working during personal difficulties
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Focusing on Work During Difficult Personal Times
It’s not quite as easy as “checking your problems at the door”
Where possible (and necessary), communicate with supervisors
Control the things you CAN control
Focus on the things you can measure
Refrain from broadcasting personal details
Consider taking time off, if available
Basics
EAP
Support Groups
Wise Advisors
Professional Support
Don’t Try to Go It Alone
Your Office
Your Home
Your Vehicle
Environmental Controls
Remember why you work
Take pride in surviving
Serve as an example to others
Keeping Motivated
Eliminate toxic people from your ‘circle’
Be wary of what you are watching and reading and what you are saying to yourself
Discover new ways to feed your mind Running/walking Writing
Engage Social “Filtering”
Lists
Deadlines
Standards of Performance
Remove Subjective Judgments
DO'S and DON'T'S DO...
Strike _______________ Talk about the problem when
____________________ Talk about __________________________ Ask ____________________________
What can You do for an Employee or Co-Worker Going Through a Difficult
Time?
DO'S and DON'T'S DON'T...
Try to become ________________________ Join the person in running
_______________________ Give the person ____________________________ Make _________________________
What can You do for an Employee or Co-Worker Going Through a Difficult
Time?