life loved. love lost
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Introduction
Throughout this semester I have finally been able to get back to my writing;
instead of writing research papers and analytical essays for my classes, I finally was able
to create my own world through my stories. I wrote short, fictional stories from middle
school through high school, but I have not written poetry since I was in elementary
school. By taking this creative writing class, I had hoped to broaden my learning on
poetry. I never was taught the different forms and how to separate line breaks and
stanzas, I used to just write poems about flowers and butterflies because to a 10 year old,
that is what I thought was beautiful.
Some of the problems I ran into at the beginning of this class were my low
confidence in my own imagination and not having the technical knowledge of how to
write these different genres. I felt like I wouldn’t be able to come up with an entire story
line and all of the characters in my head. What I learned from this course, is that a lot of
writers use prompts to get them started. This was my first time using prompts in my
writing but it made me think about writing something I never would have thought to
write about, otherwise. One of my poems turned out to be about mermaids and life under
the sea. I would never have written about mermaids if it were not for an in class prompt
written down by a classmate. As for the technical knowledge, I learned how to actually
write different forms of poems. Using the knowledge from in-class lectures, I was able to
learn about sestinas, free form, and villanelle poems. Prior to this class, I only wrote
quartets and free form poems.
Once I started writing my fiction story, I kept building the characters and the plot
off of each little exercise that we did in class. Soon after, I saw a short story had formed
and I continued writing it because I wanted to know what would happen next. When I
have free time, I would like to continue writing my story, to maybe turn it into a novel.
When I write, whether it is essays or stories and poems, I try to write my best on
the first draft because I really don’t like to make revisions. Most of my peers didn’t have
major things to say about my writings that needed to be fixed, except for a few
grammatical errors. In my fiction story, I had had trouble writing the scenes with a lot of
dialogue. One of my classmates helped me with these areas by showing me how to turn
my screenwriting dialogue and set it up into “in-text” dialogue.
Looking at my portfolio, there seems to be a recurring theme of life, love, and loss
in my creative nonfiction, fiction, and poetry. As a young woman, who has been through
high school and is finishing college, these seem like fitting themes for the life of a 21
year old. Like most people, I have had my heartbroken and have fallen in love, many
times over again. Growing up, I moved around all the time, so my “life” themes come
from my childhood. These themes are common in writing, but important to everyone
because everyone lives life, falls in love, and experiences loss.
I put a lot of work into these stories and my poems, so I hope you enjoy them.
Creative Nonfiction
Another Time Around
Here we go again: another new school in the middle of the year. At least this time
my parents let me finish the semester before moving us. It’s bad enough to move in
middle school to a whole new state where you have to meet all new people but, it’s even
worse to move right at semester point, right in the middle of the year. I remember
thinking to myself: “Why? Why do we need to move again? My parents promised me and
my brother that we wouldn’t move again until we graduated high school!”
These conversations happened a lot when I was growing up. My family was
originally from Nevada, but both of my parents grew up in Northwest Indiana, so that’s
where most of our family still was. When I was a toddler, we started making our way
back to Indiana. We even bounced back and forth between Indiana and Illinois a bit. I
have memories of living in Munster, Indiana when I was about 4; then we moved to Elk
Grove Village, Illinois, which is a suburb outside of Chicago. Prior to these places, I am
told that we lived in a few other suburbs of Chicago. After bumping around a few
different neighborhoods in Elk Grove Village, my parents relocated us again further away
from the city; they said the property taxes where just getting too high where we lived, so
this next move was an hour and a half away to Lake in the Hills, Illinois.
Lake in the Hills was a great place to grow up; it was a growing little town,
mostly made up of farms. Our neighborhood was just being developed and most of the
other people on our block all had young kids, such as my brother and myself. I’ll never
forget the first time I met the Rude family. The two boys, Santo and Karl, were walking
down the street when my brother and I were outside playing, while trying to keep out of
our parents’ hair. Santo was a few years older than me and Karl was a few years younger
than my brother, Patrick. We all started playing the game 4-square when his mom pulled
up in their minivan. The back door opened and out jumped a girl only one year older
than me! I was so excited to see that there was another girl in the neighborhood because
all I had seen so far were boys. Kayte and I became best friends and spent all of our time
together for the next five or six years. We had also met three other girls our age down the
street further; they had actually lived there a few years because that section of the
subdivision was already developed. The five of us were best friends and it all came to an
end when my parents sat me down to tell me that one of my friends dad’s had sold our
house for my parents. I didn’t even know it was on the market!
I later found out that Mr. Boesche was such a great realtor that he only had the
house on the market for two weeks before he had an acceptable offer. The downside was
that the people moving in wanted to be in before the New Year, only thirty days away.
My parents quickly found a house in Crown Point, Indiana, where my mom’s family still
lived. It is also only forty minutes from where half of my dad’s family lives, in Munster.
Since the semester ended two weeks after the New Year, I stayed with my friend Shelby
and the Boesche family to finish out the semester. I figured this was owed to me, since it
was Mr. Boesche that sold my house so quickly. Then came another time around.
It wasn’t that Crown Point was a bad place or anything; I just was really tired of
moving around all the time. Never really growing up in any one place, as a kid is hard. I
don’t know where I come from and I don’t have a “hometown”. These things always
seemed important to me when someone would ask where I was from and such. However,
Crown Point turned out to be pretty incredible. I made so many more close friends than I
ever had before and I was able to spend half of middle school and ALL of high school in
the same place. If I had never moved to Crown Point, Indiana, I never would have met
my best friends: Ashley, Tori, and Kaitlyn. Going from a school where I had my close
group of friends and several guy friends that I lived near, to a school where I became the
social butterfly was amazing for my self-confidence. My high school was pretty big in
population; there were 630 kids in my graduating class. I floated around from clique to
clique; being nice to everyone and everyone nice to me in return. Not only was I able to
make so many more friends at Crown Point than I had made at any of my other schools,
but I was able to connect with family members I rarely saw. If I hadn’t moved to Crown
Point, I never would have been as close with my aunt, uncle, three little cousins, and my
grandparents. But most of all, I never would have met my boyfriend Steven, who I have
been best friends with since freshmen year and have been in love with since Junior year
of high school. We are still together, going on four years, and will be high school and
college sweethearts. Another time around isn’t always the worst thing.
