helping kids be naughty no more jodi mullen, phd integrative counseling services
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HELPIN
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NAUGHTY N
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INTRODUCTIONS
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THE NAUGHTY NO MORE STORY
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IDENTIFYING FEELINGS& COMMUNICATING UNDERSTANDING
Verbally
Non-verbally
facial expressions
body language
Para-verbally
Even when freshly washed and relieved of all obvious
confections, children tend to be sticky.
Fran Lebowitz
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WHAT’S THE FEELING?
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WHEN THEY CAN TALK IT OUT THEY DON’T HAVE TO ACT OUT
• Use feeling words
• Use interjections
• Use developmentally appropriate language
• Use culturally-centric language
• Exaggerate your tone
• Exaggerate your non-verbal language
• Match non-verbal & verbal language
Play is the Way
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Changing your lens:
Manipulative >
Hyper>
Stubborn>
Childish>
Whiny>
Disrespectful>
THE POSITIVES DETECTIVE
What are some positives in yourself as a parent/teacher/caregiver?
What are some positives in this child?
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I’M THE BOSS OF ME! Below put an X next to all this times when you have let anger be the boss. I get angry with myself when I… feel tired say things that are mean hurt other people make a mistake don’t do well in school when I lose say things that I do not
mean You add some more…
Now try this, put an X next to the ways that you can be the boss of you even when anger is trying to be the boss.In order to feel better I can…
take a breath give myself a time out go for a walk (My mom says you
have to ask a grown up first) PLAY draw pretend talk to someone You add some…
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STABILITY & CONSISTENCY
How do you create it in your home or classroom?
TimeSoundSightsResponsesRitualsTraditionsCelebrationsWays of getting recognition
MealsDaysExpectationsConsequencesOf your wordEmotionResponsibilitiesSmells
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HO
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