winter 2013 partners in giving

Development Office of the Salesian Sisters, Daughters of Mary Help of Christians • www.salesiansisters.org

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Don Bosco’s Florida

Oratory!see page 3

The Salesian approach to youth ministry is, first and foremost, a way to Jesus. St. John Bosco believed in establishing a place

where young people can feel welcome, safe, and peaceful.The new Salesian Oratory on Saturdays in Miami, FL, is that place,

where kids can enjoy a wide array of fun and healthy activities, as the smiles on these young fishermen’s faces attest!

2 • Partners in Giving • Volume XXIII • Issue 1 Please call us toll-free: 877-OUR-NUNS

Sr. Mary Rinaldi’s Letter

Dear Friends,

As the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT unfolded and developed with the tearing, searing conclusion of the death of so many innocent children and courageous adults, the Salesian Sisters felt the loss profoundly, as our charism is the education of young people. But we also felt a sense of impotence. Yes, we prayed for the families and marveled at their resilience and faith, but as we prayed we wondered what could we do to participate more fully in the sorrow and loss?

Then a person who understood what eternal life truly is and how spirituality could somehow mend hearts broken by such a tremendous sorrow came forth and offered to adopt 20 of our Sisters to pray for the families of the 20 children who were the Holy Innocents of our time. The elderly Sisters at the St. Joseph Center in Haledon, NJ are honored and privileged to be a part of this great gift with their prayer for one year. As so many of you can attest, the Adopt-a-Sister Program provides comfort and healing. Thank you to our friend’s spiritual vision and goodness.

Some news to report:

• The Partners Circle continues to be the foundation of our mission as our unrestricted emergency fund. I am touched by so much faith and generosity. Won’t you join us in this New Year? See page 9.

• More young women are responding to God’s call to serve as a Salesian Sister. Starting with this issue, our Aspirants share the inspirational stories of their vocation journeys. See page 15.

• We are ready to send you your giving summary for the year 2012. Kindly contact us for whatever you need, toll-free: (877) OUR-NUNS.

As we begin this New Year, I echo the gratitude of our Provincial Superior, Sr. Karen Dunn, and each of the Salesian Sisters for your faith in us and your generosity. Peace,

Save The Dates!

Spring Party

Sunday, April 21, 2013Mary Help of Christians

Academy North Haledon, NJ

Dames of Mary HelpWomen of Distinction

Luncheon

Wednesday, May 1, 2013Indian Trail Club

Franklin Lakes, NJ

Watch for details!

Donate your unwanted Christmas gifts to the Spring Party, to benefit the Mary Help

Financial Aid Fund! Please call (973) 904-0102 for details. Thank you!

Visit us online! www.salesiansisters.org Partners in Giving • Winter 2013 • 3

Making Headlines Around the Province

An Oratory is a place, an attitude, and a method. The Salesian approach to youth

ministry is, first and foremost, a way to Jesus. St. John Bosco believed in establishing a place where young people can feel welcome, safe, and peaceful. It is a school where life skills are learned. It is a church, a place of prayer and spiritual development. It is a playground where fun and joy celebrate life.

The Salesian Sisters’ community in Miami, FL accepted an invitation from Fr. Juan Carlos, Pastor of St. John Bosco Parish, to organize a Salesian oratory in his parish for youth in grades 7-11 on Saturday afternoons. The parish serves more than 6,000 impoverished families, mainly immigrants from Nicaragua. We gather two Saturdays a month at St. John Bosco Parish and one Saturday a month transport the youth

Don Bosco’s Oratory on the Florida Coast!

The sun sets on Biscayne Bay as another Saturday at the St. John Bosco Salesian Oratory comes to a close, capped by time

spent around a roaring campfire.

to Immaculata-LaSalle High School to enjoy the gym, field, and other activities not possible at the parish because of limited space. ILS students who are members of the Salesian Oratory Club as well as other school clubs assist the Salesian Sisters in offering hospitality to the youth of the St. John Bosco Salesian Oratory.

Members of the ILS Environmental Club take students kayaking in the mangroves adjacent to the ILS campus (as pictured on the cover). The Club holds monthly clean ups via kayak to help maintain healthy mangrove and seagrass habitats next to their beautiful campus located on Biscayne Bay.

Fishing is also included, and the day usually ends with a wonderful time around the campfire.

Truly, youth partnering with youth is the ideal of Don Bosco’s Oratory!

– Sr. Kim Keraitis, FMA


At right, Sr. Ramona Beltré and her mother, Lucrecia, from the Dominican Republic.

Below, The Rinaldi Twins, times two,means double the fun!


Festive Fun for All at Our Christmas Party!