The Block Party
It was a warm summer day, at the beginning of July; my parents were
throwing their annual 4th of July holiday party. It was like those block parties that
people used to have with all the neighbors in the neighborhood hosting games and
playing music, one family even rented a dunk tank. I remember my friends and I
running up and down the street, chasing our brothers on their bicycles; the only
time we were allowed to ride our bikes in the street because the street was blocked
off. This day has stuck with my memory over all these years because of what
happened after the sun went down. The block party was close to over; many
families had taken their young children home for bed, but my parents said that I
could ride my bike down to my friend’s grandpa’s house, where she was spending
the night. Her grandpa lived right on the same street as me, but I was stubborn and
kept riding my bike in the street, even though the party was pretty much over. I
came around the corner and saw the headlights…
The car swerved but didn’t even bother to slow down. Luckily the car only
clipped my back tire; I didn’t have a scratch on me, but that moment was the closest
I had ever come to being really hurt. I was maybe seven years old at the time, but I
still remember every detail of that night, to this day. Significant events and big
moments seem to always stick with me. From my childhood, I really don’t
remember many memories of it except for incidents like this one. As if this almost
accident wasn’t bad enough, earlier that evening my brother and his friends were
running away from me and my friends; we ran into the house, down the hallway towards
the bedrooms, and my brother slammed his bedroom door shut, just as me and my friends
approached. Unfortunately I was pushing against his door preventing him from shutting
it and 4 of my fingers were shut into the door and door jam. I started screaming my head
off for my brother to open the door. He didn’t realize that I was screaming because I was
hurt and my fingers were stuck in his door, until I started bawling my eyes out. My dad
heard the commotion all the way from the backyard and ran inside to see what had
happened. He saw half of my fingers disappear into the doorframe and yelled at my
brother to open up. Patrick couldn’t get the door open from the inside, so my dad tried
from the outside. My dad couldn’t get the door open and had to kick the door in, just to
get my fingers out. In that moment, I felt confinement in that house, literally trapped in
the door jam.
Worst Haircut Ever
I was two years old; my family and I were visiting my dad’s sisters in
Munster, Indiana. One of my aunts was visiting from Scottsdale, Arizona that same
weekend; this was the first time I remember meeting my aunt, Kathy. Aunt Kathy
was and still is a hairdresser and everyone thought it would be a great idea for me to
get a haircut. I have strawberry blonde hair and used to have cute, tight curls. As a
professional hairdresser, you would think that my aunt would know not to cut my
hair super short because then the curls tighten up even more. I remember everyone
taking a kitchen chair and putting it in the family room. My mom had to sit down
first and hold me on her lap, so that I wouldn’t move. I kept trying to worm my way
free; I didn’t want sharp scissors anywhere near me! When my mom finally
wrapped her arms around my arms and pinned my legs between her legs, my
haircut began.
There was a growing pile of strawberry blonde curls on the floor; it seemed
to be never ending. I cried and screamed the entire time and everyone felt badly for
me. But, kids usually cry at haircuts, when they are young, so no one did anything
about it. I still believe that I knew how awful this was going to turn out before it
even started, and that is why I was crying and trying to escape. Intuition. When the
torture was finally over, I stopped crying. A week later, my parents wanted
professional pictures taken of my brother and me. Apparently I was a bad kid
because there is no other excuse, than punishment, for what my parents did to me
that day.
I was put into a red, velvet dress with a white-‐trimmed collar. This mixed
with my “new haircut” and I looked like little, orphan fucking Annie!!! My parents
still have that picture, in a frame, at the house today and they probably always will
have it. I look at that picture and it hurts; how could adults be so cruel? Just
because a two year old can’t make decisions like these for themselves, doesn’t mean
that you can make any decision you want for that two year old. Adults think it’s
funny to put a child in a ridiculous outfit because they can’t take it off and put a new
one on, on their own.
If I have learned anything from my bad haircut experience it would be to
never get a haircut from aunt Kathy, when you have curly hair. But also, I will never
put my kids in stupid outfits just because I can. Kids have feelings and they know
when people are laughing with them or at them.
Fiction
When Tragedy Strikes
AUDRINA
Okay, so when my mom got remarried I kind of figured that we would be
moving into her husband’s house and I would end up switching schools. I was
prepared for this, but I have only ever gone to all-‐girl schools and East High School is
a lot different than those schools. I am 16 years old, a sophomore in high school,
and have never had a boyfriend. Needless to say, I was a little nervous walking into
school on my first day. One good thing from my mom’s marriage is that I now have a
big brother who says he’s going to look out for me; this made me feel better as I was
looking around to find my locker bay.
When I finally found my way to my locker, I frantically started searching
through my backpack for the paper that had the combination to open it. “Relax
Audrina. Slow down and take a breath,” I said to myself. I get my locker open and
put my books in and as I turned to leave, I spot two of the cutest guys I had ever
seen. Who would happen to be leading them towards me; my new stepbrother Alec?
“Hey, Audrina. I wanted to introduce you to some of my friends. This is
Daniel and Xander. We all play on the lacrosse team together”.
I was speechless; coming from an all-‐girl school, I had never talked with boys
before! I somehow managed to say, “Hi, I’m Audrina. It’s nice to meet you both”.
Daniel asked me what my schedule looked like and wanted to see which teachers I
had. I handed him my list of classes.
“Wow”, he said, “We have three classes together and don’t worry, you seem
to have a lot of the cool teachers”.
Daniel insisted on walking me to our first class and I heard Alec say that “I
was in good hands” as Daniel and I headed in the opposite direction of him and
Xander. The day continued on in this fashion and the boys invited me to eat with
them at lunch. It felt so strange; at all my old schools I was only with girls, but on
my first day here I have made several guy friends and haven’t even really talked
with any of the girls. Actually, the only guy that didn’t seem to want to talk to me
was Alec’s friend Xander, who I met earlier that morning. He would glance up at me
during the two classes we had with each other and I noticed him do it again
throughout lunch. But not once did he talk to me.
