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Welcome to our inaugural edition of Journeysmagazine, a collaborative effort by ourtalented staff to share the life-changing impactthe Family Home Agency is having in the livesof individuals with developmental disabilitiesthroughout California.TRANSCRIPT
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Support for MentorsCalifornia MENTOR provides all the ongoing support you need to be successful as a Mentor.
You have access to 24 hour assistance from our experienced team of human services professionals as well as:
• A pre-service overview of our family home programs and innovative support model• Continuing educational opportunities related to an individual’s service plan• Emergency and scheduled relief support• A competitive and generous rate of reimbursement for services you provide
Mentors are our greatest resource! If you become a family home provider with California MENTOR you’ll never go it alone.
MISSION AND PHILOSOPHY
The mission of California MENTOR is to offer adults innovative, quality services and supports that lead to growth and independence, regardless of the physical, intellectual or behavioralchallenges they face.
Our philosophy emphasizes partnerships – with those we serve, their families, our employees, Mentors, payors and the communities in which we work – in an effort to help people shape the direction of their own lives in community-based settings.
What is California MENTOR? California MENTOR is the state’s most experienced Family Home Agency (FHA), providing shared living experiences for hundreds of adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities in neighborhood homes like yours. Our nurturing caregivers, called Mentors, deliver personalized services in their private homes where individuals feel safe, supported and surrounded by the people and places they love.
Who are Mentors?Mentors are men and women who are dedicated caregivers providing individualized supports and services in their own homes and communities.They represent a wide range of backgrounds, but one constant among Mentors is their commitment to the well-being and personal growth of the individuals they support.
Become a MentorYou can make it possible for an adult with an intellectual or developmental disability to live a richer, more meaningful life. As a Mentor, you become a teacher, caregiver, advocate and friend to an individual who needs you, your home and your heart.
With your help, we can make the dream of living in a family home become a reality for many more individuals with intellectual or developmental disabilities throughout California. We invite you to become a Mentor and embark on an experience that is both challenging and rewarding.
* Source: 2010 Client and Mentor Satisfaction Survey
PROFILE
Gary — Makes a Splash
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Michael — Going the Distance
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Cindy — Helping Others
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Lynda — Sparkling Diva
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Jené — Art with a Heart
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Dear Readers,
Welcome to our inaugural edition of Journeys magazine, a collaborative effort by our talented staff to share the life-changing impact the Family Home Agency is having in the lives of individuals with developmental disabilities throughout California. Here at California MENTOR, we believe that every individual deserves the opportunity to live in a family home. As these seven stories illustrate, the Family Home Agency model meets the needs of each individual served and their unique challenges regardless of their history, age, gender, and lifestyle interests.
Many of these individuals have never known what it’s like to have their own bedroom; others don’t know what it’s like to participate in family activities. There are thousands of individuals whose lives would be changed by living in a natural family home setting.
If you’re ready to open your home to an individual with a developmental disability, California MENTOR will provide the skill development resources for you to be successful, from initial placement to ongoing support you and the individual living in your home. Additionally, we offer generous stipends to help make your Mentor commitment a possibility.
Give us a call or visit us online atwww.camentorfha.com. We look forward to you becoming a part of our family at California MENTOR.
Sincerely,
Robert EffordExecutive Director
In this issue
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Clifford — Dealt a Winning Hand
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Donald — Plays a New Tune
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Joy — Living in Paradise
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Playsa New TuneDonald:
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hen Donald suddenly lost his mother, he was ripped from the only world
he knew. He had lived with her in seclusion his entire life and it was
apparent that he did not have the living skills necessary for a successful
placement in traditional housing options.
Sheryll and Angel came to California MENTOR as a quiet couple interested in hosting
adults with disabilities. The Francisco’s calm demeanor spoke to their maturity and
strength of character. As Mentors, Sheryll and Angel’s determination, caring, teaching,
humor, love and a deep devotion to Donald has given him a new lease on life.
While Donald has good verbal skills and is extremely talented with art and music,
he needed guidance with everyday social interaction that we often take for granted.
With Sheryll and Angel’s support, he has become a polite and social man who enjoys
a variety of community activities such as singing and playing his guitar for audiences,
and showcasing his paintings at art shows.
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Angel and Sheryll, 2010 Ripple of Hope Award winners. The awards are given to employees and Mentors whose passion, energy and skill have created a positive
impact in the lives of others.
ary came to California
MENTOR’s Family Home
Agency program in hopes
that he would be more successful
in a family environment.
Previously, he received 24-hour
supervision from group home
staff. It was a special bond with
one of the staff members which
helped Gary into a family home
setting.
While Gary experienced behavioral
challenges at his group home and
in the community, he was most
successful with his favorite staff,
Reather Wilson.
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Makesa SplashGary:
When California Mentor and the planning
team began to work with Gary on his
transition to a family home environment,
Reather made the decision to become a
certified Mentor. Gary moved into her
family home where he has thrived with
the love and attention of Reather's entire
family.
He enjoys dancing with the family and
playing games. He also enjoys doing
cannonballs into the pool.
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with California MENTORa Splash
Jené:
n 2008, Jené was matched with a California
MENTOR family home directly out of a
psychiatric hospital. Supported by a dedicated
and Mentor and a patient planning team, Jené
attends a day program and has developed a wide
range of interests and capabilities, most notably a
talent for art. Jené recently hosted her very own art
show in the San Diego community.
