Finding the relationship you deserve

Finding the relationship you deservewithRosie OHaraRosie O'Hara (c) 2010

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010The most important relationship you will ever have in life is the one with yourselfRosie O'Hara (c) 2010And remember you will have to work at your relationshipsRosie O'Hara (c) 2010

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Self image goes beyond what you look like on the outsideRosie O'Hara (c) 2010Believe in Yourself, become Confident and Clear about what you want in your relationshipsLike to know how to do that? Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Confidence is there for everyone

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010So what do you want?Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010State what you want in the positiveI spent a large part of my life concentrating on what I didnt want.

Guess what I got?

Be clear, be very clear and be specific

What are you willing to compromise?

Remember we cannot change other people.Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Avoid generalisationsRosie O'Hara (c) 2010Toxic ConversationsAll are useless

You always do that!

If you dont . that means you dont care about / dont love me / disrespect me.

I just know that he / she thinks I am ..Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Baggage?Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Reclaim Your Life!

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010The things that are important to you may not be important to other people.Sometimes thats ok and at other times its not. What to do?Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Values, Criteria, Whats ImportantYou can have friends with different values

You can agree to disagree

Its useful to check that we avoid placing the same set of values we have for our Personal Life, on our Family Life and on our Work LifeRosie O'Hara (c) 2010And Those Annoying People!How to deal with them..Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Take Control of Your Own Mind and Your Life!

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Change how you talk to YourselfWhat do you actually say to you?Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010Change this to This I cant do thisI wont do this

I know theyll be.I imagine theyll be.

I have to be hereI choose to be here

Its a waste of time.. I think Im wasting my time

I must do this nowI want to do this now

I must do wellI want to do well

The work didnt get doneI didnt do the work

Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010MORE INFORMATION FROM WWW.NLPHIGHLAND.CO.UKBuy the bookFinding the Relationship You Deserve ISBN 978-1-907172-49-6Rosie O'Hara (c) 2010