Weeks went by and Daniel began taking me out to movies and dinner, or
even just to hang out with other friends from lacrosse. I was starting to feel
something that I had never experienced before. I was falling in love for the first
time. Daniel was sweet and kind, strong and athletic, and he was handsome. One
day at school, he asked me to wear his lacrosse jersey to the game that night. He
knew I wasn’t all that interested in school spirit and whatever, I had never watched
lacrosse before; but he asked me to go and watch his first game of his last season…
Of course I was going to cheer him on and wear his jersey. Our relationship had
grown more and more intense over the past five months. I didn’t know if it was just
me, since I had never been in a relationship before, or if it was because Daniel
seemed to be the right guy for me.
At the game, I sat with my mom and new stepdad, who were there to cheer
on Alec. I had no clue as to how lacrosse worked, but I followed along when the
announcer would say Daniel’s last name when something good happened. It was a
different side to Daniel that I didn’t usually get to see; he was rough, mean, and
competitive; but that’s how captains are supposed to be in a contact sport. After
they won their game and cleaned up in the showers, Daniel came to find me. He
asked me if I would go somewhere special with him the following night and of
course, I said yes.
He picked me up at seven o’clock sharp and we took a drive up the nearby
mountains. As we parked at a lookout near the peak, the sun was about to start
setting. The colors in the sky were beautiful, but made even more so by the storm
clouds beginning to roll in. With the storm nearing, there were great purples made
across the sky, mixed in with the pinks and oranges. As the sun was setting, Daniel
looked over at me and said, “Audrina, I love you”. It was absolutely perfect for how I
imagined my first time to be. I knew I loved Daniel and even if we weren’t going to
last forever, I loved him and he loved me right now, in this moment and that’s all
that mattered.
The storm hit full force shortly after and Daniel asked if I minded driving us
home; he was having trouble seeing with his contacts acting up and the rain was
really pouring down hard. I switched seats with him and began our slow decent,
back down the mountain. The wipers were on high speed, I was creeping around
the twists and turns, but none of that did any good, when we suddenly spun and
were off the road…
XANDER
She looks so miserable. She never talks to anyone anymore, she just sits at an
empty table at lunchtime, and Alec says he’s heard her screaming at night from
nightmares. I wish there was something I could do to help her, but I just don’t know
what there is to be done. I lost one of my best friends, but she lost her boyfriend. I
know that even though it was an accident, she hasn’t forgiven herself for it. I’m just
going to go up and talk to her, see how she’s doing.
“Hi Audrina, how are you doing today?”
She doesn’t answer me; all she does is look up from the table and stare blankly into
my eyes. I see the deep purple circles around her eyes, a lot of red inside her eyes
too. It looks like she hasn’t slept in over a week. I try again,
“Well, if you ever need anything or want to talk, I’ll be here for you”.
I go home later that day and get a call from Alec.
“What did you say to Audrina today? She left school right after lunch really
upset”.
I hadn’t said anything to her, as far as I could remember, I asked how she was doing
and to let me know if she wanted to talk. I told this to Alec and he apologized for
jumping down my throat. He continued to tell me about how bad he feels that he
can’t cheer her up. Every night he wakes up to hear her screaming in her room next
to his, but when he goes in to calm her down, she is still asleep. I guess they don’t
know if it’s just nightmares from the trauma of losing Daniel or if it’s night terrors
and she is living the accident over and over again. Sometimes Alec can wake her up
and get her to calm down. Other nights, she just stays asleep crying, screaming, and
sobbing.
A week later, Audrina surprised me by saying “hello” to me in class. This was
a huge thing because she hasn’t talked to anyone since that night. I went and sat
down at her empty table the next day at lunch and waited for her. When she spotted
me sitting there, she came over and sat down; she even had a little half smile on her
lips.
As she walked up to the table I said, “Hey Audrina. How have you been doing lately?”
While she was sitting down she replied, “I’m fine”. I wasn’t sure that she was telling
me the truth, so I continued, “Ya, I can tell. Are you still having those nightmares?”
She said, “No. I’ve slept every night this past week”. I could tell she was lying because
her stepbrother had told me the truth already and Audrina kept looking at the table
instead of at me. I kept on her, “Really? Then why did Alec tell me again that he had to
wake you up from a nightmare in the middle of the night because you wouldn’t stop
screaming? Audrina did not respond to that. I continued, “Look, Audrina, I care about
you and I’m really trying to help you out here. But, I can’t help you if you won’t even be
honest with me”. All of a sudden, Audrina snapped; “I never asked for your help
Xander! I don’t want your help and I don’t need your help!” Audrina then began to sob. I
grabbed her and pulled her close to me. I told her it was okay and that I was sorry for
pushing.
I didn’t know what to say next, but she just stayed there in my arms with her head
turned into my neck and shoulder. We sat there for a while, until she stopped crying and
I apologized again for being hard on her. I know that she is still adjusting, but it’s been
almost two months and she isn’t moving past what happened. I feel even worse because
each time I remember back to her first day here, I think about how beautiful she looked
standing at her locker and I asked Alec and Daniel who the new girl was. That is when
Alec told us that the new girl was also his new stepsister, Audrina. As soon as we got
close enough Daniel started chatting her up, staking a claim in his new “girl of interest”.
I backed off because he had the guts to talk to her first when I didn’t, but now that he’s
gone I feel even worse when my feelings are still there for my dead best friend’s
girlfriend.
