lessons from lily
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Lessons from Lily
I have had many pets in my life, but she was different… special.
It would be my 1st
Christmas as a single mother; I wanted it to be special. I had wanted a puppy for some time, so
the thought of a Christmas morning surprise for my 3 small children delighted
me.
On Christmas Eve I answered an ad in the newspaper. I walked through the gate and sat on the ground. One of the little balls of fur ran over to play with me, and I knew she was the one.
That night as we snuggled quietly on the sofa, I fell in love with her.
Morning came, and the children came down the stairs to a squirmy little puppy with a red bow around her neck. She
was like a Hallmark card in her little gold box under the tree. It was just as I had imagined as they ran to her
squealing and laughing – pure joy!
What would we name her?Lily Noel, they said, after a friend and it was Christmas after all.
Lily quickly became part of our family, and every day that passed it became clear that her heart’s desire was to please us. My 7 year old Michael had his tonsils out just a week later, and she was right by his side, not even squirming, as he wanted to cuddle. Even as a puppy, she seemed to know what we needed.
As she grew, she became my companion. We ran together each morning. She was there when we
needed a shoulder. She was there – always there.
I never thought about the fact that she wouldn’t be here forever. She aged so gracefully, but her health began to deteriorate. When she could barely walk, barely breathe, I knew the time had come to say goodbye.
The day arrived. I gathered her favorite blanket, my other doggie, (and her constant companion) Roxie, and we drove to the vet. They loved her there, always doting over her.
We spread the blanket out, and I lay down with her. Roxie lay with us too. The Dr. came in, and after we cried for a while, she gave Lily an anesthetic injection so she could relax and fall asleep. The doctor left us, saying it would take about ten minutes. I held her little head in my hand and rubbed her nose. I talked to her about the day she came into our lives and how much the kids loved her.
I reminded her of the naughty things that we later laughed about, like the time she chewed up my
linoleum floor…..
and the fact that she had barked
during our entire wedding
ceremony.
I told her how much joy she had brought into my life and how much I loved her. She began to get sleepy, her little eyes
drooping. Tears were dripping from my eyes onto her face. Right before she went to sleep, she licked my hand. I knew she
was saying goodbye and telling me it was ok – that it was time to go.
Even though I cried so hard, snot was
running out of my nose, I realized that her exit from my life
was every bit as special as her
entrance. She didn’t die alone. She didn’t die in pain. She died with me. And that’s how it was supposed
to be.
What We Learned
Now that she’s gone, I realize how much our family learned from her. These lessons will keep her memory alive forever.
Sometimes, bite off more than you can chew
Over time, you might find that you can actually chew it.
Hug those special to you
And then hug some more.
Rest
Keep your cool when things get heated
You’ll gain respect.
Go ahead and get wet….
Your fur will eventually dry!
Don’t forget to enjoy the leaves first…
Before you rake them all up.
Sometimes…say nothing
Silence can be Golden
Love your family
Be patient with others.
They may not be as mature as you are.
And finally: Always, always continue to learn and grow.
You can teach an old dog new tricks!
Feel free to forward. Lily would be honored
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