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OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 1
“Thus started one more Journey to the asylum for Jim. Here was the threat of commitment, the loss
of family and position, to say nothing of that intense mental and physical suffering which drinking always caused him. He had much knowledge about himself as an alcoholic. Yet all reasons for not drinking were easily pushed aside in favor of the foolish idea that he could take whiskey if only he mixed it with milk!”
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, PG 36-37
DECEMBER ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATIONS “TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE”
NAME
YEARS
SOBRIETY DATE
CELEBRATION DATE
WHERE
WHEN
Dave S 1 12/12/2014 12/13/2015 Came to Believe Sun / Noon Fred V 1 12/16/2014 12/19/2015 Positive Attitude Sat / 7 PM Stephanie L 29 12/19/1986 12/23/2015 Seaside Group Wed / 6 PM Chris L 10 12/26/2005 12/27/2015 Assateague Group Sun / 6 PM Nancy P 2 12/26/2013 12/28/2015 Happy Hour Mon / 6 PM Jennie R 7 12/20/2008 12/29/2015 Come As You Are Tues / 6 PM Mike B 20 12/28/1995 1/02/2016 Positive Attitude Sat / 7 PM
Please submit all anniversary information to Laura P at [email protected] by the 28th of the preceding month of your anniversary. Include name, sobriety date,
celebration date, and where & when. Thanks!!!!
OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 2
With approval of the General Service Board, G.S.O New York
launches a site on the World Wide Web on December 22, 1995.
With a click, users can now instantaneously access information
about the Fellowship in English, Spanish and French. G.S.O.’s A.A.
Website is constantly evolving. In spring 1998, G.S.O. New York shares the of compter-savvy A.A.’s when is issues of
list of Frequently Asked Questions for A.A. entities looking looking to set up their own Websites.
Bill W. had been a golden boy on Wall Street, enjoying success and power as a stockbroker, but his
promising career had been ruined by continuous and chronic alchoholism. Now, approaching 39
years of age, he was learning that his problem was hopeless, progressive and irreversible. He had
sought medical treatment at Towns hospital in Manhattan, but he was still drinking.
Bill was, at first, unconvinced by Ebby’s story of transformation and the claims of the Oxford
Group. But in December 1934, after again landing in Town’s hospital for treatment, Bill
underwent a powerful spiritual experience unlike any he had ever known. His depression and despair were lifted,
and he felt free and at peace. Bill stopped drinking, and worked the rest of his life to bring that freedom and peace
to other alcoholics. The roots of Alchoholics Anonymous were planted.
District 32 and the Ocean City Area Fellowship Intergroup meet every first Tuesday of the month at the Atlantic Club, 11827 Ocean Gateway (Route 50 Westbound), Ocean City, MD 21842. The District meeting starts at 5:30 PM,
followed by the Intergroup meeting at 6 PM December 5 – “Step Four – A Gift to Myself” hosted by District 32, District 29 and OCMDAA Roger M to moderate!
Saturday, 10:30 am – 3 pm St. Peter’s Lutheran Church, 103rd Street & Coastal Hwy, Ocean City, MD 21842 Lunch - $5
December 31, 2015-January 1, 2016 – Alcathon Atlantic Club, 11827 RT 50, West Ocean City, MD 21842
There will be continuous meetings through the New Year’s Holiday; starting at 2:15 PM Dec 31, till Jan 1 at 4:30 PM. (except from 9:30 PM-1:00 AM) Beverages and snacks will be provided
OCAA PHONE SCHEDULE 410-600-5219
December 2015 – Happy Risers**January 2016 – Action Group
February 2016 – Fresh Air**March 2016 – Happy Hour
April 2016 – Positive Attitude
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OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 3
OCEAN CITY AREA FELLOWSHIP INTERGROUP CHAIR – Tom B ALT CHAIR – Don B
SECRETARY – Bradley S TREASURER – Tom M
GROUP INTERGROUP
REPRESENTATIVE
LOCATION
ADDRESS
DAY & TIME 164 (CLOSED)
Tom M
Stevenson United Methodist Church
123 N Main Street Berlin
Monday 8 PM
Action Group
Bradley S
Holy Savior Catholic Church
17th & Philadelphia Ocean City
Friday 8 PM
Assateague Group
Chris L
Bethany United Methodist Church
6848 RT 611 Berlin
Sunday 6 PM
Beginner’s Big Book
Joe P
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
Monday 6:30 PM
Berlin 101 Women’s Big Book (CLOSED)
Patricia G
St. Paul’s Episcopal Church
3 Church Street Berlin
Saturday 9 AM
Berlin Friendship
VACANT
Friendship United Methodist Church
Friendship Road Berlin
Monday 8 PM
Came To Believe
Jessica B
AGH (Hospital)
9733 Healthway Drive Berlin
