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6 Trends: Vintage in Vogue

10 Ask the expertBRIDE ETIQUETTE

12 6 bridesmaid gifts that won’t break the bank

14 Quiz: What is your wedding day style?

16 The Gown: Backs are back

20 Hair/Makeup Prep

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24 Album of local photographers

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36 Featured honeymoon

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� Set a date� Prepare a budget� Determine the time and place of the

wedding and reception� Draw up a guest list� Choose members of the wedding party� Buy a wedding gown� Shop for bridesmaids’ dresses� Interview photographers, videographers,

� orists, musicians, caterers and bakers

� Shop for wedding invitations� Decide on attire for groom and

groomsmen� Start planning honeymoon� Decide on � orist, caterer, bakery,

photographer, videographer and entertainment

� Register with a bridal gift registry� Reserve rehearsal dinner loction� Arrange accommodations for out-of-

town attendants and book a block of rooms for other out-of-town guests

� Select a wedding ring for the groom

� Address invitations� Meet with caterer� Firm up honeymoon plans� Shop for attendant’s gifts� Make appointment with a hairstylist

� Mail wedding invitations� Meet with musicians� Get together documents for

marriage license

� Set time for wedding rehearsal� Get marriage license� Have a � nal gown � tting� Keep track of invitation responses� Give caterer solid estimate of

number of guests� Draw up a seating arrangement for

rehearsal dinner and reception and make place cards

� Make name and address changes on bank accounts, credit cards, driver’s license, etc.

� Make � nal checks with of� ciant, � orist, caterer, photographer, videographer, bakery, musicians, etc.

� Pamper yourself� Rehearse ceremony with wedding party� Get a good night’s sleep

Make sure you’ve got a l l the major wedding day elements covered with our at-a-g lance check l ist

THE ESSENTIAL

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Hemphill, a special events consultant and owner of The Perfect Plan and Party Perfect in Lancaster, has done her share of rustic, or vintage, weddings.“In this area, with all the new venues,

the barns, the vintage is still very big,” she says.It might mean brides in cowboy boots,

attendants in denim, or mason jars, lots of mason jars — holding � oral center-

pieces, drinks or homemade jam given as wedding favors.But there are signs that the trend could

be fading a bit, like a favorite pair of jeans — or at least changing course, says Melissa Martin, a professional wedding planner and owner of Stylish Occasions Wedding and Event Planning in Lancaster.

“It’s turning more elegant than it was last year,” Martin says, noting that the country theme is still popular, but with more lace, chandeliers and candles inmercury glass.“Mason jars lasted a long time, but

they’re � nally going away,” says Martin.Couples are still going for barn venues,

but more upscale and less rustic, Martin says. Hotel ballrooms? Not so much.

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Barn venues are still popular, although the trend is toward more upscale and less rustic.

Bouquets with a more natural, fresh-picked look are rivaling the traditional, more formal variety.

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THE ESSENTIAL

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� Set wedding date� Draw up a guest list

� Ask family/friends to be in the wedding� Decide on wedding attire� Start planning the honeymoon

� Select wedding ring for the bride� Reserve site for rehearsal dinner� Arrange accommodations for

attendants� Help bride with bridal registry

selections� Shop for attendant’s gifts� Apply for passports if needed for

honeymoon

� Firm up honeymoon plans, � nal payments

� Be sure to have all blood tests & paperwork needed for obtaining marriage license

� Make necessary changes to insurance

� Apply for marriage license� Give wedding party, close friends &

family all information regarding rehearsal/rehearsal dinner

� Give restaurant or caterer � rm num-ber for rehersal dinner attendees

� Double check honeymoon plans� Begin packing for honeymoon� Attend your bachelor’s dinner

� Rehearse your ceremony with bridal party & enjoy rehearsal dinner

� Bring the marriage license to be signed

� Give your best man the of� ciant’s check to handle

� Remember to bring your bride’s ring� Arrive an hour before the ceremony� Have fun & congratulations


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Earrings of the same style for the women to wear at the wedding. Places like overstock.com or HSN.com are good places to hunt for them. They will look expensive but you can get many styles for $20.

Personalized rhinestone ip- ops for the bridesmaids to change into dur-ing the reception so that they are comfy while they dance.

Personalized toiletry bags � lled with samples of makeup or personalized wine glasses are nice and useful gifts.

Heart-shaped monogrammed compact mirrors or unique beaded bracelets.

Bridal etiquette

By Sheryl Trower, founder and president of The Etiquette School of Central Pennsylvania

Q. How do I � nd meaningful gifts for my bridesmaids without paying a fortune? I have six bridesmaids, and spending $50 on each is already $300!

