hommes/femmes : mode d’emploi de leur communication professionnelle. par alexandre destro
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The judgement is more based on non verbal communication than on content
Visual messages
(Face + Body) > Oral messages
(Speech: Content = Text, but also
the pitch)
87%
9,7 times
more used 9%
Non verbal messages
> Verbal messages (Content)
Visual Cortex activation
100-300 ms
Semantic
1 sentence
(6-30 sec)
6 to 30 times faster
Happiness 1.Contraction of the muscles that surround the eye
2.Raised cheeks
3.Contraction of the zygomatic muscles that open the mouth.
Sadness 1.Drooping upper eyelids
2. Out of focus eyes
3.Slight pulling down at the corners of the lips
Fear 1.Eyebrows raised and pulled together
2.Tensed lower eyelids
3.Lips slightly stretched horizontally back to ears
WOMAN ‘S JUDMENT
MAN’S JUDMENT
Dominant Dominant
Arrogant Aggressive
Aggressive Incompetent
Untrustworthy
MAN AGGRESSIVE
WOMAN AGGRESSIVE
AGGRESSIVITY Gender differences
WOMAN ‘S
RESPONSE
MAN’S
RESPONSE
ANXIETY Gender differences
Empathy
Reassurance
Problem solving
Empathy or Irony
Stress
Aggressvity
MAN’S
ANXIETY
WOMAN’S
ANXIETY
Gestures
Defences mechanisms gestures Emblems gestures Stereotypy gestures Lies gestures
Positives gestures Illustrate gestures Reassurance gestures Opening gesture Dominance
Components of Leadership/Charisma
Behaviours Attributions People’s Feelings
Attributions
Self-Assurance
Dominance
Self-Confidence
Authority
CREDIBILITY
(Competence)
Empathy Proximity
SINCERITY
(Trustworthiness)
Sociability
Joyfulness
Attractiveness
Optimism
POPULARITY
(Love)
Confidence
Respect
Admiration
Confidence
Responsiveness
Confidence
Sympathy
Happiness
Evaluation Grid:
Social judgment
Aggressive x x x x x Dominant
Anxious x x x x x Self-confident
Distant x x x x x Sociable
Indifferent x x x x x Empathy
Sad x x x x x Jovial
Main Components of Charisma
Dynamism (body) and Expressiveness
Expressive gestures (positive feelings + illustrators)
Expressive face (positive emotions)
Expressive voice and vocal tempo
Concordant Nonverbal messages
Face and Gestures
Face and Voice
Voice and Gestures
Face + Voice + Gestures and Body Postures
Concordant Verbal and Nonverbal messages
Optimal speech rate and pauses
Emotional and Factual content (Text, Speech)
Adapt your communication to the contexts
Conclusion
When we want to convince, sell, or reassuring it’s our nonverbal communication that
makes the difference
We can trust our first impressions because they are often correct
The judging process is widely consensual
Each of us has specific defence mechanisms that reduce our performance.
Our discordant messages trigger the most negative judgments both for men and
women.
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