homefront monthly identity
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A resource for parents to create family times and natural ways to have spiritual conversations in the home.TRANSCRIPT
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FAMILY FOOD TIME p. 4 & 5
GAME TIME p. 6
GOD’S WORD p. 8
PRAYER p. 9
CREATE p. 11
BLESSING p. 13
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M O N T H L Y
ENVIRONMENT
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I belong toGod, and He loves me!
© 2010 David C. Cook. TruResources are developed in partnership with ROCKHARBOR Church and a national network of family and children’s ministry leaders. All rights reserved.
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It’s as easy as 1 … 2 … 3 …
1 Start by deciding on a day and time that works well for your entire family. It can be an evening, afternoon, or morning. Just
commit to building this time into your family’s natural rhythm. (It’s usually best to build this time around a meal!)
2 Look through the HomeFront Monthly and see what stands out. Choose one or two experiences that you would like to
incorporate into your family time this week. Don’t feel burdened to complete all the activities at once, but carefully select which ones will fit your family best. Each month of curriculum provides more than enough experiences to last you throughout the month.
3 Remember to HAVE FUN! Strive to make each gathering unique to your own family as you enjoy spending time with
God and each other.
How to Use this Resource
Editor’s Note I was in fifth grade the first time I got my heart broken. I was at camp and my “boyfriend” for
the week dumped me in front of all of my friends and said the meanest thing any boy has ever said to me. He told me I was “pretty on the outside, but ugly on the inside.” Crushed and humiliated, I ran to the phone and called my mom crying.
I’ll never forget the words she spoke to me that day. She told me that no boy, or any other human for that matter, can decide my worth. She told me that boy had no idea what he was talking about and that I was beautiful on the inside and the outside because Jesus made me that way. She told me Jesus determines my worth and gives me my beauty, and I should never let a person take that away from me.
My mom called out my identity that day. She named who God had created me to be. I was, I am, beauty, inside and out. She empowered me to claim an identity that was permanent and true because God had given it to me.
In a world that continually tells our children and us that we are not enough, God tells us that He is enough. I hope this month’s HomeFront points you and your children to a Jesus who gives you worth and tells you that, in Him, you are enough.
LAURA WEBER | EDITORthe Tru Team | Costa Mesa, CA
© 2010 David C. Cook. All rights reserved.
MICHELLE ANTHONY | FamIlIEs
ROCKHARBOR Church | Costa Mesa, CA
ENVIRONMENT
IDENTITYThis environment highlights who we are in Christ. According to Ephesians 1, we have been chosen, adopted, redeemed, sealed, and given an inheritance in Christ. This conviction allows children to stand firm against the counter identities the world will offer to bring them destruction.
Culture is constantly feeding our families the lie of false identities. School, friends, TV, magazines, music, and so much more are continually telling our children that who they are is not good enough, that they need to be someone different. As we attempt to spiritually raise our families and redeem what the world has taken, it is essential to be rooted in Truth.
We have to affirm the Christ likeness we see in our children as they strive to stand firm against counter identities. In a world that finds identity in shallow and fleeting things, the Truth of our identity in Christ is the only thing that can offer true meaning and purpose. 3
VERSE OF THE MONTH Memorizing Scripture can be an incredible practice to engage in as a family. But words in and of themselves will not necessarily transform us; it is God’s Spirit in these words that transforms. We come to know God more when we are willing to open our hearts and receive His Holy Spirit through the words we memorize. Have fun with these verses and think of creative ways to invite your family to open up to God as they commit these verses to memory.
ELEMENTARY VERSE
“For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.“ Ephesians 1:4
PRES/KINdER VERSE
“God chose us to belong to Christ [Jesus] before the world was created.” Ephesians 1:4 (NIrV)
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Conversation starters
Do you really know what your kids’ days are like? Do you know their “world”? Do they know what your life is like on a day-to-day basis? Can they envision what it’s like to be an adult? Do you remember what life was like as a second grader?
This goes beyond take-your-daughter-to-work day or helping in your son’s classroom. And it certainly goes beyond dragging your four-year-old to the supermarket. Sometimes it is difficult to really get “in” to the world of your child so that you really know what it is they do when they play with dolls or cars in their made-up worlds of trains or horses.