A. As any bride can tell you, weddings can be expensive. One way to cut down cost is by giving your bridesmaids meaningful and thoughtful gifts without breaking the bank. It`s not about how much money you spent on the gift, but more about the sentiment behind it.

Q.I am having a hard time choosing my bridesmaids. I don’t want a huge bridal party, but how do I choose without leaving anyone out, or hurting feelings?

Questions to ask yourself:

1. Will I be close to this person in 5-10 years or is she the friend du jour? Am I just asking this person because she had me in her wedding 10 years ago? Is this person responsible?

2. Depending on how involved in your wedding planning you want your maids to be, distance may be a factor. Is this someone who lives nearby that can help address envelopes, plan showers, etc.?

3. It is a good idea to include siblings and sisters-in-law in order to keep harmony in the family, but the bottom line is re-ally who are the people that make you happy? Who do you want standing up at the altar with you?

Sometimes feelings can be hurt when someone is not asked to be an attendant. You may respond by telling them it was a tough decision but you had to leave out some very special people. Try to incorporate them into your wedding by assigning them different jobs, such as handing out programs, standing by the guest book, ushering guests, singing a hymn, playing an instrument or doing a reading.This is your day, so relax and enjoy it!

A. Take your time when you choose your bridesmaids. Once you ask someone, it`s impolite to renege on the offer. It`s better to wait about a month after your engagement be-fore making your � nal decisions.

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More and more couples planning to walk down the aisle are embracing save-the-date cards to give guests adequate notice that there is a party on the horizon.

Save-the-date cards do more than let guests know when you’re getting hitched. The cards are a preliminary way to keep guests informed and let them know they are, in fact, on the guest list. These cards haven’t always been so popular, but have risen in popularity due to longer engagement periods, a growing number of destination weddings and the growing number of couples with guests from all over the country, if not the world. Considering people often plan business trips, vacations and other excursions several months in advance, save-the-date cards help secure a greater number of attendees at your wedding.

Save-the-date announcements can vary in many ways. They may be postcards or magnets that can be attached to a refrigerator door. If you desire a cohesive theme to your wedding stationery, select the save-the-date cards at the same time you choose your

wedding invitations. This way you can ensure that either the patterns, fonts, colors, or style of the cards will match. It will also help convey the tone of the wedding. Guests often take their cues regarding the level of formality of the wedding from the type of stationery couples choose.

When to send the announcements is important as well. As a general rule of thumb, it is wise to mail out the cards six months in advance for a standard wedding. If the wedding requires travel or extended overnight accommodations, you may want to mail them out 8 months to a year in advance to give guests the time to investigate � ight costs and hotel arrangements. A wedding also may necessitate planning a vacation or personal time off from work. Ample advanced notice is advisable.

Be sure to make your guest list in advance of sending out save-the-date cards. Everyone who receives a card should also be sent an invitation prior to the wedding. Remember to include any members of your planned wedding party in the list of recipients. Just

because a person has verbally con� rmed attendance at your wedding doesn’t mean they should be excluded from subsequent announcements. Guests may talk to one another and it is best to avoid hurt feelings and any added drama before the wedding by treating everyone equally.

Be sure to include the wedding date, your names and the location of the wedding on the save-the-date cards. You do not need to offer RSVP information or detailed speci� cs at this time. You may want to include a Web site URL on the card so guests can check it frequently for updates on wedding information. Be sure to also include that a formal invitation will follow at a later date. You do not want to cause confusion by having guests think that the save-the-date card is the actual invitation. Also, make sure you address the save-the-date cards correctly to show your intentions with respect to guest invites. For example, be clear about whether children will be invited and whether a boyfriend/girlfriend or another guest can tag along.

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What is your wedding day style?

Here’s a fun quiz to help you determine what your wedding style might be, along with a few tips on how to plan a wedding that’s all you.

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If you answered mostly As, you are romantic and traditional. A storybook wedding with all the special touches is perfect for you. Plan a special wedding day with lots of lace and classic tuxes. Your �owers and bridesmaids dresses might be soft blush, pale pink, deep rose or a �oral mix of hues.A great wedding venue for you might be Cameron Estate in Mount Joy, Lancaster Country Club, The Hamilton Club or Cork Factory in Lancaster. Your wedding feast might be an elegant cocktail party with hors’ d’oeuvres or a classic sit-down dinner. And the wedding cake must be a work of art.

If you answered mostly Bs, you are relaxed and casual. You want a wedding day that you can share with family and friends in a setting that makes everyone feel comfortable. A pretty natural setting or a rustic barn wedding with special touches is a re�ection of your wedding style. Consider venues such as Landis Valley Museum in Lancaster, White Chimneys in Gap, the Farm at Eagles Ridge in Lancaster or Harvest View Barn in Mount Joy. Your color scheme might be refreshing and natural, with �owers in soft cream, yellows and lots of green. Consider a barbecue menu with farmhouse sides,with a wedding cake decorated with fresh picked �owers or a selection of cupcakes.

