grbnnkjnbkhv

8/12/2019 grbnnkjnbkhv

1/50

http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/Presents:

ight GameBlueprintPick Up and Seduction With o Bullshit

Jeff "Warped M ndless" Stanton
http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/


2/50

Table of Contents

About This Book

Part 1 The Realities of Seduction

The Truth About Looks

A Wake Up Call

Its a Numbers Game

Getting Laid is Easy

Part 2 Pre-Seduction

Sreening and Being E!!iient

Part 3 The Seduction Begins

"pening

#omentum

The $Go No%$ &ule

'o% to "pen

(ermission to )ail

Logistis

Con*ersation

'a*ing )un and Sel! Amusing

ES( #odel o! Esalation

Eye Contat

Se+uali,ation

(hysial Touh

In*estment and Compliane

The Importane o! #o*ement

-ominant (olarity

-amage Control

The ./ #inute &ule

Part 4 Endgame

Types o! Closing


3/50

2012, All Rights Reserved

First EditionThe Night Game Blueprint by Real Natural Seduction, 202,

!ll Right Reser"ed

Be sure to hek out my %ebsite at0 http011realnaturalsedution2%ordpress2om1

I keep my site updated at least one a %eek and share *aluable insights and tips on

pikup3 sedution3 dating3 %oman3 and general sel! impro*ment2

http011realnaturalsedution2%ordpress2om1
http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/


4/50

bout This Boo!

I deided to sit do%n and %rite this book due to my !ustration %ith %hat is being taught

in the $pua1sedution ommunity2$ So many people and ompanies are only out to make a

4uik bit o! ash and are teahing you bullshit in the proess2 There are some legit

teahers %ithin the ommunity but their !e% and !ar in bet%een2

)orums an be e*en %orse2 )ustrated ne%bies sign up on these !orums hoping to reei*e

some help and %hat do they get5 The blind leading the blind3 a bunh o! posers

pretending to be good3 and a ton o! bad and on!liting ad*ie2 The ne%bie ends up e*en

more on!used than they originally %ere to begin %ith2

I %rote this book to help orret these and other problems the ne% guy !aes2 Sedution is

a truly simple proess and in the !ollo%ing pages I %ill outline the !oundations o!

sedution2 #aster %hat is taught in this book and I promise you that you %ill ha*e more

options %ith %omen than e*er be!ore2

While I am a pretty good seduer o! %omen3 I don6t laim to ha*e diso*ered all o! this

mysel!2 I ha*e learned !rom many teahers in the ommunity and ha*e also !igured out a

great deal o! this on my o%n through in!ield e+periane2 I! you ha*e read a !e% books on

this topi already you %ill undoubtly see some stu!! you ha*e seen be!ore2 I an also bet

that you %ill see some ne% stu!! that you ha*e ne*er e*en herd o!7 All in all3 I don6t laim

to ha*e rein*ented the %heel2 In the !ollo%ing pages I simply outline %hat %orks !or me

and others I ha*e taught %hen it omes to seduing %omen2

The best %ay to get the absolute most out o! this book is to read it all the %ay through and

highlight parts that you belie*e %ill be the most help!ul to you2 A!ter you ha*e read the

book ompletely go bak and study the parts that you ha*e hi8lighted2 &ead those parts a

!e% times i! you ha*e to but make sure you understand them2 Its important to read this

book %ith an open mind2 9ou may !ind ad*ie that you belie*e %ont %ork or ad*ie that


5/50

goes against other stu!! you may ha*e read be!ore2 :eep an open mind and try e*erything

you read in this book beause you may be surprised ho% %ell it %ill %ork !or you2

In the !uture I plan on %riting a guide on more ad*aned topis but !or no% this is all you

need2 &ead %hat I ha*e %rote !or you in these pages and go out and meet %omen7 This

in!ormation %ill do nothing !or you inside your head222 you #UST apply it out in the real

%orld2 &ead %hat I ha*e %ritten3 go out and use it to meet %omen and get started li*ing

the li!e you ha*e al%ays dreamed o! ha*ing2

9our )riend3

;e!! $Warped #indless$ Stanton


6/50

Part IThe eal t es of Seduct on


7/50

The Truth bout "oo!s

This is something most o! the ommerial $gurus$ in the ommunity dont like to talk

about2 Why should they5 I! they %ere to be honest %ith e*eryone they %ould loose a lot o!

%hat their a!ter3 your money2

The truth o! the matter is that loo!s do matter2 I6m sorry i! that o!!ends you or i! you ha*e

been brain%ashed by the $pua ommunity$ to not beli*e that but it is the truth2 Telling a

bunh o! ugly guys that looks matter is a sure!ire %ay o! loosing a lot o! ustomers and is

the reason %hy the ma#orit$ of commercial %&uas% lie2 They %ant you to belie*e that its

possible to get any girl


8/50

looking2

An e+tremly important part o! looking good is dressing good too2 n ugl$ gu$ 'ho

dresses +er$ st$lish 'ill ma!e himself a&&ear to be much better loo!ing than he reall$

is2 'o% to dress is beyond the sope o! this book but I %ill outline a !e% simple tips

belo%0

Get a honest3 stylish !emale !rend to go shopping %ith you2

Go to a G""- salaon and tell a gay stylist to make your hair look se+y

'IT T'E G9#7

(retty soon you %ill de*elope an eye !or %hat looks good on you and you %ill start

dressing stylish and se+y %ith minimal e!!ort on your part2

Another great thing to do is to se+y sterotype2 Se+y Sterotyping basially re!ers to dressing

like a ertian nihe o! people2 &okstars3 &appers3 Skaters3 Business #en222 et2

-oing the se+y sterotype look is polara,ing meaning that some %omen6s attration %ill be

instantbut some %omen %ill hate the look you ha*e and %ont gi*e you the time o! day2