Things seemed to be improving a little bit with Audrina. She was at least talking
to Alec and me now. But, something still didn’t seem right; weeks went by and Audrina
and I kept getting closer, but there were certain things I couldn’t say to her without her
getting quiet and sad. I had doubts that she was moving past Daniel and the accident at
all, so I decided to do some detective work while Alec took her out of the house. When
Alec texted me that the house was all clear I headed inside and I went up the stairs to the
level where the bedrooms are. I’m not one hundred percent sure which bedroom is
Audrina’s so I start looking into every room. I can eliminate Alec’s room, since we’ve
spent countless hours hanging out in there. As I am coming closer to the end of the hall, I
see a sliver through the cracked door, of a room with purple in it. As I walk in, I go over
to her dresser to look for pictures of her and Daniel. No luck. I continue to her desk,
looking for pictures or any other evidence of Daniel still being the main part of Audrina’s
life. Nothing is out and showing of the two of them together, but then I begin to open the
drawers of her desk. Drawer by drawer I find no items that I have come to find, until I
open the bottom desk drawer. There it is, all of their pictures, old movie tickets; she kept
everything they ever did together…
Clearly Alec couldn’t keep her occupied any longer because I heard his car pull
up and two doors slam shut. “Shit! I gotta get out of here”. As I begin to gather all of the
things I found of Audrina and Daniel together, I hear the front door open and someone
start up the staircase.
“Audrina would you please just wait a minute and come talk to me?” Alec was
pleading with her.
I am still in her room and trying to shut all of the drawers that I had opened, but there are
still half of her pictures sprawled across her bed. I rush over to get them, when I catch
Audrina standing in her doorway. Busted…
“Audrina, I’m sorry I didn’t think you would be home so soon”, I begin
explaining to her. I can see how confused she is at the sight of me in her bedroom; as she
looks to her bed, I see the recognition in her eyes about what I was really doing here. I try
to explain further, “Look. I know I shouldn’t have gone through your things, but I really
needed to know if you were getting over Daniel and the accident at all”. Audrina is still
speechless and walks over and sits down on her bed, looking at all of the things I found.
“I know it must be hard for you to even think about forgetting everything that has
happened to you, but you’re never going to get better if you don’t move on from what has
happened”, I explain to her. I see tears start to roll down her cheeks and feel even worse
than I did before. “I know that you loved him and I’m not telling you to forget about him,
but you need to let someone else into your heart one of these days. Daniel wouldn’t want
you to mourn over him forever, would he?”
AUDRINA
Everything Xander was saying to me just kept building inside. The next thing I
knew, I was blurting out, “I can’t get over him and move past him when I still see him
everywhere I go!” I saw the shock and confusion on Xander’s face, only made clear
when he asked, “What do you mean you see him? Like everything reminds you about
him?” I wanted to say yes, but he can see right through my lies. “No”, I said, “I mean
like, I think I’m seeing his ghost”. Xander starts walking towards me and says, “Audrina,
that’s impossible. You can’t be seeing his ghost. Ghosts aren’t real”. Defensively I yell,
“Yes it is possible. The accident was my fault. It’s my fault Daniel died!” Xander is just
shaking his head, clearly unable to believe what I am telling him; “No, no. This isn’t
possible. I’m out of here. I’m sorry. I just need to think about this. I’m really sorry”. And
with that, Xander walked out my door, leaving me there, feeling like I was crazy.
A week later I find out how big of a mouth Xander has! He told my stepbrother
about what I told him and of course now my mom knows, so now I have to go see a
psychologist. This lady thinks I should write a letter to Daniel, expressing all of my
feelings and get out what I can’t say out loud to people. Apparently, I’m not supposed to
be blaming myself for his death, even though I was the one driving the car when he died.
I guess I’ll try writing this stupid letter anyways. Here goes nothing:
Dear Daniel,
I don’t know why I am even writing you this letter, it’s not like you
will ever get to read it. But, I need to say how sorry I am about the
night of the storm. I shouldn’t have been driving when I could
barely see the nose of the car. I am so sorry that I lost control that
night and even more sorry, everyday, that you were the one to pay
the price for my mistake. I see you all the time. I don’t know if that
is my karmic punishment or if I’m just going crazy. I am truly sorry
and I don’t know how or when I should move on with my life. You
don’t get to live yours because of me, so how is it right for me to just
continue high school and college and dating? I will always love you
Daniel.
Forever yours,
Audrina
I felt that I needed to have someone else read my letter, to make it feel like I truly
got my feelings and thoughts out there. I decided to give it to Xander, to read. I chose
Xander because he was one of Daniel’s best friends and he has been a great friend to me
over the last couple of months. I also feel like there is something starting to happen
between Xander and me, but I’m afraid to go there yet, I don’t know if it’s too soon.
Maybe him reading the letter will give him a better understanding of why I’m hesitant
and he can either run or stay with me and continue to help me. Slowly I know my
feelings will continue to grow for him, I just hope he sticks by me long enough for us to
become something more than friends.
Poetry
Life Under the Sea
Sea creatures Swimming about,
Mermaids play Under the rocks.
A ship sails by
Atop the waves above. The fish scurry
So not to be caught.
Crabs, lobsters, Dolphins and whales.
All are here, and all are living In life under the sea.
Fall has arrived Fall has arrived. The parks are filled with color. A young girl and her mother Are taking a walk. The little girl plays in the leaves. Her mother sees the joy In her baby’s smile. Everything so vibrant: The reds, the oranges, and the yellows. The trees always look beautiful This time of year. All of life’s problems seem to disappear When your shoes crunch on the fallen leaves. Any stress or worries melt away The minute you smell fall in the air. This is my favorite time of year. When the world changes in color And your perspective changes along with it. You can always tell, When fall has arrived.
A Saturday Afternoon I am flung through the air. I twist. I turn. She doesn’t even care When I hit the mitt, I burn. Not very often Does the bat hit me. Although, it may soften The laces that are on me. I soar over the fence, She knocked me out of the park. I hope these trees aren’t too dense; Soon it will be dark. A little boy runs to find me. He succeeds at his duty. He runs to show his mommy And turn me in for a piece of candy.
I hate
I hate my skin.
I think it’s too pale and full of freckles. I hate when it burns in the sun.
I hate my nose.
I don’t like how it comes down in a straight line. I hate how it looks like a triangle.
I hate my thighs.
I can’t ever find jeans to fit over them. I hate feeling them rub together when I run.
I hate my love handles.
I feel them rolling over my jeans when I sit. I hate how they look when I wear a form-fitted top.