At dinner tonight, resolve to know the worlds of your children and allow them into yours. Try a simple activity named Unique Stories. Each family member tells a simple story about his day that is unique to him alone. This story must not involve any other member of the family. After the storytelling, take turns asking one another the following questions.
HOW WAS yOUR DAy DIFFERENT THAN ANy OTHER FAMILy MEMBER’S DAy?
HOW ARE yOU UNIqUE OR DIFFERENT FROM THE REST OF US?
WHAT IS ONE UNIqUE OR SpECIAL THING yOU LIkE ABOUT (ANOTHER FAMILy MEMBER)?
Have fun talking about the ways that you and your children are different from one another and make it a celebration of your individual qualities. But don’t be afraid to let it spark a conversation about how you are similar and the traits you share as members of the same family.
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FamIlY FooD TImEreCipe
When the weather cools down and fall settles all the way in, there’s nothing I love more than making up a huge pot of chili and having lots of friends over. This easy chili recipe takes minimal prep time and tastes just as good reheated the next day. Grab your kids, make up a big pot, and get cozy by the fire.
This simple recipe is quick, easy, and can include a couple extra little hands while preparing. So take that time, and tell your kids a great story.
Easy Fall Chili (SERVES 5–6)
Prep Time: 20 min Cook Time: 1 ½–2 hours
2 teaspoons vegetable oil
2 pounds lean ground beef
1 large white or yellow onion, chopped
4 chopped garlic cloves
3 heaping tablespoons chili powder
1 ½ tablespoons paprika
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon cumin
salt and pepper to taste
1 large (32 oz) can ranch-style chili beans, drained
1 large (32 oz) can pinto beans, drained
1 small (16 oz) can kidney beans, drained
1. Coat the bottom of a big pot (5 or 6 quarts) with oil. Add meat and let it cook for a few minutes over medium heat. Don’t let it stick to the bottom.
2. When the meat starts to cook and break apart, add chopped onions, chopped garlic cloves, and seasonings. Stir several times while cooking.
3. Once meat is almost completely cooked, open, drain, and add all of the beans. Chili should be somewhat watery at this point; if it’s not, add a little water.
4. Bring chili back to a boil, then simmer over medium/low heat for ½ hour and taste it. If it tastes bland, add more chili powder.
5. Simmer chili for another hour. you can serve it up at that point, or you can turn the stove down to the lowest setting and let it continue to simmer until you are ready to eat.
This makes great leftovers, so you may want to double the recipe and eat it again for dinner later in the week.
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Who’s Who?Learning about a person’s likes and dislikes tells you a lot about who they are. I know that my husband likes to skateboard and my best friend loves traveling. For this month’s game, why not take a night to get to know a little more about what each of your family members likes.
pass out a sheet of paper and some crayons to every family member. Ask each person to draw his or her favorite thing on the piece of paper, fold it, and put it into a hat, bowl, or basket (whatever you have on hand).
One at a time, have someone take a card out of the hat and try to guess who drew it. Take turns until every person has had a turn. For younger children, the game can end here. For older ones, talk about how God made us each unique with different likes, dislikes, and skills. For a variation, you can have people draw themselves, or even draw their favorite food. Get creative with the categories, and have fun!
GamE TImEolDER GamES
putty sculpture
I love getting together with my family because there is always plenty of laughter. We laugh about both the good and the bad of life. This month on game night, try something quirky that is sure to give your family members lots of laughs.
This game provides a funny opportunity to create a new nose. pass out Silly putty to each family member and have everyone face away from each other as they mold a new nose out of putty. Give yourselves about a minute, then turn around and check out your new, crazy-nosed family! pass the mirror around and take time to laugh. This may be a fun new look for a family photo! you can play several rounds, or you can take turns sculpting a new nose for each other. Remind your family that, even though we had a chance to create new noses, God took great care when He created each one of us. He made us and loves us just the way we are! Every time we look in the mirror, we can remember that we were created in His image!
