point blank,

    How could you say so? What did you

    mean by it? Tell me what you feel within

    That night Dada stayed awake and did

    not let Niruma rest too in order to solve

    this matter.

    T h e n d a d a s h r i e x p l a i n e d v e r y

    compassionately I have to take his side

    so that he may not falter on the path of

    salvation. You are already taken care of

    but I have take care of him. Many a times I

    do as you say in the day to day routine,

    which hurts him. So I have to use you as a

    'buffer' in order to please him. If he

    develops negativity for me, he will lose

    this gnan'. But if he develops negativity

    towards you then I am there to handle it.

    Niruma was deeply touched with this

    explanation and said,

    Agreed. Dada use me as a buffer as

    many times as you want. I could not have

    been more fortunate. Blessed I am, to

    act as a buffer for none other than

    Dadashri.

    After that Niruma was enveloped with

    bliss all the time.

    Following those words Dada had

    also added, Niruben, you don't bother

    about these matters. You just maintain

    an irrevocable intent that may my fate

    be just as that of Dada.To this Niruma

    replied, I will Dada. But for that please

    do vidhi for me. Finally, all this finished

    at 5:00 in the morning and then Dada

    went to bed and so did Niruma. After

    this inc ident Niruma never ever

    repeated anything of the sort with Dada.

    Gnani An Idol Of Astonishment

    16 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 17

    Dadashri also used to say that

    Lot many people have come

    to serve me and left. None

    could last long. Niruben has

    been the only person who has

    remained loyal in our seva

    since the past 20 years

    because her nature matches

    with that of mine. Therefore

    she has stayed on and her

    respect for Dada never

    decreased even once.

  • he history of India would have

    Tbeen different had it not been for Sardar Patel the Deputy Prime Minister when India became

    independent in 1947. Sardar Patel

    consolidated the country into one

    united whole in a unique manner. His

    strength of character, the sharpness of

    his mind, his organizing skills, and all

    his energy were offered for achieving

    the freedom of India and for India's

    consolidation after independence. We

    admire a man who rises to a political or

    financial peak, but are moved by one

    whose sole purpose in life is the

    strength and wel l being of h is

    compatriots. And we are moved even

    more when we discover that next to

    the steel in his soul is tenderness for

    colleagues. In successive phases of his

    life Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel showed

    the defiance of the oppressed, a trial

    lawyer's brilliance, the daring to give

    up a flourishing career, the discipline of

    a soldier in the battle for freedom, the

    s t r a t e g i e s o f a G e n e r a l , t h e

    indifference as a prisoner of the Raj,

    the generosity of the strong, the

    f i rm ne s s of a pat r i ot , and t he

    farsightedness of a statesman. When

    times are depressing or daunting,

    Patel reminds us of Indias potential.

    When times are good, we can think of

    him with glad grauntitude.

    Early Years:

    Vallabhbhai Patel was born on October

    31, 1875 at Nadiad, in the Kaira district

    of Gujarat. He was the son of Laadbai

    and Zaverbhai Patel, a simple farmer.

    Sardar:

    Around 1915, when the Swadeshi

    Movement was at its peak, Patel

    started actively participating in it.

    Around the same time the British

    government declared to confiscate all

    the lands of farmers. It was under his

    sterling leadership and practical vision

    that the peasant movement in Gujarat

    became a success and the British

    government was forced to amend the

    rules. Due to his exemplary leadership

    qualities, Sarojini Naidu bestowed him

    with the title of 'Sardar'.

    The Iron man of India:

    On the eve of their departure, the

    British government announced that its

    rule would lapse not only over the

    Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel

    British territory but even over the native States. This meant that like India and

    Pakistan, as many as 625 small and big native states would become independent.

    Consequently, the country would be divided into a number of small and big units.

