jesus’ love language

JESUS’ LOVE LANGUAGEJESUS’ LOVE LANGUAGE

“If you love me you will obey

my commandments

”John 14:15


“Whoever has my commands

and obey them, he is the one

who loves Me.”John 14:21


“If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching.”John 14:23


“He who does not love me will

not obey my teaching.”

John 14:224


WHAT IS HIS MAIN LOVE LANGUAGE

OBEDIENCE IS BETTEROBEDIENCE IS BETTER

1st Samuel 15:13-23

1st SAMUEL 151st SAMUEL 15

13.When Samuel came to him, Saul said, “May the Lord bless you. I have carried out the Lord’s instructions.”

14 Samuel replied, “Then what is this sound of sheep and cattle I hear?”

15 Saul answered, “The troops brought them from the Amalekites and spared the best sheep and cattle in order to offer a sacrifice to the Lord your God, but the rest we destroyed.”

16 “Stop!” exclaimed Samuel. “Let me tell you what the Lord said to me last night.” “Tell me,” he replied.

17.Samuel continued, “Although you once considered yourself unimportant, have you not become the leader of the tribes of Israel? The Lord anointed you king over Israel

18 and then sent you on a mission and said: ‘Go and completely destroy the sinful Amalekites. Fight against them until you have annihilated them.’

19 So why didn’t you obey the Lord? Why did you rush on the plunder and do what was evil in the Lord’s sight?”

20 “But I did obey the Lord!” Saul answered. “I went on the mission the Lord gave me: I brought back Agag,

king of Amalek, and I completely destroyed the Amalekites.

21.The troops took sheep and cattle from the plunder—the best of what was set apart for destruction—to sacrifice to the Lord your God at Gilgal.”

22 Then Samuel said: Does the Lord take pleasure in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the Lord? Look: to obey is better than sacrifice, to pay attention is better than the fat of rams.

23 For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and defiance is like wickedness and idolatry.

Trusting Christ for Salvation is the First Step of Obedience

• Romans 1:5; 16:26 “…The obedience of faith…”

• Acts 6:7 “So the preaching about God flourished, the number of the disciples in Jerusalem multiplied greatly, and a large group of priests became obedient to the faith.”

• 2nd Thessalonians 1:8 Christ will return, “taking vengeance with flaming fire on those who don’t know God and on those who don’t obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus.”

The Test of Obedience

• 1st John 5:2 “This is how we know that we love God’s children when we love God and obey His commands.”

• John 14:21 “The one who has My commands and keeps them is the one who loves Me.”

The Blessings of Obedience

• Isaiah 1:19 “If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the good things of the land.”

• John 15:10 “If you keep My commands you will remain in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commands and remain in His love.”

Obedience is Essential to Genuine Love

• 1st Peter 1:22 “By obedience to the truth, having purified yourselves for sincere love of the brothers, love one another earnestly from a pure heart”

Trying Substitutes for Obedience

Saying “I am Obeying” Instead of Obeying

• Vs. 13 “When Samuel came to him, Saul said, “May the Lord bless you. I have carried out the Lord’s instructions.”

• Vs. 14 “Samuel replied, ‘Then what is this sound of sheep and cattle I hear?’”

Rationalizing What We Want Instead of Respecting God’s Right to Make Demands

on Our Lives

• Vs. 15 “Saul answered, ‘The troops brought them from the Amalekites and spared the best sheep and cattle in order to offer a sacrifice to the Lord your God, but the rest we destroyed.’”

“Fuzzying Up” What God Has Made Clear

• Vs. 17-19 “The Lord… sent you on a mission and said: ‘Go and completely destroy the sinful Amalekites. Fight against them until you have annihilated them.’ So why didn’t you obey the Lord?”

Trying to Save Face Instead of

Repenting

• Vs. 30 “Saul said, ‘I have sinned. Please honor me now before the elders of my people and before Israel. Come back with me so I can bow and worship the Lord your God.’”

There is No Substitute For Obedience

• Vs. 21 Saul: “The troops took sheep and cattle from the plunder—the best of what was set apart for destruction—to sacrifice to the Lord your God at Gilgal.”

• Vs. 22 Samuel: “Then Samuel said: ‘Does the Lord take pleasure in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the Lord? Look: to obey is better than sacrifice, to pay attention is better’”

The Seriousness of Disobedience

• Vs. 12 “Early in the morning Samuel got up to confront Saul, but it was reported to Samuel, “Saul went to Carmel where he set up a monument for himself. Then he turned around and went down to Gilgal.”

Disobedience Flows Out of Self-Centeredness

Rebellion is Like Witchcraft

• Vs. 23 “For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and defiance is like wickedness and idolatry.”

• In Degree - “Rebellion is as bad as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as bad as worshiping idols.”

• In Kind – Isaiah 8:19 “When they say to you, ‘Consult the spirits of the dead and the spiritists who chirp and mutter,’ shouldn’t a people consult their God? Should they consult the dead on behalf of the living?”

You’re Going to Obey One Way or the Other

16. Do you not know that if you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of that one you obey—either of sin leading to death or of obedience leading to righteousness?

17. But thank God that, although you used to be slaves of sin, you obeyed from the heart that pattern of teaching you were entrusted to,

18. and having been liberated from sin, you became enslaved to righteousness.

Romans 6:16-18

Sons of Obedience 13Therefore, prepare your minds for

action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. 14As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. 15But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; 16for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."(1 Peter 1:13-15)

Sons of Disobedience 1As for you, you were dead in your

transgressions and sins, 2in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature[a] and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath. (Eph.2:1-3)

OBEDIENCE IS BETTER

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