I hate when I criticize myself.
Every girl should feel beautiful, no matter how she looks. I hate that society makes girls feel they are not good enough.
The Storm (Villanelle) When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped I could tell that I was falling for you. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. You said you loved me, but that love has popped. That love was no more I knew it was true. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped The ship like my heart, floated away. Topped With the feeling, that I would soon be blue. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. It felt as if I was a fish that flopped. Not swimming in the sea and so I flew. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped The pictures of us that have now been cropped, Are in the ocean with the waves that blew. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. The hope of us being together hopped Right off the side of the ship with the crew. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped.
Another Time Around (original)
Here we go again: another new school in the middle of the year. At least this time
my parents let me finish the semester before moving us. It’s bad enough to move in
middle school to a whole new state where you have to meet all new people; but, it’s even
worse to move right at semester point, right in the middle of the year. I remember
thinking to myself: “Why? Why do we need to move again? My parents promised me and
my brother that we wouldn’t move again until we graduated high school!”
These conversations happened a lot when I was growing up. My family was
originally from Nevada, but both of my parents grew up in Northwest Indiana, so that’s
where most of our family still was. When I was a toddler, we started making our way
back to Indiana. We even bounced back and forth between Indiana and Illinois a bit. I
have memories of living in Munster, Indiana when I was about 4; then we moved to Elk
Grove Village, Illinois, which is a suburb outside of Chicago. Prior to these places, I am
told that we lived in Palatine, Illinois (where my parents actually met) and Itasca, Illinois.
After bumping around a few different neighborhoods in Elk Grove Village, my parents
relocated us again further away from the city; they said the property taxes where just
getting too high where we lived, so this next move was an hour and a half away to Lake
in the Hills, Illinois.
Lake in the Hills was a great place to really grow up; it was a growing little town,
mostly made up of farms. However, our neighborhood was just being developed and
most of the other people on our block all had young kids, such as my brother and myself.
I’ll never forget the first time I met the Rude family; the two boys, Santo and Karl, were
walking down the street when my brother and I were outside playing (keeping out of our
parents’ hair). Santo was a few years older than me and Karl was a few years younger
than my brother, Patrick. We all started playing the game 4-square when his mom pulled
up in their minivan. The back door opened and out jumped a girl only one year older
than me! I was so excited to see that there was another girl in the neighborhood because
all I had seen so far were boys. Kayte and I became best friends and spent all of our time
together for the next five or six years. We had also met three other girls our age down the
street further; they had actually lived there a few years because that section of the
subdivision was already developed. The five of us were best friends and it all came to an
end when my parents sat me down to tell me that one of my friends dad’s had sold our
house for my parents. I didn’t even know it was on the market!
I later found out that Mr. Boesche was such a great realtor that he only had the
house on the market for two weeks before he had an acceptable offer. The downside was
that the people moving in wanted to be in before the New Year, only thirty days away.
My parents quickly found a house in Crown Point, Indiana, where my mom’s family still
lived. It is also only forty minutes from where half of my dad’s family lives, in Munster.
Since the semester ended two weeks after the New Year, I stayed with my friend Shelby
and the Boesche family to finish out the semester. Then came another time around.
It wasn’t that Crown Point was a bad place or anything; I just was really tired of
moving around all the time. Never really growing up in any one place, as a kid is hard. I
don’t know where I come from and I don’t have a “hometown”. These things always
seemed important to me when someone would ask where I was from and such. However,
Crown Point turned out to be pretty incredible. I made so many more close friends than I
ever had before and I was able to spend half of middle school and ALL of high school in
the same place. If I had never moved to Crown Point, Indiana, I never would have met
my best friends: Ashley, Tori, and Kaitlyn. I never would have been as close with my
aunt, uncle, three little cousins, and my grandparents. But most of all, I never would
have met my boyfriend Steven, who I have been best friends with since freshmen year
and have been in love with since Junior year of high school. We are still together, going
on four years, and will be high school and college sweethearts. Another time around isn’t
always the worst thing.
When Tragedy Strikes (original)
AUDRINA
Okay, so when my mom got remarried I kind of figured that we would be
moving into her husband’s house and I would end up switching schools. I was
prepared for this, but I have only ever gone to all-‐girl schools and East High School is
a lot different than those schools. I am 16 years old, a sophomore in high school,
and have never had a boyfriend. Needless to say, I was a little nervous walking into
school on my first day. One good thing from my mom’s marriage is that I now have a
big brother who says he’s going to look out for me; this made me feel better as I was
looking around to find my locker bay.
When I finally found my way to my locker, I frantically started searching
through my backpack for the paper that had the combination to open it. “Relax
Audrina. Slow down and take a breath,” I said to myself. I get my locker open and
put my books in and as I turned to leave, I spot two of the cutest guys I had ever
seen. Who would happen to be leading them towards me; my new stepbrother Alec?
“Hey, Audrina. I wanted to introduce you to some of my friends. This is Daniel and
Xander. We all play on the lacrosse team together”. I was speechless; coming from
an all-‐girl school, I had never talked with boys before! I somehow managed to say,
“Hi, I’m Audrina. It’s nice to meet you both”. Daniel asked me what my schedule
looked like and wanted to see which teachers I had. I handed him my list of classes.
“Wow! We have three classes together and don’t worry, you seem to have a lot of the
cool teachers”.
Daniel insisted on walking me to our first class and I heard Alec say that “I
was in good hands” as Daniel and I headed in the opposite direction of him and
Xander. The day continued on in this fashion and the boys invited me to eat with
them at lunch. It felt so strange; at all my old schools I was only with girls, but on
my first day here I have made several guy friends and haven’t even really talked
with any of the girls. Actually, the only guy that didn’t seem to want to talk to me
was Alec’s friend Xander, who I met earlier that morning. He would glance up at me
during the two classes we had with each other and I noticed him do it again
throughout lunch. But not once did he talk to me.