    Patel did not hesitate in using the policy of Saam-Daam-Dand-Bhed (friendship,

    bribery, punishment and division) for achieving his objective. Such was his resolve

    Glimpses of Great Souls

    18 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 19

  • he history of India would have

    Tbeen different had it not been for Sardar Patel the Deputy Prime Minister when India became

    independent in 1947. Sardar Patel

    consolidated the country into one

    united whole in a unique manner. His

    strength of character, the sharpness of

    his mind, his organizing skills, and all

    his energy were offered for achieving

    the freedom of India and for India's

    consolidation after independence. We

    admire a man who rises to a political or

    financial peak, but are moved by one

    whose sole purpose in life is the

    strength and wel l being of h is

    compatriots. And we are moved even

    more when we discover that next to

    the steel in his soul is tenderness for

    colleagues. In successive phases of his

    life Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel showed

    the defiance of the oppressed, a trial

    lawyer's brilliance, the daring to give

    up a flourishing career, the discipline of

    a soldier in the battle for freedom, the

    s t r a t e g i e s o f a G e n e r a l , t h e

    indifference as a prisoner of the Raj,

    the generosity of the strong, the

    f i rm ne s s of a pat r i ot , and t he

    farsightedness of a statesman. When

    times are depressing or daunting,

    Patel reminds us of Indias potential.

    When times are good, we can think of

    him with glad grauntitude.

    Early Years:

    Vallabhbhai Patel was born on October

    31, 1875 at Nadiad, in the Kaira district

    of Gujarat. He was the son of Laadbai

    and Zaverbhai Patel, a simple farmer.

    Sardar:

    Around 1915, when the Swadeshi

    Movement was at its peak, Patel

    started actively participating in it.

    Around the same time the British

    government declared to confiscate all

    the lands of farmers. It was under his

    sterling leadership and practical vision

    that the peasant movement in Gujarat

    became a success and the British

    government was forced to amend the

    rules. Due to his exemplary leadership

    qualities, Sarojini Naidu bestowed him

    with the title of 'Sardar'.

    The Iron man of India:

    On the eve of their departure, the

    British government announced that its

    rule would lapse not only over the

    Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel

    British territory but even over the native States. This meant that like India and

    Pakistan, as many as 625 small and big native states would become independent.

    Consequently, the country would be divided into a number of small and big units.

    Patel did not hesitate in using the policy of Saam-Daam-Dand-Bhed (friendship,

    bribery, punishment and division) for achieving his objective. Such was his resolve

    Glimpses of Great Souls

    18 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 19

  • and tact that princely states were left

    with no other option but to merge with

    India. Basically it was his success in

    integrating all the princely states after

    independence, and that too without

    much bloodshed that got him the

    sobriquet of Iron Man.

    There is one very interesting

    anecdote of his childhood which

    highlights his strength of character.

    Once, when he was a small boy,

    Vallahbhai suffered from a boil in the

    armpit. There was a man in the village

    who used to cure boils by bursting

    them with hot iron. As young Vallabh

    went to him, the man heated the iron

    rod till it grew red. But he hesitated

    upon noticing the boy's tender age.

    "What are you waiting for? The iron will

    get cold. Hurry up, brand the boil," said

    the boy firmly.

    T h e m a n w a s e v e n m o r e

    frightened. Then the boy himself

    picked up the glowing rod and burst

    the boil. Those who watched him were

    shocked and screamed. But there was

    not even a trace of pain on the boy's

    face.

    Dedication:

    In 1909, Patel's wife Jhaverba was

    hospitalized and was to undergo a

    major surgical operation for cancer.

    Her health suddenly worsened and

    despite the successful emergency

    surgery, she died in the hospital. Patel

    was cross-examining a witness in court

    when he was given a note informing

    him of his wife's demise. According to

    those who witnessed, Patel read the

    note, pocketed it and continued to

    intensely cross-examine the witness

    and won the case. He broke the news

    t o t h e o t h e r s o n l y a f t e r t h e

    proceedings had ended.

    Awards and commemorations:

    Sardar, who passed away on 15th

    December 1950 was posthumously

    awarded the Bharat Ratna. He is also

    remembered as the Patron Saint of

    Indias civil servants for establishing

    modern all-India services. An annual

    commemoration of Patel, known as

    the Rashtriya Ekta Diwas (National

    Unity Day), was introduced by the

    Government of India in 2014 and is to

    be held annually on his birthday, 31

    October.

    Statue of

    UNITY

    20 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 21

    At the age of 36, Patel

    journeyed to England

    and enrolled at the

    Middle Temple Inn in

    London. Finishing a 36-

    month course in 30

    months, Patel topped his

    class despite having no

    previous college

    background.