If you answered mostly Cs, you have an innovative and unique style. Your wedding attire will be out of the ordinary, maybe sleek and sophisticated, or something completely unexpected.As for colors, anything goes, from neon hues to berry reds and purples. You might like an ethnic menu, perhaps cuisine from India or Thailand. Choose a venue that is unusual, such as the Antique Automobile Museum in Hershey, Mulberry Art Studios in Lancaster, Mount Hope Winery, or maybe a destination wedding to a tropical island or a glitzy casino.

When you think of your wedding day, you think of:A. Fairytale romance and living happily

ever afterB. Sharing your special day with friends

and family in a relaxed settingC. Doing something completely

unexpected

Your favorite color is:A. Pink or pale blueB. Bright emerald greenC. Neon yellow

Your favorite date is:A. Romantic dinner for two and

a movieB. A long hike in the woodsC. Taking your chances in a casino

The proposal was:A. The most romantic moment of

your lifeB. Sweet and sentimental with

heartfelt emotionC. A complete surprise

Your favorite movie is:A. “Love Actually”B. “Silver Lining Playbook”C. “Gone Girl”

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relaxed and casual. Or romantic and elegant.

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Few things set the tone for a wedding ceremony and reception better than music. Music establishes ambience and serves to transition guests through the various components of the day.Music is played in various ways through-

out a wedding. For example, the wedding ceremony may be accompanied by a pianist or violinist, while music during the recep-tion is usually provided by a band or DJ.The decision of whether to hire a band or

deejay often comes down to personal pref-erence and budget. The following are some things couples should consider as they make their decision to go with a band or DJ.

BANDLive musicians spend years honing their

crafts, and watching a band play at a wedding reception can be akin to attending a concert.A live band can bring with it a sense of

sophistication. Performers can tone the music to the crowd and improvise if necessary to meet the needs of the room. A good bandleader also will serve as a

master of ceremonies at the reception.Many wedding bands can competently

play songs from various genres of music, while some are especially skilled at recreating the sound of a particular group.Bands tend to be more expensive than DJs,

and that’s something couples must factor into their budgets if they prefer a band to a DJ.

DJThe DJ is one of the rst vendors

people think of when they envision a wedding reception. Perhaps because they are less expensive, DJs tend to be more popular than bands among today’s couples.DJs are advantageous for various

reasons. Thanks to the accessibility of digi-tal music, DJs can often procure just about any song a couple desires for the reception. That’s a signi cant bene t for couples who want to hear the original versions of their favorite songs, and not a band’s take on those songs.DJs also can read the crowd and make

adjustments to the music at any time. If a

particular genre is not working, DJs can easily transition to another type of music to get guests back on their feet. That’s not always possible for bands whose repertoire is exclusive to a particular genre.Many DJ’s also blend songs seamlessly

and may incorporate lights and other effects into their performances, which can encourage guests to loosen up and hit the dance � oor.DJs also tend to travel with less

equipment than bands, so they will take up less space in a party room.No matter which road a couple chooses

to travel, it’s a good idea to listen to a DJ or band perform in a live situation before making a nal decision. Couples also should con rm that the performers they meet or audition will be the ones who will perform at their weddings. Make sure this is written into your contract.Couples should provide a list of songs

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he latest news in wedding gowns

requires a backward glance. Or rather a long look at luxurious lace, elegantly sheer high backs and see-through netting scattered with lacy appliqued blossoms.

“We call it tattoo lace,” says Janell Berte, bridal designer and owner of Posh in Lancaster. “It really has the effect of looking like the lace is tattooed right on the skin.”Berte, who has been a bridal

designer for more than 20 years, has out�tted glamorous brides across the country with her romantic gowns. For many years, her designs were featured at the former Doneckers of Ephrata. After that, Berte decided to open her own shop in Lancaster, and her designs are featured in four other bridal shops in Pittsburgh, Philadelphia, Washington, D.C. , and St. Louis.“I love a romantic, dreamy look

with layers of lace, tulle, Chantilly lace and point d’esprit,” says Berte, noting that about a quarter of the dresses in her Lancaster shop are exclusive Janell Berte designs. The rest are from three other exclusive designers that offer different looks.As Berte notes, there seem to be

two schools of thought when it comes to wedding gown preferences. Some brides want the fairy tale princess look, all soft and romantic, with layers of lace. Others prefer a sleek, streamlined look in body-hugging fabrics like chiffon, silk, georgette and crepe. The 1920s Gatsby version of this sophisticated look often has added touches, with intricate beading on a narrow close-to-the-body gown.