Weeks went by and Daniel began taking me out to movies and dinner, or
even just to hang out with other friends from lacrosse. I was starting to feel
something that I had never experienced before. I was falling in love for the first
time. Daniel was sweet and kind, strong and athletic, and he was handsome. Our
relationship grew more and more intense within that next month. One day at
school, he asked me to wear his lacrosse jersey to the game that night. He knew I
wasn’t all that interested in school spirit and whatever, I had never watched
lacrosse before; but he asked me to go and watch his first game of his last season…
Of course I was going to cheer him on and wear his jersey.
At the game, I sat with my mom and new stepdad, who were there to cheer
on Alec. I had no clue as to how lacrosse worked, but I followed along when the
announcer would say Daniel’s last name when something good happened. It was a
different side to Daniel that I didn’t usually get to see; he was rough, mean, and
competitive; but that’s how captains are supposed to be in a contact sport. After
they won their game and cleaned up in the showers, Daniel came to find me. He
asked me if I would go somewhere special with him the following night and of
course, I said yes.
He picked me up at seven o’clock sharp and we took a drive up the nearby
mountains. As we parked at a lookout near the peak, the sun was about to start
setting. The colors in the sky were beautiful, but made even more so by the storm
clouds beginning to roll in. With the storm nearing, there were great purples made
across the sky, mixed in with the pinks and oranges. As the sun was setting, Daniel
looked over at me and said, “Audrina, I love you”. It was absolutely perfect for how I
imagined my first time to be. I knew I loved Daniel and even if we weren’t going to
last forever, I loved him and he loved me right now, in this moment and that’s all
that mattered.
The storm hit full force shortly after and Daniel asked if I minded driving us
home; he was having trouble seeing with his contacts acting up and the rain was
really pouring down hard. I switched seats with him and began our slow decent,
back down the mountain. The wipers were on high speed, I was creeping around
the twists and turns, but none of that did any good, when we suddenly spun and
were off the road…
XANDER
She looks so miserable. She never talks to anyone anymore, she just sits at an
empty table at lunchtime, and Alec says he’s heard her screaming at night from
nightmares. I wish there was something I could do to help her, but I just don’t know
what there is to be done. I lost one of my best friends, but she lost her boyfriend. I
know that even though it was an accident, she hasn’t forgiven herself for it. I’m just
going to go up and talk to her, see how she’s doing. “Hi Audrina, how are you doing
today?” She doesn’t answer me; all she does is look up from the table and stare
blankly into my eyes. I see the deep purple circles around her eyes, a lot of red
inside her eyes too. It looks like she hasn’t slept in over a week. I try again, “Well, if
you ever need anything or want to talk, I’ll be here for you”.
I go home later that day and get a call from Alec. “What did you say to
Audrina today? She left school right after lunch really upset”. I hadn’t said anything
to her, as far as I could remember, I asked how she was doing and to let me know if
she wanted to talk. I told this to Alec and he apologized for jumping down my
throat. He continued to tell me about how bad he feels that he can’t cheer her up.
Every night he wakes up to hear her screaming in her room next to his, but when he
goes in to calm her down, she is still asleep. I guess they don’t know if it’s just
nightmares from the trauma of losing Daniel or if it’s night terrors and she is living
the accident over and over again. Sometimes Alec can wake her up and get her to
calm down. Other nights, she just stays asleep crying, screaming, and sobbing.
A week later, Audrina surprised me by saying “hello” to me in class. This was
a huge thing because she hasn’t talked to anyone since that night. I went and sat
down at her empty table the next day at lunch and waited for her. When she spotted
me sitting there, she came over and sat down; she even had a little half smile on her
lips.
Xander: Hey Audrina. How have you been doing lately?
Audrina: I’m fine.
Xander: Ya, I can tell. Are you still having those nightmares?
Audrina: (Lying) No. I’ve slept every night this past week.
Xander: Really? Then why did Alec tell me again that he had to wake you up from a
nightmare in the middle of the night because you wouldn’t stop screaming?
Audrina: (No reply)
Xander: Look, Audrina, I care about you and I’m really trying to help you out here. But, I
can’t help you if you won’t even be honest with me.
Audrina: I never asked for your help Xander! I don’t want your help and I don’t need
your help! (Begins sobbing)
Xander: (Grabs Audrina) Hey, Hey. Shh. It’s ok, it’s ok.
I didn’t know what to say next, but she just stayed there in my arms with her head
turned into my neck and shoulder. We sat there for a while, until she stopped crying and
I apologized for being hard on her. I know that she is still adjusting, but it’s been almost
two months and she isn’t moving past what happened. I feel even worse because each
time I remember back to her first day here, I think about how beautiful she looked
standing at her locker and I asked Alec and Daniel who the new girl was. That is when
Alec told us that the new girl was also his new stepsister, Audrina. As soon as we got
close enough Daniel started chatting her up, staking a claim in his new “girl of interest”.
I backed off because he had the guts to talk to her first when I didn’t, but now that he’s
gone I feel even worse when my feelings are still there for my dead best friend’s
girlfriend.
Things seemed to be improving a little bit with Audrina. She was at least talking
to Alec and me now. But, something still didn’t seem right; weeks went by and Audrina
and I kept getting closer, but there were certain things I couldn’t say to her without her
getting quiet and sad. I had doubts that she was moving past Daniel and the accident at
all, so I decided to do some detective work while Alec took her out of the house. When
Alec texted me that the house was all clear I headed inside and I went up the stairs to the
level where the bedrooms are. I’m not one hundred percent sure which bedroom is
Audrina’s so I start looking into every room. I can eliminate Alec’s room, since we’ve
spent countless hours hanging out in there. As I am coming closer to the end of the hall, I
see a sliver through the cracked door, of a room with purple in it. As I walk in, I go over
to her dresser to look for pictures of her and Daniel. No luck. I continue to her desk,
looking for pictures or any other evidence of Daniel still being the main part of Audrina’s
life. Nothing is out and showing of the two of them together, but then I begin to open the
drawers of her desk. Drawer by drawer I find no items that I have come to find, until I
open the bottom desk drawer. There it is, all of their pictures, old movie tickets; she kept
everything they ever did together…
Clearly Alec couldn’t keep her occupied any longer because I hear his car pull up
and two doors slam shut. “Shit! I gotta get out of here”. Too late.