    The Statue of Unity is an under

    construction 182 metre (597 ft)

    monument of Sardar Vallabhbhai

    Patel that will be built directly

    facing the Narmada Dam. 3.2 km

    away on the river island called

    Sadhu Bet near Vadodara in

    Gujarat, India. This statue is

    planned to be erected over a

    spread of 20000 square meters of

    project area. It will also be

    surrounded with a man-made lake

    spread across 12 km of area. When

    completed it shall be the world's

    tallest statue. Indian

    infrastructure company L &T

    commenced the construction on 31

    October 2014 and is expected to

    complete it by 2018.

    For further details visit

    www.statueofunity.in

    News update

  • and tact that princely states were left

    with no other option but to merge with

    India. Basically it was his success in

    integrating all the princely states after

    independence, and that too without

    much bloodshed that got him the

    sobriquet of Iron Man.

    There is one very interesting

    anecdote of his childhood which

    highlights his strength of character.

    Once, when he was a small boy,

    Vallahbhai suffered from a boil in the

    armpit. There was a man in the village

    who used to cure boils by bursting

    them with hot iron. As young Vallabh

    went to him, the man heated the iron

    rod till it grew red. But he hesitated

    upon noticing the boy's tender age.

    "What are you waiting for? The iron will

    get cold. Hurry up, brand the boil," said

    the boy firmly.

    T h e m a n w a s e v e n m o r e

    frightened. Then the boy himself

    picked up the glowing rod and burst

    the boil. Those who watched him were

    shocked and screamed. But there was

    not even a trace of pain on the boy's

    face.

    Dedication:

    In 1909, Patel's wife Jhaverba was

    hospitalized and was to undergo a

    major surgical operation for cancer.

    Her health suddenly worsened and

    despite the successful emergency

    surgery, she died in the hospital. Patel

    was cross-examining a witness in court

    when he was given a note informing

    him of his wife's demise. According to

    those who witnessed, Patel read the

    note, pocketed it and continued to

    intensely cross-examine the witness

    and won the case. He broke the news

    t o t h e o t h e r s o n l y a f t e r t h e

    proceedings had ended.

    Awards and commemorations:

    Sardar, who passed away on 15th

    December 1950 was posthumously

    awarded the Bharat Ratna. He is also

    remembered as the Patron Saint of

    Indias civil servants for establishing

    modern all-India services. An annual

    commemoration of Patel, known as

    the Rashtriya Ekta Diwas (National

    Unity Day), was introduced by the

    Government of India in 2014 and is to

    be held annually on his birthday, 31

    October.

    Statue of

    UNITY

    20 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 21

    At the age of 36, Patel

    journeyed to England

    and enrolled at the

    Middle Temple Inn in

    London. Finishing a 36-

    month course in 30

    months, Patel topped his

    class despite having no

    previous college

    background.

    The Statue of Unity is an under

    construction 182 metre (597 ft)

    monument of Sardar Vallabhbhai

    Patel that will be built directly

    facing the Narmada Dam. 3.2 km

    away on the river island called

    Sadhu Bet near Vadodara in

    Gujarat, India. This statue is

    planned to be erected over a

    spread of 20000 square meters of

    project area. It will also be

    surrounded with a man-made lake

    spread across 12 km of area. When

    completed it shall be the world's

    tallest statue. Indian

    infrastructure company L &T

    commenced the construction on 31

    October 2014 and is expected to

    complete it by 2018.

    For further details visit

    www.statueofunity.in

    News update

  • We'll study Dada's principles and apply them

    in day to day life. If we progress with the

    right understanding, then we get two

    benefits... one - the benefit of progress in

    Gnan and two - the fun of travelling.

    - Pujyashri Deepakbhai

    A specially designed Akram

    Retreat for International Youth

    international Spiritual Teenager Akram Retreat

    The Retreat includes interactive activities, day-trips,

    jatra (religious tour), group discussions, self

    development programs & games, videos and also

    satsang sessions with Pujya Deepakbhai, Aptputra

    bhaios & Aptputri behnos. It gives a wonderful

    opportunity for youngsters to visit India & Simandhar

    city to get a flavour of Indian culture, interact with

    other like-minded youth from various countries and

    get an in-depth introductory understanding of Akram

    Vignan.

    between the age of 13 to 21 years.

    iStar 2015 : 10th to 23rd August

    For further details and Registration

    visit: istar.dadabhagwan.org

    I had so much fun. On coming

    here I felt at peace and most of

    my questions were answered.