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It’s funny; I grew up in the church and went to Christian schools all my life, so you’d think my identity would have been rooted in Christ from the earliest age. I might have even thought it was. But it wasn’t.
i I accepted Christ at the age of three. It made sense to me. As I grew older, I did the things I was told a good Christian did. I went to church. I was
pretty nice to people. I led Bible studies and mission trips. I was the definition of a “good Christian kid.” My parents thought so. My teachers thought so. My friends thought so. I even thought so. But, it just never felt real. I never felt different … I never felt changed.
Now I realize this is because my identity was rooted in what people told me a good Christian looked and acted like. My identity was rooted in trying to be a good Christian kid. All that changed a few years ago.
After college, I became a high school teacher. I loved teaching and working with high school students. I worked an average of 75 hours per week for three years. yes … I was very tired, but I loved what I did. My identity was tied up in being a good Christian guy who was influencing the lives of kids. (Of course, I was simply pushing them to be “good Christian kids” like I had been.) Still, there was something missing in this. And then it happened … after three years of teaching, I felt God calling me out to something new, so, even though I had nothing to go to, I quit my job. I literally lost a huge part of my identity overnight.
For the next three years, I wandered. I took odd jobs here and there trying to find my new identity. I tried to create my own new identity by taking on different titles and roles. I tried “business owner,” “church worker,” “consultant,” “volunteer,” “boyfriend,” and “student,” but nothing seemed to work. With each failure, God was stripping me of my worldly identities. In the end, I wasn’t even sure who I was anymore.
I was desperate and I turned to God. (Why do we always wait until we’re desperate to turn to Him?) I
had nothing to give Him but my stripped-down and discouraged self. So, that’s what I gave. I let go of all I was holding onto and I ran towards Him. It turns out, that’s all He ever wanted.
Over the next year, God began to rebuild my identity. yes, I ended up with a new job (or three). I found some new friends and started a new relationship. But this time, these things did not define me. The foundation of my identity was Christ. He defined me.
Jobs and relationships will come and go, but I know who I am and that won’t change. I am a child of God. I am a person who knows God and who is known by God.
Each one of us has a unique story of how we have found our identity in Christ. Maybe this happened a long time ago, or maybe you are in the middle of finding this out right now. Wherever you are in this journey, it’s an important story to share with your children as they begin to discover who they are. Make a point this month to spend some time with your kids and share your story (or parts of your story depending on how old your children are) with them. Who has God created you uniquely to be? What has He had to strip you of as you have found your identity in Him? What has your journey towards finding your worth in Jesus looked like? Share these things with your kids and invite them to ask you questions as they embark on their own journey towards discovering what it looks like to let Jesus, not the world, tell them who they are.
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nationality, or anything, for that matter, is of no value compared to our true identity found in Jesus! My job is not my identity. My friendships are not my identity. I am a son of God, and that is all that matters when it comes to trying to define my position in life.
Let’s not forget to read the end of this passage, where paul pulls us all together as believers to
remind us we are heirs according to the same promise God made to Abraham! God will use us to literally change the world and the course of history because we find our identity solely in God’s Son, Jesus. We don’t have to make this happen; He already promises this to those who identify themselves as His children.
GoD’S WoRD I am a … Son of God?Galatians 3:26–29: “you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”
If your children are older, in addition to the Remember Verses, try memorizing Galatians 3:26–29 this month. Give each family member an index card with the verse written on one side. On the other side, invite everyone to write “My identity is not …” and to then write down other identities that they are tempted to cling to (a son, a daughter, a soccer player, popular, fun, a good kid, or anything else they can think of). Encourage them to look at both sides of the card as they are memorizing this verse as a way of reminding themselves where their true identity lies.
How often do we get bogged down by measuring our own faithfulness to God? It can be easy to believe the lie that our identity in Christ is somehow dependent on what we are doing to please God. If we are obedient and doing all the right things, we probably belong to God. If not, our identity might be in question. In Galatians, paul is pretty clear as to what sets us up to be sons and daughters of God, and he is pretty clear that God does not measure it by the things we tend to measure it by. In verse 26, paul says that we are sons and daughters because we have faith in Jesus Christ. Wait a minute! Does this mean we could be wrapping our identity in Christ in the wrong things? I am afraid, for me at least, the answer to this question is often “yes.”