Xander: Audrina, I’m sorry I didn’t think you would be home so soon.
Audrina: (Very confused. Angry that Xander is in her room looking through her things)
Xander: Look. I know I shouldn’t have gone through your things, but I really needed to
know if you were getting over Daniel and the accident at all.
Audrina: (Still speechless, she sits on her bed and just stares at all the pictures and
tickets that Xander had found)
Xander: I know it must be hard for you to even think about forgetting everything that has
happened to you, but you’re never going to get better if you don’t move on from what has
happened.
Audrina: (Tears start to roll down her cheeks)
Xander: I know that you loved him and I’m not telling you to forget about him, but you
need to let someone else into your heart one of these days. Daniel wouldn’t want you to
mourn over him forever, would he?”
AUDRINA
Audrina: I can’t get over him and move past him when I still see him everywhere I go!
Xander: What do you mean you see him? Like everything reminds you about him?
Audrina: No. I mean, I think I’m seeing his ghost…
Xander: (Walking towards her) Audrina, that’s impossible. You can’t be seeing his ghost.
Ghosts aren’t real.
Audrina: Yes it is possible. The accident was my fault. It’s my fault Daniel died!
Xander: (Can’t believe what he is hearing) No, no. This isn’t possible. (Walking towards
the door to leave) I’m out of here. I’m sorry. I just need to think about this. I’m really
sorry.
Audrina: (Starts crying again (Speaking to herself)) Damn, no one will ever believe me
about this!!!
Xander has such a big mouth! He told my stepbrother about what I told him and
of course now my mom knows, so now I have to go see a psychologist. This lady thinks
I should write a letter to Daniel, expressing all of my feelings and get out what I can’t say
out loud to people. Apparently, I’m not supposed to be blaming myself for his death,
even though I was the one driving the car when he died. I guess I’ll try writing this
stupid letter anyways. Here goes nothing:
Dear Daniel,
I don’t know why I am even writing you this letter, it’s not like you
will ever get to read it. But, I need to say how sorry I am about the
night of the storm. I shouldn’t have been driving when I could
barely see the nose of the car. I am so sorry that I lost control that
night and even more sorry, everyday, that you were the one to pay
the price for my mistake. I see you all the time. I don’t know if that
is my karmic punishment or if I’m just going crazy. I am truly sorry
and I don’t know how or when I should move on with my life. You
don’t get to live yours because of me, so how is it right for me to just
continue high school and college and dating? I will always love you
Daniel.
Forever yours,
Audrina
I felt that I needed to have someone else read my letter, to make it feel like I truly
got my feelings and thoughts out there. I decided to give it to Xander, to read. I chose
Xander because he was one of Daniel’s best friends and he has been a great friend to me
over the last couple of months. I also feel like there is something starting to happen
between Xander and me, but I’m afraid to go there yet, I don’t know if it’s too soon.
Maybe him reading the letter will give him a better understanding of why I’m hesitant
and he can either run or stay with me and continue to help me. Slowly I know my
feelings will continue to grow for him, I just hope he sticks by me long enough for us to
become something more than friends.
Poems (original)
Life Under the Sea Sea creatures Swimming about, Mermaids play Under the rocks. A ship sails by Atop the waves above. The fish scurry So not to be caught. Crabs, lobsters, Dolphins and whales. All are here, and all are living In life under the sea. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Fall has arrived Fall has arrived. The parks are filled with color. A young girl and her mother Are taking a walk. The little girl plays in the leaves. Her mother sees the joy In her baby’s smile. Everything so vibrant: The reds, the oranges, and the yellows. The trees always look beautiful This time of year. All of life’s problems seem to disappear When your shoes crunch on the fallen leaves. Any stress or worries melt away The minute you smell fall in the air. This is my favorite time of year. When the world changes in color And your perspective changes along with it. You can always tell, When fall has arrived. -‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐-‐
A Saturday Afternoon I am flung through the air. I twist. I turn. She doesn’t even care When I hit the mitt, I burn. Not very often Does the bat hit me. Although, it may soften The laces that are on me. I soar over the fence, She knocked me out of the park. I hope these trees aren’t too dense; Soon it will be dark. A little boy runs to find me. He succeeds at his duty. He runs to show his mommy And turn me in for a piece of candy. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I hate I hate my skin. I think it’s too pale and full of freckles. I hate when it burns in the sun. I hate my nose. I don’t like how it has no shape to it. I hate how it looks like a triangle. I hate my thighs. I can’t ever find jeans to fit over them. I hate feeling them rub together when I run. I hate my love handles. I feel them rolling over my jeans when I sit. I hate how they look when I wear a form-fitting top. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Storm (Villanelle) When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped I could tell that I was falling for you. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. You said you loved me, but that love has popped. That love was no more I knew it was true. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped The ship like my heart, floated away. Topped With the feeling, that I would soon be blue. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. It felt as if I was a fish that flopped. Not swimming in the sea and so I flew. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped The pictures of us that have now been cropped, Are in the ocean with the waves that blew. Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped. The hope of us being together hopped Right off the side of the ship with the crew. When I looked into your eyes my heart stopped Then came the storm that showed me I’d been dropped.
Revision Response for Creative Non Fiction
I never thought that my creative nonfiction essay would relate to so many other
classmates. It turns out that I wasn’t the only kid to move around a lot, during their
childhood. I used to think this was the case, but now I have learned that moving is a part
of life and it is something many people have to go through. I did find that my final essay
still looks a lot like my original essay. I believe that when I write a “first draft” of a
paper, I consciously know to make it as perfect as I can, that way my revision process is a
lot easier. After getting feedback from my peers, I have concluded that my strategy really
works for me.