    When I am here, I don't even feel the

    absence of my parents. I don't feel the

    absence of my family because I feel like all

    these girls have become like my family,

    these coordinators have become like family.

    It was very balanced. We had time to hang out

    with friends. We had time to play in the pool, to

    swim, to play table tennis and pool. And then we

    even had satsang. It makes satsang a bit more

    enjoyable.

    In iStar you learn a lot of different things, but I

    guess one of the biggest things you learn is

    responsibility.

    I like everything about it, all the activities

    we've done. The jatra, that was amazing.

    The visit to Brahmakumaris place was

    excellent.

    I had so much fun. I have come here and I got

    peace and I have got most of my questions

    answered. And then the activities were pretty

    good. We learned to sing pads, it was pretty

    good. So now when we go back, we'll be singing

    pads with all the mahatmas.

    Its not just about learning Dada's gnan

    and stuff. It's like you have fun as well

    when you meet new people. I think

    everyone should come at least once to

    iSTAR and experience it.

    Priyanka Harania Pavan Gudka

    Hemali Nathwani Chand Shah

    Namrata Gandhi Krunal Shah

    SohamKhusboo Makwana

    Before iStar, when we had sessions at Dallas

    I didn't really like all the vidhis and asim jay

    jay kars. I really thought they were boring.

    But then after I came here, I really felt at

    peace whenever I did them so it helped me

    see the value of doing vidhi.

    U.S.A.

    U.K.U.S.A.

    U.S.A.

    CanadaU.K.

    KenyaKenya

    22 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 23

  • We'll study Dada's principles and apply them

    in day to day life. If we progress with the

    right understanding, then we get two

    benefits... one - the benefit of progress in

    Gnan and two - the fun of travelling.

    - Pujyashri Deepakbhai

    A specially designed Akram

    Retreat for International Youth

    international Spiritual Teenager Akram Retreat

    The Retreat includes interactive activities, day-trips,

    jatra (religious tour), group discussions, self

    development programs & games, videos and also

    satsang sessions with Pujya Deepakbhai, Aptputra

    bhaios & Aptputri behnos. It gives a wonderful

    opportunity for youngsters to visit India & Simandhar

    city to get a flavour of Indian culture, interact with

    other like-minded youth from various countries and

    get an in-depth introductory understanding of Akram

    Vignan.

    between the age of 13 to 21 years.

    iStar 2015 : 10th to 23rd August

    For further details and Registration

    visit: istar.dadabhagwan.org

    I had so much fun. On coming

    here I felt at peace and most of

    my questions were answered.

    When I am here, I don't even feel the

    absence of my parents. I don't feel the

    absence of my family because I feel like all

    these girls have become like my family,

    these coordinators have become like family.

    It was very balanced. We had time to hang out

    with friends. We had time to play in the pool, to

    swim, to play table tennis and pool. And then we

    even had satsang. It makes satsang a bit more

    enjoyable.

    In iStar you learn a lot of different things, but I

    guess one of the biggest things you learn is

    responsibility.

    I like everything about it, all the activities

    we've done. The jatra, that was amazing.

    The visit to Brahmakumaris place was

    excellent.

    I had so much fun. I have come here and I got

    peace and I have got most of my questions

    answered. And then the activities were pretty

    good. We learned to sing pads, it was pretty

    good. So now when we go back, we'll be singing

    pads with all the mahatmas.

    Its not just about learning Dada's gnan

    and stuff. It's like you have fun as well

    when you meet new people. I think

    everyone should come at least once to

    iSTAR and experience it.

    Priyanka Harania Pavan Gudka

    Hemali Nathwani Chand Shah

    Namrata Gandhi Krunal Shah

    SohamKhusboo Makwana

    Before iStar, when we had sessions at Dallas

    I didn't really like all the vidhis and asim jay

    jay kars. I really thought they were boring.

    But then after I came here, I really felt at

    peace whenever I did them so it helped me

    see the value of doing vidhi.

    U.S.A.

    U.K.U.S.A.

    U.S.A.

    CanadaU.K.

    KenyaKenya

    22 | June 2015 Akram Youth | 23

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