One of the biggest trends she has noticed is that backs are back. Brides love to show off a beautiful back view with either a very low cut back and a higher neckline in front, or else they have a back with intricate lace on netting to accent the back of the dress.

That makes a lot of sense, especially when you realize that many wedding guests spend quite some time looking at the bride’s back as she walks down the aisle and says her wedding vows.

Backs ARE Back

Fit-and-�� like this Palco design by Rosa Clara are replacing mermaid-style gowns in popularity. A sheer back with lace tattoos and a train with feathered lace edge make for a dramatic rear view.

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Here are some more bridal gown trends:

�� The strapless gown is gradually being replace with dresses that have straps and even some netting all the way up the neckline, Berte says. The style can still be sexy, but it has a more elegant look that offers better support for well-endowed brides.

�� “We are seeing more sleeves,” adds Shari Kendall of In White bridal shop in Lancaster.A vintage black and white photograph of Philadelphia’s own Princess Grace of Monaco graces the shop, with the regal bride wearing her high-neck, long-sleeved lace-embellished dress from 1956. Now, nearly 60 years later, sleeves are back in style. In White, the latest stylesinclude gowns with short-, long- and three-quarter-length sleeves. Sheer netting with lace gives the illusion of the “tat-toos” scattered on the sleeves, as well as on the neckline.



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FEWER MERMAIDSKendall has also noticed a move away from mermaid silhouettes. Instead of the very tightly �tted mermaid style that �ares out around lower thigh to knee-length, dresses tend to be �t-and-�air. Much of it has to do with ease of motion. “Brides want to be able to move freely, to dance and have fun at the reception. I think the mermaid style tends to be a little limiting in movement,” adds Kendall.

HAVING A BALLIn contrast, the big ball gown is still in favor among brides who want to look like ballerinas and princesses, all in white. Layers and layers of tulle might make it hard to sit down at the reception, but when it comes to dancing and making an impact, nothing quite compares to a ball gown.

WHITE OUTOne thing that seems clear in wedding dress colors is that white is out. Despite the name of the In White shop, it’s not white that captures the fancy of today’s bride. It’s ivory. Kendall explains that ivory is more �attering to most brides’ complexions, giving them a softer, more romantic look. Ivory also photographs better, with a warmer, richer image that has less glare. Most of the dresses at In White are ivory, cream or even soft pastels. “We are seeing sheer lace dresses with a gold or nude lining, or soft blush colors,” agrees Berte. “Some dresses even have glints of gold, especially the 1920s-style sheath dresses.” Soft grays and shimmers of silver are also turning heads in modern wedding looks.

NEW NECKLINEAnother up-and-coming trend is the draped neckline or shoulder, which was a big hit with the bridesmaid’s dress worn by Pippa Middleton, sister of Princess Kate, at the royal wedding several years ago, It’s a sophisticated look that is elegant and streamlined.

Sleeves in a variety of lengths are making a comeback. Here, Mary Wesolowski models Rosa Clara’s Penumbra, with beaded Chantilly lace bodice, Bateau neckline and three-quarter-length sleeves


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A bride’s gown may garner its share of attention come her wedding day, but oral arrangements also tend to impress guests. Fresh owers make a wedding and the ensuing reception more inviting and appealing.

According to The Knot.com, couples can expect to spend 8 percent of their wedding budget on owers. For the average wedding, that equates to roughly $2,000 for various arrangements and bouquets. That can be a considerable expense for fragile owers with a shelf life of only a day or two.

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Secure � owers in small bundles and hang in an out-of-the-way spot in a cool, dry area. The � owers may need to remain hanging for up to three weeks before they are completely dried out. After which, gently remove the � owers and arrange them in a vase or another container. Otherwise, reas-semble the bouquet how it was and carefully display.

PRESSINGPressing is another way to preserve

� oral bouquets and arrangements. To press � owers, � nd a few heavy books to stack or another weighted object. Place the � owers between parchment paper or waxed paper and lay the heavy items on top. You also can place the � owers in tissue paper between the pages of a book so they are not jostled.

Leave the blooms for a week or two and then check on them before putting them in a shadow box or photo frame.

CHEMICAL DRYINGSilica gel, borax and regular sand can

be used to dry and preserve � owers as well. These can be handy for people who desire to preserve an entire bouquet as-is.

Silica gel is a desiccant commonly found in small packets inside of new shoes and purses. It also can be purchased at home improvement retailers and is used to dry out musty basements and other areas.

Fill a deep container halfway with the silica gel or other drying material. Put in the bouquet and then gently add more product to the top of the � owers so they are completely submerged. Place a snug cover over the top of the container and let everything sit for about a week. Slowly the moisture will be absorbed from the � owers.