-on6t be a!raid to e+periment and see %hat %orks best !or you but also keep in mind that

the 'a$ $ou dress needs to be congruent to $our &ersonalit$2 I! you hate rap then

ob*isouly don6t dress like a rapper2

Grooming is another import !ator that %ill determine your o*erall attrati*ness2 The best

ad*ie is to !ind a style o! !aial hair that looks se+y on you2 Again3 don6t be a!raid to

e+periment and ask opinions about it2 Bell 'ell sha+en and don(t loo! li!e a homeless

manon the streets o! Ne% 9ork City and your good to go2

Take sho%ers and make sure you smell nie2 Smelling like a pile o! shit %ill make seduing

%omen many times harder than it has to be2 This also inludes your breath7 Brush your


9/50

teeth3 !loss3 and use a tongue sraper2 I! your teeth are stained onsider going to a dentist

and ha*ing them %hitened2

,a!e u& Call

Besides the %hole myth o! looks not mattering there are other dumb myths %ithin the

ommunity as %ell2 A big myth is that a!ter you learn $game$ you %ill be able to get any

girl you %ant2 This* uite fran!l$* is B.""S/0T2 "ne again3 this may piss you o!! or

o!!end you but it is reality and you need to !ae it2 No matter ho% good you get you %ill

ne*er be able to get any girl you %ant2 The best seduers in the %orld get re>eted more

than most people o! the %orld but they also ge laid more than most people in the %orld2

Re#ection is a constant realit$%hen your out in the !ield meeting %omen2 Get used to the

idea2

What you ha*e to reali,e is that re#ection is a good thing2 I kno%3 that sounds like a pile o!

!eel good shit but its true2 &e>etion sa*es you !rom %asting *aluable time that an be used

to meet more %omen2 When you approah a %omen and she re>ets you3 you are learning

that you and her share no hemistry and that its a lost ause any%ays2 This is great

beause it sa*es you time3 time that you an use to meet other %omen %ho you do ha*e

hemistry %ith2

A big problem ne% guys !ae is that they ant tell the di!!erene bet%een re>etion and

resistane2 Almost all %omen %ill gi*e you resistane in some !orm or another2 This an be

a shit test or anything else to try and make you loose your alm3 ool omposure2

'o% an you tell the di!!erene bet%een re>etion and resistane5


10/50

&e>etion0

Telling you to !uk o!!

Walking a%ay

Turning her bak on you

&esistane0

Anything that isn6t re>etion

I! you approah a %oman and start se+ually esalating by putting your arm around her

and she peels your arm o!!3 thats not re>etion that resistane ust one e+ample o! resistane and I6m sure you an think o! a lot more2 9ou should

e+pet to get resistane and a lot o! it2 As a matter o! !at you should shoot to ha+e $our

escalation attem&ts resisted of the time2 /?@ is the per!et number2 9ou don6t %ant

to be to !ar belo% that or to !ar abo*e that2

I kno% it probably sounds ra,y but this /?@ rule is a great %ay to insure your not

mo*ing to slo%2 lmost all ne' gu$s escalate 'a$ to slo'2 The truth is3 most %omen an

be esalated on #UC' !aster than most guys belie*e2

As I said be!ore3 stri*e to ha*e your esalation attempts re>eted /?@ o! the time2 #uh

more than that and you need to slo% do%n and re8alibrate things2 #uh less than that

and you need to speed things up3 be more bold and esalate !aster2


11/50

0ts umbers 5ame

As I said abo*e3 its not possible to get e*ery %omen you approah2 Cold a&&roach &ic! u&

is a numbers game2 Lukly !or you its a numbers game %here your numbers an impro*e2

Thats the goal o! this book3 to help you impro*e your numbers7

As you approah %omen you %ill get re>eted etion is a good thing=2

9ou %ill also enounter %omen %ho like you but !or %hate*er reason %ill not go home

%ith you or in some ases3 let hersel! beome more attrated to you2 This ould be !or a

multitude o! reasons and trying to !igure out %hy is unnesseary2 It %ill only dri*e you

ra,y7 I an tell you3 ho%e*er3 the main reasons are that she >ust got out o! a bad

realtionship or that she is taken1married2 When you enounter a %omen %ho is taken by

another man it is up to you and your morals to deide i! you %ant to try and get her to

heat2 'o% to aomplish that is beyond the sope o! this book and %ill be in my ne+t

book on more ad*aned sedution sub>ets2

'o%e*er3 reali,e that o!ten times a 'omen telling $ou she has a bo$friend is #ust

resistance and man$ times is actuall$ single2 A good rule o! thumb is that %hen she

brings up her B)3 simply ignore it and either hange the sub>et or go on %ith %hat you

%ere saying2 I! she keeps bringing up a B) you need to take into onsideration ho% she is

bringing him up2

I! she talks logially about her and her B) suh as telling you about plaes they

go and ati*ities they do3 shes o!ten times >ust trying to make you >ealious or

playing hard to get2

I! she talks about emotions and1or !eelings the B) makes her !eel then she has no

interest in you and is simply spe%ing her !eelings2 #o*e on to the ne+t girl2

#ost o! the time i! a %oman has an interest in you and she has a B)3 she %ill simply keep