On December 9, more than 500 guests attended the Salesian Sisters’ annual

Christmas Party at Mary Help of Christians Academy in North Haledon, NJ. The festive atmosphere, a delicious meal from The Market Basket of Franklin Lakes, and even a visit from Santa Claus himself amidst the many beautiful gift baskets, all made for a wonderful time filled with Christmas spirit.

Thank you to all who supported this amazing event – you helped raise more than $80,000 for the Mary Help of Christians Academy Financial Aid Fund!

Also, congratulations to the winners of the Christmas Challenge Sweepstakes:

$500 Grocery Gift Card: Mary Ann Apoldo

Mamaroneck, NY

$500 Apple Store Gift Card: Peg Gleeson Southold, NY

We hope to see you all again at our Spring Party on April 21!

Our Christmas “Elves” help with the baskets, including Mary Help alumna Harolina Estupinan, Angela Larca, and Mary Lee Pratnicki

The Mary Help gymnasium was jam-packed with Christmas Party revelers!

Sr. Antoinette Cabrera joined the Gauthier family along with Sr. Teresita Teran and her Dad, Segundo Teran.



We Loved Our “Night in Old Havana”!

Provincial Sr. Karen Dunn and Bishop Manuel Cruz of the Archdiocese of Newark present our Gala honoree, Sr. Esther Cruz, with a special tribute.

Congratulations, Marta and Juan Gutierrez, our evening’s honorees! At right, Juan joins Mary Help of Christians Academy Principal, Sr. Lise Parent.

On Friday, December 7, more than 350 family, friends, and benefactors came together for

“A Night in Old Havana,” held at the Hilton at Woodcliff Lake, NJ.

The evening’s honorees were Juan and Marta Gutierrez of Colts Neck, NJ and Sr. Esther Cruz, FMA. We saluted their friendship, support, and service to Mary Help of Christians Academy and its Salesian Sisters-owned and operated middle and high school, which serves young women from Paterson and beyond.

The Cuban-themed night was led by friend of the Gutierrez Family, emcée Ino Gomez, host of “El Handyman en Su Casa” on Univision’s radio station WADO. The night featured a silent and live auction; dinner and dancing; an authentic cigar roller; a mojito bar; a Grammy-Award-winning Latin band, Sammy Galvez and his Orchestra; and professional dancers.

Congratulations to the winners of the 50/50: Mary Help of Christians Academy (First Place), and Teresa Gutto of Allendale, NJ (Second Place).

Special thanks to our sponsors who helped make the Gala a tremendous success, including Juan and Marta Gutierrez; Beverly and Rodger Rohde; Daniel Culnen of C and H Agency; Mr. & Mrs. Al Daloisio of Railroad Construction Co., Inc.; Foley, Inc.; Maryann and Robert Harkins; Spencer Savings Bank; and Aleta and Rich Taylor.

The evening was arranged by the Dames of Mary Help, a group of women who volunteer their time, energy, and talent to educate the local community about the importance of

Mary Help through special events and public relations.

Thank you, one and all, for helping

to keep Salesian, Catholic education viable for all young women!

Photos by Lorraine CorsaLe


Above left, Anna Madan announces a scholarship from

McDonalds.

Above right, Elizabeth Harkins and Maria Losurdo-Colangelo chaired our 2012 Gala along with Christina McAleer (not

pictured).

Left, The Gutierrez family: George, Juan, Elsa, and

Sr. Teresa pose with mama Angela Teresa.

Below, our intrepid Auctioneer Jill Doherty announces the lucky winners of the 50/50.

Above, the evening’s emcee, Ino Gomez,presents Joe Papa with his prize.

Left, Joan Fontanella and her son, Alfred.


Mary Help of Christian Alumna Anita Moreano-Zale and her dance partner, Harry Eltrhonny entertained the crowd with their amazing salsa dancing!

The Dames of Mary Help – a.k.a. The Ladies in Red! – thank the guests and honorees for another successful Gala!

The Partners Circle was founded in 1991 to provide unrestricted funds for urgent needs of the Salesian Sisters and their mission. These include support for capital needs,

scholarship assistance, technology upgrades, and funds for those unforeseen situations that require immediate attention.

Your annual contribution to this fund empowers the Sisters to continue their mission: To Provide Financial Assistance and Volunteer Services to the Salesian Sisters and to the Young People in their Care for the Advancement of Education, Vocations, and Community Life.

There are nine levels of membership, starting at $500, and are listed on these three pages.

Won’t you consider joining this dynamic group in 2013, our 22nd year?

Please call us today: (877) OUR-NUNS. Thank you!

