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Every single person who is married, and is encountering problems and unhappiness, wants an answer to the ultimate question of how to have a happy marriage. Of course, there isn’t an easy answer to the question. In fact, there isn’t a definitive answer to it – just opinions.

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How To Have A Happy Marriage –Happy Marriage

The Question Everyone Would Like AnsweredLike Answered

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Every single person who is married, and is encountering problems and is encountering problems and unhappiness, wants an answer to the ultimate question of how to have a happy q ppymarriage.

Of course, there isn’t an easy answer to the question. In fact, there isn’t a definitive answer to it – just opinions.

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Everybody who does indeed live in a happy and successful marriage has their happy and successful marriage, has their own idea about what contributes to it being the way it is. By the same token, g y y ,the many people all over the world who live in an unhappy marriage have their own ideas about why their relationship is in the state it is in.H k f t l k Here are some key areas for you to look at, with ideas and advice from Marriage Advice Online Advice Online.

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Good communicationWithout this any relationship is doomed Without this, any relationship is doomed. If you can sit down with your spouse, tell them exactly how you feel in a calm and them exactly how you feel in a calm and constructive manner, you are actually a step ahead of a lot of couples. p pMore importantly, if you can listen to what they say, then you will both know where you stand and what each of you needs from the marriage.

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TrustThis should go without saying but you’d This should go without saying, but you’d be surprised how many married people don’t fully trust their other halves don t fully trust their other halves.

It can be argued that it’s impossible to It can be argued that it s impossible to trust another human being 100%, but with someone you share your life with, y y ,your bed with, and your house with –you should be able to get pretty darn close.

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If there isn’t enough trust in the marriage you both have to ask marriage, you both have to ask yourselves exactly why.

Being able to trust someone else is a wonderful and intimate thing, and should wonderful and intimate thing, and should be a part of every marriage.

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FriendshipYes I’m pretty sure you’re physically Yes, I’m pretty sure you’re physically attracted to each other, and that might even be why you initially got together even be why you initially got together. Never underestimate the importance of friendship though. p gIf you are relaxed in each others company, can freely spend time together and share laughs and maybe some tears – you almost already know the answer to the question of how to have a happy the question of how to have a happy marriage.

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A Healthy Sex Life

Some people claim this isn’t important, and although it perhaps isn’t the be all and although it perhaps isn t the be all and end all, it can really add to an already good marriage. Let’s face it, we already good marriage. Let s face it, we all have needs and desires – and we all want them satisfied. There’s nothing better than having an exciting and fulfilling sex life with someone you love.

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Sometimes this area can be the trickiest to put right which is why it can be to put right, which is why it can be beneficial to focus on it perhaps with the help of a professional therapist or even a p p pbest selling e course like Fix Your Sexless Marriage or Save My Marriage Today.

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Shared Hopes, Dreams and Goals

If you’re not on the same page when it comes to the future this can cause comes to the future, this can cause tension. I’m not talking about where to have dinner, or what to buy the kids for have dinner, or what to buy the kids for their birthdays, I’m talking about where you see yourselves in 1 year, 5 years and even 20 years. Do you want more children?

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Do you want to live in a big house? Do you want to start your own business? Do you want to start your own business? Do you want to be rich?

Sharing these hopes dreams and goals Sharing these hopes, dreams and goals and supporting each other is guaranteed to keep you close together. p y g

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Compromise

Even if you DON'T share all the same hopes dreams and goals it's important to hopes, dreams and goals it s important to be willing to discuss everything and try to compromise as much as possible.to compromise as much as possible.

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If all is well in the above areas, there is absolutely no reason why you can’t have absolutely no reason why you can t have a happy marriage for years to come. Adversity and problems will always come, y p y ,but that’s life. Marriage is something to nurture and g gcherish, don’t ever forget that.

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