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Constructive Conflict Resolution

Donna Benjamin - @kattekrab

https://amsterdam2014.drupal.org/session/constructive-conflict-resolution

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Conflict

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is human

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Flight or Fight?

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Avoidance

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Denial

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History

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is the story of conflict

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Challenge

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We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. Albert Einstein

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late Middle English: from Latin conflict - 'struck together, fought', from the verb confligere, from con - 'together' + fligere 'to strike'; the noun is via Latin conflictus 'a contest'.

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Culture

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Authority

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Respect

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Be respectful !

Feel respected

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Trust

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Compassion

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Drupal Drama

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Consensus

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Stagnation

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Code of Conduct

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Conflict Resolution Process

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drupal.org/conflict-resolution

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1. Try to talk to each other and work it out between you

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2. Ask someone else to help mediate the dispute

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3. Reach out to the Community working group

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Drama Triangle

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Empowerment Dynamic

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Tear me down?

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Build together?

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Whenever two good people argue over principles, they are both right. Marie Ebner von Eschenbach

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Constructive Feedback Please!

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