I will admit I sometimes look at my job, friendships, and other aspects of my daily life and say to myself, “Today … today I believe I am a son of God … look at what I have done for the kingdom!” The rationale of this is, of course, completely flawed, as paul is clear that our faith is what causes us to be called sons and daughters of God, not our actions. He goes on to say that our only identity should be found in faith. He tells the Galatians who were trying way too hard to define “son” by their own standards that wealth, race, creed,
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PRaYEROur identity. In today’s society, we are constantly surrounded by a barrage of influences telling us what we should look like, how we should dress, what we should buy, even how we should act. From television to magazines to billboards, it seems impossible to avoid the “standards” the world sets for us every day. Thankfully, there is good news for those of us in Christ: He has created an identity for each of us and given us the power to live it out on a daily basis! In fact, He chose us and knew the life He had for us before we were even born into this world. He created us to be holy … blameless … loved … redeemed … forgiven … wise … understanding. He did this in love. He did this in accordance to His pleasure. He did it lavishly!
This month, as you begin each week, make it a habit to set apart a time for family prayer. Sunday night might be a good time to do this. When you gather together each time, begin your time by reading Romans 12:1–2a: “Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Then begin to pray, inviting everyone to confess to the Lord any ways they have bought into the world’s identity for them in the past week. Remember, you may need to model vulnerability to your children and go first.
Next, read Galatians 5:22–23: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Remind your family that all of these things are already true about each one of us who has a relationship with Jesus. Spend some time praying that the Spirit would help each of you to embrace some of these characteristics as a part of your identity in the coming week.
“BuT ThE fruIT of ThE SPIrIT IS LoVE, joy, PEACE, PATIENCE,
kINdNESS, goodNESS, fAIThfuLNESS, gENTLENESS ANd SELf-CoNTroL.
AgAINST SuCh ThINgS ThErE IS No LAW.” gALATIANS 5:22–23
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ae TRaDITIoNSIf you saw the Storytelling HomeFront Monthly, you may have read my friend Laura’s story about her parents’ blessings for her. When she shared this story with me, I was so touched by the ways her parents intentionally spoke Truth and identity into her life when she was a child.
She said that her father would select a new verse for her to memorize and focus on every year. He would then pray it daily over her and recite it with her each day before school. What I found most significant was how she said these verses not only sank into her as a little girl, but have also come to shape her identity now, as a woman. In hearing this profound story, I wondered what this might look like for families today. How might this tradition shape our children? How will their identities be grounded in Christ and their lives transformed?
How to get started:
1 Start by asking God to reveal a piece of Scripture to you. Be patient, and allow the Spirit to guide you in this process. Identify
a time to share this verse with your child.
2Share with him or her the meaning of the verse, and about the journey you took that led you to choose it.
3Decide on a time of day when you can recite and pray this verse with your child. Allow this to begin to be part of your
natural rhythm and daily routine. Have fun with this tradition and wait to see God honor and use this verse in the life of your child.
maRRIaGEIn years past, we used to hear the phrase, “holy matrimony” because marriage was viewed as holy and sacred. In a recent poll, high school students were asked if they believed that when they got married, their marriage would last a lifetime. Sixty percent said no. Marriage itself is losing its identity as a permanent union.
We are all aware of how important our identity is, and it is no less so in marriage. We need to see ourselves as committed for life as great husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers. We need to see ourselves in light of who we are in Christ, and who He calls us to be as providers, lovers, caregivers who are compassionate, kind, caring, and patient people. The more we focus on who we have been created to be (our true identities in Christ), the more we will act out of those identities.
• How do you see yourself as a husband/wife?
• How does this compare to the way God sees you and what He calls you to be?
• Which of the following qualities do you need to start accepting about yourself?
Compassionate | provider | Lover | kind | Caring | Self-sacrificing | Romantic | Encourager
Begin to ask the Lord to help you believe that this is what He has made you to be. pray for Him to show you specific ways to demonstrate your identity to your spouse.
Watch God answer those prayers!Storytelling about your marriage is so important
to your children; they want to know how God has worked and can still work in your lives. Tell them over and over!
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CREaTEHave you ever had the chance to watch a potter?