Some people choose to spray dried � owers with a sealant to keep them looking nice longer. An all-purpose craft spray might work. You also can ask for recommendations from the � orist who handled your arrangements, and that � orist may even preserve the � owers for you for an additional fee.

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PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.

“Have a practice run with your stylist,” says Al Segro, owner of Segro’s Lancaster Hairport. “You want to be sure you have a practice run before you commit to the style you’re going to wear on your wedding day.” The same goes for makeup, says Megan Kalbach, a Mary Kay beauty consultant in Lancaster. “You want to make sure that you like how the makeup actually looks on you,” she says. “Many times, brides �nd a picture that they fall in love with, but a lot of factors go into re-creating that look for herself.” Practicing your makeup also extends to photos, she says. “You want to con�rm that the makeup you are using photographs well,” she explains. “After practicing your wedding makeup, you want to take pictures of yourself both in indoor and outdoor lighting to make sure you like how it appears in photographs.”

Practice makes for a perfect wedding-day lookBY CATHY MOLITORISLNP CORRESPONDENT

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You want to look your best on your wedding day. You’ve got the dress, you’ve picked the right �owers to carry and now it’s time to focus on the rest of you — speci�cally, your hair and makeup. Use these tips from a local hair pro and makeup artist to make sure you look picture-perfect on your big day.


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“Go through wedding maga-zines and look for styles that you love,” says Segro, who has been styling hair for 26 years in his fourth-generation salon. “Or check out Pinterest. �� wedding hairstyles on Pinterest.” Bringing a picture of your dress can be helpful, Segro says. “Bring pictures of styles you like, and bring your makeup along so the stylist gets the whole picture,” he says. But don’t just rely on a friend who “wears a lot of makeup” to pick out your look, says Kalbach, who has been a makeup professional for �� professional help you select the look for your big day,” she says. “A friend generally will recreate the look and colors that are best for her, which may not be best for you.”

BE NATURAL.

“I try to strive to make you look like you, just polished,” Segro says. “You want to look timeless, not trendy. Fifteen years down the road when your daughter is looking at your wedding picture on your mantel, you don’t want her to say, ‘Mommy what is going on with your hair? It looks so stupid.’ “And even though you can go full glamour with makeup, it can still be done with a natural look, Kalbach says. “Don’t plaster it on,” she advises. “Remember, you want to look like YOU on your wedding day. If you wear full makeup on a regular basis �� makeup on a regular basis, I would do a full glamour look but stay away from very dramatic looks. If you typically do not wear makeup, or just wear foundation and mascara, I would go for a look that will enhance your features but still feel very natural.” Overall, she says, you ��

STICK WITH CLASSICS.

“If you choose an up-do, go with a style that will be in fashion forever, like a French twist or a low bun,” Segro says. “Simplicity rules in hairstyles and if you pick a simple style, you’re going to appreci-ate it down the road in photos because it will be timeless.” But, says Kalbach, it’s also fun to try some-�� style and personality,” she says, noting that you should practice applying these before your wedding day. “If you want a very natural look, thin false lashes will help your lashes show up more in pictures. If you want a more bold eye, select larger, fuller lashes to really make your eyes pop.”

BE REALISTIC.

“Don’t have unbelievable ex-pectations,” Segro says. “Work with what you’ve got. If you have four hairs on your head, there’s no style that’s going to make you look like Sofia Vergara.” When it comes to makeup, what you see in a photo might not be right for you, Kalbach says. “The skin tone, face shape, eye shape, hair color, etc. of the bride in the picture are most likely different than yours, which will affect how the same colors and techniques will appear on you,” she says.

JUST BE YOU - ANDMAKE SURE YOUR LOOK LASTS.

“You want to look like you on your wedding day,” Segro says. “Remember, your hus-band is marrying you for you. You’re already beautiful in his eyes. You don’t need to go over the top.” To keep your makeup fresh all day, “purchase the lipstick and lip gloss that you are using for your wedding day,” Kalbach says. “You will want to touch this up through-�� spray to help your makeup stay on all day.”

RELAX AND ENJOY IT ALL.

“Most of all, try to enjoy your day,” Segro says. “When you blink, it’s over. Months and months of preparation and it goes so quickly.” Says Kalbach, “As a bride, you are already worrying about so many things the day of your wedding, and having a makeup look you love before the big day is one less thing you have to worry about that day.”

“There’s an old school of thought that you shouldn’t wash your hair the day of the event because unwashed hair sets up better,” Segro says. But, he adds, it’s really a matter of personal choice. “There’s a trend now for people wanting luxury on their wedding day, and getting a head massage and shampoo can be a good thing for a nervous bride,” he says. “Plus, there are lots of products to add texture to hair for setting or braiding.”

