career coach as g.p.s. angela hayes, ph.d. kansas state university career and employment services
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CAREER COACH AS G.P.S.
Angela Hayes, Ph.D.Kansas State University
Career and Employment Services
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• To take a valued person from where he/she is to where he/she wants to be.
• “Unlocking client’s brilliance…”
• GPS Analogy
Definition of Coaching
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• What do you want?
• What can you do about that?
• What will you do about that?
• By when?• How will you
know?• How will I know?
Most Fundamental
Coaching Questions
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Change Stages
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• Denial: “I’m sure the lay-off is just an error. They’ll call me back in soon.”
• Resistance: “This is too overwhelming. I can’t focus on all this right now.”
• Exploration: “Maybe I’ll just move to France and buy a vineyard.”
• Commitment: “Losing that job/major is the best thing that could have happened. Now I know what I really want!”
How Each Stage “Sounds”
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“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.”
Tony Robbins
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• The choices are so numerous.
• Amount of information about each choice is overwhelming.
• Such wide-ranging factors need to be taken into account that it’s not always easy to compare the choices. http://kivunim.huji.ac.il/cddq
Decision-Making
Challenges
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Normative: Rational processes (Reason).Descriptive: How people actually make decisions (Intuition/Satisficing/Happenstance.Prescriptive: Uses pros of both while minimizing errors/biases.
Decision-Making Models
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• Often used with decision matrix or grid. http://bit.ly/1zIMxSD
• Criteria are identified.
• Options are weighted.
• Assumes 1 answer.
Normative (Reason-based
Models)
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• Intuition can be very effective, especially with increased experience.
• Rational process often used to support intuitive decision.
• Satisficing is common short cut.
• Happenstance is often used.
Descriptive (Reality-based
models)
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Powerful Combination
• Linear and intuitive thinking
• Generally creates best outcomes
• Free on-line mind-mapping tool: http://www.thebrain.com/
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Trilateral Model of Career Decision-Making
Intuition
Reason
Engagement
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Trilateral Model Decision-Maker• Accepts that career decision-making is
on-going.• Is a life-long learner, continually
integrating knowledge.• Has foresight due to continual
engagement.• Is flexible and willing to act in the face
of fear.• Says YES to new experiences.
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Engagement (Enrichment + Exploration) Approach
• Involvement in groups and organizations.
• Contact with people working in the field. Volunteer work in areas of interest.
• Take part in wide variety of activities.• Job shadowing.• Takes advantage of “happenstance”.
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“What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what
you become by achieving your goals.”
Henry David Thoreau
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• Specific• Measureable• Attainable• Realistic• Time-bound
Goal-Setting the S.M.A.R.T. Way
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• Goal as Mission Statement.
• How goal makes them feel.
• Visual representation of goal.
• Use Resume/CV.• Use technology.
Goal-Setting
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“You can’t plow a field by simply turning it over in your mind.”
Gordon B. Hinckley
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Single Session: G.R.O.W. Model
Multiple Sessions: Intentional
Change Theory
Action Planning
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G.R.O.W. Model (Action plan for single session)
1. Establish the Goal2. Examine the Current Reality3. Explore the Options4. Establish the Will/Way To Move
Forward
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Coaching Questions to Establish the Goal
• What do you want to get from this session?
• What would you like to accomplish?• What outcomes would be ideal?• What would you like to happen with
___?• What do you really want?
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Coaching Questions to Assess Current Reality
• What steps have you already taken?• On a scale of 1-10, where are you?• What is working well right now?• What has stopped you so far?• What do you think is really happening?
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Coaching Questions to Discuss Options
• What are your options?• What would get you closer to your
goal?• How can you do more of what’s
working?• If anything was possible, what would
you do?• What could you do in the next 24
hours?
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Coaching Questions to Move Forward
• Which options are you going to do?• By when?• How committed are you to these
options?• What would make your commitment a
10?• What three steps will you take this
week?
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Intentional Change Theory (multiple sessions)
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Implementing Intentional Change Theory
• Start by helping client create a clear picture of ideal self/ideal future.
• Switch to talking about present reality, come back to + emotions of ideal self when needed.
• Watch for withdrawal/resistance behaviors.
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Implementing Intentional Change Theory (cont)
• Create a detailed learning plan with the client to help them close the gap between ideal future and present reality.
• Practice new perceptions, thoughts and behaviors.
• Continue to make it clear that you are an objective, trustworthy resource.
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“What gets measured gets done.”
Peter Drucker, Tom Peters, Edwards Deming, Lord Kelvin and others.
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Monitoring Client Progress• Decide together how progress will be
monitored.• Build into the action plan.• Use technology: • https://www.coach.me/• https://habitrpg.com/static/front• Consider 24-hour check-in sheet.
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24 Hour Coaching E-mail Example
• What have I accomplished since the last time we talked?
• What are my wins/victories?• What did I accomplish/discover that I wasn’t
expecting?• What did I not get done that I want to be held
accountable for?• What are the main challenges I’m facing right
now?• How do I want to use our meeting today?• What do I want to commit to before our next
meeting? (To be completed at end of meeting.)
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• What do you want?
• What can you do about that?
• What will you do about that?
• By when?• How will you
know?• How will I know?
Most Fundamental
Coaching Questions
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Questions
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Contact Information
Angela Gieber Hayes, Ph.D.Assistant Director, Alumni and Grad
StudentsKansas State University, Career and
Employment Services785-532-3392
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References
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• Boyatzis, R. (1994). An overview of intentional change from a complexity perspective. Journal of Management Development, 25(7). P. 607-623.
• Brusman, M. (n.d.). The 8 Traps of Decision-Making: http://www.workingresources.com/professionaleffectivenessarticles/the-8-traps-of-decision-making.html
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References• Ellis, D. (2006). Life Coaching: A manual for helping
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References
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• Locke’s Goal Setting Theory, Mind Tools http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newHTE_87.htm
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