4uiet about him and may ne*er e*en mention him2


12/50

Cold approah pik up is a numbers game and in order to sa*e time and impro*e numbers

you should focus $our time and energ$ into a+oiding time 'asters 2 What I mean is that

there %ill al%ays be girls that trying to sedue %ill be a %aste o! *aluabe time2

Time %asters inlude0

Women %ho are ne%ly taken2 This is o!ten allled the $honeymoon phase2$

-on6t bother %ith these %omen2

Women %ho are blo%ing men out le!t and right2 I! you see %omen blo%ing a

ton o! men out be!ore they e*en get a !e% %ords in3 a*oid her2 She is >ust there

!or attention and *alidation2

Women %ho are more into daning than into being soial2

Not %asting time and energy %ith these girls %ill greatly impro*e your suess2 Sure3 it is

possible to sometimes sleep %ith %omen %ho !it the abo*e ategories but there %ill

al%ays be e+eptions to the rule2 Its simply not %orth your time to try and reate an

e+eption to the rule2 Simply a*oid those %omen and !ous on better oppertunities2

5etting "aid 0s Eas$

It al%ays ba!!les me %hen I hear about a guy %ho has been going out and has raked up

hundreds3 sometimes thousands3 o! approahes %ithout getting more than a single lay or

t%o2 Sometimes they do all that and get no lays at all7 lot of men li!e to com&lain that

getting laid is hard* 'hich is com&lete cra&2

As men they like to belie*e its hard inorder to not hurt their ego2 By aepting that getting

laid is not some 'erulian task they also ha*e to aept they ha*e been doing something


13/50

e+tremly %rong all their se+less years2 #any men6s egos ant handle the blo% this simple

truth deli*ers to them2

I! you are to e*er get good %ith %omen you ha*e to aept3 right no%3 that getting laid

'ith hot 'omen is eas$2

I6ll break this truth do%n e*en !urther to demonstrate %hat I mean e+atly2 The !ollo%ing

applies to any sort o! night time party *enues2 Bars3 Night Clubs3 Conerts3 'ouse (arties3

et2 I also assume that you ha*e !ollo%ed my pre*ious ad*ie and ha*e taken are o! your

appearene2

About .?@ o! the %omen you meet %ill like you %ithin the !irst seonds o! the approah

no matter %hat2

9ou ould remind her o! an e+8b! she has al%ays lo*ed2

(erhaps your the se+y stero type o! her !antasies2 )or e+ample3 she has a thing

!or bikers and you happen to be dressed as a biker sterotype2

#any3 many other reasons2

Around ?@ o! the %omen in these plaes %ill be neutral to you2 This is %here $game$

omes into play2 The better at seduction $ou get* the more 'omen from the 6 'ill

turn into a %$es% instead of a %no7%#ake no mistake3 pretty muh e*ery neutral %omen

%ill e*entually !all into a $yes I an see him as a possible se+ual partner$ or a $no3 I ant

imagine sleeping %ith him$ ategory2

The !inal ?@ %ill dislike you on the inital approah2 This an be !or %hate*er reason and

ultimatly its not o! importane2 Though it is possible to sometimes hange a %omen in this

ategories mind3 its not usually %orth the e!!ort2 Simply mo*e on to the ne+t %oman2

A big part o! making getting laid a muh eaiser proess is to !ind your nihe2 Some guys


14/50

do great in bars but horrible in night lubs2 "ther guys do great at onerts but not so

good at house parties2 This an be broken do%n e*en !urther0 -i!!erent nights o! the %eek

at a same lub %ill bring in di!!erent ro%ds3 espeially i! di!!erent nights ha*e di!!erent

themes2

Basially3 you ha*e to do some e+perimenting and !ind %hih type o! ro%d you do best

%ith2 I! pulling %omen at rok onerts al%ays seems to ome eaiser than pulling hiks

on Tehno night at the lub then you should spend most o! your time at the onerts2


15/50

Part IIPre!Seduct on


16/50

Screening and Being Efficient

The biggest %ay to make your >ob simple and easy is to sreen !or reepti*e %omen2 Sure3

its possible to approah a %omen %ithout !irst sreening !or reepti*ness and get her

aroused and %anting to ha*e se+ %ith you but in a nightgame t$&e +enue there 'ill be

man$ 'omen 'ho are rece&ti+e to'ards $ouso %hy %aste more energy than you ha*e

too5

Sreening !or these %omen is super easy and one you get good at it you %ill !ind yoursel!

doing it naturally3 %ithout thinking about it2 So3 %hat do you look !or %hen you %ant an

easy lay5

Eye ontat2 Eye ontat is so ma>ory important that it ant possibly be o*erstated2 E$e

contact is the biggest indincator of 'omen 'ho are interested in $ou 2 I! you meet eyes

%ith a hik3 hold it longer than most people %ould ha*e and look at her in a se+ual %ay2

I! she holds longer than most %omen normally %ould3 its e+tremly sa!e to assume that she

is interested and %ants you to go meet her2

Another !orm o! eye ontat is %hen she keeps glaning o*er at you2 Women are

submissi*e by nature and are naturally shy beause o! it2 This makes it likely that she %ont

hold diret eye ontat !or *ery long and sometimes not at all2 'o%e*er3 i! a %oman has

notied you and you spark her interest she %ill thro% glanes at you e*ery so o!ten2 The

triky part to athing them doing this2 Women are sly and are *ery good at heking us

out %hen %e arn6t paying attention2 #ost %omen are so good at this that most men get a

lot more signs of interest from 'omen on a dail$ basis then the$ e+er reali8e 2

I! you belie*e a %omen is thro%ing glanes to%ards you there are a !e% great %ays to

ath her2

Look at her !rom the orner o! your eyes2 She %ill think your looking some plae


17/50


18/50

These hints inlude

Women %ho gi*e you prolonged eye ontat2

Women %ho keeps glaning at you2

Women are are gi*ing you pro+imity2 Women %ho %ant to meet you %ill o!ten

times ome and stand in your general area hoping to ath your attention2

"pen body language2 Women %ho are interested in you %ill o!ten times display

open body language suh as her body !aing to%ards you2

Usually any %omen %ho %ants to meet you %ill display a ombination o! the abo*e hints2

otice= -on6t use this as an e+use to not approah2 I! you don6t !ind any ute %oman

gi*ing you any AI6s then simply pik a %oman %ho you !ind desirable and go approah

her2 ;ust beause a %oman hasn6t gi*ing you any AI6s doesn6t mean she %ont like you it