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Partners Circle “Stewards” Annual gift of $10,000

texasMrs. Betty Turner

FLoridaMr. & Mrs. Anthony Ekonomou

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Angel Oliva FamilyThe Dorothy Thomas Foundation

indiana Mrs. Beatrice Lightfoot

new Jersey Tony Amato Family The Carini Family

Joseph J. McAleer, Sr., Heritage Society Major Bequests

CaLiFornia Richard Meissner,

Meissner Manufacturing

FLoridaDr. & Mrs. Vincent BagliMr. & Mrs. Ray Campo

Mr. & Mrs. Joseph GarciaMrs. Ann Lowry Murphey

Mr. Anthony PetrocelliMs. Roberta Ruocco

Ms. Celeste TripiMr. Vincent Waraske

new yorkMrs. Pearl Kalikow

Partners Circle “Visionaries” Annual gift of $25,000

FLoridaIn memory of Henrietta Veronica

Schmoll Rauenhorst

new JerseyIn memory of Mr. & Mrs. C.H. Church, Jr.

CaLiForniaMrs. Maryann Roman

ConneCtiCutMr. Michael Guarnieri

Mr. & Mrs. David McAleerDr. Joseph McAleer

FLoridaMrs. Janis Boyd

The Joseph J. Hermann & Rose A. Hermann

Charitable FoundationDr. Idalia Lastra

Mr. Fredy Padovan

new JerseyMr. & Mrs. John Connors

Mr. Anthony GulinoMs. Ida Gulino

Ms. Nancy GulinoMr. & Mrs. Donald HoffmanMr. & Mrs. Joseph LaudoneMr. & Mrs. Joseph Massood

Mr. & Mrs. Michael MassoodKathleen & Vic MedoreMs. Antonia P. Meola

Mrs. Moira McBride MurphyMr. Stephen Papetti

Ms. Rose Perone

new yorkMs. Jordon Carroll

Mr. & Mrs. Anthony Scala, Jr.

PennsyLvaniaIn Loving Memory

of Sr. Adeline Salvetti, FMA

south CaroLinaMr. & Mrs. Tom Aldinger

new JerseyMrs. Rosemarie D’Alessandro

Ms. Debi F. DebiakMr. & Mrs. Joseph Granatell Mr. & Mrs. Anthony Laino

Mr. & Mrs. Dale LiviMr. & Mrs. Brian McAuley Mr. & Mrs. Mario Monaco

Mr. & Mrs. Michael Massood

new yorkMs. Lea Battiato

Mr. & Mrs. James Dell’OrtoMr. & Mrs. John W. Lombardi

Msgr. William T. RodgersThe Sabatine Foundation

Mr. & Mrs. Angelo Silveri

PennsyLvaniaAllyson & Kevin Hardy

CaLiForniaMr. & Mrs. Robert

Obenberger

ConneCtiCutMr. & Mrs. Peter Christiansen

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FLoridaMr. & Mrs. John Anello

Mr. & Mrs. Joseph W. Clark Dr. & Mrs. Rod Jurado

Mr. & Mrs. H. Tyson Lykes, IIMr. & Mrs. Jim Major

Frank & Pat MiddendorfJohn & Lydia Oliva

Mr. & Mrs. Gene Perez

GeorGiaMr. Robert Reiter

MassaChusettsMr. & Mrs. Dennis Clair

MissouriMs. Marianne O’Doherty

Partners Circle “Benefactors” Annual gift of $1,000

Partners Circle

“Founders”Annual gift of $2,000

Partners Circle “Partners”Annual gift of $5,000

Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Weiner

new yorkMr. Anthony J. Carroll

Mr. John Cassara

PennsyLvaniaMr. & Mrs. Vincent DeBow

FLoridaMr. & Mrs. James Millar

new JerseyMr. & Mrs. Tony Chernalis Mr. & Mrs. Robert HarkinsMr. & Mrs. Bill McLaughlinMr. & Mrs. Joseph PfeiferMr. & Mrs. Rodger Rohde

FLoridaMr. & Mrs. Javier Baldor

Partners Circle “Friends”Annual gift of $3,000

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arizonaA Friend

CaLiForniaMr. Ian H. Graham

Geraldine & Joanne Rizzuto

ConneCtiCutMr. & Mrs. Edward Goin

Mr. & Mrs. Robert J. Mosey

FLoridaMr. & Mrs. Mark Anderson

Mr. & Mrs. Carlos Baldor, Jr.Mr. & Mrs. Carlos Baldor, Sr.