A few years ago I went on a mission trip to the Dominican Republic. One night there was a gathering at the local church, and as the pastor preached, he created a beautiful pot. The audience quietly watched as his focus, close attention, and carefully thought-out movements went into creating this pot. Once he finished the first one, he started on another. The second pot looked completely different; yet, it still required the same focus, close attention, and careful movements. Isaiah 64:8 tells us, “yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.” The Father has uniquely molded each person in your family and that’s a reason to celebrate!
pottery is such a great representation of identity. For Create this month, why not try making some pottery as a family? Here are some ways you can do this:
1. Color Me Mine (www.colormemine.com). This is a paint-your-own-pottery studio with locations in many different states (visit the website to find a location near you). They have premade pottery that you can paint. They provide all the paints, designs, and materials; all you have to do is show up and create! Go as a family to Color Me Mine and pick out something to paint as a family. A plate might be a good option as each person can make his or her mark on it. Another option is to let each person pick out a piece of pottery and paint it uniquely, reflecting his or her own personality. If you do not have a Color Me Mine near you, do some research and see if there are any similar paint-your-own-pottery studios in your area.
2. If option #1 doesn’t work for you, you can easily make a pottery studio at home! Go to a craft store and get Crayola Clay or Model Magic. Give each person some clay and allow her to create her own pottery. Let it dry overnight, then take markers or paint and design away!
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Throughout the past month, kids at our church have been experiencing what it means to express themselves through art. Towards the end of each service as we head into Respond, kids have been leaving their seats and approaching blank canvases to write, draw, and paint all with the intent of glorifying God. It has been amazing to see how kids choose to express themselves, and also to learn about their understanding of who God is.
This month, your family can bring this expression of worship through art into the home. It’s actually a very easy setup and doesn’t require leadership from any one member of the family.
Start off by sectioning off an area of your home using a drop cloth, a blank canvas against the wall, different colors of paint, and brushes of various sizes. you’ll also need to print out this month’s memory verse (see p. 3) and have it framed in a prominent position. Next, write the phrase “Who Are you?” on the canvas. Finally, gather your family together.
This month, we’re focusing on the environment of Identity. We’ve all seen and experienced the counter identities the world offers and the destructive paths to which they lead. Talk together as a family about those counter identities: What are they? Do we claim them? Talk together about the difference between what the world offers us and what we are given through Christ. How would God identify each of us?
Explain that this art station in your home will be open throughout the coming month for them to respond to what they feel God reveals to them about their identity. They can also use this art station as a way of expressing questions they have for God about their identity. There is no designated time to write or draw on the canvas. Let your family know they should add to the canvas when they want to. It’s as simple as that!
At the end of the month, gather together as a family in front of the canvas. Read this month’s verse, examine your canvas, and talk about what you see. Then pray together as a family, acknowledging your identity in Christ.
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er BlESSINGEvery parent has big dreams for their children. We want to see them happy, we want them to succeed, we want them to have friends … and the list goes on. These dreams come out of hearts that deeply love our children, but they are often human dreams, and God’s Word reminds us that it’s not our job to form our children in our image.
Our job is to point our children back to God and let them be formed in His image, to let their dreams come from Him. As good as the things are that we want for our children, they simply cannot compare with the identity that God has in mind for them. As you read this month’s blessing over your children, let these words sink into your own heart as well. I hope this blessing empowers your children to find their identity in Christ alone and that it gives you the courage to let go of your plans for them and to surrender to the beautiful mystery of who God is creating your child to be.
Each month, you will see a different blessing in HomeFront Monthly. This will be your blessing for the entire month. Take the time to speak this blessing into the lives of your children at different times throughout the month. you can do this on the way to school, before bed, or while you eat as a family. Just make sure you have your children’s attention. Look them in their eyes and pray the blessing over them. Affirm your love for them by placing a hand on their shoulder or holding their hands. Remember, God’s Spirit is at work; He will bless and care for the growing and tender hearts of your children.
BLESSING “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love, he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.” Ephesians 1:3–6
Don’t forget the HomeFront Weekly: A resource to get parents and kids talking about God’s Word together.
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Inspire (for parents) I always felt as though God had promised me a close relationship with my three kids. And while that was always true and came fairly easily with our oldest and youngest, our middle child was a slightly different story.When my daughter came along, she pretty quickly asserted herself as a willful child. She could be fun and sweet, but she also was an introvert and didn’t like to open up much. Even when she was young, I often felt disconnected from her. So, I read all the parenting books and tried all the techniques. Occasionally, I would see a glimmer of what could be, but, in the end, I felt like God would have to do the work. I could only be faithful to His call to be the mom that she needed.
