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<ul><li><p>LOGO </p><p>12 secrets To become a super </p><p>Communicator </p></li><li><p>"The single biggest problem in </p><p>communication is the illusion that </p><p>it has taken place." </p><p>George Bernard Shaw </p><p>JobGuide247.info 2 </p></li><li><p>The biggest communication </p><p>problem is we do not listen to </p><p>understand. </p><p>We listen to reply. </p><p>Unknow author </p><p>JobGuide247.info 3 </p></li><li><p>Top materials: </p><p>- To improve your communication skills, to become a </p><p>super communicator, you can ref materials below: </p><p>http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-</p><p>to-become-super-communicator.html </p><p>- Top 20 secrets will change your life </p><p>- 18 secrets for success from billionaires </p><p>- 16 Secrets for Career Success From the World's Top </p><p>Executives </p><p> JobGuide247.info 4 </p><p>http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/top-3-materials-to-become-super-communicator.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/11/20-secrets-will-change-your-life.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/11/secrets-for-success-from-billionaires.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/secrets-for-career-success.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/secrets-for-career-success.html</p></li><li><p>JobGuide247.info </p><p>1. Listen, Really Listen </p><p>Finally, going hand-in-</p><p>hand with most of the </p><p>points above, the best </p><p>thing you can do to </p><p>improve your </p><p>communication skills </p><p>is to learn to really </p><p>listen-to pay attention </p><p>and let the other </p><p>person talk without </p><p>interrupting. </p><p>How </p><p>to? </p><p>Its hard work, we know, but </p><p>A good conversation is a </p><p>bunch of words elegantly </p><p>connected with listening. </p><p>Then, even if your </p><p>communication styles dont </p><p>match, at least youre both </p><p>working off the same page. </p><p>And hopefully the other </p><p>person will be attentively </p><p>listening to you too. </p><p>5 </p></li><li><p>JobGuide247.info </p><p>Everything people say and </p><p>do expresses an </p><p>underlying need, longing or </p><p>value. We can learn to </p><p>identify and hear these </p><p>needs, even when they are </p><p>not expressed explicitly. </p><p>Because all human beings </p><p>share these needs, they </p><p>are our magic key to </p><p>unlocking mutual </p><p>understanding </p><p>For example, if someone </p><p>says, You are so selfish, you </p><p>never do anything to help at </p><p>home, they are indirectly </p><p>expressing a longing for </p><p>consideration and support, </p><p>but it is coming out as blame </p><p>and judgment. If we can </p><p>empathise rather than react, </p><p>we will connect and the </p><p>person will feel understood. </p><p>2. Understand needs, wishes and values. </p><p>1 2 </p><p>6 </p></li><li><p>JobGuide247.info </p><p>3. Be willing to hear No. </p><p>1 2 3 </p><p>Even with these </p><p>guidelines, our </p><p>carefully </p><p>expressed </p><p>requests might </p><p>still elicit a No </p><p>from the other </p><p>person. Why </p><p>would this upset </p><p>us? </p><p>4 </p><p>Why would this </p><p>upset us? Is it </p><p>that our request </p><p>was actually a </p><p>demand that we </p><p>expect the other </p><p>person to fullfil? </p><p>We have a </p><p>choice in how </p><p>we hear that </p><p>No. </p><p>It could be that </p><p>something else </p><p>is important to </p><p>the other </p><p>person; that </p><p>they had a </p><p>different need </p><p>or value alive </p><p>in that </p><p>moment. </p><p>Maybe the </p><p>No is their </p><p>request for </p><p>something else </p><p>to happen. And </p><p>then we are </p><p>into the dance </p><p>of giving and </p><p>bending! No </p><p>is not as </p><p>threatening as </p><p>we might </p><p>imagine. </p><p>7 </p></li><li><p>4. Mind your body language </p><p>Intentionally or not, how you </p><p>comport your body </p><p>communicates a lot. For </p><p>instance, do you appear </p><p>closed off with your arms </p><p>folded, or actively engaged, </p><p>say by talking with your </p><p>hands? Its worth </p><p>considering, lest you send </p><p>the wrong message with </p><p>your posture or facial </p><p>expression. </p><p>JobGuide247.info 8 </p><p>Useful post: http://www.SuccessSecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-</p><p>lifetime.html </p><p>http://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.htmlhttp://www.successsecrets247.com/2017/03/24-books-must-read-in-your-lifetime.html</p></li><li><p>This is a festive title Maybe as a colleague concludes a presentation and looks around the room, </p><p>you seem to glowernot because the </p><p>presentation was bad, but because </p><p>youre lost in thought. In moments like </p><p>this, its sometimes worthwhile to explain </p><p>yourself: That wasnt bad at all, I just </p><p>need a moment to process. Lets circle </p><p>back in a moment. </p><p>4. 