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“I just really liked that style,” Courtney says. “I found so many cute things online that went with that theme. I also thought it would complement the venue nicely.”

The advice :“Just ENJOY planning the wedding and don’t feel like you have to rush,” Courtney says. “We waited almost two years from when we got engaged and we had so much fun planning the wedding and I feel like because we took our time and planned it the way we wanted to it was the most perfect day. We got to know all of our vendors and everything went so smoothly. We had a wedding of our dreams and we will be able to remember such a perfect day for the rest of our lives. Also, no matter what happens, your wedding will be completely perfect!”

The one thing you would do differently :“We truly wouldn’t change anything. Everything turned out amazing.”

The biggest challenge :“Picking all the vendors (because there was so many to choose from) and picking the seating arrangements.”

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Picking a photographer for your wedding can be a lot like getting married. You have to make sure you are compatible by making sure you both want the same things. You have to be willing to listen to each other and compromise on some points. You have to be sure this relationship is going to last. Then there are the concerns about money.

Both relationships start with a question. A marriage starts by one person asking another, “Will you marry me?” Your relationship with your wedding photographer starts by asking yourself, “What are the most important thin to remember from my special day?”

You’d be surprised how different the answers to that question can be. Of course, you’ll want to remember how beautiful the bride looked in her wedding gown, and how handsome the groom looked in his tuxedo. The other “most special” things, though, will be different for almost every couple.

Why, then, would you want a wedding album that looks like every other album you’ve ever seen? Find a photographer who will work with you to capture just the photos you want from your wedding. How do you do that? By looking at lots of examples of a photographer ’s work and asking lots of questions.

W h e n y o u g o t o a photographer’s studio to talk about your wedding pictures, pay particular attention to the type and quality of shots

displayed there. This should be the photographer ’s best and most creative work. If those photos aren’t razor sharp and of the highest technical quality, what do you t h i n k t h e re s t o f t h e photographer ’s work is like? This should be the best he or she can do.

Notice the style of the photos displayed. Are all of them the same? Are they just the traditional poses or are candids and experimental s h o t s m i x e d i n ? T h e traditional package may be just what you’re looking for, but many couples want more candid photos and creativity from their photographer. What is important is making sure the photographer you hire suits the style of photos you want.

One way of doing that is to fill out the checklist on the next page and take it with you as you interview photographers. For most professionals, this will not be seen as a challenge to their creativity. Most will welcome it and use it as a jumping-off spot for more creative work.

At the very least, you will both know from the start what each expects f rom this relationship. It might be better if more marriages started this way.

Beginning the SearchStart shopping for your

wedding photographer about the same time you begin picking out a wedding dress. Don’t even wait for the date and time for the wedding to be

set. As soon as you know a month, start approaching photographers you think might be right. Some dates, especially in peak wedding periods, are reserved with photographers more than a year in advance.

To begin shopping for a photographer, ask recent brides for recommendations. If you don’t know any brides, ask your clergyman for the names of couples recently married and for permission to approach them about their wedding photographs.

Compile a shopping list of several photographers from these recommendations and call to make appointments.

At each studio, take note of how you are treated by the staff and photographer. Make sure they are open to showing you a wide array of samples and are interested in meeting your needs and not just taking pictures. Ask to see work specif ical ly shot by the

photographer who will be at your wedding, not work done by just anyone in the company.

Also ask to see photos shot in the same place as you will be getting married. Use these photos to judge the work and plan your package.

Talk to more than one photographer or studio and compare prices. Make sure you get prices on comparable packages or albums so you can compare “apples to apples,” and be sure to ask how much more special setups or poses will cost. Be sure to find out if the price includes candid photography from the reception or only the basic poses from the ceremony.

Ask about the cost of additional prints or albums for family or friends.

Just remember, shop for wedding photos the same way you would for anything else that you will treasure for a lifetime.

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he ceremony’s over, dinner’s been served and now it’s time to cut the cake.

Although a wedding cake is a traditional centerpiece of many wedding receptions, brides are beginning to look beyond cake when it comes to wedding desserts.

“I think brides are looking for alternatives to the traditional cake as wedding styles and themes are so individual to the couple,” says

Emily Mitchell, owner and head baker of Lancaster Cupcake. “Sometimes, the tall cake just doesn’t �t the theme.”

Mitchell says cupcakes have been increasingly popular as a wedding dessert option. “We have brides booked all the way out into 2017 asking for cupcakes as their main dessert item on the cake table.”

Cupcakes make a great choice for weddings, Mitchell says, because they offer a variety of �avors for people to choose from and more options for guests.

“Since every couple is unique in their style and theme, there are a ton of

combinations,” Mitchell says. Popular choices at Lancaster Cupcake include Late Night Snack (chocolate cupcake with peanut butter �lling, vanilla icing and crushed pretzels), LemonRaspberry and Vanilla Party.