Honestly, at times, I felt a little hopeless. My daughter and I had little in common and she mostly kept to herself. It was a challenge to continually trust that God was working in her life.My daughter is now 28 years old, lives on the other side of the country and our relationship is stronger than it’s ever been. I’m not sure why God made me wait for the fulfi llment of this promise, but I do know that the waiting
made it that much sweeter. It’s amazing to see how He has been working in her throughout her life through friends and family. I’m only seeing His power in her life now, but what I’m seeing is that He was faithful all along. He got her here. And now, through the relationship that He’d promised so long ago, I get to be a witness to His work in her life.
God has the power to do all that He promises!
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Equip (for parents)Genesis, the book of generations, begins not only the start of human history but also the plan for the redemption of all mankind. Some scholars believe that each genealogy within this book contrasts the Messianic lineage with a non-Messianic lineage wherein revealing God’s very specifi c focus to one particular family through whom the Messiah would be revealed.
Throughout the Bible, God refers to Himself in a number of ways. For instance: God Eternal, I Am, and YAHWEH. Each time, He reveals a signifi cant attribute about His character. In the fi rst verse of Genesis 17, just before He renews His covenant with Abraham, God reveals Himself as “El Shaddai.” In English, this translates to “God Almighty.” Surely, Abraham was shocked that God would promise Him a child at the age of 100. Using this name, God was informing Abraham of His ultimate power. He alone is God. He alone is able to accomplish everything He has planned to accomplish.
This moment holds great weight in our lives. God made an amazing promise to Abraham. His covenant with Abraham led to one of the most signifi cant moments in history: the starting point of the family line of Jesus—paving the way to our own salvation. It is because of this family line that we can have a restored relationship with God the Father. Thus, we are ushered into God’s family graphing us into a faith community that stretches around the globe. We have brothers and sisters from every tribe and nation. This family, our family, has the unique opportunity to walk alongside one another in true worship of God Almighty. We can live in such a way that the world will desire to be in relationship with our God— The El Shaddai.
Support (for parents & kids)Before this weekend, read through the biblical account of Abraham and the birth of Isaac in Genesis 17:15-19 and 21:1-7. After you have read, ask your child to tell you their favorite part of the story and share with them your favorite part.
JUST FOR FUN, try reading this passage in your child’s room. After you have read, ask your kids what they thought when they heard God promise a 100 year old man that he would have a baby. Point out that it would be like their great-grandparents having a baby! Let them know that God has the power to do anything!
When you are fi nished, share with your children that what they just heard is a part of The Big God Story in the Bible and that they will hear it in church this weekend. Close your time by praying and thanking God for keeping His promises.
© 2010 David C Cook. TruResources are developed in partnership with ROCKHARBOR Church
and a national network of family and children’s ministry leaders. All Right Reserved.
PRESCHOOL &KINDERGARTENKIDS & FAMILIES
“I’m not sure why God made me wait for the fulfi llment of this promise, but I do know that the waiting made it that much sweeter.”
Getting StartedScripture: Genesis 17, 21:1-7
(Abraham and Isaac)Main Point: God Has The Power to do All That
He Promises
This resource is designed to allow your family to have time in God’s Word before your children attend the weekend service. Because God’s plan is for parents to be the spiritual nurturers of their children’s faith, we know that as you grow spiritually, your children will grow spiritually as well.
REMEMBER VERSE
“Cheer each other up with the hope
that you have” 1 � essalonians 5:11a (NIrV)
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Inspire (for parents)
“I’m not sure why God made me wait for the fulfi llment of this promise, but I do know that the waiting made it that much sweeter.”
Inspire (for parents)
My dad’s faith journey required a miraculous
rescue and restoration at its core. At one time
he was a man who almost lost everything
because of his own foolish and hidden sin.
Here is his story in his words:
Since sixth grade I wanted to be a lawyer.
