3 awesome success lessons 16 mar2015

3 Awesome Success Lessons

“Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out…” – Robert Collier

• All of us have our own dreams and desires. • There are times that we ask

ourselves why are there achievers and non-achievers.• What separates the winners from

the whiners.• Here 3 Awesome Success Lessons

that you can ponder about…

3 Awesome Success Lessons…

1.) Learn to Unlearn Stuffs…



• In order for us to achieve massive results, we must learn to unlearn the things that we thought we know.• As the legendary Bruce Lee puts it –

“Empty your cup that it may be filled; become devoid to gain totality…”• This is totally true as I’ve experienced

these many times already.



• Here’s the truth,• “Where I am now is a direct result of

what I know and the things that I did a few years ago…”• “…and if I want to achieve a certain goal

in the years to come, I have to change the things that I am doing now starting with what I think I know…”• I hope I did not loose you there…



• So if you think you know it all, think again.• Look at where you’re at right now.• if where you are right now is not where

you want to be, then there is something wrong in what you are currently doing…• …you must accept the fact that, in order

for you to get to where you want to be, you have to change some things in your life.• …and that includes the “know-it-all”

mindset.



• You have to clear your mind of your past conditioning and start embracing the process of change… start embracing the process of learning.• “Life is a process of continuous

growth…”• So if you are not growing, then you are

not living…• And if you are not living, you’re actually

DEAD• Be like water and let knowledge flow

through you.• Remember, you are a vessel of

learning…


2.) Understand that Success Is Not An Accident…




• Success is actually a choice. • The key element to being successful in

whatever we venture into is our work habits.• Understand that whatever stage we are

in our lives right now, we are the one responsible.• We get to choose the things that we do

on a daily basis…



• “Stephen Curry is one of the best shooters in the planet today because he made a CHOICE to create great habits…”• Habits are what separate winners from

losers.• Whatever you do on a regular basis

today will determine where you will be tomorrow.• So ask yourself everyday,• “Are the Habits you have today at par

with the Dreams you have for tomorrow…”


3.) Listen To Your Mentor…



• The fastest way to achieving success is to have someone who has achieved the success that we long for…• Mentors are there to guide us in the

things that we need to do and the things that we should not do…• Having mentors to guide us along the

way will surely shorten the learning curve. • Mentors will surely save us a lot of pain

because they are the ones who has been there, done that.



When you choose a mentor, consider the following:

a. Choose a mentor who is more successful than you.• Surely, it is unwise to choose someone who

is more desperate than you as a Mentor. • When choosing your mentor, pick someone

who is living the life that you very much wanted.

• Not just those who are successful in one are of their lives. Instead, choose a mentor who is successful in every area of his life.

• That way, you are pretty sure that he will point you to the right direction.



When you choose a mentor, consider the following:b. Choose a mentor who is willing to get

down and dirty with you when the going gets tough.• Sure there are lots of people (who

accidentally call themselves “Mentors or Coaches”) that are not really expressing genuine care for people.

• Remember, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going and the coach goes with them…”



When you choose a mentor, consider the following:c. Choose a mentor who has a Mentor

himself…• The mentor must also be dedicated

in the process of learning. • He should be investing in his own

personal growth and development. • This way, you are pretty sure that

he will also become your accountability partner when it comes to your own personal growth and development…


• With the right mindset, conditioning, work habits and great mentors, you are truly poised toward success…


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Neo C. Rayoshttp://www.neorayos.com

3 awesome success lessons 16 mar2015

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