>ust means she didn6t happen to yet notie you in the sea o! men2

Another e+tremly e!!eti*e but o!ten sneaky %ay o! spotting %oman %ho are easy lays is

to look !or a %oman %ho has a high buying tempture


19/50

horny girl2 Wheather she %as horny be!ore she got to the lub or the guy did all the %ork

and turned her on doesn6t matter3 all that matters is that you no% ha*e a horny hik in

!ront o! you2

There are a ton o! %ays to blo% a guy out but the simplist and easiest %ay is as !ollo%s0

.= Approah her

= Ignore the guy

= Lead the on*ersation2 Whe*er the guy starts to talk >ust rediret the on*ersation

bak to %here you %ant it to go

F= Esalate %ith the girl

E*entually the guy %ill get bored or loose all hope o! getting any%here %ith her and he

%ill lea*e you both alone2


20/50

Part IIIThe Seduct on Beg ns


21/50

>&ening

A!ter you ha*e spotted a %oman you !ind desirable ust simply spotted her= its time !or you to

approah her2 This is %hen most guys get that dreaded !eeling %ay do%n in their gut3 the

!eelings your about to be sik3 this is %hen most guys get Approah An+iety2

Without getting too sienti!i here3 approah an+iety is the ner*ious !eeling most guys get

right be!ore they approah a %oman they %ant to meet2 &&roach an)iet$ is com&letel$

useless2 Nothing bad is going to result !rom you approahing a %oman in a bar or

any%ehere else !or that matter2 Though thats the truth most guys %ill still su!!er !rom it2

Lukly there is a %ay to ombat approah an+iety and get it under ontrol2 ,ith some

gu$s the feeling ne+er reall$ goes a'a$ but insted mor&hs into a feeling of e)citement 2

They see the beauty in !ront o! them and they !eel a rush o! e+itement ome o*er them7

E*entually you %ill most likely !eel this too and is something to look !or%ard too2

'o%e*er3 until you an get to that stage you need a %ay to handle these an+ious !eelings2

?ost gu$s start off their night all 'rong2 They get to the lub3 then they go to the

bathroom3 then they get a drink3 then sope out the plae %ith thier !riends3 so on and so

!orth2 -id you notie a pattern !orming there5 The pattern is that the guy keeps putting o!!

approahing %omen beause o! the an+ious !eeling he has in his gut2 B$ &utting off

a&&roaching $ou allo' those an)ious feelings to gro' e+en stronger2

The orret %ay to handle the an+ious !eeling is to shut it do%n be!ore it an gro% out o!

hand and onsume you2 The absolute best %ay to shut these negati*e !eelings do%n is to

reate something alled momentum2


22/50

?omentum

Creating momentum is atually 4uite easy and e*en !un to do2 ll $ou ha+e to do is tal!

to &eo&le and be social2 Talk to the people in the line3 male !or !emale3 it doesn6t matter2

Talk to the bouner3 talk to the people beside you2 It doesn6t matter3 >ust get in a soial

mood2

Another important part o! reating momentum is ha*ing !un and sel! amusing2 9ou %ant

to be en>oying yoursel! as your being soial2 "oosen u& and ha+e fun7

There are t%o types o! momentum0

#aro

#iro

#iro momentum is the momentum you build up o*er the ourse o! the night2 #aro

momentum3 on the other hand3 is momentum built up o*er a longer period o! time2 )or

e+ample3 i! you go out !i*e nights in a ro%3 eah night you build up miro momentum but

all the momentum !rom the pre*ious night arries o*er and builds up maro momentum2

The more momentum $ou ha+e built u&* the eaiser and smoother $our a&&roaches 'ill

start to go2 #omentum truly is an ama,ing thing7 I kno% guys that ha*e gone out litlery

almost e*ery night !or o*er a year and beause they ha*e so muh momentum e*erything

they do goes e+tremly smoother than it other%ise normally %ould ha*e2

Its important to note ho%e*er3 i! you go out !or a %eek straight and build up a bunh o!

maro momentum3 that momentum %ill be gone i! you take a %eek break and start bak

up again2 ?omentum is a constant c$cle2 Not to %orry though3 you an simply go bak

out and start building momentum any time you %ant2


23/50

While momentum %ill help you o*erome approah an+iety3 there are other things you

should do inorder to o*erome it as %ell2

The %5o o'% Rule

When you spot a utie gi*ing you an approah in*intation or you simply >ust spot a

desirable %oman you %ant to meet its im&ortant that $ou go meet her right a'a$7 I! you

%ait to approah you %ill o!ten times rationali,e an e+use %hy you shouldn6t approah

her and then your approah an+iety %ill ha*e a massi*e !lair up2 9on(t gi+e $ourself time

to thin! or rationali8e* #ust mo+e $our legs and a&&roach2 It6s seriously not that hard3 >ust

put one !oot in !ront o! the other and go meet her2

/o' To >&en

I6m a pretty big belie*er that the opener you use doesn6t matter2 What is important3

ho%e*er3 is that you don6t use some preplanned3 sripted opener2 I! its one o! your !irst

!e% approahes o! the night and you don6t ha*e muh momentum built up then you %ill

probably be a bit ner*ious2 This is ok2 0n order to combat this its im&ortant to !ee& $our

o&ener short ;fi+e 'ords or less< 'hen $our ner+ious 2 This %ill be a huge help %hen

your trying to delie*er your !irst %ords to her2

#ake sure you approah !rom the !ront3 none o! that %ierd side%ays stu!! and gi*er her

good eye ontat2 9ou %ant to ha*e a strong and lear *oie7


24/50

Permission to :ail

#ake sure that be!ore you open your !irst girl or t%o o! the night that you gi+e $ourself

