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Copyright 2007-2009 by Ron Edeal 1 www.ronedeal.com • Pages o Ron Edeal, MFT Contact Me Counseling Chemical Dependancy Communication Couples Family Issues Individual Teens PDF Help Resources Speaking Topics Schedule for 2008 Family Camp, July Men’s Wkend, June Men’s, March Singles, October Women’s, April Schedule for 2009 55 Plus, March 2 & 3 Men’s, March

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  • Copyright 2007-2009 by Ron Edeal 1

    www.ronedeal.com Pages

    o Ron Edeal, MFT Contact Me Counseling

    Chemical Dependancy Communication Couples Family Issues Individual Teens

    PDF Help Resources Speaking Topics

    Schedule for 2008 Family Camp, July Mens Wkend, June Mens, March Singles, October Womens, April

    Schedule for 2009 55 Plus, March 2 & 3 Mens, March

  • Copyright 2007-2009 by Ron Edeal 2

    Resources PRESENTATIONS: Female-Male Differences: Basic Content Freedom In Forgiveness: Bible Content Journey To Loving Others: Basic Content Journey To Loving Others: Bible Content Keeping Our Wives Happy: Bible Content Listening With the Ears of God: Bible Content BOOKS: LINKS to ARTICLES and SITES:

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    Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving

    OthersOthersOthersOthers

    Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving Journey to Loving

    OthersOthersOthersOthersOthersOthersOthersOthers

    Overview of Travel Analogy

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    Travel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel PlanTravel Plan

    Destination-PeacePeacePeacePeaceful, healthy relationships, each getting their needs met

    Map-Its easy to get lost! Ever-changing adventure of life stages. Gods Word is our map

    Vehicles-two become one We travel in our own vehicle daily We meet up to connect to make one PeacePeacePeacePeace vehicle Fuel-Love & its smaller components Avoiding road hazards-Understanding and accepting

    each others differences & wrongs, resolving conflicts Baggage-the life experience I bring to the relationship

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    Gods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods Fuel

    Love is made up of components Main components from ICor. 13 Patient, kind, not jealous, not conceited or

    proud, not ill-mannered, not self-seeking, not easily angered, does not keep a record of wrongs, enjoys truth and honesty, never gives up, never fails, lasts forever

    If you reverse these you get conflict

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    Talking and Listening Talking and Listening Talking and Listening Talking and Listening

    ComponentsComponentsComponentsComponents

    Talking and Listening Talking and Listening Talking and Listening Talking and Listening

    ComponentsComponentsComponentsComponents

    Talking (5) What I see and hear What I think What I feel What I want What I do

    Listening (5) Paying attention Empathizing Asking Checking Encouraging more

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    Gods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods FuelGods Fuel

    Love is made up of components Main components from ICor. 13 Patient, kind, not jealous, not conceited or

    proud, not ill-mannered, not self-seeking, not easily angered, does not keep a record ofwrongs, enjoys truth and honesty, never gives up, never fails, lasts forever

    If you reverse these you get conflict

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    MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING

    COMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATION

    MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROAD HAZARD,ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING ROADBLOCK TO LOVING

    COMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATIONPauls instructions from God for loving attitude, use of words, handling anger

    and resentments

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    HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE,

    PATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANT

    HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE, HUMBLE, GENTLE,

    PATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANTPATIENT AND TOLERANT

    Eph 4:1 Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called,

    Eph 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerancetolerancetolerancetolerance (to put up with, bear with, suffer) for one another in love,

    Eph 4:3 being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

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    DEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGER

    Eph 4:26 Be Angry

    (PROVOKE,EXASPERATED), and yetdo not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger (RAGE)

    Eph 4:27 and do not give the devil an opportunity.

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    FORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESSFORGIVENESS

    Eph 4:31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

    Eph 4:32 Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgivingforgivingforgivingforgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.

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    DEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGERDEAL WITH YOUR ANGER

    We need to deal with our anger, Paul says daily!

    Remove the record of wrongs Most people have no plan Most dont even know!!!

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    WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!WE CAN BE FOOLED!

    If I dont intentionally examine myself, the unintentional will happen!!!

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    ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?ASK GOD?

    Pray for God to reveal any unresolved resentments or unforgiveness (keeping a record of wrongs).

    Build a bridge for healthy, loving communication. Dont avoid conflict, resolve it!!!

    Unresolved conflict often results in unforgiveness and collisions.

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    Diagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic StepsDiagnostic Steps

    1.Find a quiet place 2.Pray for Gods help 3.Make a detailed list of the wrongs

    done to you (Who and What?) 4.List the effects on you 5.List your part 6.Ask God to help you forgive 7.Pray daily for them

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    Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and Jesus on Blaming and

    JudgingJudgingJudgingJudgingJudgingJudgingJudgingJudging

    Mat 7:3 Why, then, do you look at the speck in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the log in your own eye?

    Mat 7:4 How dare you say to your brother, 'Please, let me take that speck out of your eye,' when you have a log in your own eye?

    Mat 7:5 You hypocrite! First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will be able to see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

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    Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!Jesus, Again!

    Mat 6:12 Forgive us the wrongs we have done, as we forgive the wrongs that others have done to us.

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