I only had to change a few little things, here and there, during my revisions
because I had a solid base to my paper and story. As I mentioned before, I was really
taken back and surprised by how many other people had similar experiences to mine,
while growing up. It turns out that we all moved around at least one or two times during
a crucial part of our lives. This was not something that made me change parts of my
paper because, for the most part, people really related to my story and understood the
exact emotions I was going through from each move. I did have one suggestion to not
focus so much on the time I lived in Lake in the Hills, but I ignored the suggestion. I
ignored this suggestion because Lake in the Hills was my “record home”; I lived there for
5 ½ or 6 years and that was the longest time I had lived in one place. Therefore, I had the
most experiences and the most memories from my time spent living there. As for my
other responses to my story, people liked how I spent more time in that section because
they understood my connection and emotions to that specific home and town. This
confirmed my decision not to touch that part of my story.
I enjoyed how we had to read our stories out loud to our group, even though it
was embarrassing at times from personal memories. I enjoyed doing this because I don’t
normally read my stories and essays out loud to myself; I found word choice mistakes
when reading it to the group. Sometimes, something will sound good in your head or as
you are writing it, but when you say it out loud, it can be completely awkward or
confusing because of your word choice.
In the past, my revision process has usually remained the same. First, I review the
comments I have received and decide which suggestions I want to incorporate into my
paper. It is usually small, grammatical errors or questionable word choices. I usually
listen to others on their suggestions if they are better with grammar than I am. However,
I have been writing only research and scholarly papers for the last few years, so I have
found that my revision process could be different for creative writing. In creative
writing, others give their opinions on your work and there are emotions to consider into
your stories. This factor can change a revision majorly, if a few peer readers really don’t
like a section of a story. In that situation, I would probably go through and take that part
out and try a different approach. Thankfully, all of my peers that I received responses
and comments from, seemed to truly enjoy my story and could also relate personally to
my story.
Revision Response for Fiction
I had a lot of fun writing this fiction short story because it was bits and pieces of a larger
idea that I had for a story. Getting all of the feedback that I did get was helpful because it
showed me how different each individual could interpret the story. Also, different lessons
or ideas were taken away from my story depending on the individual’s experiences. For
example, one classmate wrote that the moral of the story was that life went on, but he
related to the story by the main character not wanting to move past something when
everyone is telling them to move on.
Everyone seemed to like my short story and the different narrators of the story.
Decided to do it a little differently because I wanted my narration to be in first person
throughout the entire story, but also have different character’s points of view. People
seemed to respond well to having the narrator’s name in bold before the next section
started because it was easy to follow along with. One thing that I had mixed responses
about was the way my dialog was written. At first, I didn’t know how to go back and
forth, constantly, between two characters talking; this is why I originally wrote my dialog
in the format of a screen write. However, one of my classmates, who had great dialog in
their story, gave me suggestions on how to just introduce who is speaking with simple
phrases or descriptive language. I took their advice and re-wrote my dialog in a different
set up.
As far as any other revisions, the only other thing that there was to work on was
making it easier for the readers to know how much time has past. There were two or
three sections/scenes in the story where I changed and added more events to show the
length of time, in order to help the readers follow along; but most importantly, to explain
why my main character is so distraught after the loss of her boyfriend.
Every time that I read my story out loud, I caught a few more typos and quickly
changed them on the spot. I normally do a better job at reading my story before I submit
it; however, I compiled a lot of journal sections from when we worked on characters and
plots, plus added quite a bit of new material, so I was more focused on making sure each
piece made sense and fit into place with the others. I think it would be very beneficial to
read my stories/work out loud every time that I write because that seems to be the best
way to catch little mistakes. A lot of my little mistakes are words that can make a
different word with the change of just one letter, so I need to look more closely for that
next time.
When I was making my decisions about what advice to take from peers
considering changes, I tried looking at their writing to see if what they were suggesting
was also in their writing and if it will make my story better or worse. As far as grammar,
I am pretty good on my own, so when people suggest something to change, I try to find if
they are even better at grammar than I am, or if they make those mistakes in their papers
and it would therefore be a mistake in my paper.
Overall, I really enjoy getting to work with multiple groups of people and getting
feedback from a larger number of classmates. It seems to be very helpful and I hope to
continue with these workshops.
Revision Response for Poems
Poetry was by far my most difficult section to write on; however, I think it was the most
difficult section for my peers to critique, as well. I say this because I received much of
the same comments from each group. My poems were easy to read and none really had a
“deeper meaning” behind the words of the poem. That is my poetry though, I am very
upfront with my words and I say what I mean and mean what I say.
The only thing that stuck out at me in my responses was someone recommending
on a “concluding” stanza in, I Hate, to maybe introduce a lesson. I did make this revision
to my poem because the previous stanzas were about body image of a girl and her being
to hard on herself. I decided to bring up society’s pressure on teenage girls to look a
certain way and how they will never truly be “good enough”. This poem had a deeper
meaning that was subtle because I was one of those teenage girls who was never enough
for anyone’s “standards”. I always find faults in my appearance, no matter what the scale
or mirror says.
As far as my other revisions that I made, I changed the forms and structures to a
few of the poems. I found that the short and sweet “children’s poems” seemed to look
better with a centered structure. I did not need to change my line breaks or stanza breaks,
so that was nice. I am just worried that some of my lines are obviously sentence
fragments; but with poetry I don’t know how to break up lines without having fragments.
I hope that how I have my lines broken up are technically correct in poetry.
Overall, I thought that my poetry process was very long, but well worth it. I have
been writing these poems since the semester started and some of them were from
exercises that we started in class. Although, I have to say that my villanelle poem, The
Storm, was the most challenging. Not only is the fixed form challenging to write in; but
also I did an extra challenge to make every line 10 syllables.
For the future, I really wish that I could become better at thinking of metaphors to
use in my writing. After reading some of my classmates’ poems, I couldn’t even tell
what their poems were truly about because they were using so many metaphors. Like I
was saying in class, I can find metaphors and decipher hidden meanings in poems and
lyrics, most of the time, but I have a very tough time thinking of my own in my head, for
my own writing. If I continued to write poetry, I would really like to write children’s
poems. I am not the best with rhyming, but I can make poems short, to the point, and
have a good lesson in there for them to learn. It was really fun to write these poems
because I have not worked on my poetry since I was in elementary school; always
making up poems and writing them in my “Poetry Binder”.