intimacy workshop
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Intimacy Workshop . Part 3: Questions and Answers. Questions. A Taste of Olam Habah. Shabbos Oneg climax Relations on shabbos. Intimacy . Separate from sexuality Love languages (Gary Chapman) Acts of service Physical touch Words of appreciation Gifts Quality time - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
PA RT 3 : Q U E S T I O N S A N D A N S W E R S
INTIMACY WORKSHOP
QUESTIONS
A TASTE OF OLAM HABAH
•Shabbos•Oneg •climax •Relations on shabbos
INTIMACY
• Separate from sexuality
Love languages (Gary Chapman)• Acts of service• Physical touch• Words of appreciation• Gifts• Quality time• http://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/
HITCHADSHUT
• Our first mitzvah as a nation (Shemot 12:2)
• Pregnancy• Post-partum/Nursing• Exhausted• Distant• Angry/Resentful• Peri-menapausal • ED• Depression• Diabetes/high blood pressure/obesity/pain
THIS TOO SHALL PASS
MITZVAH ONAH
• Onah
• Answer
• Responsibility
• Moredes/t?
PRIORITIZE
• Mitzvat onah
• It’s a mitzvah!
• Time• Money• Effort• Thought • Planning
PREPARATION
•Shabbat and Intimacy1. Clear schedule: Set aside the time 2. Procure supplies: Whatever you don’t have
that you will need or want to make the experience how you want it to be
3. Prepare environment: clean, pretty, inviting4. Create mood: flowers, candles, wine, words
PREPARATION 2
• Hachana l’mitzvah
• Flirting• Tenderness• Appreciation • Notes • Cooking• Cleaning• Disconnect to connect • Using technology
LEARN MORE
• Communication• Self• Partner•Options
Shared goals!
WOMEN
HELP
• Ricky’s Drug Store in NY• lubricants• awomanstouch.com• DodsonandRoss.com (be careful!!!)• Riteaid.com• Sexual well-being
STARTING POINT
MORE QUESTIONS
REVIEW
• Vital• Mitzvah • Barometer and fountain• Kedushah• A taste of olam habah• Learn more together• Preparation is a good investment• It’s okay to be who you are• You can (and will need to) make yourself new
HATZLACHA RABBAH!!!