&ermission to fail2 This is important beause it takes a lot o! the stress a%ay !rom you and

lears your head a bit2 Let yoursel! kno% its okay i! the approah doesn6t go per!etly and

o!ten times it %ill go better than you ould ha*e hoped2

"ogistics

Same night lays


25/50

long interation and then not be able to pull her beause o! bad logistis2

Con+ersation

#any guys are al%ays getting stuk up on the on*ersational part o! the pik up2 They

%orry about %hat to say and %hen to say it %hen really the onl$ thing the$ should be

'orried about is han+ing fun and self amusing 2

There are t%o man %ays to not get stuk up on on*ersation2 )ollo% these t%o %ays and

%ords %ill !lo% !rom your mouth %ithout e*en thinking2 It may take you some pratie at

!irst be don6t %orry3 i! your able to ha*e a normal on*ersation %ith your male !riends3 you

%ill be able to ha*e a on*ersation %ith %omen2

The !irst thing you need to reali,e is that you should ne+er be tr$ing to im&ress 'omen2

"!ten time men don6t reali,e it but them not kno%ing %hat to say is a side e!!et o! trying

to impress %omen or trying not to !uk up %ith a %oman2 ,hat $ou sa$ reall$ isn(t all

that im&ortantso stop aring %hat they think3 stop aring i! you !uk up3 and stop trying

to impress her2 I! you instead focus on E@PRESS05 $ourselfinsted o! trying to impress

her3 %hat you say %ill ome naturally and %ill !lo% %ith no problems2

A!ter you ha*e learned to e+press yoursel! instead o! trying to impress you an do this litte

trik2 #ake a list o! all the 4ualities you like in a %oman2 #ake sure you ha*e D 8. do%n2

No less and no more2 No% %hen your talking to a %oman try to !ind out about those

4ualities29on(t #ust rattle them off one b$ onebut try to !ind a reati*e %ay to !ind out i!

she meets %hat you like in a %oman2

)or e+ample3 lets say one o! the 4ualities I like is a %oman %ho e+eries and stays !it2


26/50

A bad %ay to ask her %ould be this0

$So3 do you e+erise and stay !it5$

She %ould probably reply %ith a one %ord ans%er3 $yes$ or $no2$

A muh better %ay to !ind out %ould be this0

$I bet you do a lot o! !un things2$

This is a muh better %ay to ask !or t%o reasons2 "ne3 its a statement insted o! a 4uestion2

Statements are almost al'a$s more &o'erful than uestions2 T%o3 its an open loop that

%ill prompt her to gi*e you more than >ust a simple one %ord ans%er2 She ould tell you

about se*eral things she does !or !un and then you an take one o! those things and reate

another on*ersational topi about it2 Its a great %ay to keep the on*ersation going2

/a+ing :un and Self musing

I6*e already mentioned this onept a !e% other plaes already but I %ant to elaborate on it

some more2 ,hen $our out meeting 'omen it shouldn(t feel li!e a chore 2 Instead3 you

should be out and ha*ing a ton o! !un and sel! amusing2 All you ha*e to do is ask yoursel!3

$'o% an I make this !un !or me5$ Anytime your in a suitation %ith a %oman and you

don6t kno% %hat to do3 simply ask yoursel! that 4uestion2 :un is the most attracti+e

ualit$ a gu$ can ha+e2 As long as your ha*ing !un3 she %ill most likely be ha*ing !un as

%ell2 As long as you t%o are ha*e !un together you ould do a lot o! stu!! $%rong$ and yet

she %ould still !eel a strong sense o! attration to%ards you2


27/50

ESP ?odel of Escalation

The ES( #odel o! Esalation is the struture o! my esalation method that I use on %oman

and is the biggest !ator in %hy I am able to onsistantly pull !ast lays %ith hot %omen2

The ES( #odel is broken do%n like this0

Eye Contat

Se+uali,ation

Physial Touh

In a nutshell3 the ES( #odel is used to reate one ma>or thing3 se)ual tension2 Se+ual

Tension is o!ten times %hat makes the %oman %ant to sleep %ith you2 The more se+ual

tension you build3 and the !aster you build it3 the more a 'oman 'ill 'ant to slee& 'ith

$ou inorder to release the tension2

E$e Contact

This one is pretty sel! e+planatory but I6ll go o*er it any%ays2 (roper Eye Contat


28/50

#ost guys ant handle the ma>or amount o! se+ual tension that EC o! this nature reates

and o!ten times don6t hold it as long as they should2 At !irst this %ill probably be

unom!ortable !or you but keep at it and e*entually you %ill not only be om!ortable %ith

it but you %ill be han*ing !un %ith it as %ell2 Soon you %ill be om!ortable %ith the

tension and be a master at turning %omen on %ith your eyes alone2

Se)uali8ation

The $S$ in the ES( #odel stands !or $Se+uali,ation$ and enompases all the things that

gi*e your interations a se+ual *ibe %hih in turn reates se+ual tension2 This part o! the

ES( #odel inludes a lot o! things3 not all o! %hih has to be done2 Calibrate it to eah

spei!i interation as using all o! the !ollo%ing tehni4ues may be o*erkill2

Silence and Pauses

When talking to a %oman3 using silense and introduing pauses an be *ery po%er!ul2

This inludes talking slo%er and more sensual2 Silene is a great tool to use to reate more

se+ual tension in ertian moments2 )or e+ample222

9ou6re talking to a beauti!ul blond and you tell her there is a great late night !ood plae

that you should both boune too2 She responds3 $Ummm3 I don6t kno%222$

Instead o! saying something3 >ust look at her %ith a ompletely dead pan !ae and &ut the

&ressure on her to sa$ somethinginstead o! bailing her out2 ;ust look at her and hold it

and most o! the time she %ill respond !a*orably2

$%ell222 ok3 lets go7$

Pauses

Introduing pauses to your speeh is an e+ellent tool %hih %ill help you slo% do%n and


29/50

speak more sensually2 Using pauses at key points reates antiipation and in turn reates

se+ual tension2 I do this a lot %hen I6m saying something *ery se+ual or seduti*e2