Mr. James J. BurrowesMrs. Yoli Buss

Dr. & Mrs. Robert CanoMr. & Mrs. Joseph Capitano

Mrs. Trudy CareyDr. & Mrs. Antonio CastroMr. & Mrs. J.C. De Lotto

Dr. & Mrs. Emilio EchevarriaDrs. Andrea & Sean Farrier

Mr. & Mrs. Luis GarciaMrs. Rose Graziano

Mrs. Elsa Gutierrez-Janulionis Mr. & Mrs. James W. Lee

Mr. & Mrs. Mark S. ReynoldsMr. & Mrs. Rene Rodriguez

Hon. Judge & Mrs. E.J. SalcinesMr. Charles B. SchmalzMrs. Peggy Jones Theis

Mr. Joseph TomainoMr. & Mrs. Ron Yates

GeorGiaMr. & Mrs. Charles Fantauzza

iLLinoisJoseph & Adelaide Olivieri

MassaChusettsMs. Patti Gauthier

Ms. Josephine PetrilloMr. & Mrs. Theodore Reading

new JerseyTiziana Anello, M.D.Ms. Bernice Bednarz

Larry & Mary Anne ConditDr. & Mrs. Louis A. Gambetta

Mr. & Mrs. Jerry Giamonco Mrs. Stephanie Goldberg

Mrs. Teresa GuttoMichael & Mary Losurdo

Ms. Laura MannarinoMrs. Diva Muller

Mr. & Mrs. Bob O’HalloranMrs. Christine Peragallo

Mr. & Mrs. Joseph PiotrowskiMr. & Mrs. Cameron ReidMr. & Mrs. John SoldoveriMr. & Mrs. William Stuart

new yorkMichael & Jeanette Altamura

Mr. & Mrs. Jack BetwardaMr. Charles Brown

Kevin & Kathy ClairMrs. Rose Mary Clair

Terence & Patricia ClairMr. & Mrs. Charles Curcio

Ms. Claire DellMr. Joseph Hill

Mr. Walter LazarcheckMs. Elizabeth Nardone

Mrs. Joan Oliver

north CaroLinaMr. & Mrs. Paul Liotard

Mr. Chester F. Michewicz, Jr.

ohioMr. & Mrs. Dan Clair

PennsyLvaniaMr. & Mrs. Jack Hedgecock

south CaroLinaAnonymous

texasMr. & Mrs. Bill Locklier

virGiniaMrs. Dominique FaustMr. Michael Maurer

Partners Circle “Members”Annual gift of $500

Partners Circle

“Associates” Annual gift of $750

FLoridaMr. Declan MansfieldFred & Anne Michaels

LouisianaMr. John Keller

new JerseyMr. Anthony B. Della CerraMr. & Mrs. Dominic Stimola

new yorkMrs. Helen Leahy

OUR MISSION

The Salesian Sisters’ Partners Circle

provides Financial Assistance

and Volunteer Services

to the Salesian Sisters

and the Young People in their Care

for the Advancement of Education,

Vocations, and

Community Life.

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• •GIVE US THIS

Day

Please reserve this day/these days in 2013in honor of my special intention to support the Endowment for the St. Joseph Provincial Center for our Retired Sisters:

Day 1 (Month, day): Significance:



Total enclosed@ $100 per day: $ ____________

Please make yourcheck payable to:Salesian Sisters

Name

Address

Telephone

Please Help Our Retired Sisters In Need!

This New Year, Please Give Us This Day!

Do you have a happy occasion you would like to share? The Salesian Sisters will celebrate with you. Is it a time to celebrate a less-than-

happy occasion? Our prayer for you on your special day will celebrate this event in your life. Have you someone to thank? Then please “Give Us This Special Day”! All of us will help multiply this gratitude. Any and every event or person or situation that merits special attention will be publicized on a bulletin board outside our chapel on your special day. All the Sisters, on that day, will pray for that person, event, and/or situation and for the person who requests prayer for the day.

The Sisters enjoy taking part in your family’s joys and, also, sorrows. You have become part of our family, and that is a wonderful exchange of love and concern for each event. The Lord has assured us, “Where two or three are gathered in My Name, I am among them.” What better assurance can we have?

Let this exchange of time be an example of our concern and love for one another. God bless you!

At the St. Joseph Provincial Center, Sr. Mary Terzo andSr. Mildred Zannetti wrote Christmas cards to their Adopters.

Please detach and mail in the enclosed envelope. Thank you!


“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” – Romans 12:21

In the wake of recent tragedy and disaster, the human spirit, a reflection of the Creator God, again rises. Amid the horror of the accounts and

loss in Newtown, we see sparks of hope. Heroism of teachers and responders. Inspiration gone viral in the tweet: “Twenty-six Acts of Kindness” for each of the children and adults lost. We watched as grief-stricken parents extended sympathy to the gunman’s family. From among our readers there was a request to adopt 20 Salesian Sisters in the name of each innocent lost.

Prayers, letters, outreach, and so many questions; Why? Why? Why? What kind of world are we leaving to our children? What kind of world . . .

A broken one, for sure, but – in our Christian mindset – one that is also redeemed. Responses of love, prayer, forgiveness, compassion, hope, and generosity testify to that redemptive action of God within us. The kind of world we deeply long to give the new generations is called forth daily and rises from within us.

This is what we call the Paschal Mystery. We – with Christ – living, dying, and then rising. In our rising, we experience the power of God who pronounces the final word over evil. This is the stuff the Lenten Season is made of.

