aunt martha's - may 2nd
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Behavior Modification vs. Transformation
Fame or glory will not help a person to build their self esteem until they accept who they are internally. ~ Wikipedia
Behavior Modification vs. Transformation
Behavior Modification (OUTSIDE-IN)
• Perfects the work on your job (Performance)
• Incentive-Based (External Reward)
• Victim of external (Outside) circumstances
Transformation (INSIDE-OUT)
• Perfects the work on your person (or character)
• Identity-Based (Internal Reward)
• Victor of external (Outside) circumstances
The key to transformation is the condition of your heart and mind.
#MOTIVATION-IS-RESTORATION
SurvivalAn individual who is in survival mode goal is to survive.
SurvivalNO GOALS + NO VISION = LIVING DAY TO DAY.
LIVING DAY TO DAY IS SHORT-TERM THINKING.
SurvivalSurvival is connected to selfishness, and selfishness does not support community.
Question:
How do we transition out of survival?
Survival
Answer:
Provide a place of safety.
We MUST move out of survival mode to support our community.
In theory..... Our goal is to get here.
In the absence of physical safety – due to war,
natural disaster, family violence, childhood abuse,
etc. – people may (re) experience post-traumatic
stress disorder or transgenerational trauma.
This level is more likely to be found in children
because they generally have a greater need to feel
safe. (Source: Wikipedia)
Safety and Security needs include:
• Personal security
• Financial security
• Health and well-being
• Safety net against accidents/illness and their
adverse impacts
Maslow's
Hierarchy
Of
Needs