Sunday Noon
Come As You Are
Jennie R
Seaside Counseling & Wellness Center Suite 5
11809 RT 50 Ocean Gateway Center West Ocean City
Tuesday 6 PM
Entirely Ready
Robin D
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
Friday 6 PM
Free To Be Women’s
Laura P
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
Wednesday 8 PM
Fresh Air
Allison K
Crossway Church
11811 RT 50 West Ocean City
Tuesday 8 PM
Happy Hour
Mark W
Community Church at Ocean Pines
11227 Race Track RD Ocean Pines
Monday 6 PM
Happy, Joyous & Free Women’s Step Study
VACANT
Community Church at Ocean Pines
11227 Race Track RD Ocean Pines
Friday 10 AM
Happy Risers
Jeff C
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
M thru F / 7:30 AM S & S / 9 AM
Joy of Living
Bonnie B
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
M thru F Noon
Men’s 12&12 Step
Jeff S
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
Wednesday 8 PM
Not A Glum Lot
Jerome N
All Hallows Episcopal Church
109 West Market Street Snow Hill
M/W/F 7:30 PM
Positive Attitude
Rob A
Stevenson United Methodist Church
123 N Main Street Berlin
Saturday 7 PM
Primary Purpose
VACANT
St Peter’s Lutheran Church
10301 Coastal Hwy Ocean City
Thursday 7 PM
Proud To Have Served
John M
Atlantic Club
11827 RT 50 West Ocean City
Wednesday 6 PM
Seaside Group
Stephanie L
St Peter’s Lutheran Church
10301 Coastal Hwy Ocean City
Wednesday 6 PM
Serenity Group
Noraleesha W
St Peter’s Lutheran Church
10301 Coastal Hwy Ocean City
Wednesday Noon
OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 4
YOUR TRUSTED SERVANTS IN MARYLAND GENERAL SERVICE DISTRICT 32
GROUP NAME or SERVICE FUNCTION
SERVICE REPRESENTATIVE
GROUP SERVICE NUMBER
District Committee Member (DCM) Linda C 567949 Alternate DCM Noraleesha W District Secretary Diane H District Treasurer Tony D 164 Jess V 651357 Action Group
Christa V / GSR Tom B / Alt GSR
106132
Assateague Group Kenny G 688443 Beginner’s Big Book Lauren Z 151078 Berlin 101 Women’s Big Book Patricia G 702515 Berlin Friendship VACANT 106249 Came To Believe
Tom J / GSR Edwin B / Alt GSR
PENDING
Come As You Are Jennie R 712370 Entirely Ready VACANT 707681 Free To Be Women’s Rosemary K 630308 Fresh Air John S 134324 Happy Hour Matt P 162049 Happy, Joyous & Free Women’s Step Study
VACANT
669456
Happy Risers
Mike M / GSR Karen L / Alt GSR
134126
Joy of Living
Diane H / GSR Joann W / Alt GSR
634037
Men’s 12&12 Step Study Tony D 700033 Not A Glum Lot Jerome N 708365 Positive Attitude Rob A 670055 Primary Purpose Group of North Ocean City
Rob W
668259
Proud To Have Served John M PENDING Seaside Group Stephanie L, Info Contact 106362 Serenity Group Rick B 126854
Step 12 – Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these
steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to
practice these principals in all our affairs.
“ Now, what about the rest of the Twelfth Step? The wonderful energy it releases
and the eager action by which it carries our message to the next suffering alcoholic and which finally translates the
Twelve Steps into action upon all our affairs is the payoff, the magnifcent reality, of Alchoholics Anonymous.”
TWELVE STEPS & TWELVE TRADITIONS, P 109
OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 5
Between Noon Wednesday, Dec 24th, 1952 and Thursday, Jan 1st,
1953, some 120,000 members of AA will have seen their dreams of a dry
Christmas and their hopes of a sane New Year’s come safely true. It will be
the 17th Holiday season that AA has weathered, in the mutual help of
fellowship. And, based on past experiences, it will be a time of many new
hands knocking on AA’s door…. of persons whose holidays and lives have at
long last proven unmanageable. Intergroups and central offices have come
to know that the first week of January means the year’s peak of phone calls
and visits inquiry.
The first Christmas for AA was the depression year of 1935. There were three old timers to mark it….
hardly a dozen newcomers to share it with them. In Akron, Dr. Bob and Bill D, were going on their second six
months. Four recruits had from four months to two months. In New York, Bill W had 13 months since his last drink,
seven months since his historic trip to Akron and the start of A.A.
In Akron, the six gathered with their families at Dr. Bob’s. There was no ceremony, no exchange of
presents. The Twelve Steps had not yet been formulated. The Big Book was only a vague stirring that would not
even be in manuscript until three more Christmases had been achieved. But there was joy that that this most
dangerous of times for the alcoholic had arrived …. And 24 hours by 24 hours was being mastered.