During Lent we acknowledge our own brokenness and sinfulness, and that of all the world, and then we allow the power of grace to rise in us. We pray, we give, we fast. With a flood of tweets and cards and prayers and acts of kindness, we immerse ourselves into the healing Christ who still transforms our world! The decision to overcome evil through the power of Good (capital letter intended) fires in us those sparks of hope to bring our world closer to the place we wish to leave to our beautiful children who grace it.

This year, 2013, Don Pasqual Chavez, successor to St. John Bosco and Rector Major of the worldwide Salesian Family, offers the traditional “Strenna” theme

for all of us: “Like Don Bosco . . . we offer young people the Gospel of joy through a pedagogy of kindness.” Our precious young people are taught, touched, and shaped by loving-kindness.

In his commentary letter on the “Strenna,” Don Pasquale offers the familiar verses below. They call us to model, for the young, Christ’s redeeming work:

When you thought I wasn’t looking,I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator,and I wanted to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you feed a stray cat,and I thought it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn’t looking,I saw you make my favorite cake for me,and I knew that little things are special things.

When you thought I wasn’t looking,I heard you say a prayer,and I believed that there was a God to talk to.

When you thought I wasn’t looking,I felt you kiss me good night,and I felt loved.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw tears come from your eyes,and I learned that sometimes things hurt,but it’s alright to cry.

When you thought I wasn’t looking,I saw that you cared,and I wanted to be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I looked . . . and I wanted to say thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn’t looking.

This Lent we can pray, act, give, fast, tweet, blog – do as Christ did, overcoming evil in this world with the power of Good!

The Human Spirit Rises Sr. Karen Dunn’s Letter

“Our precious young people are taught, touched, and shaped by

loving-kindness.”


You can honor a cherished relative or friend with an everlasting gift of love – a memorial.

Our Partners in Giving Memorials & Tributes give you the opportunity to comfort those who have lost a loved one or to commemorate a special occasion.

This gift lives forever. It joins your loved ones to the prayers of the Salesian Sisters and supports their good works.

The name of your loved one will appear in our Partners in Giving magazine – a priceless gift to those you love.

Give the gift that lasts forever.

Enclosed is my Memorial/Tribute Gift of:

____ $25 ____ $20 ____$15 $

Memorial for

Tribute for

Occasion

Please send an acknowledgement to:

Name

Address

My Name

Address

Detach & mail to: Sr. Mary Rinaldi

659 Belmont Avenue, North Haledon, NJ 07508-2397

Please make checks payable to SALESIAN SISTERS

Name – DECEASED

Name – LIVING

A LoveThat Lasts

Forever Dolores BoncherMr. & Mrs. Richard Gough

Marvin StaufferMrs. Julie Mead

Hilda WellsMr. & Mrs. Michael Corcoran

Alice SalterMr. & Mrs. Michael Corcoran

Camille D’Amato KornutickMs. Carol Kasper

Cathy MansfieldMr. & Mrs. David B. Turret

Erlean WilliamsMr. & Mrs. Patrick C. Duffy

Sr. Christine Hellen, FMAMrs. Marilyn Mandera

Mr. George RohdeMr. & Mrs. Jim Schultz

Jeanne P. KarthausMs. Patricia Karthaus

& Family

Henrietta Veronica Schmoll Rauenhorst

JS Turner Family Foundation

Joanne C. SellersMr. Gregory Gualtiere

& Family

Angeline MangiapaneMr. & Mrs. Alfred Durante

Vita RosaMr. & Mrs. Alfred Durante

Allan HoffmanMrs. Alvie Hoffmann

Sammy Di GregorioMrs. Donna Hollander

Anita ParaparMr. & Mrs. Reynee Dominguez

Ramona MarcetMr. & Mrs. Reynee Dominguez

Ramon MendezMr. & Mrs. Reynee Dominguez

Evidia A. CruzMr. & Mrs. Reynee Dominguez

Barbara CurcioMr. & Mrs. James Allegra

Rosario GarciaMr. & Mrs. Joseph Garcia

Nicholas GangiKaren & Toots ZaretskiMs. Katherine Farroba

Loretta WestSr. Mary Rinaldi, FMA

MemorialsReceived between December 1, 2012 and January 31, 2013

You may now adopt a Salesian Sister to

pray for your deceased family member or friend for one year. It is a one-time gift; the suggested donation is $160. Forms are posted online at: www.salesiansisters.org, or please call us, toll-free: (877) OUR-NUNS.

TributesReceived between December 1, 2012

and January 31, 2013

Virginia JonesMs. Louise Jones

Sr. Catherine Novo, FMAMr. & Mrs. Al Adreveno


My Vocation Journey

Picture this: I’m sitting on an airplane, waiting for take-off with butterflies in my stomach.

