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Make This Your Best Year Ever 2
with Jomar Hilario
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Plan Your Year with JackCanfield’s Success
Inventory:
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PAPER2 COLUMNS
PAST ..... PRESENT
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What wins or progress did you want to achieve in
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Discontinue an old product
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Develop a new product or product line
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Identify a new market to focus
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Create new marketing pieces or campaigns
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Delegate tasks to become more
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Add a new staff and/or assistants
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housekeeper
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executive assistant
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gardener
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errand runner
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babysitter
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child care person (yaya?)
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Put new systems into place to increase your
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Buy, use or learn to use any new technology
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Mental
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Emotional
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Spiritual technology
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Mechanical
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Electronic
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Digital technology
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Spend more time with nature
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Develop new supportive habits
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meditation
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exercise
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gratitude?
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Did you overcome any non-supportive habits
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addiction to alcohol
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caffeine
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sugar
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video games
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porn
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gambling© 2012 jomarhilario.com Learn More Online Marketing Now
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shopping?
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How did you grow in
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Did you deliver any
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or speeches
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or develop new
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Did you develop any new abilities,
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skills
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or competencies?
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What success did you achieve in the areas of
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investments
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debt reduction?
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Did you create any new
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or deepen existing
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Consider both business and personal relationships.
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Did you make any progress in self-
development?
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Did you attend any positive events
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seminars
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lectures
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concerts
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theater
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sports
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Did you experience any positive events with your
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Where there any positive events
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in relation to your house or apartment?
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Did you take any trips or vacations?
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Were there any positive additions to your life?
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Were there any positive events in your community?
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How about any positive events in your spiritual life
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church services
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meditation
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retreats
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rituals
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Did you experience any positive events in
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letting go
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negative people
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clutter
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Did you have any wins in
health and fitness
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weight
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exercise
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cholesterol
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sports
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endurance
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YOU LOVE TIME
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Online Mentoring Club(Membership Site)
Once a week dates.
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Finding out your goals loves
“I love doing this so much, I’d do it for free!”
“I love this so much, it is the only thing I will do for
money.”
Uncensored
No political or social correctness
Exercise:“Taranta”
Memory Jogger
I will ask “What do you love?”Repeatedly.
At you.
You will answer as fast as possible
You are allowed to repeat answers.
Get your notebook and WRITE down all your
loves.
Format:Column 1: Love
Format:Column 2:Why is it important to you?
Format:Column 3: Low, Med,
High Importance?Use LMH
Format:Column 4: When was the last time
you experienced this?Days/Months/Years ago? Use DMY
Format:Column 5: Are you giving
time for this presently? LMH
Format:Column 6: How much
money needed for this?
Format:Column 7: When will you
do it next?
Format:Column 8: What’s the
first step for 3 of these loves?
Last part: Your insights while doing this.
And To-Dos.
Go to your cellphone or planner and alarm the 3 first steps into
3 dates.Use an ALARM.
Still in the Calendar, mark 3 months from now with
an alarm to “Review your loves”.
Life Mission Time!
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What are you “put here” on earth for?
Write 2 of your greatest qualities or gifts or talents.
enthusiam, creativity, kindness, sincerity, wisdom, love, service, organizing, cooking, admin, counselling, music, writing, teaching,
business, pioneering, singing....
enthusiam, creativity, kindness, sincerity, wisdom, love, service,
organizing, cooking, admin, counselling, music, writing,
teaching, business, pioneering, singing....
Write 2 of your greatest qualities or gifts or talents.
1. __________________
2. __________________
Write 1 - 2 ways you enjoy expressing these qualities when you deal with
others.to support, to inspire, to help, to touch,
to bless, to train, to move...
to support, to inspire, to help, to touch, to bless, to train, to
move...
Imagine a perfect world NOW. What would it look like? Feel
like?
Describe people’s lives in a perfect world.
Write it in present tense.
“Everyone lives their God designed lives,everyone reaches their full
potential, everyone loves one another, stricter punishment for
parole violators...
Fill the blanks based on your previous answers:
My Mission is to use my _____ and _____ to ______ and
_____others ____________.
Fill the blanks based on your previous answers:
My Mission is to use my enthusiasm and creativity to support and inspire others
to live their God Designed lives.
Write down the WHOLE THING, in your handwriting.
Read it in the morning.
Read it before you sleep.
Set it as the ALARM text in your cellphone.
Daily Alarm!
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LETTER TIME
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Write an Appreciation Letter To Yourself (adapted from Raymond Aaron)
Dear (Your name), 31 December 2012, 11:30pm
I would like to (super?) thank you because of what you have accomplished for me this past year like _______, _______, _______,_________,_______.Im specially proud of your use of your talents _______, _______ and _______.In pursuing your loves: ______ , _________ and ________, I'm so happy that you did the following ________, _________, and _______. Ensuring that as you come closer to the conclusion of your life, you are happier for it and you can look back with great satisfaction that living is all worth it!Love,(signed, your name)
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So what’s stopping us from action?
Fear vs Procrastination
Procrastination is OK!http://www.flickr.com/photos/nathanhayag/
It happens mainly because you don’t love what you’re
about to do.
or...”whatever”.
Solution: Delegate it!
Delegation: VA, swap or barter, accompany you, service, website, person, company, PA, reminder,
alarm....
List down 10 things you’re
procrastinating.(hate to do).
Write down how to delegate them.
Dealing with Fear
The right questions to ask.
Write down ONE THING you’re totally afraid to do but want /
wish / love to do.
Define your nightmare, the absolute worst that could
happen if you did what you’re considering
What steps to repair the damage? Get things back up? Even if temporarily?
Outcomes temp or perm -- of more probably
(non-nightmare) outcomes?
If you were fired today, what would you do to keep things
under financial control?
What action are you putting off-because of
fear?
How much is it costing you not to act? $, emotionally,
physically?
What are you waiting for?
Write down in the Calendar and Cellphone Calendar your first
action step.
If money is your hope for
independence...
you will never have it.
The only real security that a man can have in
this world...
is the reserve of knowledge,
experience and ability.
Henry Ford
is the reserve of knowledge,
experience and ability.
Henry Ford+GOD’S LOVE
Prioritizing Life
Prepare 2 Separate Pages in your
NOTEBOOK
1. Avoid List
2. Follow List
What 20% of sources are causing 80% of my
problems and unhappiness?
Call this list the AVOID LIST
What 20% of sources are resulting in 80% of my desired outcome and
happiness?Call this list the FOLLOW list.
To help you answer the 2 lists.
If you had a heart attack - and had to work 2 hours /day
what would you do?Put to Avoid list
If you had a 2nd heart attack and had to work 2
hours per week, what would you do?
Put to Avoid list
Put to Avoid list
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Put to Avoid list
STOP DOING
USELESS TIME CONSUMING
ACTITIES!
If you had megatron threatening you and
had to stop doing time consuming activities...
Put to Avoid list
What would you remove?
Put to Avoid list
Top 3 activities I use to fill time to feel productive?
Put to Avoid list
Who are the 20% of people who produce 80%
of your enjoyment and propel you forward
Follow list!
Who are the 20% who cause 80% of your
depression, anger and 2nd guessing?
Put to Avoid list
Answer this everyday:“If this is the only
thing I do today, will I satisfied w/ the day?
Follow list!
Finances "Jars"'Envelopes"'Accounts"
Passive Income Account
Education Account
Buy Your Dreams Account
Give Account
Active Business
Play
Expense Account
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