“how do i love the unlovable?”. * hard question #1 * “how can a loving god allow evil?” *...
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*Last Week:
*Hard Question #1
*“How Can a Loving God Allow Evil?”
*This Week:
*“How Do I Love the Unlovable?”
*Breaking the Question Down:1. It is a “how” question but it
can be a “why” question such as “why should I love those who I do not want to?”
2.A second aspect to consider revolves around defining “love” and the shades that love can come in.
3.And a third aspect is to consider what is meant by “unlovable”.
*The Third Part:
*We may find some people unlovable whereas someone else loves them dearly.
*Who do you find hard to love?
*The First Part: Why Should I?*1 John 4:8 and 16-21 on page 1902
*16 And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love.
*… because in this world we are like him.
*1Jn 4:19 We love because he first loved us
*…21 And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.
*John 13:34-35 Page 1675*“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
*Good, Better and Best Love*Good – Wish Them No Harm.
*Consider Judas:
*Matthew 5:43-48 Page 1503
*…Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,…
*46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that?
*…48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Better: Wish Them Well.
*Even when people have hurt us God can bring us to the state when they come to mind we wish them well.
*We can love the sinner and hate the sin and the damage that it has caused.
*The Best Level - Forgiveness*Ephesians 4:32-5:2 reminds us to “Forgive as God forgave you”
*Romans 5:6-11 on page 1753
*…when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly.
*…But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
*…when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son,
*How Do I Love This Way?*Follow the Leader!
*Jesus shows us the why and the how.
*Why – To avoid the darkness.
*How – Change perspective and offer forgiveness.
*How?*2 Corinthians 5:14-21 on page 1799.
*…those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.
*…if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
*…gave us the ministry of reconciliation:
*…not counting men’s sins against them.
*… 21 God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
*How do we offer forgiveness?*It requires a change of focus and
letting go of the desire to bring about justice.
*Now What???*How are you going to put this into practice for the “unlovables” in your life?
*How do you handle knowing that you are one of the unlovables!
*Love is a choice and Jesus enables us to make the best choices even when we do not feel like it.
*Next Week:
*An Awkward Question –
*How Do I Live with Christian Ethics in a Secular World?