Remarkably, Jené has broken her pattern of
hospitalizations and is stable in a Mentor family
home. She enjoys social events with her friends and
continues to find new ways to connect and express
herself through her artwork.
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Art witha Heart
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Going the DistanceMichael:
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ichael moved into a Mentor
family home in mid-April
of 2009. Like any major life
decision, he was initially reluctant to
make the move yet his decision has not
only given him a healthy family life, but a
reassurance of his cultural identity.
His Mentor family shares Michael’s
Hispanic culture and Spanish language.
They attend cultural and social gatherings
together and monthly out-of-town trips
give him the chance to see new and
different parts of California. Michael
enjoys living close to his church as well as
his mother’s home, so it makes it easy to
visit those places.
During the past couple of months,
Michael has expressed the desire to learn
how to read and write English. He is
M currently enrolled in an English class at
Cesar Chavez Adult School in Fresno. His
California MENTOR Program Coordinator
frequently checks in with Michael in class
where his emerging language skills are
opening doors to new friendships and
opportunities.
with California MENTORGoing the Distance
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Helping OthersCindy:
indy has participated in
California MENTOR’s Family
Home Agency program since
May of 2003. Her Mentor, Karen, really
enjoys her company and the life they
share as a family.
For the last 3 years, Cindy has dedicated
herself to making hats and blankets that
she donates to the homeless. Cindy makes
one blanket and 50 hats per month for
homeless men and women at the Martin
Luther King Park in Bakersfield, the
Jameson Center, Covenant Center, San
Joaquin Hospice, nursing homes and
for chemotherapy patients at the CBCC
Cancer Society.
C Cindy enjoys making hats and blankets
for others because it makes her feel good
to give back to her community.
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within the Community
Helping Others
hen you first meet Clifford, you can’t help but notice his infectious smile and
expressive eyes. He is quick to laugh and rarely meets someone he doesn’t like. In fact, after introductions, he is likely to suggest a friendly game of blackjack, or even poker for nickels. Though his speech can be difficult to understand, if you listen attentively, Clifford will tell his story and, in an instant, it is obvious that his life has been transformed.
For years, Clifford lived in Napa State Hospital. When he was referred to California MENTOR, he visited several homes over many weeks until he made a decision to live with Philip and Eugenia, immigrants from Sierra Leone, and their son, Phil. As Certified
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Dealt aClifford:
Winning Hand
Nursing Assistants, they were perfectly suited to support Clifford in his activities of daily living. Welcomed as a member of their family, Clifford’s behavioral challenges began to subside.
While Clifford still needs reassurance that life in the institution is a thing of the past, he is settling in and forging bonds that he
has not enjoyed since his youth. During the week, Clifford attends a day program and enjoys shopping and trips to the local Indian gaming casinos. He raves about Eugenia’s cooking and can often be found sitting in the sunshine, singing along to his favorite country music, usually with a brand new deck of playing cards close at hand.
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Winning Hand
ynda lived at Sonoma Developmental Center (SDC) for years before she moved
into her new family home with Alicia, her Mentor. Having spent the past 20
years in a state institution, Lynda’s transition into her home was slow and
calculated, allowing ample time to adjust from a large living environment to a family
home in the community.
Due to Lynda’s behavioral challenges, California MENTOR ensured that the family
supporting her was knowledgeable, patient and had all the resources they needed to be
successful.
Lynda enjoys her active yet peaceful life in the community, which includes a dynamic
day program, walks along the waterfront, shopping and family social events. She
enjoys applying nail polish and makeup, wearing sparkly silver shoes and singing
along with Lady Gaga on the radio. Lynda’s happiness and success in her new life
with her Mentor Alicia illustrate that life in the community cannot possibly be defined
simply as moving out of an institution; it is defined by the family that is created in the
process.
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Sparkling DivaLynda:
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Sparkling Diva
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f you’re homeless, living in a shelter certainly is better than living on the street. But according to Joy it doesn’t
begin to compare to how she feels about living in her Mentor home with her Mentor, Heidi. “I have my own room. I don’t have to worry about my stuff going missing and I can pick out the food I eat.Everything is cool.”
Oh, there’s one more thing, and it’s a very big thing. Since Joy moved into Heidi’s home in Paradise, California, her four-year-old daughter, Angela also gets to live with her.
Joy and Heidi appreciate the role California MENTOR plays in making all this possible. “California MENTOR provides a system and structure that makes this successful,” says, Heidi. California MENTOR is unique in providing a home and individualized supports for both a parent and child. Licensing regulations do not allow such arrangements in licensed facilities.
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Living in ParadiseJoy:
“Long before the California MENTOR office opened locally, I dreamed of having someone like Joy living with me,” said Heidi, who also works for a local day program serving adults with developmental disabilities. “With my own daughters now grown, and plenty of space, I wanted to share my home and my life.”
Joy, Angela and Heidi also enjoy spending time with Joy’s biological family. “Sometimes we go to the beach and have campfires. We roast marsh mellows and my mom plays guitar while we all sing,” Joy said.
How could things not be great, when you live in a placed named Paradise?
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Living in Paradise