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Great communication comes from focusing more on the other person than on your-self. </p><p>Focusing on the other person </p><p>when youre speaking involves </p><p>sacrificing the illusion of </p><p>perfection for the reality of </p><p>transparency, which means being </p><p>honest about mistakes (like when </p><p>you forget an idea) or mishaps </p><p>(like a technology glitch). </p><p>JobGuide247.info 10 </p><p>Useful post: http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-</p><p>skills.html </p><p>http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.html</p></li><li><p>This shows your listeners that youre much more </p><p>interested in them getting the information than in </p><p>your performance, or whether youre presenting </p><p>perfectly. So, Im a big advocate for transparency </p><p>and I think its probably one of the most </p><p>underutilized tools because we get up there and </p><p>we feel this pressure to be perfect. Instead I would </p><p>advise aiming for flexibility, not flawlessness. </p><p>5. 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Patience is a must </p><p>2 </p><p>3 </p><p>1 Many-a-times, a </p><p>great deal of </p><p>patience is </p><p>required just to </p><p>understand the </p><p>problem, let </p><p>alone offer a </p><p>solution. </p><p>But, in the end, </p><p>being patient will </p><p>make you a </p><p>winner. Be </p><p>patient and </p><p>capture the finer </p><p>details; keep in </p><p>mind that great </p><p>service is better </p><p>than fast service. </p><p>A customer reaches </p><p>out to you when they </p><p>are unsure, confused </p><p>or have a grievance. </p><p>He may, sometimes, </p><p>be angry because of </p><p>miscommunication or </p><p>because he feels that </p><p>he has been treated </p><p>unfairly. </p><p>12 </p></li><li><p>7. Wait for the other person to finish </p><p>We all know someone who </p><p>likes to talk without listening; </p><p>who seems to think that </p><p>what they have to say is as </p><p>fascinating to everyone else </p><p>around them; who doesnt </p><p>seem to understand that </p><p>listening is an important part </p><p>of communicating and </p><p>connecting with others. </p><p>JobGuide247.info 13 </p><p>Useful post: http://www.BusinessSecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-</p><p>income-off-all-time.html </p><p>http://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.htmlhttp://www.businesssecrets88.com/2017/11/7-ways-to-make-passive-income-off-all-time.html</p></li><li><p>7. Wait for the other person to finish (con) </p><p>The best communicators know </p><p>that there is a kind of give and </p><p>take between talking and </p><p>listening, listening is the keya </p><p>sharing of who is speaker and </p><p>who is listener based on mutual </p><p>respect and caring about each </p><p>others feelings. Some people talk </p><p>about themselves because they </p><p>genuinely think theyre more </p><p>interesting than anyone else they </p><p>know. But many people are </p><p>overwhelmed by their own </p><p>feelings and push them away. </p><p>Either way, monologs send the </p><p>wrong message to your listener, </p><p>while a two-way conversation </p><p>brings people closer. JobGuide247.info 14 </p></li><li><p>8. Summarize the highlights </p><p>Its not unheard of for people </p><p>to meet for an hour, raise a </p><p>series of worthwhile </p><p>questions, ponder potential </p><p>answers, resolve nothing, </p><p>and then realize its time to </p><p>leave for another meeting. </p><p>This is where follow-up notes </p><p>can help ensure whatever </p><p>headway you mightve been </p><p>making doesnt just vanish </p><p>out the door. </p><p>JobGuide247.info 15 </p><p>Useful post: http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-</p><p>skills.html </p><p>http://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.htmlhttp://www.jobguide247.info/2017/11/12-tips-to-improve-presentation-skills.html</p></li><li><p>8. Summarize the highlights (con) </p><p>If you can avoid sending </p><p>lengthy emails to long </p><p>strings of recipients, its </p><p>probably for the better. 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