Proxomity

This is basially a !any %ay o! telling you to be close to the 'oman $our seducing2 HH@

o! all men stand %ay to !ar a%ay %hen talking to a %oman7 9ou should be e+tremly lose3

almost nose to nose and sometimes e*en loser2 And yes3 you should be this lose %ithin

minutes o! talking to her2 I kno% this an sound drasti but its true and the best %ay to do

it2 Being lose3 and being om!ortable %ith being lose not only sho%s that your e+tremly

on!ident but it also reates a ton o! se+ual tension2

A good %ay to get lose is to bring her into $our s&ace insted of in+ading hers 2 Take her

hand %hile talking and >ust gently tug her into your spae2 "ne you get good at this you

an do it e!!ortlessly and %ithout bringing any attention to it2 Talk about smooth7

Sexual Innuendo

Se+ual Innuendo ust happened to ha*e

laying on top o! my dressor2 I looked o*er at her3 and %ith $laser eyes$ said0

$I see you like playing %ith my balls2$

Be are!ul not to use this too o!ten or it an get really lame and %ill be ounter produti*e2

Misinterpretation

This little tehni4ue is one o! my all time !a*orites2 All you ha*e to do is misinter&ert stuff

she sa$s and ma!e it se)ual sounding2 Again3 muh like SI3 using this to muh makes it

lame and ounter produti*e2


30/50

An e+ample222

Girl0 I seen you o*er there talking to those %oman2

#e0 "h5 So you ha*e been staring at me the %hole night2

This is really good stu!! %hen used properly2

Sexual Overload

Se+ual "*erload ust done ne*er e*en happened2 Then3 a !e% minutes later3 do it again2 In e!!et

%hat you doing is causing a bunch of tension and then letting the tensiongoand then

repeating the proess2 This is ("WE&)UL2

Sexual Frames

Se+ual )raming udge her !or it and that its approiate and e*en good

beha*ior !or her to be se+ual2 S) %ill pretty muh take a%ay any $anti8slut de!ense$ and


31/50

beause o! that3 this techniue is a must use2

The best %hay I ha*e !ound to use se+ual !rames is to use something I all $Beha*ior

Shaping2$

Basially3 this is making a mini old read about her2 I! she has any interest in you at all3

e*en >ust a little bit3 she %ill %ant to li*e up to the old read so not to dissapoint you2

An e+ample0

$I an tell that your a %oman %ho kno%s ho% to ha*e !un and goes a!ter %hat she %ants2$

$I an already tell that your a !un hik %hos open to ne% e+perianes and %ild

ad*entures2$

$9ou seem pretty se+ually agressi*e %hih is ool beause I respet %omen %ho goes a!ter

%hat they %ant2$

The e!!et o! these is pretty ob*ious2 It !rames the %hole interation so that its normal and

approiate !or her to be se+ual and to be open to you about se+ual stu!!2

Sexual State

This one is pretty important so I sa*ed it !or last so that you %ill hope!ully remember it

better2 Lets !irst talk about the golden rule o! natural game0

%She feels 'hat $ou feel7%

our mood and sate are both contagiousand an o!ten trans!er o*er to her2 In a nutshell3

i! your !eeling se+ual and horny3 she %ill too2 A good %ay to make sure you in a se+ual

state is to imagine her doing se+ual things to you2


32/50

Ph$scial Touch

This is my )A"&ITE part o! my ES( #odel beause I lo*e to be physial and touh

%omen2

#any guys o!ten %onder ho% soon they should get physial and start being se+ual2 The

ans%er o!ten times surprises them2 The orret ans%er is222

Right 'a$7

9ou should be getting physial right !rom the start2 It is important3 ho%e*er3 that you get

physial the right %ay2

Sexualized Physical Game (SPG)

?ost gu$s go about touching 'omen in the 'rong 'a$2 They gi*e her a little shoulder

touh %hen she says something !unny3 or gi*es her a little high !i*e to re%ard her !or

something ool she does2 Lame touhes like these arn6t going to turn the %oman on2 She

isn6 going to %ant to drop her pants and spred her legs beause you ga*e her a tap on the

shoulder or a small pat on the bak2 I! anything she %ould >ust think your %eird and

honestly3 she %ould be right2

The right %ay to touh a %oman is to touch her li!e a man2 E*erything you do in an

interation %ith a %oman should be $!rom a man to a %oman$ kind o! %ay2 Not as her

!riend3 not as her buddy3 but as a #AN2

9ou aomplish this by doing %hat I all $Se+uali,ed (hysial Game$ or S(G !or short2

S(G is all about being lose


33/50

I like to treat a %oman as i! I6*e kno%n her !or years3 e*en i! I >ust met her2 )or instane3

%ould I be a!raid to pik a %oman up and spin her around i! I ha*e kno%n her !or years5

"! ourse not2 I %ould do it %ithout a seond thought2 I do it %ith %omen %ho I ha*e

kno%n only a short amount o! time2 Beause I6m on!ortable %ith it3 she %ill be too2

&emember that golden rule o! natural game5 That applys here too7

Conclusion

In essene3 that is the basis o! my ES( #odel o! Esalation2 It %orks %onders !or me and I

kno% that i! you go out3 pratie and impliment it3 then it %ill %ork %onders !or you as

%ell2

0n+estment and Com&liance

In*estment is any and all e!!ort3 both physial and mental3 a %oman ontributes to%ards

you2 This inludes doing stu!! !or you and thinking about you2

In*estment is e+tremly important beause the more a 'oman is in+ested in $ou* the more

she 'ill 'ant $ouand the more she %ill %ork to get you2 In*estment is the ans%er to the

lassi 4uestion3 $ho% do I get girls to hase me5$

Another e+tremly important3 and po%er!ul3 part o! in*estment is Com&liance2

Compliane is all about making a re4uest o! a %oman and her doing it2 Any re4uest you

make o! a %oman is alled a $Compliane &e4uest$


34/50

'a*ing her go get something !or you

'a*ing her mo*e around the bar %ith you

All o! those are lo% le*el C&2 The best 'a$ to thin! of com&liance is to thin! of a ladder2