And from day one, my practice thrived. I felt
on top of the world—able to handle anything
that came my way. Even so, I was foolhardy
and struggled with deceit. Sin thrived in the
hidden places of my heart—and corroded it
like metal—left in areas of neglect and denial.
For 20 years my practice appeared solid,
but underneath I was becoming less and
less accountable with my money
and more and more obsessed
with status and image. Years
of living recklessly and foolishly
caused a situation in which I
could scramble and cover no more.
The phone stopped ringing; checks
bounced; lawsuits were filed against
me. In the midst of this I was losing the
love and trust of my precious wife.
After 20 years in my own practice and
25 years of marriage, neither was intact. No
clients wanted me, my wife was beginning
to despise me, and I only knew one place to
turn. I cried out to God, “Change me!” God
Himself heard me and rescued me that day.
The process of restoration began with
a job. The only job that opened up to me
was located in a remote area, miles and,
seemingly, light years away from home. This
small town did not even have cell phone
service. There, I was literally isolated from
my wife and family for five days out of every
week.
God hospitalized me there as He reattached
the foundational pieces that had
loosened—not in order
to allow me
to avoid
storms,
but to
“Do nothing out of selfish
ambition or v
ain conceit,
but in humilit
y consider
others better th
an
yourselves. Each of you
should look not only to
your own interests, but a
lso
to the interests of others.“
Philippians 2:3–4 (N
IV)
REMEMBER VERSE
Equip (for parents)
In the story of Joseph, God
redeemed Joseph many
times over. Joseph was
beaten by his brothers, sold
into slavery, framed by the
wife of Potiphar, forgotten in
jail—and yet God redeemed
him out of every one of these
situations. An interesting thing
about this story is that God not
only redeemed Joseph out of
these situations, He redeemed
him extravagantly. One of the
ways that the writer of Scripture
points out this extravagant redemption is by
making a point to mention Joseph’s garments.
Joseph changed garments five times during
the story. Joseph goes on a journey that sees
him take on the garments of a favorite child, a
slave, an overseer, a prisoner, and eventually, a
ruler dressed in fine robes.
We all have stories of redemption. Whether
they seem big or small in our eyes, we have all
been restored by God’s grace. Our garments
of sorrow and hopelessness have been
changed to garments of salvation and joy. It’s
so important that we tell these redemption
stories to our children. These stories give
hope, they give our children a picture of a God
who can move and redeem. They also show
our kids that we are not perfect, that following
Jesus is not about being perfect. They show
that a genuine life lived with Jesus is not about
never messing up, rather it’s about letting God
redeem those mess-ups for His holiness.
Support (for parents & kids)
Before this weekend, read through the biblical
account of Joseph’s story in Genesis 37:12–
36 and 41:41–49. At the end of each section
think of a question that reviews what you just
read such as, “What did Joseph’s brothers
do to him?” and “What did Pharaoh do to
Joseph?”
Before you begin to read the account, pray
together as a family. Spend some time asking
God what He might want each of you to hear
from Him. Next, create a setting for your
children that will help them engage with the
passage that they are about to hear.
We suggest incorporating a bit of your
own story into this time. Gather your children
together and read the passage to them. After
you have finished, tell them that, just as God
redeemed Joseph, He redeems all of us.
Chose a story in your own life that shows
God’s redemption and share that with your
children.
When you are finished, ask your children
if they have any questions about the story of
Joseph or about your story. Tell them that the
passage they just heard is a part of The Big
God Story and that they will hear more about
it in church this weekend. Remind them that
God is working to redeem their lives just like
He redeemed Joseph, just like He redeemed
you.
© 2010 David C Cook. TruResources are developed in partnership with ROCKHARBOR Church
and a national network of family and children’s ministry leaders. All Right Reserved.
Getting Started
Scripture: Genesis 37; 39—41
(Joseph’s Journey with God)
Main Point: God redeems
This resource is designed to allow your family to
have time in God’s Word before your children
attend the weekend service. Because God’s plan
is for parents to be the spiritual nurturers of their
children’s faith, we know that as you grow spiritually,
your children will grow spiritually as well.
ELEMENTARY
KIDS & FAMILIES
“...I ONLY KNEW ONE PLACE
TO TURN. I CRIED OUT TO
GOD, “CHANGE ME!”...”