I’m leaving sunny Florida and heading to New Jersey – New Jersey! – for the weekend. Only my parents and a small handful of close friends know the purpose for this trip. It’s top secret. I’m going to visit nuns. Salesian nuns. For the entire 167-minute plane ride, my earnest prayer is this: “Dear God, PLEASE let me hate it.”

For years, I felt a gentle tug . . . a whisper . . . a desire deep in my heart. “You were made for more. Give yourself to Me.” But, God, I already do so much for You. Haven’t I given You enough?

“I want YOU. ALL of you.”

I made excuses. I ignored it. I said no (repeatedly). I ran. But, He never gave up. Our Lord is a relentless lover and He continued His pursuit. I had my own apartment, a great job, amazing friends, and a strong faith community. I had everything a girl needs to be happy – and I was. Mostly. But at the end of the day I would lay in bed with a longing that felt like it could never be satisfied. An ache. A yearning for something more.

So, I finally told God that I would visit the Salesian Sisters. Secretly, I hoped that my weekend would be miserable. Then I could tell God that I tried, but that religious life was not for me.

The truth is, I didn’t hate it. From the moment I met the Sisters, I felt comfortable, like I could be myself. They were hilarious; the house was filled with joy. The prayer life was simple and practical, but with a depth that drew me closer to Christ. They even had espresso in the morning!

“I’m Excited My Heart is in God’s Hands”

I’d love to tell you that I knew right then that I wanted to be a Salesian Sister, but I’m much too hard-headed for my story to be that simple. I wanted a flashing billboard,

a booming voice from Heaven, a CLEAR sign that told me what God wanted. Instead, He spoke to me in stillness and silence. When I spent time with the Sisters, the agonizing restlessness in my heart was quieted.

After three more visits, wrestling with lots of fear, and countless hours of prayer, I decided to take the plunge and go where my heart felt at peace.

On January 31, 2012 I asked for an application to enter into formation to become a Salesian Sister. I had no idea it was the Feast of St. John Bosco, our founder. God finally gave me my flashing billboard.

It’s now been five short months since I joined the Salesian family, and I have experienced more love and joy than I ever thought was possible in religious life. My discernment journey is far from over, but my heart is in God’s hands, and I am excited to see where He leads me!

Mary, Help of Christians, pray for us!

– Katie Flanagan

To learn more about vocations and becoming a Salesian Sister,

please e-mail the Vocations Director, Sr. Colleen Clair: [email protected], or visit www.salesiansisters.org or www.facebook.com/happynun.

Salesian Aspirant Katie Flanagan (center) with her family at her nephew’s baptism.

“From the moment I met the Salesian Sisters,

I felt comfortable, like I could be myself.”


My Adopted Sister, Sr. Mary Winterscheidt, is so wonderfully

positive. I love her joyfulness. She sees the beauty in life and is happy in her vocation. She is an inspiration.

Susan T.Adopter since 1999

It’s a good feeling to have my Adopted Sister, Sr. Mildred

Zanetti, as an advocate for my special intentions for my family’s intentions. I cherished the times I visited her during your Easter Celebration. She is my life preserver and friend, as are all Sisters!

Angie L.Adopter since 1996

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Wishing you and the Salesian Sisters a bright and beautiful

New Year with many graces and blessings! Also offering thanks to you all for the gift of the Dove of Peace during the holiday time, which so many benefit from, as well as your faithful goodness as a community to us. You all are a bright “sun-shining” light in my life for which I am perpetually grateful.

Donna S.Adopter since 1996

Won’t you consider Adopting a Sister? Join our friends of all faiths who

have experienced the transforming

power of prayer and loving friendship with a Salesian Sister, every day of the year.

Whether the Adopted Sister is for yourself, a family member, or a friend in need of spiritual strength, you will find comfort knowing that your intentions will be remembered each day by your spiritual prayer partner.

Please complete the form below, or to learn more, visit us online at www.salesiansisters.org or call us toll-free: (877) OUR-NUNS.

On behalf of the Salesian Sisters, thank you, and God bless you!

News from Adopters Like You!


Salesian Youth Report

ST.THERESA SCHOOL, KENILWORTH, NJ – Students in Ms.Pancurak’s third-grade class enjoyed traveling around the world with their own “Flat Stanley,” based on the popular children’s book series. Each student created a passport and a self-made Flat Stanley and learned about different parts of the world. They also kept a journal noting the special places of interest and facts about their destinations. Pictured above are “world travelers” Gabriela Ramos, Ava Perona, Alex Han, Sydney Phillips, and Paige Devanney. Bon voyage, kids!

Many thanks to the following grant providers for their generous support of the

Salesian Youth Center and Villa Madonna School in Tampa, FL! • Gannett Foundation/10 News

provided the Salesian Youth Center a $5,000 grant for the Literacy Program Initiative.