The *ery bottom o! the ladder are lo% le*el ompliane re4uest2 These re4uest re4uire a

*ery lo% le*el o! in*estment2 As you progress up the ladder the ompliane re4uest re4ure

more and more in*estment !rom her2 Lukly3 ompliane and in*estment arries

momentium %ith it2 When a %oman omplies to a lo% le*el C&3 she %ill be muh more

likely to omply to the ne+t C& you gi*e her2

This is %hy i! you %alked up to a %oman3 grabbed her hand and told her $mo*e o*er

there %ith me$ she may >erk her hand bak and say no2 'o%e*er3 i! you approahed the

same %oman !i!teen minutes prior and she as already sa*ed you a seat3 took %ell to your

physial ad*anes3 and told you a bit about hersel!3


35/50

out of it2 Simply mo*e bak do%n to the pre*ious le*el o! ompliane and go !rom there2

:eep doing that until she reahes the ne+t le*el2 E*entually you %ill ha*e a horny

your se+ual esalation= and ompliant %oman on your hands2 Take ad*antage o! it7

The 0m&ortance of ?o+ement

While seduing a %oman its *itally important to mo*e her around3 speially i! your

aiming !or a SNL2 By onstantly mo*ing her not only are you asserting your domiane and

getting her to in*est in you by ompling to your re4uest to mo*e else%here3 but you are

also ausing her to loose the sense o! time she has spent %ith you2 The more you mo*e her

around the more time she %ill think she spent %ith you2 Its nothing more than a ra!y

illusion but its a *itally important ra!y illusion2 5et into the habbit of mo+ing 'oman

aroundbut don6t o*er due it2 Listen to your gut and use some ommon sense and you %ill

be !ine2

A good rule to keep in mind is this00f she 'ont mo+e 'ith $ou after 1 2 minutes of

interacting 'ith $ou* the chance of $ou fuc!ing her that night ;or at all< is slim to none 2

I! she %ont mo*e %ith you then you mo*e2222 right onto the ne+t utie you see2

9ominant Polarit$

#ost people kno% that %oman are attrated to dominant guys2 What most guys don6t

kno%3 ho%e*er3 is ho% to beome a dominant person2 ?ost gu$s in the P. Communit$

go about it the totall$ 'rong 'a$2 They dream up some kinda image o! a !itional $Alpha

#ale$ and then go about trying to imitate him2 This mostly >ust leads men to

o*erompensating3 looking silly3 and ausing %oman to run a%ay2

Instead o! trying to be some !ake3 try hard $alpha male$ %ho %alks through the lub


36/50

pratially beating his hest and sreaming about ho% alpha he is3 !ous on beoming a

dominant man2

'o% do you beome a man %ho e+udes dominanes5

.= 'a*e a line and kno% %hen its rossed2 Its important to kno% %hat you %ill and

%ill not tolerate !rom people3 speially %oman2 'o% you deal %ith a %oman %ho

rosses that line is e4ually important as ha*ing the line itsel!2 Instead o! going o!! on

her or telling her that she >ust rossed a line3 the best %ay to deal %ith this is to

%ithdra% your attention and emotional stimulation2 Look bored and let your

attention slightly %ander2 Jone her out as she speaks and look demissi*e2 She %ill

no% !eel that its up to her to get you reengaged %ith her and she %ill %ork !or your

attention2

= Stop trying to make other guys look in!erior to you2 Atual dominant men and men

o! high *alue don6t go around trying to tool guys and make them look dumb2 They

dont try to lo%er their *alue or try to one up them2 &eal men


37/50

#aster those si+ things and you %ill e+ude a *ery strong and po%er!ul dominant polarity

that %omen %ill !all !or2

9amage Control

o interaction 'ith 'oman 'ill &erfect2 A billion things an go %rong and %hile

unlikley all o! them %ill3 at least a !e% o! them %ill2 9ou %ill make mistakes suh as saying

something stupid or esalating %ay to !ast2 The possibilites are endless as there is an

endless number o! things and %ays to sre% up2

$-amage Control$ is %hat I all the proess that you use to minismi,e the negati*e e!!et

o! your sre% up on the %oman your attempting to sedue2

-amagae ontrol isn6t so muh about %hat you do %hen you sre% up but more ho% you

reactto the sre% up2 I! you get all ner*ious and start suppliating to the %oman and

trying to de!end yoursel! then ongratulations3 you >ust lost the %oman2 'o%e*er3 i! you

remain calm and centeredyou %ill do %ell2

A great e+ample is making a >oke that she takes o!!ene too2

$I don6t like that >oke3 I think its insensiti*e and mean2$

9ou ould handle this one o! t%o %ays0

$yes3 your so right2 I6m really sorry222 don6t kno% %hat I %as thinking2$ ,R>5

or

$9eah2$ C>RRECT


38/50

)or the abo*e e+ample the orret %ay to handle her ob>etion is to simply agree in a *ery

monotone and disinterested %ay %hile ad*erting your ga,e and looking bored2 Then lea*e

it up to her to reengage2 I! she has any interest in you at all she %ill2

E)&ect that $ou 'ill scre' u&and a lot o! pressure %ill be taken o!! o! your shoulders2

The 1 ?inute Rule

I ha*e a general rule that states0

0f 'ithin 1 minutes of interacting 'ith a 'oman* if 0 don(t feel li!e se) is a

real &ossibilit$ 'ith her then 0 mo+e on to the ne)t girl7

This rule is great beause it pre*ents you !rom %asting *aluable time2 I! I6m talking to a