“Also, each cupcake has a decoration, so everyone gets to be a part of the beauty of the display,” she says.

Cupcakes are easier to handle as far as serving, compared to a cake, she says, and tend to be more economical than cake.

“You can get as many cupcakes as you need for your guest list,” she says.

When it comes to displaying cupcakes, Lancaster Cupcake offers options ranging from simple trays to elegant buffet displays.

“We also offer our Cupcake Truck to come to the wedding, which is so much fun,” Mitchell says.

At Sugar Whipped Bakery in Lancaster, owner Stephanie Samuel offers a variety of choices for wedding desserts, including cupcakes, whoopie pies, cake pops and

gourmet marshmallows.“I also recently added mini pies,” she

says. “This is something that’s really starting to pick up in wedding trends.”

Samuel says brides are requesting dessert bars, with “mini” servings of a variety of sweets.

“We’ve been doing a lot of dessert bars for weddings because brides are looking for many options for their guests,” she says. Her gourmet marshmallows are a popular choice, she notes. Made from scratch, they are not your store-bought variety.

“They’re big, �uffy, yummy goodness,” Samuel says. Popular �avors range from key lime to vanilla, chocolate, Irish cream, raspberry and even a dark-chocolate-dipped marshmallow made with beer and topped with bacon.

“That’s a groom’s dream,” Samuel laughs.

Sugar Whipped Bakery also serves a lot of cake pops at weddings, she says, including chocolate and vanilla �avors.

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Mini whoopie pie options at Sugar Whipped include banana peanut butter chocolate chip, banana Nutella, and s’mores � avors.

Dessert bars are a great option for brides who want to do something unique, Samuel says.

“A lot of brides tell me they don’t like wedding cake and they don’t want that to be the only option served at their reception,” she says. “You might be able to get two � avors with your cake, but that’s it. Dessert bars offer so much more variety.”

Dessert bars also make it easy for guests to enjoy the sweets when it’s convenient for them, she says.

“At the reception, people are drinking, dancing, having a great time and they don’t want to stop and eat dessert right then,” she says. “But, when they get back to their hotel or get home, they wish they had something sweet. I suggest that

brides provide containers with the dessert bar so guests can take some home and enjoy it later. That’s a lot easier with a mini dessert than with a slice of cake that’s usually served on a plate that you can’t take with you.”

Noting that some brides might be hesitant to abandon a wedding cake completely, especially because cutting the cake is a big part of wedding pictures, Samuel offers six-inch round wedding cakes.

“Brides can have a little cake at their reception, but take it home in a box and enjoy it the next day and have it toremember their reception,” she says.

Overall, both Mitchell and Samuel say brides are moving beyond traditional wedding cakes because they’re focusing on not only offering unique options, but also offering tasty treats.

“Brides are telling me they want something that tastes good more than something hat looks pretty on a table,” Samuel says.

couple’s first dance as man and wife is a cherished wedding tradition. While the first dance can help

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Couples may feel pressure to choose the perfect song. Yes, this is a song that the couple has selected to represent their love for each other, but it also should be one that will speak to the masses and can be thoroughly enjoyed by all.

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The average wedding tends to be one of the most costly ventures in a couple’s life together. Many couples seek ways to cut costs, and negotiating with prospective vendors is one way to do just that.Too often couples overlook haggling

for better prices because they may be intimidated by the process or simply want to plan the most memorable day regardless of cost. Many vendors build some wiggle room into their prices, and the key for cost-conscious couples is to � nd the right strategy to unlock that lower price.Explore your options. Weddings are big

business for vendors, and the competition is stiff. Visit a variety of vendors and compare their services and prices prior to making any decisions. This will give you an accurate range of costs and information for future ne-gotiations. Vendors may be willing to match competitors’ prices, so knowing what the photographer down the street charges can provide you with some negotiating leverage.Dress modestly for meetings. It’s tempt-

ing to want to dress to impress, but very of-

ten wedding vendors judge potential clients by their appearances. If you walk in with a designer handbag and driving the latest model luxury vehicle, a vendor may get the impression you have extra money to spend. While you do not have to play the pauper, dress modestly so your appearance doesn’t hurt you at the negotiating table.Never take the � rst offer. A good business

person will tell you there always is room for negotiation. Avoid the loaded question of “What can you spend on this?” by the vendor. Instead, let them bring up a price � rst, and realize that this � rst quote can almost always be negotiated down. Inform the vendor that you would really like to work with them but he or she needs to lower the price. See if they can offer a different package or provide a discount.Negotiate the big-ticket items � rst.