• The Junior League of Tampa

provided the Salesian Youth

Center a $2,500 grant to purchase e-readers for the Literacy Program Initiative.

• The Community Foundation of Tampa Bay has given the Salesian Youth Center a grant of $4,500.

• We received a Technical Assistance Grant in the amount of $2,000 from the Hillsborough County Children’s Board for the purpose of updating office equipment in the Tampa, FL office.

• The Eleanor Beyer Foundation

has given a grant in the amount of $7,500 in support of both Villa Madonna School and the Salesian Youth Center.

Villa Madonna, SYC Grateful for Grants!



IMMACULATA-LA SALLE HIGH SCHOOL, MIAMI, FL – Immaculata-La Salle is pleased to announce that it has been named as an Apple Distinguished Program for the 2012–2013 school year for its 1:1 iPad program, iLearn@ILS. By implementing transformative technology like iPads for students and teachers, iLearn@ILS joins exceptional programs all over the world who are examining the tools and learning environments required to enhance the student/teacher experience and develop the 21st-century classroom.

The Apple Distinguished Program designation is reserved for programs that integrate Apple technology in education and meet the five best practices: visionary leadership, innovative learning and teaching, ongoing professional learning, compelling evidence of success, and a flexible learning environment.

“Technology has changed the very nature of learning,” says Sr. Kim Keraitis, Principal. “The iPad provides our teachers with a better and more innovative tool for educating our students. Our goal is to have students

tapping into their creativity as soon as they come on campus in the morning and leaving energized with a sense of possibilities.”

The selection of iLearn@ILS as an Apple Distinguished Program highlights its successes in enhancing and extending teaching and learning with thoughtful and innovative implementations of technology. Immaculata-La Salle High School is the first Catholic school in South Florida to receive the Apple Distinguished Program title.

For more information on iLearn@ILS visit www.ilsipads.com or www.youtube.com/ilsroyals.

Above, ILS French teacher Teresa Suarez uses iTunes U to eliminate the textbook from the classroom and create a very

interactive forum for language acquisition. At tight, Freshman Daniel Recinos uses his iPad to complete his math problems in class.


The Joy of Teaching in a Salesian School

We all know what teachers do. We have all had to

learn in a school. Considering the number of people who are NOT school teachers, perhaps they would be surprised to know that teachers learn from their students. Now, if your schooling was about sitting at a desk, asking an occasional question between writing assignments, you might ask yourself how your teacher learned from YOU?

As a Salesian Sister, I think I learned the most from the students I taught when we were at recess, on a field trip, at lunch, or at summer camp. I remember the last day at Corpus Christi-Holy Rosary School in Port Chester, NY, before the summer break. We were playing kickball. Recess was over. It was time to go. There were only two more hours left for the eighth grade. “Please Sister! One more kick. Come on, the bases are loaded!”

What else could I say but, “Of course!”

The ball flew from his toe like a guided missile, landing on the pinpoint that was the top of our flagpole. A fitting ending for so wonderful a class! The ball was never retrieved; a testimony to living fully the present moment.

Once I accepted a dare for which I received $40. Returning from a field trip, I stopped to buy everyone ice cream with my winnings. The sweltering summer afternoon became a lesson in gratitude and joy. Have

you ever listened to the jokes of fourth graders and laughed until your sides ached? Enjoying the company of others is often overlooked.

Lunches were probably the most

fruitful, telling stories about my growing up with three older brothers and hearing the children tell stories of when they were “little.” Listening to children tell stories seems to create a tangible realization of how alike we are, how humanity is linked, no matter the age, creed, race, or place. Human beings have the same basic needs and experiences. We have more in common than we realize.

Certainly summer camp for me was a 24/7 laboratory of enchanted learning. I learned kindness, generosity, self-sacrifice, working for the good of the group while watching out for each one, sharing what we have together, and gleaning the wisdom that “comes from the mouths of babes.”

In all this there are the lessons you learn from making mistakes. One of the greatest examples of love for a child or an adult is to ask them to forgive you, telling them that you are sorry.

I can well remember the look given to me by one of my students or campers that must have been the same look Jesus gave to the rich young man – the look of love.

St. John Bosco had it right when he said that education is a thing of the heart. It’s kind of funny that I really don’t remember too many unpleasant occurrences that weren’t turned into something funny. Another lesson I learned from the kids!

– Sr. Eileen Tickner, FMA

A 24/7 Laboratory of Enchanted Learning

“Have you ever listened to the jokes of fourth graders and laughed

until your sides ached? Enjoying the company

of others is often overlooked.”

Sr. Eileen Tickner stands behind her Salesian heroine, Mother Mary Mazzarello!



On January 7, ten University of Illinois students, Fr. Charles Klamut, and Sr. Maryann Schaefer left Chicago, IL for Tampa, FL, for the first

Salesian Gospel Roads Mission trip sponsored by the St. John’s Catholic Newman Center.