“There were thanks,” remembers one of the two who survives that first Akron Christmas, “that we had
come this far. However, I am certain that there was still considerable fear and trembling…. Not fear that this new
way would not work, but doubt and uncertainty that we would be able to hold on to it. We remembered our many
failures and thanked God for what He had already granted us and prayed sincerely for continued success. ‘
“The second Christmas was, of course, a lot more joyful and celebrated with a lot more confidence. In
those first few years we stuck close together…. we were helped by each other’s presence, and we knew how much
we needed one another.”
Bill W. recalls only a quiet day in New York that Yule of 1935.There were a very few … and who could know
that in a mere 17 years perhaps 120,000 ex-drunks could want to know what happened the first A.A. Christmas?
Five years later, there was a place in New York for an A.A. Christmas party … the first A.A. Clubhouse. And
about the 24th Street Club there hangs a real Santa Claus story!!! Or rather, it is a Saint Nicholas story. Just 100
years before in 1840, the building was erected at number 334 ½ West 24th Street … the property of a family
named Moore who were large landowners in Manhattan Island’s Chelsea section. And driving across the snow
covered lawn, Dr. Clement Clark Moore began to compose (some say just as his sled runners touched what is now
the meeting room of A.A.’s first clubhouse!) his immortal gift to children of all ages … “‘Twas the night before
Christmas.”
At first, the 24th Street property was occupied by a carpenter shop, with a stable built in the west end …
then a tinsmithy … and then a speakeasy … and then a birthplace for many of those first A.A. groups that fanned
out from New York while others fanned out from Akron.
Again, this Christmas of 1952, A.A.’s will gather in the Clubhouse, and there will be, some souls say, a
twinkle just at midnight. No, not of ice cubes, they gravely assure you. No, not of glasses clinking together in a
Yuletide toast. But listen carefully, they solemnly warn you … listen, for at just the hour of twelve there are sleigh
bells that twinkle especially over this old house where eight tiny reindeer took off from the gentle mind of a good
doctor who loved Christmas and all people who can be, even for a moment, Christmas children……
The A.A. Grapevine Inc. – December 1952
OCMDAA DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Page 6
“Peace on Earth”
Our A.A. co-founder Bill W. concludes his story in the Big Book by stating on page 16, “Each
day my friend’s simple talk in our kitchen multiplies itself in a widening circle of peace on
earth and good will to men.” Those are some phrases we may hear frequently during this
holiday season, but how are they to be accomplished? For A.A. members, it’s quite simple:
Don’t pick up the first dink, no matter what. Find a Higher Power. Get a sponsor and practice
the Steps as a way of life. Attend meetings. Study A.A. literature. Serve others. Pray and meditate. Cultivate
gratitude. Remain honest, open-minded, and willing. Forgive. Stay in the now. The list may be simple, but it can go
on and on. And for good reason.
As alcoholics, we are suffering from an incurable, progressive, chronic, and fatal disease which is cunning, baffling,
powerful, and patient. Without help it is too much for us, for when we harbor feelings of resentment, self-pity,
pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, envy, sloth or fear, we shut ourselves off from the sunlight of the Spirit, and set
ourselves up for trouble. As the Big Book warns on page 66, “The insanity of alcohol returns, and we drink again.
And with us, to drink is to die.”
Bill’s Tradition One essay on page 130 of the 12 & 12 expounds further on this idea: “The A.A. member has to
conform to the principles of recovery. His life actually depends upon obedience to spiritual principles. If he
deviates too far, the penalty is sure and swift; he sickens and dies.” Bill continues by explaining: “At first he goes on
because he must, but later he discovers a way of life he really wants to live. Moreover, he finds he cannot keep this
priceless gift unless he gives it away. Neither he nor anyone else can recover unless he carries the A.A. message.”
So the way to experience inner peace for ourselves and to multiply that serenity in a widening circle of peace on
earth and good will to men is to carry the A.A. message! This we can do one-on-one, in small casual conversations,
or in more formal Step work. We can attend additional meetings, volunteer for the New Year’s Eve alcathon, sign
up to take meetings into the county jail, buy someone a subscription to the Grapevine, serve as a temporary contact
for Bridging the Gap, or take a service position at our home group. We can give a call to the newcomer who showed
up at the meeting this week. We can get involved in intergroup or general service. Our options are endless, but we
must take action. We can’t recover by just talking or thinking about it.
So, how do YOU plan to widen the circle of peace on earth and good will to men? Even though we recover together,
each one of us must work out for himself or herself the manner in which our sobriety is accomplished. Peace on
earth begins with the quality of peace within us. And, as the Big Book reminds us on page 164, “you cannot
transmit something you haven’t got. See to it that your relationship with Him is right, and great events will come to
pass for you and countless others.” Remember that Great Fact and you can’t go wrong. May each of you enjoy all
the blessings that your Higher Power has to offer during this holiday season, as you carry the A.A. message and
multiply our ever-widening circle of peace on earth and good will to men.
Yours in love and service,
Don B., Alternate Chair (outgoing)
Ocean City Area Fellowship Intergroup