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gown. Once you free up extra money, you may � nd you don’t have to negotiate as hard with smaller vendors.Walk away if need be. Always have a Plan

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The average cost of a wedding in the United States in 2014 was $28,671, according to weddingstats.org.

Lori Hemphill, of The Perfect Plan and Party Perfect, estimates the average cost of a wedding with 150 guests at $32,000, which might include things like the dress, meal, cake, music and photography, but not necessarily the honeymoon.Many of the weddings Hemphill plans cost signi� cantly

more, and professional planner Melissa Martin, of Stylish Occasions, estimates her average wedding at $40,000 to $45,000.“The weddings have just

become so much more personalized,” Hemphill says. “Everything’s about presentation. Everything was stepped up. It just became a whole new animal, and a much more expensive animal.”But weddings don’t have

to cost that much.You can do a wedding

for $15,000 to $20,000, she says. Or, come in at under $10,000 with a simple lunch in the church basement.“Bigger isn’t better,”

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Nowadays, many newlywed couples are looking for a sense of adventure in their honeymoon, too.Where once the honeymoon was all about romance, elegant champagne dinners, long walks on the beach and holding hands, many couples today are putting the accent on adventurous pursuits like scuba diving, rainforest hiking, zip-lining and catching their own � sh for dinner.“I see more couples seeking exotic

honeymoons with lots of adventure to re� ect their active lifestyles,” says Jay Harry of Bon Voyage Travel in Lancaster.By exotic, Harry means places like Tahiti,

Fiji, Belize and Costa Rica. These are places

that are off the beaten track, offering a whole new world of crystal clear waters, exotic wildlife and � owers and fauna like you have never seen before.

“I think we are booking more honeymoons to Costa Rica than I have ever seen before. It’s got everything and it’s not too far away,” says Harry.It’s easy to see why. Honeymooners can

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Costa Rica dedicated to national parks, reserves and wildlife refuges, you are likely to see creatures as diverse as a spotted ocelot, three-toed sloth, brilliantly hued toucan, red-eyed tree frog and white-faced capuchin.“For those who want beaches,

there are 800 miles of coastline in Costa Rica between the Paci� c and Caribbean coasts,” says Harry, adding that you can also see volcanoes.Terry Bigler of Zeller Travel

in Lancaster has also seen a trend toward adventurous eco-honeymoons like Costa Rica and Panama. Honey-mooners want to experience something they have never experienced before.“I think most couples are

looking for beaches and water. But they want activities, not just sunbathing all day,” adds Bigler.Places like Jamaica, Punta

Cana, Belize, Anguilla, St. Lucia and Antigua provide an escape that is easy to access from U.S. airports. You can imagine that you are far away from it all, without being too far away.Even so, the truly adventurous

are heading off for places that are off-the-map, like the Cook Islands, Tahiti, the Maldives and Fiji. You can stay in luxury hotels or breathtaking beach bungalows that are built over the water.

“It’s like being in paradise with all the modern conveniences,” says Harry. “It’s just very quiet, slow paced and yet, there is so much to do.”When he visited Tahiti as part

of his on-the-job travel research,

he was so enchanted with the islands that he announced that he might never come back. Of course, he did.He has also helped couples

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lands of their ancestry, visiting places like Africa where they can see exotic wildlife, the beaches of faraway Vietnam or the Danube where they can cruise from Nuremberg to Budapest.“We also do quite a few

destination weddings,” adds Harry, noting that couples might choose an island locale to host the ceremony and reception with friends and family, then stay on for the honeymoon.One recent destination

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Choose a place within walking distance or close by to the reception hall or hotel. Guests have likely been indulging in alcohol during the wedding, and safety should always be a priority. If only a few people are going out, you may be able to pile into a cab, but if your affair will be attended by more than a handful of guests, choose a venue close by so it’s

easy for guests to get there and get home.

Limit the food and drink choices. Ask servers to bring a few pitchers of beer or sangria and � nger foods. This will help avoid disagreements over trying to tally up and split the bill afterward.

Go comfortably. If you’re ready to get out of wed-ding � nery, by all means change

into something more comfortable. You probably will enjoy yourself more at the after party if you can mingle in more comfortable attire.

Take advantage of hotel services. Many hotels have conference rooms or attached bars and restaurants that make perfect gathering places for an after party. Make arrangements with the hotel concierge or the front desk in advance.

After parties are growing in popularity. Those planning on celebrating into the early hours of the morning can start thinking creatively.

Delegate responsibilities. A busy bride and groom may not have the time or the inclination to plan another party. If guests want to continue celebrating, put the task in the hands of a third party or volunteer.

Leave whenever you want. Partygoers will eventually need some sleep. Feel free to leave the after party whenever you want. Usually once a few people begin to disperse, the rest of the group will call it a night.


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