Our mission in Tampa was not to get away from the cold and bask in the sun, but to bring the Son to homeless people and those who serve them and to bask in His warmth. Our days began with the Eucharistic Liturgy and ended with Eucharistic Adoration, as we all realized that we can’t give what we don’t have. So each of us had to first have a daily, personal encounter with Jesus in order to recognize Him in those we serve and to give Him to them as well.

During our days in Tampa, we had the opportunity to serve lunch and to talk to the many homeless people housed at Pinellas Hope, a project for the homeless begun by Bishop Robert Lynch and Catholic Charities in the Diocese of St. Petersburg. After a tour of the facility (300 tents, sheds, and apartments), our task was waiting for us: to provide and serve lunch for 150 residents. We put on our gloves and wore our smiles as the residents came to get their lunch. After serving them, we heard their stories. Their stories and their love for God truly changed us!

Our next day provided us with an opportunity to be of service at Villa Madonna School and at the Salesian Boys and Girls Club after school. We couldn’t miss praying with our Salesian Sisters and hearing Sr. Gloria’s stories.

Our last two days were spent at Metropolitan Ministries, where we were the “behind the scenes” people, sorting food and clothing donations, staffing the clothing and

food markets, speaking with the people we attended to, and praying with and for them. Before our closing meal, we had the opportunity to hear, first-hand, the story of a gentleman who didn’t care much about himself (nor anyone else for that matter), was homeless and then changed his life forever. His name is Tony and his story made us all realize that the choices we make, or don’t make, make our lives what they are.

All too soon, our days in Tampa ended, as we closed our mission trip with a candlelight Rosary and hymns

to Mary, Help of Christians. Not one of us remained the way we were when we left. Not one of us can relate what happened without a tear in our eye and a heart overflowing with God’s goodness and love. To Tampa, with love, we will return again.

– Sr. Maryann Schaefer, FMA

At left, the Gospel Roads group prepares to leave Chicago. Above, preparing the lunch at a homeless shelter.

The “Gospel Road” Overflows with Love



ST. THERESA SCHOOL, KENILWORTH, NJ – The Student Council has been busy serving the community by collecting food for the church food pantry. Pictured are Stephanie Mendes (Fifth Grade Representative); Hannah Stevens (Sixth Grade Representative); Alexa Karp (Vice President); and Kelsey Harder (Eighth Grade Representative).

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION SCHOOL, MARRERO, LA – The ICS Builders Club members enjoyed the opportunity to give back to the local Kiwanis International chapter in Algiers at their 23rd annual Morning Edition Pancake Breakfast with Santa. Club members served the local community by cleaning, serving, and brightening spirits with Christmas carols. Members also sold baked goods and collected proceeds to help sponsor families in need this Christmas season. Students were able to give back to the Kiwanis International Family who support the ICS Builders Club’s service learning endeavors, such as the sandwich making volunteer project for Ozanam Inn. Thank you all!


With the arrival of the New Year came our Fifth Salesian Congress,

held on January 5 in Miami, FL, for Salesian Cooperators (right) and other members of the extended Salesian Family. The theme was in line with the bicentennial program of St. John Bosco’s birth: his PEDAGOGY, the science and art of serving young people that he so skillfully developed through practice, through trial and error, and through years of observing how other oratories worked.

Fr. Julio Olarte, SDB, was the presenter with the simplicity that can only come from someone who deeply understands Don Bosco’s teaching and lives his life following his footsteps. He explained to us St. John Bosco’s educational philosophy, so important in developing the “Preventive System,” the fundamental charism of the Salesian Family. What a wonderful occasion for learning and fellowship! – Maricarmen Acosta

ST. PATRICK CATHOLIC PRESCHOOL, ST. CHARLES, IL – St. Patrick’s was so blessed to receive a visit from Bishop David J. Malloy of the Diocese of Rockford on January 9. The Bishop celebrated Mass at the church and then came to the Preschool for a visit. He was greeted by Sr. Isabel Garza, Preschool Director (left), the Pastor, Msgr. Joseph Linster, and 92 smiling preschoolers! In our gym, we presented Bishop Malloy with a card and said a prayer. The children then learned from the Bishop that he is a SPECIAL friend of Jesus. The Bishop then toured the preschool classrooms, offices, new playground, and other facilities. What a wonderful morning!

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On December 21, the Salesian

Youth Center in Tampa, FL held its annual Christmas Party. All the children who attend the SYC during the year were invited. Food was graciously provided by Bob Conigliaro of Caspers Company McDonalds. Many thanks go out to all who collected toys and gifts for the children, including Rick Fee of Fee & Jeffries, P.A.; Christ the King Parish and School; and other generous spirits. The kids had a great time and each left with Christmas gifts!

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