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Conflict andNegotiation
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“Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference
between damaging your relationship and deepening it.
The factor is attitude.”William James
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Conflict
Conflict: disagreement or tension between two or more parties (individuals or groups)O A perceived threat to one’s
needs, interests, or concernsO Individuals are looking at a
situation from different perspectives
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Conflict and Emotions
O Emotions make it difficult to logically resolve an issueO Remain calm and unemotionalO Acknowledge hurt feelings or angerO Do not let the anger or hurt
dominate your responseO Look for facts and feelingsO Identify where communication broke
down
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Resolving ConflictBasic Rules
1. Resolve in person when possible2. Remain calm and unemotional3. Be silent and listen4. Try to view the disagreement from
the other person’s perspective5. Explain your position and offer a
solution6. Come to a solution
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O If the conflict negatively affects your performance:O Document the offensive behaviorO Seek assistance within the companyO If necessary, seek outside assistance
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Conflict Management Styles
O Forcing conflict management style: deals with issue directly, trying to get your way
O Avoiding conflict management style: offense is ignored
O Accommodating conflict management style: allow other party to have his/her way without knowing there was a conflict
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O Compromising conflict management style: both parties give up something of importance to arrive at a mutually agreeable solution
O Collaborating conflict management style: both parties work together to arrive at a solution without having to give up something of value
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BehaviorsO Assertive behavior: standing up
for your rights without violating the rights of others
O Passive behavior: consistently allowing others to have their way, avoiding conflict
O Aggressive behavior: standing up for your rights in a way that violates others’ rights
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Harrassment Sexual Harassment: Unwelcomed
sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature.
O Types of sexual harassment:O Quid pro quo (this for that): employment
decisions or expectations are based on employee’s willingness to grant sexual favors.
O Hostile Work Environment: any behavior of a sexual nature that is offensive, intimidating, or hostile.
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O Harassment can occur between:O Boss/employeeO Man/womanO Woman/womanO Man/man
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Protected ClassesO RaceO ColorO National OriginO AncestryO ReligionO Age (Over 40)O Marital StatusO Genetic
Characteristics
O SexO Sexual
OrientationO Gender IdentityO Gender
ExpressionO Medical ConditionO Physical and
Mental DisabilityO Veteran Status
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Harassment BehaviorO Verbal—suggestive comments or
jokes, sexual propositions or statements, inappropriate humor, threats, remarks about physical attributes and/or dress, name-calling, patronizing terms, verbal abuse
O Written--inappropriate letters or e-mails, text, Twitter
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O Visual—staring at an individual’s anatomy, leering, obscene gestures, derogatory posters, cartoons, or drawings, computer displays
O Physical—touching, hugging, kissing, pinching, flirting, assault, impeding or blocking movement with normal work, brushing against, patting, requiring sexually suggestive clothing
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Reasonable Person Standard
O Courts evaluate complaints by asking: “How would a ‘reasonable person’ of the same sex as the complainant view such behavior?”
Third Party
O Report observed harassment or discriminationO Not reporting can lead to discipline/discharge
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Employee RightsO Harassment Free WorkplaceO Equal Employment Opportunity
Commission (EEOC) - federal agencyO Department of Fair Employment and
Housing - state agencyO Employee unions O Unlawful to retaliate against anyone
who files a claim, even if claim is without merit
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Workplace ViolenceWarning Signs
O Be aware of your surroundingsO Keep work area and access well-litO Request an escort to your car if
necessaryO Keep emergency phone numbers
posted in visible areasO Report suspicious behavior or
situationsO It is better to be safe than sorry
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Workplace BulliesO Workplace Bullies: employees who are
behaving in an offensive, humiliating, or intimidating mannerO Workplace incivilityO Bullying and incivility are inappropriate in
the workplace
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Know Your RightsO Legal right to work in an environment free from
harassment, discrimination, and hostilityO Share concerns with supervisor and exhaust
internal remedies before going to government agencies:O State’s Department of Fair Employment and
HousingO Equal Employment Opportunity CommissionO State Personnel BoardO Department of Labor/Labor CommissionO Department of Justice
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Resolving Conflict At WorkO Resolve directly
with other individual
O If unresolved, inform immediate supervisor
O If situation worsens, formally file a complaint with the HRM department
O Seek assistance from an outside source
Immediate Supervisor
Human Resource Department
Outside Agency or Private Attorney
Coworker
Coworker
Figure 12-1
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O Union Terms:O Shop Steward: a coworker who is very
familiar with the union contract and procedures available to assist you in resolving a workplace conflict
O Grievance: a problem or conflict that occurs in a unionized workplace
O Grievance Procedure: formal process of resolving a union-employer conflict
Conflict Under A Union Agreement
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Workplace ViolenceO Employee Assistance Program
(EAP): a benefit offered by many employers that provide free and confidential psychological, financial, and legal adviceO If you are experiencing a stressful
situation at work or home, take advantage of this benefit
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You are entitled to a safe work
environment!