%oman and she is still gi*ing me luke %arm responses by the ./ K ? minute mark I

simply mo*e on2 I ha*e to !eel by then that se+ is a possibility or else I mo*e on2

I! by the ./ K ? minute mark your not real sure %here you stand3 or she is gi*ing you luke

%arm responses but you %ant to gi*e her another hane then atttempt to mo*e her2 0f a

'oman 'ont mo+e 'ith $ou b$ the 1 2 minute mar! then the chances of $ou t'o

e+er ha+ing se) is e)treml$ minimal2 I! she is luke %arm and you mo*e her suess!uly

then gi*e her another / K .? minutes to %arm up to you2 I! your still not !eeling it then

mo*e on2

"b*isouly3 i! I kno% in only a !e% minutes that its not happening then I mo*e on right

then and there2 9ou don6t ha*e to %ait ./ minutes be!ore mo*ing on to the ne+t %oman2


39/50

Part I#ndgame


40/50

T$&es of Closing

There are t%o main types o! $loses$

Number loses


41/50

The seond type o! lose is )ull Closing


42/50

allo% her to go bak home %ith you2

0n Summer$

I! I had to sum up my method it %ould be this0

.= Sreen !or hiks gi*ing me approah in*ites and looking !or -T) %omen

= Approahing them


43/50

Bonus$a% eports


44/50

"a$ Re&ort= Dust a t$&ical night out

It %as a )riday and I %as sitting at my appartment hoding around and %athing some

T2 I had been out the last !our nights in a ro% and !igured that I %ould >ust hill and

rela+ that night but my buddy alled and had other plans !or us2

A!ter some hardselling he got me to agree to ome out %ith him2 )ast !or%ard about an

hour and I6m at my !a*orite spot3 Ne%port on the Lee*ee2 It %as about ..pm and not

many girls around at this point but %e %ere hitting up the !e% ute ones there and

%arming up2

The !irst one %as a really ute blonde in an e+tremly short skirt2 'er legs %ere !uking

killer7 I %ent up and e+pressed my thoughts to her and got e+tremly physial %ith her

right a%ay by pulling her in and %rapping my arms around her2

Its al%ays good to go to !ast on the !irst girl o! the night and $burn the set do%n$ so that

e*ery $set$ a!ter that is easy to esalate on2

Any%ays3 got blo%n out and immediatly approahed a utie a !e% !eet a%ay2 Talked !or a

!e%3 tried to get physial and got the !irst bit o! resistane2 Talked !or a !e%3 held some

intense eye ontat2 (ut my arm around her and !aed some more resistane2 Baked o!! a

bit3 held the eye ontat and got in loser to her


45/50

Sent a te+t to my buddy and met up %ith him2 'e %as do%n by the ri*er talking to t%o

uties so I %ent up and introdued mysel! to both o! them2 Shaked hands %ith both o!

them but held hands %ith the other girl


46/50

and ear lobe nibbling2 )ingering and then eating her out2 (ulled out a ondom2 End game2

This lay report is a great e+ample o! ho% a typial night out goes2 No !ire%orks or o*erly

ra,y shit2 ;ust meeting %omen3 ha*ing !un and hilling %ith them and then pulling them

bak to a se+ loation %hen the time is right2

"a$ Re&ort= 9ancing in the rain7

Althouh the !ollo"in #$ ta%es place durin the day its a reat example o! ho" I apply my &SP

Model o! &scalation'

I %as out at %al8mart shopping !or some shit I didn6t really need %hen I seen this omplete

Turbo2 Skinny >eans %ith on*erse all stars3 tight lo% ut blak top3 se+y blond hair7

Shes looking at shirts3 I %alk o*er3 open %ith some lame situational opener2

We introdued3 shook hands3 I did the lassi $ommunity spin$ on her and ga*e her a

hug2

We bantered bak and !orth !or a !e%3 I alled her a dork !or her !ashion sense3 she teased

me about my guido8ish !au+ha%k2

Lame musi %as playing o*er the speaks3 I in!ormed her %e %as going to dane2 I got up

lose3 had my hands on her hips3 hers on mine2 We %as >ust kinda s%aying bak and !orth

>ust a tad bit to the musi %hile talking2

(eople start staring3 she gets a little shy and stops2 I >ust keep my hand on her hips2 I start

using my ES( model o! esalation2


47/50

Shes play!ul and !un %ith a mi+ture o! bash!ulness mi+ed in222!uking ute2

I get her number and part %ays2

I te+t her up the ne+t day to set a meet up2 Turns out %ere both !ree that day2

)e% hours later I meet her at the park2 Its a %arm sunny a!ternoon2 We greet eah other

%armly3 hugs and kiss on the heek2

I take her hand and %e %alk the nature trail2 Were alone on the trail so I amp up the

se+ualness2

Im piking her up3 getting up lose3 smelling her nek3 some se+ual o*erload stu!!


48/50

'B(assionate0 9our plae5

#e0 yeah3 I gotta sho% you something really ool2 ust enough to tease her2

A !e% minutes a%ay !rom my ar it starts raining3 'A&-7 Were drenhed by the time %e

get bak2

WE get to my ar3 I open my door3 turn it on and a song starts playing I really lo*e2 She

isn6t in yet beause I didn6t yet unlok the door on her side2

I get bak out o! the ar and look at her2

I slide o*er the hood o! the ar


49/50

)inally the rain %as getting old so %e get in the ar and go bak to my plae2

As soon as I get into the door I surpise her222slam against the door2 makeout

I pik her up and arry her


50/50

Be sure to hek out my %ebsite at0 http011realnaturalsedution2%ordpress2om1

I keep my site updated at least one a %eek and share *aluable insights and tips on

pikup3 sedution3 dating3 %oman3 and general sel! impro*ment2
http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/http://realnaturalseduction.wordpress.com/

grbnnkjnbkhv

Documents